Cancer Man and Sagittarius Woman Love Compatibility

When the Cancer and Sagittarius connect their Water and Fire, they make a rather confusing combination. Although it has the potential to be very stimulating association if they both are ready to accept each other for who you are. There are many things that they can learn from one another, but only strength of love can make that happen.

A Cancer man is highly valued by people for his subtle and compassionate nature. He never harms anyone intentionally and is himself cautious enough to keep away from all kinds of harms. He is true gentleman who never endorses hypocrisy. He is a determined person with the capability to work even in worst of conditions and get appreciable results. In love with a Sagittarius woman, he can make a lot of sacrifices, just in order to please her. He adores her fun loving nature and is always there with her to participate in all her adventures.

A Sagittarius woman is a very independent woman with a particular charm and an outspoken nature. She respects her individuality and hates to be dictated. There are also some Sagittarius women who are inquisitive in nature and go for something without judging the pros and cons. She always falls in love with an intense passion towards her Cancer man. She makes him feel spirited and loved. Though her blunt comments may sometimes hurt him, but generally she is a fun to be with.

Sagittarius woman is swift, easy-going and up to the mark to live up the expectations of a Cancer man. She appreciates him for showing her the right path as she has the tendency of being reckless but hates being dominated. With time she will also begin to respect him for his cautious and insightful nature. But the extravagant nature of the Sagittarius female can make him extremely nervous. This can result in heated arguments which hurt the tender heart of the Cancer male deeply. However, as soon as she realizes her mistake, she apologizes for it making him, once again the same jolly and loving person.

A Cancer man is one person who makes the Sagittarius woman regain her faith in love which was earlier lost due to her association with other less sensitive men. The presence of him makes her feel secure. The way he keeps her guessing about his feelings and changing moods with a flavor of secrecy is exciting for her. He also admires her for being very courageous and straight forward unlike the women who just try to pretend things. He might get a bit stingy in eyes of his Sagittarius lady, but he makes it up by loving her passionately. Although, he might not be the picture perfect of Sagittarius girl’s dreams, but he surely impress her with his quiet gait. There may be times when she feels suffocated under the dictated guidance of her Cancer guy and needs to release herself as she hates being lead. To avoid such situations he needs to be more tender than direct and more advising then ordering.

When the Sagittarius woman and Cancer man are ready to surrender each other in the eternity of love, they get the divine feeling of unison which melts away all the ego and problems. With the warmth of Fire and the coolness of Water their home is a blend of peace and passion at the same time where laughter and happiness prevails to be never separated from their forms. As he accepts the out spoken nature of Sagittarius woman and uses her comments to improve things around, she too becomes softer and stable with the tenderness offered by him. There is always a harmony in their discussions and understanding in their actions. With such timeless love they keep on living their life with vehemence of ultimate submission and oneness forever.

When the Fire and Water make their way to intimate relationship, there is warmth that is blessed with power of sensuality and passion between the Cancer man and Sagittarius woman. The sexual chemistry between them is very intoxicating. The desires possessed by the Sagittarius female are quite fiery, he loves her passion and she likes the gentle approaches of him. He adds to the sensitive style of love making while she adds a lot of fun to their oneness. He leads her to sensuality and enchantment which has a dream like quality. The sexual expression between them can be a strong and fulfilling experience. He watches with tremendous delight, and envy, as her fingers trace little circles across the silk, slowly making their way to his body. This makes him feel so excited, so aroused. At the same time she is lost in her next fantasy and her heart pounds just at the thought of doing it. Her legs even feel a bit weak, a bit wobbly. But her Cancer man gets even more thrilled at this sight. It brings him considerable pleasure to fondle, caress, and explore her body. She feels that there is something so delicately delicious about a tender sweet touch of his hands, exploring her candy-coated curves, flirting with her to open up her luscious treasures.

As the fiery Sagittarius woman and cool Cancer man gets into close relationship with each other, they have to cross some bridges to make their relationship efficiently working. Though the cheerfulness, logical approach and optimism of Sagittarius woman vitalize the Cancer soul of her beloved man but he cannot stand her extravagance and carelessness. On the other hand, no doubt that he is one of a kind tender lover who enriches the soul of his lady love with warmth and affection but she get disturbed by his melancholy and possessiveness. To resolve the issues both need to be more patient and deal maturely with the different qualities they possess. With the passage of time, he appreciates her for showcasing her courage, and this helps them to instill a lot of faith in each other.

  1. pan January 27th, 2017

    am dying for her and i have absolutely no doubt that it’s the same with her, it’s like it’s both Perfect and horrible together (if that can make any sense and yet..)..

    Not even sure if i can finally get her let along make long-term plans with her, if i take it from a statistical point of view, from what i read 8/10 sites+comments say run towards the opposite direction but again it’s no less absurd to walk away by just : a.not even trying and b.putting all the credits to astrology (i mean astrology sure is fun, sure has some validity but can you take it for 100% –let alone the fact that even from the astrological point of view sun signs are not even half of it –it’s probably like+around 20% the sun position of the whole astr.outcome-personality ) so yeah.. go figure basically

    Ps. on the traits part, I LOVE LOVE REALLY LOVE how she throws herself, i mean you just CAN’T ignore the fact of her boldness and yet loving nature (back to the initial, so good and bad, together).. gosh . .

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    SeptemberLibranm June 20th, 2016

    To understand the different compatibilities of a Sagittarius woman with the different zodiac men, consider the case of the woman crying in the street. (Not to put down strong sagittarius women, but they love openly and honestly and with all of themself, and love hard and can get hurt easy)

    Imagine there is a woman crying in the street, probably lying on the side of the road.

    1) A Capricorn man is the least likely to feel any pang of sympathy – if no one is around he may enjoy spitting on her, thinking to himself “It’s her OWN FAULT she’s in this situation” – fail

    2) An Aquarius man pulls up with an amateur film crew for his amateur internet news site, and makes a video about it. However if the woman asks the man for any help he’ll pretend he never heard her! – fail

    3) A Pisces man can go either way, but he’s the one most likely to say to himself “She thinks SHE has problems? What about MYYYY problems?” – 50/50

    4) An Aries man may come to her rescue, he probably sees himself as a strong pillar of the community – but it won’t lead to any romantic feelings, just a sense of duty, ma’am – 50/50
    5) A Toros man definitely won’t spit on her,  but he’s much like the character in Phil Collins’ “Another day in paradise” who whistles, crosses the road, and pretends she isn’t there – fail  (Phil Collins is Aquarius, hence why he writes songs about it)

    6) A Gemini man is likely to quickly to come to her aid, only to suddenly remember something else he was suppose to be doing and possibly disappear – 50/50

    8) The leo man is quite likely to give assistance to the lady, because he doesn’t mind coming to the assistance of a damsel in distress; might focus on superficial things like giving he a foot rub rather than actually helping! – Better than 50/50

    9) A virgo guy can go either way; he may have a piece of paper in his briefcase on what to do in such a situation and follow it step-by-step. Or he may even be standing there weighing up the pros and cons of giving assistance – 50/50

    10) Standing next to the virgo guy who is weighing the pros and cons of giving assistance is a fidgeting nervous man who can’t quite decide whether he should help or not, and feels relieved when someone more decisive has already gone to help her – but if the libra man does help he’ll do it with utmost sincerity – 50/50

    11) If a scorpio truly believes the woman is in serious trouble he will show more care to her than the womans’ own mother! Though he probably has a knife in his back pocket just in case it’s a ‘set up’ – Better than 50/50

    12) A Sagittarius man is worry free and ain’t afraid of helping a damsel in distress – or he might try and see if he can jump over her on his BMX bike or skateboard – 50/50
    7) BUT before any of them ever get there – even before Capricorn man can post his letter of complaint about ‘vagrants’ to local council – who’s that rushing out with utmost sincerity – complete with cup of water in his hand, maybe some paracetamol and a mobile phone at the ready, in case an ambulance needs to be called, why it’s Cancer man, the caring crustacean! – Best match; not ‘perfect match’ but best match.

