Aries Woman and Cancer Man Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Aries woman and Cancer man can create unbelievable miracles in their relationship with the unusual blend of Fire and Water.
  • The physical intimacy between the Aries woman and Cancer man is just like that of fire and ice.
  • Aries woman can attract Cancer man by being impulsive and sovereign, allowing him to feel strong and masculine.
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When the watery Cancer soul and flaming Aries soul come in romantic relationship, there are equal counts of burns and tranquility. Aries ride high on spontaneity, and is quite open in the expression of feelings while Cancer tends to take time when it comes to both expressing feelings and moving forward in a relationship.

A Cancer man is usually a shy person who minds his own business. He loves money, fame and recognition and mostly has all these in long term with his determination and hard work. When he falls for an Aries woman, he loves to be possessed and passionately loved by her. He is basically loyal and faithful and is often admired by his Aries woman for his ability to stick it out through the bad times. But he is very sensitive to hurt and is sometimes offended by the careless nature of the Aries woman.

An Aries woman is an impulsive and sovereign lady. She meets all the obstacles headlong and headfirst, even when she must go out of her way to find them. An Aries woman may seem inconsiderate and thoughtless but she would never hurt anyone on purpose. She can actually find a real gentleman in her Cancer man who is able to look behind the veil of rashness and admire her innocence. Though she really needs to mind her fiery temper as it can often cause depressive state for her Cancer man.

An Aries woman complements a Cancer man well by allowing him to feel strong and masculine. She has got such a great optimist approach of winning that it helps him to give up his hidden fears and move up in life even more confidently. The protectiveness and possessiveness shown by her makes him feel loved and needed enhancing his sentiments and attachment to his lady love. But the secrets kept by him can be stressful on a relationship between the two. This attitude of him can make the mind of his Aries female to wonder causing outbursts of frenzy in her nature. While he may need to deal with the outrageous and self-centered attitude of the Aries woman sometimes by reminding himself that she doesn’t mean any hurt and is herself unaware of her behavior.

The Cancer male typically proves to be a prince charming to an Aries woman who admires him passionately for all the emotions and affection he has to offer to her. She is thrilled by the feeling of being courted by him who makes her feel desirable as a woman. He brings laughter to him which shines a light on her. He brings out a personality in her that others cannot resist. She feels at peace around him because she can finally be herself. He continues to adore her throughout life as much as he did the first time they met. But she always needs to consider the moodiness of her Cancer man and give him appropriate space when needed by him. Also he needs to keep up his spirits and emotions even if he finds his damsel aloof and running at times because all she needs is her space and nothing else.

With the unusual blend of Fire and Water, together these two can create unbelievable miracles in their relationship. The Cancer man always cherishes his sentiments and makes the Aries woman feel more feminine. He fulfills the entire child like needs his Aries woman makes and keeps her cozy in the protective blankets of his tender loving care, which he can provide to her forever. On the other hand, she makes her Cancer male feel a lot loved and care with the devotion she gives to him and the determination with which she stand by him in all the ups and downs of life. She makes him feel more enthusiastic and optimistic and fills his life with lot more passion. They hold a fairy tale love story with him as Price Charming and she as Cinderella who keeps on chasing her dreams and finally finds herself gratified in the arms of her dream man.

The physical intimacy between the Aries woman and Cancer man is just like that of fire and ice. They both compliment each other so well that their love making is always a long lasting pleasure for them. As time passes these two get intimately close in their sex life. He makes her feel cherished and emotionally secure. The Cancer is clever and imaginative when making love. This gives a lot of excitement to the Aries female who is full of blaze. Her vulnerability in the sack stirs him deeply. Her ability to bring innocence to her love making, regardless of her past, gives him enormous emotional security. She loves fiercely and passionately. This makes him crave for her more passionately and lovingly. When he leans his face in closer, and she reached out and pulls him the rest of the way, so that he could bury his face in the security, the warmth, the lusciousness of her deep, full breaths and body in rhythm. But at times, he can tend to be moody causing distance in the bed. When he refuses to respond to her advances, it is hard for her to remember their once strong compatibility in the bedroom.

