Aries Man and Scorpio Woman Love Compatibility

As the flaming Aries comes in touch with the cool watery Scorpio either the gift is priceless or they just fall head off. The interaction between these two signs is usually effective with each giving its share of warmth and coolness respectively to keep the temperatures stable but excess of one, affects the other severely.

An Aries man is a very proficient and gutsy person who always likes to take the first move in all aspects of life from profession to love. Aries man has a superior masculinity which is admired by all and will definitely be respected above all by a Scorpio woman, if she is the one for him. He finds the route to happiness in quite a reckless manner and keeps on demanding undivided attention now and then. But at the same time he is true gentleman and is always ready to be the first one to resolve all the differences that arises after the occurrence of a quarrel.

A Scorpio woman is a charismatic and glamorous woman, who can seduce almost any man on this earth with her single glance. The depth of her will and the grace of her persona are incomparable and definitely appreciable at all levels. An Aries man can easily get attracted to her feminine attributes and fall for this lady like none other to spend his lifetime with her. At times she may be mysterious and suspicious but normally loves to stay calm and gentle.

A Scorpio woman is a lady who can provide an Aries man with the passion of his level in all the fields including love and romance. Moreover she plays the part of an all in one supporter very well for him. She cannot stand anyone who comes in the way of the happiness and success of her man and is ready to harm anyone who hurts her man in anyway. She is very generous so all the love and favors done by him are rewarded with lot more than any man can expect. He finds it difficult to dedicate himself at first but the loyalty and devotion of her makes him learn a lot more about love. But the element of secrecy of Scorpio woman can cause tension between these two lovers. Moreover since she is suspicious in nature, the impulsiveness of her Aries man can create difficulties to Scorpio woman’s mental peace resulting in unwanted arguments.

The Aries man is an alpha male who can make a Scorpio woman wanted and protected at the same time. He is as passionate as any Scorpio woman can ask for and at the same time he is very faithful once he knows that he is with the right woman which she definitely is. Though she may find him lacking emotional maturity but he is always there to fill her life with excitement and fun. He is always ready to spend lavishly for his Scorpio lady and compliments her on all her delicacies and looks. But often Aries man is always interested in the maidens around for satisfying his need of appreciation which can make a Scorpio woman suspicious and worried regarding their love life. But she can always find him by her side whenever she is unhappy or unwell and needs real support.

Once their relationship manages to sustain for a longer period of time and they develop true love for each other, the Aries man gradually develops the much needed emotional maturity and the Scorpio woman starts trusting indisputably. The differences between them are bridged by their mutual trust and forgiveness. He just lets his Scorpio lady win in every field without any egos to interfere, for which he gets immense respect, attention and love in return. Finer rewards of emotional security and shared affection are showered by the seven skies on both the love birds soaring high in love. The water element of Scorpio woman provides the needed cascades to the flames of Aries man and the Aries man in return gives his lady love the warmth of fire which her cool surface craves for leading to a peaceful togetherness forever.

The physical attraction between an Aries man and a Scorpio woman is quite amazing and it can create a good foundation for their relationship. Both need a balanced proportion of love and sex in their lives and this relationship helps them fulfill this dream. She is willing to do anything to fulfill his desires, which makes him like her immensely as she does not have a sluggish approach towards sex and at the same time she lets him dominate her. She must be aware that he pays much more attention to her cleavage, her nylons, her legs, her ankles, her bottom, her breasts, than to anything she is saying or doing. This fact is something she can use to please her Aries male and to get plenty of returns. To make her Aries man go crazy, she could smile sweetly and reach out with her hand to lightly touch his arm, trying to encourage him to make his move. At the same time, he could be more considerate of her needs, mainly emotional, and spend more time with her in intimacy and affection. The act of complete submission in their sexual life makes them feel secure and whole, both at emotional and physical level.

When an Aries man and a Scorpio female are attracted towards each other, the attraction is very mutual both emotionally and physically. The masculinity and nerve of the Aries man always clicks her while her magnetism and loyalty makes him fall for her instantly. Both of them share the common emotion of passion which is raw in Aries and ripen in Scorpio but still they enjoy each others’ sides well. But the jealous, possessive and controlling attitude of Aries is hard for the Scorpio to match up with while the Aries hate the secretive and suspicious nature of the Scorpios. Both of them need to manipulate their personal squabbles and perceptual formations to maintain peace.

