Cancer Man and Scorpio Woman Love Compatibility

Since both the Cancer and Scorpio are Water signs, they blend well with each other and pair up easily. Both the Cancer and the Scorpio takes commitment seriously, and none of them is frivolous with their romantic feelings and expressions. They both create a strong bond of unlimited passion and compassion.

A Cancer man is very courteous and considerate man with sharp intellect and overwhelming sense of humor. He has the great ability to laugh at things that irk him and he can even laugh at himself showing the ease of his nature. Though his pessimism is depressing but usually he is alert enough to avoid such situations. He has a cautious nature and he tends to think rationally before doing anything. He always proves to be a lot of fun as a lover. He has a streaking sophistication that deeply impresses a Scorpio woman. He is definitely good at earning and saving money but hates wastefulness.

A Scorpio woman is a completely confident woman with magnetic attraction in her personality. She is all woman with seducing beauty and enough glamor to make the heads turn for her. The faith and passion for love comes naturally to her. When in a relationship with Cancer man, she provides a lot of affection both emotionally and physically to make him feel secure. She is a possessive lover and jealousy may arise when she finds other girls around her lover and may even get suspicious at small things.

A Scorpio woman easily attracts a Cancer man with her dazzling personality and charming persona. She is a strong woman with a fragile heart that loves her Cancer male with complete devotion and loyalty. She is an intense lover who makes him feel secure as for the first time he gets a mate who is more devoted and possessive then he himself. She helps him to flourish a career and herself also stand as a woman of substance with a career to be envied. She wonderfully esteems the protective and witty nature of him but her sense of self-importance makes her to dislike jokes aimed towards her. At times she can be viciously suspicious and her fury can give some unforgettable bruises to the sensitive Cancer heart. However, she is generally a very warm lady with generous attitude and passionate display of love.

A Cancer man is one person who can protect the Scorpio woman without making her feel dominated. He has a sensitive nature and makes her a part of his own sensitivity with lots of pampering. He is a faithful lover who always backs his Scorpio female to support her in all ups and downs of life. He always makes his lady love smile and feel assured with his sophisticated sense of humor and dedicated love that he showers on her compassionately. He easily forgives her even when she behaves in a rude way but displays his anxiety if he gets to know that she is hiding something from him. As calm and lovable Cancer male is, he can be sometimes very moody and insecure giving hitches to the Scorpio woman who gets confused on such responses of her man.

As these two Water signs fall for each other, they make a perfect relationship. This couple is tremendously loyal to each other and with increasing confidence in the relationship; their secrecy element dissolves away making them closely attached emotionally, mentally and physically in a complete unison! Together they are likely to have a fabulous relationship along with a flourishing career. The Cancer man makes his charming lady smile with his sense of divine comedy while the Scorpio woman makes her gentleman feel more loved with her immense devotion. As the love between this couple intensifies, they plunge in a never ending stream of affection to be lost forever. Their love becomes warmer than sunshine and cooler than sprinkle to give them a blissful pleasure of oneness. With each passing day their differences melt away making them one soul dwelling in two bodies!

Both, the Cancer man and Scorpio woman enjoy an excellent physical relationship with a great amalgam of Water from cool to warm to hot! The chemistry shared by them can be attributed to the harmony that prevails in the relationship. Once he becomes confident in a relationship, he strongly displays his wildly fervent side. The Cancer man and Scorpio woman can infuse their emotional sides in the physical relationship, and it helps them to have a wholesome relationship where the partners do not compartmentalize sex and emotions separately. He provides strong compassion and she gives thrilling passion to their love- making. Since they are very emotionally attached to each other even during the process of lovemaking, they can experience the joys of a physical relationship with great emotional attachment and sentimental involvement that very few couples can experience. This explains the powerful initial attraction between the two lovers, their pain when separated and their abundant opportunities for reconciliation after a quarrel. At times the sizzling Scorpio woman can take the help of sex in order to manipulate her Cancer man. Sometimes he won’t mind it, but whenever he senses an attack at his basic rights, he would more fiercely repel the tricks played by her.

Though basically the relationship of the cancer man and Scorpio woman is full of love and passion but both of them find it difficult to follow the lead of the other partner and it causes some amount of problem. Both of them nurture secrets well but they both are uncomfortable if their partner hides something from them. He is not as intense as her and this can cause some fissure in the association. The willingness of the Scorpio female to take risks and enter into unknown situations is considered foolish by Cancer male while she finds him less courageous. He may also find her very suspicious while she may find her moody and cold at times. But these problems can be worked out once they both decide to be together because both are strongly determined people with a lot of respect for true love and sincere devotion.