As the Aries woman and Cancer man set to start a relationship, they both enjoy it mutual desire of loving and to be loved. For both of them love is most important but while for Aries it was more of a demand, for a Cancer it’s more an uncertain sentimental feeling. Though Aries admire the care and tenderness of Cancer, they become upset of the ever fluctuating moods of the Cancer. Aries always provides Cancer with the sense of confidence and security by their optimistic approach and possessiveness but their impulsive behavior can hurt the sensitive Cancer heart very frequently. Money often tends to be the biggest problem between these two as she likes to spend money, while he is a saver. When these two learn to properly line up their communication, they work wonders together.

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198 Comments
  1. Aries1980 August 23rd, 2023

    I am an aries woman with a cancer man. It’s a new relationship. I am definitely the definition of an aries- fiery temper, impulsive, stubborn. I find him to be needy and clingy but am willing to give him a chance because he’s also very sweet and caring. He said “I love you” very quickly. We’ve only been together two months. He is a surgeon and I am a teacher with my doctorate so we match each other in education and intelligence. We don’t really match in bed, I actually find him a little more aggressive in bed than I would like which is the opposite of what I have been reading here. Still this article was quite insightful. I just came out of a relationship with a Leo. Both of us were explosive and fiery, when things were good they were very good, when things were bad they were VERY VERY bad. It became toxic, so we split up. I don’t feel the chemistry with the cancer that I felt with the leo, but I am hoping that with time things will grow because this relationship is definitely more peaceful and stable than the other.

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  3. JaiBird July 6th, 2022

    Hello, I am so sorry you are going through this. It sounds like you are and or have been in a possible Narcissistic marriage. Please seek counseling and support. Healing and Light to you 🌟🌟

  4. Bo April 28th, 2022

    Run…whether you’re an Aries woman, or a Cancer man reading this. I’ve been miserable for 10 years but I won’t leave. She is miserable too. Won’t even speak to me. Doesn’t include me in meals or family plans…I’m just left out. No sex in 10 years. Sleep in different beds. Three kids almost grown. She is quite mean. She requires me to call from the driveway before I enter the home to “warn” her I’m coming in. She is a bully and says the most horrible things to me in private and then acts like an angel in front of people. She has a great reputation in our community and I’m a bit of a loner so I come off looking like the bad partner. She has sullied my reputation with mutual friends and her side of the family. I am alone most of the time with few friends. Any verbal disagreement with her is called mental abuse when it’s really just an argument. She simply cannot be challenged. She spends recklessly…has 475 pairs of shoes for instance. Now she’s boozing 3-4 nights per week with younger friends and she is gonna get a DUI…just a matter of time. I’m living thru the triple whammy of menopause, mid-life crisis and alcohol abuse and it’s really tough. My kids see all and often offer me some of their food during meals. She snaps at them when they do. She is ANYTHING but easy. Been together since high school and she’s always had a bit of “princess syndrome” and I used to think it was cute but now I view it as selfish and mean. I’m sure there can be exceptions to my experience so I wish you luck.

    • Raxx May 12th, 2022

      Time we can never ever get back. I say you leave her and you both move on. It’s time you get to be happy and find your true love or just be single and enjoy life but dam I feel bad for you. Just leave your wife and move in trust me the way things are now your not gonna be happy and you both deserve to be happy. I wish you the best. Ima pray your life gets better

    • Kristin May 18th, 2022

      I’m an aries woman.I don’t drink or drugs/no smoking…I have 2 pairs of runners,1 pair hiking boots, rainboots ×1, and comfortable pair shoes(so like 5) And embarrassed how long I’ve had them- and shop at thrift stores/ buy occasional new outfit infrequently 😉 I have savings… We’re not all the same.Different life experiences and upbringing perhaps. Life’s complex.Hopefully things improve over there.

