Aquarius in Love and Romance

With the glamour and shine you have got, it will not be very difficult for Aquarians to turn strangers into acquaintances and acquaintances into something more. A lot of love and love-making will come your way if you are an Aquarian and you will get the opportunity to enjoy it to the fullest. And my advice to you in this matter would be to grab those opportunities and make use of them to the fullest without any second thoughts, because once you start having those second thoughts and actually sitting down and thinking them through, hard times are bound to come by. Each courtship or relationship ultimately comes to that one question, but in case of you, this relationship is a little too critical.

As I have already said, an Aquarian is really protective of his freedom and way of life. A serious relationship will mean taking that giant leap of giving up one’s normal life for someone else, and learning to make decisions with the ‘we perspective’ instead of the ‘I’. Such a huge commitment will take a huge amount of love and devotion. So most of the time, this scenario just leads to a break up. But still, if the relationship persists, then the partner will have to understand the emotional needs of the Aquarian and mend his/her life and needs accordingly. This is quite difficult even for an Aquarian (remember we talked about Aquarians being very understanding and supportive) – we are talking about partners making peace with the fact that they will never be able to play a part in their companion’s life as big as they’d like to.

So the partner requires to be understanding and cool-minded and one with interests that the Aquarian can identify with. The ground truth is that for a relationship to work, having common interests and aspirations is just as important as understand one’s companion. As for the Aquarian, he/she has got a penchant for theatricals, and a great talent at entertaining the companion and making the occasion a very special one for him/her. This will make your love life very colorful and fulfilling.

  1. hana@ May 11th, 2016

    I am tourous & having relationship with aqurious almost 6 years . we both love & respect each other . He proposed me after one year of our relationship . i find him as my soulmate . when ever i give him space & after that time he came with the same loving & devoting attitude . 
    we both have good understanding . I loyal to him . But the only problem is that now i dont know how i make him to get marry me . 
    Is any aquraion can tell me which thigs are gonna work for me to make him ” to get marry me 

    • thea September 9th, 2017

      I’m an aquarius. We value our freedom so much that it’s often difficult for us to give it up while making huge gestures such as marriage. My advice would be to up the spontaneity and remind him why he chose you. Make your relationship fun and have fun. Drop hints if necessary. Or ask a friend to ask what his headspace is or just simply confront him. We like things told directly. Hope this helps.

    • Nicole October 22nd, 2017

      I’m an Aquarius and I must say, you first have to remove “make him” from all of your vocabulary. No one can “make” an Aquarius do anything. I am also an Aquarius that is married to a Taurus, which is what it looks like you are? If so, my Taurus husband has the same mentality as you do. He is alsways trying to make me do things, and he is always dissapppinted. This is our biggest problem.
      My advice to you is, accept him for who he is. Don’t push him. If he doesn’t take that step and marry you, then walk away. It wasn’t meant to be and, you deserve more than that. You will find someone who doesn’t have to be pressured into committing themselves you. You deserve to be with someone who WANTS to be with you, rather than forced to. Believe me, the problems only get worse once you’re married.

  2. queen_naomi September 13th, 2015

    @Alishiousssss hello! I am an Aquarius woman in a relationship with a Libra man and yesss us Aquarius women are very compatible with Libra men. I feel that they are the most compatible of the signs… My Libra man fits me so well, like where has he been all my life? Lol. Personality-wise he’s perfect! Aquarius and Libras have a temper or whatever but together it doesn’t show cuz they’re always synchronized. Every moment is fun and enjoyable even the debates/arguments and there are very few cuz you’ll always be on the same page. What are your thoughts? 🙂

  3. Alishiousssss September 11th, 2015

    im an aquarius has anybody every dated a libra man????? I heard that we’re like the most comptiable out of all the signs. if anyone has dated a libra i wanna know how that relationship worked or how it’s currently working now. 
    Thank you ?

  4. Dragonfly-Fairies June 28th, 2015

    @Sam I know what you mean.
    I was dating a Cancer male. I was head over heals for him and the sex was great, until I found out he cheated on me while I was pregnant with his child.  I try to forgive him and move forward but once someone lie to us aquarius and we find out, it’s not the same, trust is mayor for us and we are not the jealous type unless we have reason to be. 
    I only had eyes for him until that situation happen after I started to notice other guys and knew that the love wasn’t there any more.  

