Aries Man and Scorpio Woman Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Aries man and Scorpio woman have a balanced compatibility with each other.
  • The physical attraction between an Aries man and a Scorpio woman is amazing.
  • A Scorpio woman can attract an Aries man by smiling sweetly and lightly touching his arm.
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As the flaming Aries comes in touch with the cool watery Scorpio either the gift is priceless or they just fall head off. The interaction between these two signs is usually effective with each giving its share of warmth and coolness respectively to keep the temperatures stable but excess of one, affects the other severely.

An Aries man is a very proficient and gutsy person who always likes to take the first move in all aspects of life from profession to love. Aries man has a superior masculinity which is admired by all and will definitely be respected above all by a Scorpio woman, if she is the one for him. He finds the route to happiness in quite a reckless manner and keeps on demanding undivided attention now and then. But at the same time he is true gentleman and is always ready to be the first one to resolve all the differences that arises after the occurrence of a quarrel.

A Scorpio woman is a charismatic and glamorous woman, who can seduce almost any man on this earth with her single glance. The depth of her will and the grace of her persona are incomparable and definitely appreciable at all levels. An Aries man can easily get attracted to her feminine attributes and fall for this lady like none other to spend his lifetime with her. At times she may be mysterious and suspicious but normally loves to stay calm and gentle.

A Scorpio woman is a lady who can provide an Aries man with the passion of his level in all the fields including love and romance. Moreover she plays the part of an all in one supporter very well for him. She cannot stand anyone who comes in the way of the happiness and success of her man and is ready to harm anyone who hurts her man in anyway. She is very generous so all the love and favors done by him are rewarded with lot more than any man can expect. He finds it difficult to dedicate himself at first but the loyalty and devotion of her makes him learn a lot more about love. But the element of secrecy of Scorpio woman can cause tension between these two lovers. Moreover since she is suspicious in nature, the impulsiveness of her Aries man can create difficulties to Scorpio woman’s mental peace resulting in unwanted arguments.

The Aries man is an alpha male who can make a Scorpio woman wanted and protected at the same time. He is as passionate as any Scorpio woman can ask for and at the same time he is very faithful once he knows that he is with the right woman which she definitely is. Though she may find him lacking emotional maturity but he is always there to fill her life with excitement and fun. He is always ready to spend lavishly for his Scorpio lady and compliments her on all her delicacies and looks. But often Aries man is always interested in the maidens around for satisfying his need of appreciation which can make a Scorpio woman suspicious and worried regarding their love life. But she can always find him by her side whenever she is unhappy or unwell and needs real support.

Once their relationship manages to sustain for a longer period of time and they develop true love for each other, the Aries man gradually develops the much needed emotional maturity and the Scorpio woman starts trusting indisputably. The differences between them are bridged by their mutual trust and forgiveness. He just lets his Scorpio lady win in every field without any egos to interfere, for which he gets immense respect, attention and love in return. Finer rewards of emotional security and shared affection are showered by the seven skies on both the love birds soaring high in love. The water element of Scorpio woman provides the needed cascades to the flames of Aries man and the Aries man in return gives his lady love the warmth of fire which her cool surface craves for leading to a peaceful togetherness forever.

The physical attraction between an Aries man and a Scorpio woman is quite amazing and it can create a good foundation for their relationship. Both need a balanced proportion of love and sex in their lives and this relationship helps them fulfill this dream. She is willing to do anything to fulfill his desires, which makes him like her immensely as she does not have a sluggish approach towards sex and at the same time she lets him dominate her. She must be aware that he pays much more attention to her cleavage, her nylons, her legs, her ankles, her bottom, her breasts, than to anything she is saying or doing. This fact is something she can use to please her Aries male and to get plenty of returns. To make her Aries man go crazy, she could smile sweetly and reach out with her hand to lightly touch his arm, trying to encourage him to make his move. At the same time, he could be more considerate of her needs, mainly emotional, and spend more time with her in intimacy and affection. The act of complete submission in their sexual life makes them feel secure and whole, both at emotional and physical level.