  1. A+S March 12th, 2018

    I’m an Aries male who’s always on the move in life, education, always developing myself to be the best that I can be. I am always being pursued by very attractive women, most with great careers as I work in a medical area and some with above average potential for a relationship in my standards, but none are ever bold enough or capable of hanging on for the ride with me. Because of this, many MANY people think that I’m a man-whore or player, but I’m not even close to that. I believe in a relationship with only one woman who I can share the best parts of me that no one else get to see with. That’s invaluable to me, so I tend to set very high standards. Like the Scorpio, I don’t trust easy, I have a built in defense system and will rarely let people in. For an Aries, I’m in touch with his spiritual side, my senses are top notch and intuition level is usually very accurate. I believe this is why I can connect very well with other water signs and they with me. I’ve always had a such a deep and a great connection with all of them Pisces, Cancers and Scorpios, but the Scorpio woman has been the deepest form of connection. I don’t get the same kind of connection with the other elemental signs including fire. I can sense lies, manipulations, when I’m being used, and can see through the fronts that people put up. I seem to notice everything surrounding me and have sharp senses. For some odd reason, I also have the ability to sense people’s negative energies such as hurt, pain, sadness, anger etc. I’m sensitive towards that and it makes me an incredibility compassionate and protective person. I am an EXTREMELY intense and passionate individual who has an eternal blaze inside of me that is too hot too handle for the majority of people. I used to be an immature Aries who wasn’t in tune with my spiritual and intellectual side, I was very arrogant, ignorant, loved the attention of women. I was a typical Aries, a rebel, aggressive, headstrong, bad attitude, mean mug, and with all the positive traits as well. I’m seasoned now and have learned a lot. Everything that a Scorpio women would have been afraid of or sickened by. I have acknowledged my negative traits and have learned self discipline and adjust those areas in my character. I took deep meditation, prayers, and time to question who I am and why I had those negative traits. I dug and found the answers and since accepting my imperfections, I’ve been the happiest I’ve ever been. Now, I am currently talking to a Scorpio woman who actually pursued me. I didn’t take her serious and continued on with my everyday busy lifestyle. She noticed it and challenged me head on unflinching with her ripened feminism and irresistible charm and magic. She liked me from the first day she met me and got my number from a close friend and decided to initiate the chase. Still, I didn’t budge, (many people have said that I play hard to get), but no, it’s just that the attention I get is frequent and it becomes normal, but it’s very hard to impress me. She was persistent though that’s for sure and then she cracked me when she started to show that she genuinely cared for me. I began to take her serious. I can tell that opening up isn’t easy for her to do, but she was brave enough to open up. She said that my way of life, the way I am and think was different from others. She was reading me the entire time the day that she met me, little did she know, I was reading into her the entire time as well and taking mental notes. Her questions were to learn who I was rather than to just hold a conversation. I knew she had a sharp intuition right off the bat, that she was actually trying to get to know me, she said she sensed a lot from me and was able to trust me from that very day. From that time on, she’s felt that we belonged together. From the outside, she appears cold, distant, and aloof. She even broke eye contact with me with I saw her. I feel like even though she’s a tough Scorpio, it seems like I maybe a little intimidating for her and I don’t think she’s used to be the one who’s intimidated. I can look at her dead in the eyes, and feel the void in her heart and see right through her layers of protective walls. I think this scares her… A lot… I also feel like she may secretly be in love with me, but will not show it at these early stages because she’s trying to calculate everything going on. I’ve also noticed that once she reveals too much about herself or once she gets too intense, she distances herself and becomes a little unresponsive when I reach out to her, like she’s burnt out. It’s exhausting when you’re both two intense signs. I understand this concept very well, as Aries can be similar. I never felt insecure about it, as some people may not give it enough patience and leave before she gets to be herself again. These are reasons why she can feel like people don’t stay or take her serious and she’ll become afraid to be herself completely around you. Vice versa for Aries, please take notes. I’m obsessed with her, but I’m actually very calm about it. We both spill too much emotions out that we end up needing the rest and regenerate from the large amounts of it. We both got distant and thought that we were no longer interested in each other and backed off. Even though I missed her like crazy I continued focusing on my goals and tried to turn it into a position by improving myself and move forward. It’s always her who comes back and gives it another try. Maybe I’m secretly love her as well and I’m sure she sees this. That’s why I let her back into my life without raising my Aries sword like how I would with any other sign. Instead of fighting, I explore her mind, heart, and soul and try to understand her. I give her this Aries warmth and she cools me down with her Scorpio coolness. She doesn’t realize, but I pay attention to everything and I feel everything. I love her for her imperfections and she loves me for mine. I’m extroverted and she’s introverted, We are completely different on the outside, but completely the same on the inside. I am jealous of no man as I trust her completely and know that what we have can never be recreated. We as Aries men also can be pessimists as well. Self-defeat is an insecurity of ours, not being the best can drag us down, and cause us to be depressed and shut the entire world out. We’re so busy fighting against the world that sometimes we’ll feel defeated. We dream of someone who will understand this and heal us and also fight with us. Treat each other how you expect to be treated when you’re in your weakest form, but that goes for all walks of life. Loyalty is royalty. With both Aries and Scorpios, you have to be able to ride through EVERYTHING TOGETHER!!! We live by that quote, “Why celebrate with us, when you didn’t want to struggle with us?” It can take a long time for her to come back from her safe haven. She’s afraid that you’ll take her for granted and destroy her completely. It’s scary when you lose control of yourself especially when you’re a Scorpio who’s always in control. This is why they are shrouded by mystery and are painfully selective with people. Understanding a Scorpio woman isn’t an easy, but it’s the same with the Aries man as well who always feels as if he has a huge chip on his shoulder. Both feel as if no one else will ever completely understand them. I personally feel like these two will be a powerful couple, who truly understands each other, both powerful enough to stand side by side and actually have respect for one another. I let her win at everything, but speak truthfully at all times. When your woman’s happy then you’re winning. This doesn’t depict every Aries or Scorpios by the way. Just my opinion and experience.

