I have been in an extremely disfunctional marriage for the last 10 yrs. It is only recently thru prayer & counseling that I have gained the courage & confidence to end it. Part of my “therapy” was to write down what I wanted in a partner and I did. What I didn’t expect was to actually meet him so soon! He has 31 out of 45 traits that were important to me. The other 14 are of a more personal nature and would require spending more initmate time with him (dating) in order to see if he had the other 14.
Here’s the problem; he is my husband’s adopted brother. Yep – my husband doesn’t really keep in touch with him or the rest of his family really. My brother in law has been living in another state and is thinking about moving. He came here to check things out.
Absolutely nothing happened between us – but there was definitely chemistry. We just talked a lot, spent time with his daugher and my two daughters. Just hung out and had fun. As tame as everything was – you could feel the chemistry humming right under the surface. My kids love him, he’s an awesome guy, available and most of everything I’ve ever wanted in a partner. Advice please. He’s a scorpio (November 8) & I’m a cancer (July 18)
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