When an Aries man and a Scorpio female are attracted towards each other, the attraction is very mutual both emotionally and physically. The masculinity and nerve of the Aries man always clicks her while her magnetism and loyalty makes him fall for her instantly. Both of them share the common emotion of passion which is raw in Aries and ripen in Scorpio but still they enjoy each others’ sides well. But the jealous, possessive and controlling attitude of Aries is hard for the Scorpio to match up with while the Aries hate the secretive and suspicious nature of the Scorpios. Both of them need to manipulate their personal squabbles and perceptual formations to maintain peace.

Aries Man and Scorpio Woman Love Compatibility Rating

Relationship Feedback: Good
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162 Comments
  1. Ad December 10th, 2023

    I only have dated my Aries man for a few months. At First he was soooo hot and was going too fast. He told me he loves me on the 4th date which i insisted that what he means is lust rather. Couple of weeks later, he then started to act cold, and i think maybe because i held on to his words, word by word, and started to take things serious on me end. I got jealous a coupe of times which i had a discussion with him about my disapproval, and poor guy kept saying sorrryyy. I think combination of going fast on both ends and my expression of disapproval over certain things freaked him out a bit. He then expressed that he wants to focus on work more and that maybe we can try relationship in few months again! I had a chat with him that i can work around him and i adore him. I can be patient. But i said if he sees no potential in us, i am out. If he sees no future its over, and he needs to tell me now. He said he does see potential. We didnt talk for a few days. i did not text. He started coming back again and as if we are dating again. Fast forwards, after another being hot and cold, and being on more dates and getting to know each other more, i understand him now.
    Hes so sweet, caring, and he is so focused. He works really hard and he has so much on his plate but he has soooo much energy.
    i have learnt to let him be and let him focus on his work. And now he calls me everyday, and seems very comfortable with us getting closer. I have learnt to not be pushy, dont get offended, dont get jealous and dont try to be in his pockets… i still do a bit sometimes but im practicing.

    In conclusion, i think with patience this will work out. Though this is my opinion only after few months us dating. I adore, respect him so much and I.. strangely trust him.

    • Ad December 10th, 2023

      Ps dono how we will end up because :
      His moon is in Leo, mine is Pisces.
      His Venous is in Pisces, mine is in scorpio.
      I don’t know my Ascendent. But his is Scorpio!!
      His Mars is in Capricorn, but mine is in Sag.
      So there you go !! 😂

  2. PLJ May 28th, 2023

    The relationship may not last, but it will be an experience you won’t forget. If it weren’t for so many obstacles outside our control, I would still be with the one and only Aries I ever dated. His earth placements in his chart made him fit me so well. Smart, intelligent, and reserved. He just oozed masculinity. It was sexy asf. Every man after him has been doomed to nonchalance from me. I just can not feel anything for anyone. Completely ruined me lol. Anytime we made love it was like on a soul level, I can’t even describe it. It was insane and it seemed to just get more intense everytime. We kept in touch for years still in love, but I had to dead it for my sanity. I miss him wherever he is.

  3. Candace April 17th, 2022

    I’m a scorpio and I am head over heels CRAZY in love with my Aries man. He drives me insane sometimes and can push me towards homicide but it only takes him seconds and I’m falling in love all over again. He’s honestly the man of my dreams and the best friend I’ve ever or will ever have…. I love you Darryl <3

    • Cassidy Guarino February 27th, 2023

      lol, literally same here, like word for word of what you said! The arguments don’t happen often but when they do we’re both relentless!
      I read somewhere else that Aries and Scorpio are the two most sexually compatible signs out of every other possible combination in the entire zodiac…. which is a reeeaalllly really good thing because, after one of our “relentless” arguments, the makeup sex is literally mind-blowing… and I’m pretty sure that, just on it’s own, has probably actually saved our relationship a couple times…. lol

  4. olivia April 11th, 2022

    I am scorpio with a moon sign in Taurus. Ive decided to work in my feminine side few months ago and I have been more at peace with myself.

