how can i tell if theres actually a connection between us or if its just a longing to be loved? im an aries and im stuck between an aries and a cancer….the aries man is an ex that i guess u can say i had a slight infatuation with fell face first in love with him right off the bat. i got him to commit but i did what i shouldnt have and entered his freedom independance time then he left me and it still hurts but then the cancer came along and i find myself sad that hes pondering the idea of leaving town and i really dont want him to, is this cause i dont want to be alone or miss out on what could possibly be the “IT” everyones waiting for? or is there some kinda electric connection that is invisable and just plays with you…. please help i dont know what to do ?