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shari (@scorpio-that-rips) : September 20th, 2011
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Hello,
I stumbled upon this site while trying to understand my long time crush for a cancer man. We have know each other since I was 15 and he was 17. He always thought of me as a friend or even a sister.. we would talk on the phone for hours he always had girlfriends and wanted my advice.. disliked every last one of them because in my heart he was all mine.. well long story short every few years and i should say 6-8yrs we would run into each other and i would quickly rip him into…so disappointed by the choices he had made in life as far as his mate.. but this encounter is much different..i usually say what i have to say and walk away.. this time we are trying harder to not walk away..i am going thru a divorce from a leo..need i say anymore. and he is currently unhappily married…our connection has thrown me for a loop. while i always new i had a crush on my old friend.. i never realized the depth of my feelings.. this time we have each others phone number.. email.. facebook even thou i defriend myself i could not keep declaring my love for everyone to see.. i saved us by doing that…:) and we live a little to close from comfort really just around the darn corner….So my point is I am glad I found a web site for scorpio women and cancer men..It is amazing how in tune we are with this particular astological sign……

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shari (@scorpio-that-rips) : September 20th, 2011
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It seems as if we had to learn our life lessons to understand what a true soul mate really means….I have had to do futher research to understand my Babe.. his crabby nature i find to be appealing he can actual handle this scorpian woman that rips…which is extremely rare..really unheard of by any other sign…this one has me… knows my thoughts and feels my feelings as i do his…we really like to laugh it is such a challenge to see what each other is saying and reading inbetween the lines and understanding the full depth of the conversation.. Love it…

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audra (@audskin) : October 12th, 2011
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I love my cancer man deeply, no one could ever make me feel as loved and cared for, he is loving compassionate and vulnerable. He tells me he loves me countless times everyday and always asks me “Have I ever told you how much I love you?” I have known him since high school(23yrs)we remained friends for fifteen years after high school then finally decided to give it a try, we were together 5 yrs and married we’ve been married four years now. He drives me crazy sometimes with his constant need for approval and constant companionship if I didn’t work full time he’d smother me.

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cancerian wen (@wazim35@yahoo.com) : November 1st, 2011
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im a cancer male..in a good relationship wis a scorpio woman right now..we’re together 7 months now..
really had a good moment wis her..but sometime she was too scary..coz she can tell me if im lying or not to her..wht a good ability indeed..i do lov her wis all my heart…we seems to be hurted when the time want to sperate us apart..haha..i just luv the way she go on me…so pampered…showing me her ladyness..haha..good girl…

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cancerian wen (@wazim35@yahoo.com) : November 1st, 2011
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lov the scorpio woman..

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goku (@goku) : November 3rd, 2011
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hihi,indeed

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shari (@scorpio-that-rips) : December 21st, 2011
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What can I say…still in love if we really understand the true meaning of all that is engulfed in LOVE…. My twisted friend who is a cancer man has decisions to make..and as his friend and wanting him with every fiber in my body we are not on the same page…He needs time to breath but, this is my take on happiness…
Kiss slowly, love deeply, forgive and learn. Life is too short for you to be disappointed any longer.
Happiness comes through doors you don’t even know you left open.

Happiness is more than a mood, it’s a decision.

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Earnest (@Dunhe1) : January 1st, 2012
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Cheated on Scorpio woman and she actually erase me for her life!! How do I get her back? Pls help me Scorpios!! 

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shari (@scorpio-that-rips) : January 2nd, 2012
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Earnest,
why did you cross that line? Why should she take you back?

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Juliya Lee (@jellias) : January 6th, 2012
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I had a ten month relationship with a Cancer and it was iffy. I mean, I always research relationships before going out with someone or even obsessing over them (typical Scorpio behavior) and Cancer and Scorpio always had good reviews, but here I am, with a crappy review.
 
Here’s some background info before I start. I’m a Scorpio (obviously). My birthday is October 24th, 1995. His birthday is July 4th, 1996. We were in 8th grade when we started going out and this relationship ended in our late freshman year. He has a fetish for feet and bondage. And I think it’s disgusting. There’s no way in hell I’ll tie anyone up and “have my way” with him. Just. Ew. No offense. So here’s my story:
 
He had caught my eye in class one day and I decided to watch him a bit cause I was curious to what kind of guy he was. He has light blue eyes and blonde hair, so he was quite attractive (if you’re curious, I have dark brown hair with highlights and brown eyes, haha). Anyways. I would watch him like a stalker. I approached him after a while and we hit it off quite well. Looking back, I see now that he actually flirted and showed signs of interest in me as well. I feel stupid for not noticing it.
 
A few weeks later, right before I was going to confessed to him, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I accepted.
 
The first five months were great. Full nervous and excited energy. We were so shy around each other that hugging was difficult. We barely talked, but it felt like we didn’t have to talk to communicate with each other. We just knew by looking at each other in the eyes.
 