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    Neannyy October 10th, 2015

    Well I’m a Sag female and I’m currently “talking” to a cancer male for the last 6mon. He does get moody but I back off and he always calls me eventually. Like the article says he doe keep me guessing. Weirdly like one of my fellow sags says we can talk about anything and we laugh alot. But when it comes to feeling about me and him hes say little to nothing. I figure if I say something on text about me and him I know he wont respond but if he agrees he usually calls me later. We are not in the same city so we don’t get to see each other much. But we are starting to talk everyday. Hes opening up to me more. Its so true when it says here is a harmony in our conversation. We just understand one another. Hes going thru a hard time right now. Similar to people statements above he lost his car anf hob and house. But hes never asked me for money. Even when we did see each other he impressed me because when I pulled up to get gas he paid and pumped it for me. He has a really good heart he is alway helping someone. Although we never made it to the bed room yet. I see the way he looks at me. Its pretty hot lol we did nothing but laugh the whole time we say each other. I love talking with him. Its also right that I feel safe arpund him he just have a steong presence. I’m looking forward to seeing this unfold. I really like him and want to see where it leads. We have had an argument and it was bad. It was mostly me I snapped but I felt that we were going there but I stop that just no into going so far in an argument that you can say something you cant recover from. Wr didn’t talk for days and it was horrible. I reached out to him and we been good ever since….so to be contunued thanks for sharing eveyone good information 

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    loverboy87 September 15th, 2015

    I’ve dated three Sagittarius girls, so I think I’ve got some say on this subject and how to make it work:
    Sagittarius is easily my favourite sign (for girls) of the western zodiac. They are fun, super-intelligent, optimistic, sexual, adventurous, individualistic, and insightful – everything I’d want in a girl.
    I’ve dated Sag girls at different stages in my life: one in my early teens, one in my early twenties, and the most recent one who I’m with now, and I think I have them pretty well figured out by now. 
    There are a lot of reasons why the relationship can work amazingly. Cancerian guys will love them for all the reasons I’ve mentioned; Sag girls will love your quirkiness, your spiritual adventurousness, your sense of humour, and they are humanitarians at heart, so they’ll love the whole ‘caring’ aspect. Sag girls are also quite lonely in a way, so your Cancerian empathy will help to fill that void – and they’ll love you for this. Sagittarius girls and Cancerian guys both have great senses of humour as well, so you’ll be spending a lot of time laughing your asses off.
    These girls are like cats though, they need a lot of space to do their own thing, but just because they’re independent doesn’t mean they don’t need intimacy, it just means that they’ll come to you when they need it. These aren’t girls who want to be smothered 24/7. This is, by nature, the most independent sign of the entire zodiac, so what do you think’s going to happen if you try to hold them down? They’ll only resent you for it, and there’s no changing this.
    When I was in my early teens, I was a lot less secure, and I clung possessively to my Sagittarius girl because she was my first real girlfriend, and she didn’t like this. It brought out a really bad side of me, and in the end our relationship became caustic. My relationships with Sag girls since have been amazing, however. I have a lot of Gemini in my chart which mitigates a lot of the Cancerian clinginess, and I need a lot of time to do my own thing.
    To put it bluntly, if you’re too stingy, clingy, negative, or boring, you’ll turn a Sag off. These are girls that you can (and SHOULD) have fun with. Take them hiking, or diving, or horseriding, or to an art class, or to… anything really, and they’ll eat it up.
    Sagittarius girls can be extremely blunt and critical, but if they piss you off, all you have to do is tell them to stop – just be communicative with them. Try to do this early in the relationship; let them know what your limits are, what annoys you etc. All it really takes to make this relationship work is letting each other know where you both stand.
    (You can have fun with their bluntness by the way. You can be extremely blunt with them and they’ll usually find it funny – although it is cute seeing them get grumpy 😛 I love it.)
    I recently read somewhere that we’re attracted to people who we’d most like to be like, and this is certainly true in the case of Sagittarius girls. They’ll admire your individuality, and this is something to be respected. This is a relationship where you’ll always be given space to be your own person, so use this to your advantage. Do the things you want to do, exercise, take up hobbies, go away on guys weekends. Let your cardinal energy come out, develop yourself and be your own person, but be ready to have fun and care for them as well, and this will turn them on – in every way. It sounds like a pretty good deal to me?
    I swear, if you go by what I’ve written, things will go well 🙂

    • Rera December 24th, 2016

      Loverboy, i see experience has really been your teacher when it come to how to properly handle a sag girl. You’ve got it down to the T. Well done im impressed!

      Why cant we have a global posting of your blog, it would save the world 😀

    • Kelly January 12th, 2017

      You truly know a real Sagittarius woman. I wish everyone knew us like this

    • Jessica January 25th, 2017

      Nailed it! I am a sag girl, and have been with cancer guy for almost 7 years (married for 2.5). It is perfect in so many ways. It definitely did take some work and understanding of eachother to cross hurdles, but now it is the most fluid of relationships!

    • Queen February 24th, 2017

      And you know what??? I am a sag gurl. A.N.D. everything you’ve submitted here is 101% TRUE. Yep. You’ve just handed out our password. lol. @how cute we can be when we go grumpy.hahahahahahaha. Loving you already.

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    Hi..i am a sag female….i m in love with a cancer male….it has been 13 years of our relationship…bt still i find it difficult to understand him…i love him a lot…bt i hate when he forces me to do something …..whenevr i try to do something on my own…..he threatens to leave me… if he agrees to me “sometimes”…..he behaves in such a manner that it either makes me feel guilty about my decision or i chnge it….i dont knw wat to do….when i share my feelings with him….i become so blunt that it hurts him a lot….i want to workout this relationship…plz suggest me something…….looking forward to your comments….

