Cancer Man and Aquarius Woman Love Compatibility

Air and Water mix to give a challenging combination of Aquarius and Cancer. The styles and needs in love of both the Zodiac Signs tend to be at odds with one another. The Cancer wants a relationship that is very personal and committed, while the Aquarius is more inclined to look for a classic friendship in any love relationship.

A Cancer man is very dependable man with strong intellect and tender heart. He is attached to the quintessential family life and does not have any qualms in experiencing the wide array of emotions. He is highly imaginative and extremely determinant to change those dreams to reality. He is always on lookout for a partner who would resemble his mother in terms of the perfection exuded by her. In love with an Aquarius woman, he enjoys her friendly nature and provides her with long term happiness and security.

An Aquarius woman is very friendly in nature with transparency in her attitude. She hates diplomacy and is never mean in her approach. She does not like to display her compassionate nature easily to people instead she likes to shower most of her empathy on serious causes. In relationship with a Cancer man, she enjoys his fascinating dream world and even love to be a part of it as she herself is a wool-gatherer. But her less sympathetic behavior can make the Cancer man feel insecure at some part in the relationship which may in turn make him cold and unconcerned.

The Aquarius female can prove to be a strange concoction with the Cancer man as both of them have different aspirations in life. She is one of those rare people who would help him to discover many new facets about himself that he was not initially aware of. She makes several attempts to convince him to let go of his immense attachment towards memories of the past and discover new enthusiasm in life. There is a strong attraction as both of them have different or rather opposite interests. She loves freedom whereas he is purely in love with materialistic things. She keeps on searching for new things in life while bound to his cautious nature; he takes every step carefully. But he is completely in awe of her spontaneous nature as he himself abhors monotony in life.

The Cancer man always gives a special treatment to his Aquarius woman. The sense of humor exuded by him proves to be very gracious for their relationship. He provides her with a protective and concerning love with lots of wise advice which can safe her from unwanted troubles. But his act of convincing her to do things in an appropriate way might not go down well with the Aquarius female, as she does not like to follow someone else’s instructions.

As the naughty Aquarius woman and jolly Cancer man decide to walk hand in hand for life time, they create an aura of happiness around them. Their smiles are more quixotic and their words are more loving for each other with every passing day. He now understands how to give up with the past and look around for new horizon with his lady love and she now gets to value love more than even, understanding the tender and soothing effects of it. The humors of Cancer male fills their life with rejoicing moments to be cherished forever and she always brings about freshness to their unison with lots of fun and frolic to be admired throughout. Their romance is natural with all the smoothness of Air and coolness of Water. They now accept their differences to complete their existence and enjoy their togetherness with such passion that even angels envy their devotion and love.

When the elements of Air and Water come in physical contact with each other it can be either very smooth or dreamy depending upon the approach of both the Aquarius woman and Cancer man. While he takes physical intimacy as most important part of the relationship, she finds it funny in the beginning. For making their romance a real passion, they both need to be emotionally very close and open with each other. The Cancer man with his loving attitude and tender touch makes her realize that sex is a necessary ingredient for the success of a relationship. As she understands his touch and understands love making, she begin to enjoy the joys of their physical life by completely surrendering herself in arms of her Cancer male assuring him of her love and loyalty. The natural urge of closeness displayed by him serves as an icing on the cake making their physical expression more passionate and fulfilling. Since both of them have an excellent power of imagination, they have a fervent rendezvous through lovemaking.

To gain harmony in the relationship of Cancer man and Aquarius woman is some what tough but not too difficult either. There are a lot of things that they both appreciate in each other. He loves friendliness and originality of his Aquarius lady but her absentmindedness and easy approach to romantic relationship makes him sad. Also she esteems the determination and cautious nature of her Cancer man but she hates the way he clings on past. To make the relationship better, she should respect the fact that he is a private person and she should give him sufficient space and try not to encroach in his dream world. While he needs to understand that it is futile to trap her with rules, as she is quite confident about her decision making ability.

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    TammimB February 23rd, 2016

    @bronster are you sure he is a cancer because most cancers don’t party and this is the first time I am hearing an Aquarius having a shell

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    TammimB January 14th, 2016

    @LovesDJC0708 Thank you for being the first Aquarius woman I hear that loves and wants to be around a cancer. I’m cancer myself and I’ve always heard that Aquarius people don’t like being around us cancers because they think all of us are super emotional

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    mcleadin January 8th, 2016

    Finally a more accurate description of an Aquarius woman. I’ve read several other horoscopic descriptions about her being revolutionary/radical, and that being the primary reason why Cancer and Aquarius don’t make a good match, but I just can’t see that in the Aquarius woman I know. Personality-wise, she’s very similar to me (quiet, gentle, calm and collected, caring, friendly, simple [as in doesn’t make things more complicated than they should be], etc.), but also has differences (more intuitive, a better problem solver, more forward-looking, more critical and outspoken rather than an adaptive crustacean like me). She also isn’t as emotionally open or affectionate as some other zodiac signs, but deep down, she does have feelings as any other person, which can be seen from her actions and changes in voice pitch. I’ve come to appreciate her as a person through observation and conversation — to me she seems to be one of those few people who either doesn’t have any weaknesses or hides them really well. I’ve thought about our relationship developing into romance, and I think it could potentially go far if that development happened, but I’m not too optimistic. Sadly, there are too many factors that prevent this from happening, at least at this point in time. But she is the first woman who I didn’t think was beautiful or my type until we spent time together; then, I discovered these admirable personality traits and finally, day by day, started seeing her physical beauty. 

