Hi.the description is so true of our relationship. However, our relationship has just finished. There is no one else. I am the aries woman, he the Sagittarius. He finished it but I was also starting to think the same way to be fair. It was all external forces eating into our time together.pressure of life. I know we could have made it work. What do I do now. I have taken time out and not contacted my ex. I am waiting for him to contact me to discuss matters. Is that wise? Working on the no contact rule. I think that we need to give it another go but how and who makes the first move. He is not in a good place as a result of life and work pressures.