I have a job, career, great kids, and is God-fearing…will I find love this year. I have been in an untitled relationship with my new baby father for 8 yrs on and off, and I feel like it may be weighing me down. He wont directly commit to me. But he wants to keep me close enough to keep me in his life. I dont need negative feedback, just honesty. I have been praying for years over this relationship, and i never gotten an answer. Whether i need to stay or go isnt whats going to hurt me but leaving without closure, an apology or anything is gon be the deal breaker. help me please. Im ready to move on if i have to.