Then there were three or four and a half months of pure boredom for me. It was like he got comfortable with me and stopped trying to maintain our relationship. To be honest, I was pissed. So I ignored him for a week or so until I couldn’tstand it anymore and I talked to him. We made up even though there was nothing to really make up for and then we were all fine again. That part of our relationship was weird. 
 
The last month or so with him was the best and the most painful. Like I said before, we were both shy, so um. We hadn’t even kissed after nine months. I always wanted to kiss him, but I wanted it to be perfect. The time never came… Anyways. I kissed him on the cheek after a date for the first time and we blushed a bunch. The next date, I was gonna kiss him for real. But it never happened, cause you see… The next date was the day that I found out he had cheated on me with his childhood friend. They chatted online. They role-played. Bondage. That type of crap. 
 
I freaked out because I had actually met the bitch (Excuse my language. I’ll never forgive them. Stupid morons.) that he had sexually talked with. She was my friend’s friend. I had met her a week or so ago. She knew I was dating him. She knew, yet she went and did all that behind my back. But whatever. It wasn’t only her fault. He was a part of it also. Takes two to do something freaking stupid and screw everything up. (sorry for my ranting)
 
Well, to finish everything up, I dumped his ass a day later and I took thirteen months to get over him. That dummy had me fall in love with him….  That idiot is my first love. 
 
A couple months ago, I met him in the park and we talked everything out so we’re all good- pretending to be good friends and all like nothing ever happened. But that’s okay, cause I have my eye on a Pisces and a Capricorn and they’re both quite suitable…
 
Oh. PS, it’s true. Cancers do indeed get into weird mood swings. He had confessed to me that he got depressed quite frequently. 
 

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tanaya (@writee9@gmail.com) : January 30th, 2012
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@jellias….cudn’t help  commenting
m  a cancerian born on 6th  july & my ex was a scorpion (whose  b’day coincidentally is on 24th july)
when i  read  ur account…. i  cudn’t help smiling to  myself!!!
alll of it was my  story  except d last part(he dn’t dare cheat on me…)but i  guess  my  case was a bit different…coz  it  was  long distance….i met  it wheneva  i went home>>>
 
but  i  know how magical  d 1st  few months were…but  dn it faded  out… & it  seemed  it  dn’t bother him….dts wt  botherd him….
i  broke up…several  times…he used 2 win  me bac  by  his charm…its kyk he waited for me 2 go  away…dn he wd get  needy &  alll in love again!!!
 
i  hated dt>>
 
so finallly  1  time ..i  put an end to  all  of it…he beggged literally  begged….but i  had made  up  my mind>>>
i guess  i  was lucky 2 hav made up  my  mind… unlike  u!!!
 its been  a year…he still  wants 2 get  bac 2gthr>>>
but  i  made sure i  made my  point dt i  dn’t want 2 have  any  connection  wd him!!!

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tanaya (@writee9@gmail.com) : January 30th, 2012
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@jellias….cudn’t help  commentingm  a cancerian born on 6th  july & my ex was a scorpion (whose  b’day coincidentally is on 24th july)when i  read  ur account…. i  cudn’t help smiling to  myself!!!alll of it was my  story  except d last part(he dn’t dare cheat on me…)but i  guess  my  case was a bit different…coz  it  was  long distance….i met  it wheneva  i went home>>> but  i  know how magical  d 1st  few months were…but  dn it faded  out… & it  seemed  it  dn’t bother him….dts wt  botherd me….i  broke up…several  times…he used 2 win  me bac  by  his charm…its lyk he waited for me 2 go  away…dn he wd get  needy &  alll in love again!!! i  hated dt>> so finallly  1  time ..i  put an end to  all  of it…he beggged literally  begged….but i  had made  up  my mind>>>i guess  i  was lucky 2 hav made up  my  mind… unlike  u!!! its been  a year…he still  wants 2 get  bac 2gthr>>>but  i  made sure i  made my  point dt i  dn’t want 2 have  any  connection  wd him!!coz  wts d point…he isn’t  goin 2 change…& i  cn’t  b taken  granted for>>

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realcancerman (@realcancerman) : February 11th, 2012
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@Dunhe1:
I’ll help you through. First you have to realise what damage you have caused to her. Once you’re really depressed and feeling down then go ahead and have yourself “Was it worth it?” cake. You don’t deserve someone like that.

