Cancer Woman and Aquarius Man Love Compatibility

When a Cancer woman and an Aquarius man decide to go for a relationship, it maybe some what a puzzle for them and more of a challenge as the blend of Water and Air is not easy to be proportionate. But still there is always a charisma and power that draws them nearer to each other with every meet.

An Aquarius man is a very gentle and docile person but his surface calmness is not the only fact about him, deep inside he is very outgoing and fervent man. He never runs from controversies and unexpected situations, in fact he leads them sometimes. He craves for affection but feels being trapped and suffocated when his partner is too possessive or too caring. His hopes are never dampened by cynicism and he loves to socialize. An Aquarius man in a relationship with a Cancer woman is just a perfectly loving friend who gives her complete freedom and expects his not to be barred either.

A Cancer woman with a lovely lunar laughter and delicate sense of humor is definitely worth being appreciated. She is quite careful with money, and as a result she is neither extravagant nor penny-pinching in money matters. At times the Cancer lady may sound bossy but her real concern is to protect and care her dear ones from any harm. She is very intelligent and independent woman with sensitive feelings. She enjoys the habit of saving every trivial thing especially the ones with which she has a sentimental value attached. When in a relationship, the Cancer woman fiercely guards her lover and though she is not jealous, but, she does not like sharing her love either.

The Aquarius man primarily attracted to the Cancer woman because of her sense of humor and constant change in her routine life. She usually proves to be a happy companion for an Aquarius male. She teaches him all the synonyms of friendship and beyond it to a deeper relationship of love. At times the changing moods of Cancer female can baffle him but gradually he learns to deal with it, because he believes in adaptability and flexibility. At times she might think that he is quite weird but gradually she is able to manage and rather enjoy his odd behavior. She must try to curb her urge of compelling him to spend time at home because if she becomes too protective about him, he can get used to it and in the process she might have to sacrifice some of her dreams to keep the relationship alive.

The Aquarius man is a companion who gives complete freedom to his Cancer woman and always provides her with a mate who is ready to hear and help. His expression of love is friendlier rather then being romantic and he may take the relationship in an easy going way. He might also feel offended if he is questioned about too many things but certainly appreciate the flattering attention he receives from his Cancer lady. Though both of them do not want any kind of interference in their lives, but still he tries to pry into the secrets of his Cancer woman, making her feel uneasy and disturbed. He throws occasional surprises at her so that their relationship can remain interesting. The best way to reduce the differences is to participate in things which interest the other partner and this is how they both can remain actually happy with each others.

As the relationship of the Cancer woman and Aquarius man gets inexplicably interwoven, they can read the unspoken messages through each others’ eyes making their togetherness miraculously beautiful. She holds him with her beckoning secrets of her eyes and he binds her strongly through the indefinable mystery of his existence. Their dreams are tinting with lavender and shimmering silver that makes their realities even more vibrant and colorful when they are together. He becomes more stable and responsible with time while she learns to be free and more expressive. Their love has a enchanted aura that brings out all the delicacies of the Cancer woman and binds him so strongly with silky threads of affection that he just leaves all his mysterious odds and falls in the never ending eternity of oneness with his Cancer lady.

The sexual attraction between the Aquarius man and Cancer woman is quite evident and a powerful chemistry draws them from the beginning. They can take it to the next level if they can blend their positive and negative qualities as he is ultra-masculine and she is ultra-feminine. She can successfully bring forward the quality of tenderness in the Aquarius man, and this truly surprises him. He was not aware of his soft core until he is mated with lovely Cancer lady. The wild side of her sexuality is aroused when she experiences his airy touches. There is something very titillating, very arousing, about feeling when he makes love to his Cancer princess, totally owning her for a few moments. She fully enjoys it and feels so terribly naughty, and so terribly excited. She often fights the desire, the intensely lustful urge, to give her body entirely over to her arousal, yet at the same time allow herself to fully experience the mounting, growing pressure to do just that. Especially when it comes to their approach to sex, they enjoy their love making immensely as it brings them peace and contentment. No wonder their sexual union is a special experience which is unique and unpredictable, potentially so deep and fulfilling, especially when they are in harmony.

The relationship of Cancer woman and Aquarius man is usually not a cake walk, in fact it is a rough road which needs to be constructed with immense compassion and devotion to make smooth. The older he grows, the more fixed his habits become and on the other hand, as she grows, the more wistful she often becomes about realizing her dreams. But in beginning, she wants him to display sympathy towards her whenever she feels lonely instead of irritating her with mindless questions. He also expects her to be more liberal with his freedom. A lot of respect is earned in this relation when she understands that the Aquarius man needs to socialize and he understands Cancer woman’s habit to have secrets. If they can apply this rule, they can stay happy with each other.