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    Atterdagv March 3rd, 2015

    Alright, I going to tell you a secret about cancer men. You have to crack the open shell, be prepared for what is inside, which only an Aquarius woman can handle that degree of craziness in my opinion. Make him secure in knowing and reassure him constantly that its okay…don’t get distant, judgemental or shut him down. Accept what you find. Appeal to all of his senses, and, if you didn’t already know, you will though you might not understand. The result will be a deep sensation and connection that you open up and it requires patience. But the reward of what’s inside will far exceed your expectations. Do your part and you will have unquestioned loyalty like a golden retriever, the best of best friends, a selfless partner and a mind altering lover that will respect your Aquarius needs beyond no end.
    Why does it require your initial effort? Because only a key fits into a lock and can open it, not the other way around. Do you want to see the treasures inside?

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    tamiamX3 February 2nd, 2015

    I was married to a Cancer man and this match, unfortunately, was not a good one. I got married young, and I felt as though this was the type of guy I should go for. But the lack of compatibility was evident as time went on. He was very controlling and did not trust me. He restricted my personal growth, and I changed a lot of myself to make him happy. In the end, it caused me to fall out of love with him. I know this match can work if the two parties are willing to do so, but he never stood up to me and talked out our issues; he would walk away if things got too intense. He wanted a family and I wanted to sit a few years. He wanted to settle down and I still wanted to do new things. He would bottle everything up inside and accuse me of being too open about my own issues. And we used to argue a lot because he would always try to get me to do things his way, and I wanted to do things my way and hate being told what to do.
     
    i will say it again: this match can work. But I will not be attempting it again, unless something really crazy makes me change my mind.

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    catchingfire December 3rd, 2014

    Im 26 and turning 27 this coming January and im a full grown Aquarius woman and I can say that im a very lucky one (to my sarcasm). I was in elementary when some high school boys send me letters and admitted they have crush on me, but I dont write back because im too young to even care at that time because I was only 10.. When I was in high school, there are few guys and my two guy bestfriends court me but I turned them down because I dont have feelings for them and i only seen them as a friend. I dont know but i dont fall easily, so i dont go for blind dates, it’s totally a No, Nooo for me.. I rather play with my dog and cat, or just surf the net, read books, go to beach, mountain climbing , spend time with my niece and nephew, go out with my girlfriends or just eat a pint of ice cream alone at home, to me flirtng with boys that you’re not even attracted to
    is just a waste of time (Eeeww!). I have only 3 ex-boyfriends, first one, a gemini. That’s when I was in college, we only hold hands and kiss on the cheeks.. he loves me but he didnt fight for me because he was young and afraid. We separated because he migrates in US and we have different nationality, his father is a racist he doesn’t want his only son fall inlove with a filipina.. The second one, i met at work he is one of my colleagues, his an aries. We only lasted 1 year and 4months.. I give myself to him, he was my first time.. we never fight, maybe because his older than me we were happy and contented with each other, until I found out he’s already married and they have a son.. he said he doesn’t love the girl, they only see each other because of the baby. I love him but im not stupid, i felt betrayed and anger consumes me. I really dont want to ruin a family and hurt a baby so I broke up with him, but he dont want to let me go.. I really blame myself, so I went to a place where I can hide and heal my heart for five years.. i tell every guy who want to court me and want me to be part of their life that im not ready and I dont want to, then I met this Cancerian man, we have this chemistry that I cannot explain.. it was like a feeling that’s totally new for me.. the very first time we met, we kissed and slept together, I know its wrong but I don’t care.. it was more like a one night stand, our love was amazing and crazy.. after his work, he always come to my apartment every morning at 7am. We talk, eat breakfast together, laugh and make love. He make sure that every saturday we spend time together, like going out, watch movies, go to the mall, we talk nonstop about things and people.. and we will make love and love and love until the sun comes up (usually sunday morning). He always kiss me and gives me compliment but sometimes tease me so we would always end up laughing, he always makes me smile. He make sure he calls me in his breaktime and whenever he gets home or before he go to sleep. He always tells me what he was doing and that he miss me and tells me funny stuffs. He loves to cuddle and make eye to eye contact when where having a conversation. He hugs me and tells jokes. My friends likes him, even my guyfriends. He always tells me “iloveyou” and he said he falls head over heels with me. He was everything I needed, everything i want and maybe i LOVE that much, i know i fall inlove the first we met, but I was having a hard time with myself, I was afraid to admit it to myself that he brings me joy. He told me many times that he wants me to meet his parents, I told him no, he said he will wait until I was ready. Then he ask me if I want to go out with him and meet his friends and coworkers but again, I told him no.. then, there’s a time when he was sick he calls me and ask if i can go to him but i didnt want to.. i broke up with him many times, he’s always the one who put up an effort to get back us togeher.. Aquarian hates drama, but I was creating a lot of drama myself.. I know im stupid right, I dont know what have gotten into me.. I regret it, if only I could turn back time.. Now I really missed him, we’ve lost contact and im sorry, but there’s nothing I can do.. 
     

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    CUPCAKE17 October 3rd, 2014

    HELLO MY NAME IS CUPCAKE I REALLY HAVE BEEN ON AGAIN OFF AGAIN WITH THIS BOY I OVE HIM LIKE HE IS REALLY SWEET AND FUNNY BUT HE GETS IN ALOT OF TROUBLE AND I HATE THAT HE MAKES ME FEEL GUSHY LIKE WE GO WITH OTHER PEOPLE BUT OUR RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK OUT AND WE END UP TALKING BUT I REALLY LOVE HIM I JUST DONT WANT TO GET HURT I HAVE BEEN THREW ALOT BUT HE ALWAYS MAKES ME FORGET ABOUT THE BAD THINGS DOES ANYBODY THINK I SHOULD GIVE IT A CHANCE AND RISK HIM MIGHT BREAKING MY HEART LIKE EVERYONE ESLE?