      • Virgo December 12th, 2022

        I don’t drink or smoke or do drugs either 👍

    • Samantha June 20th, 2022

      My husband is a cancer and I am an Aries. Been together for 8 years, married for 2 years and have two children together but 5 all together. Best relationship I’ve ever had. We match each other perfectly. I don’t think these are always accurate to be honest. But a lot of our friends say we are relationship goals. In the 8 years we’ve been together we’ve only had 1 real fight. We have our moments of annoyance with one another just like any relationship but that’s it.

    • Aries woman June 27th, 2022

      Run Bo Run. Call an attorney, get a therapist and go get your life! You deserve better.

    • Dan020350 August 3rd, 2022

      I will draw picture so in a satire way to see how you feel, she can understand you better

    • Whitney Kingery November 25th, 2022

      Oh wow! I’m an Aries female and that sounds so sad 🙁 she sounds like she has a mental issue. Maybe narcissistic. I’m sure there are two sides to your story, but Aries females usually have a very soft sensitive side behind all of the brash loudness we may show first. I hope you find peace and love soon.

    • Chris April 2nd, 2023

      Bro, sorry to hear that…that sounds like more of a problem with her as a person that as an Aries. Speaking from one Cancerian to another, you have more courage than you think. You have limitless courage. So practice being courageous. Speak your mind, what you feel, true to yourself, your values, no matter if it ruffles some feathers. Maybe you know this stuff already but jsut a reminder.

      But with this woman, it sounds like she doesnt respect you, or herself, so how can you expect her to respect the relationship. Dont waste your time getting emotional over her carelesness and hedonism. Probably you should put your foot down with her and say we need to talk. Talk to her like a man. Say what you will and wont accept, and say that if she isnt prepared to change, then you need to move on. You have your pride and it sounds like you have suffered a lot for the relationship and kids. I think its time you got some reward for yourself. Make those demands of her.

      Good luck.

      (Also 475 pairs of shoes is just ridiculous. When you speak to her like a man can I suggest you tell her she needs to cut that down by at least half if she wants to be with you. She’s not a fashion model and she’s not a princess. Sounds like she needs to grow up and as a strong cancer man who understands life, you can help her to do this if she is willing, but only if she changes).

  5. kezzy March 1st, 2022

    ive just started dating a cancer guy,not sure how im feeling i mean he sets me on fire sexually,but other aspects like always going on about money or running the tap too long,,another is he is not bothered when other men come on to me or touch me hes just not fazed but it,and me being me thinks well he obviously dont want or care about me enough to care,dont no how im feeling about this or if i can go on dating him

    • Diane March 20th, 2022

      I just divorced a Cancer guy after 31 years. This article is validating and sad – all the good stuff is true, but love being an “uncertain sentimental feeling” for him hit me hard.

      We have 2 Cancer kids that are very capable of love, so … 🤷‍♀️

    • Sophie April 26th, 2022

      It takes time, but it so very much is worth it. Something that was totally forgotten here was mentioning that these people make the hottest couple! I am living proof of that. A lifetime relationship is on the horizon and a home and family awaits the two of you. You’ll be victorious!…

    • Chris April 2nd, 2023

      As a cancer man, I can tell you he is fazed when he sees you with other men, he just tries not to show it. Cancers hide their feelings a lot because they feel deeply. You should know if he really cares by the song “its in his kiss”.
      I save money a lot but I dont mind spending it, running the tap sounds a bit excessive for him though. Water rates are pretty cheap compared to power.
      Sounds like you just want him to show you he’s a real man.
      Good thing about Aries women is just being themselves it always makes me wanna give them my all, I love how open and honest they are. He should be into you too, maybe he just needs more coaxing to show it, dunno how

  6. Ganymedess January 13th, 2022

    I was born as an Aquarius and he was born as an Aries. My sun sign now is Aries and his is Cancer. Some people sun signs changes four times. As a Gemini he was okay but as a Cancer he is romantic but have started playing all kind of mind games, gas lighting….I find myself moving away from him emotionally. He get to upset over comments that was meant to be a joke. I find myself walking on eggshells avoiding conversation that will make him feel uncomfortable. I asked myself is this how I want to live the rest of my life with a man that I can’t be myself around. My secondary Venus and Mars is in the sign of Aquarius and his Venus secondary is in the sign of Taurus and Cancer which mean he is not a playful lover. Aries women need to seek out partners that can take a joke, enjoy activities together. .