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SuperloverE (@SuperloverE) : September 23rd, 2009

I think that this Zodiac reading was very decriptive and helpful in helping me understand my partner. Thank you and i love this site

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LaLa (@LaLa) : September 23rd, 2009

I love this report!! I’m so tired of reading NEGATiVE things about a Cancer/Aquarius relationship..so finally,here goes a POSiTiVE one,more like the love that me and my Aquarius husband share! Thanks

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blessed by god (@blessed by god) : November 5th, 2009

Thank you finally, someone has written things with a positive heart. This is really helpful to me. Now i understand that i should focus on ‘Socializing’. :) thank you guys!!!

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ck all the way (@ck all the way) : August 6th, 2010

it helped but it cant save my marriage

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Caitlin (@Caitlin) : August 14th, 2010

Thank you!!! I am a Cancer woman and I met a wonderful Aquarian man through the internet. After corresponding for a couple of weeks we met for dinner a month ago, and the mutual chemistry was instantaneous. He told me he’d been starved for affection, and he is wonderfully attentive to me when we are together. I’ve been puzzled, confused and a little rattled, though, about why I never hear from him between dates. Now I know that it’s not something that should threaten me — he is acting on his needs for independence and freedom. I was going to make an “issue” of his disappearing act, but now I know that that’s the one sure way to drive him away. Thanks again!

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kelley (@kelley) : December 4th, 2010

I’m in a love affair with an aquarius man we have been seeing eachother for several years he is single and I’m singl but he is still so distant from me! Its so hard. I tole myself that I will give it a littl more time! I feel in my heart we are meant to be together,buti shows me differient! I hope the wait is for the good!

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cuddlycrab (@cuddlycrab) : December 24th, 2010

I was in a 10-yr relationship with an Aquarian male. It was a good one but not the best one; that’s with a virgo currently. I learned a lot from him but in the end his need for independence won out. We have an uneasy “friendship” now because our time together was very intense. But the social part of this description was more for my benefit than his. I wasn’t as social when we were together and it turned him off a bit. When I became more social and started hanging out with others more, he became more flexible in his time with me. He didn’t want my life to revolve around him. No regrets for the time I had with him. It made me who I am today.

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jasmien (@jasmien) : January 25th, 2011

Im a cancer female and ive been talking to an aquarius guy for about two years now. We are always bumping heads & we could go months without talking, but I really like him and I want us to work out. This really describes our friendship . I just pray we work out ! Good luck to all of you, its not easy but its possible!

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Jade (@Jade) : February 2nd, 2011

I’m in love with this sexy guy from Spanish class but he is always in one relationship after another. I have no idea how i can find a way to be his gf when he’s always in a relationship. This site actually helped me a bit, I’m so glad I am compatible with this hottie. XD

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klove (@klove) : February 20th, 2011

I know that I could spend the rest of my life with this aquarius dove bar, that`s what he likes. Umm, we`ve just had moments over the years. Like the time at his Mother`s house we were sitting staring at eachother through 100 white long stemmed roses. I just wanted to jump on top off him and make love right then and there buttt… us June cancer women are too much!! anyway this site helped explain alot. Stay tuned.. let ya know if we get married. My soul would be complete, he`s a beautiful person:) this love~

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Aqua (@Aqua) : February 24th, 2011

wow this sounds lovely, im a pisces but am more of an aquarius, shes a leo but more of a cancer. i make her so happy and when she’s happy, im happy, and i want her happy, :) we’re currently on a rough spot, i broke up with her but it didn’t feel right,i want to get back together so bad, because i learned alot from myself about why i broke up with her, she wantedto moved down to FL when i go to college and i didn’t want her to follow because she might regret it if we’re not together. i don’t want to put her through that, i suggested we get back together, but take it day by day slowly growing love, then come june july we see where we are, if i can handle long distnce relationship or not, she brought it up when we were not even a month together. i don’t wanna hurt her, i love her, danm love is weird. i’ve cried an called her at 4am and she’s gladly picked up. we do communicate with our eyes and i rather touch and use small words rather than a big siloqouy. it weird i hope we can reconnect and get back together.