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    Nana85 April 13th, 2014

    @Sarahlee
    hi, when I read your comment, I felt that I have a similat problem. It’s so weird that my cancer ex-bf are ao different. He’s got a gangster background, didn’t finish high school and I’m a typical kind of goodie girl who finished university. I just don’t understand how I can just love him even though he cheated on me before, many times. He two-timed me, he always flirt with other women behind my back and I always accidentally found out. i was always angry and yet I forgive him each time I see him. He always avoid answering my questions, and doesn’t want me to know anything bout him. He hates me for asking too many questions. Yet he doesn’t say he doesn’t love me anymore. He always say “I don’t know” when I asked him if he still loves me. And when I finally decided to give up and walk away, he told me that he still loves me but he doesn’t know how to show me that he loves me. That is so confusing isn’t it? And worst part is I can’t walk away from this bad relationship. In 2010, I broke up with him jst after being a couple with him for 5months, and after that, we had been on and off, even tried out as sex partners but I didn’t like it as sp because I love him not for sex only. I tried to really patch up with him this year, but I just couldn’t accept his cold manner. He always just make me feel that he didn’t care about me at all. I have decided to block him in all ways, I think he doesnt feel anything at all.  I know I’ll suffer more if I continue to be with him, someone so secretive and not willing to share with me about his stuff bcos I’m jst over caring towards him. 🙁 so sad that I still love him But had to force myself to leave him. Does he even care?

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    Sarahlee February 13th, 2014

    i’ve been with two cancers. The previous relationship was full of passion but really isolated. He was very gelous, possesive, but at the same time caring, great lover, took care of me. My actual relationship with another Cancer(the father of my baby) is a bit different: we don’t think the same, we argue a lot, we split a few times. We don’t talk a lot now, there is no passion, but I still feel I love him. Neither one of us would let go, even though we are so different. 

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    Jrshaffe February 1st, 2014

    Why helloooooo everybody! I’ll probably be one of the only males to post on this site, and at that I’m a Cancerian Male. I’m 26 years old, and I’ve just met an Aquarious woman, a beauty from which I’ve never seen a likeness. She’s friendly, she’s open and extremely intelligent. As a cancer I know I have a tendency to be controlling, and as cancers can be, even manipulative. I’d like to think I’ve overcome such qualms of my character. Shortly after kissing this beauty, we slept together, it was simply put, amazing!! recently she has gotten out of a relationship and pretty much given me the friend card, with the continuous benefits of sleeping together and cuddling. Normally I would be put off by this and move on, but I understand her, I respect her. I will be patient, and as she doesn’t know yet, I will secretly Love her. I’ve realized that us cancers can be jerks, reveling in our popuparity and ability to make people laugh. I think all it takes for you Aquarian woman is to find that Cancer man who has overcome his weaknesses. In the end, you’ll find a Love that will yes…. Even make the Angels jealous. 

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    RAMILUX August 29th, 2013

    @carmen30823   My web name is Ramilux, I am a male triple cancer, which is rare and most people are more than just cancer, if you know more about astrology.  But Carmen, the Cancer side of him would like to control the raising of his children perhaps above all.  Maybe this is why he has a great relationship with his son. And I’m sure it is something very special.  And I can tell you want this for your son too. 
    A Cancer man has a shell and I’ts hard… lol. duh… Seriously when you push them and they don’t want to be pushed that way, and they resist and you keep pushing.. that shell can come up, and may stay up for a while, and if they feel you may push them that way again, they might not let it all the way down.  This sounds like classic Turtle shellitis.  Trust when he feels like you all are a safe and secure family he will take care of the whole family.  I think so
    Love

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    carmen30823 July 30th, 2013

    we have only been together 2 and a half years

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    carmen30823 July 30th, 2013

    ok so i am an aquarius dating a cancer man.. at first it was good things are still good but i feel like we are always competing against each other he has his kids and i have mine. often times i get jealous of the bond he has with his son that he doesnt have with mine. i understand thats his son and first child but what about my son. we have problems with the whole whos keeping who thing he thinks like a women and so do i. i have told him plenty of times that i am to selfish to give the kid to him every other week if the baby could just stay with me n he could come visit he said no why cant it be the opposite. constantly were arguing about my stepkid and his stepkids im tired of competing can this change im to emotionless he has all of the emotions for the both of us. what do i do…

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    kazzo June 11th, 2013

    I am an aquarius female and have been married to a cancerian for 17 years.  We are very loyal to eachother and have a strong, solid marraige.  It’s not sparky and passionate, but we have a deep strong and intimate bond and have learnt to navigate very successfully around the security/freedom issues that are discussed above.   Our children have definitely benefitted from my husband’s love for the family and my love of knowledge.  Cancerians build very peaceful and caring homes.  Very good fathers.  I can say I am a typical aquarian, and he has allowed me to do my own thing graciously.  I travel overseas once a year on my own to do my thing while he holds the fort at home.
    I would say if you are an aquarian and you are considering marrying a cancerian, you can’t go wrong.  You will have a wonderful home life and  a very strong bond of loyalty, honesty, respect and trust that not many other signs can hold a candle to.  

