Aries and Scorpio Compatibility

The bond shared by an Aries and a Scorpio is very intriguing but at the same time tough to keep. They have a strong pull towards each other but harmony is difficult to be attained between these two. They are both passionate in their own ways and but their styles and expressions are different.

Aries folks are highly independent and hate to be dictated over any subject whether personal or professional. Aries beings are impulsive, quick-tempered and emotional. They are not bothered by the cautions others use by analyzing situations, they proceed to act based on emotions rather than intellect. Aries are typically on the defense trying to protect their sensitive nature. Aries never goes looking for a fight, but when one is picked with an Aries one can better watch out. They respond with fiery rage and most are left not knowing how to extinguish the fire. At the same time they can tend to be selfish and egotistical. Aries are committed but lose interest quickly if something has lost its excitement.

Scorpios are strong personages, filled with mystery, who are constantly looking for power and are quite loyal to their loved ones. Beneath the soft voice of Scorpios lie their subtle strategies to enhance their career and personal life. They can handle pretty much any situation on their own and are most tolerable to almost all things. Scorpios can lean more towards the offensive, but not so much out of the irrational rage. They strike once and when they strike, they strike hard. They use their intellect to plan and strategize their attack while often using deception to target and exploit another’s weakness. When a Scorpio is pushed, they do not run, but they wait for the right moment to unleash their fury. And this comes without warning. Scorpios are perfect teachers of will power and stability.

It would make sense that Aries learns to cooperate with Scorpio through experience. This type of cooperation requires an Aries to respectfully distance them self. The nature of a Scorpio requires that they need to learn early on, through emotional development, social skills such as forgiveness, empathy, courtesy and respect for authority. These allow healthier social interactions and relationships. In other words, they must learn to work through things and resolve issues and exhaust all avenues for compromise. On the positive side, Scorpio and Aries mesh well in the areas of loyalty and principle. Neither does compromise these attributes, which seems to draw them closer to each other. But both are set in their ways “having it their way”, for the Scorpio does not accepts defeat and the Aries must win. Scorpio never gives in, never admits defeat. Aries is likewise dedicated fiercely to winning. Yet, there’s another Scorpio quality, intangible, indefinable, that Aries finds impossible to comprehend; the long lasting will power of a Scorpio.

These two can accomplish many feats together as long as they respect each other’s differences. An Aries and a Scorpio does best when they both learn that neither one take any heat for the other. They are both fighters and have no problem standing up for themselves or the cause in which the both dearly believe. The Aries benefit most by realizing that they cannot break the will of a Scorpio. If they learn how to work best together they rarely find themselves in defeat. These two strive to win, no matter the game. These two make a fiery determined team. There are occasional moments when the Scorpio’s sharp stare of angry disapproval, or overpowered will, can be out-and-out chilling to an Aries, causing the Aries to inwardly shiver. Their strategies are very different. But generally they make out things peacefully.

In the happy Aries-Scorpio associations, the Aries responds beautifully to the Scorpio friend, neighbor, relative, business associate, lover or mate. Just so, the Scorpio half of the team tries to develop more tolerable outlook, in relation to the Aries’ more open nature and impulsive approach to life. As part of family being siblings, relatives or cousins they share a warm empathy with each other with much to give and share in their relationship. Colleagues and friends are though competitive in nature but they are never irritable or uncooperative. Business association is always a good turnout for these two once they share a common goal and give up prestige issues. Lovers share a passionate relationship with much to share on emotional level and even more on physical level. Parenthood is another big responsibility which both these sun sign take up with great care and always fulfill the desires of their little ones, still keeping them in discipline.

There are some major differences in the behavior of Aries and Scorpio that lead to aggressive moments in their relations. Aries defends intensely, in the front lines. Scorpio attacks out of the blue and without warning. At war, these two are natural enemies can go to any extend to taste victory. Aries can feel over dominated by Scorpio and can throw some angry words at them while Scorpio finds Aries impulsive and careless and thus does not trust them. Their look at to money is also different. Scorpio likes luxury but still they love to keep money for financial security while Aries are spontaneous at spending money without thinking of future. Harmony and cooperation is the best way they can find each other comfortable and it begins with love and trust in any relationship.

