Scorpio in Love and Romance

This sun-sign signifies one very distinct human quality – fierceness of intent and sense of purpose. This is displayed amply in the way Scorpios go about their love lives. And this diligence and effort can, most of the time, be seen as trying to prove one’s love to oneself or one’s loved one. This need for reassurance is quite good as long as it acts as glue keeping you close to your wife. But when that is not the case, it can get really frightening for the partner. With great power comes a great need to control that power.

And the same can be said about your sexual drive. You are very passionate about your loved one, and don’t miss a single opportunity to express that passion physically, which is greatly welcome. But say you are away from him/her; is it possible for you to keep all that sexual energy pressed within you until you see him/her? If not, you are calling for some real trouble. Sure you might not go the length, and nothing might happen, but how will you deal with the feeling of guilt that will be rooted within you? And let’s say for a moment that you will deal with it and turn out all right. But will you be able to accept the same kind of behavior from your partner?

The answer to that question is a resounding NO. Jealousy is a very ugly feeling, and it looks ugliest when it is harbored by a person with such a strong personality as you. This jealous, possessive nature has destroyed many happy relationships. While even the other person’s smallest interactions would be viewed through a spectacle of doubt and jealousy, your own misadventures will be wrapped in secrecy. It would be quite good if the partner can see through all this shortcomings and love you for what you are. But be as it may, it would really be good for you to try and check these tendencies, if only to make your companion’s life just a little better.

  1. scorpio man July 18th, 2018

    I really love my partner but the sexual side of the relationship is sometimes very flat. The description that you gave to my character in the article above suggests that I should maybe look further afield to try to find true romance?

  2. Queen January 8th, 2018

    I read my horoscope from time to time and I must say I’m every bit of what my horoscope says I am!!!! SCORPION QUEEN

  3. jameskakolil March 6th, 2016

    @EvolvedScorpio. Yes indeed all scorpios are James Bond Men just like The Greatest King of All times, HRM King Solomon of Israel. They are sexually passionate and want the best love from beautiful women. They really know how to Love a woman and do stay utmostly faithful to their Loved Ones. They are revengeful and practically stand to speak up for the truth. Though not murderous they have a greater sense for justice and are political. They make good managers/overseers/organizers too. They know to choose the best and are very protective. Scorpios are the only true to love friends in the entire zodiac spectrum. Scoropios make many enemies and they are straightforward but an negative finding among them is Jealousy and Burning Sexual Passion which can be enjoyed if exploited for the Good. Americas greatest gospel tele-evangelist, Billy-Graham is born an Scorpio. India had two proud Scorpios: Indira Gandhi and Jawaharlal Nehru. Internationally, Bill Gates and Prince Charles, Leonardo Di-Capario and HRH Princess Grace of Monaco are born Scorpios. Scorpios according to the Chinese Astrology are known as Dragons. To Love them is Life but to Hate them is Death. I am looking for Scorpio Friends and if you like to be one call me on my Mumbai (India) Cell No: 9969499347.

    • Daniel Cameron November 16th, 2017

      I am a true Scorpion born November 12 th. I am contacting you for I am always looking to make new friends from different lands and cultures. My name is Daniel.

  4. Angelaswag October 31st, 2015

    @Arieswomenapril….hi…I think i can help. Im a Scorpio and Scorpios don’t usually lie. He might have lied to you cuz something, maybe an insult in his past upset him about who he is. SScorpio are really sensitiveband get hurt easily. Just be patient around him and when he feels comfortable around you, he might share his thoughts

  5. Angelaswag October 31st, 2015

    Um…i’m a Scorpio woman and have fallen in serious love with an Aquarius..we used to be class mates but then we got separate cause my family moved. Im really upset cause I never get to see him…and im scared he might think I don’t love him anymore. How can I tell him my feelings are sincere?? Any ideas?

  6. cherrykoko March 27th, 2014

    Am proud 2 be a scorpio and my guy is also a scorpion

  7. cherrykoko March 27th, 2014

    I am a scorpio can I married scorpio?