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    012383abc May 1st, 2013

    I agree then I dont….who cares really.  leave me lone!!!

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    MiniSnowflake September 9th, 2012

    Hi. Im an aquarius woman who has recently (well not too recently) dated a cancarian male. I only met him earlier this year and he immediately caught my eye, but i kept quite drawn away because I dont really like to put myself out there with dating. I suppose he noticed me out a few times as well and became curious as to what kind of person I am. Eventually he traced me on fb and we talked and got along very well and hung out for coffee every now and again after a few weeks. We started hanging out every day and were trying to keep things platonic for as long as possible.. We spoke for hours when we were together and shared opinions on life and I had a very amazing time with him and when we didnt speak i was at complete comfort with him as well and he mentioned feeling very comfortable talking to me about things in his past etc. Slowly we became a little more affectionate after a few months. I remember us not having kissed yet and if i was lying next to him and he simply just touched my side or arm i was lost in the moment of some other world as cheesy as it sounds.. One night we finally kissed and got so lost in the moment we wound up sleeping together and the next night we could hardly get to it fast enough. The next day i didnt hear from him like i usually do and he spoke to me less often. I confronted him about it because it almost felt like he was avoiding me and he told me things were getting too serious too soon for him and that he thinks we should be friends for a few more months. After that he spoke to me even less and I started asking him about it more. Eventually i came to the realisation that something im doing is driving him away.. Words cant describe how i feel about him and how i feel when im around him. Its hard for me to think that i should bite down and let fate take us away from each other or wait until he comes back or for me to get some sign that i should make a move later on and try get him back. Ive been in many relationships and ive walked away quite easily from some of them but this is different and i dont know what to do. Can anyone give me some advice?

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    genaj2777 April 28th, 2012

    @BetsyBoo
    Betsy Boo how are you?:)  thanks for should an encouraging blog and I hope number two is doing just fine?!

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    genaj2777 April 28th, 2012

    @LovesDJC0708\
    Tasha I’m curios how you made out with your cancerian.  Are you two still together.

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    genaj2777 April 28th, 2012

    @TammyDM
    They are emotional and I learned that what they say in anger…is really their feeling of something that was done to them or not done.  If they are very mean saying something that you should improve take it as a warning sign that ….that area is driving them away from you if you dont address it.  But if you can address their concerns and let them have their tantrums without hurting their feelings …you’ll do good with them.  I really recommend doing the love dare with them.

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    TammyDM April 15th, 2012

    I am a Aquarius woman who was dating a Cancer man for the past 2 years.  This has been the most intense relationship that I have ever experienced.  We clicked amazingly, we were bestfriends & lovers. Overall we just loved one anothers company 24/7, the relationship was so relax and comfortable.  My Cancer man however, was very controlling, wanted all my social networks gone.  He threw tantrums if he didnt get all of my attention, and was quiet needy; always wanting lots and lots of affection.  I would have to say, “hey, let me be the girl in this relationship sometimes.”  I have learned that Cancer men are quite emotional, they have temper issues, and they can be complete sluts.  He was spiteful, quick to blame me for everything he did wrong, and never took responsibility for his actions.  He is 24 and will be 25 this year, so I suppose he has a lot of growing up to do.  For my other Aquarius woman dating a Cancer men, you will end up changing a lot to suite him, because they are so demanding.  I went from a woman who never liked to share her bed with anyone to sleeping next to my Cancer man every single night, because he had to “sleep next to me every single night”.  On the up side you will have a man who loves you unconditionally, he will be very affectionate, and he will make you a priority.  But not every woman can grab his heart like that, but when you do, it will feel like you are each others soul mate.  I once read that Aquarians and Cancers can have the type of love that even the Angels are jealous of.

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    nanoo_95 March 20th, 2012

    @nanoo_95
    So, its been over a year and this relationship got the best out of us. At least for me. I’m the aquarius here and I’ve changed so much for the Cancer man that I completely fell in love with. But, unfortunately, this description above is right. A cancer male and an aquarius woman are not compatible. Although, I’ve always believed that we were going to last forever. Yes we fought, and the problem is, the problem would continue to escalate because of how much we panic. We ruined something that was so beautiful. We’ve been broken up for a few days, because of other reasons as well, and all i can try to do is accept this. It’s hard to move on from “the perfect one”; it’s hard to let someone that’s been a part of every single minute of your life for over a year go; i know that in my life, i will never find someone like him. I feel like I’m going to be single and lost forever without him. It’s quite stupid. I’ve been trying to keep away my sad feelings from showing, and I’ve been smiling and laughing publicly. What hurts the most is knowing that he’s COMPLETEY ok with moving on. See I don’t think he ever loved me like he claimed. And it breaks my heart. I don’t know what to do. I’m trying to just trick myself for a while and believe that this is temporary, and somehow accept is completely later. I just wish it never ended… or started if this was our fate. I love him and I know i will never stop loving him. 

