Scorpio

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As a scorpio i will say iam only revengeful to those who have harmed me or someone i love, otherwise we do not try and cause harm. In fact i try very hard to help anyone i can, in fact will give many people many chances, and if done wrong and they are sorry for the wronging…………… i forgive (never forget) and i do NOT try and cause them harm in any way. If done wrong too many times, or someone wants to KEEP messing with me, talking about me, its all on then……. i wont back down………all around me will see my revengeful side! For i  can let alot go but only to a point. Mess with someone i love (especially family) and i do not give as many chances, consider yourself beyond lucky if you get a second chance. Otherwise iam loyal to those i care for or love, determined to do what i can for anyone………whether it be a friend or a homeless person on the street. Iam sensitive but may appear to be cold , that simply means i dont trust you (might not know you well enough yet), or you have once hurt me and damaged the trust. I love to have time to myself but i also love equal amounts of time with friends, then family then who ever i may be in a relationship with. Id have to say my biggest flaw is thinking iam always right they are always wrong, this and yes my emotions are wacked sometimes lol. Otherwise iam not as evil as many think:)

[Anonymous]

Piercing stare. Passionate. Caring. Sweet. Romantic. Honest. Intense. Deep. Mysterious. Secretive. Irresistible. Stubborn. Sex appeal. Determined. Intelligent. Hardworking. Charming. Passionate sex. Protective. Mind games. Jealous. Possessive. Suspicious. Strong character. Double standard. The rollercoaster ride with him. Sensitive. Controlling. mind games. Extreme. Hard to forgive and forget. Vindictive. Needs lots of space. Hide their emotions well. You can never tell what he’s thinking.

If u know how to handle him when his dark side comes, you will have one hell of a man. It takes great amount of patience.

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As what i know scorpion there is an evlove type one is more to the passion, cool , relax throught the way of life and experience they will have the knowledge to change what they are which he know he is a scorpion he can control the thinking of what he is and will not be too extreme,in his behaviour like,jealous,violent,distrusting issue,So call which can fight his dark side himself.

 

[bistySix]

Scorpios are reflective… Like water. They are a water sign!!   think of them as a large  bowl of water that you have to carry from one end of your house to the other. Over carpet, over obstacles on the floor… The water is filled to to the brim. You keep the bowl close so water doesn’t splash out. You can see your reflection in the water because you are watching the bowl so intently so that you don’t spill any of it. And then just as you get to the other side of the house there is something on the floor you have to maneuver around… And you spill some anyway! Scorpios are filled to the brim… And sometimes those emotions run over. And they reflect you. So if you don’t got it together… They won’t respect you… And you get shenanigans! But if you know who you are and can kindly, gently, patiently relay yourself and your love to him… That is what you will get in return. Quite honestly that is with any man. This man will reflect your tone of voice, your anger, or your kindness… So you pick.

I think this society is so intent on getting what they want quickly- that everybody wants answers RIGHT NOW!!! 
Do you love me ? 
Do you want to be with me?
Will you stay? Is this forever? These are questions many people demand of there partners… But yet can’t answer themselves or live up to it.  A Scorpio looks for hard evidence in action to know if your true or not. He doesn’t really want just a quickie to get off – he wants someone to be patient and and show him how to be. So he can reflect it.

 Instant love in a fast-food society. McMarriages based on how many dates you’ve gone on and girls saying things like – “well it’s times for him to shit or get off the pot!” This idea of quick process is pervasive and detrimental to men AND woman. You can’t rush someone else’s process… Or your own.  