    Take care and best of luck to all.

  2. Arlene March 8th, 2018

    I’m a Scorpio woman who has just started to date an Aries man again. We were together 30 years ago and were each other’s first love. Back then I found the intensity of his love overpowering and suffocating after all we were only 16. We have recently rekindled our friendship and are developing it, I have to say his immaturity is still a concern for me as I am quite a serious woman, but there is something about his gentlemanlyness and masculinity that draws me in like no other man has done before. I feel when he looks at me he can see deep down into my soul and that scares me because I don’t allow anyone in, my walls are usually inpenetrable! We shall see how things go

    • AriesM March 11th, 2018

      I read somewhere that only Aries man can truly sense a Scorpio woman. So I think is better to tell him direct that kind of thinks you hide and he will not gona like 🙂

    • megangwen December 11th, 2021

      hi i have a crush on my aries male colleague and im a scorpio woman. he has been pretty cold and quiet to me and im really shy to approach him as well. any advices on how to attract him?

  3. AriesRebel January 29th, 2018

    I’m an Aries male. They say we have a powerful persona, that we’re alphas, leaders, warriors, the heroes, badasses, etc. I don’t know this to be true, though it is flattering, I try to be humble and let other people speak upon it. From my personal experiences, I tend to attract the more powerful signs, Aries, Leos, Scorpios, and sometimes in my opinion the Aquarius seems to have enough power to ride along. I am an EXTREMELY passionate individual in all dimensions of my life. They say Leos are my perfect match, but after a while they get kind of boring and super lazy!!! I think they need someone who is submissive because I can’t cater to anyone I feel is unworthy. I was in a 10 year relationship with one and she was a damn psycho. She tried so hard to conquer me, but that became her downfall because I grew tired of it. I can sense when someone’s trying to manipulate me, but go a long with it to see what their true intentions are. I changed from being the sweet little lamb into the raging fiery ram and headbutted the lion back into the little kitten that they really are. Roar in my face, show me your fangs, claws, whatever, I’ll be charging down from the top my mountain. Lol
    Even if I sounded kind of arrogant in the first paragraph, I actually am a true gentleman. I treat people very well and I believe in harnessing this power that I have to do good because I know I can definitely hurt a lot of people. Now I’ve recently caught the attention of a lady of very high social status. I am not impressed by money or power as I believe in making my own money and having my own power, but she recently introduced me to her daughter who is a Scorpio. Let me just say, if I was to let any woman dominate me, it’d be this Scorpio woman. She reignited the passion that I thought was dead for so long! I’ve never felt so revived and passionate for anyone else like I am for this woman! We set each other’s world on fire! I know she’s loving everything that I’m throwing at her even though she doesn’t show it like how I would, whereas I am VERY expressive and red hot fiery! She soaks up my intensity and bathes in it, which others would scurry away so fast! Sometimes I feel like I’m coming off WAY too strong, but there she is still, joyous and continuously telling me she can’t wait to see me again. I am truly impressed that someone can hang with me! I understand her Scorpio ways as well, not completely, but well enough to know that she is a true queen. I give her plenty of space and trust her, when she’s ready then she comes and find me and I’m always there ready to protect and serve my queen from anything that challenges us in this cruel world. I believe that trust is the number one component to gain in order to progress in this early stage of ours. What they say is true about an Aries, we are selfish beings and hard to handle, but once we find that needle in the haystack relationship then you will give up all of our selfishness to make our partner happy. I see no other woman than her. I can see myself spending the rest of my life with her. I am very encouraging and want her to be the best sore to new heights. I