I was in a short-term friendship/relationship with a Scorpio and it ended because of lots of misunderstandings, his hot and cold behavior and disappearing acts. Anyway, to make a long story short, last Dec.2014 I decided to call him and told him that I would like the communication to open up between us, so that when we met at the club (where he normally goes) I would feel more comfortable with less tension. I guess the fact that I initiated the call, he no longer felt in control and he said to me: ‘We’re just friends, I don’t want to have a relationship with you’. I was surprised he said that and felt badly hurt and it was a complete let down for me.
So 2 months later, when I went to the club, I completely ignored him and he kept looking at me trying to get my attention, but I couldn’t even look at him. Until this day, he still comes around, stares at me and follows me with his eyes every move I make. Best of all, when I dance with a guy, it really seems to bother him. My question is: If he gave me closure, why does it bother him when I dance with someone else? Does he want me back?
If I was you I would rather focus on people who give me or may give me 10 times happiness, will make me feel a whole lot better. Why waste time on someone who is so much closed? isn’t it obvious already?