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This was very me but i learn to adapt others trait. Since i always gets hurt being so generous and helpful, i kept asking myself whats wrong with me why this thing or that thing happened. Why do people i cared for tend to abuse my kindness? Why do they cheat on me? Why do I always have to be one to give and not to take specially with my family and friends.I would even die for a friend and family to protect them, by their side and fight for them even if it will cause me my life.
Now i constantly remind myself not to get involve too much, not to give unsolicited advice out of concern. Not to extend help as much as possible if not being ask to. I normally earn a lot out of hardwork and working smart but no savings and properties. Unlike my sibling and friends whom i help out they get more than what i supposed to have. I sacrifice almost everything I have just be able to helpout and to give to them but in the end what do I get in return. NOTHING. Not even an appreciation for everthing i’ve done for them. not even a single ‘thank you’. And as if I never even once gave them any favor. I learn a lesson during my downfall when i didn’t have income and my hubby got ill. No single relatives nor friends was even concern and they start to talk bad about me. but now that i financially recover they all come back to me asking for help again. oh! oh! where are they when i needed them. But as a typical Leo I extend help until now but not as like its draining me out o fmy last penny like what i used to be. i hardened my feeling. sometimes i would say i have none. Unless its a matter of life and death then i could not say no. i learn to balance whether i will give or not not only financially but also getting involve with others affair.
As ur fellow Leo…You have written my life’s story with this note! There’s hardly EVER any reciprocity on my end of the spectrum….YET! I give & I give seeking ABSOLUTELY NOTHING in return but a mere thank you without the person on the receiving end!
2017 I’ve decided to pull back & learning to say NO & stop putting crowns on clowns & expecting royalty ESPECIALLY to non deserving people!
I’maLeo and this is decently accurate. Granted, I know this is a general overview for most all Leos.
Personally, I’m willing to do anything and everything for my friends, the people I eventually let close enough to call a friend out of my decently broad social circle of people. I’ll always be willing to help, listen to, or just be there for a friend as well as go out of my way to do something for them; they being the only people I’ll easily and willingly give gifts to in abundance and show them amazing ammounts of kindness. I do tend to get overbearing due to wanting to eleminate errors from situations and keep things going smoothly, as well as having a very bad temper, yet I prefer to stay away from being a leader and having attention directed at me; keeping to the sidelines. I tend to be harsh and blunt with what I say, never regarding that I can hurt someone with my words until after they’ve been said. Yet, despite being harsh and a bit overbearing on the tempermental and violent side, I can easily be wounded by anyone close enough to me simply changing their tone or even a playful jab by someone close enough. I’m also an artist, and have only a small fraction of my friends and acquaintances are artistic as well. I love being artistic yet I’m also easily influenced by other’s oppinions on the matter as well as just about anything; I’ll often second guess things and need other’s oppinions on the matter.
My boyfriend has said before that i crave to much attention? i just want to know that i make him happy enough when i think something is botherin him i start doutin my self 🙁 . . any advise ? how can i fix it?
Haha, this is too true. I’m extremely sensitive and when I don’t get attention I’ll start wondering what’s wrong with me. xD
Sooah True !!!
This discribes my little brother. He is a Leo, and everything here is pretty relatable when it comes to his attitude.
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