    • Vick February 28th, 2022

      SAME! This has been going on with us too. I hate it!

  7. Raye January 9th, 2022

    Aww I (Aries woman) love my moody, badass Cancer man. He drives me nuts. I asked him not to leave me, but he did. I’ve known him for a very long time, but we’re not friends (he said we’re not friends, but I want him more than anything). Whatever he wants to call it, but I think we have an emotional relationship. This article is so accurate.

  8. Asi December 18th, 2021

    This rings true for my partner and I. I’m a typical stubborn, spicy Aries. He is, practical, sensitive, loving , emotional and extremely protective . Typical cancer male. I drive that man mad I can tell you that. But never not once have ever doubted he would love me and protect me with all that he has.

  9. ady November 24th, 2021

    How do I attract a Cancer man? I am an Aries woman. I want to go and grab him and have my way with him, but dont want to scare him off. I want him to come and get me.

  10. Melissa Shakespear November 9th, 2021

    I’m an Aries woman he is a cancer man. The article is great and on point! We have been together for 8 months and he is so cuddly and loving we have sex like 7 to 10 times on the weekends which when we spend time together. But he is very slow about his feelings he doesn’t express his feelings much he has never said he loves me but he only mentioned how faithful he is. I think he likes our relationship I know I do we have had a few disagreement Even broke up for 2 weeks but we’re closer than ever now. I hope we last forever!! He can be very moody at times and want his own space I have learned when he gets in those moments I leave him be and he comes around. I wouldn’t pass him up for the world he’s very emotional to he cries very easy but I enjoy 😊 every moment I have with him.. he’s definitely a keeper and I’m willing to change my aggressive ways to keep him. I believe in a relationship there’s give and take..thanks

    • Arnold November 16th, 2021

      I started talking to an Aries woman, I’m a cancer, we been on 2 dates so far and even kissed. But I’m scared to ask for a 3rd cause I don’t know where to go from here. I don’t really have a specific question but any input of your thoughts and or advice would be appreciated

      • Kush November 21st, 2021

        Go for it!!

      • Kierra Joyner November 30th, 2021

        Just relax and be yourself, you can talk about anything or even do anything with an aries woman its you that she is enjoying and the time spent

      • Fem December 4th, 2021

        Hello I’m an Aries woman. Ask her on the 3rd date. We are very straight forward people. We like men that take action. Not only ask her on the third date but set up the date and make plans. That will go far with her. We are aggressive by nature so we want our men to be aggressive also aggressive in a productive way. Fee free to ask any questions u may have.

      • Wildchild September 26th, 2022

        Hi arnold.im an Aries woman.im 49 and I had a 34 yr old cancer pursue me out of nowhere bc he saw my pic.he was very relentless in expressing interest in me,made me blush ,made me laugh until I couldn’t resist.its still new but I’d say go for it .its a real turn on when a man shows he’s very interested.i had alot of anxiety over the age difference but I’m so glad I got over that.if you like her that much I’d ask her out bc if she does like you and you take too long or you make her feel like she’s not of interest to you ,she’ll just move on .at least that’s how I am.

      • Whitney Kingery November 25th, 2022

        Be headstrong. Let her know how you feel. I am an Aries female and my male cancer is so non-chalant with me, it’s kind of irritating. I want him to want me passionately! But I think he’s trying to be nice and go slow. Which I also appreciate. Aries women are hard to please. Have to be very emotionally and intellectually smart and pick up on subtle hints. I suggest you make sure you let her know you want her.