feel soooo blessed to have found someone who is like a reflection of myself, but more collected and calm. I’m a little rougher around the edges compared to her, but I can tell she sees that I am completely different from other men. I can definitely sense the power behind this woman as well, it’s immense, but it invigorates me and dares me to bask in it. I understand why they say that it takes a powerful man to handle a Scorpio woman. I’d love to have a woman who protects me when I’m not there to defend myself, someone who decodes my wants and needs, and understands me at a mental, emotional, and spiritual level. She takes care of me and she’s so tender with my heart and she makes sure she doesn’t try to overstep her boundaries. She has so much passion that I can tell she tries to hide it. I think she’s may feel that if she opens up the floodgates, that she’ll scare me away. I’m pretty much fearless of all things. I want her to be herself completely because I am. We’re both people who’s either all in or not at all. We HATE grey areas! That is what I consider to be a perfect relationship. We don’t compete against each other, we both understand that we have something so beautiful going on that we’re determine to let it flourish. We stand side by side and honor each other. I haven’t seen her stinger yet, but would be devastated if I had hurt her fragile heart and feelings. I’d only want to envelope her in my fiery armor. I really hope she is the one!

    • ScorpioWoman February 23rd, 2018

      I’m a Scorpio woman, who is Madly in love with an Aries man. Everything you explain here, is what an him use to be. And I will give anything in the world to have him back. I don’t know how w to get him back. Many people have told me that I need to let him go. It’s been years since he been gone. We talk from time to time but he doesn’t answer my calls sometimes text. I can feel it isn’t the same . He admitted to having a wall up. Like I said it’s been years, I have never met anyone like him from before we met to now of years apart and I’m still in love with him. All I ask, is there anything I can do to get him back? (Opinions I’m sure this is a difficult question to ask for advice for/on). But this is killing me inside

      • ExaltedAries March 3rd, 2018

        It depends on how you two ended it. Also, there are the Aries who are players and immature or the mature Aries who “Casanovas” (also an Aries) the hell out of their partner. Honestly, for Aries, if he wanted to then he’d already be back with you. Once the embers have burnt out then we’re completely done and won’t turn back. We are always on the look for a fresh start, hobbies, meet new people, etc. Especially after a strenuous relationship. I don’t see this is in many Aries descriptions, but we can also be as cold as ice once we’ve had enough. With all due respect, we’re not as vindictive as Scorpios (in text atleast); instead we improve ourselves as we are very optimistic beings. We’re hard to catch and extremely hard to wrangle. IF you did wrangle one, it’s most likely because we let you. We love the feeling of being adored by such an incredibly rare woman. Be painfully genuine though, we have no tolerance for bs. Even a little distrust will cause us to devise a back up plan of action in case things go really bad. When we decide that you’re the one, then the love, care, trust, and respect that we give out to you is expected to be returned or else we’ll feel it as you being unworthy of it. We’re free spirits who are on always on a mission to climb to the top of the mountain. The reason why Aries don’t settle so soon or easily is because once the our partner gets comfortable, they think they own us and that we will relinquish ourselves to them. We’re usually goal oriented and want someone who can support us and ride with us through thick and thin. Someone who also independent, but not so much to the point where you don’t us. We love to show off our dependability! Strong enough to stand up to us, but understanding enough for us to come home to after a long shitty day. Aries are strong individuals, so we expect our partners to be strong as well. It earns A LOT of our respect. These are the type of women we are obsessed about. When we find someone of that capability, we lavish them with royalty, love, sex, passion, you name it spoiled woman. 🙂

