Taurus Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Taurus woman and Scorpio man have strong personalities, commitment, and a magnetic partnership.
  • Taurus woman and Scorpio man have a powerful and stimulating sex life.
  • Taurus woman can attract the Scorpio man with her sensuality and loyalty.
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Both the Taurus and Scorpio are attracted to the other’s strong personality and willingness to commit. This is a sexually intense and magnetic partnership which has brighter chances of lasting when Taurus woman and Scorpio man are involved. Both the Taurus and Scorpio sense the ability to “go the distance”, and mutual respect is likely the result.

A Scorpio man is extremely perceptive and his the uncanny ability to understand the reasons and motives of others makes him more aware of the wide range of situations and possibilities. He is a person who has high values and uses his emotional intelligence for good purposes. While he has a reputation for being suspicious and vengeful, these are simply his darker qualities that only come out when he is personally experiencing a bad phase in his life. In a relationship, he is a very caring and protective mate who always stands in front of his lady love to keep her safe from all the worldly problems.

A Taurus woman is a very down-to-earth and hardworking person in all that she does. She does not tend toward being impulsive, instead she looks far ahead before she leaps and makes meticulous plans for the future. She may appear to be shy upon the first few meetings, but she can quickly warm up and be an entertaining conversationalist. In a relationship, she is a very devoted and loyal lover with warmth of love and supporting hand. She has very sensual and graceful approach in love life, making the relationship cozier and lasting.

As the eyes of the sensual Taurus woman meets the hypnotic eyes of the Scorpio man, there is an impossible to resist attraction that she experiences. Though in the beginning she feels he can be risky and unpredictable to deal with but his seductive qualities eventually wins her over, and with gracious luck she finds a man who can be trusted forever. She makes a great match for the Scorpio male who looks around for a woman with sugar coated heart and rock hard will. She knows how to respect and love him and how to make his life smoother without actually interfering. She gives her best of both emotional as well as physical love with a wonderful food, making the home of a Scorpio man the most perfect place to be in. She is intelligent enough to support him in rough times and to keep up his spirits when needed.

A Scorpio man in love with a Taurus woman adores his lady like a goddess. He knows how to love and respect her but never let her forget that he is the Man in the relationship! He has a passionate way of loving and protecting his lady love and provides her with the best of the things available in all aspects. He makes her feel special in a way no other man can make someone feel and also spoils her with lots of pampering, good food and best fragrances available with such a taste of music that makes her tap her toes. He is like a strong mountain, keeping her untouched by all problems and society evils. Though he is suspicious and sometimes passionate to an unhealthy amount but the kind of love and care given by him is far worthier than his grey qualities.

As love pours on the Taurus woman and Scorpio man tying them in a never wobbling knot, they both grow intimate and possessive of each other and actually learn to enjoy the feeling of being possessed in such a passionate way. The stubbornness of the Taurus female melts away in the passionate romance of her Scorpio male and his jealousy and suspicious order vanishes out in the devotion and loyalty presented by her. As their eyes meet to reveal all the lovely promises their hearts make to each other, blossomy unison is experienced by these two love birds. The deep love they feel for each other washes away all the differences making them two persons with loving heart and pure soul that claims for oneness and nothing else!

The blend of Water and Earth is one of the best, both in emotional as well as sexual relationship. Once a sexual link develops between the Taurus woman and Scorpio man, it becomes manifestly apparent that this is what drew them together. They both have powerful appetites and need an active, stimulating sex life in order to express them fully and feel appreciated to their greatest capacity. Their approach to sexuality does differ in some very fundamental ways. To Taurus woman, it is highly physical and earthy, and she reaches her heights primarily through her five senses. Scorpio man is quite the opposite. To him, sex is a metaphysical experience that takes him to a higher spiritual plane. Both form powerful emotional bonds through their love making, and their physical connection is without a doubt the strength of their relationship. Even when things go awry outside of the bedroom, their bond behind closed doors make them do their best to work things out. Their love making is a blend of passion and romance which makes them experience the highest form of fulfillment and Oneness!

This relationship begins with a bang and most likely is long-lasting but problems may arise for this couple when Scorpio man slowly reveals the deeper, inner side of his personality that he tries so hard to keep hidden from the outside world. On the surface, he displays only his cold, calculating reason and his deeply instilled practicality. These are things that Taurus woman is happy to embrace, since she values rationality and sensibility above all else. It is when the extremity and severity of his convictions come to light that she becomes wary. Even the stubbornness and blind prejudice of her creates issues for him who has a tendency of dominating in the relationship. If both of them are ready to co-relate their problems and talk it over, there is a good chance that these two find their way resulting in a happy ending.

Taurus Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility Rating

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152 Comments
  1. Stacy October 17th, 2017

    I recently broke up with a Scorpio guy . We were not compatible at all , he was extremely jealous and controlling . His temper was very bad when he didn’t get his way . It came to a point where he began to get violent , so the relationship had to end .

  2. Nirvana September 18th, 2017

    My husband is a Scorpio and marrying him was the best decision of my life. I unsuccessfully dated two other Scorpio guys in the past, and those relationships were really painful for me. However, it is soooo different with my husband, probably because he is an emotionally mature person. Even though we fight sometimes, we manage to resolve our conflicts fairly (probably because he cannot fall asleep if we are fighting, and there is only that long you can go without sleep lol) He is so supportive and is always there for me, and, of course, very handsome 😉

    • atp April 25th, 2018

      Nirvana, seems like you two hit the jackpot. so good to feel your positive vibes. keep on moving, be happy

  3. Ashley Tate July 29th, 2017

    I met a guy while I was vacationing in Seattle. He currently lives in California and I live in Texas. He has a girlfriend and I’m separated and in process of filing for divorce. We met in Florida last week and had an awesome time. We both have comical personalities and the sex was fantastic. Is there a possible future for us? We met 2 months ago I like him and would consider relocating.

    Signed,

    I need him

    • atp April 25th, 2018

      Ashley, dont take him- grab him. but let it evolve naturally. good luck and stay positive

  4. Ashley Tate July 29th, 2017

    I met a guy while I was vacationing in Seattle. He currently lives in California and I live in Texas. He has a girlfriend and I’m separated and in process of filing for divorce. We met in Florida last week and had an awesome time. We both have comical personalities and the sex was fantastic. Is there a possible future for us? We met 2 months ago I like him and would consider relocating.

    Signed,

    I want him

  5. MissBond June 16th, 2017

    I’ve met several Scorpios throughout the year’s. My recent encounter is like no other. He’s mature, ambitious, family-oriented and humorous. We lost contact and I assume he was not interested but some how he found me. I try to contain myself when I’m around him but my mind flourishes with all these thoughts. I hope we can form a friendship and ” go the distance” once we’ve become more acquainted.

  6. Afiya April 5th, 2017

    I do not know this is true or false but I am Taurus woman and I love him a lot the things appeared above is exactly happend with me hope the future is as brighter as this App is showing I will pray to god…… I love him soooooooooo much love you yarr till the end of my last breath…

    • Jamie Satterlee June 15th, 2017

      I am a taurine woman my husband a scorpio … we have been together for 18 years and now my kids are grown and hope their relationship is like ours … people always ask if we’re newlyweds ? there is no me without him nor him without me … we are a true ying and yang!

      • Yash Prajapati June 21st, 2017

        Wow!! Nice to hear that Ma’am? . Me too Scorpio.

  7. Ruwan January 17th, 2017

    I’m a Scorpio man and all of this is true. She is the first one i ever sed i love you to and i knew 2 week’s in. But my love wont stop testing me and puching me away. and the way’s she does is it is very hurtfill. But even with this I will not let hir out of my life. Even if it’s a one sided love and we dont end up together in the end i will alway’s look over hir. All Iwant is for hir to be happy if it’s with me or not. Scorpio’s dont play with word’s if he ses he love’s you.He means it with all his heart.

    • Ty March 28th, 2017

      To Ruwan,

      I’m a 47yr old Scorpio man and I can identify with one-sided loves. Because we give our all to what ever we do. But we self sacrifice too much in love sometimes. Well alot of times. Love should make you better. OK. When it stops making you better. Get the Hell outta there! You’re much too good of a man to live like that. It will be tough leaving but you’ll gain love for yourself once again. Trust me! God Bless!

  8. musewrangler22 April 14th, 2016

    I am a Taurus woman (on the cusp of Aries/Taurus, but sun in Taurus), and I have fallen for my first Scorpio Man.
    I was married for 15 years to a Libra, only to discover that what I perceived as a deep, mutually fulfilling relationship of best friends and soulmates, was actually a house of cards, built on lies and deceptions. Libras are air signs, and I learned the hard way, that all his words were as weighty as air.
    As soon as I met my Scorpio man, I felt the GRAVITY of him. He is solid (physically, like a rock or a mountain, unlike any man I have ever been with before). He is also solid in his attention and devotion to me.
    Soon after we met, we both talked about how this was different for both of us, way beyond a casual relationship, that we were “building a cord” together.
    He told me, at 48, that I am the first woman he has ever really been in love with (this includes his former wife, an abusive, borderline personality woman). I have loved before, but I have never felt so safe and cherished as I do with him.
    Even still, as a Taurus, and as a woman who has been deeply betrayed, I struggle with trusting him. My pride/ego was so wounded in my marriage, that even though I know my worth and value, I can still get unreasonably afraid that my heart will again be devastated, and when that happens I pull away, and retreat into the whirlwind of my mind.
    He is so wise and understanding, though. He has been through the hell of a bad marriage, and he seems to anticipate all of my emotional responses before I even come to them. He is always forgiving of me, never angers, gives me space, brings me close. Truly, he is the most perceptive/intuitive man I’ve ever met.
    I used to only be drawn to very flashy, verbally witty, super intelligent – showy men. Now, this Scorpio has turned me off that taste entirely. I see them all as false, except for him.
    Our lovemaking is sensitive, and drawn out and sensual and just the right amount of fun and kinky.
    He is always there with a strong hug when I need it. He listens patiently to my spinning mind, and laughs wholeheartedly at my jokes, but can silence me with a word when he knows I need to get out of my head.
    Shortly after we met, I felt myself suddenly drawn to all of these websites, videos, describing twin flames.
    I had never even heard of that before, but we both feel it describes us.
    He told me he loved me two weeks after he met me, and told me he didn’t even remember the last time he’d ever said those words, although he “must have, at some point, to his wife, to get married.” 
    I couldn’t help but say I loved him back, because it is true, even though my heart is still suffering from betrayal.
    I know he will be by my side for the rest of his life. I just know this.

    • saraatefelshikh852014 December 22nd, 2016

      Hello
      U r really made me too much happy bec your story same to me . but I’m still afraid and going away . I feel too much satisfied with him and I don’t want to lose him ever

    • leanna January 16th, 2017

      I have been with a libra as wel and he did the same to me. I have now found my scorpio and you are right this is a relationship and love like no other. it is wonderful.

    • Mjb March 30th, 2017

      I Ve just begun getting close to a Scorpio man and I am a Taurus woman. I felt an instant connection first time I looked in his eyes. Your words especially the being attractive to flashy men and wanting real connection and also being afraid of devastation. Your post makes me hopeful.

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  11. proft December 25th, 2015

    Last month, my taurus woman broke up with me. We were together for 5 months. She said that she couldn’t be in a relationship any more, and she wanted to be single. That she couldn’t get pushed to be right in a relationship. That she was feeling like that, due to not having stayed alone for a long time, since her 2 year realtionship that ended 4 months before meeting me. Since then we have contacted only once. She responded to my texts, she was kind then.
     
    If I let some time to pass, can I win her back? And if so, how? I’m a scorpio man, we’re both 25 years old. I’m feeling that shes the one.
     
