So guys.. I have a little dilemma going on since 3 years
I am 17 and it’s since my junior year in high school there is this dude with whom I don’t have talks that stares at me and shows me signs of interests. He’s part of a popular clique and there is his best friend doing almost the same with a friend of mines too..
What I can’t really understand is if he likes me or not, he has a girlfriend now , they used to be best friends (they’re from the same clique) however he still acts like that with me and he doesn’t really pay her lots of attention (I’d say he’s rude to her) and she noticed how he acts with me.
Here what happenend yesterday: my friends and I were out sitting on a bench like usual and he was with his buddies playing foosball almost near us.. how he noticed my presence he began staring at me and paying me attention and how his girlfriend showed up he refused to go and take a walk with her.
He has a girlfriend that he’s rude to, run like hell the other way. Young guys tend to get bored easily and is always intrigued by something new. Just think. what if you two start a relationship, then another new girl comes along then he starts to treat you the same way? You’re young, live life have fun and date for fun, nothing too serious. And when there is a respectful guy then give him a chance. I’ve been through your dilemma before and after he got me in my feelings for him, he cheated with his ex andddd a new girl. It hurt like hell. Some young relationships lasts forever but most don’t because the young guys usually don’t know what they want. Just play it safe and leave your feelings detached.