I met a Sadge guy at the beginning of last month. There was instant chemistry, and even though we knew it would go nowhere because he would be flying back home by the start of the next month, we went for it anyway. Needless to say, it was a bit of a rollercoaster. I tried ending the fling halfway through, but he talked me into staying because he said he liked me (me being a Libra, that took no effort at all). Sex was the basis of the relationship (which was pretty good), though ironically (given his sign) he was the first (and only one) to display/voice his feelings about me; He’d stare at me intensely with a smile, complimented me often, confided in me his personal life, would excitedly talk about a future together (as though it were possible), got hyped over similarities we shared, kissed/held me, and even teared up while we spoke about our feelings and about him leaving. To him, I was funny, down to earth, humble, and “mature for [my] age” (21). For the record, even though I liked him just as much, I was never as affectionate becuase i’m careful/rational with my emotions and given the circumstance, it wasn’t worth putting my whole heart into. Well, fast-forward to his departure where we didn’t say goodbye in person and where he admitted he was ignoring me prior to, which led me to send a lengthy/emotional text so as to give myself closure. He replied, apologizing, and then we stopped talking.
Three weeks pass by, and suddenly I get a phone call from him. He’s telling me how he misses me, thinks about me a lot, creeps my social media every day to see how i’m doing, and that he really wants to visit me when he has the chance to get deployed on a mission again. This was a happy surprise, no doubt, but after the call I began to wonder what this would mean for us since, while he was still here, he said long distance never works (he also said we wouldn’t be in contact after he left, yet he does this).
What would you do in a situation like this? Personally, i’m leaving it all up to him. As much as i’d like to give it a go (because I know I can do it), 10 months would be a long wait and I don’t know if Sagittarius can pull off LDR. Do you think his words are genuine? He seems to like me quite a bit, making me feel as though it’s possible.
Anyway, sorry this was so lengthy! Any advice/personal experiences would be highly appreciated! :o)