So I’m a libra to the tea w/ sag moon. He is a cappie w/ moon in Aquarius. I met him about six months ago when he was in town for a few months on business. He pursued like crazy. After a few dates we had a very passionate night. We became inseparable and we text and called all day. One month into it he asked me to be his GF and told me he loved me. He kept asking me what my thought were on kids and marriage but I tried to not get too serious because he was leaving in another month and a half. I couldn’t help it though I fell HEAD OVER HEALS in LOVE! I tried not to show it too much. Before he left he asked if I would consider moving out there and if I could see myself with him for the rest of my life. I told him yes. It’s now been 4 mos since he left. I’ve gone to see him once and he is suppose to come back to see me next month. The only problem is since he left he has changed. He still tells me how much he loves me and that he wants me to move out there but he won’t give me an idea of when. Communication has significantly decreased. He doesn’t text me unless I text him first and sometimes he won’t respond at all. He only calls once maybe twice a week and rarely ever answers or returns my calls. I’m not reaching out to him all the time because there is no way I’m gonna be the crazy chick. I’ve brought the fact that he is making me feel that he doesn’t seem to care or not interested anymore but he just says I’m crazy and that he doesn’t know why he has to reassuring me of his feelings. I want to believe his words but he is so frickin inattentive now. I haven’t heard from him in three days and I text him once yesterday and nothing not even “I’m busy can’t talk” or “hey I need some alone time”. I find disregard very disrespectful btw… so am I crazy or is he just starting to string my loving libra heart along???
Funny because I am in love with a Capricorn male (I’m a Scorpio by the way.) and I am experiencing almost the exact same thing. We live in different states but I make it my agenda to see him every other weekend. That in mind, he is the sweetest, most attentive, affectionate, passionate and gentle man I have ever known. He does ALL the little things that are so important to me…….that is when I am in his presence. When we are apart however he is like a completely different person. He doesn’t call or text and often doesn’t respond if I text or answer/call back if I call. So with my Scorpio ability of being able to turn it on and off, I have really just had to turn it off to protect myself from being hurt. I am seeing him this weekend and I plan to tell him how I feel (avoidance is something Scorpio HATES!!) however, understanding his Capricorn qualities, I am not going to raise my voice/yell only simply explain how this makes me feel. Capricorn does like their space and I have no issue with this, if that is what you need, tell me and you’ve got it. But I do however need him to understand that communication is key if this relationship is to continue. Capricorn hates having to constantly reassure you of their feelings.. Ironic because they are just as insecure as Scorpio. Yet I have no problem contantly reminding him of my feelings for him. Though I have had to turn that off as well. Selfish are the Capricorn.. But I maintain the belief that love conquers all. I hope I’m right because as I said, I have never been in a relationship with a Capricorn and he makes me feel in a way I never even imagined was possible.