Comments on: Aries Woman and Cancer Man Love Compatibility http://www.ask-oracle.com ~*~ You Are Truly Loved ~*~ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 13:02:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Daniel http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/aries-woman-cancer-man/comment-page-2/#comment-53019 Daniel Fri, 30 Dec 2011 23:07:28 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1466#comment-53019 Well, I'm 20 years old, and a cancer man. I mean, I don't really believe in these signs, but I found it interesting, because I'm dating an an Aries woman, and we're having some of the same problems people here are having. We do fight a lot over petty things sometimes, but we make up for it and everything is peachy. She does have an anger problem, and at first, I ignored it, but then I started using the same logic she does while fighting, and it's gotten even worse. When we fight, she says that she much rather have me unleash my anger so we can get all of our frustration out, but the fights are just as bad or even worse. I tried ignoring the fighting, using logic while fighting to solve it, and unleashing my anger with fighting, but everything I do, we fight no matter what, lol. I don't know if that's because she's an aries or something, I thought it was like that throughout most relationships. Anyway, our relationship is still going strong, I love her to death and hope to move in with her, there are some things that I don't agree with about cancer men, like us being emotional, I'm not emotional at all, haven't cried in years, I don't have mood swings or different personalities.. but I am a romantic, and been the same way throughout our relationship, which has lasted for one year. Anyway, hope everything work out with cancer men and Aries women. Cause I love this girl to death, compliment her everyday.. and say I love her several times a day. Well, I’m 20 years old, and a cancer man. I mean, I don’t really believe in these signs, but I found it interesting, because I’m dating an an Aries woman, and we’re having some of the same problems people here are having. We do fight a lot over petty things sometimes, but we make up for it and everything is peachy. She does have an anger problem, and at first, I ignored it, but then I started using the same logic she does while fighting, and it’s gotten even worse. When we fight, she says that she much rather have me unleash my anger so we can get all of our frustration out, but the fights are just as bad or even worse. I tried ignoring the fighting, using logic while fighting to solve it, and unleashing my anger with fighting, but everything I do, we fight no matter what, lol. I don’t know if that’s because she’s an aries or something, I thought it was like that throughout most relationships. Anyway, our relationship is still going strong, I love her to death and hope to move in with her, there are some things that I don’t agree with about cancer men, like us being emotional, I’m not emotional at all, haven’t cried in years, I don’t have mood swings or different personalities.. but I am a romantic, and been the same way throughout our relationship, which has lasted for one year. Anyway, hope everything work out with cancer men and Aries women. Cause I love this girl to death, compliment her everyday.. and say I love her several times a day.

]]> By: http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/aries-woman-cancer-man/comment-page-2/#comment-52813 Tue, 13 Dec 2011 10:11:06 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1466#comment-52813 So I am 19 year old female Aries who is currently talking (kind of dating) a cancer guy. We've been talking for over a month now and things were almost perfect at the beginning but now I feel like he's just not interested anymore. He takes FOREVER to reply to a text message and he says that he doesn't like phone calls because he doesn't like "talking into a mic". We live about an hour and a half away from each other too so it doesn't make things any easier. I try to to talk to him on a serious level but it's almost impossible. When we're together things are so perfect though and it's so hard to just avoid that fact. I feel like he is just so reserved and us Aries woman do not have any patience when it comes to keeping emotions in. I tell myself to have patience with him but it's so hard when he never puts any effort into having a serious convo. Even though I try really hard not to think about him or talk to him I find myself sending him the first message of the day. I kinda called him an ass hole and he definitely wasn't quick to even react on that till the next morning. I felt bad about it but I'm a very stubborn Aries. Another thing that really bothers me Is that even when I am back home (which is near where he lives) he still doesn't make the effort to see me. I don't know what to do! He's drivin me nuts! Should I just give up on him? Maybe he's talking to multiple young women? So I am 19 year old female Aries who is currently talking (kind of dating) a cancer guy. We’ve been talking for over a month now and things were almost perfect at the beginning but now I feel like he’s just not interested anymore. He takes FOREVER to reply to a text message and he says that he doesn’t like phone calls because he doesn’t like “talking into a mic”. We live about an hour and a half away from each other too so it doesn’t make things any easier. I try to to talk to him on a serious level but it’s almost impossible. When we’re together things are so perfect though and it’s so hard to just avoid that fact. I feel like he is just so reserved and us Aries woman do not have any patience when it comes to keeping emotions in. I tell myself to have patience with him but it’s so hard when he never puts any effort into having a serious convo. Even though I try really hard not to think about him or talk to him I find myself sending him the first message of the day. I kinda called him an ass hole and he definitely wasn’t quick to even react on that till the next morning. I felt bad about it but I’m a very stubborn Aries. Another thing that really bothers me Is that even when I am back home (which is near where he lives) he still doesn’t make the effort to see me. I don’t know what to do! He’s drivin me nuts! Should I just give up on him? Maybe he’s talking to multiple young women?

