Cancer Man and Sagittarius Woman Love Compatibility

When the Cancer and Sagittarius connect their Water and Fire, they make a rather confusing combination. Although it has the potential to be very stimulating association if they both are ready to accept each other for who you are. There are many things that they can learn from one another, but only strength of love can make that happen.

A Cancer man is highly valued by people for his subtle and compassionate nature. He never harms anyone intentionally and is himself cautious enough to keep away from all kinds of harms. He is true gentleman who never endorses hypocrisy. He is a determined person with the capability to work even in worst of conditions and get appreciable results. In love with a Sagittarius woman, he can make a lot of sacrifices, just in order to please her. He adores her fun loving nature and is always there with her to participate in all her adventures.

A Sagittarius woman is a very independent woman with a particular charm and an outspoken nature. She respects her individuality and hates to be dictated. There are also some Sagittarius women who are inquisitive in nature and go for something without judging the pros and cons. She always falls in love with an intense passion towards her Cancer man. She makes him feel spirited and loved. Though her blunt comments may sometimes hurt him, but generally she is a fun to be with.

Sagittarius woman is swift, easy-going and up to the mark to live up the expectations of a Cancer man. She appreciates him for showing her the right path as she has the tendency of being reckless but hates being dominated. With time she will also begin to respect him for his cautious and insightful nature. But the extravagant nature of the Sagittarius female can make him extremely nervous. This can result in heated arguments which hurt the tender heart of the Cancer male deeply. However, as soon as she realizes her mistake, she apologizes for it making him, once again the same jolly and loving person.

A Cancer man is one person who makes the Sagittarius woman regain her faith in love which was earlier lost due to her association with other less sensitive men. The presence of him makes her feel secure. The way he keeps her guessing about his feelings and changing moods with a flavor of secrecy is exciting for her. He also admires her for being very courageous and straight forward unlike the women who just try to pretend things. He might get a bit stingy in eyes of his Sagittarius lady, but he makes it up by loving her passionately. Although, he might not be the picture perfect of Sagittarius girl’s dreams, but he surely impress her with his quiet gait. There may be times when she feels suffocated under the dictated guidance of her Cancer guy and needs to release herself as she hates being lead. To avoid such situations he needs to be more tender than direct and more advising then ordering.

When the Sagittarius woman and Cancer man are ready to surrender each other in the eternity of love, they get the divine feeling of unison which melts away all the ego and problems. With the warmth of Fire and the coolness of Water their home is a blend of peace and passion at the same time where laughter and happiness prevails to be never separated from their forms. As he accepts the out spoken nature of Sagittarius woman and uses her comments to improve things around, she too becomes softer and stable with the tenderness offered by him. There is always a harmony in their discussions and understanding in their actions. With such timeless love they keep on living their life with vehemence of ultimate submission and oneness forever.

When the Fire and Water make their way to intimate relationship, there is warmth that is blessed with power of sensuality and passion between the Cancer man and Sagittarius woman. The sexual chemistry between them is very intoxicating. The desires possessed by the Sagittarius female are quite fiery, he loves her passion and she likes the gentle approaches of him. He adds to the sensitive style of love making while she adds a lot of fun to their oneness. He leads her to sensuality and enchantment which has a dream like quality. The sexual expression between them can be a strong and fulfilling experience. He watches with tremendous delight, and envy, as her fingers trace little circles across the silk, slowly making their way to his body. This makes him feel so excited, so aroused. At the same time she is lost in her next fantasy and her heart pounds just at the thought of doing it. Her legs even feel a bit weak, a bit wobbly. But her Cancer man gets even more thrilled at this sight. It brings him considerable pleasure to fondle, caress, and explore her body. She feels that there is something so delicately delicious about a tender sweet touch of his hands, exploring her candy-coated curves, flirting with her to open up her luscious treasures.

As the fiery Sagittarius woman and cool Cancer man gets into close relationship with each other, they have to cross some bridges to make their relationship efficiently working. Though the cheerfulness, logical approach and optimism of Sagittarius woman vitalize the Cancer soul of her beloved man but he cannot stand her extravagance and carelessness. On the other hand, no doubt that he is one of a kind tender lover who enriches the soul of his lady love with warmth and affection but she get disturbed by his melancholy and possessiveness. To resolve the issues both need to be more patient and deal maturely with the different qualities they possess. With the passage of time, he appreciates her for showcasing her courage, and this helps them to instill a lot of faith in each other.