To be with any man… But especially a scorp… You have to be willing to allow that process to unfold naturally so that he trusts you. This could take a long time. And a lot of people aren’t willing to wait. They think after a few weeks this guy should know how he feels… And again that is not how men work… Especially scorps!  If you are involved with one- take it slow slow. Carry the water bowl. If you are in love with a sorpio man… Offer love and support unconditionally. With out expecting any of it in return. I mean any of it!  If you are frustrated and Do Not have a handle on your emotions… Don’t vent this to him and expect him to understand. He’ll understand ONE thing – that you don’t have self control -and there Can’t be two of those. So if you are frustrated about something… Take some time to get the words- than say them directly in a gentle low tone… That is kind. The kindness comes from you wanting him to understand you. And then… DROP iT!  This is what he’ll respect. This is when he will ponder. This is what he will ultimately respond to. And if you aren’t up his ass asking him if he thought about what you said and what does he think… He’ll respect you even more.  You don’t have to teach lessons in relationships… If that is what you like in a man… A project… This dude ain’t for you. He knows himself and he craves a woman who knows herself… And knows how to be kind.   There can be testing… For sure…. But if your solid… It’s not a worry. Or something to take personally or get upset about. If he starts pulling shenanigans – back off. When he comes around again… Don’t ask why he was acting like a maniac… DROP IT! He’ll be grateful to you for that. And when he pulls shenanigans again… Back off… Don’t explain why – he knows. But your actions are telling him you won’t accept that kind of behavior. And your not. Rewarding the behavior. Further more your don’t have to have a long effing discussion about it – just go back to your life. Pretty soon he’ll understand the pattern and knock it off. 

Any guy (or girl) will take advantage of you if you let them… Any zodiac sign… That is human nature.  if you don’t know yourself well the easiest excuse to use is “he plays mind games, he’s a womanizer, he’s insensitive, he cheats, he this… He that. And the truth is this guy, specifically, will reflect what your putting out.   Because scorps  know themselves so well they will demand that you rise to them just by their existence.  However – what they want more than anything is a woman they can rise to.

If you are the type of woman who needs constant reassurance this is not the guy for you… He’ll go out of his way to NOT reassure you- just so you can learn the lesson not ever ask for more than he is giving. Is that hypocritical … YUP… But for good reason. He is protecting his heart. And this is how a Scorpio does it.  

See,  if you are asking for more with this dude … It means your paying attention to wrong things… It means your dwelling on only the negative… And he doesn’t want that kind of woman… He wants someone who is powerfully feminine and strong in her conviction. She doesn’t have to raise her voice or throw a tantrum to get what she needs – she offers it without asking for it in return. You have to HAVE TO validate yourself in this relationship. If you are arguing, if he is miserably pulling shenanigans, if he is jealous don’t reflect that emotion… Don’t get caught in that emotional storm he is having inside him right now… Be calm… In a low gentle voice ask him if he’s ok. If he says yes… Leave him alone. Stay your kind gentle course… And the storm will pass. I promise. When he trusts your CONSISTENCY – he will begin to return your gifts. But remember he’s reflecting your emotions as well as having his own – the bowl is sloshing about… Steady it. 

[weatherbellygirl]

@ bistySix,

How you describe the Scorpio man is completly accurate. I am a Gemini on the cusp of cancer and have loved the same Scorpio man since I was thirteen( I am now thirty). We were “officially” together for the past two and a half years and that is exactly how he is and was with me. If I was happy and loving all was well, if not well then hell. I love him deeply and he me. He is very psychic and I would never have to call him. He would just call when I really wanted him to and while I was thinking about him. It happened so reliably I have come to expect it. we both can be quite volatile and that has caused us many problems together. In love relationships I have a tendency to be more of a cancerian nature; moody, clingy and jealous while at the same time empathetic to a fault, loving and adoring. Sometimes that was great for us and sometimes not so much. We are on an off time presently but I do not think either of us can last much longer apart. Thank you for describing the love life of someone with a Scorpio. It was not touching but so accurate as to bring nostalgia and a bit of tears along with your wise words. Thank you 🙂

[Anonymous]

yes guys,all of the above is true im 14 and im a scorpio and i like good friend’s that i can trust and angry and forgive those who hurt my feelings and i never forget.im calm and secretive and also vengeance.i love girls mostly shy and aware around them in high school :).to be honest i am emotional in the inside but i dont let my friend see my emotions i just ignore it sometimes talk to my best friend who is a libra.i wonder what its like to be with a girl that i love.it would mean the world to me.08/11/1997.my friend know when im atracted to a girl,i usually take look at them.

[t-doh]

True…scorpios are secretive…very… to tell u their private affairs they have to trust you first. Passionate…YEAH…and they make goodlovers…u wont ever forget them if u become friends with them (or lovers). They over-analyse everything…(theres more to what an eye meets). They can be quiet AND LOVE TO BE LEFT ALONE SOMETIMES. IM A SCORPIO MYSELF.

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