  1. DWBI July 27th, 2022

    Many pieces of text where it is only stating “Scorpio power” such as Aries can not break the will of Scorpio and Aries feel over dominated by Scorpio but no parts that include where Scorpio doesn’t stand a chance against Aries. So I think we’re **dealing** with ANOTHER biased Scorpio trying to scare ppl off on Google etc.

  2. Latrina Dakota March 31st, 2020

    My 4 yr old grandson is a 11/6 born Scorpio and my soon coming grandson will be born under the sign of Aries. I’m curious on how they will get along and, how difficult parenting them will be for their 5/17 born Taurus mother.

  3. Phoebe January 31st, 2020

    My BFF is a Scorpio and I’m an Aries. I was just trying to figure out why Scorpios and Aries are enemies. We don’t get along.

    • oof September 11th, 2020

      Same for me.

  4. Emma November 24th, 2019

    Scorpio Are Hawt… just magnetic! But they tend to be distrustful and intense. I got a free love reading and it was helpful:
    Hope it helps xoxo

  5. Oofles March 26th, 2019

    I am a Scorpio and my best friend is an Aries, we have known each other for over 4 years… We used to play fight at the beginning of your friendship, but never truly fight. When we got in trouble I would always take the hit, even if she said not to. I still keep a lot of things hidden from her, but I am never afraid to show my true feelings, even when I don’t feel comfortable sharing them with my own family. We have come a long way in the time we were friends, we were on the verge of dating but we never did.

  6. brianda Guillen January 5th, 2019

    I am a scorpio big sister my baby sister is aries ever since she was small I always had a good relationship with her at first it took a while for us to discover a special bond with respect and trust. When I talk to her I have the amazing power to make her understand for a minute but sometimes it’s like she hears me but dont take it serious but she even talks to me and she is also right on what she tells me I never read an article of our relationship until today and honestly all it says about scorpio and aries relatives and siblings is right!

    • Latrina Dakota March 31st, 2020

      Thanks. I have two grandsons under these signs. One being a 4yr old Scorpio toddler and the other to be born any day now, the curiosity of their future relationship compelled me to research and say thanks for your input.

  7. Sandra May 13th, 2018

    I’m Scorpio woman once dated Aries men almost a year. As Scorpio, takes time for me to fall in love with a man and not easy to break my walls. Dating with an Aries man is like a roller coaster. Aries man is quite a ladies man, like hang out with his friends but I’m cool with that as I like to give some space to him. We went for date couple times but didn’t have a sex until I start open up my heart to him.

    Sex with Aries is amazing, but they like everything so quick and rough, but you have to know how to keep them tame in the bed. According him is the best sex he ever had. (I’m not sure on this… haha) .

    We argue multiple times, but Aries are easy to forgive and forget but contra with me can forgive but hard to forget.

    He having a difficult time in his career, but I’m helping him to get new job for him but required him to work outside of country where he took that job. Here, we start a long distance relationship. We contact quite frequent until one day he stop contact me. Last he call me he want to break up with me as he found a girl and live together.

    After more that 3 years broke up with my Aries I didn’t date with any guy. But now he back in the town and haunting me again. He said he wants me back. Say that even he dated with many girls but he still can not forget me, he changed wants me back. He call and text me everyday.

    Still have feeling for him but I haven’t forget what he done to me. Hence I can’t accept him. not sure what is the outcome if he keep begging for the forgiveness.

  8. Aries Man December 12th, 2017

    I am an Aries man, she is a Scorpio woman.
    She is teaching me to think like a Scorpian, and l am helping her to see how being Aries is beneficial for her. We are having a great relationship ( 6 months). We met on FirstMet dot com. Wanted to see why we were clicking so well together, did a search and found this thread. Best relationship, and she has made me to look and feel 32 years younger, to boot.