        Oh, I personally believe that Aries and Scorpios are very compatible. From what I’ve read about the type of men Scorpio women like, it hits a lot of traits that Aries men carry. It’s also the same for Aries men, in terms of traits that they like in a women. Do some research, it’d pretty interesting. I don’t really care for fire or air signs even though their supposed to be my best matches.

  4. AriesRebel January 26th, 2018

    I’m an Aries man and I have to say that the lovely Scorpio woman only sign I consider to be the true queen of the zodiac signs! She the only one that I’d ever put away my selfishness and settle with. Riding with an Aries is no easy task, but I’ve read and heard the same about Scorpio women. It has been so unreal that such a being exists! I’ll write a longer post sometime and get into details.

  5. Mya January 11th, 2018

    I thing these two signs are like a war in a battle field. It’s always something back and forth either he’s trying to get back or she the scorpio women is standing her grounds just to be petty. A whole lot of deep passionate love when the two doesn’t know how to compromise is a big deal. 7 years a fight on and off it’s a long time the Aries man doesn’t know how to forgive. And uses it against Scorpio women to get back won’t let anything go. This relationship needs patience and understanding

  6. Bennyedos1 October 10th, 2017

    Am a scorpio in love with this Aries I said I love you and he said I love you more….seriously I wasn’t expecting that was thinking he will just ignore or better still send an emoji… but seriously I doubt his emotions a lot I don’t want get so crazy in love with him and get hurt later am scared of being hurt

  7. Kat October 7th, 2017

    Aries men tend to stray away but guarantee you that he’ll always come running back to a Scorpio woman.He may hurt her but she will fight her pride and forgive him.In return he will do everything and anything to earn back her trust.These two signs are that couple that will ride out hell together.Like the daredevils that they are.In public they both carry themselves with high standards.Lord knows what goes beyond those bedroom doors.Sex is their expertise pornstars at its best.

  8. reachformestar24 September 7th, 2017

    All are not narsscism is not a Sun sign characteristic, it’s a guy perception on life n up bringing

  9. Janet August 16th, 2017

    @Art_scorpio Na boo, your Aries man is like that. My Aries man is exactly like this article. This article not only answered questions I had in my head for a while but gave me some advice on how to better my relationship. ❤️

  10. Sophia W Griffen July 21st, 2017

    Thank so much for the article it help me to understand as a Scorpio and inlove with a aries man a cancer man and a Virgo not knowing which one is best to be with more less pick without making the mistake or regrets.

  11. Art_scorpio July 5th, 2017

    Aries men are such manipulative inconsitent guys. They dont fall in love, they do think for the moment that they have fallen in love, bcs they have found a new toy in store. They are narcissists and give to women after a while the silent treatment, bcs they want to have the upper hand in the relationship. Dont text them, dont call them. Do not tell them that you have fall in love with them. They will take you for granted and they eventually will jump into another relationship, bcs guess what? You are not a new toy anymore. And you will wander what happened bcs they love bombed you in the begging and now they ghost.

    • Kia August 23rd, 2017

      You clearly just met an asshole

    • Tez September 3rd, 2017

      I disagree 🙂
      I’m a Aries man – what we lust is affection & love then we will surrender our deepest souls secrets to that 1 ❤️

      Just sayin 😉

    • Julie October 21st, 2017

      Omg this is soooo true….just ended a relationship with one….textbook narcissist!!! Had to have 100% of my attention at all times or went in terrible moods, he was extremely manipulative and selfish in getting his way, told me he wanted to marry me within a couple of weeks into the relationship (very weird)….basically put me on a pedestal right off the bat then tore me down in any given second….once I kicked him out never heard a word from him again…..he used and abused to get what he wanted then off to the next to fulfill his selfish needs….horrible experience

      • K December 12th, 2017

        I’m pretty sure people with anti-social personality disorders fall into every single Zodiac.
        I just left a toxic relationship, and that man was a Virgo.
        I’m seeing an Aries man, right now, and he is not anything like the toxic fellow I was seeing before.
        I don’t think it’s fair to lump everybody together.

