WARNING: MIGHT BE A LITTLE SEXUALLY SUGGESTIVE…
I think sex and what we enjoy intimacy is a personal choice. Let me give you an example. I’m a Gemini and they say that Geminians are extremely wild and sometimes sado-masochistic in the bedroom and enjoy bi-sexual relationships. That is not totally true in my case. I love sexy lingerie and dressing up and I tend to enjoy deep emotional pleasure in the bedroom. I can sometimes be a little aggressive after an argument but generally I turn my partners into whip cream desserts and love alot of touching a carressing.
So if your with a partner you may want to ask them what pleases them and what feels good and what doesn’t for them. After all, they know their own bodies more than anyone. If it’s something that you or your partner are not comfortable in performing sexually, than it is a good idea to let them know that and make a compromise.