    • tony February 8th, 2022

      hey, he is using you for sex

  11. Anonymous October 13th, 2021

    Thanks for the testimonies above and sharing.

  12. Rachel August 10th, 2021

    Am an Aries woman dating cancer man …I feel like you used us for your case study! Accurate!

  13. Favzy June 29th, 2021

    As a Aries woman, everything was going fine with my cancer man, not until he changed totally, he started to argue with me alot or he will be moody, I confronted him and all he told me was that he has fallen out of love, that he only see me as a sister, those words hurt more than anything I have experience,, I was in pain for days, and he totally ignore me. I want him back but I don’t know what to do

    • Cougar351 July 28th, 2021

      I would like to reply to your comment if I may as an Aries woman so much in love with my Cancer Man and married for 14 years now.

      I cannot believe how this article 100% is both of us!

      I am also an empath and I feel everything around me. It makes it hard when I feel my Cancer pulling away. I use to get crazy and start to worry I was losing him which would cause huge arguements from my own past and insecurity and he would then say/think he didn’t love me anymore due to his insecurity and worry that I would hurt him.
      FINALLY, After 10 years, I realized that if I give him space when he starts his “moods” and I don’t react to him negatively, his negative mood passes on its own. If you keep at him about the issue he will continue to pull away and then become depressed. SPACE, QUIET, no questions, be patient and allow him to process his feelings, offer kindness, give respect, and positivity are all so important. Remind him why he fell for you in the first place. Forget how he is acting in the moment and his words that he is only feeling right then and just be… understanding of his nature. Not saying you should be disrespected but in the moment of these “episodes” of insecurity, forget all else and remind him of love. After the fact, when he remembers why, possibly approach the issues with soft voice and understanding. BUT that’s not necessary either! Even we’ll known relationship experts will tell you “couples have different conflict styles. If yours is to not talk about the issues and move forward then that’s ok as long as it works for both of you” etc. Don’t compare your relationship to anyone else’s. But be sure to know what’s in your heart and what you truly want and can handle in your relationship.

      During these hard times when he is pushing me away often out of nowhere and for what I think is no reason at all (only weeks or years later to see how I hurt him since cancers don’t communicate), I started to say to him “I love you, I will never hurt you and I will never leave you. I’ve never wanted anyone more in my lifetime than I want to be with you!” He would still be quiet for a time. Possibly days even. But then he would realize I won’t leave him or hurt him just as he had always known and we are living our fairytale love story all over again.

      This isn’t for everyone. It’s so hard sometimes! Especially the emotional roller coaster and as a woman gets older, she especially starts to feel that she needs more for herself. Loving a Cancer is work. But then again so is loving an Aries with their grand ideas and constant change (as far as everything aside from love because an Aries loves forever!). BUT it took awhile for me to see that making others happy is what makes me most happy so I try to leave off my midlife crisis selfishness and stay on my path choosing love over everything else.

      • Arnold November 16th, 2021

        Do Aries like receiving texts because they don’t say much or even start a convo unless it’s like a date planned

      • Enoch December 11th, 2021

        Reply To, Cougar351

        HI Everyone !, before I begin I want to clear myself that I never had any relationship with any Aries female before and I have no experience to share, I just would like to give my honest opinion based on what I read and observe. I’m only here on behalf of myself, Although I’m from Cancer Natives I don’t speak for all.

        Cougar351, you some how reminded me so much of the late Betty Ford the First Lady and wife of president Gerald Ford of USA and I find your advice compelling worth replying at least. In regards to your Empathetic ability, well you seem quite a spiritual person in nature, so your ability some how helps you to understand what hurts him and what’s not, However Cancerian are not a spiritual people they are rather Religious and Dogmatic in nature like most Capricorn.