      • Mya January 11th, 2018

        Omg Aries men so hateful any selfish men . One mine he loves u in once to build a life the next he hates u n ur the problem for evry thing . I had the same experience and just broken up with mine of 7 years on and off I Cain wait to move so he caint find me

  12. Terrace June 29th, 2017

    Thanks you so much for this article I learned a lot about my Scorpio future wife, I am the Aries tysm

  13. Maya June 26th, 2017

    I’m a young Scorpio woman (girl) and I’m secretly in love with an Aries guy that I attend college/faculty with. He’s so intelligent, assertive, bright, knows many powerful people just like my dad does, and what’s the best, he respects me and treats me as a friend and a worthy rival, at the same time. At first I was jealous of his success, although I myself am an excellent student, and now I’m fantasizing and day-dreaming of him. Ah, Philip!

    • Janet August 16th, 2017

      Take the next step girl ! I’m rooting for you (:

  14. priya June 18th, 2017

    i m in love with my aries boy this things r so true abt my relationship tysm it make me falling more fr him as i m an scorpio lady tysm love this article this helps me to understand him more

  15. AD June 4th, 2017

    In love with a Scorpio lady and I am an aries….this article makes me fall in love with her even more .. definitely gonna propose her in few days..

  16. alexis April 27th, 2017

    I fell in love while reading this I have read other things online about how other signs connect but I think this one boosted my confidence up just enough to actually do something about the feelings I’m having.

  17. Anon April 17th, 2017

    I fell in love with an Aries and while reading this I felt like some of it was very true so thankyou for the insite

    • Anon April 17th, 2017

      Sorry I forgot to add that free this relationship with this Aries man I feel like I can’t move on, I just wonder if that is normal between the two signs

      • scatshifter April 24th, 2017

        He maybe your soul mate,love of your life, maybe give it some time, maybe your not supposed to move on? He could be the one!! I hope so! We Aries males find it hard to show our true feelings, but when we do , we mean it with all our hearts! I hope it works out for you! Like I hope it works out for me!

  18. Gail Woodard April 8th, 2017

    I’m a scorpio famale and I love my Arirs male he is anything that his sign speak about him, he’s every man all i need, he is my soul mate, yes we are comparable and he is my first love. Sign Ms Scorpio

  19. kalii1 August 8th, 2016

    well im dating a aries man but he seem to not get me he shows no emotion but everytime we argue we finds our self right back where we started in each other arms

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  24. tmf2004 September 25th, 2015

    Well i just started dating a Scorpio women and as a Aries man i can tell you i’ve never felt this way about anyone before in 20years.. Scoprio is something special… ALways talking about her soul, traveling, wanting me in her life now and forever.  Its only been just over 3 months and it seems like i’ve known her forever.. I’ve never met anyone that looks at me the way she does with love and passion. Its been amazing thus far.. My last 2 relationships have been Cancers and never again… I married a cancer and that was a disaster.. 
    I will say that i wish she was a little more vocal in expressing her feelings.. She does tell me things but i’m more of a Let me tell how how i feel kinda person.. I don’t have a problem expressing my feelings.. Sex is amazing as well.. She is filled with passion and love in her eyes and sucks me in. Im truely in love with this girl and it feels great.. Any advice would be great from your scorpio women. Finally, she is very attentive towards me, hold my hand, gives me compliments, makes sure i’m happy all the time… Is that normal?  I came from a marriage where the cancer girl was basically bipolar and moody, picked fights, argued all the time so this is just amazing to me.. Scoprio girl and i have tons of fun, we laugh, joke around, can be silly, and much more… 

    • Jennifer Grant June 12th, 2017

      Hold here close to you , sneak up behind her often and put your arms around her,when she is quiet look at her in the eyes be very gentle.kiss on the cheek when she is sad.Let her build up trust by giving her time and she will talk to you on her own.# Scorpio lady J.