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Lucky (@Lucky) : April 15th, 2009

Wow. This finnaly made me feel good about myself! I’m a Sag. and my boyfriend’s a Cancer … and everything that was mention in here was soooo true!

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Ashley (@Ashley) : July 3rd, 2009

This is so true for me as well. I am a sagittarius woman -to the bone – and I am in love with a Cancer male. His love for me is strong, protective, true, and very intense. His mood swings are somewhat trifling, but he makes up for it in so many othe ways. Besides, I have read enough on the cancer sign to know when to back off and give him space. He will come out of his shell, again, and be even more open than before. I thought I would never settle down – finally at the age of 35 – I am done searching. I love the Cancer Male!!!

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sara (@sara) : November 8th, 2009

I am in love with a cancer guy and he is hard to figure out. I know to leave him alone and he will come back out of that shell of his. he gets nervous around me lol! I love cancer men but being a Sag its hard for me.yes i do fall in love with intensity, i like the other one where he makes her blush when he brushes up against her.Yes he protects me from the bullies, and always keeps me guessing. this enlightens me but it is so true with cancer-sag relationships friends or BF/GF or married:)

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Saira (@Saira) : November 26th, 2009

This zodiac compatibility about sag and cancer man relationship is so true….I am a sag and yes I am so inlove with a cancer man..He’s mood swings is so unpredictable and sometimes I have to guess what he feels before I approach him or tease him hehe…Anyway if

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ky'errah (@ky'errah) : February 19th, 2010

Iam a sag female and I have been going out with a cancer male for about 6 months and he is extremely moody but is so considerate and will do practically anything to please me so I completely agree with horoscope !!!!

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Rain (@Rain) : February 28th, 2010

wow this is so true it’s scary. i’m a sag woman and i’ve been with my cancer man for a week already and i know i’m falling for him. he’s amazing! i feel a lot of passion for him. almost everything i read here is true! but we haven’t been in any fights yet so i’m not so sure about some of it. finally i read something about a cancer-sag relationship that really relates!

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TD (@TD) : March 18th, 2010

I’m married to my Cancer male (5 years) and boy is it work – his sensitivity, and caution combined with my extravagance and fiery attitude :) But it’s so worth it!

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ericka (@ericka) : April 13th, 2010

i had a cancer friend and he is very sensuitive i said fuck u and he kicked me out of his house. he never talked to me again after that wow!was it that serious

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Alison (@Alison) : April 27th, 2010

My situation is quite different. About a year ago i started seeing the cancer male. He told me from the beginning that he has two small childern, but he mentioned a girlfriend. Now the this present day i heard from the grapevine that he is with his baby’s mother. I just need to know were its going and im not sure how to go about it. He makes me so incredibly happy, even for the 7 minutes he here, and i love making him laugh, but if its a dead end im the only one going to get hurt in the end and i would like to make it less painful….Any ideas anyone!!! Hint i tried telling him but my pride wont let me say what i want to. I dont wantto scare him away…

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lady sii (@lady sii) : July 27th, 2010

wow finally i got some understanding of my relationship..my man is a cancer and im a sagittarian..now i knw why he bahaves like he does sometimes…atleast now i knw m gna work

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Barb (@Barb) : July 29th, 2010

Absolutely right! I already know that because I’m a sagittarius when my cancer fiance tells me I can’t or should not do something it makes me want to do it that much more!! We love laughing together and our friendship is very important to us. When we fight it’s often about money because both of us are a bit impulsive when we want what we want but we’re always quick to make up. He’s my best friend and I know we’re together for life!

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Raj (@Raj) : August 13th, 2010

Cancerian here…. Oh mann…!! I juz love my Saggi woman!! Shez mesmerizing, sensuous, beautiful, crazy n loads of fun!! I juz love being with her.. Wanna protect her from evry problem she has, wanna wipe her tears evrytym shez upset, most of all I juz love her for d positivity she brings in my life wen m down on d swing :P
I juz wanna be with her and no-one else!!!!