        Your Empathy May keep him around as long as you can, but will not make him happy or secure. I’m saying this to you with respect, because a happy Cancer doesn’t go back to mood swing more often. When everything is right and just his moods will back to normal and it has nothing to do with you at all, but sometimes it has. You should not have to worry as long as you are not the reason for his frequent mood changes, because many Cancerian may not know it but it has to do with faith and religion, I realized this through time and experience, I found more happiness and agility when I try to interact with God, what I’m trying to say is it’s much better to keep him in faith, help him to have and strengthen his faith, because it will help him renew his spirit and motivate himself to rebuild a secure relationship with his God first, this will some how stabilize his moods and bring positive environment around them , but the longer he stay away from his faith the more unstable, insecure and overprotective he become. Every crab is different this is just my advice only but nonetheless I admire you’re patience you have for him it’s a nice virtue to have for a women specially Aries and I like your approach that you didn’t react towards his mood negatively. If you are happy, positive and content with him he will know it and will be happy as well.

        Really I appreciate your humble and generous advice to all Ariean out there, but I think it’s quite hard for a typical, harsh and brash Aries to cope up with cancer male because most Aries females are physical, so I think the only way to smoothen their hard edge is by being spiritual and patient , Taurus and Pisces men are better equipped to handle her aggressive and fairy personality toward sensitivity and spiritual awareness. Cancer and Capricorn are in it for love and faith.

        However, in order for any Aries female to apply exactly what you have said in your comments being with cancer depend mostly on
        (1)…how she raised in her family
        (2)…At least she must have Virgo, Pisces or Taurus moon
        (3)…How old and mature she become, mostly aged 45 and above. Otherwise it will be difficult and suffocating for both.

        I sincerely apologized for my extra long post and thanks for taking some time to read it.

        Finally I wish you and your partner a long, healthy and prosperous life.

    • obo.lolo October 3rd, 2021

      Hi sweetheart,

      I just wanted to tell you that you need to know your worth, doesn’t matter a man’s sign if he rejects you and shows, tells you that he doesn’t want you, then believe that and leave.

      Love yourself, I know it’s very hard to forget and move on from someone you love but you deserve better, find someone who appreciates you for you and your qualities.

  14. Pamela April 8th, 2021

    I am not having good time in bed w my cancer. I feel I would go look out somewhere else but he loves me so much and I satisfy him in his fantasies but he can not satisfy me what to do? I am Aries so I need intense and good bed room time. I don’t think I will be satisfied in that area. Is that area so important in the long run?

    • Himanshu Singh April 24th, 2021

      Its the opposite hehe lol m cancer man and my Aries women just lie in bed and do nothing lol, if he is not fantasies you that means he isn’t truly into you once a cancer man starts love someone he can go 7 rounds a day and vise versa

      • Cougar351 July 28th, 2021

        Not exactly true about every cancer man. His insecure nature often times will keep him from having sex with you the way he really wants to. And if you’re arguing a lot or telling him you want more in bed then that’s going to make it worse. YOU show him what you want and tell him what you want while having sex and you’ll be satisfied! But if sex is more important than emotions and feelings then you probably aren’t right for him.

    • Mizzy661 June 11th, 2021

      I sympathize with you. As an Aries woman, sex is extremely important. Either you get him to bring on his A game or you’re really going to check out. Good luck ❤️

    • Chef wawa January 29th, 2022

      How long have you guys been together ?

  15. Jane March 23rd, 2021

    I have never loved anyone like i love my cancer man, when he is okay it’s the best thing ever and when he is down i can make him okay again, everyone says cancer/aries dnt mix but I totally disagree he brings out the best in me and makes me understand the worst

  16. Rukevwe Obar January 24th, 2021

    I’m Aries woman he’s cancer man. So listen up like I know he’s going through stuff but it’s the moodiness part for me and wanting his space most of the time. I go through stuff that I’m not even telling him because I don’t want to feel like I’m making stuff about me but damn I need to be able to come to him and talk to him too. I like my personal space too but I’m the type to pull up if he needs me or something and I feel like when it’s time to be with your SO and he doesn’t want to or he’s not in the right mood (not talking about sex) I feel like he doesn’t want or like me anymore like I’m a burden to him. We’ve had talks about it but there’s only so much I can take at one point we were always arguing and sorting thing out but now it’s just gone on for us to be so distant like we can go a day or 2 without speaking and if we do speak it’s very short texts or he calls for like 5 minutes like I’m getting to the point whereby I might have to let him go it’s not good for me to always be wondering if someone wants me or questioning if I’m good enough for them or not I’ve shown him he can trust me and that I’ll be there for him but I don’t think he sees that so why keep me around if you’re not wanting to reciprocate. I just don’t know y’all.