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Cancer Princess (@Cancer Princess) : March 13th, 2011

Im a cancer woman, and got feelings for an aquarius man, this is the only website that could show a positive thing about our compatibility. and now i understand why it’s difficult to be with him, because we like each other, and every time we see each other is the best, but at same time we cant say what we feel for each other that easily, so we keep it as a friendship but sharing love at same time. he is such a gentleman and he is too special and that made me fall for him. of course, i dont tell him that, cuz im afraid of rejection, plus he is far from me now, working in another state, but i got hopes for him, and im waiting for him to come back for me, i dont know if its gonna be worth it, but i have a great amount of patience, and he got a wonderful cancer lady waiting for him to give happiness and love. i hope he realizes it soon, because there’s not any other man that makes me feel the way he does, and if he is so special for me, i am not letting him go. hope things work out with him! thanks for this website, i loved it! and i dont get tired of reading it cuz it motivates me to keep waiting and not give up easily.. :)

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Moon Maiden (@Moon Maiden) : April 3rd, 2011

I have been close friends for 13 years now with a water bearer who i love & cherish deeply. We recently discovered that we both had deeper feelings for eachother than what we were showing one another. I’m a cancer so hiding my real feelings is something that comes easy for me. But anyway, after we talked and revealed to eachother how we really felt we made love for the first time and it was like the description in this article. It was amazing! And the most fulfilling sexual experience I’ve ever had. He said he felt the same way! So, I’ve been looking up love compatability for us and I finally found this description and thought it was so accurate to us and so positive! I love it! Every other description I’ve read has been so negative towards a cancer and aquarius love match that I was starting to think that there was no hope for us to make this new part of our relationship work. So, thank you for the positive advice!

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MizzCancer (@MizzCancer) : April 7th, 2011

I started dating an aquarius man about 5 months ago. When it’s good, it’s good….But I can never put my finger on why every time I feel like we are getting closer, he starts to feel a little distant. It’s like he pulls away at the sight of having stronger feelings for me. I really want us to be compatible because I think he’s a wonderful guy, but it’s hard for me not to show my usual cancerian love for someone. When I love I’m used to be expressive, emotional and affectionate. How can I be in a relationship with someone who runs away from that? Hopefully this description is accurate, and he will start to get used to being more up front with his feelings, and less distant.

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Kaya Cancer (@Boots) : June 24th, 2011
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I’ve dated several Aquarius’s long term and then married one (and divorced). It is interesting that so many Cancer women have found these fellows to be distant. I have found the true opposite, very possessive, emotional and jealous types. While they are out socializing, and talking your ear off they want their Cancer at home or squarely seated in a chair not attracting the attention of others. There are plenty of great qualities about them but I suspect the distance is from a combination of insecurity and distraction. It’s an exercise of patience, they will pursue.

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Wasiu adewale (@Adewale) : August 23rd, 2011
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manisha (@jaiswal) : January 7th, 2012
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i felt very good knowing my love compatibility with an acquarian man…………. i was still confused that was it love or something else………..bt now i came to know about the problems in having an affair with him. i will very soon solve all these
 

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Brittany (@Temira2) : April 29th, 2012
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This is so true, whoever posted this, thank you so much for it. It gives me hope for my Aquarius boyfriend. 

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Jack (@AquariusRebel) : May 23rd, 2012
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I met a Cancer woman about 2 years ago and at first I never thought it would probably go anywhere. I was taken by her that first time I met her, so much that from time to time I would wonder how she was doing? That was different for me, because being an Aquarius man I’m used to people coming and going from my life without giving it much thought. Anyways, I finally got around this woman again almost 2 years later and I felt even more attraction towards her. Not too long after that I told her that I had feelings for her and we started hanging out for a few months. This article has helped me so much, because of course I ended up pushing this awesome Cancer beauty away by being too aggressive and wanting to know too much too fast at the start of our relationship. I was so mad at myself for not being more chill, because i always have been with other women. I was finally the one who got burnt for all the people i’d hurt in the past. I never thought I would end up being the submissive, needy person in the relationship, but when u meet the person who can bring all the good out of u with a smile, a simple kiss, or a stern look u just know that this person could be my everything. You’re lucky if u meet someone like that once in a lifetime honestly! It’s been a few months now and she has finally reached back out to me and it’s because I gave her time and space. I’ve never felt like how I do about this Cancer woman and it’s because I know she can bring a side out of me that no other woman ever could. I’m so wild and never follow a plan, I’m stubborn and bossy, and I’ve never grown up basically. It’s all different when she’s in my life though, because I want to be worthy of her love. She’s a typical Cancer woman and her kids and financial stability are everything to her. I’m a smart guy, but have never been able to stay grounded. She brings this ambition out of me that no one else could. She and I have amazing chemistry too!! Cancer women can really make an Aquarius man into a star!! She’s already got my heart, I just hope over time I’ll get hers!! Thanx for the advice and personal stories, this site is a God-send!

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~Vintage Princess~ (@Vintagesweetheart16) : June 8th, 2012
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This site gives me so much hope after reading so many articles about what a bad match Cancer and Aquarius are! Ok so I am crushing on an Aquarian guy and he most likely feels the same way, but, as any normal cancer I started feeling somewhat lonely when I didn’t have his company and found myself wondering why he wandered away. Now I know why, he needs his freedom. As for the problems that may occur, being social comes pretty easily to me but giving people emotional space is a bit difficult. I will just give him as much space and freedom as I can and hope all goes well. I really do hope it works out because he makes me feel so confident and beautiful which is all I ever wanted from a man. Wish this vintage girl luck!