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    hector22 January 28th, 2012

    I need some advice people. I was dating this cancer man since Nov. I knew him from long time ago and we used to like each other but for the reason that we both were in relationships, nothing else happened. This was over 10 years ago…well it turns out that this guy found me in FB and we’re both divorced and found out we have so many things in common. I felt this guy was crazy for me. He was a charm.  He’s from one city and i’m from another one (4 hrs apart) but the following week, he came to see me and spend the night with me.  Of course we had sex…a week later he came again and it was one of the most beautiful nights of my life but then here comes christmas and he was suppose to come down and didn’t because he’s kids stopped him, i got so angry and showed my ugly side and that scared him off.  He started pulling away.  Calls and text were less. I asked him if he wanted to continue with this and said yes..several times, but things have been so wrong since then and I realize that i feel so much more for him than before. He even talked about future plans with with my us, his 2 boys and my 2 girls, the 2 oldes and the two younges same age.  Isn’t that a wierd. I’ve been so sad and crying and can’t get over it.  He makes me think that he cares for me but doesn’t text much and hasn’t called since Jan 4th. I was told I was pushing him aways with so many questions and messages.  If I stop and don’t let him know about me, will he come back to me. 

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    bronster January 15th, 2012

    hi, im an aquarious female born on the year of the snake and is also capricorn influenced. have currently been dating a cancerian tiger who is 3 years older. he is amazzing but arfter reading all the star sign stuff im getting a little worryed that it will end badly. its only been a month and a half but so far he has made it very clear that he is in charge (wich is fine) but im worryed that he will put me back in my shell. also that he is verry bizzy with not just work but he goes to alot of parties and dusnt ask if i want to come too, wich is sorta what you do in relationships, wich puts stupid ideas in my head that he may not actualy like me, know im being rediculess cos i see him way more then any of his friends and when i know hes out and i dont text him at all he will send a random text just saying hey. and tonight he kissed me and sed “i have alots of effection towords you” lol 😛 guess the insecuritys are because we arnt in a offical cupple yet .. and havent relly been intimate.. 
    am i waisting my time?
     

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    LovesDJC0708 October 14th, 2011

    @LovesDJC0708 I think you should stop pressuring the fact that he feels the same love you do. me being a cancer male I’m almost sure he loves you the same cancer males fall in love easliy and were very fun to be around.

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    LovesDJC0708 October 14th, 2011

    I’m a aquarius woman and i’m deeply in love with a cancer male it hasn’t been that long since we been together but i feel like i can grow old with this man he completes me makes me feel wanted and loved but somehow i wonder if he feels the same although i’ve asked plenty of times and he said he does but i guess that’s not enough for me. but it’s kinda complicated at the moment but i hope we can make this relationship turn into marriage one day and have fun cause he makes me laugh and i smile everytime i think of him…

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123 : lil wayne- i feel like dying. i get stoned by choking myself 🙂 i appreciate the person who told me that that is possible

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    wtf are you talking about? and ewww, calves on a girl. unless you play basketball, cuz thats hawt. and uhm, what grapeleaves and what fork? okay your obviously stoned right now. now im just waiting for the site to block us.

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123 :
    1. no im middle handed
    2. i am a bitch, but u dont have me
    3. i have calve muscled
    4. NO ITS POWNED. y u so smart
    5. you’re hawt..
    6. i might be blinded ^
    7. dont tell/ command me (what to do)
    8. i LOVE okra.. cheese .. blekh. JOKES
    9. no i am perfect. parking up on curbs is professional, especially while on the phone
    10. appreciate the grapeleaves 🙁 and the fork

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    1). arnt you right handed
    2). i get me bitches all the time
    3). my jack off muscle is still…a muscle=buff
    4). you say “PWNED” not “POWNED”…the original word “pwned” came when people kept making typos by hitting the ‘p’ on the keyboard instead of the ‘o’ when they right “OWNED”
    5). you dont know how i look
    6). im just trying to reach ten comments at this point
    7). now that i think about it, if i reach ten, they can be like my own ten commandments
    8). do you like cheese?…or are you more of an okra person?
    9). do you fail at parking cars (outta curiosity..no sexism intended)
    10). make me a sandwhich….cuz i know you will. id do it for you at least…

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123 : he’s purrr buff. unlike you, the only muscle you have is ur jack off muscle.
    and ur sad face muscle because you’re always getting POWNED.
    humanity lost faith in right handed people like you 🙁

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    just call me a punk? thats pretty lame 😛

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123 : im not forever alone 🙁 I found the perfect guy. and stop talking to me that way or my cancerian male will get pissed off and call you a punk.
    p.s. i love it when he does that 😉
    and no he’s rich. he has an ipod touch.

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    i love how if you scroll up and read the serious romantic talk…and then scroll down….you lose faith in humanity

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    besides….im pretty sure a). the guy is poor so good luck taking that ENTIRE $5.51 in his bank account that he was saving for a night out at McDOnalds on his b-day
    or b). your FOREVER ALONE!

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123 : just go date your pen is. you are a loner… FOREVER ALONEEE.

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    ew….sorry i dont get with hoebags

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123 : good, i can take all da money later awn, and then i can go be with you 😉

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    did you know, left handed people die 9 years earlier on average. SUCKS FOR YOU!!!

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    hey slut, how come your not replying?

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123 : haha very funny… i only need left handed people in my life. so sucks for you.

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    haha jokes jokes, dont get excited now. my only commitement is to my right hand 😉

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123 : only if you stay online for at least 30 minutes :p

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    hey you should totally ditch the loser and get with a real man like me 😉

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123 : yesyesyes 🙂 in the winter though

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @nanoo_95 : only pink

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    vant rishta?

