I spent the summer with an awesome woman, and as a typical Pisces, I began to take the relationship more seriously than I probably should have. She treated me great, probably the first woman in my life that I wasn’t mistreated by. She was affectionate, appreciative, kind, and giving. Strong willed, and yet, creative. She wasn’t a Pisces. However, we got along great, and spent the last four months with her.
Well, she’s at a cross roads in her life. Events have culminated now where she has to move to a new appartment or move in with family out of state. I taking my own experiences in, refuse to move in with someone after just four months of seeing each other. Plus, she has indicated she has no desire to live with me. So, she’s leaning towards moving a long ways out of state..
She wants to remain friends on facebook, text, and phone. Not in a relationship, but, as friends. As a typical Pisces I have a touch emotional time accepting it’s over and transitioning to friends. A part of me doesn’t want to remember the times we had because the emotion of loss and grief are so overwhelming.
Is it possible to be friends or is it just leading us Piesces on in some form misery that we just can’t really accept that transition?
I have exes girlfriends I don’t have a choice, but have to talk to in a professional environment. I keep everything formal, at times, there’s a little bitter mean streak that comes into play from me, but, for the most part, I do everything I can to remain professional and treat her with respect. And I’m able to manage the emotions.
However, being a close friend to someone that we both have strong feelings for each other, just seems like pure torture for both of us.
Thoughts?
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