    • aries413 January 27th, 2021

      Are us Aries dealing with cancer men going through the same thing???? I’m unsure of what to do with my cancer because he’s been so quiet lately. Aries are impulsive asf and I understand wanting to abandon ship rn- but let’s give these situations some time. Cancers aren’t direct like us in dealing with their shit they don’t want to hash it out and drop things like we do. They’re so critical and they have good memory so they hold onto things unlike us. Let’s hold faith that the bond we’ve built with our cancers is strong enough to withstand the current shakiness.

      • claire March 14th, 2021

        WHY ARE ALL OF THESE SO ACCURATE I-

      • Christoff April 2nd, 2023

        As a cancer man with a heap of virgo elswhere, that’s not always true, a healthy cancer doesnt hold on to stuff. He just pouts for a bit, goes away to nature or somewhere he can chill until he’s over it. Its self-protection. Once that’s done he’s back.
        Im not like typical cancers though im happy to be vulnerable. I rarely go off to pout unless its something serious. Yup I still hurt if something is too blunt, but i’d rather the truth than beat around the bush. For me direct is good.
        The only thing that I dont understand about Aries is they dont know when to let their foot of the gas, just go go go ) Dont you like a bit of downtime? To just chill and walk in nature, quietly? Its restorative. LIke how does Aries restore themselves?

    • Samantha Sanborn April 20th, 2021

      It’s not you. I’m in the same boat with a cancer man and honestly trying to figure out if you’re good enough in a relationship gets exhausting. Let them figure it out. It’s hot girl summer !!

  17. Tuko January 21st, 2021

    Hi my name is Tuko and i am cancer. I’ve on my relationship for 1.5 years with the aries girl. Your article is 80% correct with my experiences during this relationship. However, can you give me an advice about some issue on our relationship? As myself (cancer), i always overthink about what my girl do with their friend when i know she need her time for her circle. But, i can’t talk the true about what i feel because i tried to not give a pain or hit to her heart (i always worry). Do you have any suggestion for that? Anyway, she just gave a decision to break our relationship for a while because i am not inform her where or what i do but i am work on that time and she follow her intuition judge me that i try to play with girl. Should i keep contact her or just monitor and make sure she is good ? i really appreciate your advice, because i love her so much but i don’t know how to make her believe my words.

  18. Lisa January 18th, 2021

    This is one of the best articles that I’ve read regarding dating a Cancer male. I’m an Aries woman and I’m 3 months in to dating a Cancer male. When we’re good, we’re great. However, his moodiness does leave me at a loss at times and i think about just throwing in the towel. I’m trying to be understanding, as he’s dealing with a lot right now. This article hit hit on the head when it mentioned the decease of a father. Although, he never called his step-father dad; he still loved him. I’m glad that I read this article before making the rash decision to just vanish from the partnership. As a Aries woman with a temper(lol), this can be a bit challenging at times. When he’s moody all kinds of things run through my mind. But we’re both Christians, so I’m praying for God’s guidance on this one. However, this article was on point. Thanks.