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123: wow, you do too. who are you? :/ you sound familiar

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    also, i bet you wear lipstick

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    theloner123 September 29th, 2011

    @Negs : you sound like a fajj

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    nanoo_95 September 29th, 2011

    @theloner123 I’ve been in the same situation as you, coincidentally ;). The best guy in the world and I have fought so much, usually over the silliest things. We’ve had our lowest downs and our highest ups, and I honestly am 100% sure that the ups beat the downs. The best thing between us, that helped us survive for so long, was communication and, I guess, patience. We both knew we wanted each other more than anything in the world. I realized that being with a Cancer man for so long has helped me become less emotionally distant. He showed me that showing affection and love is ok, and that I won’t always end up getting hurt. I think I showed him that it’s ok to talk about the things that are bothering him, even though he claims that whenever I try to help, i end up doing the opposite 😛 Sometimes, when he tries to give ME advice, he makes me feel like I’m stupid and that’s when i get moody with him (or when he states the obvious 😉 ) but we’ve both learned that we don’t always have the best days and need to cope with each other. When he’s angry or annoyed, I can say with full confidence that the only thing bothering me would be him not being happy and not that he’s not all fun with me. I KNOW that he has made me a softer person and I’d never believe that could have ever happened. I do and will continue to love him forever. <3

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    nrbailes August 31st, 2011

    @Shaq Try straying away and if you have always been there for her she will wonder what she’s done and call. Then don’t be to revealing just tell her youve been tied up and she will want to know details. Let her know you’ve been talking to others and how your enjoying getting to know different people. She will want your attention back on her then. I know I am a true Aquarius female.

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    lalaweelee August 29th, 2011

    I don’t believe any of this really. I am an Aquarius woman and he is a Cancer man and we have the absolute best time together. We laugh and cut up and he knows just when to give me my space and I know just when to let him in a little more so he doesn’t feel like I am running away. We talked about what our likes were when we first started talking and so far we have not made it an issue, rather a way of making each other happy so we don’t smother one another. He knows that giving me a little space allows me to miss him and show my affection so much more when I do get to see him and since he is already very affectionate it shows even more. He hasn’t yet once seemed upset or mad about not being able to see me. We have never fought and if we don’t agree on something we find a way to make a joke about it and one of us just starts laughing…and we are in our late 20’s so it isn’t like we are teenagers with a crush.

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    fae123 August 3rd, 2011

    Hi guys,
    I’m an aquarius sun/scorpio moon/mars in cancer and one of my closest guy friends since middle school is a cancer sun/pisces moon. He is very sweet. Sometimes he does have his mood swings, but i know it’s not on purpose so i don’t hold it against him. I’m usually very comfortable talking to him and he always calls me for advice and just to talk. We are not romantically involved, but somehow we love each other. He said we were probably in the same family in the previous life or something 🙂 But all i’m saying is that in my experience i never had a problem with cancer guys.

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    PunkKitten June 27th, 2011

    It’s funny how accurate this is. I am an Aquarius, and the last guy I was with is a Cancer. He was all about the emotional aspects, and it made me really uncomfortable. Every single thing mentioned about Aquarius could not be truer for me, and every single thing mentioned about Cancer could not be truer for him. Probably why we didn’t work out…

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    theloner123 May 30th, 2011

    I’m a cancer MALE (last i checked ;P) and I love the aquarius girl I met more than anything. we get into arguements often mainly because I have mood swings because I feel insecure although she does get moody at times too. We starteed out as bffls and we still are, however ,I feel there is something more deep down. But after every arguement we get into (today being an example) I feel like im going to lose her and although she claims that she does, i honestly never feel she even likes me back (i often need that reassurance normally through a simple hug). Im dreading the day i EVER have to leave her and i feel like throwing up after every agruement. I havnt know her that long but i feel like we wil be close for quite a while (hopefully forever). I do feel we both kind of balance eachother out because when either of us are PMS’ing, the other tends to provide support/reassurance. I find most everything in this article to be true about our personalities (except for me being materialistic). I can honestly say though, that i Do love you boo and i hope we never break apart this friendship <3

  63. Mike March 31st, 2011

    I am a Cancer man who has been with an Aquarius woman for almost a year (4/20, to be exact!). We have been through a lot, and definitely our differences show at times. There is never a dull moment, that’s for sure! We laugh a lot together, and accept each other for who we are. there is a great sense of balance between us, because we are so different, but each time we overcome tough times, our bond gets stronger. I can honestly say I can see this Aquarian Goddess as my life partner. Perhaps it’s my Aquarian moon that makes it work, or, just true love. 🙂

  64. Shaq March 29th, 2011

    Well I am a cancerian male and I’ve been talking to an Aquarian woman for about 5-6 months and things have been starting to get better lately slowly but surely we’ve been talking a lot more and anytime she comes to me with a problem I do my best to be there for her we aren’t together or dating yet and I really like her but I’m not completely sure where I stand with her it’s confusing because I want to ask about me and her because she knows I want a relationship with her but I don’t want to annoy her by constantly asking about it or by feeling like I’m rushing her and reading horoscopes I see that we are not the best in compatibility but after reading all of these comments I am hoping I could end up with her but I wanted to ask since you are all Aquarian women how do I really go about approaching her to better my chances if any of you could advise me?

  65. MariamWei January 16th, 2011

    I’m an Aquarious and this is the first relationship I’ve had with a Cancerian male. We’ve been together only a few months but I see a lot of the problems in communication that have been mentioned here. Through past experience with other signs I’ve found that as an Aquarius my outgoing nature and stubborn personality keeps the two of us together. When I want to give up he tells me why he would never let me go. When his ego is bruised and he wants to cave into himself I tell him he’ll always be all right with me. There’s a balance. It may be hard to achieve but with any relationship it takes time and patience.

    I would also like to add that this reflection of aquarian and Cancerian behaviors should not be followed by the book and is just one of the many observations found.