    Well, during that time I met an Aries man on instragram . He is currently living in a different state but he swore that he will eventually move to the current state I live in. His family its from where I am so I do believe that part.

    Anyways, at first we talked 24/7 for almost two months straight. we eventually agreed to see each other. We finally did . I was disappointed i expected a lot from him. it was just sex for one night and did not see him again that weekend.

    (I was not alone, I was with my best friends did not go to his state to just see him) So i dont know maybe that was the reason why he did not try to see me again.

    I cried (me being so emotional) but let him be , going back to working on my feminine side I did my best to enjoy the rest of the trip and control my emotions . I also told him that it was cool , if he was not feeling it I was going to let him go with no hate. wished him the best.

    and then the strangest thing happened out of nowhere he was more interested then before. I started to do my own thing and his energy towards me was as he was back to being interested.

    he came to see his parents and of course i saw him had sex and it was bomb. this happened 3 times.

    he eventually told me go visit him. So i did . I spent my weekend with him and it was amazing. is just not sex everytime i see him he tells about his problems and what is bothering him . It seems like me working on my feminine side allows him to open up to me emotionally.

    However , once we say bye to each other it feels like he is not interested anymore and I go back to doing me which i guess it means i do not pay a lot of attention to him , social media likes blah blah …

    and it seems that that makes him come back to me ..

    long story short its been almost a year and its been lowkey mind games with him as soon as i show him im there for him he tends to act indifferent. Once i act distant he starts to care.

    me being an emotional water sign i do want him for the reason that I love that he sits after sex and tells me about his problems his plans his goals how he feels emotionally. that is what I love !! I encouraged him to do the best and let him know he a king.

    not the part when he acts so indifferent , I also realized that he tries to talk to other females that did hurt because i was genuinely interested in him even though I heard a lot of people saying that he is everything but emotional or romantic SO it means a lot when he trust me and tells me about deep shit .

    I respect him and i am thankful for the food he bought me and letting me stay at this house for the weekend. But I decided to put my big girl panties on mind my own this time and seriously let him be. I am tired of the mind games.

    • J.o April 11th, 2022

      U did the right thing girl. I just hope ur ex man isnt called M.k. btw ur taurus moon means ur gettiny lucky in keeping possessions and materials in life and u like a lot the expensive stuffs and saving money for best.

  5. Lexi April 6th, 2022

    Im crushing on an Aries, i see him often so i always smile and wave i wonder if he can tell when i blush.. anyway i hope he likes me too tho

  6. Popo Ntombela April 4th, 2022

    I just started dating an Aries man, this is our 3rd day, first time ever in my life,but am hopeful and positive cz I believe he is a matured aries and am a matured scorpio… this gave me confidence… onward we go, full force.. ❤Mdu❤

  7. M Davis November 11th, 2021

    He broke my heart I will never fall for him again it’s too much to ask him to spend an hour with me he is so busy doing whatever to spend 1 HOUR WITH ME

    I know I know family comes 1st 99.9 % of the time and I am to blame too my side of my fam keeps me away from a lot too but not even 1 HOUR JUST 1 is apparently too much so why bother I get it opposite attracts but he’s just not into me Apparently and when I was maddly head over heals I major stars in my eyes I was happy maddly in love I mean I opened up to him and he blew me off

    WHATEVER
    KIKI

  8. Timothy Cardenas June 27th, 2021

    I’m an Aries man. I can say that there is truth to al this. But once an Aries msn has matured, an is no longer a child like mentality he is loyal af. I was all those things these lady’s are saying but not anymore. I met an amazing Scorpio I’ve known for ever, an I can’t imagine life without her. Things get difficult, but one thing is for sure. I love her unconditionally. She’srough an Ruggid, but she’s a extremely loving person as well. The sex is amazing, an the way she takes care of me as well. I’ll always love my Scorpio ♏️