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    tanishapkennard March 11th, 2015

    I am Sagittarius woman and I’ve been dealing with a cancer man for about a year and they are so right they are moody they are cheap but the love that they give makes up for all that they really are stubborn and they want to do it they want to do they are bossy and can be mean at times but the way they look at you they touch you they make you feel makes up for all that sex is awesome but me being a Sagittarius woman is also correct I will take it to another level far as hurtful words I could be mean and tic for TAC but he was always is always understanding I always seem to end up apologizing though cuz he makes me feel like really hurt him and they are manipulative very much so I have all these big ideas that don’t kind of work for him he likes to be home and watch movies and hang out together tell me what to do but I love him I love everything about him he is totally different from every other man I’ve met love being near him around him with him talk to him I’m freezing I just want to do everything for him

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    asrar February 11th, 2015

    @Victoria30  hi victoria this asrar i am cancerian. U can join me on whatsapp on +919015403107

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    Dawei November 27th, 2014

    Thanksgiving Day in North America
    I really like Tallulah’s comments on Cancer Man and Sagittarius Woman. She reminds me so much of my future Chinese wife! SAG women? Please stay true to yourself, for you are the best bet for a Cancer Man. You help us to grow up as men and as excellent passionate lovers! We bring out the best in you too!
    – Dawei

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    veronica47 September 21st, 2014

    @Thave said this sound all like me wow and i ask what ur age different i am 65 and my boyfriend is 43 i awe that we connect so good inspire our age differenti

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    456123 August 17th, 2014

    scopio fuck bed. connection amazing when one. scorpio man cancer woman. pisces scorpio. really carring outgoing and suitable for witch or orackle really hilarious and funy especially born 12 – 14 november. dont know special qualities maybe mariage but striky and forward. Met in woolworths for 3 years then plit becuse of my familky situation no s or mother. sss.  but the relationship is eally good one. sexy. Same thing… however man and pisces where really hilarious and funny.  So met again and deviantart and nightwish works anthing outy but not homeys or homey. Like swimming or rrrrrr bath or drive drive and e really good.  Dream come true in regards to show movies and closenesss like mother sister. Great planner and dealer- towards tability not like a pices cancer so pisces o but cancer _ not good. saggitarious worth it. especially when hot o hot o sexy with al. sa. perfect sag decan ::::: xxxxx mwuah

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    RedVelv August 5th, 2014

    Omg i totly no wat u men. i have a cancerman n hes the gratest for me cuz im a sag. Hes totally cheep n stuff but is ok cuz i luv him. He is my fire n i m his water, we r perfect for echother. But hes not tender win we r intimite i think ur wrong cuz hes actuly rely ruff. he rely likes my sagvag if u no wat i men 😉 lol thnx for wrighting this its egxactly like us.

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    Turkeyarse April 26th, 2014

    Sorry, but I am a cancer man.  We keep some things to ourself then get a gut full and get crabby.  When I was younger (I am 37), I did not understand relationships and when my wife did not want to discuss things or was silent in arguments it did make me angry, I never hit her and she would try to get me angry enough any man would want to.  Although I did not want to hurt her physically, I said things that would cut to the core.  Things I said were true but said the wrong way.  I am older and understand “life” more now.  She has “passed away”, I should have not been like a father, but I felt that was my only option.  She was a aries which is I think it says on here that is not a good mix. 
    I think that the base for a cancer man is there but how they act and who they are are influenced by how each man was raised, who they have as friends, etc.  If you are taught to be a jerk, you will be a jerk.  If you are a bad person, you will not be sweet and kind like a true cancer. 

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    Tallulah141270 March 30th, 2014

    Pardon my spelling mistakes (Aries, beautiful, grateful etc. lol) I just got so carried away thinking about my Cancer man : )

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    Tallulah141270 March 30th, 2014

    I am a sag women with my moon in cancer and my cancer fiance has his moon is sag. His complexity, sensitivity, unpredictability at times, loving nature, out of this world awesome sex drive and sexuality, intelligence and family values to name but a few characteristics absolutely fascinate me. I could never tire of being with a person like him. Being a sag woman I can get very bored exceptionally quickly and once that happens in a relationship thats it – forget it – its dead. If I lose interest in someone its written all over my face, I can’t hide it at all.
    The interesting thing in my relationship is that due to my age (I am older than he is)  I cannot be bothered to suffer poor behaviour, so when it happens e.g. he is being lazy or a bit selfish I tell him out right  – hey you don’t even try that shit with me – and he totally respects me for it. You need to be a very feminine woman, but with enough balls not to be a doormat. Some women who are aware of their sensitivity can take that a bit too far and be afraid to offend them, but Cancer can loose respect for you if you aren’t strong so it is a delicate balance of protecting their feelings and boosting their confidence and showing them love, but calling them out on behaviour that isn’t nice when it happens. I can see in my partner that if I was a soft touch he would let me have periods of doing more than my fare share as virtually every man would. He tells me if I am not being nice also and its good that this works both ways and beign a sag I always hold my hands up to that kind of thing and apologise.
    Although I am a strong person and verbalise what I feel as I do not keep things inside, he is so relentlessly alpha male he can argue with a temper and passion that resembles a volcano. It can be a tiny bit scary at times the sheer level of his anger while knowing that I am safe and that he would never lay a hand on me. Its what a sag woman needs to know – that the man is the leader, BUT without being bossy (I HATE BEING BOSSED AROUND!)  and stronger while letting us be strong also. One thing I will say though – no matter how angry he gets, he never swears at me or says anything mean or offensive which is personal or directed at my character. Even in his immense anger he is a gentleman. He has never once called me a bad name and I respect him for that because I work by different rules.
    Being a sag, if I am in an argument I don’t give a damn, Im going to say whatever it takes to get my arrow in your weak spot and get you where it hurts. Make sure that you explain this to your Cancer man. I have warned my fiance about this and it has really helped, because he knows my nature and that I do not mean to hurt his feelings, its just my way of expressing myself and doing battle. Talk about everything with him. I don’t do it in a careless impulsive way – I think about words before I say them (Im not my Aires mother who blurts things out thank God). I am aware that I can really hurt him a lot, more than he can hurt me, so I say something thats bitchy, but makes him think. You can’t be too nice all the time, that will drive a cancer man mad – he doesn’t want someone who is one dimensional always agreeing with him and hanging on his every word and worshiping him for the sake of it, because he knows that is not real. 
    I am a very laid back sag, more chilled in nature than he is, but when I get really angry and it goes on too long I get exhausted by it and love him so much I just feel sad and start crying, but as soon as I do his heart melts. He always comes to me, holds me and cannot bear to witness me upset. Then Ill want to be on my own so Ill go in the bathroom or something and he’ll come looking for me and be genuinely sorry and make ammends. I can see he is hurt by seeing me hurt. We make up and make love and he’ll want to cook something together and we feel closer for having been honest and try to avoid the same behaviour the next time. If you try to always learn from your arguments to improve things then thats positive. It eventually reduces conflict and increases understanding.
    He needs to see your pain because he appreciates the confirmation that you care, but also the tears he can relate to because he is so sensitive himself and will cry and knows what it is like to feel things so deeply. He silently lets a tear run down his face hoping I won’t notice when we watch something touching on tv or in a film. I have told him “Baby I LOVE that about you soooo much” It is the sexiest thing ever when a very manly man does that only in your presence. I find it adorable. Other men are aware of his presence and know not to mess with him.
    His Mum who I adore is sensitive and so am I and if your are not that kind of woman there is no way he will trust you. By the way, if you don’t get along with his Mum or are like his mum GIVE UP THE RELATIONSHIP NOW !  
    We sag cancer combinations seem to be a paradox of not liking confrontation and being sensitive, but being warriors when our fires are stoked. I only every wanted all or nothing love and to be competely and utterly intertwined with my partner. I love the fact we act like kids and mess around together. Everytime we go somewhere it is like going on an adventure whether we are going to the supermarket, cinema or for dinner and I feel safe wherever we go. He appreciates my little feminine ways – like the way I say or do things or look and when I make him laugh I can see how happy it makes him. I can see how he loves to laugh as much as I do. If you don’t have a sense of humour that will also be a major disadvantage.
    I can be a complex woman at times and I can be away in the clouds thinking about something – usually music of something colourful or beuatiful and he always picks up on those moments and asks me what I am thinking about. He really notices when my attention is elsewhere, but because he knows its about something usually artistic I think he also appreciates that as he is creative and musical also. Positive thinking that we saggies are so good at is a brilliant support mechanism I think for our Cancer men. 
    A boring woman, one without opinions, knowledge and intelligence will not do. A woman who does not want children and is not natural around them will not even be considered (I had 2 before we met). Our relationship has challenged me because I have issues of trust and my independence is strong. I have learnt that it is a hinderence to a point with us because he wants to look after me. Due to my past I never had that experience before where men really took care of me and treated me fairly and I have learnt to survive on my own. Now I know that I need to let go a bit and trust him. I will always keep my indepence in terms of my spirit and be true to myself. I know he loves me for that. I love and respect him for being that way too. 
    CANCER MAN SAG WOMAN =  An amazing forever lasting love which just gets stronger and stronger as time goes by. Every time we make love it is like the first time. We found each other when we both thought that we would never achieve this kind of happiness, but we did. Im so gratefull.