    Merry Christmas to all…

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  14. ScorpioAugustus April 7th, 2015

    I’m a Scorpio man and I have been with a Taurus woman on and off now for number of years. We met in primary school, which many of you know as junior high at very young age and almost immediately took a liking to each other. Years laters we met as young adults through mutual friends and both realised the chemistry we shared remained. Although we were both in relationships at the time, we both decided at that point to explore our feelings and that’s when It all began. It’s been 15 years now, since we first met and one hell of a roller coaster, we’ve had other relationships and different partners  during and in between our moments together. Our moments have spanned over half my life and some moments went on for years at a time. She has become a very big part of me and It has taken me a long time to understand why is it that i can’t just let her go despite everything being against me. I just have such a indescribable connection with this Taurus girl. It is so powerful and overwhelming, passionate and sensual. When she gazes at me from across a room full of people it just takes over me, I freeze for a moment inside before a warmth rushes through my body, and everything for a second goes quiet, all I can see are her beautiful eyes and all I can feel is my heart beating uncontrollably. It almost becomes too much…

    I really how much I love this Taurus girl and what means to do so unconditionally. Yes she is true to her star sign in so many ways and carries many of the good and bad qualities associated to her sign. But I really don’t agree with  some of the generalisation about Taurus Female and Scorpio Male couples. She is perfect to me in all her imperfect way, she is down to earth, she is the hardest working when she wants to be but can also be the laziest person if she so pleases. She is strong willed, determine and driven, so much so she could drive me up a wall or even off a cliff on the wrong day. I also disagree with a earlier statement someone made, Taurus women know how to throw a good  tantrum. I agree, she’s is shy but not submissive. She’s nurturing and considerate but disagree in that she can handle the reigns  and call the shots but yes I agree she will do her best to not interfere. The sex with this Taurus girl, has eclipsed all others I have ever been with. As a true Scorpio I crave deep, sensual, passionate sex and have a constant lust sensual affection from my partner that only this Taurus girl has ever satisfied. so I agree with earlier statements about sex being a major foundation in the relationship, it is one of our strongest points of communication in our relationship but it can’t be the only one.
     
    Myself as a Scorpio man, I know we have many good and bad traits, I know i can be dark and secretive at times and play my cards close to my chest. All this can come across as distant and detached but I have only ever been this because the truth is I’m scared. I may not show it but I’m sensitive and sometimes I feel like the love I have for her is so deep overwhelming I need to protect my heart from being broken beyond repair. True to their sign Scorpios will 99.99% situations be this way, they will live this way till the end of there days and they know it. 
     
    Some advice to other Scorpio men and something that I have now promised to my Taurus girl. Be aware that one day you will meet someone, the right person, and you’ll know. The one girl that will help you let go  of your inhibitions. Be it a Virgo, Cancer or a even Taurus girl, you will know she is worth risking everything for, everything you have fought so hard to protect. She will sweep you off your feet, leave you breathless, she will be your exception, she will be that .01% she’ll complete you. You will need to evolve if you want any chance of making it work and compromise which I know is something hard for us Scorpio men. Harder yet we are secret keepers, and for better or worse you’ll need to learn to be open with Taurus girl.
     
    My advice to Taurus women is openness. Both signs possess deep emotional traits and can be problematic if not expressed enough during the relationship. I know this may not sound fair, but due to the nature of Scorpios, they tend to isolate themselves emotionally and it takes a strong Taurus female to bring them back. This may mean being the first to make a move, give something without receiving, meeting him more than half way, be the first to tell him how you feel. Or just what is really going on in your head because 9 times out of 10 that’s what he’s trying to figure out. Like many before me have said, If you love your Scorpio man and want to be with him, take a chance and he’ll love you and cherish in return more than life itself, he’ll be the best and most loyal friend a Taurus woman can have, and he’ll remember what you have done for him until the end of his days….
     
    For my Taurus Girl.
     
     

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  17. chaskaguy1 September 29th, 2014

    @Tiffy0518
    Weird, a Scorpio that doesn’t want sex. I love sex and always have, even at 48. I actually prefer performing oral over anything else. He may have something from his past inhibiting him.

  18. chaskaguy1 September 29th, 2014

    @taurus girl
    I’m a Scorpio male. I am dedicated beyond belief, once I’m in love. If I love someone nothing can make me stray, ever! The only thing that has ever changed that was the other person cheating on me. For me, that is a death knell and there is no going back, ever! It’s true if you do that to me, you may wish you never met me, but not because of what I would do, only because of what I may say.
    I am dating a Taurus woman right now. She’s strong willed, which is the key for me. She’s not over the top though, and bends, I do as well. She played hard to get, but I am persistent. Actually, I laid it on the line after a few weeks. If she remains loyal, I will defend her until the end of days. I have never cheated on anyone in 48 years. I have a Cancer moon.

  19. Tiffy0518 August 8th, 2014

    I’ve been with my Scorpio for over 14yrs now and it hasn’t been an easy road that’s for sure.  He is always testing my to see if I will stray but I don’t and I’m always honest with him but yet he is so closed off an reserved it drives me nuts.  But when we’re good we’re great!  But I’d like to know why the hell he tests me all the time it’s like I need to test him cause I don’t know why he does it I’ve always been by his side.  Also he and I don’t seem to want the same things ex:  I want more sex, more kids and even marriage and he doesn’t seem to want the same things.  We’ve been together since 20yrs of age he’s 6 months older than me now we’re 33yrs old it’s hard to know if I should move on or not cause I want different then him and I’m tired of his insecurities.  I don’t know people but the longer you stay with a Scorpio the more you feel like you’re going insane and yes everything was great in the beginning but it’s been constant arguing and him not seeing how I really feel.    

  20. scorpioguy447 July 7th, 2014

    @Florentyna.

    I myself am a scorpio man. I know we get moody sometimes and we say things we really don’t mean. Try and give him a few weeks a month is too much. Try to let him know you are still interested and that you will share an effort to make it work. But set some ground rules. They tend to help!

  21. Florentyna March 20th, 2014

    Ok, I know this quiet famous guy in my college, he’s like the eye candy of every girl in college flirts with all of them that’s what his reputation has been(even the 50’s professors aren’t spared by his charm)……but i have had a every different experience. I noticed him observing me for quiet sometime but he never really made the first move nor did we speak (though we both enjoy enough popularity in our respect)…..Finally i got restless with those eyes staring at me and noticing my moves and just started with a friendly chat a hi n hello here and there…To my surprise he never has flirted with me even once i have been waiting he would hit on me but no and he secretly confessed to my best friend whom he’s taken on a few dates that he’s scared of me….I did try being funny around him to just make him feel comfortable…..but he has never never never initiated any conversation whatsoever…but whenver we are in a circle of friends he would make fun of my guy(whom i had been dating) in a way to prove he’s better……and off late he made fun of me and when i told him this ain’t the way he should speak to me he has stopped replying being extremely cold and so did i post that incident (WE ARE AT LOGGERHEADS but he hasn’t left my thoughts for a minute)……I fail to understand this treatment….different cold but his eyes……what do i take from all this….especially now that we are done with our graduation…he’s so not my types but there’s this strange similarity that pulls me towards him
     
    PLZ HELP ME DEAL WITH HIM…How do i make things normal between us?

  22. ame87 January 21st, 2014

    Met a scorpio boy back in 2008, all we did was having coffee and talk. We talked for 4~5 hours every time we meet. Our conversations were about Intellectual and philosophical staffs, nothing flirty. He was nice to talk but i did not get a good vibe from him as man. (Slightly moody and weak/lay..)
     
    Anyway he left the country and we kept contacting each other every few months. 3years later, i accidently met his friends in the cafe and they told me that he liked me alot and still miss me. i am like “what? No way loll” He had many girlfriends and it was hard to believe it because i did not do anything apart from bit of coffee talk.
     
    Back to 2013, i travelled and met him overseas. He wanted to take me to a bar but i do not drink, so we spent the whole night in the coffee shop like how we used to few years ago. We have not changed much. Just a little bit less cautious towards each other. We started to contact more, like once a week, but still i cannot think that he is into me.
     
    Scorpio man is hard to know, intense and complicated, but i guess it is not fair to push them just beacuse you cannot figure them out. People need their time to decide what they want to do sometimes.. i do not know what he thinks but i do my thing, he does his thing and sometimes we share our lives when we have time. i would like to have long term friendship with him and i think that is good enough for taurus and scorpio. Relationship can make things more complicated instead of security and stability when you are not ready.. good luck everyone

  23. MiaBoo July 9th, 2013

    ummmmmmm ima find my scorpio i think that its amazing how well we get along 

  24. JasonScorpio May 15th, 2013

    I’m a scorpio guy and in 2008 met a taurus girl. We hit it off instantly, it was like we’d known each other for ages. We became best friends, spending a lot of time together and I knew we were falling for each other. The problem was that I was with someone at the time. So, I had to tell taurus girl no. She didn’t take it well, and we sort of lost contact.
    We met up again in 2012, both single, and started talking again. Turns out we had both been thinking of each other a lot during those 4 years, sort of still being in love but from a distance. Well I wasn’t going to let her get away again. We’ve been together a little over a year now and care very deeply for each other.
    The thing is, the fights are intense, and unfortunately I think she gets the worst of it most of the time. If you’re a scorpio guy with a taurus girl trust me, I recently learned this; drop your pride sometimes, be patient, instead of retaliating when she seems to be freaking out (we have this instinct to meet perceived attacks with superior force) try just comforting her instead. Let her win once in a while. It’s no big loss and she’s more important than you making your point right?
     
     
     

  25. lizajanejade April 10th, 2013

    im a taurus women and ive been with my scorpio man for 13 years now married 6 of it.We went to high school together and he told me he addored me so much,but thought i was too cool for him.He played football and i hung out with totally different people.So he was scared to ask me out.We got together once before our 13yrs and it lasted a couple of months.We worked together putting swimming pools in for people.I needed to make money to pay my rent.The guy {leo} i moved in with me had to go to jail for driving on suspended driver liscences.I only knew this leo fellow for about 6 weeks and he moved in with me, yuk.So while he was in jail me and scorpio started working together and hanging out.I was falling in love with him and i know he was me.I had to tell him we can know longer hang out cuz leo was getting out on shock probation.My scorpio male cried.I tried so hard to get my leo dude leave me,i would stay out all night and nothing worked.Well i dont no about u but i didnt like the leo male.Always wanting to b the leader and not like how i wanted to b leaded.So when we spilt i ran into my scorpio man its been on every since.I love my scorpio man and would b lost without him.He can b so secertive and thats the only thing i have trouble with.Im open to him like water coming out of a faucet,lol,but its like fireworks when we make love.His ways in bed are so smooth,like his kiss is so soft wonder lover.I can b so stubborn that it makes my scorpio b just as hard at times.Just show him love and he will melt into your hand.Always trying to protect me i love him so much for that.He’s my bestfriend,lover,husband,and my hero.I never want to lose my scorpio man.

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  27. laco123 January 16th, 2013

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  28. csmile2 December 31st, 2012

    I am a Taurus lady and met a Scorpio male about 2 months ago. It started off as eye contact and wow. We were on an island for a mutual affair. It was so much fun. But unfortunately once back to the states it all went down hill. He was too aloof and mysterious. I didn’t have that kind of time.