  8. Capcat June 9th, 2013

    Hi I’m a cap girl and I really like this Scorpio. How do I know if he’s interested? We never really talk but we were at this party once and we were both a little tipsy and we were all over each other and made out. He has kinda ignored me ever since. I usually feel a strong sexual attraction to him but I never show it, only that one time when there was alcohol involved. Could it be that the situation is the same with him? Because I’ve read that Scorpio men usually make it very clear whether they like someone or not. Someone please help me!

    • Queen January 8th, 2018

      Do you want the truth or a lie? I’m a Scorpio woman and Scorpio men do not like easy women cause he will think that you are like that with every man!!!

  9. Scorpio Chick! February 18th, 2013

     i love this sight!! it is awesome man!!

  10. Msinsatiable September 18th, 2012

    @EvolvedScorpio Sound like a sex addict to me lol just kidding.but my scorpio man in my opinion is a sex addict but hes the first lover ive had that can satisfy my sex first evr to make me tap out too

  11. Moonlight28 November 19th, 2011

    @EvolvedScorpio Anthony do you really want us to answer that? hahaha, no i don’t think you are i think that your just a person in need really. So i’m not gonna judge you. A scorpio can only hold off sex for a long period of time and i think it’s like that with many men all over the world so your not alone in this and no i don’t have sex like that I’m a capricorn, I only h vae sex or should i say hot, sweaty, beath taking love making with the one i love and i love a challenge in the bed “who’s who’s gonna take control of the bed” sort of speak if you know what i mean. other than that when i’m single these legs are closed, okay, I don’t sleep around like that, too much of a goody two shoe haha. but trust me i do know how to have fun.

  12. Arieswomenapril October 17th, 2011

    hey,I am a Aries women who meet a guy and i asked him what sign he has and he answer me that he was lion but when we got close i saw a scorpion tatto on his arm. So hes obviously a scorpion and he acts like one. So why would he lie about a that ? Anyone who is a scorpio has idea . Dose scorpions lie cuz i read also that they very honest and also secretive so is this how they act when they are?

  13. linden October 9th, 2011

    Often the reason for my moodiness (I am a scorpio) is that my thoughts have wondered somewhere where I don’t actually want them to go. Somewhere where I hide old pain, or sadness. If that happens I am suddenly very upset. Usually, though I try to make my thoughts go somewhere where I get into a better mood, which helps me, but that probably just makes me seem even moodier to other people who don’t know what’s going on in my head.
    This sometimes makes me very depressed because I don’t quite understand myself, and I hate not understanding things. I also hate feeling that I can’t tell people things that would help them understand me, because I hate it when people can’t understand things fully either, and so make wrong judgements. Often I keep things to myself though because I don’t want the info to hurt any one else. As they say, ignorance is bliss. Often however, that just ends up making life even harder for me.

    This probably looks messy, and that kind of is the way it is. Sorry, very hard to put into understandable words.

    • Queen January 8th, 2018

      A scorpion man or woman will lie to you if they’re really not interested in you which is not right but we don’t like to be lied to Yes we can be honest when we want to be and need to be

    • L M September 4th, 2018

      At the moment this is a quite accurate account of how it is.

  14. xxxbrokenwingxxx September 25th, 2011

    Im a scorpio and I don’t understand this so much because. I am passionate, and would try and avoid anything that would hurt the one I loved. I can be cold, but I put a great effort at being nice. I love the idea of love, and would rather him be happy over me. I prefer his happiness over my own and I would do a lot to make him happy. Im do get jealous, I do get mean, and I do like playing by my rules, but I would never put my worst side towards the once I love I would rather keep it inside. Being a scorpio is something special to me. I like the idea of being strong on the outside, but you must remember even the strongest souls can be hurt. With every beauty there shall be a beast.

    • Queen January 8th, 2018

      Well put I must say I like that and yes I’m a scorpion woman but I can’t hold nothing inside that hurts me that is so not good for me!!!!

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  16. EvolvedScorpio March 28th, 2011

    I’m a scorpio man people often say that scorpios are sex addicts, I’ll admit I do think about and have sex often but I don’t consider myself a sex addict,sex is just the way I express myself,what do you think?

