Comments on: Cancer Man and Virgo Woman Love Compatibility http://www.ask-oracle.com ~*~ You Are Truly Loved ~*~ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 13:02:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: mimihajara http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/cancer-man-virgo-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-53146 mimihajara Sat, 14 Jan 2012 03:43:53 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1165#comment-53146 Hello all, Virgo and Cancer relationship are hard as we Virgo women have to understand and be patient with a lot. I have read stories of how most cancer men turn to drugs to handle the stress and emotions of the Virgo and cancer union, well my story was different, my cancer man self-medicated on women. Before I found out that my cancer man was carrying on behind my back our relationship was a bitter sweet union, we started so well I felt that I had found my soul mate and then things went bad and we started to get caught up with weekly breakups every time one of us felt emotionally hurt by the other, this resulted in my cancer man cutting me off emotionally and I was left seeking for the emotional comfort from another man although all I wanted was my cancer man. I confessed to this and it created a bigger wedge between us, more break ups and more arguments. When I found out he had cheated on me I wondered why he had even made the step for me to be his girlfriend, I wondered why he had made me feel so comfortable with him when all he wanted to do was cheat. I just could not understand why such a connection could come with so much dishonesty and hurt, he was with this other woman before I had been cut off emtionaly I was deeply hurt by his infidelity and cut ties with him 5 months later he was contacting me through email, not apologetic but just hoping that I did not hate him and being the Virgo that I am I was forgiving. We remained friends for a while until it became romantic again, I could not deal with having to discover another woman again even though we were not serious it was not something I wanted to do so we cut ties again, I started a new relationship with another man who was an Aquarius (bad move) we lasted three months and within those three months I could not forget my cancer man, no matter how hard I tried there was no right amount of romance, care or conversation from the Aquarius that could compete with my Cancer man, cancer and Virgo are a combination that cannot be beaten. I later decided that this relationship was not right for me and I could feel that my cancer man was missing me as much as I was missing him, I did something very brave of me and I made the move to unite with my cancer man, it’s the best decision I have made in a long time, this time we are approaching the relationship with honesty, patience and understanding because neither one of us had bothered to do so before as we were both looking out for our own feelings. My cancer man has his flaws but he also understands his flaws and taken steps to understand himself with my support, I feel like I am taking down a chunk of that concrete wall he has built up every day that we are together and he has become more open with his feelings as he understands that I do not judge him for having them, I love that he can cry and admit it, I love that now when he feels emotional that the shell that he retrieves into is me because I have learnt to be supportive to his emotions. As irritating as it might be for me to be the shoulder to lean on, I rather be with my cancer man than any other. We found love, lost it more times than we can count but with each loss came great lessons of forgiveness and a pure understanding of us. My Virgo Cancer love story is still on-going I am a tough cookie to crack as he says but he managed fine because he has found my soft centre. We have our day, we work through them and the results are showing. The happy virgo ;-) Hello all, Virgo and Cancer relationship are hard as we Virgo women have to understand and be patient with a lot. I have read stories of how most cancer men turn to drugs to handle the stress and emotions of the Virgo and cancer union, well my story was different, my cancer man self-medicated on women. Before I found out that my cancer man was carrying on behind my back our relationship was a bitter sweet union, we started so well I felt that I had found my soul mate and then things went bad and we started to get caught up with weekly breakups every time one of us felt emotionally hurt by the other, this resulted in my cancer man cutting me off emotionally and I was left seeking for the emotional comfort from another man although all I wanted was my cancer man. I confessed to this and it created a bigger wedge between us, more break ups and more arguments.
When I found out he had cheated on me I wondered why he had even made the step for me to be his girlfriend, I wondered why he had made me feel so comfortable with him when all he wanted to do was cheat. I just could not understand why such a connection could come with so much dishonesty and hurt, he was with this other woman before I had been cut off emtionaly I was deeply hurt by his infidelity and cut ties with him 5 months later he was contacting me through email, not apologetic but just hoping that I did not hate him and being the Virgo that I am I was forgiving. We remained friends for a while until it became romantic again, I could not deal with having to discover another woman again even though we were not serious it was not something I wanted to do so we cut ties again, I started a new relationship with another man who was an Aquarius (bad move) we lasted three months and within those three months I could not forget my cancer man, no matter how hard I tried there was no right amount of romance, care or conversation from the Aquarius that could compete with my Cancer man, cancer and Virgo are a combination that cannot be beaten. I later decided that this relationship was not right for me and I could feel that my cancer man was missing me as much as I was missing him, I did something very brave of me and I made the move to unite with my cancer man, it’s the best decision I have made in a long time, this time we are approaching the relationship with honesty, patience and understanding because neither one of us had bothered to do so before as we were both looking out for our own feelings. My cancer man has his flaws but he also understands his flaws and taken steps to understand himself with my support, I feel like I am taking down a chunk of that concrete wall he has built up every day that we are together and he has become more open with his feelings as he understands that I do not judge him for having them, I love that he can cry and admit it, I love that now when he feels emotional that the shell that he retrieves into is me because I have learnt to be supportive to his emotions. As irritating as it might be for me to be the shoulder to lean on, I rather be with my cancer man than any other. We found love, lost it more times than we can count but with each loss came great lessons of forgiveness and a pure understanding of us. My Virgo Cancer love story is still on-going I am a tough cookie to crack as he says but he managed fine because he has found my soft centre. We have our day, we work through them and the results are showing.
The happy virgo ;-)