  9. scorpio December 4th, 2017

    Im a scorpio man and my girlfriend aries girl.
    She sometimes makes me mad with her tests sometimes careless, depend on her mood everything, i hate this. We just together 4 months now but as i see from my opinion she like games. She always working hard to make me angry, and when im turn in to cold and distant i see, she enjoy to get back my attention and solve my anger. I dont know why she do this, sometimes she is very sweet, past few days and again start playing games. She always tell me honestly everything, when we fight and solved she always smile and say: this was a test to see u how u act. When i pass the test she likes me more than before. I dont know when she stop testing me, but seems to that she not 110% sure in me. I asked her about me, and she said she trust me about 90% Very moody this girl but we always make great time together, extreme good sex and we enjoy everything.
    She many times think i just want her for sex, but i want her forever but she not belive what i say. When i start saying this things i want her and nobody else dont need for me just she, and i asked what she wants she said nothing.
    But i start saying i love her so much and i want more she acting like when i say: ahh i just go to shop for a milk. Than past 1 day and she is totaly want me crazyer than before. Texting me she miss me and love me mad and cant wait to see me and kiss me etcetc. Why she is so moody?

    • Lori Kirk April 19th, 2018

      Im a Aries she just probably had alot a bad relationships I’m currently with a scorpio and I truly love him but he likes to keep certain things ball up inside

  10. Nola Glasgow April 7th, 2017

    The Aries man is the best liar when it comes to persuading any woman that has caught his eye that he is the best man for them. The Scorpio woman adores these compliments and takes them to heart. She feels like he is below her on a maturity level but can’t get past the passion he talks about. Any man that light this fire inside of the Scorpio woman she holds tight to until she finds he has been untrue to his words. This has brain boiling like a volcano. She plots a revenge that will forever keep her name scarred into a Aries man mind for life. If this Aries man is to ever approach a woman again his first line wont be charming but miss what is your sign?

  11. Ashley Rainey March 23rd, 2017

    I believe scorpio keeps aries on their toes. And aries gives scorpio the adoration they require.

  12. SexyyBexxyy January 24th, 2017

    SO ACCURATE were in our mid 20’s im arian woman my partner scorpian man and honestly womens comment above shes lucky im dealing with his BS Now its TOUGH, but how do you know if your partner is worth holding on too him nd I KNOWN eachother going on 10yrs! . But idk how much more i can take.

    • Rebecca Bee Berrelez November 20th, 2018


      • Rebecca Bee Berrelez November 20th, 2018


  13. bjtbones November 4th, 2016

    @2nd-decan-Arie True, but not all Scorpio men. You forgot to mention not all Aries women are a walk in the park either. Just saying’ take two to tango.

  14. Ionne January 3rd, 2015

    Scorpion women and Aries men are an awesome match! However this match seems to work better in their older years when both their temperments have mellowed. I married my Aries man a year and a half ago. I know that if I had met him in my early years I would not have had the patience and understanding to get past all his BS.  LOL! Likewise I’m sure! You can’t beat the passion and raw energy of this match. Also when a Scorpoion women and Aries man are on the same page the deep bonding, love and sense of security make the best marriage ever. We are both in our fifties and have the greatest life together.

    • MrSandman996 December 12th, 2017

      I agree, and for the same reasons. Too much fun in our 50’s, she’s Scorpio, l’m Ram.

      (6 months and she is head over heels in lust with me, lol.) l tell her to just be my friend forever and not to make it anymore complicated than that.

    • Vee March 15th, 2018

      Is your pattern stingy and does he neglect his responsibility as a man?

  15. tidipi January 20th, 2014

    I am a Scorpio man and I am honest and open.

    • Vee March 15th, 2018

      Let be friends then.

  16. 2nd-decan-Aries January 2nd, 2014

    Stay away from Scorpio men my Aries women! Don’t fall for their manipulation and tricks. Scorpio men are liars and love playing games.  Save yourselves some heartache and always doubt their intentions! Scorpions are forbidden fruits. They are very tempting and provocative but don’t allow yourself to be poisoned by them! They are like sagitarrius men who are wishy washy once they have a catch. They will fish all day and throw the fish back into the sea. They are masters at pouring out sweet seductive words and desires as bait to catch you. Never truly appreciating and cherishing what they have unless you are a master at playing the game to eat his bait and releasing yourself to swim back in the sea. He will be disappointed and try to intensify his baits again to catch you then fry you. Scorpio men are less than honest and open. Once again, forbidden fruits that are nice to look at and should be yeild with caution and protective armor. Just a warning for the sake of Aries innocence! 