]]> By: http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/aries-woman-cancer-man/comment-page-1/#comment-52812 Tue, 13 Dec 2011 10:05:07 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1466#comment-52812 So I am 19 year old female Aries who is currently talking (kind of dating) a cancer guy. We've been talking for over a month now and things were almost perfect at the beginning but now I feel like he's just not interested anymore. He takes FOREVER to reply to a text message and he says that he doesn't like phone calls because he doesn't like "talking into a mic". We live about an hour and a half away from each other too so it doesn't make things any easier. I try to to talk to him in a serious level but it's almost impossible. I feel like he is just so reserved and us Aries woman do not have any patience when it comes to keeping emotions in. I tell myself to have patience with him but it's so hard when he never puts any effort into having a serious convo So I am 19 year old female Aries who is currently talking (kind of dating) a cancer guy. We’ve been talking for over a month now and things were almost perfect at the beginning but now I feel like he’s just not interested anymore. He takes FOREVER to reply to a text message and he says that he doesn’t like phone calls because he doesn’t like “talking into a mic”. We live about an hour and a half away from each other too so it doesn’t make things any easier. I try to to talk to him in a serious level but it’s almost impossible. I feel like he is just so reserved and us Aries woman do not have any patience when it comes to keeping emotions in. I tell myself to have patience with him but it’s so hard when he never puts any effort into having a serious convo

]]> By: verity http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/aries-woman-cancer-man/comment-page-1/#comment-52653 verity Wed, 30 Nov 2011 02:52:13 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1466#comment-52653 awww! i have tears in my eyes over this article! so much of what is said is exactly like my relationship with my cancer man. He's my best friend and i feel i can always be myself around him. But other times it feels like i'm never gonna be good enough cos i'm not HIM. he acts like he's perfect, he's the hardest working and everything i do is wrong and selfish! we've been together for over 4 years (since i was 16 and he 18). We live together (he took me in when my parents kicked me out for being an aries in search for independence haha). he took me in after 9 months of being together- talk about prince charming! most guys that age are scared of seeing their mrs more than once a week! but he and i had such a perfect, intense relationship. we didnt have an argue of any sort until well into our 2nd year together! but well, thjings are so different. it's like we are already those couples who have been together for 50 years. i thhink back to those good ol' days all the time- when we would go and spend the whole day at the beach and he would admire me and be so affectionate. now we're just stuck at home ALL the time. he never makes the effort he used to to be fun and adventurous. he's always tired and wants to do solitary activities like hog the laptop or play world of warcraft or play ps3, just escapist, solo activities. makes me think he hates our lives together and needs to escape me :( we don't have sex. i haven't had sex once since turning 20! why oh why. i need it. i've spoken to him about once and yelled at him about twice, which is really holding back i reckon. it doesn't help, but i just thought silence wasn't getting me any either so why not try to talk about it? didn't work, he just shuts down and says sex isn't the only thing in a relationship and it turns him off that i think that ?? words or truth to ANY cancer man reading this: we aries women NEED sex. i am so loyal, the thought of cheating on him breaks my heart, i could never taint our relationship like that, but everytime i see anything to do with sex, it hurts cos i haven't had any since march and i have no idea why. so cancer guys out there: please don't do this to us, i tie the sex with the success of our relationship and our level of intimacy. i link sex with his ability to share and do things for the sake of keeping our relationship healthy in all aspects. i need it and i can't bear to think i might go a whole year without it. and then what? when will this end? can any cancer guys help me to figure out why this has happened to us? the other night we argued. it came from no where cos we actually had a good day together, sort of how we used to be. then i found out he was just giving away something i owned to his 'friend' without asking me and i was a little offended cos i bought it and i might of been fine with it, if he had just included me on the decision (fair enough i reckon). any way, he goes ape about how he probably bought it cos i'm a poor uni student (he doesn't share his money with me either) and he pays for internet and more rent than i do and blah blah about money, as if it's the only thing that matters to him. i just let loose about how i never (and had never before this point) mentioned the fact he wrote off my first car i paid for (2 years ago) and never paid me back for it and how i just never even brought it up cos money doesn't matter to me and i hold back on stuff that might hurt his feelings (i'm aware how sensitive he is) but that i just can't take it how he always brings up money matters when he isn't perfect either (never offered to pay me back or help me buy a new car). any way i run off to cry cos he gets really mean and spiteful. and he actually comes to me and tries to apologise (he hasn't done this in ages either) usually he just continues playing video games and waits for me to convince myself its my fault and to get over it. i honestly don't think i would still be with him if it wasn't for the way he used to be. the way we used to be is true love and this relationship at the moment is like the longest death of love. dragged out. i'm exhausted, no sex or really much intimacy at all has really killed something inside of me. cheating wouldn't fufil it either cos its not really about the sex, its about that connection, bearing everything to him, being vulnerable and it feeling right. i miss that. so much that it causes me to be closed down alot and in a bad mood alot, which can't really be that attractive- but i can't keep going the way i was without the reassurance of love that sex brings. i don't want to break up over sex, but it's soul destroying, it really is. but anyway when he apologised the other day after our row, he told me something he hadn't saind in years: 'he would never ever leave me no matter what, this is real and the materialistic stuff doesn't really matter. he just doesn't want to be taken for granted. he wants to know i appreciate him and what he gives me'. i want us to work but he doesnt seem to be tryimg, he seems to be retreating. he wont even sleep in our bed anymore, he prefers to sleep on the couch! but he reckons thats not weird?? no sex and not sleeping in the same bed are blaring signs to me that something is VERY wrong here. i don't know, i'm so confused. when is enough enough? and would i ever get over him and feel satisfied by another man anyway? i don't know if i could out myself trhough all this again what do people think i should do? My advice to aries women is: go for the cancer man cos they are unbelievable at the start and maybe you'll be better at keeping the spark alive than i was... awww! i have tears in my eyes over this article! so much of what is said is exactly like my relationship with my cancer man. He’s my best friend and i feel i can always be myself around him. But other times it feels like i’m never gonna be good enough cos i’m not HIM. he acts like he’s perfect, he’s the hardest working and everything i do is wrong and selfish! we’ve been together for over 4 years (since i was 16 and he 18). We live together (he took me in when my parents kicked me out for being an aries in search for independence haha). he took me in after 9 months of being together- talk about prince charming! most guys that age are scared of seeing their mrs more than once a week! but he and i had such a perfect, intense relationship. we didnt have an argue of any sort until well into our 2nd year together! but well, thjings are so different. it’s like we are already those couples who have been together for 50 years. i thhink back to those good ol’ days all the time- when we would go and spend the whole day at the beach and he would admire me and be so affectionate. now we’re just stuck at home ALL the time. he never makes the effort he used to to be fun and adventurous. he’s always tired and wants to do solitary activities like hog the laptop or play world of warcraft or play ps3, just escapist, solo activities. makes me think he hates our lives together and needs to escape me :( we don’t have sex. i haven’t had sex once since turning 20! why oh why. i need it. i’ve spoken to him about once and yelled at him about twice, which is really holding back i reckon. it doesn’t help, but i just thought silence wasn’t getting me any either so why not try to talk about it? didn’t work, he just shuts down and says sex isn’t the only thing in a relationship and it turns him off that i think that ??
words or truth to ANY cancer man reading this: we aries women NEED sex. i am so loyal, the thought of cheating on him breaks my heart, i could never taint our relationship like that, but everytime i see anything to do with sex, it hurts cos i haven’t had any since march and i have no idea why. so cancer guys out there: please don’t do this to us, i tie the sex with the success of our relationship and our level of intimacy. i link sex with his ability to share and do things for the sake of keeping our relationship healthy in all aspects. i need it and i can’t bear to think i might go a whole year without it. and then what? when will this end? can any cancer guys help me to figure out why this has happened to us?