  5. maeghan221 August 31st, 2014

    I believe alot in the signs, there are always exceptions. especially if the dates on that sign vary from diffrent sources and sum1 is born toward the end, ive noticed they may not fit in to what I would consider norm for that sign. But the majority follow the basic outline of traits closley. * Im an aquarious and relate closley to the sign, I date a taurus. We are opposites, but most compatabilities say it could work almost soley based on the *opposites attract* however we both have strong loyalty and some moral traits that work well together. I have had to compromse on my freedom trait and him on his aggression. however the root of most of our arguments are these two issues, alot of times big arguments arise over little issues because when I make a decision I dont beleve is wrong (or view somthng he did as wrong) I am unwilling to budge on my ideas about it. Idk otherwise been a great relationship true love! I wonder if our loyaly and tendancy to like long relationships played a role but we met moved in together in a week and have been insepreable for almost 5 years. On the comment earlier about leos, i read they were rare and read on a compatability thing in relationships never let them go lol jus fyi

  6. Callmemissdolly December 2nd, 2013

    @linax3 Same way with me I guess…. I’m a leo woman who loves an aquarius man. I play tricks on him and I feel bad for him then he never forgives me ever and it makes me frustrated. However I’ve liked him for 2 years and can’t get over him! =/

    • Wolfman February 10th, 2017

      Oh nice u r sont cute im aquarius i wushu that im that Man

  7. linax3 November 20th, 2013

    I am an aquarius woman and i am IN LOVE with a leo. its been a little over a year now and i cant seem to get him out of my head/heart. He has played so many games with me but still i cant get over him. He has no idea how deeply i care for him i just want him to notice me like he did in the beginning. if i find out someone is playing me i will not put up with it but the way this guy makes me feel its undescribable i just cant let him go! waahhhh pray for me please that he notices me again. Thanks guyssss x3

  8. womanofthewild September 6th, 2013

    I once met someone into astrology and within the first few minutes, he asked me if I was an Aquarius. That’s how typical I am of Aquarians. Love my freedom, yadda yadda.
    Anyway, I’m in love with a Scorpio. Will it ever become more, since we haven’t actually engaged in anything intimate? Who knows. But either way I do love him, and I fight my Aquarius nature to not show too much, and tell him so. He needs to hear that to be happy.
    I have NEVER been attracted to anyone like I am with him. I waited a long time for it to pass, but I adore how his mind works, and his intensity (even though it makes me nervous as hell sometimes).
    We’ll see how it all goes.

  9. jamesm244 August 25th, 2013

    Aquarius man here. The best astro matches, in my personal experience, have been with gemini & leo. Thought it was ironic the women, for the most part, posting the same thing.

  10. limelight August 13th, 2013

    seriously? we are same. Hahahha!

  11. limelight August 13th, 2013

    my 1st serious relationship was aries. Yes,used to have a happy relationship,until he cheat. Then i ended It. Not worth so i moved on. And now happily married with my CANCER man.

  12. limelight August 13th, 2013

    I agree with Sam. I am Aquarius woman, regardless how head over heels i am in love, if i caught my man cheating, i really shut down. Stop communicating, distant, i don’t care anymore. And when i get breakups, i feel heartbroken but, but nobody can tell.And i feel relieved too when i am away from those relationship that only gives heartache.
    I cannot stick around to those guys who hurt me. For some reason, moving on is better that get stuck to unhealthy relationship. And when im over? i don’t look back.

  13. limelight August 13th, 2013
  14. Rizzz August 12th, 2013

    Let me tell you here and straight about Aquarius… I’m a guy aquarius. And here it is…. 
    1. We will show all our affection on you at first meet, doesn’t madder who you are.
    2. We love our space… Don’t be asking us what’s wrong because it kills us when you ask us… If something was wrong about you,we would tell you. Some reasons why we distance ourself is cause maybe we have to much On Our minds, trying to plan for our next date, anniversary, birthday… To make it speical!
    3. We’re even/neutral.. We’re not a follow or a leader but both we well play either or parts depending on your role, we will take the other.
    4. We love meeting new folks. We love socializing, please don’t be so jealous at us.. because when you are, were like what are we doing wrong but talking?  And that’s when things goes down… You can not cage us.. NEVER!
    5. Once we decide who we date/marry… We are loyal and will stick to that person to the end who we have chosen. So there’s no need to be worrying about our absents, were just going out (having our freedom/meeting folks) you want to know where were going? Ask? Just don’t follow if we didnt inv.  cause sometimes you(all people) Put us in a uncomfortable spot when you bring up info that we don’t want to bring up…. (Knowning as of secrets we tell you not them)
    6.we have an incredible/creative mind filled with wonders and we want someone there who will listen to our thoughts and join in to make it better! (don’t try to change the way cause then will be quiet again and not want to tell you anymore cause all we that we will seis you bringing negative to our thoughts… just add to it! That’s it) 
    and something about me 
    I’m only 21yrs old n I know myself pretty damn well I should say… Lol if I miss anything let me know xD

  15. 212872 October 1st, 2012

    Hi I’m an acquarius too and I find it very loving to be in love with a Leo man as well as a Gemini man they are both givers and take on their own formaility of the word love.  Leo’s are truly the opposites of acquarius’s but at the same time love to be the center of attraction. Whereso the Gemini man is intoch with his sensitive side more so than the Leo.  So ladies take it from me both of these zodiacs are great signs to be involve with physically, mentally, sexually, and verbally.