      • megahashim September 26th, 2018

        A general query.. does this work on / for all women / wives or is what you mentioned a suggestion for specifically Scorpio women?
        Please advise. Thank you.
        (my assumption was that all women like such forms of showing affection)

  25. orodriguez April 8th, 2015

    Hi. I am a scorpio female.. I was married for 22 years to an aries man.. from the beginning of our relationship he cheated on me.. He would always have a convincing reason why the cheating occur and how he was a change man and how much he love me.. our sex life was amazing..  I help raised his kids out of wedlock and we were happy for many years untill he became a police officer and I an RN.. I ended the marriage due9 to his cheating and dishonesty. . At 21 years of marriage a woman finally came out and stated she’s been in a relationship with my husband for the last 4 yrs…she showed me many pictures of them together … he then beg for me not to leave him.. that he love me and our kids and that he made a terrible mistake.. he promised he would spend the rest of his life treating like I deserve. .. to make the long story short. . I gave him another change because I truly love him and did not want our family to be destroyed by divorced. .. not even 6 months after the cheating incident he went back to supposedly working lots of hours 7 days a week… just like a scorpion woman I stayed quiet and got a gps for his car… the truth came out. .. he was not working more than 8 hours a shift. .. he was still visiting the girl I forgave him for cheating on me for the last years and he was also spending the night at some other girl… so i decide to leave… My heart has been truly hurt.. but I definitely know thay I will never get together with another aries man… I really never beleive in horoscopes but now I do… I will ALWAYS love my ex but I can never trust or believe in him… hope this helps all you ladies… i really beleive in marriage and I tried my hardest to make it work… I know we will still be married if I just did not investigate and him control me.. he said he was tired of arguing. . We argue because he was never home and he would get very upset if I question why he got home soo late… I finally figured out he was to busy cheating. . He had no time for his wife and kids… 

    • Ratul January 3rd, 2017

      If lucky , meet a pisces man.
      Hope if that works out.

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  27. aries-man March 17th, 2014

    Im aries, my wife is scorpio we’ve been married for 7 years. all I can say during our relationship we both grow and learn to love each other. We married young she is 18 and Im 22 that time. but until now I still love her and we still like boyfriend and girlfriend. I mean the fire or should I say the steam is still going on. the only difference is that now we respect each other and we are more mature. But the thing I love with our relationship is that we know we are madly in love with each other. I cannot say exactly the hardship that we experience. Good time or bad times. Im proud to say that we are still standing. regardless of what sign you are, if you truly love and respect your partner you will do anything for your relationship to work. I love my wife and I keep telling her is that all I want is to grow old together. by the way Im 29 yrs and she is 25 yrs old now. we are blessed with a smart saggitarius boy he is 6. tnx. for reading and I hope the best for everyone here. LOVE AND RESPECT. thats all and faith in God.

  28. Scorpiogirl2011 January 6th, 2014

    Scorpiogirl from the 2011 post is back with an update!

    And yes, me and my aries are still going, stronger than ever, closer than ever. We’ve done a whole lot of growing from our college years. We have learned each other well, but we still fight; just part of the combination package, guys.
    Sex is still FIRE. Enough said.
    We have not slowed down a bit. Now, we are living together in a house and talking about marriage plans and children. I can’t wait for that chapter. I’m done, ladies. I found my man a back in 2009, and my aries is more wonderful than ever. I’m grateful to God. I had to update when I saw my post still existing here years later. Blessings to you all!!

  29. Shel-bel June 29th, 2013

    I was with a cancer boy all through my high school years. I thought he was the love of my life that we were going to be together for ages as he was the most loving and caring guy I have ever met. We broke up before we left school. It was another year before I met a Aries boy he was someone every different and exciting. We were together for 7 years had a bit of a fall out as our relationship just came to a holt and nothing seemed to be getting better. We separated for a year in the meantime I grew a strong connection to my very good close friend that is also a cancer by the way who made me feel great about myself again I just can’t seem to not have him in my life he is a great person. I also kinda dated a taurus which the attraction was also there but I ended up regretting it as he turned out to be a awful person he just seemed like he was hiding who he really was but I ended up seeing it thank god before it was to late.. 
    I’m now back with the Aries guy we are giving it another shot and seeing how it goes. I do still think of the cancer guy I was with in high school and I dont regret any time I spent with him he showed me how a guy should treat you and care for you. He was the most wonderful guy. I just really hope it can work for me and the Aries even though at times we have our difference in views and plans I just wanted to know if there was any other scorpios out there that are with a Aries and it has been a good ending as everything I read about our star signs together isn’t that great : (