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Andrea15 (@Andrea15) : March 17th, 2012
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Hello! I need some help with my relationship with a Cancer Man. I am a Scorpio Woman. We were together for 1 month. Everything started when we were at party. I met him through a friend. From the first time we had an attraction. After the party, we went with our friends to the restaurant and then to the club. Everything was fine. After the club, he drove me home and requested my telephone number. In the next weeks we decided to start a relationship. After almost 2 weeks I said that I don’t want to be with him anymore, ’cause I heard from friends that he is a womanizer, he is cheating on me… But the truth is that he lives in another city, his parents are divorced, so he has a lot of problems. After the break-up, I spied him and I found that before a month from the party he breaked-up with his girlfriend, with which he was for 1.5 years. And I found, also, that after our break-up, he was in every week-end with her in the club. My friend told me that they were together, again, but the Cancer Man said that he is not with her. We didn’t talk to each other for 2 months, when I decided to text him and ask him out to the club. We went to the club, but he was very weird. I asked him if he is single, he said yes, I asked him if he missed me, he said yes, but he didn’t dance how he danced with me before, he was ingnoring me for a while in the club, he didn’t talk, just when I asked him something. When he leaved, I gave him a kiss, and he was smiling. After few days, my friends told me that he is still with his ex-girlfriend. That’s why he was acting weird. Again, we didn’t talk to each other, for a month, and now HE is texting me, not me. I don’t know, what he is doing? He wants to be with me or with her? He can’t make a decision? He wants to be with me and her at the same time? What should I do?!

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Derek (@hubbify77x) : March 25th, 2012
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@Andrea15
Andrea, It sounds like, in my humble opinion, that your cancerian is experiencing multiple heartaches.  Looking at the scenario that you have said it sounds very UNFAIR to you, and this is coming from an outsider looking in.  This guy of interest is still hurting from different aspects of his former relationship and they still see each other so who KNOWS what they are doing.  Clearly though he is unsatisfied with emotional or whatever needs and this is where you come into play.  Maybe a part of him wants to move to you because you are new and exciting and relatively safe, because let’s face it his ex is predictable (a good trait for a cancer) but also hurtful he knows what to expect and probably wants things to be as they were at one time.  I believe being with this man for you will come along with a lot of unnecessary heartache (because he is still hurting and probably pining over his ex).  I can tell you from my own personal experience the “acting wierd” characteristic screams he is uncomfortable.  If you are really interested in this man approach with extreme caution know where he stands exactly, for example ask him if he could WOULD he go back to his ex? Even if they are just friends… do he and his ex hangout every week/weekend? If he had a choice between you and his ex if he knew both of you at the exact same time and had the opportunity to go out with either one of you who would he choose and why? I wish you the best of luck and I hope you have found this helpful.
-Derek

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Andrea15 (@Andrea15) : March 26th, 2012
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@hubbify77x
Derek, what you say is helpful. Thank you so much for the advice and for the response. God Bless You!

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Naomi (@Naomi110493) : April 25th, 2012
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….i am currently in a scorpio/cancer dilemma. he is my best friend and we have grown strong over the past year…..im a senior in high school and he is a junior…..he is sweet kind caring (demanding but i love it) but he is a lady’s man and he is thinking of settling down…..that was my chance but its slimming as he told me about a girl he is talking to, he really likes her…..as soon as i found outi broke in to tears…..now this may seem like an average high school crush it isnt, i know i have my whole life ahead and i have a job, a car, good grades and ready to become a greater young woman that i am, but i want him in my future…..he is beyond his years in maturity and we fit together so perfectly………..it is hard to tell a dear friend “I have grown with you by my side, and i want to stay there for as long as time permits. I do TRULY love you will all my soul and its scary to see you with other girls, and it hurts me that your loney so much…..I have been by your side for a good minute and i dont want to be that ‘friend’. I want to be more”………………he told me about the girl just last night….i got no sleep….saw him first thing this morning, burst into tears……. now im on here checking on if we even have a chance and it looks like we do……hopefully….

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ad62762 (@ad62762) : July 8th, 2012
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@Naomi110493
Aw, I’m kinda in the same dilemma as you too! I’m a Scorpio girl, and I have a Cancer guy friend. We got closer over the years, and he’s just like the description says. He jokes around a lot and is a ladies’ man. But I’ve seen his compassionate and sweet side too. (Not too much though) He’s gone out with a lot of girls and always looks to me for advice. It hurts every time, but I want to see him happy. I feel so normal and comfortable hanging out around him. Once, he looked up some Cancer-Scorpio compatibility sites and when he saw that it said we would make the perfect couple, he laughed it off and called it ‘weird’, and that he would like to stay as friends. This seriously hurt me. But i kaughed it off too. It broke my heart and I cried a lot. Now, still, I hope that he realizes my feelings soon, or I’ll have to make a move. 

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rebecca (@rebhmm) : August 3rd, 2012
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Its interesting that so many Scorpio women were friends with their Cancer men first.  Me too! I’m a Scorpio woman and have recently married a Cancer man.  We were friends for five years, while I was with a wishy-washy Pisces who loved other women’s attention.  Cancer was my shoulder to cry on. I totally just saw him as a drinking buddy, a brother for life.  Then I finally got the guts to leave the Pisces and I looked at the Cancer.  Wow!  What a great guy he is, I thought.  Always there, so compassionate.  I knew Cancer had always had feelings for me and I gave him a pitty kiss.  Then eventually I developed real feelings.  I knew he was such  kind, tender soul.  We started hooking up.   We have the best relationship.  It’s been 5 years together now.  We’ve been married for a few months. We rarely argue.  He takes my occaisional anger, and comes back with kindness.  Though I don’t want to hurt him so I rarely show any anger.   I want to protect his feelings and he goes out of his way to make sure I’m happy.  We truly care for one another.  So funny now to think he was once my friend. Now he’s my husband! I love him so much and I’m excited to make a loving home with him for the rest of our lives.  HOORAY FOR CANCER/ SCORPIO MATCHES! 