  16. loyaltie September 30th, 2012

    @Linda oh my gosh O_O ive fallen for a aries too! two times already, these two men have something in common, they are both players so I guess its bad luck…

  17. pampam126 August 20th, 2012

    I am glad I am not the only Aquarius in love with a Leo man. My problem, he doesnt know. I am terrified to tell him. I hate emotions, and i fear heartbreak.
    I dated a Taurus, was fun for a while, but he didnt like my need for freedom, I didnt like his constant hovering. And we never agreed on anything. It was quite a bad break in the end. Very hearbroken after that one. So Taurus + Aquarus very difficult.
    Good luck ladies and gentlemen… and wish me luck… i hope i can eventually break out of my shell and say something to him… your leo+aquarian stories are encouraging.

  18. aquarius09 January 13th, 2012

    @Sam : I’m sorry 4 your fiancee, I’m aqua also .. Like you said I can love man hard .. Very hard
    But sneaking , lier person is death row for me !
    No matter how much I love him .. Its GONE ! Its happen when I had relation with sagitarius !
    They are talking person full of bullshit ..anyway I believed now you already moved your life, wish you good luck with future love life !

  19. aquarius09 January 13th, 2012

    As aqua woman I said , I always need ” strong ” figure , it make me calm and secure
    Many people said aqua + leo can’t get along .. 4me … LEO man is best
    He is nobel , strong , reable .. And because aqua is not a JEALOUS person
    The its make realation with leo more make sense !

  20. giratinium November 24th, 2011

    Aquarii, be wary if you want to court someone else who is also an Aquarius. I’ve seen it myself — a twenty year marriage, wherein both of them have never once been anything but miserable. Neither one wants to give up on even the stupidest things, and is convinced that the other is always plotting against them. Even one of the Aquarii giving up and choosing to go along with the other one made both of them feel worse. Unless you (and your partner) are EXTREMELY dedicated and are willing to feel trampled an awful lot in the long run, steer away from other jug-bearers.

  21. sueann13192 September 28th, 2011

    yes this is true but the only part i cant relate to is the sex part because im an aquarius and i have a very high sex drive and sex is very important to me. i’ll like to know if theres any other aquarius out there that feel like this too.

  22. habeeva September 14th, 2011

    I am also an aquarian and I’m in love with a capricorn. Although he is laid back and doesn’t show many signs of affection as I would like him too, it’s somsething about him 🙂 I sometimes wonder if I am wasting my time but something keeps me holding on…..I guess i’ll have to ride this one out and see what happens!

  23. Sam January 31st, 2011

    I’m an Aquarius woman and I know the easiest way to distance yourself from an Aquarius. Cheating or the like. Doesn’t matter how much the Aquarius loves you, that will shut the love down.

    I was so very in love with my Gemini fiance and after a year of engagement I found out he had been sneaking around behind my back talking to his ex about how he still had feelings for her. They never had sex but the fact that he was sneaking is what did it for me. If he would have told me he needed to work things out with her before marrying me I would have understood. AQUARIUS IS NOT JEALOUS AS LONG AS YOU ARE HONEST!!!!! Soon as I found out I was heartbroken. (Aquarius is very unemotional and detached but they can love, and they love hard).

    I tried to work things out, but over the next six months I was distant, didn’t answer the phone when he called anymore. Didn’t make plans to see him, began noticing other men when I was out with the girls where as when we were happy that thought never crossed my mind.

    Eventually he left because he felt the separation. Although I was sad, I was more relieved to be out of the emotionally stressful and confining situation.

  24. A lover:: December 30th, 2010

    i m an aquarius.i love one girl who is leo.i feel we are same no difference.his all traits same like me.i think aquarius and leo best love match and also king lover of zodic sign

  25. Elizabeth October 12th, 2010

    Im an aquarius girl dated a Leo and a Scorpio…. never date a Scorpio… and Leo Yes… just let them now when they are crossing your freedom boundaries and stepping on your emotions with their dominance and selfishness.. 🙂 other than that.. Leo’s are amazing

  26. Linda October 3rd, 2010

    yes, i too have met an aries man, we have been together for amonth now. i am totally head over heels wit him, i am also aquarius, tha sex is jus wat it is tha best ever an i hope nutin never changes, EVER!!!! LOL

  27. Humble bird:)m July 31st, 2010

    Hello there!
    I am an Aquarius girl and I must tell you, nothing worth’s more than freedom for me. I just meet this Aries man, and I am so ga-ga over him. I feel like I will turn the world around together with him. There is a lot of trove in all this astrology thing. Can’t help but say, helpful 🙂



  28. Harvey May 18th, 2009

    I have this boy that is one grade higher than me. I have a huge crush on him, and wanted to know how I could make him fall for me.

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