Im a really typical scorpio, Im often told by people that arent close to me that im cold and not easy to connect with. I have learned with my aries man to know where I am at in the world and do the things i need so that i am feeling positive and level headed, and to really pick my battles with him, because often he will stand his ground for the sake of whos more stubborn, but if i let it go before it even comes up he will make choices i want him to make, thus he is still telling me now that hes yet to see the cold hearted side to me he hears about. For me, our success comes from seeing his flaws and less flattering personality traits and making them work for me not against and really catering to his positives too so that our environment is always harmonious. We have never had a fight, never snapped at eachother either.
I am a Scorpio man in love with an Aries woman. She values honesty, which was difficult for me at first. I valued trust. Once I learned that she was trustworthy, that she was just a truly honest and open person, it was easy for me to be open to her. She fell for me fast, and hard, and in that I learned about her, her vulnerabilities, but at the same time I also saw a fire in her. I respect that. What keeps us going? I have no idea, but there is nothing I would do for her.
I told her, at the point I was ready to commit, that there was no going back. She was my soul mate, and she had my heart. If things, for some reason, turned out bad, I would be utterly destroyed. She accepted it, and ever since there has been nothing but trust and honesty from us both. Oh, and the bedroom stuff is all true, shes all out aggressive, I bring the passion, and its awesome.