  9. Rebecca Rodríguez February 11th, 2021

    My Aires man is all of these things. I’ve never been attracted to such a man until now, and this reading was so beautiful and accurate it sent chills down my spine. Thank you for so eloquently putting this together, so greatly appreciated.♥️♥️♥️

  10. Scorpio queen February 4th, 2021

    I really hated all aries men i met in life and they been complicated the most cheater lying in the zodiac, here is a long experience of scorpio lady i am 2nd decan and i had suffered of 3 aries men 2 of them were first decan (which also known as supposed to be the most loyal mature and caring decan) but then its wrong i dont control or get so mad like typical kind of scorpio but it been a real disaster to me spending over 16 unless years of my life loving an aries men the most i was devoted to was my first aries 14/4 for 5 year…. All i can say its only the ” hot sex” after every “hot fight” is what been there. Thats all

  11. Scorpiolady1999 December 25th, 2020

    Aries men honestly a disaster they easily can tell you they fell in love with you after one or two date then show generous and how gentle they are next in their others side when they just feel they got you and you deep fall for them they start getting boring and show aggressive and silence they also love to argue so much and pick up your stones more than your diamond its like a war i have dated 2 aries in past it ended one cheated on me after many arguments because i wouldnt let him control or rule me, i am not controlling person but i dont like take orders then the other one just dumped me after he said he been in love with me more than 4 months for a Sagi woman after hard deep love of relationship i thought he really cared but sounds like aries men can move on so fast specially when they are bored, save your selves scorpios find a cancer or capricorn man they are the best! Been with my can cer mate he is all my life and his clinging is of true love ans emotions not just a fake like aries!!!!

    • RAPHAEL NKAWAMBA January 5th, 2021

      But the element of secrecy of Scorpio woman can cause tension between these two lovers.
      Read again my dear.

  12. Lu October 31st, 2020

    My spouse is an Aries male and I am a Scorpio woman. We are best friends, lovers, hunting buddies etc. We are open and honest with each other… his demon calms mine and vice versa. We are inseparable and dont fight. We both work from home and are almost together 24/7, 365 days a year, 4 years strong, no end in sight. He is one of the only men I have been able to confide in 100%. The only one that can reign me in when I get too intense. And we calm each other. Total opposite of much described here. LOL!

    • Qayyah January 12th, 2021

      Wow that’s amazing🥺 I’m a Scorpio and two of my crushes were Aries . Could I ask what his moon sign is?

  13. Miss c July 7th, 2020

    I was in a relationship with an Aries male for 7 years and out of the 7 he and I classed 4 of them… Sex was all that there was

  14. Miss c July 7th, 2020

    I was in a relationship with an Aries male for 7 years and out of the 7 he and I clashed 4 of them… Sex was all that there was

  15. Emma November 24th, 2019

    I love Aries fiery energy but sometimes it clashes with my deep inner emotions…I got this free love reading and it was helpful: https://youtu.be/DMsWLwr-kvI
    I hope it helps xoxo

  16. Mina August 5th, 2019

    Im a 19 year old scorpio fem dating a 27 year old aries male and to be honest they are great people with such charisma and fire but lately things have been off, we dont talk as much like we did before and it seems like hes bored with me, ive tried everything to make it up to him but hes just not interested anymore like he was before. I even considered breaking up with him but i cant cause its just too hard to let someone i love go. I tried talking about it but he’d always just push me away. Any advice?????

    • Lady T August 5th, 2019

      If he is pushing you away, he is not worth your time. I understand that you love him, but love yourself more to not allow anyone to mistreat you.

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    • Angel October 18th, 2019

      Boss up. Don’t forget who you are, if anyone Scorpios are the most desirable signs amongst all zodiacs which means our light never diminishes. Always look your best, ((do your own thing)) by focusing more on yourself than on them and watch he’ll come crawling back.

