Cancer Man and Aquarius Woman Love Compatibility

Air and Water mix to give a challenging combination of Aquarius and Cancer. The styles and needs in love of both the Zodiac Signs tend to be at odds with one another. The Cancer wants a relationship that is very personal and committed, while the Aquarius is more inclined to look for a classic friendship in any love relationship.

A Cancer man is very dependable man with strong intellect and tender heart. He is attached to the quintessential family life and does not have any qualms in experiencing the wide array of emotions. He is highly imaginative and extremely determinant to change those dreams to reality. He is always on lookout for a partner who would resemble his mother in terms of the perfection exuded by her. In love with an Aquarius woman, he enjoys her friendly nature and provides her with long term happiness and security.

An Aquarius woman is very friendly in nature with transparency in her attitude. She hates diplomacy and is never mean in her approach. She does not like to display her compassionate nature easily to people instead she likes to shower most of her empathy on serious causes. In relationship with a Cancer man, she enjoys his fascinating dream world and even love to be a part of it as she herself is a wool-gatherer. But her less sympathetic behavior can make the Cancer man feel insecure at some part in the relationship which may in turn make him cold and unconcerned.

The Aquarius female can prove to be a strange concoction with the Cancer man as both of them have different aspirations in life. She is one of those rare people who would help him to discover many new facets about himself that he was not initially aware of. She makes several attempts to convince him to let go of his immense attachment towards memories of the past and discover new enthusiasm in life. There is a strong attraction as both of them have different or rather opposite interests. She loves freedom whereas he is purely in love with materialistic things. She keeps on searching for new things in life while bound to his cautious nature; he takes every step carefully. But he is completely in awe of her spontaneous nature as he himself abhors monotony in life.

The Cancer man always gives a special treatment to his Aquarius woman. The sense of humor exuded by him proves to be very gracious for their relationship. He provides her with a protective and concerning love with lots of wise advice which can safe her from unwanted troubles. But his act of convincing her to do things in an appropriate way might not go down well with the Aquarius female, as she does not like to follow someone else’s instructions.

As the naughty Aquarius woman and jolly Cancer man decide to walk hand in hand for life time, they create an aura of happiness around them. Their smiles are more quixotic and their words are more loving for each other with every passing day. He now understands how to give up with the past and look around for new horizon with his lady love and she now gets to value love more than even, understanding the tender and soothing effects of it. The humors of Cancer male fills their life with rejoicing moments to be cherished forever and she always brings about freshness to their unison with lots of fun and frolic to be admired throughout. Their romance is natural with all the smoothness of Air and coolness of Water. They now accept their differences to complete their existence and enjoy their togetherness with such passion that even angels envy their devotion and love.

When the elements of Air and Water come in physical contact with each other it can be either very smooth or dreamy depending upon the approach of both the Aquarius woman and Cancer man. While he takes physical intimacy as most important part of the relationship, she finds it funny in the beginning. For making their romance a real passion, they both need to be emotionally very close and open with each other. The Cancer man with his loving attitude and tender touch makes her realize that sex is a necessary ingredient for the success of a relationship. As she understands his touch and understands love making, she begin to enjoy the joys of their physical life by completely surrendering herself in arms of her Cancer male assuring him of her love and loyalty. The natural urge of closeness displayed by him serves as an icing on the cake making their physical expression more passionate and fulfilling. Since both of them have an excellent power of imagination, they have a fervent rendezvous through lovemaking.

To gain harmony in the relationship of Cancer man and Aquarius woman is some what tough but not too difficult either. There are a lot of things that they both appreciate in each other. He loves friendliness and originality of his Aquarius lady but her absentmindedness and easy approach to romantic relationship makes him sad. Also she esteems the determination and cautious nature of her Cancer man but she hates the way he clings on past. To make the relationship better, she should respect the fact that he is a private person and she should give him sufficient space and try not to encroach in his dream world. While he needs to understand that it is futile to trap her with rules, as she is quite confident about her decision making ability.