  17. sexymrs October 3rd, 2013

    This is my story, I need advise and help just for me.
    I am a Scorpio woman and I have been in an off and on relationship with an Aries male for many years.  My story is….I fell in love with him at the age of 13 he was 16.  We met and there was an instant attraction, instant conversation, instant love at first sight.  Since he was older, and in high school, we only saw each other on weekends, plus I did not live in the same area he did.  We were together off and on from then.  I always wanted him but I did not feel I was his number one girl.  And that has been the case the whole time were have known each other.  The last time I saw him, I was 22 or 23 years old.  We had a wonderful time together, but like always he would disappear.  It seems like when it was going for three months or so, he would disappear. Well, I would do like always, date other guys, and then one day, I met my husband, and then married him at age 29.  My husband is a Leo.  Now, I am going through a divorce.  I have no residual feelings for my husband, so no rebound love for me.  I have dated plenty since my seperation.  Anyway, we have reconnected…I am 41 and he is 43.  Since we have been corresponding, he has told me that he always loved me and I am his only love.  He has never married.  He said that he wishes that he would have not messed things up with me and we would have been together even now.  I have asked him why we never seemed to be serious with each other, and he said he was wondering the same.  I do know and understand we were young when we met but it would seem that since we were together off and on for so many years we would have settled down seriously.  Now, since we have been talking, I still feel second, I do not feel like I am getting the attention I need to feel secure with him.  I have read the love match here and it is right on point, he is immature in love even now.  I don’t know if I have the patience to teach him how to love me correctly. I don’t know if I can stand to see him wander off like always.  I do believe him when he shares his feelings.  I just pick up that he maybe scared of me, scared to open up to me, and this has been our issue from the beginning.  I know I kept my feelings from him because I did not feel secure to share them with him.  I have shared them this time because I need to know where I stand with him.  I need to know it is ok to really love him like I want to love him.  He has only had a taste of the way I love and if that has made him scared then what am I to do to? 

    • Nola Glasgow April 7th, 2017

      Easy girl…be the friend you’ve always been . A Aries man are not intuned into their feelings like we Scorpio females are. They like to think their actions are sincere and true but they have ulterior motives behind every story they tell. You won’t detect this if your not around each other daily. They like their space and you being busy with life does not bother them. They feel you will always be available to them for as long as they need you. Their own priorities will take present over anything you may find just as important. They can and will tell a lie quick if they think they can get away with it. They are emotionally undetached. So that made it easier for him to let you move on with your life in which you found your husband. Now that your reunited he needs to learn your feelings truly do matter.

  18. Jezz June 6th, 2012

    I am an aries woman and my boyfriend is a scorpio
    Generally, the descriptions described in the article do represent some of my qualities as well as his. I do, however, disagree with the financial thing- I am and have always been very responsible with money; I dont agree with the whole losing interest once the excitement is gone either. If I had to describe this aries-scorpio relationship, I would say amazing. There have been rough patches but the deeper my feelings get for him the more I become the better me. He rubs off on me in the best way. I learn from him and he learns from me. I’ll always be loyal to him, through the good, bad, ugly, “exciting”, and not exciting.

  19. ViCk May 7th, 2012

    Hello, I am an aries girl and I’ve known this scorpio guy for almost two years now and when we met there were instant sparks. For two weeks he called me and texted me all the time. But after that we got into a fight and didn’t speak for at least two months and when we spoke again it was like the first time. once again it probably lasted two weeks and we started fighting again but it was for something very useless. Since then I just cant have a day without thinking about him and i always have these dreams of us two kissing talking or just looking at eachother. saddly we only speak every three to four months and its always conversations like hows life how are you and stuff.I feel like he is the love of my life but I often wonder if someday things will get better and if he feels the way that i feel about him. Can anyone help me?

