I am temporarily (hopefully) un well, with leg injury since I was 14, just been diagnosed with a hereditory disease which has no cure but can vary in severity. It makes me a bad candidate for surgery. My fiance has jst started a commsion only selling job, and social housing are trying to get me moved to a more appropriate house (I have many stairs up to my apartment). I now know my window for a career and child bearing are shortened considerably and wish to know, will my relationship of 12 years stand this? Will I get a decent house? Career? Will my fiance be able to provide if I cant. Please help. I am so frightened now. Please.