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Sheryl (@sam67) : August 30th, 2012
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I’m a cancer woman dating an Aquarius man and it’s been the best relationship I’ve ever had. We knew each other in high school and reconnected about 4 months ago and have been dating for 3 months. We fell in love the first weekend and are inseperable. He is gentle, loving and kind. It’s really hard to describe what we have but we both have never felt this way before and it’s the best relationship I’ve ever experienced. I love my aquarius guy. We have the same values and when one of us is thinking about something the other one says it. It’s like we have the same mindset. We are both thankful every day that we have found each other. I had almost given up on finding love and then he walked into my life and I couldn’t be happier! I have never felt such a emotional calmness in a relationship before and it’s wonderful.

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cancerlicious (@Cancermoon) : November 11th, 2012
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Cancer lady that dated a few aqua guys and it’s always a terrible match. I can be a little clingy so when I see aqua guys doing the same thing I think it’s normal. But it’s only about control. I have to go with aqua here & there and hang out with his friends and do as he does. Aquas are the type to weep with you one minute and then talk smack about you behind ur back. And they’re all have little to no emotion. He was all emotional when we wanted some but on any other given day he was cold and distant. Aquas are to shallow and fake for cancer cuz we can see it coming from a mile away. 

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xingmoto (@xingmoto) : December 15th, 2012
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Delicious compatibility!

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Kimberly (@StankPack) : January 31st, 2013
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I’m a 34 yr old cancerian female recently in love with a 35 year old aquarian male that i’ve known as friends/schoolmates my entire life…I am the textbook cancer and he’s a textbook aquarian…we made fast friends realizing our very similar ideals on humanitarian issues and things grew from there…I realized that I loved him but being scared to open up of course ended  up showing it more so than actually saying it…I could tell he was a bit uncomfortable with the extra displays of affection and increased communication soooo I decided to research his sign more in depth and boy did that help! I learned that closing in on him made him pull away for fear of being trapped so to speak…I of course couldn’t allow myself to back completely away because I was then afraid he would think I didn’t care at all or had lost interest but I did allow more opportunities for him to make the initial contact….I’ve found that given the opportunity to be the persuer…he most definitely chose to be!!!!  As far as being overly emotional….not at all….but I’ve learned overtime that it means so much more to me for him to say or do things for quality instead of quantity…the sweet gifts for no reason don’t happen often at all but when they do….there’s no doubt of the sincerity and love behind it…ive learned to far more appreciate him telling me in random intervals “you mean the world to me” as opposed to the obligatory daily “I love you too” response typically found in long term relationships…we both have killer humor and have learned how to use that in sticky situations that have the potential to turn ugly…I’ve also found that he appreciates me being up front and saying I feel this or I think that instead of being broody because he can’t magically read my mind or mood swing….the bottom line…these relationships can work without either person changing their core self….all that needs to be changed is the pre boxed notions of how a relationship should be…think in different ways and compromise!!!!! And yes….the sex is unbelievably explosively charged provided we’re both truly in the mood ;)

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Tonya (@tcolelove) : January 31st, 2013
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@StankPack
I would love to talk to you more about this cancer woman- aquarius man match! I’ve been in my relationship for a rocky year yet we love each other like crazy. I’d like to email or text
i’m also a true cancer, born July 1st! So emotional and sensitive
please help! 
email:
tcolelove@gmail.com

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ashley shorty (@cancerwomen692004) : August 30th, 2013
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I’m a cancer women dating an Aquarius man for 6 yes now and its been good and bad. He is very hard to deal with he always wants to go and never wants to take me. He always wants to go out to his friends house and when I explain to him he has a family here he still doesn’t get it. Just wants to take off alone or with one of our kids. He say I’m not being nice so I am nice and still get shit on and he wonders why I get so mad at him. I’m at the end Im sick of the pain. He’s left me alone on our anniversary s and birthdays and even valentines day and says those don’t mean anything to him  but still says he loves me and he can’t change the past. I’m deeply in love with this man but dunno how much more heart ache I can go through. Does anyone know what I can do to save us.

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1JoJo1 (@1JoJo1) : April 16th, 2014
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@Aqua
Hi,
I read your story. I hope you worked it out. I was dating an Aquarius and he just told me let’s stay friends for life. I miss him already. Should I leave him alone and not ask for anything.  I still have feelings. But he seems to have moved on so quickly.  I helped him out and now I feel he never had in tensions of being more to me.  Do Aquarius men not want love?  I’m afraid I love him still.  He knows I do. Should I just move on and give him space and just give him friendship and nothing more.
1JoJo1

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