Cancer in Love and Romance

Attractions can be deceptive – you believe this and truly implement it in your life if you are a Cancerian. You will not approach any person that you are attracted to in any sort of way and try to move things forward. You keep yourself at a safe distance for a while and analyze the other person. You see if he/she is good enough for you, if things will actually move forward, whether you feel you really can start meaningful relationship with the other person or it’s just a temporary infatuation.

In doing so, if the person in question tries to approach you then you might even take evasive action. Once Cancerians have made up mind in favor of an approach, it will not be very difficult for them to make things happen, they are naturally talented for that. On the other hand, if Cancerians are the one being pursued (which obviously applies a lot more for women than for men), no matter of what kind the first approach is, the first reaction will be a defensive one. How smoothly you do this without letting the pursuer feel hurt depends on your skill.

But that initial barrier will just take a few minutes to melt down in which time they will make up their mind. One of the most important factors, if not the most important factor, will be to what extent you are attracted to this person. All this might sound a little unromantic, but it might be the right thing to do at that moment for quite a lot of reasons.

Cancerians are very sensual, loving and caring and make for excellent lovers. They are really good at making their partners feel they’re being taken care of. On a special occasion, they will meticulously take care of every little thing, and make the whole experience a very memorable one for their lover.

The basic problem with them is their highly moody nature. You can never be sure how they will feel and behave at a particular point in time, they themselves cannot. So if the mood is not right, they might make some really nasty comments which might be more detrimental than just spoiling an evening. After all, Cancerians are not the only ones with a good memory. The only way out of this fix is that Cancerians guard their tongues at all times, and their partners understand their nature and forgive and forget any transgression from their companion as an unintentional one.

  1. Ali hussain March 10th, 2017

    i want to know that what is it ??

  2. aminahz August 28th, 2014

    I want to know when I get married?

  3. Destani August 30th, 2013

    I am a cancer women that has been in a relationship with a libra man for 4 months now !!! He annoys me with things that he does an sometimes I wanna just move on with my life but then he reminds me what it is thaT makes him amazing . What should I do bc it’s like I’m fighting with myself ab Lil annoying things he does , when I tell him it hurts his feelings & I feel horrible afterwards 😉 please help me ? 

  4. shanejohn June 6th, 2013

    It was awesome

  5. MickeyB October 23rd, 2012

    Im a cancer and im currently involved with a virgo male….I NEED HELP!!!! I love him so much but he confuses me 🙁

    • Edwin Lopez March 1st, 2017

      I’m a libra and I personally hateeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!! Virgos!!! They are something else but in a bad way.

  6. Hardtime August 9th, 2012

    I am a Cancerian and I’m just thirteen. I know I’m too young and most of you would probably discourage me and tell me that I’m too young for love but I’m madly in love with a girl, a Cancerian just like me. I really love her, she is my world and my life. I’d give anything up for her and there’s no word on Earth to describe how I feel about her. When I stare at her everything turns cosmic, like I’m being hypnotized and everything disapears except for her in the middle of my view. Many guys like her but I believe that I like her a lot more. Recently, I admitted my feelings for her and she admitted that through time she might feel the same. Now my problem is that the other guys confessed their feelings for her too but not as deep as how I said it and now that she knows, she’s confused with which guy to be with. I really want her to be mine and I love her very much but she’s confused with this and I’m prepared to give her up so her stress could be lessened a bit. I asked her if she wanted me to stop, but she told me not to ’cause she wanted to know me more. Almost every night we stay up late texting each other. Now I don’t know what I should do to make her closer to me and finally make her be mine. I need help from the people of this website. Now I’ve observed that there are many females here and most of you have a lot of experience on relationships, I wanna ask you what should I do?

  7. crabyMe July 14th, 2012

    Cancerians rock big time. Problem is ​​​​I really have never enjoyed sex. I’m a cancer lady and ​​​​I don’t believe in being in two or more relationships at once. I’m dating a capricon man and haven’t had sex with him and according to astrologers cancerian lady and capricorn man are compatible. Please How true is this?

  8. kenzie2978 August 15th, 2011

    I am a Cancer woman and I have to say that I have the BEST sex with Sagittarius men! My current man is a Scorpio Rising with a lot of Scorpio in his chart, and myself, a Virgo Rising/ with a lot of Leo thrown in…both his Mars and Venus are in Scorpio and mine in Leo… I get so turned on by him and want to spend all my time with him in BED! I can’t keep my hands, or lips off of him and so far…HE LOVES IT…Even tho I cheated on him with another guy, he came back… The very next day!!! Been here ever since… Here’s hoping!