    • forever and a day December 27th, 2019

      I was married to a Scorpio for 35 years and she wwas my soul mate we stopped talking because she would never look me in te eyes and say I love you need you and don’t want to live with out you nor did she ever say I made her feel complete ,so tell your Aries man then kiss and hold him and tell him he has to love you with his soul . that should do the trick ,good luck and god bless ,true love is for ever and a day remember that , oh and sex will seal the deal make him tell you demand it .he will love you even more .

      • Kathryn April 4th, 2022

        Tell him you demand sex ? Lol

  17. cc November 2nd, 2018

    Does he have any planets in pisces or sagittarius? I have a sagittarius ex and they lie about everything without taking it seriously. My other ex is pisces and this sounds just like him, pisces hates committing and will lie to make you commit to him while he goes out and has fun in any way he wants. My aries in born march 21 but he is all aries, he doesn’t have these issues wit lying at committing. Actually, he proposed to me last night. We were talking about marriage for some time but due to my issues from my past with other men, pisces, sagittarius and libra, all who did not want to commit and sagittarius man laughed when I casually brought up marriage.. not to him just as a topic, and the pisces man acted as if I was trying to trap him and started behaving badly. Aries will commit to you if he knows you are the one. Not all aries and scorpios will end up together for life, but if you can find the one that is a good fit for you, you will have a love you can not find with any other sign.

    • Scorp gal March 18th, 2020

      Wow to A + S – that was a great read, and in a space where I was searching for some insight on my own relationship with an Aries man (I’m a Scorpio woman). We fight all the time, but he’s not at all as gentle on my heart as what you’ve described in your path in getting to know your Scorpio lady. His philosophy is “my way or the highway” yet he also speaks on how much he loves me and think I’m his forever and a day. We live together and did so shortly after we met. He has a lot of baggage from his past and is struggling financially, which he says is the cause of his stress/outbursts towards me. I am left hurt from the harsh words and how much he seems to take me for granted. I’ve often wondered if he’s just using me to get through his current rough patch. I feel his harshness is from his upbringing as his dad seemed verbally abusive towards him, he’s lost both parents at a fairly young age, and his ex wife cheated on him after being child hood sweethearts, being married for 25 yrs and having 2 kids together.

      A+S, do you think he’s just not that into me, thus the reason why he’s so cold?

  18. cc October 31st, 2018

    My previous comment wasnt posted 🙁 I am a scorpio woman currently with an aries man and this is what I have been looking for my whole life. I love him so much. He is so bright, warm, passionate and really makes me feel good! He is the most physically attractive person I have been with and also just the most passionate and caring. I really can’t believe such a perfect man exists….

    • reachformestar24 October 31st, 2018

      My aries is not what I expected. He acts as if we’re in a relationship but says it’s. Not recently he went back n told something I said, which prompted me to immediately unrlfriend and block him. I feel as if he has no loyalty even to our friendship.

  19. Tsholofelo July 2nd, 2018

    I am scorpio lady married to an Aries! this is so accurate yet sumtime the aries jealousy and insecurity can get to a scorpio as u know us scorpio woman knows how to handle ourselves and u just can’t pin us down. yet the sex is fire on its own

  20. AriesAust May 28th, 2018

    I personally believe the main star sign is the most important but there are also other signs within our main sign we must consider as well…

    I’ve dated a few over the years & yes a Scorpio woman is high up there. The sex is OMFG crazy & that’s saying something.
    I’m extremely lucky to have a 20th November girl & she certainly shows signs from both Scorpio & Sagittarius.

    I was married to a Virgo/Libra cusp woman. Good woman but not suited! Steer clear lol

    Cancer woman are intriguing… Meaning much to give & extremely generous but no this combo didn’t work.

    Aquarius woman like their spacs like Aries.. & the spark is there but when one dates another signs like : Scorpio, Taurus, Aries or a Sagi one soon realises this Aries needs fire 🔥!