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Tosha (@LovesDJC0708) : October 14th, 2011
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I’m a aquarius woman and i’m deeply in love with a cancer male it hasn’t been that long since we been together but i feel like i can grow old with this man he completes me makes me feel wanted and loved but somehow i wonder if he feels the same although i’ve asked plenty of times and he said he does but i guess that’s not enough for me. but it’s kinda complicated at the moment but i hope we can make this relationship turn into marriage one day and have fun cause he makes me laugh and i smile everytime i think of him…

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Tosha (@LovesDJC0708) : October 14th, 2011
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@LovesDJC0708 I think you should stop pressuring the fact that he feels the same love you do. me being a cancer male I’m almost sure he loves you the same cancer males fall in love easliy and were very fun to be around.

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bronte (@bronster) : January 15th, 2012
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hi, im an aquarious female born on the year of the snake and is also capricorn influenced. have currently been dating a cancerian tiger who is 3 years older. he is amazzing but arfter reading all the star sign stuff im getting a little worryed that it will end badly. its only been a month and a half but so far he has made it very clear that he is in charge (wich is fine) but im worryed that he will put me back in my shell. also that he is verry bizzy with not just work but he goes to alot of parties and dusnt ask if i want to come too, wich is sorta what you do in relationships, wich puts stupid ideas in my head that he may not actualy like me, know im being rediculess cos i see him way more then any of his friends and when i know hes out and i dont text him at all he will send a random text just saying hey. and tonight he kissed me and sed “i have alots of effection towords you” lol :P guess the insecuritys are because we arnt in a offical cupple yet .. and havent relly been intimate.. 
am i waisting my time?
 

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laura garcia (@hector22) : January 28th, 2012
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I need some advice people. I was dating this cancer man since Nov. I knew him from long time ago and we used to like each other but for the reason that we both were in relationships, nothing else happened. This was over 10 years ago…well it turns out that this guy found me in FB and we’re both divorced and found out we have so many things in common. I felt this guy was crazy for me. He was a charm.  He’s from one city and i’m from another one (4 hrs apart) but the following week, he came to see me and spend the night with me.  Of course we had sex…a week later he came again and it was one of the most beautiful nights of my life but then here comes christmas and he was suppose to come down and didn’t because he’s kids stopped him, i got so angry and showed my ugly side and that scared him off.  He started pulling away.  Calls and text were less. I asked him if he wanted to continue with this and said yes..several times, but things have been so wrong since then and I realize that i feel so much more for him than before. He even talked about future plans with with my us, his 2 boys and my 2 girls, the 2 oldes and the two younges same age.  Isn’t that a wierd. I’ve been so sad and crying and can’t get over it.  He makes me think that he cares for me but doesn’t text much and hasn’t called since Jan 4th. I was told I was pushing him aways with so many questions and messages.  If I stop and don’t let him know about me, will he come back to me. 

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Negz (@nanoo_95) : March 20th, 2012
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@nanoo_95
So, its been over a year and this relationship got the best out of us. At least for me. I’m the aquarius here and I’ve changed so much for the Cancer man that I completely fell in love with. But, unfortunately, this description above is right. A cancer male and an aquarius woman are not compatible. Although, I’ve always believed that we were going to last forever. Yes we fought, and the problem is, the problem would continue to escalate because of how much we panic. We ruined something that was so beautiful. We’ve been broken up for a few days, because of other reasons as well, and all i can try to do is accept this. It’s hard to move on from “the perfect one”; it’s hard to let someone that’s been a part of every single minute of your life for over a year go; i know that in my life, i will never find someone like him. I feel like I’m going to be single and lost forever without him. It’s quite stupid. I’ve been trying to keep away my sad feelings from showing, and I’ve been smiling and laughing publicly. What hurts the most is knowing that he’s COMPLETEY ok with moving on. See I don’t think he ever loved me like he claimed. And it breaks my heart. I don’t know what to do. I’m trying to just trick myself for a while and believe that this is temporary, and somehow accept is completely later. I just wish it never ended… or started if this was our fate. I love him and I know i will never stop loving him. 