  20. FrozenPluto December 27th, 2011

    I could never have dreamed that I would write a letter like this. Its content is quite simple, however, I feel that a letter shall suit its purpose just fine.I cannot comprehend the purpose of our existence except through the short amount of time we’ve shared together as husband and wife. The saddness that surrounds me is that from an unrequited love, which I have no control over. I feel that you are so precious that the world is too cheap for you. I love spending time with you. I’m so grateful for us taking a chance, and agreeing to go out when we didn’t even know each other 4 years ago. I hope that it was worth it for you too. You make me feel as if the world was made for me and I can do anythign with it. For that I thank you from the deepest chasm of my heart.I have spread my dreams under your feet and all that I requested was that you tread softly because you tread on my dreams. I was devasted by our last encountering. I thought that I had woken up in someone else’s life? Are you serious? Have I really known you at all, all this time? Have I been a momentary luxury? An experiment? Is that all? How can you sum me up and dismiss me in a single, shocking sentence, “It’s over…I want a divorce.” Were all your sweet-nothings lies? I can see your face rigtht now telling me to cease with that question, but how can I? The trouble is that even if I could convince myself that you are no good, there are still so many rational reasons to love you. I have called for you to explain to me your hidden darkness; I need a reason to walk away. Calling me “too good” seems like an excuse. Do not let a heart hang in the motion of love. How dare you come into my life, and make me unzip myself like a coat and zip you up inside!Holding you in my arms was comfort unknown to me; to sleep there forever would have been divine. To wake in your presence would be heaven. “Sleeping beside you I dreamt I woke beside you; waking beside you I thought I was dreaming (Brian Patten).” I lie awake the greatest part of the night now in thinking of you…my feet carry me of their own accord to your first apartment at those hours I used to visit; but not finding you there, I return with a sorrow and disappointment as an excluded lover. I want to remember the words you have spoken to me, to prove that you a dear Aries, to conclude in my life that your words were sincere and heart-felt. To remember the slow dances and singing, laughing and playing, all the while expressing the feelings we have would make the ride worthwhile. If only you could be so cruel to me so that I could hate instead of love. Tell me that I was played for the fool, tell me that you never meant those words, and tell me that it was nothing. You say that your heart is hurting inside…why? Have I done something incredibly wrong to tear the lining of your heart? I want to believe that you never meant to speak to me again after our evening together, but our last embrace made me believe otherwise. Forgive me for I never meant to hurt you, only comfort and encourage. I must admit, we are like fire and gasoline.I cannot fathom the possibility of ever hurting someone for unknown reasons. To me, cruelty is an undefined metaphor. I do not know its definition and will not allow its meaning in my vocabulary. I have only seen the Aries that has been displayed before me with a bitter glimpse of his dark side. I will not allow myself to believe that you are like that. When I walk away forever per your request, I will lie to myself and repeat the meaning of what has happened, “I know he loved me for he told me so, his eyes couldn’t lie, his heart wouldn’t allow him to stay.” There are only three things in this world that are infinite: the sky in its stars, the sea in its drops of water, and the heart in its tears. My tears were sincere in believing that we not only met, but also found each other. “Where have you been all my life?”In our search for the meaining of live, this is what I conclude:Love is the feeling I get when I’m with you,A desire to wrap you in my arms and never let you go.Love is the flutter in my chest when you’re near,The dreamy look in my eyes when I think of you.Love is the emptiness I feel when we’re apart,Love never grows tired; never grows old or weary,But becomes even more treasured with time like antique lace.So now you know what love is. I do hope you find it someday.Now I have told you my passion,My eyes have spoke it, My tongue pronounced it, And my pen declared it…Now my heart is full of you,My head raves of you,My hand writes to you,As my heart breaks for you.Love always,Scorpio

  21. 910323 September 27th, 2011

    funny how on point this article is… started dating my scorpio man in december, broke up coz he was being distant but back 2gether stronger than ever. his soo open and true to me, im starting to freak out. well point is we aries woman have temper probz and any man who can handle us like that realy loves us. appreciate my man to bits, my scorpio:)drives me crazy in a good way

  22. Angelique October 28th, 2010

    I’m the aries and my husband is the scorpio… this is very much us. thank you!

  23. Tracy Barbour April 8th, 2010

    Wow, I must say that you hit the nail on the head and described my relationship with my fiance to a tee. It really facsinated me, every thing according to our horoscope decribed us perfectly it was almost scarry! Lol. Thank you for a job well done……..

Leave a reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *