You see The thing about relationships is ACCEPTANCE. First you would have to accept the way you are and each and everything about you that’s messy and unwanted. Once you are at peace with yourself then acceptance for him or anyone else will come by itself and then the love just flows without having to change a thing.
He needs appreciation from you and you cant fake it. Appreciation is a quality that flows naturally when there is love and deep acceptance with yourself. We are providing compatibility articles so that you can know yourself and your partner. They help with acceptance and understanding.
You can talk to him and discuss the situation. Ask for his support. He can choose to cooperate because more difficult challenges might come in future also. 🙂