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Tammy (@TammyDM) : April 15th, 2012
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I am a Aquarius woman who was dating a Cancer man for the past 2 years.  This has been the most intense relationship that I have ever experienced.  We clicked amazingly, we were bestfriends & lovers. Overall we just loved one anothers company 24/7, the relationship was so relax and comfortable.  My Cancer man however, was very controlling, wanted all my social networks gone.  He threw tantrums if he didnt get all of my attention, and was quiet needy; always wanting lots and lots of affection.  I would have to say, “hey, let me be the girl in this relationship sometimes.”  I have learned that Cancer men are quite emotional, they have temper issues, and they can be complete sluts.  He was spiteful, quick to blame me for everything he did wrong, and never took responsibility for his actions.  He is 24 and will be 25 this year, so I suppose he has a lot of growing up to do.  For my other Aquarius woman dating a Cancer men, you will end up changing a lot to suite him, because they are so demanding.  I went from a woman who never liked to share her bed with anyone to sleeping next to my Cancer man every single night, because he had to “sleep next to me every single night”.  On the up side you will have a man who loves you unconditionally, he will be very affectionate, and he will make you a priority.  But not every woman can grab his heart like that, but when you do, it will feel like you are each others soul mate.  I once read that Aquarians and Cancers can have the type of love that even the Angels are jealous of.

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genaj (@genaj2777) : April 28th, 2012
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@TammyDM
They are emotional and I learned that what they say in anger…is really their feeling of something that was done to them or not done.  If they are very mean saying something that you should improve take it as a warning sign that ….that area is driving them away from you if you dont address it.  But if you can address their concerns and let them have their tantrums without hurting their feelings …you’ll do good with them.  I really recommend doing the love dare with them.

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genaj (@genaj2777) : April 28th, 2012
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@LovesDJC0708\
Tasha I’m curios how you made out with your cancerian.  Are you two still together.

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genaj (@genaj2777) : April 28th, 2012
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@BetsyBoo
Betsy Boo how are you?:)  thanks for should an encouraging blog and I hope number two is doing just fine?!

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MiniSnowflake (@MiniSnowflake) : September 9th, 2012
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Hi. Im an aquarius woman who has recently (well not too recently) dated a cancarian male. I only met him earlier this year and he immediately caught my eye, but i kept quite drawn away because I dont really like to put myself out there with dating. I suppose he noticed me out a few times as well and became curious as to what kind of person I am. Eventually he traced me on fb and we talked and got along very well and hung out for coffee every now and again after a few weeks. We started hanging out every day and were trying to keep things platonic for as long as possible.. We spoke for hours when we were together and shared opinions on life and I had a very amazing time with him and when we didnt speak i was at complete comfort with him as well and he mentioned feeling very comfortable talking to me about things in his past etc. Slowly we became a little more affectionate after a few months. I remember us not having kissed yet and if i was lying next to him and he simply just touched my side or arm i was lost in the moment of some other world as cheesy as it sounds.. One night we finally kissed and got so lost in the moment we wound up sleeping together and the next night we could hardly get to it fast enough. The next day i didnt hear from him like i usually do and he spoke to me less often. I confronted him about it because it almost felt like he was avoiding me and he told me things were getting too serious too soon for him and that he thinks we should be friends for a few more months. After that he spoke to me even less and I started asking him about it more. Eventually i came to the realisation that something im doing is driving him away.. Words cant describe how i feel about him and how i feel when im around him. Its hard for me to think that i should bite down and let fate take us away from each other or wait until he comes back or for me to get some sign that i should make a move later on and try get him back. Ive been in many relationships and ive walked away quite easily from some of them but this is different and i dont know what to do. Can anyone give me some advice?

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Studyabc30 (@012383abc) : May 1st, 2013
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I agree then I dont….who cares really.  leave me lone!!!

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kazzo (@kazzo) : June 11th, 2013
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I am an aquarius female and have been married to a cancerian for 17 years.  We are very loyal to eachother and have a strong, solid marraige.  It’s not sparky and passionate, but we have a deep strong and intimate bond and have learnt to navigate very successfully around the security/freedom issues that are discussed above.   Our children have definitely benefitted from my husband’s love for the family and my love of knowledge.  Cancerians build very peaceful and caring homes.  Very good fathers.  I can say I am a typical aquarian, and he has allowed me to do my own thing graciously.  I travel overseas once a year on my own to do my thing while he holds the fort at home.
I would say if you are an aquarian and you are considering marrying a cancerian, you can’t go wrong.  You will have a wonderful home life and  a very strong bond of loyalty, honesty, respect and trust that not many other signs can hold a candle to.  

