To attract a Gemini:
Good conversation is a starter. You don’t have to be a genius, but good stimulation, intellectual conversation is good. We like learning from people, that is why we have so many friends/acquiantances from different walks of life. If a Gemini hears you say something they don’t know about and they ask you about it and you are well informed about that topic, please elaborate 🙂 That means you have our curiosity peaked.
We love someone with a good sense of humor. We are kind of “just like one of the guys”. We love, love, love to laugh and smile. Don’t try too hard because we will know you are trying too hard and that will make us turn off.
Be yourself. The most important thing. We take people as they are.
Don’t be smothering, jealous or overpossessive. If you are, you need to keep it in line. Sometimes, if it comes up, that’s okay to a DEGREE. But if you come off that way (meaning we just met and/or haven’t known you long), FORGET IT we will jet. We know where home is. If we like, care and love you, you don’t have to act that way because we will always always come back.
We like surprises. Surprises us with cute little notes, e-mails, texts and/or gifts. We love that. If it makes us smile and get us THINKING (hint: mental) about you, it’s awesome.
We are not overly emotional or clingy. At times we are. Sometimes we need to be held or cuddled and talked to. At other times, it’s like…hmmm, just to the point LOL. We do express our emotions. As we get older, it gets easier to do it. We are just more logical than emotional. As a Gemini, when I really care about someone, I write them a note or card (if it’s like birthday or holiday or whatever) and put my honest feelings in it. It always makes their day 🙂 I am learning to be more emotional/expressive because I realize people need to hear these things, especially are loved ones.
Naturally, we are flirty and charming. At times, we don’t realize we are doing it. Don’t take it so seriously or feel threatened. It’s just talking. If we don’t want to be with you or bothered, we will let you know.
Last: If a Gemini is jealous, they really do like you! Sounds weird, but we are not jealous people at all. But if we are dating you and get a little bent out of shape, we care.
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