  66. joybyjoy December 12th, 2010

    I am an Aquarius and I just started seeing a Cancer guy…he does have a silent side..does lot of pouting.A lot of things I just wont put up with that just annoy me I absolutely hate to be annoyed..But I am going to try it out He’s already called me a rebel.lol I hope we will handle every bump with maturity…

  67. VICKY November 22nd, 2010

    IM AN AQUARIUS TOO N IVE BEEN CASUALLY SEEING THIS CANCER GUY FOR ABOUT 1YR AND WELL SO FAR WE HAVE BEEN GOOD WE CANT GET ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER AND OUT OF THIS WHOLE YR WE HAVNT REALY HAD A FIGHT… ITS LIKE IF HE WAS MY BEST FRIEND WE GET ALONG SO WELL… AND EVEN THOUGH HE IS OLDER THEN MY BY 8 YRS IM ALWAYS HAVE A GREAT TIME BEING WITH HIM.. IVE MEET HIS WHOLE FAMILY.., AND THOUGH HE HAS KIDS AND LIVES FAR FROM WERE I LIVE WERE VERY CLOSE AND UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER… I KEEP READING EVERYWHERE THAT AQUARIUS AND CANCER ARE THE WORST MATCH EVER DESTIN TO FAIL BUT SO FAR WE HAVE BEEN GOOD…. SINCE THE BEGINING EVERYTIME WERE TOGETHER IT FEELS AS IF WE HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOREVER…

  68. Amy October 15th, 2010

    I lived with a Cancer man and we broke up 3 years ago. He calls me once a month and recently just told me he had a new girlfriend to make me jealous. He is hard to get over and I am attached but he just as bad for someone emotional than he is good.

  69. Tara October 6th, 2010

    Ok… So I have been reading everyone’s comments, and it has gotten me thinking, for many of you are all saying the same thing. I have recently met a Cancer man, infact, last week Thursday. It is still early days, but I can see a few things like the fact that he needs that little reasurance now and then, and it is not like he demands it or even asks for it, I just pick up that he needs that, which is fine. It could be due to the fact that he is a Cancer man, and is needy and clingy OR that maybe due to his past and bad history with women and how he has been treated in the past, he needs to be reasured. Point is, everyone is an individual, with past personal experiences, which molds one into who they are today. I think that the horoscope is important in the fact that it can be the “base” of someone’s personality, but it is most certainly not the be all and end all! I am a typical aquarius most of the time, a little weird, a little out there, and I get those spells where I want and need my own space, but there are a few things that is just “not” aquarius at the same time. I have dated a Gemini before, and Aquarius and Gemini’s are sapose to be “good matches” were as he just annoyed the living shit out of me! and from the word go as well. I have now found this loving wonderful cancerian man, and he is so thoughtful and caring, yet manly and strong, and I am loving it! I am happy to say that I am excited to see where this goes… lets hope I will not be back here in a few months to tell an epic fail story to everyone on here… but so far… I can tell you, that just by being with him, I would MUCH rather be with my cancer man, than the gemini… and that is already going “against” the horoscope per say. Makes one think… doesn’t it. We are all masters of our OWN lives!

  70. umar September 18th, 2010

    surely here is a rift in this relation.never try it.you will be in trouble

  71. Pretty July 29th, 2010

    Ladies please get a grip. Now I am not against horoscopes (in fact I think people have similarites in horoscopes). However, if he is acting like he doesn’t give a cramp then most likly he isn’t! Don’t stay in a relationship because you read a zodiac sign descripition. Please love yourself more.

  72. SWEETnLOW July 27th, 2010

    Wanna add something else… my first love.. July 5th.. First husband July 16th. Relationship after that marriage failed after 9 years…was with a man I spent 5 years with..July 18th. After that I fell for another Cancer whose birthday was June 30th. Finally….. after all of been through, my eternal lover…..that I’ve known for 14 years…July 18th.. Not the same man as the other whose birthday is the same date…excluding the year. My life has been an adventure……. I know Cancer men as a second nature, believe that. I understand the mood swings, how they’re sync with the moon… I know everything about this sign… moreso than I know about my own. Strange I know….. but I believe its the key…to my past lives….to everything. So my journey to understanding myself…I know will be an enlightment to me….in every way possible.. (even the impossible). Blessed Be..

  73. SWEETnLOW July 27th, 2010

    …..I’ve accidently ended up with Cancer men. My first love, first husband……first one to take me to my first concert…….first camping trip… All my experiences have been through Cancer men. Again I will say, by accident. I never planned such. Freaks me out everytime. 5 Cancer men…. alongside this one Aquarian Goddess… all at different times. This particular time…. I’m not the only one labeled unique. The man who I’ve Handfasted with…(my first time experiencing this. He isn’t even Wiccan. I am. ) is equally unique… I’ve known him for 14 years……but never imagined we’d end up lovers… As each day passes…..I see him and I were bred for each other. We don’t fight/argue much…. Its something experienced a few times a month. Each of the Cancer men I’ve shared my life with…lacked in important traits… except the him… I concluded a long time ago….for some reason I’m destined to be settled with a Cancer. Odd I know….. I’m still in shock.. but thankful. Our union is rare…just like him and I are as individuals.

