I recently started talking to a cancer man online, I am scorpio woman. We communicated everyday either by phone, text or skype, things were going really well between us, so after 1 month, we decided to meet. When we met for the first time we got along really well, there was a chemistry, I felt so comfortable with him and I didn’nt want the evening to end. The next day we met for lunch, we felt comfortable and at ease with each other and talked as though we had known each other for years. We talked about trying for a long term relationship, and he asked me to move to his home town 400 miles away. It was too soon, but I was so happy that we felt the same way about each other. I went home with my head in cloud 9. I felt so positive about us. Then I didn’t hear from him for 3 days, nothing. I was devastated, hurt. When he did finally contact me he told me that he has a problem with my bodysize (apparently I am too overweight for his tastes). I couldn’t believe it. I was so hurt. I am on a diet and working on it and have been for a while anyway, these things take time, but I know I will get there, and I am doing it for me not for him. So this insult from him was like ‘kicking me while I am down’. I go through extreme feelings of hating him tremendously and then wanting to be with him. I am hurt and confused. I am just wondering, once a cancer man makes a decision, do they stick with it forever, or are they known to change their minds? Can anyone offer advice on this?
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