    • Rukevwe Obar January 24th, 2021

      I know he’s going through stuff but it’s the moodiness part for me and wanting his space most of the time. I like personal space but I feel like when it’s time to be with your SO and he doesn’t want to or he’s not in the mood I feel like he doesn’t want or like me anymore like I’m a burden to him. We’ve had talks but there’s only so much I can take we were always arguing and making up but now it’s so distant we can go a day or 2 without speaking and if we do speak it’s very short texts like I’m getting to the point whereby I might have to let him go it’s not good for me to always be widening if someone wants me or not I’ve shown him he can trust me and that I’ll be there for him but I don’t think he sees that so why keep me around if you’re not wanting to reciprocate. I just don’t know y’all

  19. Blake January 7th, 2021

    I am a Cancer man who has met an Aries woman. We both have feelings for each other. But unfortunately, we have an age gap of 6 years. I worry that this might be an obstacle in our relationship.

    • Donna January 9th, 2021

      Hey Blake, I think you should go ahead and ask her out. An Aries woman, however head-on and blatantly honest she might be, she would love to be with a mature man as he can provide her with the confidence and security she craves. Also, you making the first kove would sweep her off her feet, for sure.

  20. JammyJam November 17th, 2020

    I am in Aries woman who is in the midst of reconnecting with my Cancer man. The connection that I have with him is unlike no other. He brings out this fire in my heart and I don’t want it to stop. I care for him deeply but at the same time my guard is up and I hope that we can establish a solid bond. I guess only time will tell.

    • Lena December 17th, 2020

      I’m also as Aries. I’m in same thing I could never get over my cancer man. No matter what we broke up and not for wrong reasons but to grown up a little on our own. I have my guard up more now because he broke up with me before and always wanted other things. Somehow I’ve never wanted anyone else. He tries to protect me and care about me but can’t love me yet. I can’t ever move on. We have such a good connection.

  21. Jennifer Gilmore October 18th, 2020

    I am a divorced Aries woman of 5 years now and have just now started dating at all! I snagged a Cancer man about 3 months ago, and let me tell you…this Aries woman will NEVER give him up! He is everything to me that this says. After going through years of emotional abuse, he is just what I needed to believe in love again! He is the kindest most gentle man I have ever met and I cannot wait to finally spend the rest of my life with my soul mate!

    • Sofia El Filali adib October 20th, 2020

      Crazy I’m an aries, going through the same a divorce and I met a cancer been dating for a month, its crazy I’m in shock that this is actually happening I’m still turning this around my head. Everything in this article is what I see and feel.

    • Koko October 29th, 2020

      I’m an Aries woman and I met my Cancer man about 6 months ago… I will never let him go 😩
      He’s what I needed to balance my life and my emotions. I’ve always been a hot head and he’s so sweet and loving that I just want to be that way with him. My dad is a Cancer and I just remember how sensitive and gentle he is and how he never raised his voice or laid his hands on me unless it was to hug or kiss me. He reminds me of the sensitive, gentle guy that I grew up with. I love my Cancer and I can’t wait to see what our future holds 🥰

  22. Lilly April 30th, 2020

    I’m an Aries just met and dated a 2nd Cancer man for a month. We met online. He was so sweet at the beginning and called everyday. Then he disappeared after our first sex. One again I’m being abandoned😞

    • Chloe Terewaamu July 10th, 2020

      Thats really unfortunate i hope you find the one someday.

    • Jonetta D Williams August 28th, 2020

      You need to watch MJ Harris on Youtube!!!

  23. Ethan December 14th, 2019

    Pick a card! Free LOVE Tarot Reading (SECRET MESSAGE included):
    https://youtu.be/mlO1kFAl6VM

  24. Emma November 24th, 2019

    My ex had his moon in cancer and it was a bit “strange” to say the least…I got a free love reading and it was helpful: https://youtu.be/DMsWLwr-kvI
    Hope it helps xoxo

  25. Dawn May 19th, 2019

    Patience Trials and Forgiveness..

    Aries cannot try to outwin this guy besides in the end they are the only one who cares

  26. Kayla McClain September 17th, 2018

    I’m a Aries female, 19 to be exact. I’ve been in love with my cancer partner and nothing will ever change that, just last year we had a year of a break… it made us even closer and we’re still growing to become better people not just for ourselves but for each other!

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