]]> By: Teela Franklin http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/cancer-man-virgo-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-52393 Teela Franklin Wed, 09 Nov 2011 01:59:24 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1165#comment-52393 I have to agree with everyone about this article being amazingly accurate. I'm a Virgo female and my boyfriend is a Cancer male; and we've only known each other a few months but it feel as if we've known each other for a very long time... And during this short period of time we've been able to share some of our most deepest and darkest secrets that none of our family or close friends know. He has had a rough time with females in the past but ever since we've been together he's admitted that he haven't felt safe with any of the other women in his past. But with me he feel completely safe and very open with me. I also feel the same way; he is the first Cancer that I have ever been with and the connection is awesome. I honestly can't see myself being with anyone else and I'm a strong believer in love at first sight. I have to agree with everyone about this article being amazingly accurate. I’m a Virgo female and my boyfriend is a Cancer male; and we’ve only known each other a few months but it feel as if we’ve known each other for a very long time…

And during this short period of time we’ve been able to share some of our most deepest and darkest secrets that none of our family or close friends know. He has had a rough time with females in the past but ever since we’ve been together he’s admitted that he haven’t felt safe with any of the other women in his past. But with me he feel completely safe and very open with me.

I also feel the same way; he is the first Cancer that I have ever been with and the connection is awesome. I honestly can’t see myself being with anyone else and I’m a strong believer in love at first sight.

]]> By: sandra http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/cancer-man-virgo-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-52304 sandra Thu, 03 Nov 2011 04:13:19 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1165#comment-52304 Actually, we broke up many times...but all these brake-ups last maximum few days or few weeks. And I tried very hard to cut him off for few reasons. I think I am a very hard person even with myself, as I am perfectionist. He seems quite vulnerable and helpless as he really cares about what people will think. In Our case, we are quite conservative and he especially doesn't want any criticism from anyone. This is the major reason, and he is very impressed by my strength. Actually, we broke up many times…but all these brake-ups last maximum few days or few weeks. And I tried very hard to cut him off for few reasons. I think I am a very hard person even with myself, as I am perfectionist. He seems quite vulnerable and helpless as he really cares about what people will think. In Our case, we are quite conservative and he especially doesn’t want any criticism from anyone. This is the major reason, and he is very impressed by my strength.

]]> By: Abigail http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/cancer-man-virgo-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-52302 Abigail Wed, 02 Nov 2011 20:53:24 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1165#comment-52302 <a href='http://www.ask-oracle.com/members/scott/' rel="nofollow">@scott</a> and Sandra, Thank you so much for responding! I am starting to understand where he's coming from, and don't get me wrong I have been praying like crazy about us, mostly for patience, and to heal his hurts.But I see that there is a depth of hurt I can't understand, or comprehend, he will repeat back things I said in the past, that cut him deep, even with all the time past, and forgiving me. Sandra, WOw we can be the same person, you can withhold really? I can't and he knows this, that's what hurts the most. It's crazy because I also met him April 2009. I've never fallen so hard for a man! and I just promised not to break up with him again, he doesn't believe and is reserved. Scott, I want your specific opinion about the sex thing, is he doing this to punish me or because he wants to stop loving me? he told me 2 weeks ago that he doesn't know if he could still love me, does that makes sense to you? Sandra has he ever told you that he doesn't want to love you? is this to avoid getting hurt again? and I also found out that he was still giving money to his ex!! Yes I think I'm losing my mind with this guy, I've never cried so much for a man in my life!!!! @scott and Sandra, Thank you so much for responding! I am starting to understand where he’s coming from, and don’t get me wrong I have been praying like crazy about us, mostly for patience, and to heal his hurts.But I see that there is a depth of hurt I can’t understand, or comprehend, he will repeat back things I said in the past, that cut him deep, even with all the time past, and forgiving me.

Sandra, WOw we can be the same person, you can withhold really? I can’t and he knows this, that’s what hurts the most. It’s crazy because I also met him April 2009. I’ve never fallen so hard for a man! and I just promised not to break up with him again, he doesn’t believe and is reserved. Scott, I want your specific opinion about the sex thing, is he doing this to punish me or because he wants to stop loving me? he told me 2 weeks ago that he doesn’t know if he could still love me, does that makes sense to you? Sandra has he ever told you that he doesn’t want to love you? is this to avoid getting hurt again? and I also found out that he was still giving money to his ex!! Yes I think I’m losing my mind with this guy, I’ve never cried so much for a man in my life!!!!

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