It needs further explanation because you are asking the right thing.
An artist or a painter sees colors and beauty in everything.
A scientist sees facts and laws of physics in everything.
A mathematician sees numbers and laws of mathematics in everything.
A businessman sees profits and gains in everything.
A person who goes through a traumatic and painful experience in the past sees the world as a wrong and difficult place.
So in short, we are really sum total of our past experiences and memories. That’s what astrology is all about, it reveals us the past and how that past affects the present moment.
In your case, consciously or unconsciously you are trying to “avoid wrong person” and in other’s eyes you become the wrong person and just like you — no one wants to be with a wrong person, and thus things don’t go the way you expect them to go.
Be the change that you want to see in others.
You need to heal your past trauma and painful experiences, so that you can truly let go of suffering. And as this process begins you’ll be much more happy and successful in all areas of life including relationships. Take a look at our Solutions page to begin healing fast.