    • Asal December 21st, 2016

      Such an amazing post, I can tell you truly understand Cancerian man and his way of life.

      As a truly Cancerian man, I wish I have what you guys have

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    Lillylilly8 November 18th, 2013

    Sag, women here, just wanted to add my two cents, I’ve been with a cancer man for five years 7months, and 25 days, it was the most amazing 11months of my 40 yrs on the planet, he was the greatest adventure I’ve ever jumped head first in to. Down the rabbit hole, in Alice and wonderland. I love him and hate him so equally now, I can’t seem to shake my self clear, he was beautiful, and the most thrilling lover in the beginning. But, we are a dangerous mixture. He’s a liar, secretive, selfish, user, that always say the lies are for my own good.. I allowed myself to be a doormat, and have tired to rid my heart of him for years… He’s all the worst a cancer , can be, no offence to the well adjusted cancers. My advice, none of us is perfect, by far, but if you know your heading in to a relationship with a wounded cancer, run away. You will want to heal, and love them back to health, but it will drain your life, or ruin it….

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    isaacthequach October 27th, 2013

    @Victoria30 your accurate but if you find one who knows that knows that a gorgeous girl I worth more than paper Hell treat u like a queen I took my he to the beach at night on her bday and took 4 years because I’m a cancer male and I’m down to do anything my gf tells me buttt they are cheap if you open them up out if their shell their basically your slave and honestly a lot of cancers are cheap c; urs really sad.

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    Kiki94 September 24th, 2013

    Lol. OMG this has shocked me because I’m a sag women and I’m in love with a cancer man he’s so sweet and always wanting to see me. I met him at a car show last nov . & we laid eyes on each other and from then we really hit it off. Sometimes we would have our issues but for some reason we couldn’t let each other go. He’s very protective and doesn’t wasn’t me doing anything with out him being there lol I like the fact that he cares so much about me and I love for my man to protect me. We act like best of friends at times to. I love my cancer man he sweaped me off my feet since day 1 & I really love him. The sex is sooooooooooooooooooooo amazing he’s the best I ever had. Another thing that makes up closer is our pass relationship both of our pass relationships was a mess and now that we are together we’re trying to build a strong relationship. I think I’ve found my match cause I know for a fact that he’s never going any where I love cancers . 

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    Victoria30 March 8th, 2013

    I am Sagittarius female , I had 4 Cancer boyfriends, longest lasted 2 years . I do want to be with Cancer man for few reasons, they seem very strong men , very sexual men , LOVE LOVE LOVE SEX with Cancer men , love part that Cancer men making me feel very feminine and so desired , lot’s of emotions, it all turn me on a lot . But longer realationship last crazier it gets , Cancer men start telling me what, when, how to do, and when I do not listen they get violent , throwing and breaking MY staff , two of them actually hit me left me bruises on my face, which was end for me. On top of it all Cancer men I been with were extrimly cheap, selfish and full of bulshit, they want everything from you for nothing in return from them, they would suck you dry till you have nothing to give and you would leave . I have another Cancer man after me right now, trying to get me to have sex with him for a year and he is never gonna get it , he is so SO cheap , I spent so much $ last time meeting him which he begged and promised pay it back , especially he makes 10 times more money then I do. He was standing next to me and already had hard-on just looking at me but he screwed up it all himself by acting like cheapest asshole I ever met in my life and was 40 minutes late.  Anyways, he would never see me again . I continue communicate with Cancer men only hoping they would get it their mistakes and change with time  . 

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    Dorasiavo March 6th, 2013

    Very helpful and true…. I am sag and my boyfriend is cancer.
    We are together since 4 years. 

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    CJdabows January 24th, 2013

    I’m a young Cancer male…. and I have a really strong attraction to Sagittarius females and always seem to be chasing one. For me they’re not that easy to get, but man its so worth the extra effort. I love sagittarius women because they’re truly a challenge and they’re all amazing. 

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    Gypsy-Life November 4th, 2012

    I come to the middle east for work and when i can i like to spend as many days as possible chilling/partying in Dubai. On my first visit 4 months ago i met a girl at a bar (no i was not on the scout) towards the end of the night. I still am unsure of what actually happenned but it was an instant liking for each other. was more than just a liking……it was electric. I had never felt like this before and it was not the drink doing this to me. I am your true Cancerian…to the “T” but older now and a little bit more in control of my traits (most of the time). From the first night i nick- named her “Wild Child” way before i knew of her birth date. OMG how right i was. She is a Sag, born on the cusp (23rd Nov) and i am blown away at how this girl has brought out a side of myself that i never knew existed. The passion, love and arousel i feel for her is amazing. When i’m with her i am so alive and could fight the world and she is so much fun.. I have declined another job else where in the world just so i can get back here to see her which to me is no way near enough. I just wish i could spend more than just a couple of days at a time with her. I love watching her in action with her determination, commitment and out spoken attitude when she wants something. Wow!! Awesome! She also has opened up to me with personnel issues that she has never before told anyone so yes you are correct in saying that the Cancerians can give her a secure compassionate enviroment which they do love.(Mesmerizing, sensuous, beautiful, crazy n loads of fun!! I juz love being with her.. Wanna protect her from every problem she has, wanna wipe her tears everytime she is upset. I juz wanna be with her and no-one else!!!!) Well said Raj!                           As far as sex…. Say no more! The best i have had! She rocks my boat! So where it goes from here i don’t know but i thankyou for this web page and all who have written to it. I now understand her ways much clearer. To all Saggi females…You girls rock!:)

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    lisa1277 July 22nd, 2012

