So I’m a libra to the tea w/ sag moon. He is a cappie w/ moon in Aquarius. I met him about six months ago when he was in town for a few months on business. He pursued like crazy. After a few dates we had a very passionate night. We became inseparable and we text and called all day. One month into it he asked me to be his GF and told me he loved me. He kept asking me what my thought were on kids and marriage but I tried to not get too serious because he was leaving in another month and a half. I couldn’t help it though I fell HEAD OVER HEALS in LOVE! I tried not to show it too much. Before he left he asked if I would consider moving out there and if I could see myself with him for the rest of my life. I told him yes. It’s now been 4 mos since he left. I’ve gone to see him once and he is suppose to come back to see me next month. The only problem is since he left he has changed. He still tells me how much he loves me and that he wants me to move out there but he won’t give me an idea of when. Communication has significantly decreased. He doesn’t text me unless I text him first and sometimes he won’t respond at all. He only calls once maybe twice a week and rarely ever answers or returns my calls. I’m not reaching out to him all the time because there is no way I’m gonna be the crazy chick. I’ve brought the fact that he is making me feel that he doesn’t seem to care or not interested anymore but he just says I’m crazy and that he doesn’t know why he has to reassuring me of his feelings. I want to believe his words but he is so frickin inattentive now. I haven’t heard from him in three days and I text him once yesterday and nothing not even “I’m busy can’t talk” or “hey I need some alone time”. I find disregard very disrespectful btw… so am I crazy or is he just starting to string my loving libra heart along???
That’s where things went wrong. Love is always giving and caring. Too much of control indicates coldness, fear and certainly not Love. And his odd behavior is just a reflection of this and some other issues he might be dealing with.
Turn on the celebration, let the love flow. Bring back happiness and joy in your life and this joy would flow into him and melt his heart. When you see each other make it the best moment as if there is no tomorrow. This is it!
i love a person truly and madly from the bottom of my heart and want to marry him…..but he says he loves me but if his parents will not allow our relationship in future he will not marry me because he loves his parents….but i cnt live without him i feel so disturbed that i can’t even concentrate on anything else….i dnt know what i will be doing in future if he doesn’t marry me…..what should i do plz help…:’(