Aries and Virgo Compatibility

Aries and Virgo is a little difficult combination and have its merits and demerits. Both of them are simple in their needs but their needs are quite different as Aries likes stimulation and excitement while Virgo needs security and slow movements. Still together they both can be very active and very honest to each other in all the ways.

Aries people have the exciting enthusiasm which never sweeps away and is always fresh as a dew drop. They are strong and courageous and always ready to take up the first step without any trace of fear in their nature. Aries likes to live in the moment and though impulsive and rash thought, leaves a large window for problems to occur, they are ready to take all that head-on. With this aggressive nature dwells a restlessness that waits for no one, not even rational thought at times. They are not bothered by the cautions others use by analyzing situations, they proceed to act based on emotions rather than intellect. Though Aries people think they are at times invincible, they pay little attention to their physical health and somehow can still remain somewhat disease free and attractive.

Virgos, on the other hand, rely on their intellect to live practical lives. They do not believe that pure feeling of emotions can help them in life. They just don’t trust them. They feel them to be a part of an underdeveloped primitive brain. Instead they rely on their reason, their wits and their ability to analyze enormous amounts of detailed information. Virgos can easily analyze a situation and can be quite critical regarding it, if needed. Virgos are also very aware of their bodies and physical condition. Virgos are success hungry, but take short, calculated and precise steps to reach it. When angry, Virgos do not lash out, but they keep the feelings deep inside to hide it from others, but more importantly themselves.

Both of them are usually quick to help others, although their motivations are somewhat different. It’s true that both of them lean towards purity of purpose. Aries and Virgo both search for truth in things and value themselves as keepers of the truth. And as it would be, the Aries can’t help but feel the stern gaze of disappointment when they are late, acting impulsive or irrational and flaunting arrogance. The Aries does not take any criticism from the Virgo lightly. Aries is a winner and feel that they are perfection. The Virgos often feel that the Aries are being unnecessarily extravagant. Nevertheless, they are careful to maintain politeness when they are annoyed, so their irritability is softened by their typical courtesy and the Aries is left not feeling inadequate.

Aries can find Virgo to be bit cold or fussy due to their analytical pursuit for clarity. Many people find this true, however, Virgos are very sentimental, but do not express it for another to perceive it. They keep it inside along with the rest of any easily perceived emotion or feeling. Virgos are frequently nervous around Aries people because they dislike being openly firm and dealing with an Aries requires, at times, being openly firm. The Aries’ spontaneity can cause Virgo to feel uneasy because of being helpless to change a situation, so they sometimes try to cover the feelings with a judgmental attitude and disapproval. With this comes the roadblock for the Aries. They just don’t seem to have the time or patience for someone to tell them how wrong they are. And they are bored with the calm and collected discussions of reason and practical living. “How dare anyone judge me” — is a typical Aries exclamation. Instead, Aries responds better through the generosity of others and when shown the positives of one’s spirit which they find to be pure beauty.

Apart from of all these split-offs in their personality patterns, the Aries and the Virgos can find a strange comfort in any relationship when their paths cross. Business, admiration and respect and a mutual desire to help one another nearly always results from the association. If its friendship or they are colleagues it probably takes a business twist somewhere along the way due to the needs to succeed and even compete, which usually turns out to be a great success. In the family circle, if they are siblings or relatives, there is also a satisfaction of the possible outcomes through this blending of the two divergent natures. Aries and Virgo often confide in each other even their darkest secrets and have the virtues to never tell a soul. Love relationship can also be turned into a beautiful blend of enthusiasm and reliability if they are flexible. Parenthood is always taken with care by both of them. They involve in this responsibility late and cautiously but once they are there, they prove to be very caring parents.

Troubles may pour in one way or the other in the relations of Aries and Virgos as they are different at many levels. Aries usually find Virgos insensitive while Virgos find Aries careless and foolish. Their approach towards finances and dealing is also completely opposite which leads to tiffs. Blending these two can be a smooth transition, but it takes a definite level of understanding each virtues. Any time spent addressing the differences between these two is a horrible mistake. Instead they should take the time to learn from each other’s strengths and how to apply them to a successful life. Virgo can teach Aries the art of calculating and the gifts of patience. Aries can teach Virgos to discover and trust in their instincts and feelings and in all begin to believe in themselves as well as people in general.

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Claudette (@Claudette) : February 1st, 2010

We just started a Relationship and it seems right!!! This seems very accurate I would continue reading

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Grace (@Grace) : June 16th, 2010

I’m a Virgo with an Aires, and we are simply perfect. We are opposites in some areas but we are totally accepting of the differences and the other person. I love him with all my heart, and I have no doubt that we are in this for a long time. Perfect match in my opinion.