  29. Hope92 December 28th, 2012

    I’ve been married for 4 years to a Scorpio. We got together when I was 16 and he was 19 I was uneasy with him at first he made me feel uneasy. But for me that was a big thing I had lost my mother a year before meeting him and I had become very cold and apathic but that spring day I met him, he was very forthcoming held my hand the first day very interactive which made my head spin because I’m not the type to like being touched unless it’s someone I care about he made me feel again. He was very active always on the go. It really scared the hell out of me to be feeling again. But I liked it, I was always jumping in his truck and heading out to new places with him. Well only two weeks after dating he told me he loved me I hung up on him I wasn’t having it. He wanted to move in together then get married he was very pushy about it all. And being dumb I got married to him at 16. Shortly after getting married He started pushing the baby talk how he wanted me to give him a son. (Just for the record I was raised to please your husband and give him what he ask for) So 6 months later I became pregnant with a little boy. We had some really rough times with living sitations when I was pregnant but after a lot of pushing and talking he finally got a okay job for the moment. When we moved into our first home we had together alone he became very contorling not allowing me to talk to some of my closest family and friends. He wanted me to mainly only close with his family and detach from mine. But I wasn’t having it, that caused many fights between us. Finally I had our son and things got a lot worse after that it was hell just walking out the fornt door. He started doing wrongful things to me but I stayed. Finally the time came when I decided to get my school work done and get my drivers linces he didn’t want me too. I had become his prisoner. After 4 years of being together he left me for a 38 year old woman (he is only 23.) It hurt but I felt a slight weight lifted from me. I got my GED and DL right after I moved out and this year I am getting my CNA and hopefully a nice little apartment outside of town. TAURUS WOMAN STAY FAR FAR FAR AWAY FROM SCORPIO MAN!!!!! I don’t know if they are all like that but I can put $100 that I wont ever be in a relationship with one again. They are great dads but horrible husbands he will hurt you and contorl you. If you’re in a relationship with one now get out of it. He’s maybe what you want but he is deff not what you need. I also found that he had cheated on me the whole 4 years with different woman I can say from exp. with one just stay away from them.

  30. barbalina80 December 17th, 2012

    I am a Taurus female, very interested in a Scorpio guy and in my case, he’s 8 years and a half my junior. (anyway physically he looks older and in my case I look younger) It’s been kind of confusing. He is a total mystery to me. He doesn’t have a facebook, he doesn’t talk about his family, his friends, he’s moody but anyway I feel totally lured towards him. he emanates something magnetic. Sometimes he is flirty and nice to me and the next day he doesn’t even say hello, puff I don’t know how to deal with this guy!!!!!!

  31. Neeks85 October 24th, 2012

    @mkh, as a taurus woman myseelf , im sure deep down if she wasnt interested she would have definately made sure you knew that. respect that face she is still recovering from the broken engagement and that in itself will take time. you seemingly have the perfect foundation (friendship) to evolve into a relationship but you will need to be paitent as to keep insiting on bare your heart to her may turn her off completely. know that she is aware of your feelings and when the time is right she may respond in the way you want, but ask yourself are your feelings for her strong enough to risk the close friendship that you guys have? i hope that you find resloution soon, but even if you dont become lovers, being a friend is more of a permanent staple in her life that a ex-lover , think about it?

  32. bhavya19 September 15th, 2012

    @mkh
    hi i think the girl is into astrology. i think she read so many things about scorpio in many sites. and i have read some as well. most of sites says that they are not good match. I think she is scared that it woudn’t work out if you guys get together. these horoscopes stuff is stopping her in my opinion. she seems to be trusting horoscopes rather than interpreting your love. taureans can be narrow minded somtimes and gets influenced easily, and are stubborn. (sometimes like me haha). so she should look at many more sings..like venus, moon, blah blah or go to proffesionals. she should realise that main thing matters is the love. tell her there is more to life than a two paragraphs describes it to be. and there is more to a person and soul, than some writting describes it to be. everything is about experience, evironment, and influences. i hope your love works and not just be broken because of internet haha. this is all my opinion and i don’t know much about horoscopes.

  33. jef August 21st, 2012

    wow Keenecko u hit the nail on the head..i’m scorpio..clingy people not recommended..i’m starting to finally figure out this love stuff..definitely helps when ur with someone thats compatible.i’ve dated other signs to know.Jealousy runs deep 4 scorpios i think..they can shut you off quick..

  34. Chococat August 2nd, 2012

    When I was captured by my 1st Scorpio, I ended a relationship someone who manipulated me. Scorpio guy was there to comfort me and he intutively knew when things weren’t right in my relationship..plus he wanted to sex me. He was married man, a marriage of convenience that help a woman stay in the US. There is alot to that relationship that I can’t convey here..(a whole book) I don’t validate my actions of being with a married man. I actually felt guilty about the whole thing but it turned out..She was no saint either. So in a way to feel good about myself I was with this Scorpio..but I quickly became bored due to his work schedule and commitment. Just as I was ready to leave him..he purposely got me pregnant. Hence I trusted him like I always have in the many months we were together. We didn’t have a good sex life. He wasn’t good. Good size member though. I decided to have his baby based on my previous issues with my former relationship..for some reason it didn’t feel entirely wrong to have the child. We later had a second one. We made do with everything ..he lived and worked out of town but he kept everything Kosher..despite his wife. We traveled like family and he supported me..at first he did try to deny to the state , that the kids wheren’t his..of course to hide the fact that wifey hadn’t known. 
    We basically got along great, despite my growing feelings of resentment towards him..He wasn’t a man, he was an idiot when it came to standing up for himself. He never wanted to be angered as I guess he knew it would get out of hand. We went through some trying times but for the most part I felt he wanted to control me. I however became a woman (he is 12 yrs older than me). The one thing I can say about him is..he did have a way of knowiing when another guy was talking to me. I have Venus is Aries …so I can be pretty aloof to the thoughts of men.  If he was made at me..he told me ..”I had hoped you got into a car accident” ..I had to admit to him..”My Volvo got smashed last night by a drunk driver, thanks alot!”  After 11yrs ..I no longer had sex with him..hoping he would go away..but NOOO ..we had sex one more time and I knew exactly why I never wanted to have sex with him again. I vowed No more Scorpios..as he disappointed me constantly over  the years..took care of his immediate family more than us for the most part. He would be possessive when I was with female friends ..always saying we are talking about him and he don’t like this one and the other..yet hadn’t met any of them yet. He was clean..sexy and funny and I actually felt his love for me..as he did things or assisted me with various things but at times he just urked me. Of course saying he wanted me to marry him ..I never loved him that way. So he never tried to get a divorce..he is still married to this woman ..as they share an investment property and she needs his money for the mortgage. After reading a few good descriptions about Scorpio..mine would have the characterists I’m speaking of now. We are still friends ? but at times he will get mad and say something nasty as I have “thrown him away , like garbage
    I’ll be back for my comment on my 2nd Scorpio ..my age though. And I plan to do a comparison and contrast..I hope.
     

  35. Bananafish May 20th, 2012

    Hello! I am a Taurus Female (sun sign) with Venus in Aires. I am divorcing my Virgo (sun sign) with Venus in Leo. We were together for 6 years, married for 4 years. At first, things were great. But, then financial problems and his insecurity took their toll. He had a psychotic break and couldn’t handle the pressure of a family or marriage anymore. His worst trait is his indifference. He says he is not able to love on the depth that I am capable of. He has been diagnosed with a mental illness and is pretty detached. Ok. That’s where it STARTS/ENDS.
    Moving on to my Scorpio. I have been best friends with my Scorpio male for YEARS. His Venus and Sun are both in Scorpio. We were best friends my senior year of high school. I never felt so great as I was with him. He was always up for my crazy notions. He was totally enamored by me. He was obsessed with me. Everyone always said we were going to get married. That’s what scared me. I didn’t want to be tied down just yet. I was in high school for crying out loud. But, I gave him a lot of attention and ego stroking even though we were both kids. It was something no one else gave him. After graduating, we lost track of eachother. 9 years later, we found eachother on a social network site. He had told me that he had been through some serious depression and had trouble with drinking for a while and didn’t remember a lot. But, what he DID remember was how enamored he was with me and how amazing I was. I was married to my Virgo and obviously not looking for a relationship, so I just accepted the flattery and returned it and treated him like a very cherished friend. With the ok of my Virgo, we started hanging out and having lunch once a month. He’d come over and visit. He’d take me to concerts. My Virgo was always invited but almost always not interested. Years later, I found out that just before my Scorpio came into my life, my Virgo was feeling detached and looking for a way to leave. I feel like I only got through this period in my life because of my Scorpio.
    When my Virgo refused to talk to me, my Scorpio would always listen to my tears and my problems, even if it was late at night. I’d never call him, but sometimes I would email him to see if he was up. He’d say he could always make time for me and he would call me. He was just such a great listener. He still is. When my Virgo left, my Scorpio swooped in and took me to lunch listening to my problems. It wasn’t one sided, either. When my Scorpio had problems, I would listen to him, give him advice, try to help him find someone to love him. He seemed to really need it. There was a person that I buried deep down who secretly wanted to be the one to love him. But, during my separation, my Scorpio was busy with a work project. He works 12 hours a day and does nothing else. Secretly, I know he wants something more but once upon a time, when he was lamenting about not being able to find a woman, he told me he realized he needed to get the work aspect in gear so that he could be in a better position to care for someone. He is in his early 30s and has only had a few girlfriends. He says they all ended painfully. When he talks about them, which isn’t often, almost never, he seems detached. In fact, he tells me that the one he really cared for “always reminded him of me.” I laughed because I told him that I would always look for people who always reminded me of him. He liked that.
    However, since splitting up with my husband, I noticed a difference in my Scorpio. He seems more reserved in ways and less than others. I have only physically seen him twice since telling him that the Virgo and I have been done for six months and are proceeding in divorce. He still treats me like a deeply cherished friend, but there are differences.
    #1: For the last 3 years, we have had lunch together about once a month. Only until my Virgo and I split up did he start this thing where he feeds me off his plate. Whatever he is eating, he asks if I want some and puts it on my plate and asks for some of mine to try. He does the same thing with drinking.
    #2: He makes more dirty jokes and playful comments. When I was with the Virgo, I would tease HIM and he would act flustered and say “face palm!” to me. I would laugh at his discomfort. Now, he seems to not mind making these “comments.” For example, he was teasing me about wearing my high heels on the boardwalk at the beach. He told me he really liked them but assumed they were uncomfortable. I told him that they were perfectly fine and that they gave me great muscle tone. He said he thought that “we women” wore them so we couldn’t run from “them” (men). I told him I was fully capable of running in heels. He seemed to like that.
    #3: He took me out for my birthday when everyone bailed on my party. He spent quite a bit on me and would NOT let me pay for anything. He stayed out with me ALL night until 3 in the morning. He had to drive 2 and a half hours to come see me. He did this in spite of having a deadline to finish on a big project due in two days that was only supposed to be due in 2 months. I told him how much I appreciated him doing that for me. He also wished me a happy mother’s day the next day and two days later wished me a happy birthday. However, when we went out (my other friend, a Cancer, was also there), he told her he might be moving 8 hours away in a couple of weeks for a different job he might want. When she asked him what I was going to do, he said I would just have to come up there and visit him. I texted him a couple days later and told him I totally understood how busy he was, but that I wanted to see him before he left so I told him to let me know if he could make time for me. He said his plans were “not for sure yet” and that he was pretty busy for the next couple of weeks and would let me know. He texted me the next day, on my birthday, to wish me a happy birthday. I thanked him.
    So, here is the confusing part. When he wasn’t working so much and we were just friends, we had all these inside jokes and things we would email eachother. It’s not like he ignores me now. If I initiate it, like with a text or email (which isn’t often), he will reply within an hour via text or a day or so via email. He seems busy and distracted. I understand that. I know he has nothing else going on right now except for work. When we do hang out, it’s great. We sit on the couch and watch funny videos. We laugh at silly things we have in common. But, there is no connection between the times in between unless I iniate it. It seems like it’s dead air. And, when I do initiate contact, it seems like it’s a polite response. Not that it isn’t genuine, it just lacks the old gusto of he used to have.
    Am I just obsessing and worrying over nothing? Is it just because I am seeing HIM in a different light and it’s making me feel vulnerable? My friend says that he probably has no idea I am interested in him romantically because I don’t “swoon” all over him. I pay attention to him and stroke his ego, but I don’t cling or obsess on him. She is a Cancer. She is clingy, so I don’t pay attention to much of what she says. But she thinks if he doesn’t know I am open to him, that he won’t let his thoughts go there. When I was married, he would start to talk about things he wished he had done with me when he was younger and too scared, but that there was “no point in going there” and that things are as they are for a reason. So, it might be a good point. Also, could he just be busy and when he isn’t he might be more inclined to pursue me? I just worry that I may have missed my opportunity with him before I had the chance. Although, he definitely cherishes me and respects me, I want to know, can he fall head over heels for me again now that we finally have a chance? Or is he only ever going to love me if I am unattainable? My heart is yearning for the passionate, obsessive, all consumed person that he was. Is that person gone or just busy right now?