  9. cupcake July 19th, 2011

    Proud being cancer…very accurate

  10. Hira March 23rd, 2011

    I’ve all the characteristics ov a cancer female I’ve just read about

  11. cancergirl March 10th, 2011

    hi im 22 and cancerian. well yes, cancerian is very complicated but i really enjoy it especially when it comes to romance and partnership. to be honest, i have already a virgo BF, and he’s in holland, i’m in indonesia. we’re having long distance now. we’ve been dating for 2 months but we haven’t had sex. i have to admit that it’s weird. but after he left indonesia a month and back to his country, i met some guys and we had sex (of course my BF didn’t know about that). the question is : how could cancerian (me) have sex with someone without having any feelings toward the guy? is that normal for me? coz usually males do that, you know casual relationship, more often than us women. please help me. thx

  12. kat2279 February 22nd, 2011

    Thanks Shannon, I love Gemimni’s too. The gemini men I’ve dated were perfect allrounders for the cancerian lonerwolf a.k.a “me”

  13. Shannon January 25th, 2011

    I am a gemini woman and dated a cancer man and I couldn’t have asked for a better person and as far as in the bedroom, we had the most awesome lovemaking I think I have ever had. I miss him a whole lot because he was always sensitive to my feelings and needs and he said he doesn’t just choose to go out with just any kind of woman, she has to really be special and he would have to feel something was really going to come of the relationship. The only reason we are not together right now is because he was an alcoholic and that, I could no longer deal with. It’s sad thought because I felt like had it not been for the drinking we could have had a wonderful relationship. I think cancer people are wonderful. Good luck cancers.

  14. Moodycrab October 17th, 2010

    Love the last comment yes cancerian females and gemini males are dynamite in the bedroom same can be said with Leo males. regarding us cancer females men will tell you no woman loves like a cancer woman we give our all and use or psychic feelings to feel what our partner feels we have great empathy and consideration for our loved ones. Sexually if a cancer is confident in herself she will want to satisfy her partner at all times as well as herself and in the right relationship we can use our skills of manipulation for positive results without causing major problems i love being a cancerian i think i have leo rising as have a lot of leo traits too. We cancers are in love with the idea of love a lot of the time we want the romance the wooing and to be wanted more than anything else in the world. Horoscopes aside just be honest be yourself and be confident men love that and shy away from the possesive controlling men of any sign and all will go well our mood swings are legendary but if a man loves you he will learn to cope with them just as your parents and children do. Blessings to all you cancerians out there keep your shell up 🙂

  15. maryam September 19th, 2010

    im a cancering girl an i hate home so much i love to go out an c new things any chance i get i love to travel so much they say a cancer an scorpio are sole mates bull shit i dnt get along with them i find them very boring an posesivness, right now im with a gemini guy an iv none him for 4 years its took a long journey to get things rite but wot can i say hes so perfect 4 we love to travel and find out new things all the time we are even very imaginative in the bedroom aswell lool i love you my gemini hero xxx thank you god for blessing me xxx

  16. Timian July 7th, 2010

    I hapn to be a libra man dating a cancer woman. and personal, it can be hell sometimes but other times its the greatest feeling in the world. Me being a libra, i dont like to see her upset so ill ask whats the matter. Alot of feelings stay hidden, and alot of the time i start to fear i did something wrong and something bad would wind up surprising me. Cancers are VERY complicated at times. Iv find myself ready to give up because everything has to be labeld as my fault for her to calm down. I find myself admitting to things that arent my fault at all jus to keep her happy. There are the otha times when her mind seems more made up to, and thats when everything is SWELL!!! I wont give up on her, im being as patient as possible because i know itl pay off soon.

  17. Anna June 11th, 2010

    Very accurate assessment. Our tough outer shell intimidates many and let’s few in. Only after very careful assessment and evaluation do we let our guard down. Have no fear young Cancer, the moodiness gets better as you get older and more secure with who you are. You realize it’s no fun being miserable, critical and moody. Live life happy with who you are and thrive Cancer, thrive. It’s good to be you!

  18. ky'errah February 19th, 2010

    its totally true i hate ma man he doesnt know wat he wants i think im in love but truly i only love hime cause he da first one dat traets me gudd and ill leave him wen im bored of him

  19. Kimberly November 16th, 2009

    Everything thats said about cancers are very much accurated,whether it be bad or good…its usually [always] right on the spot!I sometimes base my decisions on whats said…its alwaysss right!!!!Lovve itt…

  20. Ghanzafar October 22nd, 2009

    hi i m cancer boy having love with aquarius girl

  21. ashley May 13th, 2009

    i think every thing they are saying bought cancer women is true for me it’s scary how acurate it is…lol

  22. debbie March 15th, 2009

    I think alot of what im reading is true! the good and the bad. 80% of this fits me to a tee

  23. tierra November 6th, 2008

    i think that somethings that they say about us cancers are somewhat true but then agian they sometimes just want shit to say but i guess they can pass for ir today cause i am a cancer and i should know!!!

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