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lauren (@lauren) : August 15th, 2010

This is all so true… Kind of scary how true this is.

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Ashish (@Ashishstephy) : August 16th, 2010
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it’s realy true.

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Sam (@Sam) : August 19th, 2010

One thing about Cancer men, they marry young and they ALWAYS have a home base. They might like the fun of a Sag woman and her bold sexuality but home is home. Cancers don’t break up from their families, even when they get put out or when things are absolutely miserable with their wives, they won’t leave. Just as hard as it is for you to break up with a Cancer, and you have NO ties to him, its that much harder for a woman he has children with to get away from him.

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Viridiana (@Viridiana) : August 25th, 2010

I’m not in a relationship with any Cancer man, but everything in this description sounds very legit. I have 3 cancer siblings and all very moody and sensitive. I find them very funny, because they are at each others throat one minute and then next thing you know they are all laughing and having a good time. After reading this love compatibility between Sagitarrius woman and Cancer man i hope that i can find myself a Cancer to love :)

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Daniel (@Daniel) : October 9th, 2010

I feel like I’ve lost my other half. I am a cancer male that was in a relationship with a sagittarius female. We were together for almost six year. High school sweet hearts and much more. She asked me to move in with her, and I did. Because It looked great, our relationship. Then she flipped out on me, I lost my job. and was stuck in a “rutt”. I guess I had it coming??? Is that reason enough to ask me to move out and dump me? well maybe for a mean self absorbed person. I still have feelings for her. For what I thought we meant for each other. I feel like I’ve been stripped of my other half and am forced to find myself. I don’t know. I’m trying the best I can. I always was. And I’d never say you weren’t. Unless you break my heart.

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MK (@MK) : December 1st, 2010

Same thing here, Daniel. I’m a cancer man and me and my sag girlfriend were together for a couple of months. It was great, I was absolutely OK and even supportive with her fiery attitude. To me she was a gentle intelligent angel and a freaky monkey both at the same time. But when I got in a “rutt” like you did, she dumped me. I lost not only my job, but my apartment and my car. And it seems I’m out of her life for good. Is that a coincidence? I too still have feelings for her. And it’s because I see the good in her, I see beyond her badass attitude. My advice is – get on with your life. Just like me you will probably never forget that little devil. But there are better things, things really worth fighting for. It’s called a Scorpio woman ;) .

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Maddie (@Maddie) : December 2nd, 2010

I’m a Sag. woman and my Fin. is a Cancer man, we engaged 6 months ago. It seems very true. We passed a lot of ups and downs together, it looks like we are one person when we have ups,so great and cheerful, but downs are too ugly!! I hate when we fight, its really scary:( Now I understand why he behaves like that and I hope if he can understand me too. Finally, the article is excellent, I’m sending it to my F. right now ;) Thx.

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F (@F) : December 6th, 2010

i am a sag woman and have been seeing a cancer man for a little over 2 months. i want to work towards a relationship. it is good to somewhat know that i am not crazy for walking on eggshells with him. i can openly talk to him about everything but us. when i say something that he doesnt agree with he “shells” and will go days without speaking to me. but when i pull away he comes back. it is scary and i constantly worry that he is gone for good. he does try and dictate money issues that i have and it does drive me crazy. i hope i can make this work although i am at my breaking point. why can they not just tell us exactly how they feel about us? i love hard… guess thats the sag in me. im starting to wonder if it is worth the fight! :(

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bruce (@bruce) : December 12th, 2010

Daniel and mk, i read wat u have written and i would like to throw some light on ur situation…i have a sag girl, she loves me alot and i too love her alot. but u have to understand in order to be with her u have to have money in order to support her spending spree…her anger and risk taking attitude will drive u up the wall, not only that the worse part about them is that when the going gets tough they run like the wind…they just wanna drop wat they are holding and run. they will blame u for all the things that have gone wrong, but later after they have cooled off they will realize there mistake and come back and say sorry, but it will be too late.
u dont want a person like that man! a person who leaves u in the middle of a storm!! guys u are lucky, u dodged a bullet!
me and my girl are very similar, thats wat i love about her and thats wat i hate. her sense of equality drives me insane, its like if i have taken off my shirt…so can she!!!?? thats not how things work man…u cant tell a doctor to go fix a car now, can ya?
we differ in the spending part and also differ in how to handle things or situations. the people she trust are the ones who stabb her in the back and even if u warn her, she will go and get hurt anyways. in time u will stop bothering and the relationship goes cold!
best thing u can do and u shud do is be honest about how u feel, say everything and anything u like and she how she reacts, dude if she loves u she will indeed understand how ur brain ticks and if she does not understand then better let her instead of chasing a future which will never come.
i am very honest with my girl, there is no thought that goes untold…sometimes she understand, sometimes she just does not get it…but the best part is both she and i work at it and we have improved with each other! and thats beautiful!
i still dont know our future….but the sag girl of mine is a special one! real special….
let me once again remind those who are reading my stupidity, i mean no disrespect to anyone..i just merely wrote my experience with the sag girl i have for the past 2 years….have fun and think before u jump!
peace!!!

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MK (@MK) : January 3rd, 2011

bruce, thanks for your input, man. What you said seems to explain a lot and it seems very true. And yes, it is important for us cancer guys to have someone who won’t run away in the middle of a storm. Funny thing is…even though I wouldn’t want to be with someone like that I don’t blame her for it (that song ‘Love the Way You Lie’ and Part 2 seem written for a sag girl and cancer boy, no? ;) ). I think I understand sag women better now.

Well, the sag girl I was with never forgave my mistakes and I never understood why. She acts as if I’ve purposefully killed her dog, even though I’ve apologized a thousand times. Friends tell me she trash talks about what happened to us. I’m over it, I just wanted us to end on a friendly note. It’s probably the biggest blow I’ve taken both to my pride and my ego, because I really liked her and tried to give her my best.

Anyway, if money is so important to a sag girl then she understimated me, because I am very ambitious and quickly get up when I fall. Since then I’ve found another job in a different city. I will be paid three times what I got paid at my last job so what I lost in material I will make up and more. However, this time I’m giving my all to the scorpio girl I’m with right now.

I realize I carry half the blame of why things didn’t work out, but we all make mistakes right? I really did want it to work. I am also, however, glad I got out in time. Like you said – dodget a bullet.

I hope you manage to work it out, bruce. Like a lot of people have said, the trick with a cancer man and a sag girl relationship seems to be a lot of work from both sides. I’ve seen glimpses of what it could be and it really is beautiful. Good luck, man.

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et (@et) : January 12th, 2011

I am sag woman with cancer man. He is everything great you can think of. We are like two sides of the same person. He thinks the same things as me andwe complete each others thoughts and sentences. He is not over protective, selfish, or moody. I was in a relationship prior to him in which I was cheated on and this is and has been the only issue between us. My inability to trust fully and his inability to not go to his man cave when I question our relationship (what we are where we are going). My inquisitveness and eventual demanding for emotional attachment and answers pushes him away and he stays away. We do not fight like others about trivial things. We do not fight at all. We discuss then text discuss. We are friends built on that foundation. But….. although I read the cancer man loves the family, i feel that we both came from long term relationships that ended badly and I believe even tho he loves me…. it will never be more than that. He wants me to be available for him at all levels but not want to be pinned down in same breath. He knew in beginning what i wanted.. what I wanted to build and the time has come to talk about it… 3 years. He wants me but don’t want me at the same time. He loves me and don’t want anyone else but wants his space but also have me available when he wants me. I have decided that if we continue…. I will give him his half time… but it will be true half time, not his conception of half time. Or it will be over and I will no longer give him all I am, all I do, and think of us as “us”.

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zohra jabeen (@zohra jabeen) : January 19th, 2011

i love cancer man even im sagittaious woman.

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harman (@harman) : January 21st, 2011

em a sag gal and em deeply in lov wit my cancer guy.. he daily comes to meet me in my colg tym…we r into a relationship frm the last 4 years and its like WOW… our compatibility is out of thiis world..if we are arguing on something, one of us is always quiet. we got many chances for the sex… bt we never did as my cancer bf want it after marriage..i love this fact but still i want to have itt… :P
anywayz..i love my cancer guy madly and want us to last long… :)

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JCher (@JCher) : January 29th, 2011

I’m only sixteen, but I had or have a cancer friend, who is a guy, i’m not sure what we are anymore.. Because I became fed up of all the mood swings, lies, and him not being 100% honest with me. Almost a year ago, he told me he liked me and ever since then, I thought he would at least try to get me, but he did nothing but pretend to be my friend. Before all this, we got along perfectly fine like best friends, or even brother and sister. I didn’t have feelings for him at that time, but after the whole,” I like you ” thing everything changed between us and I just want us to go back to being friends. :(

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Miss d (@Miss d) : February 22nd, 2011

Been living with my cancer man for 2 years in may. Its already the longest relationship that has held my interest, for sure! However, I’m starting to get frustrated with his moodiness, and the way he keeps so many things to himself. I love him so much, but if he doesn’t want me forever I feel like I’m wasting my time. Maybe I should do my sag-self a favor and set myself free?

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kelz (@kelz) : March 5th, 2011

I met my Cancer man 2 years ago. We hit it off real well, but due to the situation we were both in, nothing ever went further. Fast forward to 3 weeks ago and we reconnected. Talking every day with each other and found out some surprising feelings towards each other. Since we live in two different cities that are hours away from each other we are able to visit each other whenever we can. Now currently, my feelings are extremely strong for this same Cancer man and due to unfortunate circumstances, his attention is on current mishaps. I’ve decided upon myself to give him his space so he can figure things out but I’m not going anywhere. I’m not dropping him nor am I ending anything with him. But I do feel he needs to focus on what he lost in order to regain it back. And me and my over affectionate self can seem smothering to him. I’m falling in love with my guy and he’s falling for me but I don’t want too much of one thing to taint everything we’ve worked so hard for at the present time…

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Te Te (@Te Te) : March 10th, 2011

I’m a Sag Woman in Love with a Cancer Man that I’m too afraid to even be with. We’ve been on and off for 7mos. I’ve been soo hurt in the past I trust NO ONE but my heart won’t allow me to mistreat anyone. So I started helping him out monetarywise and even gave him my car to drive. He lives with his mom, has a child and no income. Instead of putting him down because of it, I wanted to help better himself but I just started to feel more and more used. I’ve gotten told by a few ppl that Cancer men are users, liars and manipulators. Don’t get me wrong he was so sweet to me in the beginning but as soon as I bring up the money issue I was every name in the book and he would put me down. Overall I still Love him and miss him terribly. Its been 3 weeks….so lost and confused. My mind tells me to let it go but my heart wants to reach out to him :-(

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Brit (@Brit) : March 11th, 2011

I just met a Cancer guy his convo is ok… But the boy dnt got no job. I CANT AND AINT TAKING CARE NO MAN. I DID DAT WIT A LEO WHOM I ADORED. SCARED TO SUPPORT A MAN AGAIN… SO D CANCER GUY IS UNLUCKY DIS TIME.

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Te Te (@Te Te) : March 30th, 2011

Brit DON’T DO IT!!!

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Babiegirl* (@Babiegirl*) : April 8th, 2011

Ohmg this article this is soooo true! im a saggitarian woman and I LOVE my cancer guy! he is the best thing that has ever happened to me so far <33 He loves me so much and I love him loads too but I just cant show it to him, he barely feels my love and wants more. I really wanna give that to him..give him so much love i wanna keep him really really happy..we've been going for one and a half years now and I just dont want to lose him . I love him a lot and im whole heartedly commited to him, only if i could read his mind and be intutive just like he is…I want to keep him happy i love my boyfriend so very much :) any tips from cacver men on how I could show him a lot of love?make him feel absolutely LOVED cause i really care for him so much! we hug and kiss a lot and i caress him often we text each other everyday he is really funny too! he makes me laugh all the time, i wanna make him laugh too :( please any advice cause i really wanna work on this as for him it comes really naturally but for me ive been taking efforts and i want to see him smile :)
Pls girls and boys, if u have any suggestions write back
xx

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Babiegirl* (@Babiegirl*) : April 8th, 2011

I mean cancer* men. Pllleeaasshhh write back <3

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JCher (@JCher) : April 8th, 2011

Babiegirl*
I’m also a sag girl, and my advice to you is to just be yourself. Funny or not, I bet he still loves you. You’re probably already amazing, aren’t all sags? :) Don’t worry about it. If he makes you laugh, then he makes you laugh, just go with it, and try not to make yourself feel like your not funny enough or anything like that for him. You’re great just the way you are :) I hope this helps you.

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Mr.Crab (@Mr.Crab) : April 10th, 2011

Babiegirl: I am a cancer man, and I can tell you what gets to me REALLY “grabs my attention” is something really heart felt in consideration. For example I have had a birthday cake made for me (Food is awesome especially if you are good at it home cooked foods are amazing!) I have had a song requested for me…That one pulled some tears out of me and I try my damnedest not to cry but they were tears of happiness! I had a big ass personalized card that a girlfriend had left in my trunk saying she loved me. Money bought things are great but man something from the heart can play a cancer like a fiddle best of luck to ya’

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Loret (@lostjuliet) : September 16th, 2011
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I am in love with a Cancer Man, but for my emotions, dignity and psyche, I am giving him up. Sure, it was fantastic for the first 6 mos. when we were having an affair. Which, by the way, I didn’t intend on doing, but I got so caught up in his attentions and allowed his manipulations. After a family tragedy and a few weeks to deal with that, I was available, but he was only “half-heartedly” there. He told me he loved me and I was the BEST women he’d ever had, while at the same time he was seeing and sleeping with an old girlfriend. Both of us for 6 months. During which time he was VERY moody and in and out of our relationship. I didn’t get it until I caught him… He told me he got rid of her cuz he didn’t want to lose me. Still says I was the Best Women he ever had. Now, 1 1/2 years later, more MOODY times, so I think there are other women. I just think he stayed with me for beer, cigs, clothing, going for beers, rides, and good loving “all the time!!!” I agree They ARE User’s and Liar’s. He lived with his Brother, His Brother is a Cancer too. He is sleeping with 4 women at the same time, and I don’t think they know about eachother… I met all of them during my 1 1/2 years with my Lying Lover Cancer Man. He had to keep up with his brother, so I’m sure his cheating never stopped. I was the fool for love and sex… Make sure he’s got a car, license, a decent job/decent $$$ and that you are both true to eachother or playing the field at the same time. I hope I have learned about being used from this relationship. He bruised my heart…. No more tears!!! He is out of my life, LUCKY ME!!!

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Carol (@drgnldy) : October 5th, 2011
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yes..i have a really good friend that i haven’t known since jr high and we have been talking back and forth for a while and even though we hadn’t spoke in years we picked right up where we left off like we had never separated and u know this compatibility is 100% correct…it’s correct about me and it’s correct about him…i feel more secure with him than i have ever felt with anyone…and he’s sensitive to my feelings and we can talk about anything…it just comes natural between us…he does have mood swings but nothing that can’t be dealt with using some finesse….he’s really an incredible man…when we’re together, i feel like i’m the most beautiful, smartest, most important person in the world….and he’s my best friend….hopefully more someday…

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Carol (@drgnldy) : October 5th, 2011
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@drgnldy oops meant to say at the beginning a good friend that i have known since jr high

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shamara (@Lucky-sham) : October 30th, 2011
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I am at a point in my relationship where I can not take anymore from my cancer mate. He is controlling, inconsiderate to my feelings. He also loves to throw my past bad rlationships n my face. If he’s mad thn I become every name n the book except a child of God. When we met he had nothing. No car, no job, n staying with his parents. We hve been together for 2 yrs n now he’s working, got his car on the road n is living with me. Ive stood by him through it all n even hve love for his family. Buthonestly im tired of him wanting everything his way and blocking me emotionally. Its gettn old n although I love him dearly, im beggining to wish I was alone. I use to wnt kids n get married. I hve been n so many terrible

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angelus (@angelusmelssa) : November 28th, 2011
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ahha Jaden Smith xxx

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Ed (@MrEd) : December 13th, 2011
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Right! I am a Canceo man, Cancer/Leo Cusp with Venus in Cancer and Mars & moon in Gemini, I was dating a Sagittarius girl type I, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Aries & Moon in Leo.

We were dating for almost 2 months, and things went banana after that. I am 32 she is 23, I explained myself at the start of the relationship and I was truly honest, and I stated my position that I want to be committed ( long term), I hate games, and cheatings. I had 3 exs who cheated on me since the age of 18. However, I never cheated and I meant by been totally Devoted and avoid what women in general hates. However, the first two weeks it was like heaven to both od us, sure we had light arguments, but then things went so crazy. Apparently, she claimed that she adores my strong personality, warm soul, caring, endless giving but she hated when I become more protective (e.g. Hold her hands when crossing the roads) she was like stop acting like a father, seriously I don’t mean it, but I get freaking scared about people in general, I mean I stopped the whole traffic to hold an old man hands to cross the other side!!! He was like 87 years old, not trying to be his father!! ? anyway, I like traditions in general, spirituality, philosophy and I do have a strong sense of values and principles and she hate that, the thing that I cannot understand why would people hate values!!?? Although, she was frank that she had many guys & girlfriends, I told her the same that I do hang out with the boys and many ladies friends, but as matter of respect and curtsy, I start to go out only with the boys and kept communication very light with my ladies friends! She was not comfortable with that, as she felt that what I want from her too to be with just with girls only?!! Truly! Yes, it’s a fact that when man likes a woman he wants her to talk to him only ( most men won’t admit that, but its true) she asked me if I am jealousy person, I said in moderate way, but I won’t like a guy to lay his hand on you even for fun!!! Whenever, she want to go out, we go out, whenever she want to dine out we do so, even though I was going through a financial crisis, she didn’t care, so I stretched my finance to make happy. If I cook for her 5 stars dinner she likes it but she complains that I will make put in weight, if I don’t make anything, she still complain that I don’t like her!!!whenever, I tried to talk about something serious related my career, family ..she’s like I don’t care! When I told her that’s not nice she just smiles!! Last time, I was concerned about my ill niece and was about to start a conversation with her and she just walked away from the conversation to wonder around cupcakes shelf, and I felt as I wasn’t exist on her sight!!! However, I encouraged her to workout: “she was like you saying I am FAT!” although she is fit, but I apologized and I said never, you are beautiful and you should check it out , a free pass for 2 months!!! Whenever I wanted to introduce her to my friends, she is never there! And I was super good to her friends and cooked for all of them!!! Gradually, she start to use offensive words “F*** off, F*** U, what A male B****”, although, I never sworn at her even with a joke or use such language with her, I asked her kindly not to use those words around me, as rudeness can drag the angry Leo side out of me! We were joking once, as I was tickling her, she threatened me that “seriously, if a knife was beside me I would of stabbed me because you tackled me so much and I hate it” I was shocked of what she said, weeks later she said that was a joke!! Well, after nearly 2 months, she dumped me! And I admittly I loved her, she told me in the face that she dose not love me. I was so clear at the beginning that when I love I love like no others and will expose my heart for you and I trust you, so don’t abuse that … but she did in a big time! At some point, she told me” I know you pisses you off and make you angry, and I see how you are good at capturing your anger, why cant you show it to me as if you would for a guy” I explained to her I don’t like that its most powerful when you know that are cabaple of harm and you let go, and that’s what I have learnt an applied when I served in the Army and wars. I added, A man not buy his roaring voice or showing muscles or even kick someone, a real man counts by his dignity, patience, caring, sacrifices he makes and anger management”, She claimed that the reason for a breakup, that she very honest and she is not worth my love, and she knows that’s she fed up of torturing me. They always says that Sagittarius are optimistic, but she was not she was always complaining and not happy, and she even complained that I am super optimistic, altruist and trying to make everyone’s happy including herself. The more that I want to get back to her …the more she becomes more rude!! But the truth to be said, I love her so much!! I wish a Sagittarius women can understand Cenceo men. Canceo are somehow different than fellow cancers and leos. Any advice out there?

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