I’ve known a Scorpio for about 2 years and we were intimate for a short period. However, since the first time we met there has been a strong attraction between us and he chased me for a long time before I gave in. He was always testing me and becoming distant for no reason which resulted in us not being together anymore. Anyhow to make a long story short, months ago he started to get close again and because I was afraid to get hurt again I kind of backed out. I assume he felt rejected and then when we met again he went cold again. The last incident that happened was that 6 months ago (at the club) he invited me to go to his place and I replied to him ‘I can’t because you ended with me and I don’t even know what happened and I’m hurt’. He replied ‘I don’t want that’, we’re going to talk. Unfortunately, I couldn’t go with him because I was with my friend and I had to drive her home and I made him understand that and told him it would be for next time. But the ‘next time’ never happened. Since then, when we see each other, he says hi to me but is not friendly and doesn’t really talk to me and that makes me feel very uncomfortable. I made a decision that maybe I should call him to break the ice between us. So 2 days ago I called him and he seemed suprised. I said to him that ‘I would like the communication to open up between us’ and he replied well ‘I say hi to you when I see you.’ I said yes, but you act as if you don’t even know me – and he said: “I’m a quite guy, you’re my friend, I just want you as my friend, I don’t want to be in a relationship with you, I don’t want you to be my girlfriend and I don’t want to be your boyfriend”. I was so suprised and hurt that I remained speechless. The conversation carried on about other things and when he found out that my house got sold, he was suggesting me to buy a condo in an area which is not far from where he lives and he offered that he would come with me to look at the condo. (which makes no sense) why would he say this?
My question is: him telling me that he doesn’t want a relationship with me, was that his way of stinging me? (because he felt I had rejected him?) or did he really mean it? why is it that 6 months ago he was willing to talk? I’m presently very hurt and depressed. In the future, I know that I will not feel confortable when I see him at the club. Any advice please on what should I do when I see him? Is there any chance that he might come back? I like him a lot.
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