  36. keenecko March 21st, 2012

    Oh wow I love this page; it rings true to Scorpios. I’m a 26 year old Taurus and my guy is a 35 year old Scorpio. He is very much the Scorpio and I am most definitely a Taurus. We have this incredible chemistry. We have things in common, but not everything and even the differences between us make for an interesting dynamic. He is so provocative, intelligent, logical and oh so disarming with just his look; his gaze, his eyes. He’s very calm on the front, serious in nature, but tender deep down. We are opposites in nature; I’m more social, chatty, giddy, vociferous, in public, he’s easygoing, quiet, laidback, you can never tell what he’s thinking, but we mesh so well I just can’t understand it. We both have our faults. I am very hotblooded and he can be very cold, almost without realizing it. But he likes my passionate and nurturing nature and I like his romantic and deeply piercing love and even how he can knock me down a few pegs when I’m being ridiculous. He and I can talk for hours about everything. The sex is indeed unbelievable. His kisses alone leave me stunned. His calm nature motivates me to ease up and my emphatic attitude cheers him up and lets him know that he is loved so deeply. I have never in my life met a man like him before and I wouldn’t want a relationship that is different to this one. It is not perfect, our ugly sides can cause for intense battles, but the respect and admiration we have for each other (and of course the passionate chemistry) keeps us drawn to each other.

  37. kacy24 December 1st, 2011

    Taurus woman Scorpio man – OK I need a bit of advice, met a guy across the room in a mutual hangout, he added me on fb and the first time we communicated we talked for 3 hours, and from that day on we had communication everyday. We went for a date and from about a week afterwards we saw each other every day. He’s naturally a loner, doesnt mix well likes to sit in and watch films etc he works nights and me days so he would come to mine after work in the morning at 6.30am til I went to work and I went to his after work until he left at 9.30pm and then we would spend all weekend with each other, never being out of each others sight. Everything had been great, we get on, amazingly – have the same tastes in music and film and humour, he even started adding my friends on FB and we started going out because he knew that’s what I liked to do and he even changed his shifts in work so he could fit in around me. We never argued, a slight disagreement once or twice but it was talked about and got over, until…..he left himself logged into fb and I looked at his messages, out of curiosity to see if he had mentioned me to anyone – (I was trying to boost my ego I think) I read something in there that I didn’t like and I ended up mentioning it to him and he cut me off!!! Told me I had violated him and that there was nothing to talk about and best to leave it as friends and that he could never trust me again, and that he had no emotional involvement so it was easy to move on – all this was done over chat by the way – not face to face!!! NO EMOTIONAL INVOLVEMENT – how can you spend all that time with someone and make those changes in your life to fit around someone else and have no emotional involvement – Seriously, you’d have thought I had held him at knife point and stole all his money and ran off with his best friend and favourite toy, the way he reacted!!! Anyway I beat myself up at the thought of what I had done and at how bad he had reacted. He didnt talk to me for a few days although I was stripping my self of all dignity trying to get his forgiveness!! Eventually he said he believed I was sorry but the trust thing was unforgivable. I, being a taurus sat back for a few days gathered myself and retaliated – put my side across told him how dare he make me feel so low and like the scum of the earth for something I did when he never even took into consideration why I did it in the first place (insecurity) and I never even brought up the fact of what I found in the message in the first place!! which was that he was arranging to meet someone else (which he didn’t because he spent the day with me!!) A week has passed and he has started offering conversation rather than just one word answers. I think the fact that I pulled him about it and stood my ground helped. I would like to get things back to the way they where and I know scorpio’s need space and time but how much time?!! How long do they hold onto something like that? I want to tell him I miss him (I miss him like you wouldn’t believe) and would like to get back together because before this there were no bad bits, but obviously I dont want to come across as weak as they dont like that. But still want him to know I’m interested – the same ole yoyo. Can someone shed some light on this for me please

  38. kacy24 December 1st, 2011

    Taurus woman Scorpio man – OK I need a bit of advice, met a guy across the room in a mutual hangout, he added me on fb and the first time we communicated we talked for 3 hours, and from that day on we had communication everyday. We went for a date and from about a week afterwards we saw each other every day. He’s naturally a loner, doesnt mix well likes to sit in and watch films etc he works nights and me days so he would come to mine after work in the morning at 6.30am til I went to work and I went to his after work until he left at 9.30pm and then we would spend all weekend with each other, never being out of each others sight. Everything had been great, we get on, amazingly – have the same tastes in music and film and humour, he even started adding my friends on FB and we started going out because he knew that’s what I liked to do and he even changed his shifts in work so he could fit in around me. We never argued, a slight disagreement once or twice but it was talked about and got over, until…..he left himself logged into fb and I looked at his messages, out of curiosity to see if he had mentioned me to anyone – (I was trying to boost my ego I think) I read something in there that I didn’t like and I ended up mentioning it to him and he cut me off!!! Told me I had violated him and that there was nothing to talk about and best to leave it as friends and that he could never trust me again, and that he had no emotional involvement so it was easy to move on – all this was done over chat by the way – not face to face!!! NO EMOTIONAL INVOLVEMENT – how can you spend all that time with someone and make those changes in your life to fit around someone else and have no emotional involvement – Seriously, you’d have thought I had held him at knife point and stole all his money and ran off with his best friend and favourite toy, the way he reacted!!! Anyway I beat myself up at the thought of what I had done and at how bad he had reacted. He didnt talk to me for a few days although I was stripping my self of all dignity trying to get his forgiveness!! Eventually he said he believed I was sorry but the trust thing was unforgivable. I, being a taurus sat back for a few days gathered myself and retaliated – put my side across told him how dare he make me feel so low and like the scum of the earth for something I did when he never even took into consideration why I did it in the first place (insecurity) and I never even brought up the fact of what I found in the message in the first place!! which was that he was arranging to meet someone else (which he didn’t because he spent the day with me!!) A week has passed and he has started offering conversation rather than just one word answers. I think the fact that I pulled him about it and stood my ground helped. I would like to get things back to the way they where and I know scorpio’s need space and time but how much time?!! How long do they hold onto something like that? I want to tell him I miss him (I miss him like you wouldn’t believe) and would like to get back together because before this there were no bad bits, but obviously I dont want to come across as weak as they dont like that. But still want him to know I’m interested – the same ole yoyo. Can someone shed some light on this for me please

  39. alisha.m.blair@gmail.com November 25th, 2011

    I believe for any relationship to work out, especially w/ a scorpio male, there has to be a mutual agreement to maturely open your mouth and communicate. Whether it may be painful or not. I’m a Taurus woman and in my younger dating years, I had a tendency to be clingy which can drive ANY real man in sane because a REAL man has REAL work to be done and more than likely that does not involve their mates because the attraction will keep business on the back burner. Open your mind. If you know you have someone that truly loves you and will come home at night,don’t worry about his moods. The more you push him to be happy happy joy joy 24hrs a day, the more moodier he will get. Back up T-woman, find you something to keep you busy while he is within himself and always remember that he has to deal w/summa your-not so easy –stubborn ways. All relationships are give and take. Th hardest part is finding sum1 that sees eye to eye. I agree w/the person that said maturity(not age) is the key to havin success.

  40. sarahrhs October 17th, 2011

    @taurus girl That’s ridiculous. There are two types of Scorpios, the “dove” and the “eagle.” If you are stupid enough to marry/date the “eagle” Scorpio and not smart enough to be a strong Taurus female then,duh, that will happen. Not all men are the same. You’d have to be a fool not to investigate a man before you totally put all your eggs in one basket. Married to a Scorpio man and he’s just as happy being on lockdown (marriage) as I am. If you find a Scorp straying…you’ve probably already shown him that you are weak and have no self-respect. This goes for all astrology types and men. If you don’t respect yourself or have confidence or carry yourself like an equal..a many won’t think much of you either.

  41. sarahrhs October 17th, 2011

    Taurus woman married to a Scorpio man. I have to say this article is pretty dead on. I dunno, maybe I just got lucky. My Scorpio is very secretive and sort of chameleon-like towards the rest of the world. In the beginning he hid some things from me (not any deal breakers or red flags) but eventually he came to trust me and let me into his inner world. We’re almost kind of like a dynamic duo. I think if a mature Taurus and Scorpio meet up it’s likely it will be one of those cosmic, serendipitous,destined explosions. Scorpio men are often misunderstood. I understand that there are some crazy people out there..but on the whole, every Scorpio man I have been with has treated me well, if he didn’t then I cut him loose quick. It’s about recognizing the weirdos. I’ve been with Taurus and Virgo. Boooooring. Same and same are never good. Capricorns are just brooding anyway. I personally can’t deal with Cancer and Pisces, they need to get a grip. :p

  42. sonadora September 11th, 2011

    i am a taurus woman and i have been with a scorpio guy for a year now. our love is very passionate however whenever he had quarrels he became extremely cold. 10 days ago we had such a huge quarrel, at the end he said we were done…however i cannot believe the fact that we are done. he told me not even call him. now i wanna give him time to wound. how many days shall i give him to “recover”? the last phonecall we had was not friendly at all, where he stated that he does not wanna see me anymore. 2 weeks ago he said i was the love of his life and could not live without me. so, i would like to know how many days to give this guy to contact him again and any advice will be very welcomed. 🙂

  43. taurus girl September 6th, 2011

    i agree with faith..
    they say scorpios are the most faithful, but i’m not buying it.
    all the ones i know have cheated on their spouses and g/fs….it’s easy for them to become infactuated and hard for them to fight the temptation to act on it…they seem to feel they are entitled to that kind of freedom
    there were several times where i thought to myself WOW that guys is SUCH a player..and later found out that they were scorpios
    basically, they should NOT be trusted
    they ARE irresistable, (you can’t say they aren’t), and yes they do know how to make you feel special and loved and all that…but EVERY time you get involved with a scorpio you are playing with fire (and you WILL get burned)

    you’d have to be really stupid to get involved with a scorpio simply because the *attraction* is strong
    DON’T TRUST THEM, they are master manipulators!!

  44. scorpio1111 September 2nd, 2011

    Thankfully I’m not the jealous type, or quite type. Maybe that’s why her and I just click, or maybe just because we just learn from eachother… Ying &Yang is really the best way to describe this special bond we both share.

  45. ladytaurean July 18th, 2011

    i am a taurus woman and i always attract to a scorpio man i always see so much that i want in them. i meet scorpio men so much that its like we just are naturally attracted to eachother. they seem so right and i always fall in love with them but i cant bring myself around to trust them. its so many times when they would lie to me with a straight face and as a taurus woman that pisses me off. i just cant get myself to trust them

  46. marche April 6th, 2011

    @toomuch …i agree with u..for to remember scorpio man are inconsistency and very manipulative..oposite with taurean whos consistent and honest genuine…so it make drain out taurean

  47. marche April 6th, 2011

    iam taurus women have been dating for 2.5 years with scorpio man…yes right the chemistry are fantastic…but it take extremely patience to deal and understand scorpio man…they just like a baby boy they need be cherish praise love all the time..plus the scorpio jealousy are overwhelming and beyond our imaginatination..if u think u cant better dont date scorpio man…it takes a lot of effort for make it work..