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carmen (@carmen30823) : July 30th, 2013
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ok so i am an aquarius dating a cancer man.. at first it was good things are still good but i feel like we are always competing against each other he has his kids and i have mine. often times i get jealous of the bond he has with his son that he doesnt have with mine. i understand thats his son and first child but what about my son. we have problems with the whole whos keeping who thing he thinks like a women and so do i. i have told him plenty of times that i am to selfish to give the kid to him every other week if the baby could just stay with me n he could come visit he said no why cant it be the opposite. constantly were arguing about my stepkid and his stepkids im tired of competing can this change im to emotionless he has all of the emotions for the both of us. what do i do…

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carmen (@carmen30823) : July 30th, 2013
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we have only been together 2 and a half years

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RAMILUX (@RAMILUX) : August 29th, 2013
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@carmen30823   My web name is Ramilux, I am a male triple cancer, which is rare and most people are more than just cancer, if you know more about astrology.  But Carmen, the Cancer side of him would like to control the raising of his children perhaps above all.  Maybe this is why he has a great relationship with his son. And I’m sure it is something very special.  And I can tell you want this for your son too. 
A Cancer man has a shell and I’ts hard… lol. duh… Seriously when you push them and they don’t want to be pushed that way, and they resist and you keep pushing.. that shell can come up, and may stay up for a while, and if they feel you may push them that way again, they might not let it all the way down.  This sounds like classic Turtle shellitis.  Trust when he feels like you all are a safe and secure family he will take care of the whole family.  I think so
Love

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Jon (@Jrshaffe) : February 1st, 2014
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Why helloooooo everybody! I’ll probably be one of the only males to post on this site, and at that I’m a Cancerian Male. I’m 26 years old, and I’ve just met an Aquarious woman, a beauty from which I’ve never seen a likeness. She’s friendly, she’s open and extremely intelligent. As a cancer I know I have a tendency to be controlling, and as cancers can be, even manipulative. I’d like to think I’ve overcome such qualms of my character. Shortly after kissing this beauty, we slept together, it was simply put, amazing!! recently she has gotten out of a relationship and pretty much given me the friend card, with the continuous benefits of sleeping together and cuddling. Normally I would be put off by this and move on, but I understand her, I respect her. I will be patient, and as she doesn’t know yet, I will secretly Love her. I’ve realized that us cancers can be jerks, reveling in our popuparity and ability to make people laugh. I think all it takes for you Aquarian woman is to find that Cancer man who has overcome his weaknesses. In the end, you’ll find a Love that will yes…. Even make the Angels jealous. 

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Sarah (@Sarahlee) : February 13th, 2014
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i’ve been with two cancers. The previous relationship was full of passion but really isolated. He was very gelous, possesive, but at the same time caring, great lover, took care of me. My actual relationship with another Cancer(the father of my baby) is a bit different: we don’t think the same, we argue a lot, we split a few times. We don’t talk a lot now, there is no passion, but I still feel I love him. Neither one of us would let go, even though we are so different. 

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Fiona (@Nana85) : April 13th, 2014
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@Sarahlee
hi, when I read your comment, I felt that I have a similat problem. It’s so weird that my cancer ex-bf are ao different. He’s got a gangster background, didn’t finish high school and I’m a typical kind of goodie girl who finished university. I just don’t understand how I can just love him even though he cheated on me before, many times. He two-timed me, he always flirt with other women behind my back and I always accidentally found out. i was always angry and yet I forgive him each time I see him. He always avoid answering my questions, and doesn’t want me to know anything bout him. He hates me for asking too many questions. Yet he doesn’t say he doesn’t love me anymore. He always say “I don’t know” when I asked him if he still loves me. And when I finally decided to give up and walk away, he told me that he still loves me but he doesn’t know how to show me that he loves me. That is so confusing isn’t it? And worst part is I can’t walk away from this bad relationship. In 2010, I broke up with him jst after being a couple with him for 5months, and after that, we had been on and off, even tried out as sex partners but I didn’t like it as sp because I love him not for sex only. I tried to really patch up with him this year, but I just couldn’t accept his cold manner. He always just make me feel that he didn’t care about me at all. I have decided to block him in all ways, I think he doesnt feel anything at all.  I know I’ll suffer more if I continue to be with him, someone so secretive and not willing to share with me about his stuff bcos I’m jst over caring towards him. :( so sad that I still love him But had to force myself to leave him. Does he even care?

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