Comments on: Leo Man and Capricorn Woman Love Compatibility http://www.ask-oracle.com ~*~ You Are Truly Loved ~*~ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 13:02:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ask Oracle http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/leo-man-capricorn-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-50833 Ask Oracle Sun, 05 Jun 2011 10:24:47 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1203#comment-50833 <a href='http://www.ask-oracle.com/members/ladiicappiiducati/' rel="nofollow">@ladiicappiiducati</a> (Ducati) I must say that I and the community are proud of you as most people tend to break down and run away from such situations, but you stood for Love and that's commendable :) Just a few more steps and I'm sure things will be well under control and in your favor. The thing is Love often tests us and as we grow and evolve as human beings, the tests will become more and more difficult. But let me assure you that its worth it and Love is a very rare and powerful thing. I can suggest a few ideas to keep you going: a) Take up a daily exercise routine, this will not only keep you healthy and attractive but also give you a strength of mind. Try out Sun Salutations - http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Sun+Salutation&aq=f b) A shift in attitude is also needed. Instead of thinking that he used you, be proud that you were able to Serve your Love to the best of your abilities. Be proud and happy that you were useful to him. An attitude of Service and Submission will give you strength to fight of depression and win Love. b) Stop criticizing and blaming him. Choose Silence over criticism and Laughter over stupid things. In good moments, always Appreciate him and what you like in him. Show Gratitude and Ignore the mistakes. c) Forgive yourself and him and everyone else. We humans are prone to mistakes but Love shines when we choose forgiveness over pride and anger. d) Keep yourself busy in other important things in life. Learn more and keep growing. All the best :) @ladiicappiiducati (Ducati)
I must say that I and the community are proud of you as most people tend to break down and run away from such situations, but you stood for Love and that’s commendable :)

Just a few more steps and I’m sure things will be well under control and in your favor. The thing is Love often tests us and as we grow and evolve as human beings, the tests will become more and more difficult. But let me assure you that its worth it and Love is a very rare and powerful thing.

I can suggest a few ideas to keep you going:
a) Take up a daily exercise routine, this will not only keep you healthy and attractive but also give you a strength of mind. Try out Sun Salutations – http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Sun+Salutation&aq=f

b) A shift in attitude is also needed. Instead of thinking that he used you, be proud that you were able to Serve your Love to the best of your abilities. Be proud and happy that you were useful to him. An attitude of Service and Submission will give you strength to fight of depression and win Love.

b) Stop criticizing and blaming him. Choose Silence over criticism and Laughter over stupid things. In good moments, always Appreciate him and what you like in him. Show Gratitude and Ignore the mistakes.

c) Forgive yourself and him and everyone else. We humans are prone to mistakes but Love shines when we choose forgiveness over pride and anger.

d) Keep yourself busy in other important things in life. Learn more and keep growing.

All the best :)

]]> By: Ducati http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/leo-man-capricorn-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-50832 Ducati Sun, 05 Jun 2011 05:47:23 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1203#comment-50832 I am a Cappi and I have been in a relationship with a Leo for 8 years. We now have 2 beautiful daughters and at this very moment I have lost all hope in our relationship. I love him so much but I don't feel secure in our relationship. It is almost like I rather push him away then for him to walk away from me. We were suppose to have been married years ago but each time the day would get closer one of us decided that we weren't ready. That and multiple fights has damaged the trust that I had in him. I felt like he only used me for my love and then things that I did for him but desired to be at the bar with friends and not me. I was the mother, the "wife", the maid, the taxi (for when he wanted to go out and get drunk). Most recently I have been unemployed and since our first daughter was born he has been on SSI (he doesn't need it) and one day he gambled his rent money away!! I was so ticked off because this was the day before mother's day and I didn't even get a card from him because he was broke. Then when he is drunk and I am just so happen to be in a bad mood and snap off he takes things tho a physical level and speaking non sense. Another issue that our relationship suffered was his mother, who is a cappi as well. Over the years she and I were fine (so I thought) but this year when I didn't call and tell her happy birthday, she cursed me out so bad and all he did was lay in bed and told me to not let her words get to me. That hurted me so deeply!! I felt totally disrespected and less than. As of today, I have recently vowed to stop smoking, he is a smoker, I am now 4 days in and my temper is like his when he gets drunk, quick to upset. I am also experiencing some health issues that has my hormones going crazy so I have been moody so I have not been so nice to him but over the years I have dealt with so much while dealing with him. I want it to work because I love him but I don't want to fight, argue, feel less than, or alone (when he is in the same room). I just want him to be on my level!! And then the crazy part about our mothers, like I said his mom is a Cappi and my mother is a Leo so you would think we would have some type of experience in dealing with the opposite sign. Right? lol. Our daughters do not need to suffer because we have disagreements and separate off and on like we do. They need a stable home with both parents. It was hard for me to grow up without my father and I do not want to put our girls through that. What can we do to make it better? I am a Cappi and I have been in a relationship with a Leo for 8 years. We now have 2 beautiful daughters and at this very moment I have lost all hope in our relationship. I love him so much but I don’t feel secure in our relationship. It is almost like I rather push him away then for him to walk away from me. We were suppose to have been married years ago but each time the day would get closer one of us decided that we weren’t ready. That and multiple fights has damaged the trust that I had in him. I felt like he only used me for my love and then things that I did for him but desired to be at the bar with friends and not me. I was the mother, the “wife”, the maid, the taxi (for when he wanted to go out and get drunk). Most recently I have been unemployed and since our first daughter was born he has been on SSI (he doesn’t need it) and one day he gambled his rent money away!! I was so ticked off because this was the day before mother’s day and I didn’t even get a card from him because he was broke. Then when he is drunk and I am just so happen to be in a bad mood and snap off he takes things tho a physical level and speaking non sense. Another issue that our relationship suffered was his mother, who is a cappi as well. Over the years she and I were fine (so I thought) but this year when I didn’t call and tell her happy birthday, she cursed me out so bad and all he did was lay in bed and told me to not let her words get to me. That hurted me so deeply!! I felt totally disrespected and less than. As of today, I have recently vowed to stop smoking, he is a smoker, I am now 4 days in and my temper is like his when he gets drunk, quick to upset. I am also experiencing some health issues that has my hormones going crazy so I have been moody so I have not been so nice to him but over the years I have dealt with so much while dealing with him. I want it to work because I love him but I don’t want to fight, argue, feel less than, or alone (when he is in the same room). I just want him to be on my level!! And then the crazy part about our mothers, like I said his mom is a Cappi and my mother is a Leo so you would think we would have some type of experience in dealing with the opposite sign. Right? lol. Our daughters do not need to suffer because we have disagreements and separate off and on like we do. They need a stable home with both parents. It was hard for me to grow up without my father and I do not want to put our girls through that. What can we do to make it better?