  48. mkh April 4th, 2011

    @yup: I see your point and it makes sense. as far as the astrology im really not that much into it, but its something i started to pay attention to, thanks to her always saying things about me being a scorpio and that she shouldn’t argue with a scorpio lol. i want to be her friend if it leads to a relationship, but im afraid that it won’t lead to what i want down the road, and her always making a point that were just friends and don’t expect we’d start dating.

    @toomuch: i’ve shown her that im there for her no matter what, and she knows that, but she doesn’t always open up to me unless i initiate or ask her to talk me about things that may be bothering her, so that’s an area i’m trying to work on with her now, and its a pain in the ass!

  49. yup April 3rd, 2011

    just started dating a scorpio. his emotions are so scary, but i’m enjoying the ride. hopefully the passion doesn’t explode in our face; that’s the only thing i’m scared of, i want this to last long.

    @mkh: it’s possible it’s like this. say there’s a girl that sleeps with you before you guys are commited. what are the chances of you dating her. not very likely i’m assuming.
    well now, instead of xes, you’re giving her all the things she needs, attention, affection, etc. so she doesn’t feel the need to commit to you.
    taurus girls are sensual, however, we’re also fairly traditional. meaning sex to us (at least in the beg. stages) is ‘wrong’.
    she feels that if she dates you she’s gonna have to sleep with you. But the way the situation is playing out she has everything she needs from you, without having to sleep with you.
    i’d say it’s important that you guys build a friendship based on trust, and then after that you can see where things end up.

    does that make sense. and also, obviously that’s just my interpretation as a female taurus, i don’t know how into astrology you are, but there is more than just sun signs.

  50. Neha April 2nd, 2011

    hi. im a taurus woman n i have been with a scorpio man since 7yrs.we knw each other since school n now we are working(although still not married) so it’s like we have grown up with each other.we know each other very well.n he pampers me like hell.there is nothin in this world that i have asked for n he hasnot given me, b it materialistic things or luv.but one thing is sure that a scorpio man is very cold at times.if he is hurt he does not leaves me wounded too.so impulsive and determined dat if sum1 has hurt him by mistake or sumthing he doesnt likes then he wil take back his revenge no matter whoever it is(even if its me).this habit of his hurts a lot.scorpio’s r far too mysterious n revengefull.sumtyms it gets so difficult to handle such personality but at the end love is what matters and by god’s grace we have plenty of it.

  51. Alana March 31st, 2011

    I am a Taurus woman. I dated a Scorpio on and off for two years. The first time I saw him I felt an overwhelming amount of passion overcome me. We had an instant connection and I felt he was my soul mate. The physical apspects of our relationship was fantastic. If you add up the negative parts of being with a Scorpio and the postive ones the negatives in my opinion outweigh the positives. A woman mentioned earlier that the sex is key in this Scorpio and Taurus relationship. Quite frankly thats really pathetic. Sex is amazing I agree 100% but it definantly isnt everything. Basically if you can withstand a Scorpios mans moodiness and weird silent treatments than great. Its either heaven or hell with a Scorpio and nothing in between. Taurus women and men are best with Virgos and Capricorns. I am now with a Virgo and we plan on getting married. Virgos are solid and reliable. So ladies the choice is yours but I would not recommend a Scorpio.

  52. mkh March 30th, 2011

    thanks for your feedback. So you think I should continue to be friends, and see what happens. But should I step it up and act as though were dating or keep it the same? But sometimes she says, that her mind doesn’t change or not to keep my hopes up about dating her. Is that natural for a taurus woman or does she really not want anything more? thanks again!

  53. toomuch March 30th, 2011

    she just got out of a relationship. she may be trying to protect herself. she needs to be sure you wont hurt her. taurus women are slow,steady and practical in affairs of heart. with them everything is a test.they have enough patience to test you, whether you will be with them thru their thick and thin.they fall in love slowly but when they do its for a lifetime,thats why they are cautious. if you love her then be there for here whenever she needs you and then she will fall in love with you for sure.

  54. mkh March 29th, 2011

    I’m 29 and a male scorpion and have a 25 year old Taurus female friend who I have known for about a year and a half and met in graduate school in 2009. Last summer I started to develop romantic feelings towards her and in the fall told her that I was interested in pursuing a relationship with her if she was on the same playing field as myself. She wasn’t, but after that we really didn’t change, we still talk and see each other and in a way already act as though we’re a couple to a certain degree, I DON’T GET THIS. She flirts with me and vice versa, but then when i say she’s flirting she just says it’s my interpretation and my perception and that its all wrong. Basically, according to her, I’m over analyzing everything and misinterpreting her comments, gestures etc.. Anyways, since last September I have asked her twice more if she would like to date, and she keeps saying no. But the weird thing is that she has never given me an answer as to why not and even now is much more closer with me and does not seem as though SHE wants to end it (friendship), she leaves it up to me all the time. She keeps saying things happen for a reason blah blah blah, and that she doesn’t want a relationship with me and that she wants to focus on herself for a while (she was engaged for 2 years and then after she broke up, I met her) but still acts as though there could be something between us. She also says that she doesn’t want to say yes, and then end up hurting my feelings if, for lack of a better word, the shit hits the fan. Last week I asked her again and still she said no but was still interested in a friendship. Anyways one thing led to another and I said that I need to think about whether or not I can stay friends with her knowing that I have very strong romantic feelings towards her and she doesn’t. She says she loves me or has feelings for me as a REALLY GOOD FRIEND, but acts as though there exists the possibility of something more. More importantly, mutual friends who we both know through school have even told me that they thought we were dating or about to date, that’s how close we are. I just want your opinions as to what you think or recommend I do. Should I try to be her friend and then be devastated if she starts dating another guy, or should I be her friend and give it another try in a couple months, or just walk away but this is going to be hard because in a nutshell she’s the girl of my dreams and I love everything about her… I’m willing to fight for her and wait but do you think its worth it…Open to your suggestions and feedback…remember she’s a taurus and I’m a scorpion.

  55. mia March 29th, 2011

    wow, after reading these comments, Taurus girls is way better off without scorpio males. they are nothing but waste of time and I surely dont like to be involved in scorpion emotional roller coaster. forget scorpio male and go for cancer or virgo they’re cute trust me taurus ladies scorpios cant we just to damn good.lol good luck!!!

  56. Bunny March 28th, 2011

    sally because this relationship IS a Disney Fairy Tale 😛

  57. sally March 28th, 2011

    after reading all these posts, there can hardly be any definite conclusion. are there any married couple with this combination here? could you please tell what to expect in such a relationship? all that mentioned above is too much like a disney fairytale. no one here said that the above description befits me word for word! this is really sad. doesnt quite seem to be the perfect match.

  58. Edgar Ng March 27th, 2011

    I always wanted to find a faithful caring and loving friend. And here I met a girl, she is Taurus and she always smile to me when I met her. I think she had pretty good feeling of me. As a scorpio being suspicious, I have analyze her personality and I found out she is a kind of girl that doesnt exist everywhere. For me to picture her she is perfect. I really hope this guide is truth..

  59. hailey March 19th, 2011

    i really don’t understand what all the hype is about…scorpios are the whiniest little bi*ches ever. I completely underestimated the whole sensitivity thing.
    srsly they’re like little babies. What taurus girl could possibly want that??

  60. Deb March 14th, 2011

    Wow I am glad that I found this site. I found my Scorpio where I was least expecting it at the train museum I volunteer for. When I first met him I did not give him a second thought then he started paying compliments and I started taking notice. The sex is fantastic. Being opposite does make it a challenge when it comes to doing activities together like cooking as he likes to be in charge. So maybe if he makes one dish and I the other it would work better as he always likes to tell me how to do something. Also since not opening up is a Scorpio trait I can better understand him and why he doesn’t open up more. Good luck to all of your relationship and mine has lasted for eight months!

  61. JUDY February 14th, 2011

    I hate my scorpio man for loving him very much. and him knowin it but not doing anything abt it other than loving the sex part of my loving him. imagine, he was already in a relationship then he came after me. he lied to me that he was single and a virgin, though i didnt believe him being a virgin i went ahead and lost my virginity to him. bt after 3months i discovered the whole truth, i asked him abt his other relationship, he admitted it and claimed that it was now over. however he says he is not ready for any relationship but wants to continue having sex with me. does it make sense?

  62. gee February 2nd, 2011

    f*ck, i miss my scorpio. anyone that’s gone through a scorpio/taurus break up knows how cold it can be afterwords….
    i feel like my soul is crying
    i just know he is going to be the peak of my life, which sucks cuz i have a long way to go…..
    he was the only one who i was able to have 3940348 hour intelligent conversations with.
    he was SOO smart. everything he would say would make me feel like i’m drowning in his scorpionic ocean…
    simply the thought of his touch would be more than enough to make me (explode) days after.
    his hugs were home
    his care was empowering
    his kisses were out of this world
    he was out of this world
    i don’t even know why he left, he just did, with no warning, explination, NOTHING….
    it’s not fairrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
    i feel like breaking sh*t now…(taurus, lol)
    i feel so empty without him…f*uck i don’t know how to descrbe what his absence has done to me.
    I LOVE/HATE HIM SO SO SO FUCKING BAD!!!!!

  63. MissP January 30th, 2011

    Omg, after reading all these posts i can only say i sooo agree with everybody. I am a Taurus female and im in love with a Scorpio man. From the first time we met him i have been infatuated with him. We met back in High School when when he was 15, and i just turned 16 were now 24, and have been going through it ever since. Back then i knew i didnt want sex cause then i would be head over heels dumb for this guy and im too strong for that. Plus in high school we had more of the hate/love relationship. I just remembered how much i needed him in my life. Well like everybody says they are not open about their feelings and because of that i had to suck up all my love for him and just move on and focus on school, and getting my life together. Well i met back up with him 2 years ago and we finally had sex, i know everybody says it was bomb but i have to add there isnt a word in the world that could describe the emotions that came out through our lovemaking, ive never ever ever felt such a feeling, i knew it then i couldnt leave him alone i had to have my love my one and true love. He is my heart my everything and we remain good until i run off again when im angry but i dont know now i might not lmao. The Taurus and Scorpio attraction is so indescribable. So after reading all of the comments i will continue to hold on to our love cause i guess everything will pay off…. I pray cause… Cause i know nobody will ever love him the way i do.

  64. Scorpio January 29th, 2011

    I never relied on signs nor do i belive them completly. But this time it’s different.

    I’m a scorpio male ans surprisingly she turns out to be a taurus. I supopose that is how everyone is starting here 😀

    I meet this girl through common friends I really fell for her or maybe something like that I’m still not sure as the feelings are really new to me, never before I ever felt like this. I had few GF in past but I never felt this way about anyone.

    Our first day started out as really different and completly unimaginable from both of our experiences.
    We meet, ditched our friends, kept hoping from one pub to another great music couple of beers, during that time we both were really into each other holding hands, laughing, actually communication like we knew each other forever. She told me absolutely everything about her family friends relationships we laughed at those lost failed ones.

    This is were the scorpion strikes(as i read and strangly it is true), I only told her things or incidents that is need to know to keep the conversation going not everything like she did.
    Day went by we had to meet our friends again, both of us hated it but it had to be done so we bid goodbyes and head our seperate ways.

    We exchanged no and facebook ID, the next day we chated on facebook for 5 hours, I have never done that ever. Ans I always made fun of people who wasted time like that. So far it is all good now let me explain or try to explain how i feel when i am not talking to her.

