Comments on: Aries Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

By: Skorpioux

Skorpioux — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 03:21:49 +0000

I met a wonderful Aries girl, the love of my life (LOML) she then 25 and me 42 in the summer of 2010, both in relationships, she had a boyfriend and I in a marriage. We met several times during the first couple of weeks, going to eat ice cream, drink coffee and pastries, and having dinners at beautiful cozy romantic restaurants. Needless to say, we hit it off. She told me I was funny and very smart plus she loved the way I dressed, very Wall St-type. I loved the way she looked at me. The relationship developed as we became very comfortable with one another. I asked her to experience something that very few people experience, the thrill of flying a private plane. She logged 33 minutes of actual flying time, and was thrilled at her accomplishment.
I made a promise to LOML I would always be truthful to her, even if the truth hurt and she agreed to be the same. I had initially told her I just wanted a “companionship” based relationship, not an intimate one. She agreed. After several more clandestine meetings, I told her that I would like to pursue an intimate but discreet relationship. She told me that to do so will create feelings that in the future will probably end up being painful. Being faithfully married for more than ten years, I did not think much about her comment but took a mental note of it and we agreed that we would break up amicably if either my wife or her bf suspected something.
The relationship soared as we made love over and over again, going away on weekends and meeting at least twice weekly for dinner and sizzling sex. We were in total bliss and she confessed to me that I was the most intense and passionate person she ever met; and she was beautiful from head to toe and I always told her I loved her; I treated her with total love and respect, unlike anyone else in my life. We kept this intense relationship until I made the biggest blunder of my life and I dont know if she still loves me or despises.
THE BLUNDER
Although this may seem like a paradox and a farce to some, I value integrity in a person; I dont like to lie or be lied to. The LOML informed me she heard a rumor that I was a flirt from a close personal friend of hers; instintively I asked who. She declined to tell me, afraid I would confront the person. But I was burning with rage at this person, and I knew someone who lived in the same building as her who was employed by one of my affiliated companies: and I told her I suspected who she was. The LOML told me she wouldnt tell me; but within minutes she verified it was the one I suspected. But the LOML insisted I give her my word that I would not confront her. Without thinking, I did. I could not sleep for the next few nights as I was pissed as to why this person told the LOML that I was a flirt, when I only had met her once or twice and only said hello in passing.
THE CROSSROADS
I had a dilemna: if I confronted her, I would find out why she said what she said, but it would ruin her relationship with the LOML and the LOML would be pissed at me from going back on my word. On the other hand, if I stood shut, the LOML would assume the rumors were true. I let me pride and ego get the best of it; and I confronted the girl and she DENIED IT until I told her the LOML had told me in a very specific way. She the admitted it, and I told the LOML and she was furious with me. To cut the story short and to avoid anyone looking at this post from knowing who we are, she broke it off with me. I tried to tell her the reasons, but she would not listen. This was November 2011.
MY PREDICAMENT
I love the LOML with all love of the world; I know that I want to be with her, that it hurts me when I see her and I know that she still loves me but that she is hurt I betrayed her trust by confronting the other girl.
Although I am calm and emotionless, inside I feel this volcano full of sadness. I know her fiance does not give her the love or affection I have given her during the past 18 months and at times I feel like teeling her to runaway with me to start a new life- thats how much I love her…
SO I ASK
Is the pain caused by my betrayal greater than the love I have given her? If so, I need to know so I can go on with my life knowing that she no longers feels anything for me. I know she feels scared that if she tells me to go away, I will destroy her her by telling her fiance about us, but I would never do such a thing-had I wanted, I would have destroyed her when she broke it off with me.
So my love, if you are reading this, tell me truth as to how you feel about me, even if it hurts me.

-Malbec

By: jason30

jason30 — Sun, 29 Jan 2012 04:01:34 +0000

hELLO EverYonE!!
I’m a scorpion guy who has a Aires girl mate! We are good friends at the moment but truth be told i would love to be more!! she has said she does’nt want a boyfriend right now! but i just dont understand why? when we are very close! Always doing fun things together relaxing and hugging each other sitting close together ect romance (NO SEX THO) !! Is it a case of being patient??? and carry being her friend then her hard shell will open up to me or am i fighting a lose cause???
P.S I did one tell her i liked her alot but that never went down too well! we never talked for abit and when we did it wasnt the same!! So I disappeared like us scorpions can do! But somehow we found each other again and it feels like the 1st time again, i still catch her smiling at something i said !! I never forgive but i have with her!! i must be mad lol!! soo my question once again!
Does friends turn into lovers?
Will i know when she ready to want more then friends and how?
Do i have to be patient?
Or is she just using my kindness?
Has anyone been threw the same drama??
Reply would be great thanks J xx

By: The Ram

The Ram — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 22:34:52 +0000

@PinkyOohLaLa Tears came to my eyes as well! This entry, and everyone's responses, were the best I've read on a website in a long time. My heart was racing. It made me so excited to be alongside my Scorpio again, and enjoy the proactive characteristics of his sign!

By: The Ram

The Ram — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 22:33:15 +0000

Hi everyone!
I am very into astrology, and haven’t found a compatibility site that really impacted me in a long time. (But this one made the cut!) I am an Aries woman that is currently falling hard for a Scorpio man (and it’s mutual). Our story is complicated but passionate and rare (yet understandable because of the combined passionate signs). He is my best friend’s brother, and they are both currently studying abroad in Asia. They come home to visit for weeks at a time only a couple of times a year. Last October, they visited and my Scorpio and I made huge progress, to the point where, since he left in Nov, we are committed, dedicated, and send very pure love messages to each other. We already show such a deep connection of care and love for each other. Like this site says, I genuinely feel like I can truly trust him, and even though he is so far, I know he would never betray me. Plus, my moon sign is Scorpio, so I’ve got that committed streak as well.
I’ve never dated someone who has the same competitive “winner” energy as I, so I am beyond ecstatic to find that in a man. Finally, someone that gets that energy and POWER!
The part that truly hit me about this site is when it said “In fact he is one of the few males, she allows to dominate her.” It’s because the dominance of a Scorpio male is pure, real, and BELIEVABLE! Aries cannot feel dominated over someone unless they truly feel it. I have never dated a man that I felt truly dominated me, and for the first time, I feel it with this Scorpio! And now, I’m never going back!
So, although I haven’t spent a lot of quality in person time with my Scorpio yet, I know a lot about him and we keep in touch as often as we can. Just found out he’s visiting for a month in March, and it’s going to be the most incredible experience. Everything is going to be so passionate and pure – two things I live for. I can’t believe that I’ve finally found these ideals in a man. I feel that its so difficult to find in someone at my age (22), so I won’t ever let him go. Plus, he has an adventurous Gemini moon, and I love that about him. We both want to see the world together, and I hope that one day we can.
Reading everyone’s comments and input was heartwarming and felt great. I teared up while reading the analysis, and even while reading some of your comments. It’s so supportive and my heart started racing, just knowing the type of man I will be with in person again in a matter of weeks.