the other night we argued. it came from no where cos we actually had a good day together, sort of how we used to be. then i found out he was just giving away something i owned to his ‘friend’ without asking me and i was a little offended cos i bought it and i might of been fine with it, if he had just included me on the decision (fair enough i reckon). any way, he goes ape about how he probably bought it cos i’m a poor uni student (he doesn’t share his money with me either) and he pays for internet and more rent than i do and blah blah about money, as if it’s the only thing that matters to him. i just let loose about how i never (and had never before this point) mentioned the fact he wrote off my first car i paid for (2 years ago) and never paid me back for it and how i just never even brought it up cos money doesn’t matter to me and i hold back on stuff that might hurt his feelings (i’m aware how sensitive he is) but that i just can’t take it how he always brings up money matters when he isn’t perfect either (never offered to pay me back or help me buy a new car). any way i run off to cry cos he gets really mean and spiteful. and he actually comes to me and tries to apologise (he hasn’t done this in ages either) usually he just continues playing video games and waits for me to convince myself its my fault and to get over it.
i honestly don’t think i would still be with him if it wasn’t for the way he used to be. the way we used to be is true love and this relationship at the moment is like the longest death of love. dragged out. i’m exhausted, no sex or really much intimacy at all has really killed something inside of me. cheating wouldn’t fufil it either cos its not really about the sex, its about that connection, bearing everything to him, being vulnerable and it feeling right. i miss that. so much that it causes me to be closed down alot and in a bad mood alot, which can’t really be that attractive- but i can’t keep going the way i was without the reassurance of love that sex brings.

i don’t want to break up over sex, but it’s soul destroying, it really is.

but anyway when he apologised the other day after our row, he told me something he hadn’t saind in years: ‘he would never ever leave me no matter what, this is real and the materialistic stuff doesn’t really matter. he just doesn’t want to be taken for granted. he wants to know i appreciate him and what he gives me’.

i want us to work but he doesnt seem to be tryimg, he seems to be retreating. he wont even sleep in our bed anymore, he prefers to sleep on the couch! but he reckons thats not weird?? no sex and not sleeping in the same bed are blaring signs to me that something is VERY wrong here.

i don’t know, i’m so confused. when is enough enough? and would i ever get over him and feel satisfied by another man anyway? i don’t know if i could out myself trhough all this again

what do people think i should do?

My advice to aries women is: go for the cancer man cos they are unbelievable at the start and maybe you’ll be better at keeping the spark alive than i was…

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