    I met this guy 7 months ago. I’m a Sag, he’s a Cancer. Shortly after we started dating, he stopped working and applied for disability due to constant pain he has from a serious accident he had a couple of yrs ago. I really liked this guy because he was a homebody and seemed to have the stability I was looking for. I’m 34, he just turned 40. Soon after, he started asking for gas money which bothered me, but I would only give him small amounts like $10 or $15. Every time we did something, it was on my dime, he never asked to do things, but was always game. He would constantly ask me for money for things like doctor’s visits and miscellaneous incidentals. The more I cared for him, the less I would mind. I always seemed to know his whereabouts and had no reason to think otherwise. We spent lots of time together and seemed to fall for each other quickly. Besides shelter and clothing, I was basically supporting him and was ok doing so. Around month 3, he revealed to that he had a decent amount of 401k he would be borrowing from. It upset me because I’m thinking he’s broke and he had money the whole time that he said he didn’t want to!! I’m a single mom of a teenager and make under 40k /yr. Supposedly, he applies for a loan from his 401k for abt 8k and says he would pay me back for everything. Weeks later, he tells me there are warrants for his arrest and he needed 1500.00 or was going to jail. He said he was going to lay low until he got the money somehow. He told me he would be with his cousin. I wasn’t going to allow him to move in with me and my child. Come to find out, he was really living with another woman in a nearby city. I confronted him there. She kicked him out immediately and told me everything (sister power!!!). I was shocked and hurt to say the least. I found all of this out on 4th of July (gives new meaning to Independence Day). I ended it right away. He didn’t run after me apologizing like one would expect. He avoided me. I tried getting closure but he refused to give me any. His birthday was 7/12 and he had the audacity to leave me a angry voicemail saying how bad I made him feel for not calling him on his special day…wtf???! We ended up communicating again and he said he was embarrassed and ashamed of what he did and wanted to be with me but he wouldn’t talk about things in the way I needed him to. He just didn’t seem remorseful and sorry in the way he should have. His excuse? He has alot on his plate. My gut said to test him so I did. Yesterday, I created a phone # thru Google Voice and started texting him and sure enough, he failed…miserably. I confronted him and he lied saying someone must have had his phone. He must have realized how stupid he sounded and just gave up on the lie and literally RAN into his house. Haven’t heard from him. I DON’T want him back, I just want a genuine apology and explanation but I know I will never get it.  How do you hurt someone who has been nothing but good to you? The most hurtful thing is we actually seemed to have a friendship, not just a relationship and he could still do this to me.  I feel horrible and like the dumbest person ever. I’ve spent about $1500 on a loser and have nothing to show for it. Glad it ended when it did. I don’t know if it’s all Cancer men, but this is the 2nd experience I’ve had with one..and the worse. This guy is a user, liar and manipulator.  I sure hope karma is the big b***h everyone describes her to be.

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    tealpants July 19th, 2012

    I’m a sagg woman who has been dating a cancer man for five years. Although we have lived together for these past five years, I still use the word “dating” because I now see his fear of commitment. I’m a very spontanious woman, for example, I traveled very far from my home state leaving dear friends and family to be with him. On a whim that there should be more to this relationship than awesome long-distance sexcapades. We both loved passionately and we both made sacrafices in our lives for this to work. Now, he degrades me every chance he gets and never misses a chance to make me feel so insignifiacnt or unimportant. He loves a good arguement where I panic and shut down at any sign of unease. As of lately he’s very controlling, going as far as inquiring about tracking my whereabouts via cellular phone, as if I were his teenage child. He monitors my spending and pushes to have complete control over every detail in our daily lives. He has told me in the past that he did not want a family with me, and to be honest, I felt the same at the time. Perhaps I’ve been hoping I could change his mind after these years. Needless to say, I’ve come to terms and I’m in the process of detatching myself emotionally and finacially from my cancer mate. He will no long forbid me from roaming free, he will no longer make me feel unloved or undesired. I will not allow any man control of my free will again. I will love forever passionately with or without my cancer.

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    804joe July 10th, 2012

    I’m a cancer male in the military and currently on the outs with a sag female…..i have known her for over a year, we met through mutual friends in Korea. At the time she was datinga someone and there situation was crazy. Since returning to the US from Korea he hasn’t been in the picture but I have, being the helpless romantic emotional man that cancers can be at times and it seems to be unwanted. I do love her and sex is amazing but we argue and she calls it quits. We have the long distance thing due to us both being in the military and we have a big age difference but I try hard to make it work. I feel likemug efforts are a total waste. I once drove 13 hours on a long weekend just cause she is that addicting, last time we fought I walked out and wish she would just let my heart come home

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    nastione April 16th, 2012

    Hi I’m a Sag woman that’s been in a 6yr “affair” with a Cancerman. At first we had a great relationship just like what’s mentioned. Then we broke up after 3 years and then he started going out with Scorpio woman. I told him them they were perfect for each other and to leave me alone. But out intense love making keeps him coming back. Its unfortunate, but I was the other woman in their relationship.  They broke up after nearly 3 yrs and now were fooling around again. I’m sure he tries to go back with her. Scorpiowoman is more compatible by far. I havent been with anyone since we broke up, its been 3 years since we had the second stage of our relationship. The bond gets stronger and stronger as time goes by. Ive been in love with him througout the entire time. I find that as the years go by we find out that we keep coming back to each other. Id run away when he becomes too smothering and he runs away when i hurt his feelings. Im looking for Leo man to settle down with, but I’m afraid Cancerman is there for the long haul. Everything that I read I can vouch for. Our love is crazy, the sex is like Whoa. but I can see that this is something worth challenging myself with. The chemistry is just incredible. I’m addicted to him.

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    -mel- February 27th, 2012

    mistake 🙂 *they get too much and i dont like the baggage . maybe a sag can help them to be more true . i still think his the one if there was one . so confused .

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    -mel- February 27th, 2012

    hi , im a sag woman i seem to be attracted to cancer men oooh so handsom too but i read the internet and everywhere i read i see cancer – loving warm honest . no, no ,no. there sly .they take you into there world of mystery ( they know exactly what to say ) and people fall for it , why ? coz who can not trust a down to earth handsome guy ? hahaha a sag lol . they know how you will re-act on ever word .so when you think you can escape they play a different scene .but oooh thats what makes sex so good over and over . these men are dark they dont just play there woman like that no ! even there on the side girls you know there friends . they play them so they can be on the safe side with there woman ,cause they are commited . incase she runs, they know exactly what points to triger to make there girlfriends(yes there’s a few) there next woman . this is a back up plan ? grrrrr . they dont spend forget it. they talk about God as a sag i appreciate that A LOT . but still cant figure out why he attracts me . caus this undercover thing its just not for me . he says its caus his scared . cancer men cry and most of the time when he fights i laugh make stupid joke and later realize he was broken , for such small reasons . made me think does a cancer man love you or himself if you dont play his role correct follow the script perfect or face his hurtfull remarks or emotional drama. warning ( do not ever be dependable on this guy ) he will make sure you follow that script. maybe its a good thing for a sag if we run he will come fetch you – and we will test that. he’s so exciting and and a never ending mystery . but sadly the just get too much and i dont like bagguag

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    MrEd December 13th, 2011

    Right! I am a Canceo man, Cancer/Leo Cusp with Venus in Cancer and Mars & moon in Gemini, I was dating a Sagittarius girl type I, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Aries & Moon in Leo.