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luis (@Crab-luis) : August 16th, 2012
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So I got a couple of questions and I would like to see what you guys have to say.
First off my bday is July 1st I am 22 currentlyattending college. I never really believed in the horoscopes until I stumbled upon a book that described me to a t and I was shocked scared and learned things about myself that I can control. I have never been in a real long relationship it’s been random hook ups with girls I knew well, something like friends with benefits; once someone got attached I wold cut it off. Another thing that has had me just on hook ups has been the fact that im busy with school, work, serious familyfinancial issues and I am in a fraternity. 
So my real issue here is that I have strong feelings for a girl I met about 3.5 years in a college class, she happens to be a Scorpio. We met because she was late t class and the room was full so she was going to sit on the floor and I gave up my seat for her; like any gentlemen would. Then I saw her in my other class too, so I had to sit next to her and get to know her. She cmpletely blew me off because I was in the fraternity whch she had had a bad experience in before I was a member.So I didn’t quit I studied with her and sat next to her, just became ok friends since she couldn’t trust me for being In a fraternity. So I was told by a close friend whom we both happened to know that she just saw me as a friend tostudy with, and it was when I decided to back off. 
We had another class together and she approached meand became my lab partner, this time we got together a lot better and spent more time together. Then one day we go out to eat after a long day of studying for a test, and we felt so comfortable about everything and this is when she told me that she had a different perception about me and that she was glad she came to just eat with me.So I was really happy after this I thought this could go somewhere. However school and work broke us appart from hanging out more until this summer. 
So Ifinally got some time and I asked her out on a date took her to the movies we enjoyed each others company and spent a long time talking again. Then we went out to dinner and then a drive Ina few days after, and that night she asked me if I was doing anything the ollowing day and we aggreed to go out to the beach together but it didn’t happen because we both got preoccupied. Later that night we go out to a bar since she texted me that she wanted to hang out and get a drink. Man this night was so relaxing and I felt like I had to get my first kiss with her but I keep reminding myself that I don’t want to make the move at the wrong time because I really do like her.
What I did do that night is ask her what she thought about me when we met and what she thinks of me now,and man what I got was crazy. She said she thought I was an asshole like the ther bros that she had met and that I was just going totry to get in her pants. Then she said that she is thankful she got to know me and that she wouldn’t be spending time with me ifshe still felt the way she did when she met me.
We have set a couple of planned dates for the following weeks of summer and I am wondering if I should make my move on the next date? Should I Let her know about my feelings for her? Should I try to go for more than a kiss and then ask her what happens next? I would really like to have a long relationship with her and not mess anything up; I want the first kissand the first sexual experience to be one she never forgets and never regrets. Ladies and gents let me know what you think!!
And I must add that when Iattended her graduation she was stoked to see me and had me meet her family; and boy was I nervous like I had never been before and this was when we weren’t dating seriously yet. Sorry about grammatical mistakes writing on an iPad sucks.

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Lillian (@Scorpiette) : August 23rd, 2012
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Hi, everyone!
I am a Scorpio woman in love with a Cancer man.  This Cancer man is my ex from back in the day (way back, high school).  We recently reconnected, and I sensed that he is still into me.  I know I still love him despite having moved on in my life, married w/a family.  He’s single, no significant other (so he says).  I know in my very core that this man is my soulmate, but I don’t know how to convince him of that.  He is no longer communicating with me.  He will respond to the occassional text, but never responds to emails nor does he initiate communication.  I honestly got the feeling from him when we were in contact that he had feelings for me still.  I believe my Scorpio intensity may have scared him off.  What can I do to at least get him to talk to me again without scaring him off?  I feel as if he’s retreated into that protective Cancer shell and won’t come out again.  My feelings for this man are so strong I am willing to upend my entire life just for the opportunity for a relationship with him again.  I hurt him before and he is probably wary of me given that and my current circumstances.  Any thoughts?

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Philline Hayes (@mrsstrawberry) : September 6th, 2012
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Hello Everyone
I am married to a cancer man he is my high school crush I love him unconditionally he spoils me to death we I first meant my husband we went to the same high school but at that time I couldnt stand him cause he was a player but it stop the feelings I felt for him so one day he ask me to be his girl and I said NO and he said you will be my wife I laughed at him like he was crazy almost 20yrs later he found me well it was our High School reunion when he step to me and ask me do I remember him I didnt but when he said his name the feelings I felt back than in High School started to return we talked for hours it was like we was some place else instead of our reunion I had kids from a previous marriage but he fit right on in a year later we married I knew he was the one for me he loves me unconditionally 

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magdalina (@madge) : November 8th, 2012
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I find cancer men to be way too timid for me. I don’t like a guy who gets scared and gives up after the first round. Cancer men never give me anything to work with.  I also think that because I can see how the little gears in their heads click away, I know what they will do even before they do it, I find this boring. I even go out of my way to make him miserable – just because I know how to.  How dare he be so predictable and expect me to tippy toe around his huge ego? I have yet to find a Cancer man who can keep me interested for more than 5 mins.
So far when it came to sex and a true meeting of minds it was a Taurus who did it right all the time every time – it was a Pisces that could capture and keep my emotions and a Leo that could keep up with me. Cancer may be very good for some Scorpios but they are not for me.
I find a guy who comes after me even though I’ve all but murdered him completely irresistible; he earns a definite wow from me. I love nothing more than a man I can admire. I have never found a cancer I can admire  they are all to scared of me lol. Who can admire a guy who acts like a girl when he gets hurt? If I wanted to deal with that I’d rather gladly be a lesbian. So…  No thanks, I like my men to stand up to me and tell me I’m full of sh!t  Because let’s face it sometimes I am.  If he can tell me I am full of sh!t and kiss me the next second just adds to his appeal. I am married and completely devoted to that guy.
I think it is the scorpio/dragon combo that makes cancer men tiresome. Who wants a guy who prefers to stay home and be moody when you can go out and have fun without him? Then why be with him? How dare he use his mood swings to control you? Everyone knows Scorpios are seriously connected to the moods of the ones they love most – I am a little more evolved than that and refuse any kind of emotional manipulation, love or no love. I am of the opinion if he loves me he would stop being moody and crabby because he knows how deeply I get hurt when my baby hurts.  This just results in 2 people who gingerly avoid each other in self defence. Seriously,  I would find a Sagittarius to have a play date with until Mr Right comes along before I’d mess with a cancer man,  life is way too short.

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Kristin (@KristinBby92) : December 27th, 2012
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Well here is my story. i’m a scorpio woman and my cancer man is now my baby daddy. How we met was pretty crazy, we met thru a mutual friend, (his homboi) and we hit it off the first night, had a one night stand or that’s wat was supost to happen, but um are chemistry was out of this world like i didn even kno this dude and i fell for him that same night and so did he with I. We had sex and the next day i went home and couldn’t stop thinkin about him, all i could think was he wasnt gonna call me cuz i’ve already gave him wat he wanted ya kno but he did, i was so suprised. We started hangin out did alot of partyin together but we started hvin serious problems. If ya’ll don’t kno a scorpion and cancer pair drinkin alcohol and doin drugs together is bad cuz we would physically get into it. He was hands down the craziest dude ive ever been with and alot of ppl feared him. It didn’t start gettin bad untill later on cause at first we just would hook up and party but i was crushin bad on him and he played it off like he wasn’t interested..somethin about him i was automatically pulled and attracted too. He was exciting to me at first but deff had a temper. So months go on we get serious and he starts gettin really possesive, flippin on any guy who looked my way, you kno, typical jealousy shit. And then came trust issues cuz i did have sum “guy friends” he didnt accept that, he said i could have him and only him and not them..so like a idiot i pretty much obeyed every thing he said cuz i was blindly in love. He got too comfortable with me..and i would go and seek more attention cuz he would just bring me to his house just to have me there and expect me to clean up his messes like im a house slave or some shit. I started to catch on how he treated me wasn’t right and a few times I tried movin on and gettin wit another guy but he just would not allow it and i still loved him so i tried it again and again and again..he got me pregnant and he said so no other guy could have me i was all his. Ok so he def started get psycho on me and i just started to get scared cuz i forgot to mention he dragged me a few times cuz he thought i had cheated when another male had txted my cell. And bein physically abused wasn’t really the hard part for me, it was the emotional part. I was torn cuz i loved him so deeply that i let him control me & my actions..but i started to have that love/hate. So what i’ve learned if you don’t have the whole cancer’s trust and he bipolar like mine then you might as well forget it, pick up the pieces, and move on. Yea its really hard but when shit gets that extreme, its emotionally exhausting and nothing hurts worse than bein tooken advantage of. He’s in jail right now for being stupid, went in a month before i had my daughter and now im a single parent..He claims he’s gettn out soon but in my heart i feel i need to move on. I got my eyes on an Aries, i think thats truly my match i looked us up today and that kind of relationship sounds exactly what I need! I don’t need to be put down or neglected. I have too much love to give and so much more. Cancer man (baby daddy) just wanted control over everything, wouldn’t let me breathe or let me leave when it needed to be over with so im praying my next relaionship won’t be so heartbreaking cuz this has ripped me apart but us Scorpio women are strong as hell!