]]> By: Chalcedony http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/leo-man-capricorn-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-50142 Chalcedony Sat, 09 Apr 2011 17:12:49 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1203#comment-50142 I've been with a Leo man for five years now and it's been a journey. We broke up a few times and he was the one who came back. I am not a person who judges, but his behaviour is getting on my nerves. I love the person i first met when we served in national Service together. He was a gentle Malay man who held his family values very highly. Yet after breaking up with him for so many times, he changed completely. If i kept holding on to this relationship, i have a feeling it would be a very hard and tormenting journey, but the love shared with him was far more beautiful than when we fought all the time. I loved him with all my heart, but seeing him change has completely shattered me. I have no one to blame but myself for holding this love steadfastly. I'm faithful and i only have God to turn to whenever things happen between us. The thing is..yes..I know I can be too critical about him sometimes, that is because his carefree attitude landed him in too many problems such as getting laid off from work. me being a Cap, and yet i have to let down my ego and speak to him the way i know how, gentle reminders etc..How long can i possibly do this. He is my first and i have heard it will take a big leap of faith to really let myself go from this attachment. He knows i love him. But the one i love was the one he was before he changed. He is the history of my memory of us. If only he knows what he has been doing to the one he said he will not let go before... I’ve been with a Leo man for five years now and it’s been a journey. We broke up a few times and he was the one who came back. I am not a person who judges, but his behaviour is getting on my nerves. I love the person i first met when we served in national Service together. He was a gentle Malay man who held his family values very highly. Yet after breaking up with him for so many times, he changed completely. If i kept holding on to this relationship, i have a feeling it would be a very hard and tormenting journey, but the love shared with him was far more beautiful than when we fought all the time. I loved him with all my heart, but seeing him change has completely shattered me. I have no one to blame but myself for holding this love steadfastly. I’m faithful and i only have God to turn to whenever things happen between us. The thing is..yes..I know I can be too critical about him sometimes, that is because his carefree attitude landed him in too many problems such as getting laid off from work. me being a Cap, and yet i have to let down my ego and speak to him the way i know how, gentle reminders etc..How long can i possibly do this. He is my first and i have heard it will take a big leap of faith to really let myself go from this attachment. He knows i love him. But the one i love was the one he was before he changed. He is the history of my memory of us. If only he knows what he has been doing to the one he said he will not let go before…

]]> By: alexis http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/leo-man-capricorn-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-49649 alexis Fri, 01 Apr 2011 17:48:26 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1203#comment-49649 I dated a Leo man for 2 1/2 years. The sex was awesome, but we didn't have good communication. Our finances were separate, which was nice. He did treat me right at times but to him he never did anything wrong. We would fight about the same things over and over because neither one of us was willing to change and when one of us did it wasn't enough. Also, he never liked to be alone. Whenever we would fight I would like to take some time to cool off and he wouldn't let me, which caused more problems. Overall, I think this pairing is passionate but it won't work out because the two are so different. At least thats my experience. Good luck to anyone that tries though. I dated a Leo man for 2 1/2 years. The sex was awesome, but we didn’t have good communication. Our finances were separate, which was nice. He did treat me right at times but to him he never did anything wrong. We would fight about the same things over and over because neither one of us was willing to change and when one of us did it wasn’t enough. Also, he never liked to be alone. Whenever we would fight I would like to take some time to cool off and he wouldn’t let me, which caused more problems. Overall, I think this pairing is passionate but it won’t work out because the two are so different. At least thats my experience. Good luck to anyone that tries though.

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