    It is absolutely terrifing, iam constantly thinking of her, and there is no way i will ever let it show to her no matter what happens. Part of me wants her badly part of me is telling me not to go forth and end it before it ends in a mess.
    And it may or may not be a shock but i have never said “I like you or the other L word” to anyone in my entire life and i don’t see myself saying it anytime soon either. And right not it feels like iam going to explode as i have been very short of patience ever since i meet her, anxity is way out of control, as of now i have already been in few stupid things and the all this building up my anger every min, i used to be very patience and controlling of my myself as i know what I can do, there is no can’t. And as I have read now in few other sites and forums about the dark side, let me tell you one thing no words can every describe how evil and unregretfull that side can be.

    But I am sure of one thing whatever happens I’ll never harm her in anyway.

    So anyone can tell me how they managed to control these feelings, as some of the scorpion’s must have felt this way once.

  65. Rostas January 21st, 2011

    I’m a Scorpio male (19) dating this Taurus female (20)and I must say I’ve DEEPLY fallen in love with her . I’m sharing this here because it has been one big ride for me to get here with her. We are childhood friends and the thing is I’ve liked her since , since 14 years ago. I’ve always seen her with other guys and more importantly , other scorpios which we’re IRONICALLY born on the same day as me. It was very painful for me but I resisted and I hanged on for that spark , she only saw me as a brother , and yes it was the typical friendzone. But now things have changed , we are dating for 3 months and she is greatly in love with me and she tells me that everyday. I can’t express how HAPPY I am . I’ve always wanted to be with her and I was optimistic the whole time. I won her , with God’s help I finally got her and we are really happy together. I ,as a Scorpio sometimes hate my stupid suspicions , that slight jealousy and posessiveness but those are traits that come to surface when you feel somewhat threatened by an external factor. The thing is , we’re worriers , we worry too much over too many stupid things and that’s what keeps us from seeing the initial point and the real deal. Instead of seeing things for what they are ,we look too much into things and that’s what breaks us down. I love my Taurus girl and I’ve never been so happy in my life and I really hope this relationship will last even after marriage. 🙂 If someone wants to talk about this type of relationship I’m in :D.

  66. Jenni January 21st, 2011

    Wow, sorry for all the typos and stuff. I felt a bit emotional typing all of that. 😛

  67. Jenni January 21st, 2011

    I am a female Taurus and I just want to add somewhere that it’s not fair comparing the Taurus possessiveness with the Scorpio possessiveness. Yeah, I can be possessive, but that is NOTHING compared to the way a Scorpio male’s possessiveness. My gosh! We were together for five years (until just a couple of months ago) and his jealousy/possessiveness drove me insane, day after day. They don’t write just how bad it can get. It’s an illness. It’s not normal. I put up with it because he had all this great qualities (like strength! I used to learn from him how to become stronger), but this THING broke us up. I just couldn’t take it anymore. He is not giving up and says he’ll get me back, but I don’t think that part of his personality can ever be cured. I used to think he’d change. I thought when we started, he was jealous because he didn’t know how much I wanted him. Then when we got serious, I would tell him I was all his and didn’t have eyes for any other man, but none of that worked. He’d cool it for the day but the next, same old same old. It wasn’t even just about other men. He didn’t like me chatting and laughing with other people. Once I commented a girl that passed by us was gorgeous and his reaction was “You wanna go be with her?! Go be with her!” and I could not believe that reaction came from a man. Even with little kids… like if I wanted to go hang with my little cousins, he’d get jealous and say absurd things like “You rather spend time with them? You have more fun with them?” Crazy! If I ever said I missed someone, he’d get upset, saying he was there with me, so why should I miss someone else? I mean come on… that is too much. I was cool with all the other Scorpio qualities like the bad temper and being secretive, but that possessiveness finally ended it. How can people write Taurus and Scorpio share the same type of possessiveness? No, it’s nothing like that. If you love me, you are free to go wherever, whenever, talk to whoever you want, miss whoever you want, compliment whoever you want and just be free as your own man. I would never try to control a man’s mind and soul. Scorpio men, seriously, lighten up a bit.

  68. Cornelius January 20th, 2011

    I have met this gorgeous Scorpio lady and I am having all sorts of difficulties trying to capture her attention. There is definitely some attraction although this is far from any certainty on her part. It is like a love hate thing which aften becomes unbearable because there is nothing coming back. At times the atmosphere is terrific and days later there is absolutely nothing reflecting back. I was led to believe that there is magnetism with a Taurus man and Scorpio woman but it is such a struggle sometimes. She just cannot loosen up.
    I feel I might be thrashing a dead horse at times and at other times the atmosphere is filled with hope.

  69. Jaxon January 16th, 2011

    I am a scorpio male going with a Taurus female, yes we were both instantly attracted to each other and slept together, it started off so fast and we couldnt get enough of each other, then sometimes she will go quiet and not contact me and I think oh no here we go its over, then she will call me like nothings changed, is it just me or what? I want to tell her how I feel about her, but also I don’t want to scare her away. I suppose I should just let her know how I feel about her and if it ends oh well it wasnt meant to be?

  70. hemant January 5th, 2011

    thnx liz…..

  71. maddy December 20th, 2010

    Aidaliz I can definitely relate I am a Taurus female. I met a Scorpio guy almost a year ago. When we first met there was an immediate attraction. It wasn’t long before we started hanging out. We always had a good time together. Not long after he stops calling and texting out of the blue and that’s when I found out that he had gone back with his babys mom. I was definitely hurt. Didn’t take him long though to come running back and of course I took him back. Over the past months he did the same a couple of times leaving me with no explanation and every time I knew what it was. I just saw it as he was doing It to see his baby because she wouldn’tlet him see her unless he was back with her. This last time I took him back things were better than ever and once again did the same but I really didn’t think he’d go back especially after all the stuff he had said… but of course he did. And haven’t heard from him since. I do find myself thinking of him often because I do miss him but im obviously better off without him

  72. liz December 9th, 2010

    lol. i don’t know what njy and nly mean
    you have nothing to worry about though. you can definitly trust her. scorpio guys drive taurus girls C.R.A.Z.Y. i go stupid if there is a scorpio guy within a mile radius of me. she’ll never forget you. TRUST ME ON THAT ONE!!! 7 years is nothing compared to how long she will treasure you.
    the intimacy thing. i just meant to say that taurus girls need reasurance, and a very good and effective way to do that is through phsycial attention/affection. It’s important to make us feel wanted, because it signals security within us. If we don’t feel secure we won’t let you in, physically emotionaly, etc.
    overall, you do need to talk to her and open up a bit. What better way to come closer than to work together to overcome the relationship obsticles you guys face.
    good luck, i hope you guys can figure it out. opposite signs are hard, you constatly have to work to make sure the energies are equally ballanced out (sometimes at the expense of moving forward) but if you guys can figure it out …: ))))

  73. hemant November 29th, 2010

    thanks liz….actualy i m ready to b physicaly closed with her …and she also…but my mentality…is to njy the life …and to get physicaly closed after 1 year of marraige…and still i m 20…the main thing she fully trust me …even i do…but dnt knw smetimes its lacking…may b reason of past grl coz she ditch me badly….and tauras grl luvs me badly from last 7 years….realy this grl is down 2 earth…she respect me …she cares me…she luvs me…even i dnt hav words 2 xpres…bt smetme my 1 anger spoil the whole atmosphere….i jst need her n nly her…

  74. liz November 18th, 2010

    not physically close? that’s a problem! that’s where you need to start from, everything else (ie. your uncomfortableness, insecurity, possessivnessetc) will fall into place after you take care of that. keep in mind that if we’re physically close we’re emotionally close, and vis a vis.
    and i don’t get it, how is it possible that a taurus girl and scorpio man are having problems in that department???
    sounds like she doesn’t have much trust in you either if she’s holding back.
    do you mean you never did it, or not offten. if you never did it that’s ok. but if it’s irregualar….somethings wrong.
    don’t hound her about it though, just take more initative..taurus girls don’t tend to do that a lot/at all.

  75. Hemant November 16th, 2010

    i m a scorpio boy (20)….a tauras girl luv me from last 7 years ….even i to bt i didn say …she proposed me before 4 years bt tht tme dnt knw wat is luv….aftr tht 1 grl came in ma lif we r in relation for atlest 2 years…we are fully physicaly attached….bt dnt knw she ditch me ….after tht the same tauras grl cme again in ma lif….even i started luving her….i luv her truly n she also…we r in relation from last 2 years…not physicaly closed…bt i m more possesive..even i didn trust her even i hav faith on her…i m sure tht she will not ditch me….but dnt knw y i m feeling vry uncomfortable…unsecured…possesive….sometmes my self confidence gtng nil….can any1 help me out by any experience suggestion….plzzzz….fully frustrate….

  76. jhkh November 14th, 2010

    i wish i could handle this relationship combo i really do.
    scorpios are just too much for me.
    the whole death rebirth thing def. takes it’s toll on me. Just being in their presence is life changing for me. Although the growth that takes place is unbelievable, so is the pain (no pain no gain…lol.. typical scorpio…right).
    i don’t know if they’re just not aware of what they’re doing to you, or the extent to which they are are doing it so they’re less sensitive…but i has been my experience that they get you going, and then just leave you high and dry and you’re left trying to finish the process they started (which is of course impossible without them by you side, without their guidance, support, etc.) so what happens? you end up being broken for life.
    i need a patient, understanding, supportive scorpio! Unfortunatlly from what i’ve seen and read, they need a strong equal, which in some ways we are, but in a lot, we aren’t.

  77. taurs girl November 14th, 2010

    i wish i could handle this relationship combo i really do.
    scorpios are just too much for me.
    the whole death rebirth thing def. takes it’s toll on me. Just being in their presence is life changing for me. Although the growth that takes place is unbelievable, so is the pain (no pain no gain…lol.. typical scorpio…right).
    i don’t know if they’re just not aware of what they’re doing to you, or the extent to which they are are doing it so they’re less sensitive…but i has been my experience that they get you going, and then just leave you high and dry and you’re left trying to finish the process they started (which is impossible without them by you side, without their guidance, support, etc.)
    i need a patient, understanding, supportive scorpio! Unfortunatlly from what i’ve seen and read, they need a strong equal, which in some ways we are, but in a lot, we aren’t.

  78. taurs girl November 9th, 2010

    ten years later, i still think about him 24/7
    i don’t even know if we technicaly were dating. He just used me for a booty call (we just made out though). i had no choice but to leave when i found out what i was to him. too bad, cuz i don’t think anyone will be able to love him as much as i did. i still cry every now and then, dump every guy after a month cuz they can’t compare.
    He’ll never know/care just how much he really messed me up!!!

    i think taurus girls need to stick with their capricorn men, they’ll build you up, not tear you down; they’ll make you feel secure; they know how to satisfy your passion just as good as the scorpio; they’re guys you can proudly take home to mom and dad; they’re manly (traditional). honestly, they’re everything you could ever want
    long term, def. go for a cap. and save yourself the pain, heartache, disappointment and hold on to your sanity.
    it’s too late for me, but trust me, if you do go for a scorpio, you’ll be in pain for the rest of your life.

  79. CCGV November 3rd, 2010

    I’m a Taurus and have been talking to a Scorpio male in a long distance relationship for 2 years. I have never in my life been so captivated and loved by another human being in my life. He is so deep and tender, yet at the same time he can control his emotions. He has taught me so much in regard to love and honesty. He has always been as good as his word. I trust him completely. He is my best friend and has spent so much time giving me the safety net I needed in a relationship. The scorpio man feels things very deeply and sometimes it is extremely hard for them to voice their feelings, even when they do exist intensely. He is the love of my life and our connection grows stronger the more patience I display and longer I stick around through the tough times with him. I feel so blessed to have him in my life.