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Shelby (@Shel-bel) : June 29th, 2013
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I was with a cancer boy all through my high school years. I thought he was the love of my life that we were going to be together for ages as he was the most loving and caring guy I have ever met. We broke up before we left school. It was another year before I met a Aries boy he was someone every different and exciting. We were together for 7 years had a bit of a fall out as our relationship just came to a holt and nothing seemed to be getting better. We separated for a year in the meantime I grew a strong connection to my very good close friend that is also a cancer by the way who made me feel great about myself again I just can’t seem to not have him in my life he is a great person. I also kinda dated a taurus which the attraction was also there but I ended up regretting it as he turned out to be a awful person he just seemed like he was hiding who he really was but I ended up seeing it thank god before it was to late.. 
I’m now back with the Aries guy we are giving it another shot and seeing how it goes. I do still think of the cancer guy I was with in high school and I dont regret any time I spent with him he showed me how a guy should treat you and care for you. He was the most wonderful guy. I just really hope it can work for me and the Aries even though at times we have our difference in views and plans I just wanted to know if there was any other scorpios out there that are with a Aries and it has been a good ending as everything I read about our star signs together isn’t that great : (

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Bronka (@wonka) : July 9th, 2013
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Im cancer and just dated a scorpio women and she was so in love with me and so possesive and so jealous that i couldnt do it anymore but she was amazing and everything. But it was too hard for me, everytime I talk to a girl or anything she would get jealous, or if she calls me and i dont answer straight away she thinks im avoiding her and starts to be sad it was so annoying, but she was a very strong girl she had a very good job for her age and was very hardworking. but you know if it doesnt work, its not meant to be.
 
 

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(@) : August 6th, 2013
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I don’t know if anyone still keeps up with this chat but I’m seeking some kind of insight. I have been or I was dating a male Cancer for the better part of a month (maybe longer) and its the same basic synopsis as most Scorpio-Cancer relationships go: friends first, great conversations, I moved away then moved back, still friends, I caught feelings and told him, he reciprocate those feelings in an intense and loving way for the first three weeks. It was bliss. He was/is exactly what I want in a man. Someone who spends the entire day near or around me and calls and talks to me on the phone until we fall asleep. i admit to being a bit skeptical about us an I base that on a past wreckage of my own with a former Cancer boyfriend who I was with for ten years, have two kids with and just up and abandoned me-twice. i keep my guards high, I get defensive yea but I trust the new guy. Something just tells me this is real. and what was even better about it was the fact that he says all the things I’m feeling almost as if he knows that I just can’t bring myself to open up like that again. But I’ve been getting better. And I may not be quite up to his level just yet, all the feelings are definitely there. I feel he is absolutely perfect for me and I really want to tell him or even better yet, show him. Now comes the problem. He very abruptly started ignoring me for a few days. That is a big no-no. I don’t know if it’s a Scorpio thing or an abandonment thing but when you don’t show me attention for more than a day (2 max) I start to freak out inside. And I realize this is my personal issue and I am trying my best to correct it I even tried talkin to him about and, of course, sweet and amazing as he is he said he would not give up on me and he was going to try and do his part to make our relationship better. That and his amazing hug was all I needed to feel safe, calm and absolutely sure about him, about us all over again. About four days later we were supposed to spend the day together on a Saturday, I call him Friday night to confirm plan, no response. Saturday morning, nothing. By Saturday evening I was pretty hurt, beig stood up and ignored. So I wrote him a 3000-word text expressing my feelings for him to him in the hopes that he would care or at least talk to me. Nothing. It has been four days and I have not seen or heard from him but his friends all tell me he’s callEd out of work twice and he was having a good time this weekend. They even saw him yesterday and say he’s cool. so I am no longer worried about his physical well-being at this point. I am more hurt and worried about what I did to push him so far away from me? I just don’t understand what I did. Maybe I was too needy and I wish I could fix it but right now he won’t even call me or answer a text from me. And being that I was with a cancer, I know how stubborn and moody they can be and I know better than to press on him when on him when he clearly does not want to see or hear from me. I am just so hurt and I miss him you know.  I mean maybe he caught feelings for someone else or maybe he made a mistake about his feelings for me but I just miss being able to talk to him. It’s been so long since I have found someone I feel I can trust and now I am starting to feel like it was stupid for me to even think for a minute that I was ready for a relationship or to trust someone new. Let alone a cancer. Sorry if that stung anyone. I just don’t know what to do. Something is telling me to call him and leave him a message or something but another part of me is telling me to just leave him alone? What should I do?