  74. BetsyBoo July 22nd, 2010

    I have just left a marriage of 10yrs to a Cancer male and am now in a relationship with another Cancerian male. Marriage was all about sex money and control for him. For me that completely quashed me and he was so negative about my dream world.. never encouraged to fullfill my dreams but knocked and scoffed that it would never happen so whats the point of dreaming. But now I am with a completely different Cancer male, who is loving kind and concerned only slightly about security and wants homelife but without the jealousy and possesiveness I had before. He lets me be free and shows me he cares with caresses and cuddles without the groping coldness of my previous Cancer male. All I can say is I love the cancerian male but you have to find the right one for your type of Aquarian. When you do the match is amazing.. when you have that slight offness in the match.. it is destructive and will just drag you down. My advice is… if its amazing and great continue.. if the cancerian traits are getting you down and the communication and understanding isnt there.. you are on a no win…he will never change.. only get worse and more stubborn as he retreats in his shell.. It becomes intollerable and eventually you end up splitting up.. but he still will have that emotional hold on you but the reality of being together is just so not right. Find the right cancer male (as I have) and you will flourish and fly in his strong and protective care xxxx

  75. Josie in the Sky with Diamonds July 9th, 2010

    I, Josie, am slowly and hesitantly falling for a Cancer man, and I am an Aquarius. Everyday I worry about how I would hurt him since he would like to settle down with a family, a big house, and money, but I don’t want that, not yet atleast. Right now, I just want to stop, slow down, and hold his hand-Be with him.
    I think I should wait though, make him make the first move since I don’t want him to think I’m pushy, but I’m scared. I always am when it comes to guys…
    I’m confused and all alone right now. Help…

  76. BenB March 22nd, 2010

    Ladies,,Just for a moment remove the zodiac signs and look a little deeper at how you communicate. Communication is key to an everlasting relationship, don’t get upset and communicate through arguments, look your partner in the eye and tell them what‘s on your mind. Cancerian men are good communicators and even if it looks as though they aren’t listening trust me they are, it just takes some time for them to process it. Men in general don’t like long lectures on how you need more from the relationship but hit them (not literally) with short requests like I’d like us to spend more time together or lets spend the weekend on our own. Put your partner on the spot and ask him every now and then if he loves you, every man dreads that question because they feel a women shouldn’t have to ask. It may seem as though you’re teaching a child how to walk but its common in men full stop.

    A short request in the morning and another reminder in the evening will convince your partner something is missing and things need to change. If you love someone then don’t give up so easily. It’s the simple things like a walk in the park, you’ll be amazed at how a walk in the park holding hands can build a stronger relationship as theirs little distraction from the everyday hustle. Hope it helps..

  77. NANCY March 17th, 2010

    hmmm. gals, all i can say is cancerians ar lovable but when it comes to decision making they inese to insist what they want as far as im concerned then that time the aquarian will get away from it coz as they say aquarian got the right decision if the cancer got to be in a matured mood they come to realize their wrongs and that time you can talk to them frankly………they will listen too if they want too thats why i love my cancer man though dont ever be with them when they are aggressive they will ruin you…God blesss

  78. Belinda March 10th, 2010

    Brittany, im in exaclty the same situation i cannot believe how much alike it is!!! i love him soo much but there are times that i feel like im annoying him or he goes quiet and so i leave him alone. this isnt how i want the relationship to be!. is it possible that he doesnt actually have a problem with me but more so ust in a bad mood?

  79. Brittany February 21st, 2010

    omg everyone above me is so true on everything they have said…i have given up on the Cancer Man Because i feel as if he Doesnt care…but my feelings won’t let go of him! thats what keeps me stuck its times when i think he care then times when it feels as if he pushes me away..why i dont know but seems the more he try and puch me away the more i want to be with him but with my STUBBORN ways i often feel as if im doing to much so i ddrift away that way i feel as if im giving him what he wants…and thats to not be with me

  80. gena johnson October 18th, 2009

    i really find this site so insightful and also comical as to the accuracy….for all you aquarius’s please note that a cancer man is very loving when they want to show it..and they also like to put you as a person on hold like putting a barbie doll away..until they want to play…but if you could get by the silence, ignoring, temper tantrums then you have a really good friend in a cancer man but aquarius women have to be more on a mature nature to make this relationship work. They are also good providers and they put their mates on a pedestal. They are very very passionate when considering love making and if yours is not it is a matter of showing him and he will experiement and give it to you.

  81. Ali July 1st, 2009

    i have been with my cancer boy for almost 3 years, we fight everyday, and argue about the stability of the relationship, i get annoyed because it seems like he doesn’t care about anything apart from his social life, and interest for material items, though i may come across to him as “bitchy” and “controlling”, it’s only because i strongly feel that his way of dealing with things, is either wrong, or is the longer road, when it comes to task’s, i like to get them perfect, and done as fast as possible.

    there has been times when i question the relationship, and regularly i check my horoscope to see if i need to tred lightly around him.
    i currently see no future with him as talking and communication is something i strive for, and he doesn’t, the only aspect he seems sure on, is the sex, and frankly that isn’t enough for me, not to mention, i think it’s pathetic.

    i honestly don’t think i can continue fighting for someone who doesn’t understand me at all, i am confused and hurt by him all the time, he constantly wants reassurance that i love him, and that gets really annoying considering i have to beg for attention from him myself.

    honestly i don’t know what to do.
    do i make it work and forget about the signs?
    or do i just accept that he will never understand me and move on?

    HELP!

  82. Chloe March 30th, 2009

    this was very insightful and true because I am an aquarius and i have been datin a cancer for almost 2 yrs. and i always wondered why we argue so much and its because we take different approaches to the same situtation and yes I could be a little well a LOT more understanding when he is giving me “advice” on things but i never looked at it that way. I’m usually always right! LOL!

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