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Hopeless Romantic (@Hopeless Romantic) : December 14th, 2010

Just started a relationship with an aries man, couldn’t be more happy with another man! He surprises always at the perfect time and igs probably the sweetest man I’ve ever met! I feel like he is a blessing from god, just got out of the worst relationship ever with a cancer, god thank you for answering my prayers! We are taking it slow, even tho we both feel more and more deeply for each other everyone we spend time together! I see us being together a long while if not life partners, so so happy! :)~ <3!!!!

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zuleigha (@zuleigha) : March 21st, 2011

I’m a aries and my husband is a virgo we dated for 5 years and are married for 5 years and we are still crazy about one another, I love that he’s a great listener and gives great advice,know’s how to calm me down and you so pateint with our son. I love Fakier

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fannie jons (@plume1) : May 15th, 2011
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Atlanta
my husban is an aries and I am a virgo and we have been together for twenty years but only been married three. And like all relationships have their ups and downs but we love each other very much. we have a daughter who he has spoiled rotten and I love every minute of it. just to see a man who love his child they my husband love his daughter is a moment for life I would not trade my life for nothing in this world.

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Nicole Pena (@ariesxpices) : June 14th, 2011
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I recently broke it off with my Virgo man. We were lyterally complete opposites at about everything.
The only thing that ever matched with us was our competitiveness and our aggressiveness. Which I believe is what kept us alive for so long. I loved the way he was the only one who could have ever been able to bring out my more feminine side.

But as time passed he learned that it was nearly impossible to win against me. That was my worse fault in the relationship. Aries girls remember –if you want to keep him, let him win from time to time. Keeping balance is the most important thing you could do. He lost motivation and assumbed I won before we playfully argued. I missed the agressivness in out relathionship because it was never anything serious. It kept it fun and spontaneous but when that died and he decided to let me contorl him it became very dull, and most things I said strightfoward ended up hurting him.

Frankly I don’t miss him as much as I miss the idea of ‘us’. The way we childishly played around and mocked one another. Our diffrences made us complement each other wonderfully but —

balance is key in this relathionship.

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Sunni D (@SunniD) : July 4th, 2011
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Nicole, I couldn’t agree with you more! Your story sounds identical to mine. It’s all about the “idea”. I fell in love with the “idea” of us. I knew early on in our relationship that it wouldn’t last for long. But we both hung in there for as long as we could, me living in and enjoying the moment. I finally had to break it off, for the sake of sanity. I liked the way he stood up to me in an argument or debate, which for an Aries woman is a good thing because we can’t stand wimps. I, too, will miss the “idea” of us, but as you said balance is most definitely the key.

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Bezoo (@unigo69) : August 21st, 2012
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Ended with my Virgo gal..can be a perfect match if Virgo’s stop baseless criticism and work towards the relationship…i got fed up with her nagging, indecisiveness towards commitment and arrogant attitude..loved her a lot..but a point comes where we Aries have to stand for our self-respect and what is right
If both partners work together this can be a match made in heaven..wish she realized it..but i know her BIG ego will never let her see the picture !!
 

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Kyle (@Kykebearden) : September 9th, 2012
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All i can say is thank u for that really needed it 

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rose (@rosew) : April 15th, 2013
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This Information is 100% correct!!!
I have been dating an aries guy for nearly 4 years now and i orginally thought we were never going to last because aries and virgo arnt lets face it a good match.
but like they say opposites attract and its true.
I am thankfull for having him in my life because he has helped me become a better person and i know i have changed his life too.
He has taught me to be more laid back and enjoy life without any worries and i have taught him to analyse situations before firing ahead.
He is my best friend and sometimes my worst enemy we really do have our off days where we clash for the exact reasons listed above but you just have to reason with one another. 
I think an aries man is a true man a go getter, hard worker and extremely good with people but they are not intouch with others emotions because they are too busy having a good time.
 
 
 
 

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over90876 (@over90876) : October 15th, 2013
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im an aries man and theres this virgo i like but i dont know what to do 

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kelly (@marcnlinda) : March 26th, 2014
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@Grace are u still together?

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kelly (@marcnlinda) : March 26th, 2014
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im a virgo girl and my fiance is aries  and this has been the best  relationship ever, he is my best friend and lover, we known each other 2 years going on 3.i never knew true love until i met him. at first he was very persistent  really wanted me and never gave up but i was more reserved because it was hard for me to trust man but im so happy that i gave him a chance the second meeting i had with him i knew that would be the man i would spend my life with. its so strange because the first time i met him i did not feel anything even though we had many phone converstations…. but that second time idk what it was but i looked at his eyes and i fell head over heels for this wonderful man, every day that goes by i fall in love with him more n more  the sex is always amazing  everything is perfect!!, i am so in love with my aries man and when a virgo falls in love they really truly fall. i could go on n on about my love for him… i hope all of you find this kind of love…

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