http://www.ask-oracle.com ~*~ You Are Truly Loved ~*~ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 13:02:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/virgo-man-virgo-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-53370 mich Sat, 04 Feb 2012 19:49:10 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1376#comment-53370 Being a Virgo man, I was just curious what it could possibly be like to be with a Virgo female. I read this and I just kept thinking how wrong this is about who and what I am, but maybe I'm just different. I am a very practical realist, yes. But, I'm also tremendously passionate too. I find myself lost in a relationship I've been in with a Cancer at times. I am so attentive to her, her needs, her wishes, that I tend to place more value on those than my own needs. But the lack of communication and passion I get back from her is practically null. That's what caused me to wonder what it would actually be like to be with someone who would be just as attentive as I was, someone who would actuallly want to communicate (and yes, I mean really communicate), and someone who had a high level of passion in everything. That's what made we wonder if being with a female version of me could actually work. In this relationship, I find myself as the support structure keeping us together. If I didn't ever say anything though, or never have any issues, everything would be pretty much status quo every day. I'm the one that brings up how our relationship could be better. I'm the one that always trys to communicate and get her to communicate. I've been the one that was willing to sacrifice virtually anything to make her happy. I'm a very driven person. I'm a self made person in many ways. I'm severely dedicated and committed. And yes, I have been the one to ask her to marry me, twice. So, this post saying that a Virgo male won't want commitment.... as far as I'm concerned, that's complete BS. Same with the bedroom... I'm the only one that ever tries, she never comes on to me. Ever. Being around her, I feel like she's my best friend, but that she doesn't even want me, but doesn't want me to leave. It's insane. I have no fear about lovemaking, in fact, I long for that type of true, visceral connection with another person. But it just feels so damn empty here sometimes. Literally, if I didn't come on to her at all... we could go months with nothing happening. And I learned my lesson early on with her, she really doesn't even seem to ever like me coming on to her, so I quit most of it and settle for what seems to me to be a relationship witn no depth or passion. I know, this is my own fault for sticking with it. But, therein lies yet another lovely "virgoism", at least for me. I am the type that doesn't "give up". I always hold out hope it will be better tomorrow if I do this or that. Mind you, she and I have been together nearly a decade. The times we've had our biggest issues in this relationship - that's when I really started backing off and when I didn't put as much time, effort and care for things as I normally do. But maybe then, maybe I'm not much like a Virgo male at all. Maybe I'm just different. Life can do that to you sometimes I guess. So, I am a male, and happen to be a Virgo. I love deeply. I show it often. I commit to no end. I care like there is no tomorrow. I am not shy, but reserved. I can be a socialite publically, and content with myself at home. I go out of my way to spend time with the woman in my life.  Reading this post really made me feel completely disconnected. Maybe this truly is how most Virgo men are I don't know. I've only really known one that dated a friend of mine, and to be honest, I wanted to kick his ass because he was such a self centered, egotistical dips--t. If most Virgo men are like him, oh my god. No wonder they can write posts like this. I am nothing, and I mean nothing like him at all. So... for all the Virgo women out there that may be wondering the same things I do... not all Virgo men are like that, at least, I would sincerely hope not. I for one can attest that there is at least one Virgo male who is not. My best to all....   Being a Virgo man, I was just curious what it could possibly be like to be with a Virgo female. I read this and I just kept thinking how wrong this is about who and what I am, but maybe I’m just different.
I am a very practical realist, yes. But, I’m also tremendously passionate too. I find myself lost in a relationship I’ve been in with a Cancer at times. I am so attentive to her, her needs, her wishes, that I tend to place more value on those than my own needs. But the lack of communication and passion I get back from her is practically null.
That’s what caused me to wonder what it would actually be like to be with someone who would be just as attentive as I was, someone who would actuallly want to communicate (and yes, I mean really communicate), and someone who had a high level of passion in everything. That’s what made we wonder if being with a female version of me could actually work.
In this relationship, I find myself as the support structure keeping us together. If I didn’t ever say anything though, or never have any issues, everything would be pretty much status quo every day. I’m the one that brings up how our relationship could be better. I’m the one that always trys to communicate and get her to communicate. I’ve been the one that was willing to sacrifice virtually anything to make her happy.
I’m a very driven person. I’m a self made person in many ways. I’m severely dedicated and committed. And yes, I have been the one to ask her to marry me, twice. So, this post saying that a Virgo male won’t want commitment…. as far as I’m concerned, that’s complete BS.
Same with the bedroom… I’m the only one that ever tries, she never comes on to me. Ever. Being around her, I feel like she’s my best friend, but that she doesn’t even want me, but doesn’t want me to leave. It’s insane. I have no fear about lovemaking, in fact, I long for that type of true, visceral connection with another person. But it just feels so damn empty here sometimes.
Literally, if I didn’t come on to her at all… we could go months with nothing happening. And I learned my lesson early on with her, she really doesn’t even seem to ever like me coming on to her, so I quit most of it and settle for what seems to me to be a relationship witn no depth or passion.
I know, this is my own fault for sticking with it. But, therein lies yet another lovely “virgoism”, at least for me. I am the type that doesn’t “give up”. I always hold out hope it will be better tomorrow if I do this or that. Mind you, she and I have been together nearly a decade. The times we’ve had our biggest issues in this relationship – that’s when I really started backing off and when I didn’t put as much time, effort and care for things as I normally do.
But maybe then, maybe I’m not much like a Virgo male at all. Maybe I’m just different. Life can do that to you sometimes I guess.
So, I am a male, and happen to be a Virgo. I love deeply. I show it often. I commit to no end. I care like there is no tomorrow. I am not shy, but reserved. I can be a socialite publically, and content with myself at home. I go out of my way to spend time with the woman in my life. 
Reading this post really made me feel completely disconnected. Maybe this truly is how most Virgo men are I don’t know. I’ve only really known one that dated a friend of mine, and to be honest, I wanted to kick his ass because he was such a self centered, egotistical dips–t. If most Virgo men are like him, oh my god. No wonder they can write posts like this. I am nothing, and I mean nothing like him at all.
So… for all the Virgo women out there that may be wondering the same things I do… not all Virgo men are like that, at least, I would sincerely hope not. I for one can attest that there is at least one Virgo male who is not. My best to all….
 

]]> http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/virgo-man-virgo-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-51631 umaina Sat, 27 Aug 2011 00:36:32 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1376#comment-51631 i thought that taurus man are compatible for virgo women........bt i was 50% wrong because once they are rude they'll hurt you so much that it'll break you in millions of pieces just as i'm broken since 7 months.................. i thought that taurus man are compatible for virgo women……..bt i was 50% wrong because once they are rude they’ll hurt you so much that it’ll break you in millions of pieces just as i’m broken since 7 months………………

]]> http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/virgo-man-virgo-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-26089 SweetMon_08 Sun, 07 Feb 2010 22:54:58 +0000 http://www.ask-oracle.com/?page_id=1376#comment-26089 I fell so hard for a virgo man....Well, I'm not sure if we're really compatible though.But one thing for sure...He's not my prince charming ! I fell so hard for a virgo man….Well, I’m not sure if we’re really compatible though.But one thing for sure…He’s not my prince charming !

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