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Anumi Gayathri (@anumi.gayathri) : November 17th, 2013
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Hi Friends.. i am in a kinda complex mind set now.. my friend a cancerian.. i love him extremely.. it was magical friendship between us.. we met thru chat during 2000 inbetween something happened and he stopped responding to me.. he got married which he did’nt even tell me.. i was heart broken.. this incident changed my view about love life in all possible way in a negative way.. but i continued to be in contact with him.. he used to reply my mails  but i felt he does it without much interest .. now last week he called me and he said he was worried too much coz he didnt hear from me.. the call went on for almost n hour .. he told me repeatedly that i am his true friend etc .. he avoids sharing his kids and wife pics with mei have asked him many times.. when i spoke to him i could feel the chemistry between us.. my love for him has never gone down and will never go down in future too.. i wont be able to forget him.. i want him in my life.. but since he is married n have 2 kids its just impossible.. all these 13 yrs not even a single day passed without missing him.. no guy would replace him.. i end up comparing him with any guy i come across.. i dont know what to do.. my mind is not at peace :( i have a good career that way i am happy but when it comes to marraige i dont want to get married to another person for name sake.. ppl are forcing me to get married since i am getting old.. i am helpless at this point.. :(

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Anumi Gayathri (@anumi.gayathri) : November 17th, 2013
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i am at total peace when i talk to this guy.. no one else makes me feel secured and at peace.. i know for sure its love.. a great combination of friendship respect admiration attraction.. it has never come down even a little all these years even though we both were not together.. i could connect to him so well even we are both miles apart.. its tragic that he is married now and it is not possible to have a relationship… life long its going to be painful that i couldn’t be with him.. it hurts to the core .. :((

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Ashlee (@scorpio7) : January 1st, 2014
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I am a Scorpio lady and I think I’m about to fall for a cancer man…this makes me confident about my decision :) pray everything works out for me *fingers crossed* !

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mazu (@mazu) : January 20th, 2014
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mm iam acancer man in love with scorpion woman and she is my
fiance now.we are so in love we can kiss for hours without getting
bored and sex with emotions is unforgetABLE.we talk for hours on
the phone and she loves to hear the way i describe our love and my
feelings and how i love her.she has adirty humour that makes me
laugh so hard .she is so beautiful and has the most beautiful green
eyes i have ever saw but she can not look in to my eyes because my
eyes are full of passion while her eyes are penetrating and intense
and i alaways win the one mintue stare :)..i donnot find my self
atypical cancer and i knew she is stronger than me emotinally ..
most of time it is an amazing match and it is just because i
can be thinkful and accept her Stubbornness ..she always want to do
what is in her mind even it  is wrong .i know she loves to control and i
can go with that but i have my limits ..the worst part if she is angry and  
even it is alittle thing she can make it horrible because of her sharp
tongue ..i wish she can think before she talks and be compassionate because it hurts !!
 

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(@) : May 26th, 2014
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Well this is interesting, i’m pretty sceptical about the whole “astrology” but.. what the heck. So i’m a scorpio female who is currently talking to a cancerian guy, who could be a potential contender ;) lol anywho i’ve just recently gotten out of a relationship with my now ex fiance who is a capricorn, we were engaged for 6 months (incase you’se were wondering). Anywho that’s over and done with, so i’m talking to this incredibly cute cancer guy who can charm the shits out of you, although i’m a little concerned he might be a little bit of a sleeze ball/womanizer because he always talking about woman in an explicit way, well kind of. He usually makes silly jokes about how hot my friends are etc…at least I think they’re jokes. I don’t know if i’m just jumping to conclusions or being extremely sensitve not like i’m in a relationship with the guy. Even with saying that he seems to be a little on the old fashioned side, however we are on different levels he wants a serious relationship “soon” I know how weird a guy who talks about woman in an explicit way wants a “serious relationship”. So I on the other hand I am still a little shakend with what happened with my previous relationship and i’m not looking for anything serious, at least NOT FOR A WHILE, my point is that i’m worried I might lose him if i’m honest with him and tell him that I don’t wanna rush into anything? any suggestions on what I should do? or if anyone is a cancer and knows how I should go about this without pushing him away, because eventually I do want a serious relationship just not right now.

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Marcela (@marce1234) : September 3rd, 2014
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Hi
I’m a scorpio woman falling for this cancerían guy. We have been seeing eachother for about three months. The chemistry between us it’s great. When I’m with him I can’t stop looking at him because he warmth my heart. I can’t explain it. I have tried to stay away from him, but he always finds a way to get to me. Right now I don’t know what to do. He only wants an open relationship and I know he cares and likes me a lot. He does confuse me, I know that he can give a lot of love but he just doesn’t want to. Something just stops him from getting closer to me, not showing his feelings. It’s hard for a scorpio woman who by nature is passionate and loving. I am not sure he will ever be completely mine and this makes me anxious, vulnerable and sad. What can I do? Feeling overwhelmed

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