    We were dating for almost 2 months, and things went banana after that. I am 32 she is 23, I explained myself at the start of the relationship and I was truly honest, and I stated my position that I want to be committed ( long term), I hate games, and cheatings. I had 3 exs who cheated on me since the age of 18. However, I never cheated and I meant by been totally Devoted and avoid what women in general hates. However, the first two weeks it was like heaven to both od us, sure we had light arguments, but then things went so crazy. Apparently, she claimed that she adores my strong personality, warm soul, caring, endless giving but she hated when I become more protective (e.g. Hold her hands when crossing the roads) she was like stop acting like a father, seriously I don’t mean it, but I get freaking scared about people in general, I mean I stopped the whole traffic to hold an old man hands to cross the other side!!! He was like 87 years old, not trying to be his father!! ? anyway, I like traditions in general, spirituality, philosophy and I do have a strong sense of values and principles and she hate that, the thing that I cannot understand why would people hate values!!?? Although, she was frank that she had many guys & girlfriends, I told her the same that I do hang out with the boys and many ladies friends, but as matter of respect and curtsy, I start to go out only with the boys and kept communication very light with my ladies friends! She was not comfortable with that, as she felt that what I want from her too to be with just with girls only?!! Truly! Yes, it’s a fact that when man likes a woman he wants her to talk to him only ( most men won’t admit that, but its true) she asked me if I am jealousy person, I said in moderate way, but I won’t like a guy to lay his hand on you even for fun!!! Whenever, she want to go out, we go out, whenever she want to dine out we do so, even though I was going through a financial crisis, she didn’t care, so I stretched my finance to make happy. If I cook for her 5 stars dinner she likes it but she complains that I will make put in weight, if I don’t make anything, she still complain that I don’t like her!!!whenever, I tried to talk about something serious related my career, family ..she’s like I don’t care! When I told her that’s not nice she just smiles!! Last time, I was concerned about my ill niece and was about to start a conversation with her and she just walked away from the conversation to wonder around cupcakes shelf, and I felt as I wasn’t exist on her sight!!! However, I encouraged her to workout: “she was like you saying I am FAT!” although she is fit, but I apologized and I said never, you are beautiful and you should check it out , a free pass for 2 months!!! Whenever I wanted to introduce her to my friends, she is never there! And I was super good to her friends and cooked for all of them!!! Gradually, she start to use offensive words “F*** off, F*** U, what A male B****”, although, I never sworn at her even with a joke or use such language with her, I asked her kindly not to use those words around me, as rudeness can drag the angry Leo side out of me! We were joking once, as I was tickling her, she threatened me that “seriously, if a knife was beside me I would of stabbed me because you tackled me so much and I hate it” I was shocked of what she said, weeks later she said that was a joke!! Well, after nearly 2 months, she dumped me! And I admittly I loved her, she told me in the face that she dose not love me. I was so clear at the beginning that when I love I love like no others and will expose my heart for you and I trust you, so don’t abuse that … but she did in a big time! At some point, she told me” I know you pisses you off and make you angry, and I see how you are good at capturing your anger, why cant you show it to me as if you would for a guy” I explained to her I don’t like that its most powerful when you know that are cabaple of harm and you let go, and that’s what I have learnt an applied when I served in the Army and wars. I added, A man not buy his roaring voice or showing muscles or even kick someone, a real man counts by his dignity, patience, caring, sacrifices he makes and anger management”, She claimed that the reason for a breakup, that she very honest and she is not worth my love, and she knows that’s she fed up of torturing me. They always says that Sagittarius are optimistic, but she was not she was always complaining and not happy, and she even complained that I am super optimistic, altruist and trying to make everyone’s happy including herself. The more that I want to get back to her …the more she becomes more rude!! But the truth to be said, I love her so much!! I wish a Sagittarius women can understand Cenceo men. Canceo are somehow different than fellow cancers and leos. Any advice out there?

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    angelusmelssa November 28th, 2011

    ahha Jaden Smith xxx

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    Lucky-sham October 30th, 2011

    I am at a point in my relationship where I can not take anymore from my cancer mate. He is controlling, inconsiderate to my feelings. He also loves to throw my past bad rlationships n my face. If he’s mad thn I become every name n the book except a child of God. When we met he had nothing. No car, no job, n staying with his parents. We hve been together for 2 yrs n now he’s working, got his car on the road n is living with me. Ive stood by him through it all n even hve love for his family. Buthonestly im tired of him wanting everything his way and blocking me emotionally. Its gettn old n although I love him dearly, im beggining to wish I was alone. I use to wnt kids n get married. I hve been n so many terrible

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    drgnldy October 5th, 2011

    @drgnldy oops meant to say at the beginning a good friend that i have known since jr high

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    drgnldy October 5th, 2011

    yes..i have a really good friend that i haven’t known since jr high and we have been talking back and forth for a while and even though we hadn’t spoke in years we picked right up where we left off like we had never separated and u know this compatibility is 100% correct…it’s correct about me and it’s correct about him…i feel more secure with him than i have ever felt with anyone…and he’s sensitive to my feelings and we can talk about anything…it just comes natural between us…he does have mood swings but nothing that can’t be dealt with using some finesse….he’s really an incredible man…when we’re together, i feel like i’m the most beautiful, smartest, most important person in the world….and he’s my best friend….hopefully more someday…

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    lostjuliet September 16th, 2011

    I am in love with a Cancer Man, but for my emotions, dignity and psyche, I am giving him up. Sure, it was fantastic for the first 6 mos. when we were having an affair. Which, by the way, I didn’t intend on doing, but I got so caught up in his attentions and allowed his manipulations. After a family tragedy and a few weeks to deal with that, I was available, but he was only “half-heartedly” there. He told me he loved me and I was the BEST women he’d ever had, while at the same time he was seeing and sleeping with an old girlfriend. Both of us for 6 months. During which time he was VERY moody and in and out of our relationship. I didn’t get it until I caught him… He told me he got rid of her cuz he didn’t want to lose me. Still says I was the Best Women he ever had. Now, 1 1/2 years later, more MOODY times, so I think there are other women. I just think he stayed with me for beer, cigs, clothing, going for beers, rides, and good loving “all the time!!!” I agree They ARE User’s and Liar’s. He lived with his Brother, His Brother is a Cancer too. He is sleeping with 4 women at the same time, and I don’t think they know about eachother… I met all of them during my 1 1/2 years with my Lying Lover Cancer Man. He had to keep up with his brother, so I’m sure his cheating never stopped. I was the fool for love and sex… Make sure he’s got a car, license, a decent job/decent $$$ and that you are both true to eachother or playing the field at the same time. I hope I have learned about being used from this relationship. He bruised my heart…. No more tears!!! He is out of my life, LUCKY ME!!!

  36. Mr.Crab April 10th, 2011

    Babiegirl: I am a cancer man, and I can tell you what gets to me REALLY “grabs my attention” is something really heart felt in consideration. For example I have had a birthday cake made for me (Food is awesome especially if you are good at it home cooked foods are amazing!) I have had a song requested for me…That one pulled some tears out of me and I try my damnedest not to cry but they were tears of happiness! I had a big ass personalized card that a girlfriend had left in my trunk saying she loved me. Money bought things are great but man something from the heart can play a cancer like a fiddle best of luck to ya’

  37. JCher April 8th, 2011

    I’m also a sag girl, and my advice to you is to just be yourself. Funny or not, I bet he still loves you. You’re probably already amazing, aren’t all sags? 🙂 Don’t worry about it. If he makes you laugh, then he makes you laugh, just go with it, and try not to make yourself feel like your not funny enough or anything like that for him. You’re great just the way you are 🙂 I hope this helps you.

  38. Babiegirl* April 8th, 2011

    I mean cancer* men. Pllleeaasshhh write back <3

  39. Babiegirl* April 8th, 2011

    Ohmg this article this is soooo true! im a saggitarian woman and I LOVE my cancer guy! he is the best thing that has ever happened to me so far <33 He loves me so much and I love him loads too but I just cant show it to him, he barely feels my love and wants more. I really wanna give that to him..give him so much love i wanna keep him really really happy..we've been going for one and a half years now and I just dont want to lose him . I love him a lot and im whole heartedly commited to him, only if i could read his mind and be intutive just like he is…I want to keep him happy i love my boyfriend so very much :)any tips from cacver men on how I could show him a lot of love?make him feel absolutely LOVED cause i really care for him so much! we hug and kiss a lot and i caress him often we text each other everyday he is really funny too! he makes me laugh all the time, i wanna make him laugh too 🙁 please any advice cause i really wanna work on this as for him it comes really naturally but for me ive been taking efforts and i want to see him smile 🙂
    Pls girls and boys, if u have any suggestions write back

  40. Te Te March 30th, 2011

    Brit DON’T DO IT!!!