  80. ty1985 October 29th, 2010

    i am a taurus 25 years in age. i fall in love quick and yes i am in love with a scorpio. he lives the sign to the fullest from every angle. nothing i have read here today did not describe him. its funny cuz most of the stuff i read is similiar to the things we got going on right now.i have been knowing him for about 9 months now and hes great in so many ways, and oh yeah the sex is great too. but then there is that dark side to him that has me puzzeled. i have been hurt in so many pass relationships that i am scarred from love. yet he tells me he loves me and i find it hard to believe because of the way he acts. when we are apart he comes off as a rude, arrogant, and self considerate individual. however, the moment we get together he is so passionate and just the thought of it makes my heart melt. thats part of the reason i am here today on this site because i wanted to know is that normal. is it normal for him to tell me he dont want a relationship right now but he tells me he love me and acts like he is my man? is this tough guy role really him or do he care as much as i do? are the agruments going to get worse but i must admit the make ups are to die for?i love this man i really do and i will do whatever for him i just dont want to be hurt in the end. i need some answers even though so many of you have already said that patience is the key when dating a scorpio,i just don’t want to continue to play his game(and he really loves to play lil mind games i noticed that already about him)and i loose in the end.

  81. lolly October 22nd, 2010

    hey guys i would really love some help!! im a taurus woman with a scorpio man and we have a great connection its been over 5 months now bu he has an ex that wont let go she rings etc ive been there wen shes rang and he dont anser an when he do he tells her to f off but i have had my buble burst as 2 days ago he let her in his flat and she couldnt wait to inbox me the fact she stayed ova.. he says she stayed on sofa not sure about it bu he is pretty adiment that he neva slept with her he swear he neva.. i rang him the day i found out and went into complete rage he sed tha he thinks he should leave me alone as he dont deserve me and he dont want to hurt me wehen things then cooled over he sed he wants to see me he cant let go he rings me every night since ive sarted seeing him were on the fne chating for hours on end, he rings me wen hes stressed and tells me he just wanted to hear my voice as he had a bad day, when i go up to see him hes all over me like he dont want to let me go hes really caring and loving the sex is out of this world and very passionate but now he has let her in im started to secound guees weather or not he actually do want me or is he just saying that i could go on for housr bu i will save u lot time lol….help!!

  82. Lizzie October 14th, 2010

    I’m a taurus woman (24) and I have seen my scorpio male (32) for the first time 2 yrs ago at the beach, he sends his friend over for my phone number, which I don’t give him (at the time it felt like I shouldn’t mess with this man, he seemed like a bad boy). Then a year later I was looking for an appartment to rent, turns out he was the landlord, this time we exchanged phone numbers, and I found out that he indeed was from a well known notorious family. Again, I didn’t express interest in him or whatsoever. Half a year later I had to take a trip (his family owns several appartment complexes across the country) so I called him to get his brother’s phone number. After this he has been calling me everyday, we haven’t been with each other a lot because of our schedules, and he always wants to hook up so late, but when we hook up OMG, it’s amazing, scorpio males have like a magnet, he’s so powerful and has a “not to be messed with” attitude, and yet he has a heart of gold (judged from what he shows me) and he has so much love to give.
    I think he started calling me because he’s currently “single”, but you know how it is when you have a kid with someone, it’s on and off. What bothers me is that he treats me so nice, but still does not show that he wants, a serious relationship on the long run, or he wants to be friends with benefits, or.. I just don’t know what he wants, and it is so frustrating. Right now, we are just sleeping together (no dates yet, I hope soon), but he treats me like a friend (not like a random hookup). But I will hang in there and enjoy it as long as it lasts, if you have any idea what’s going on, feel free to comment

  83. PIC777 September 26th, 2010

    hi everyone
    I’m a Scorpio man, i met my Taurus princess 2 months ago during a flight( we’re both cadet pilots) and from the moment i met her i couldn’t even imagine being without her. everything is working great, like we were meant to be with each other from the beginning.I really feel it’s THE great love, with a ribbon on top! as you all said sex is like never before, we spend hours(6-8!) in bed and still want more,but that’s not all, we even enjoy just looking at each from distance when we are at work(yeah, it’s forbidden to have a relationship with a colleague, but we simply don’t care! even though if they catch us we are in deep deep deep…. problem!).
    it’s like being in love for the first time(I’m 28), even though we are both so demanded 😉 and have a vast choice of bf/gf.we have the same taste for everything, music, food,… absolutely everything!we are both possessive, caring, determined, loyal and soooooooooo romantic! but as some of you said as we both have strong personalities, we had a bit of instability during the first 2 weeks, but learned soon to compromise and found a way to meet in the middle.
    for sure we still have our doubts and fears, but we are doing our best to assure each other in every way possible.
    only our close friends know about this relationship and they are encouraging us, seems like everybody thinks that we are made for each other.
    i don’t know where it goes, but even if it ends tomorrow(shit happens!) I’m sure that we will never ever forget each other.
    wish you all plenty of luck with your scorpio/taurus mate, and if i have an advice it would be: keep cool, try not to push each others limits, don’t even think of it! accept that sometimes you have to back up, but don’t worry, your actions will be rewarded, and that, more than you can imagine!
    let the time do it’s magic as you show your love and devotion and i assure you that this one will be THE last one!

  84. noname September 13th, 2010

    ok, haha i am a taurus woman and i just met this scorpio man a few weeks ago, we met online and i was not interest in him at the begining but after a few emails i just started wanting to know more about him first time we met that was it for me, i dont think i ever felt like this before in my life i cant even explain what he makes me feel hahaha….. he makes me so angry but i wanna be with him, i have no idea if he likes me and i hate that he texts me or calls me so late at night hahahaha(reading from the messages i guess is a normal thing for the scorpio male to do this)anyway, i think the best game plan here is to take it slow and enjoy every feeling he makes me feel (lots of them lol)and btw i cant wait to have sex with him haha…..

  85. Roxie August 30th, 2010

    honestly, i am shaking my head… every site I go to says the same things about scorpio men.. and i have been in a “friendship” with mine for over 3 1/2 years. I have never felt more like a yo-yo in my life. He wants me then he’ll push me away. then i come to find out that there are other women! and therefore now i am starting to think the whole “i’m not ready to commit” line is all bullshit. because of course he doesn’t want to commit he has women everywhere. We are in different provinces. and so are his other women friends. Stay away from Scorprio males… sorry guys but you are not to be trusted and frankly my heart deserves better.

  86. Sally August 5th, 2010

    If anyone can shed any light on my scorpio male I would be sooo delighted!
    We have been dating for a few months, it was a very sexual relationship very quickly and boy … there were definitely fireworks! But he is ever so lazy with communication and I get the feeling he is using me a little bit… I told him I was hurt badly in my last relationship and he told me he wasn’t a dick and that he did like me, but sometimes I wonder. He is soo deep and thoughtful and I find him soo alluring, but I wonder if I am appearing too keen. How do you play it cool with a Scorpio man when he is so damn enticing?! Haha!!!

  87. women that need to know July 23rd, 2010

    i am a taurus women mixed up with this scorpio man for the past 3 yrs we have been going back and forth in and out of this so call understanding i dont call it a realationship because i am the one with more of the faith then he has he the runner and i am the one that gives him the benefit of it all i believe i stay because i know he is not a hoeish men he is a 1 women man and that is hard to find these days but with that to say it still do not stop him from lieing about things he have no reason to lie about we lived together about 2 1/2 yrs but i could not just let him run and out of my home. yes he has done 13ys in jail but i haven’t let that stop me from having any understanding for him it is not my job to judge just to have the patients to understand when we started he had no faith, feeling for his self, thinking that he did not deseve to have anyone or anything good in his life but like i have always told him only god has the say so of that and if this is your second chance be humble and enjoy it. while i think he started to enjoying it to much and started to take me for granted i started to see my blessing going out the door with him and the last time he left i told him that we can be friends but he can not live in my house again.. ok friends is not enough for him as u know he is still around and the understanding is in a total mess me being the person that i am which is a 1 womens man and he knows that. just like i know the type he is he is he knows that he has a true good women he will not go on and will not stay away long enough for no one to step in. yes i am a women in need to know what should i do stick it out or climb out of this mess i want true love and understanding life is too short to keep this up and i am wearing very thin at it. i would like to hear from a mens point and from a womens point so please email me at itisme1965@yahoo.com and keep it real for as u know us taurus are down to earth. thank you all and have a bless day

  88. CORINA July 20th, 2010

    WHY ON EARTH DOES THE SEXXX HAVE TO BE LIKE WOE.DAMN………..IT’S CRAZY.I CANT SHAKE IT.IV’E BEEN WITH MY KIDS FATHER FOR ALMOST SEVEN YEARS.WHEN I MET HIM IT WAS INSTANT CHEMISTRY. WE COULDNT GET ENOUGH OF EACHOTHER. WE HAD THREE BABY’S IN 20 MONTHS ….TWO IN ONE YEAR….YEAH N NO MATTER WHAT …..HE COULDNT DO NO WRONG N MY EYES AND HE HAS DONE PLENTY OF WRONG…..I COULD BE SO MAD THEN THERE HE WAS AND IT WAS ALL BETTER .WELL THE LAST TWO YEARS ALL WE DO IS FIGHT …ARGUE…AND IRRITATE EACHOTHER………I HATE IT ……I JUST WANT THAT STRONG CHEMISTRY BACK…………

  89. Outlaw July 17th, 2010

    Hello everyone soo ladies

    I’m a Scorpio male and i’ve known a taurus women since my junior year of highschool… It’s really weird how we met everytime she came in class it’s like we magnetically kicked off everytime I seened her come into class shed look at me and I would smile at her and shed smile back so that’s how our friendship began with a smile and of course we were attracted to each other….. So as the months passed by I never made a move because I was hurt from a 2 yr relationship that ended bad mentally… And one of her friends had told me that she was hurt because I never made a move or in other terms left her hanging… Which I didn’t know, soo now in present time I’m 19 yrs of age she’s 18 and when we talk online we have intresting conversations and never get bored talking to each other I rarely see her because we both have busy schedules but the strangest thing that ever happened between me n her is that we’ve coinsidentlly ran into each other twice one was when I was coming out the barbershop and she’s walks right infront of me haha! We were both surprised and the recently second coinsedence is we both walked into the same train cart… Soo to get straight to the point I want to reveal my emotions for her but as my scorpio ego kicks in I’m cautius aboutthe fact wheter I should do it because I sit want it to backfire and Lose the friendship soo any advice ?

  90. Teewt July 1st, 2010

    Wow !!!! I am just now starting to talk to a Scorpio man and I am 100% Taurus woman !!! We have not met in person and talked 2 times on the phone now. The first time we talked was for hours,lol. It is the strangest thing how he makes me feel just over the phone,lol. From everything you all are saying…I can only imagine the chemistry when we meet and Lord help me if he tries to move quickly,lol. He has already told or warned me of his sexual appetite,lol!!! This is going to be a dangerously exciting…passionate…joyful ride with him, I can tell. He is very intriguing as you all have said about your Scorpio men. Wish me luck!