    Aries men – Find yourself a Scorpio/Sagi 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • Ang January 3rd, 2019

      Just wondering, when is your birthday? I am a November 20th woman dating and aries man

      • AriesAust January 3rd, 2019

        29th March 🙂

      • AriesAust(aka Tez) ♈️ January 3rd, 2019

        29th March 🙂

      • AriesAust August 5th, 2019

        I was born on the 29th March

  21. scorpio May 27th, 2018

    hello all!
    just wondered if any of you are a female dating an aries?
    ive read all the above and it sounds down to a tea! however have dated aries in the past and am just a little hesitant to start trusting again ( inner scorpio coming through) haha!
    if you could all let me know how yous do it that would be grand!
    thanks,
    S x

    • Tima June 3rd, 2018

      I am a female Scorpio seeing a male aries this is very accurate

  22. Lady T April 13th, 2018

    A+S,
    Maybe you should try reaching out to her (be expressive with what is on your mind). Sometimes Scorpio women like to feel needed and requires extra assurance that you truly care. Once those needs are met, she will shower you with the love you deserve. Invest the time, she is worth it and so is the relationship (don’t give up). I am more than certain that she misses you.

    Also, her pushing you away, is just her trying to protect her heart from
    (possible) pain. It is not to say that she does not care deeply for you (I am sure that she does, probably more than her words will let her say). Sometimes a Scorpio allows their inner thoughts to get the best of them (if you assure her that you only want her, she’ll come to her senses). I know so, because I am a Scorpio.

    • A+S April 19th, 2018

      Thank you for your response Lady T,
      I know she does care a lot for me as our connection runs very deep. We can’t seem to completely let go of each other, but again her walls will rise back up. No matter how complicated she may appear or seem, I won’t give up on her or us. She’s worth it all.

  23. Nidhishree March 27th, 2018

    My boyfrnd zodiac is Aries nd myn Scorpio. Pls tell me over life will good in future

  24. A+S March 22nd, 2018

    *Update*

    Currently, we are no longer talking. I feel like she let her insecurities take over and consume her. Once again, she opened up and got very intimate, then disappeared and closed me out completely. She went cold. It’s like the closer she gets to me, the further she tries to push me away. She’s afraid to fall in love with me. Like I’ve stated before, she goes ghost. She pushes and pulls me back. I didn’t react to her absence this time, the once hot burning passionate flame that I had, has been slowly burning out without her there to feed and fan it. The philosophy that I believe in is that if someone truly cares about you, they’d treat you like how they’d want to be treated. I treated her well, put her before myself, but her disappearing act made me feel abandoned, felt used. She wants good communication, but leaves me in the dark. My last words to her were short, but will leave a lesson with her for life. Take care my almost lover. Though I am hurt by your sting, this will only fortify me and make me wiser and stronger. Aries is “to start anew again”, Scorpios are “to regenerate and rise from the ashes” it’s a cycle for these two. I care for you and understand too much of your pain and fears to hold any of it against you. I am on my way to continue my journey alone and if God sees it fit, maybe we’ll both be back in each other’s lives, if not, then I bid you farewell. Peace, love, and happiness to you.

    • AriesM March 25th, 2018

      Did you make sex with her?

      • A+S March 26th, 2018

        Your question is childish. Grow up.

    • Lady T April 13th, 2018

      A+S,
      Maybe you should try reaching out to her (be expressive with what is on your mind). Sometimes Scorpio women like to feel needed and requires extra assurance that you truly care. Once those needs are met, she will shower you with the love you deserve. Invest the time, she is worth it and so is the relationship (don’t give up). I am more than certain that she misses you.

      Also, her pushing you away, is just her trying to protect her heart from
      (possible) pain. It is not to say that she does not care deeply for you (I am sure that she does, probably more than her words will let her say). Sometimes a Scorpio allows their inner thoughts to get the best of them (if you assure her that you only want her, she’ll come to her senses). I know so, because I am a Scorpio.

  25. Scorpiofemale March 13th, 2018

    An Aries man doesn’t fall for the Scorpio woman as easy as she wants him to….this makes her crave him even more. But once that Scorpio woman stops trying to run her magnetic game on the Aries man and starts being herself, this will attract the Aries man even more

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