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  42. Te Te March 10th, 2011

    I’m a Sag Woman in Love with a Cancer Man that I’m too afraid to even be with. We’ve been on and off for 7mos. I’ve been soo hurt in the past I trust NO ONE but my heart won’t allow me to mistreat anyone. So I started helping him out monetarywise and even gave him my car to drive. He lives with his mom, has a child and no income. Instead of putting him down because of it, I wanted to help better himself but I just started to feel more and more used. I’ve gotten told by a few ppl that Cancer men are users, liars and manipulators. Don’t get me wrong he was so sweet to me in the beginning but as soon as I bring up the money issue I was every name in the book and he would put me down. Overall I still Love him and miss him terribly. Its been 3 weeks….so lost and confused. My mind tells me to let it go but my heart wants to reach out to him 🙁

  43. kelz March 5th, 2011

    I met my Cancer man 2 years ago. We hit it off real well, but due to the situation we were both in, nothing ever went further. Fast forward to 3 weeks ago and we reconnected. Talking every day with each other and found out some surprising feelings towards each other. Since we live in two different cities that are hours away from each other we are able to visit each other whenever we can. Now currently, my feelings are extremely strong for this same Cancer man and due to unfortunate circumstances, his attention is on current mishaps. I’ve decided upon myself to give him his space so he can figure things out but I’m not going anywhere. I’m not dropping him nor am I ending anything with him. But I do feel he needs to focus on what he lost in order to regain it back. And me and my over affectionate self can seem smothering to him. I’m falling in love with my guy and he’s falling for me but I don’t want too much of one thing to taint everything we’ve worked so hard for at the present time…

  44. Miss d February 22nd, 2011

    Been living with my cancer man for 2 years in may. Its already the longest relationship that has held my interest, for sure! However, I’m starting to get frustrated with his moodiness, and the way he keeps so many things to himself. I love him so much, but if he doesn’t want me forever I feel like I’m wasting my time. Maybe I should do my sag-self a favor and set myself free?

  45. JCher January 29th, 2011

    I’m only sixteen, but I had or have a cancer friend, who is a guy, i’m not sure what we are anymore.. Because I became fed up of all the mood swings, lies, and him not being 100% honest with me. Almost a year ago, he told me he liked me and ever since then, I thought he would at least try to get me, but he did nothing but pretend to be my friend. Before all this, we got along perfectly fine like best friends, or even brother and sister. I didn’t have feelings for him at that time, but after the whole,” I like you ” thing everything changed between us and I just want us to go back to being friends. 🙁

  46. harman January 21st, 2011

    em a sag gal and em deeply in lov wit my cancer guy.. he daily comes to meet me in my colg tym…we r into a relationship frm the last 4 years and its like WOW… our compatibility is out of thiis world..if we are arguing on something, one of us is always quiet. we got many chances for the sex… bt we never did as my cancer bf want it after marriage..i love this fact but still i want to have itt… 😛
    anywayz..i love my cancer guy madly and want us to last long… 🙂

  47. zohra jabeen January 19th, 2011

    i love cancer man even im sagittaious woman.

  48. et January 12th, 2011

    I am sag woman with cancer man. He is everything great you can think of. We are like two sides of the same person. He thinks the same things as me andwe complete each others thoughts and sentences. He is not over protective, selfish, or moody. I was in a relationship prior to him in which I was cheated on and this is and has been the only issue between us. My inability to trust fully and his inability to not go to his man cave when I question our relationship (what we are where we are going). My inquisitveness and eventual demanding for emotional attachment and answers pushes him away and he stays away. We do not fight like others about trivial things. We do not fight at all. We discuss then text discuss. We are friends built on that foundation. But….. although I read the cancer man loves the family, i feel that we both came from long term relationships that ended badly and I believe even tho he loves me…. it will never be more than that. He wants me to be available for him at all levels but not want to be pinned down in same breath. He knew in beginning what i wanted.. what I wanted to build and the time has come to talk about it… 3 years. He wants me but don’t want me at the same time. He loves me and don’t want anyone else but wants his space but also have me available when he wants me. I have decided that if we continue…. I will give him his half time… but it will be true half time, not his conception of half time. Or it will be over and I will no longer give him all I am, all I do, and think of us as “us”.

  49. MK January 3rd, 2011

    bruce, thanks for your input, man. What you said seems to explain a lot and it seems very true. And yes, it is important for us cancer guys to have someone who won’t run away in the middle of a storm. Funny thing is…even though I wouldn’t want to be with someone like that I don’t blame her for it (that song ‘Love the Way You Lie’ and Part 2 seem written for a sag girl and cancer boy, no? 😉 ). I think I understand sag women better now.

    Well, the sag girl I was with never forgave my mistakes and I never understood why. She acts as if I’ve purposefully killed her dog, even though I’ve apologized a thousand times. Friends tell me she trash talks about what happened to us. I’m over it, I just wanted us to end on a friendly note. It’s probably the biggest blow I’ve taken both to my pride and my ego, because I really liked her and tried to give her my best.

    Anyway, if money is so important to a sag girl then she understimated me, because I am very ambitious and quickly get up when I fall. Since then I’ve found another job in a different city. I will be paid three times what I got paid at my last job so what I lost in material I will make up and more. However, this time I’m giving my all to the scorpio girl I’m with right now.

    I realize I carry half the blame of why things didn’t work out, but we all make mistakes right? I really did want it to work. I am also, however, glad I got out in time. Like you said – dodget a bullet.

    I hope you manage to work it out, bruce. Like a lot of people have said, the trick with a cancer man and a sag girl relationship seems to be a lot of work from both sides. I’ve seen glimpses of what it could be and it really is beautiful. Good luck, man.

  50. bruce December 12th, 2010

    Daniel and mk, i read wat u have written and i would like to throw some light on ur situation…i have a sag girl, she loves me alot and i too love her alot. but u have to understand in order to be with her u have to have money in order to support her spending spree…her anger and risk taking attitude will drive u up the wall, not only that the worse part about them is that when the going gets tough they run like the wind…they just wanna drop wat they are holding and run. they will blame u for all the things that have gone wrong, but later after they have cooled off they will realize there mistake and come back and say sorry, but it will be too late.
    u dont want a person like that man! a person who leaves u in the middle of a storm!! guys u are lucky, u dodged a bullet!
    me and my girl are very similar, thats wat i love about her and thats wat i hate. her sense of equality drives me insane, its like if i have taken off my shirt…so can she!!!?? thats not how things work man…u cant tell a doctor to go fix a car now, can ya?
    we differ in the spending part and also differ in how to handle things or situations. the people she trust are the ones who stabb her in the back and even if u warn her, she will go and get hurt anyways. in time u will stop bothering and the relationship goes cold!
    best thing u can do and u shud do is be honest about how u feel, say everything and anything u like and she how she reacts, dude if she loves u she will indeed understand how ur brain ticks and if she does not understand then better let her instead of chasing a future which will never come.
    i am very honest with my girl, there is no thought that goes untold…sometimes she understand, sometimes she just does not get it…but the best part is both she and i work at it and we have improved with each other! and thats beautiful!
    i still dont know our future….but the sag girl of mine is a special one! real special….
    let me once again remind those who are reading my stupidity, i mean no disrespect to anyone..i just merely wrote my experience with the sag girl i have for the past 2 years….have fun and think before u jump!

  51. F December 6th, 2010

    i am a sag woman and have been seeing a cancer man for a little over 2 months. i want to work towards a relationship. it is good to somewhat know that i am not crazy for walking on eggshells with him. i can openly talk to him about everything but us. when i say something that he doesnt agree with he “shells” and will go days without speaking to me. but when i pull away he comes back. it is scary and i constantly worry that he is gone for good. he does try and dictate money issues that i have and it does drive me crazy. i hope i can make this work although i am at my breaking point. why can they not just tell us exactly how they feel about us? i love hard… guess thats the sag in me. im starting to wonder if it is worth the fight! 🙁

  52. Maddie December 2nd, 2010

    I’m a Sag. woman and my Fin. is a Cancer man, we engaged 6 months ago. It seems very true. We passed a lot of ups and downs together, it looks like we are one person when we have ups,so great and cheerful, but downs are too ugly!! I hate when we fight, its really scary:( Now I understand why he behaves like that and I hope if he can understand me too. Finally, the article is excellent, I’m sending it to my F. right now 😉 Thx.

  53. MK December 1st, 2010

    Same thing here, Daniel. I’m a cancer man and me and my sag girlfriend were together for a couple of months. It was great, I was absolutely OK and even supportive with her fiery attitude. To me she was a gentle intelligent angel and a freaky monkey both at the same time. But when I got in a “rutt” like you did, she dumped me. I lost not only my job, but my apartment and my car. And it seems I’m out of her life for good. Is that a coincidence? I too still have feelings for her. And it’s because I see the good in her, I see beyond her badass attitude. My advice is – get on with your life. Just like me you will probably never forget that little devil. But there are better things, things really worth fighting for. It’s called a Scorpio woman ;).

  54. Daniel October 9th, 2010

    I feel like I’ve lost my other half. I am a cancer male that was in a relationship with a sagittarius female. We were together for almost six year. High school sweet hearts and much more. She asked me to move in with her, and I did. Because It looked great, our relationship. Then she flipped out on me, I lost my job. and was stuck in a “rutt”. I guess I had it coming??? Is that reason enough to ask me to move out and dump me? well maybe for a mean self absorbed person. I still have feelings for her. For what I thought we meant for each other. I feel like I’ve been stripped of my other half and am forced to find myself. I don’t know. I’m trying the best I can. I always was. And I’d never say you weren’t. Unless you break my heart.

  55. Viridiana August 25th, 2010

    I’m not in a relationship with any Cancer man, but everything in this description sounds very legit. I have 3 cancer siblings and all very moody and sensitive. I find them very funny, because they are at each others throat one minute and then next thing you know they are all laughing and having a good time. After reading this love compatibility between Sagitarrius woman and Cancer man i hope that i can find myself a Cancer to love 🙂

  56. Sam August 19th, 2010

    One thing about Cancer men, they marry young and they ALWAYS have a home base. They might like the fun of a Sag woman and her bold sexuality but home is home. Cancers don’t break up from their families, even when they get put out or when things are absolutely miserable with their wives, they won’t leave. Just as hard as it is for you to break up with a Cancer, and you have NO ties to him, its that much harder for a woman he has children with to get away from him.

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    Ashishstephy August 16th, 2010

    it’s realy true.

  58. lauren August 15th, 2010

    This is all so true… Kind of scary how true this is.

  59. Raj August 13th, 2010

    Cancerian here…. Oh mann…!! I juz love my Saggi woman!! Shez mesmerizing, sensuous, beautiful, crazy n loads of fun!! I juz love being with her.. Wanna protect her from evry problem she has, wanna wipe her tears evrytym shez upset, most of all I juz love her for d positivity she brings in my life wen m down on d swing 😛
    I juz wanna be with her and no-one else!!!!

  60. Barb July 29th, 2010

    Absolutely right! I already know that because I’m a sagittarius when my cancer fiance tells me I can’t or should not do something it makes me want to do it that much more!! We love laughing together and our friendship is very important to us. When we fight it’s often about money because both of us are a bit impulsive when we want what we want but we’re always quick to make up. He’s my best friend and I know we’re together for life!

  61. lady sii July 27th, 2010

    wow finally i got some understanding of my man is a cancer and im a i knw why he bahaves like he does sometimes…atleast now i knw m gna work

  62. Alison April 27th, 2010

    My situation is quite different. About a year ago i started seeing the cancer male. He told me from the beginning that he has two small childern, but he mentioned a girlfriend. Now the this present day i heard from the grapevine that he is with his baby’s mother. I just need to know were its going and im not sure how to go about it. He makes me so incredibly happy, even for the 7 minutes he here, and i love making him laugh, but if its a dead end im the only one going to get hurt in the end and i would like to make it less painful….Any ideas anyone!!! Hint i tried telling him but my pride wont let me say what i want to. I dont wantto scare him away…

  63. ericka April 13th, 2010

    i had a cancer friend and he is very sensuitive i said fuck u and he kicked me out of his house. he never talked to me again after that wow!was it that serious

  64. TD March 18th, 2010

    I’m married to my Cancer male (5 years) and boy is it work – his sensitivity, and caution combined with my extravagance and fiery attitude 🙂 But it’s so worth it!

  65. Rain February 28th, 2010

    wow this is so true it’s scary. i’m a sag woman and i’ve been with my cancer man for a week already and i know i’m falling for him. he’s amazing! i feel a lot of passion for him. almost everything i read here is true! but we haven’t been in any fights yet so i’m not so sure about some of it. finally i read something about a cancer-sag relationship that really relates!

  66. ky'errah February 19th, 2010

    Iam a sag female and I have been going out with a cancer male for about 6 months and he is extremely moody but is so considerate and will do practically anything to please me so I completely agree with horoscope !!!!

  67. Saira November 26th, 2009

    This zodiac compatibility about sag and cancer man relationship is so true….I am a sag and yes I am so inlove with a cancer man..He’s mood swings is so unpredictable and sometimes I have to guess what he feels before I approach him or tease him hehe…Anyway if

  68. sara November 8th, 2009

    I am in love with a cancer guy and he is hard to figure out. I know to leave him alone and he will come back out of that shell of his. he gets nervous around me lol! I love cancer men but being a Sag its hard for me.yes i do fall in love with intensity, i like the other one where he makes her blush when he brushes up against her.Yes he protects me from the bullies, and always keeps me guessing. this enlightens me but it is so true with cancer-sag relationships friends or BF/GF or married:)

  69. Ashley July 3rd, 2009

    This is so true for me as well. I am a sagittarius woman -to the bone – and I am in love with a Cancer male. His love for me is strong, protective, true, and very intense. His mood swings are somewhat trifling, but he makes up for it in so many othe ways. Besides, I have read enough on the cancer sign to know when to back off and give him space. He will come out of his shell, again, and be even more open than before. I thought I would never settle down – finally at the age of 35 – I am done searching. I love the Cancer Male!!!

  70. Lucky April 15th, 2009

    Wow. This finnaly made me feel good about myself! I’m a Sag. and my boyfriend’s a Cancer … and everything that was mention in here was soooo true!

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