  91. B.Pete June 24th, 2010

    I am a scorpio male. i have a taurus woman and we’ve been together for 2 yrs now. i’m 21 and she’s 22. 1st i’d just like to say that the sex is the TRUTH! lol, i only feel it’s right to reinterate that on every post. lol, jk. but seriously i just love how you taureans have so much love for us. my girlfriend tells me everyday how i’m the best bf in the world and how much she loves me. i just act like ah whatever and like i don’t believe her but inside i’m really smiling with joy. lol. i love the heck out of her right back though. idk if all you taurus woman feel the same but don’t get discouraged if u tell ur scorpio man how much u love him and he acts like ur just pulling his leg. because he is really listening and he really knows that u love the heck out of him. i know it might not seem like we show it but remember that we’re know for hiding our true feelings very well. sometimes we’re TOO good at it. lol. and don’t think that because ur scorpio man texts you late at night that you are the last person on their mind. i can’t really explain the feeling (that’s one thing we’re not good at doing. lol) but most likely ur the person he’s really liking and thinking about the most. i’m gonna take a stab in the dark and say that most of yall’s scorpio males are night owls. lol. but we love having or alone time away from the world and if he’s wanting to spend that alone time with you then take it as he really likes the heck out of u. 😉 i know we can be tough to figure out at times but this is only because we have a hard time figuring ourselves out. and it comes out as frustration when we can’t explain why we do the things we do or why we’re the way we are. so when the frustration comes out just know that it’s just our way of sayin idk. lol. because it bothers us, well me atleast, so much when we don’t have the answer for things like that.

  92. ~*Jasmine*~ April 13th, 2010

    I am a Taurus female in love with a Scorpio male. Even though I am only 18, I can relate to you ladies a lot. We have been going out for 2 months and its been a love filled relationship. In a way he completes me and he is everything I have asked and prayed for. His love actually over powered me and I couldn’t even deal with my emotions, but he stood beside me. He helped me and comforted me. They do have a hard cell, but a heart full of love. I love his rough exterior, because he knows when to put it away to show his affection. Scorpio men really satisfy a Taurus’s heart.

  93. Joannie April 7th, 2010

    Say good bye hun; love yourself more than him. Yes he is hard to resist but maintaining your self esteem is more beneficial. He is directly / indirectly breaking you down.

  94. Exhausted Taurus April 5th, 2010

    I am a taurus woman (with a scorpio moon) who has been dating a scorpio for six months now. I am truly at a lost as to what to do! Everything began absolutely beautifully until his half truths began to come totally clear. While I accepted his reasons and forgave him for the indirect lies (I believe a half truth is just as bad as a lie. Omitted info to make something sound better is a dressed up lie) so we could move forward despite my hesitation. Then two months ago while I was out of town, I find out that he had sex with his ex girlfriend. His reason – vengeance. I don’t get it. While I am trying to be forgiving because he seems to be sincere, he now treats me like I am the one who did the wrong. Granted, I did check his email and told him that I did but it wasn’t because I was openly snooping but at that time we were basically living together and I constantly used his computer for internet access as we are both in school. He didn’t log off his email and noticed an email from his ex-girlfriend that was subjected our Maudi Gra trip in which he was supposed to be going with male friends so this alerted me and I opened it.
    I hate having my intentions and character attacked because of his insecurities. I love him and that’s why I have hung on as long as I have but this is really becoming emotionally draining with all the arguments and his defensive attitude.

  95. Hannah March 21st, 2010

    I am a Taurus woman with a Scorpio man… I can honestly say you definitely have to be patient with a Scorpio guy. It’s well worth the wait though. I have known him since my Freshman year in High School, and now I’m a Freshman in college. He definitely doesn’t express his feelings to me, but when he kisses me, its with soooo much passion, and I can tell that he loves me! No matter what problems or how complicated things get nobody compares to him. So patience is the main key to success with your scorpio man.

  96. jenny March 21st, 2010

    I am a Taurus Woman have very deep feelings for this Scorpio man. I have known him all my life, we grow up together, he was my brother’s best friend as kids. he went to prison in his late 20’s early 30’s doing 18 years. we mat last year in August he stayed home for 30 days and went to another state to start over. during our time together we both made it clear that we would just be friends. during his stay he would say do not fall in love with me, do not allow your feeling to get deep for me. which i understood; I told him the same. you see most of my life i have ran into Scorpio men and dated a total of 3 when i was a young girl, and yes, the sex has always been the best.

    during his stay here we talk about keeping in touch with one another, but before he left he would make comments, like call your sister-in-law which was his sister and tell her we are coming over today. or he would say this is my woman, to other guys, at the same time he would keep telling me, i do not want a relationship while telling me, I know you want a relationship do not allow yourself to go there.

    so after his paper work went through he transferred to another state, we keep in contact with each other daily, he would tell me he miss me and want me to come out there to visit him and maybe one day move out there with him, and if things did not work out there for him he would come home. so now we are in a long distant relationship talking about what he wants to do and what we could do together for our furture. how he wants to take care of me.

    Things did not work out he came home. i pick him up at the airport. and we had been together for 4 months.

    still being on papers which means that he was on probation and had to be home at 10p.m. every night, and could leave after 4 a.m. every morning. i had an other house so i allow him to move in and we spent every weekend together and some nights during the week. he would come to my home where i stayed everyday during the days that i would not come to him, or stay with him and leave around 9p.m. we both where working out a plan to grow together and have something together.

    but one Friday i came over for the weekend and he made a statement that he had stay out during the week for two days and i did not make a comment on it. i just said how could you allow yourself to but your freedom on the line like that. he was trying to tell me something at that time; i know that, i just was not going to force it out of him plus he wanted to see my reaction.

    as i usally do, i leave on a Monday morning at 4:30am to go back home. I kiss him and left. He started a new job that morning, i text him to tell him that i would be down there to pay the water bill and that he did not have to worry about it, well he know that i would be staying the night, he never came home. i text him all that night and ask him why? he never return a text or a phone call until the next morning.

    When he called , i ask him why didn’t you come home and if it was another women, he told me yes. he came to the house we talk, i ask him how could you throw all of this away when we work for so hard, i stood by your side, i was the one there for you. i ask him how long he has been seeing this other women. he said a few weeks, she was someone that we both grew up with and that he always wanted to date her when we where kids. She told him either her or me. he choose her. he told me that it was not me it was him he had to go through it, would i take him back if things did not work out with them. he said he did not want his feeling to get deep for me. he said that he had grown to have deep really deep feeling for me and that is why he did not want to get into a relationship because someone would get hurt. he did not want to hurt me.

    I ask him, is it because she has more then i, he said no, I told him people change, how could you rush into something else without even know how she is now. she is older you are older, people are not who they use to be. he said that he had to do this and find out for him self.

    I ask him did you tell her the same things you told me he said yes, i will try to make her happy, take care of her, and do what is needed to help her grow her business. just like i was going to help you with your business and houses.

    I ask him did i mean anything to him, he said i have never had a womean like you, i have never had any women to treat me the way you treated me and i probably will not met another. but i want use to stay friends for now, i do not want to lose our friendship, that means a lot to me. i will never for get what you have done for me and being there for me.

    So now it is 6 days and i am trying to re-group myself back together from this man walking out of my life with out such a hint that he was going to leave me for some one else. he has call me now for 5 days to see how i am doing. he told me that i should be able to get over this with in a couple of days and move on. he still have my house keys to both houses and i have ask him to return them to me. he said he will, he also said that he will be seeing around.

    what am i to do, how do i deal with just a hit like that. he acts as if he did not really care about me. i had left the door opern many of time and told him we did not have to be in a relationship, that we could just be friends, we all have choices, i told him that we could sit down, talk about this and let the relationship go or let it be like it is, what every would be best in order to keep the friendship. He would always say “I’m already in it now”. I would tell him there is nothing stoping use for changing things.

    He would always have to tell me what he though i was feeling, if i told him no then i was lying about what i was feeling or thinking. if i would show a little sign of weakness, by solding like i am about to cry, or do not fight back with words to defend myself and end the discussion without a response then i was showing a sign of weakness. he would always tell me to be strong, be storng you can not be weak. do not show weakness.

    but during the broke up he was crying, wanting to hold me touch me. i would not allow it. the next morning he call me crying saying he was sorry crying, saying it was not that he did not want me he did not want to hurt me, he was sorry. i will be miss, I’m this good women, great women, any man would die to have me, i have a good heart, a kind heart. he did not know how this relationship was going to work out. he said he might walk away, she might walk away, or she might not even want him. he is not sure how it will work out but he wants the friendship for us.

    i ask him you said you told me that you did not want to be in a realtionship with anyone are you in one now with her he told me yes. she is my girlfriend and i am her boyfriend.

    Yes, we had some problems in the sex department where as he had to get some pills to help him. I told him we will work on that together and that the sex department did need some work on it. he told me he though it was find to him, but it was not to me. he will be 50 years old this years and i am way younger then he and the other women is, she around his age. he said he did not like heavy womens he would tell me do not get fat or i will leave you. well this woman is short and heavy. i do not understand.

    can someone help me to understand this. and what do you think is going to happen will he try to come back and if i should let him. or is he confused. is he telling me the truth about his feeling or was there any feeling at all. will someone response to me please.

    I just feel like dying.

  97. Joannie March 20th, 2010

    I am a mature taurean woman who met a scorpio man, 7 yrs my junior 4 months ago. We share the same profession so have a lot in common. He started off phoning me every single day,especially late at night; we would chat for 1 to 3 hours (with a break in between at times). There is without doubt a strong connection and I thought perhaps something more until one night he told me he wanted us to be nothing more than friends. We had not had a physical relationship beyond kissing and cuddling; yet I was very hurt. I had managed to get out of him that he was seeing someone. He text me about 3 days later wishing me luck for an important meeting I had told him about. I text back my response as I felt he was testing the waters, in regards to him getting in touch. He phoned later that evening whee I told him that the friendship and bond we have is very important and that I would like to maintain that. He wholeheartedly agreed saying that he felt the bond too and did not want to lose it. He is still secretive, yet is opening up more to me. We chat every day, sometimes early morning, evening, or at night as well as text. Yet I am confused about this friendship. We never mention his partner, yet I wonder if there is one because of the time we spend chatting. Am I being naive here? I am like him a lot, yet I have to protect my heart. I thank everyone here, for their comments as you have given me an insight into the scorpian man. I keep thinking that perhaps it is best we stay as friends because that may last longer than an intimate relationship.

  98. Vanillabean March 2nd, 2010

    Ok Taurus women, listen up! If your the type of Taurus that wants an exciting relationship that’s worth fighting for than you belong with a Scorpio! It’s a long hard road and requires unbelievable patience, but it’s worth every hard moment!! I have been on and off with my Scorpio for over 2 yrs! The key to the relationship is the sex! The Scorpio most easily expresses himself through passion! He has to have that sexual bond with his Taurus most of all! It’s not just a physical act for Jim, it’s the emotional outlet he needs to feel connected to you!! When you get those late night calls, it’s not because your the last one on his mind, it’s because you are the one he wants to spend those moments with!! We all know scorpios can pick up women without a problem! But they are not the type to just have any woman they can get! My Scorpio moved away from me after 6 months of a good friendship and a strong sexual bond! 3 months of being away from me and not talking much he came flying back with “I love you”. Took him 9 months to tell me how he felt! Being a Taurus I never persued him or tried to force what I wanted out of him! The patience is hard but so worth it! We have spent most of our reltionship living in different cities, but nobody compares to him! Now we are stronger than ever! I’m still not all the way in his “bubble”, but he is constantly making sure he feeds all my emotional needs and there is no better feeling than that!!

  99. lamont February 13th, 2010

    hey i agree with u guys scorpio men are where its at
    because im one but the girl im seeing is a taurus 2 but the thang that concerns me is that one moment were fine then the next were arguein and fighting over something little i mean i no they say us scorpios are kept 2our selves with emotions but it seems she is 2 but the gettin over one another part is hard we both have tried and keep failing we i like being with her its the strongist and most sureist feellin ive had with another person but i dont like the fact when we fight it feels like nothings gonna get better til we work out so yea i agree with u guys the bond is strong with theses 2 sighns

  100. Zill DeVille November 3rd, 2009

    I enjoyed you ladies responses. I am a Scorpio male and I often lose what I think are very valuable relationships with women whom I could never bring myself to show my real emotions to out of mainly fear that it could be used against me at some point. Hopefully I can learn to share that more easily in the future. Thanks for sharing your experiences.

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