    • Queen January 8th, 2018

      We are sex addicts!!! Why lie to yourself!!! There are other ways you can express yourself I’m a proud scorpion

  17. nina86 February 18th, 2011

    I have to admit i’m a scorpio and everything it says about us, i am all that lol. I tend to be very possesive, jealous and mean. There are days i can be soo happy and someone can say your hair looks bad and i flip out out of nowhere. My boyfriend, who is a leo, by the way says i’m bipolar. I highly disagree. i just think it’s in our scorpio nature on how we react sometimes. Overall i love being a scorpio i think it shows how strong we can be even if we are emotional sometimes.

    • Queen January 8th, 2018

      Oh my gosh this is so funny cause I’m 50 and my kids and family says I’m bipolar to so maybe I am and I tell them I was a Scorpio first!!!! HAHAHA

  18. Stunna February 9th, 2011

    Hey guy, being honest scorpios are moody but they always have a reason behind even if they wont show you. Im a scorpio man involved with a virgo woman and things are good between us, we support each other and we both value each other. what iv’e js noticed about her is that she is moreover the same as i am, we both don’t show it when we hurt. But at the moment we are trying to teach each other to be more open to each other. I love this gal…

  19. imahappy January 14th, 2011

    i hate to admit it but scorpios are really moody, changes from time to time,sometimes jolly then later its like the world is in chaos.and like what andrea_carrera said that when a scorpio sense that they’ve treat u wrong, theyll make up for it..

  20. andrea_carrera December 26th, 2010

    involved with one another you will still share a bond like no other this based on my previous relationship with my scorpio ex

  21. andrea_carrera December 26th, 2010

    not all scorpio men are crazy, it is true they can come off as distant and aloof at times, am a scorpio woman and my ex was a scorpio man, i really do love him dispite the fact we are no longer together..we just understood each other to another level of understanding…we just clicked emotionally physically pschycologically…and we remain friends.. the key to scorpio men is when he starts to acts aloof ..try to make him open up if he refuses then just give him space and live your life he would come crawling back…scorpios have conscience so if they feel they treat you wrong or wrongfully took it out on you…they will man up and try to make things right…so dont give up on your scorpio man…not all scorpios men are created equally..if you both support, trust and entertain one another and are loyal+faithful toward each other..your love would truly be a romeo juliet romance that lasts even after you too no longer romatically involv

  22. maya balmiki December 6th, 2010

    i want to know whether i will be able to marry my lover.i love him a lot and i dont want to lose him.pls suggest what should i do to keep him with me forever…

  23. Dark lord scorpio November 20th, 2010

    I love the way belladonna writes ‘no offence’ but scorpios are psychotics! Designed to offend both scorpios and people with the unfortunate problem of having a mental health disorder that causes psychotic behaviour in their person. 10 out of 10 for lack of understanding and inability to think through the consequences of your comments…

  24. Nine November 12th, 2010

    nice site. im a scorpio and i know how difficult some of scorpio’s are (im one of them. still i’m proud to be a scorpio). Scorpio’s are compatible with cancer (I guees). My bf’s zodiac sign is cancer and were in good terms.

  25. belladonna November 4th, 2010

    no offense to scorpios but they are HIGHLY instable emotionally, especially the men… borderline psychotic. unless you are in love with one, steer clear!

  26. Gauri October 20th, 2010

    ^ WOW.. same here. I’m an Aries girl in love with Scorpio man..

    He’s very cold at times, and I’m hurt by his instable behaviour.. 🙁 The worst part is I love him so much, and I just feel helpless when he is all cold, and secrative. :'(

  27. Caroline August 6th, 2010

    I’m a gemini girl and inlove with a scorpio man. He likes to hide his thoughts away from me while i’m trying to get his heart. At times, he is friendly and at times he is cold. This makes me crazy cuz i hate guessing. Should i just moved on? cuz Scorpio mite not be suitable for gemini 🙁

  28. jayapal July 16th, 2010
  29. jayapal July 16th, 2010

    name maching about our marrige life

  30. anjalika March 4th, 2009

    i loved ur description about scorpio we are waht u discribed but proud 2 be a scorpio

  31. rebeca February 21st, 2009

    this is the best horoscope ive seen its spot on

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