  30. scorpiocandy April 1st, 2013

    I am dating an aries man now, and it’s lie pulling teeth. I can’t get him to commit. Although we are together everyday, sleep together, and he spends lavish amounts of money. I’ve tried to break it off numerous times he won’t leave! It’s crazy scary. I mean I like him, eventally may love him. My scorpio ways want to wrangle him tie him down and let him know who’s boss. I’m in a war ladies that breaks for sex. I don’t now what to do. When he is prince charming it’s like a fairy tale. the other side is a horrible uncaring beast. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  31. Mytai January 2nd, 2013

    OMG!! This is so head on. I have been dealing with an Aries man for a while now and we have the most intense relationship. I’m extremely jealous and over possessive of him. And he wants to know everything about me but I HATE when people question me all the time. He’s like the alpha male and I support him to the fullest and will do anything for him. But we argue every day!! I’m so passionate and he’s so aggressive but I love him to death!!

  32. Bezoo May 20th, 2012

    i really dont understand why most ppl consider aries man to be a cheat, lacking loyalty…me an aries n i would lov my lady wth everything i hav…n who won’t some1 get irritated…if one continuously suspects on such a person??… n let me tell u aries men even if childish hav d honesty of a child
    So ladies lov ur aries n u vll be loved lik never b4 🙂

  33. ariawolf May 14th, 2012

    Wow, this is unbelievably accurate. I am engaged to an Aries man. He said it was love at first sight for him and I am just keeping my cool back then. But my Aries man took all the initiative to build our relationship and he was so passionate about it I can’t help falling for him. The attraction between us was intense and amazing. Everything just fell right into place. Seven days after I met him, he proposed to me. It was truly extraordinary. 
    This article hits right on the spot. I’ve already experienced all these in just the few weeks we’ve been together. All I can say is, my Aries man is my everything and I have no problems with his Aries personalities.

  34. Havok_Reigns March 24th, 2012

    Okay, so firstly that thing about us Aries being unloyal is not true. Atleast not for me. When I’m in love I don’t even recognize the existence of another girl. All I care about is being with my love and making sure she’s happy. But the rest is pretty much true. Things are quite confusing though, I’ve heard that Scorpio girls hate clingy guys, but then I hear that they love being showered with attention (which I can’t help doing). I really don’t want to feel the wrath of hell, I’ve been hurt enough in the past. When these articles speak of dominance it seems they are reffering to being nosy, and knowing what’s going on with the other person…but why is that a problem as they all claim if we just talk with each other, without secrets and build trust? I met a Scorpio girl, and I’ve never felt such a connection. She’s so interesting, beautiful, funny, and god is she caring. Hoping for the best..I would never betray her.

    • megahashim September 26th, 2018

      Your story seems so similar to mine. Happy to read what you shared.

      “When I’m in love I don’t even recognize the existence of another girl. All I care about is being with my love and making sure she’s happy”
      That’s ditto me (April 13 Aries).

      “love being showered with attention (which I can’t help doing)”
      I can’t help myself either in the matter. I just LOVE spending time with my partner. Being with my partner makes me feel WANTED and therefore I try and make her feel the same from me.

  35. Beyo26 March 22nd, 2012

    I am currently dating an Aries man… all I can OMG!. When we first got together I search all over the internet for validation that this was a relationship worth entering into. You entry is awesome because I love this Aries man; I mean he’s the apple of my eye. The passion that you describe between you two is right on point cuz my Aries and I have such an electric passion between us.

  36. misslilballerina September 21st, 2011

    Iand i like this boy he’s an aries course.. and he treats me right.! and everything thats on here is kinda true from what all i’ve experienced right now. we aret oficially together but i think there a sparks between us. <3

  37. dillpckls September 10th, 2011

    @ann-knox I feel as though you live at my house! My Aries ex is just as you have described and after a 7 year separation and promises long since broken we tried to reconcile and I feel like I’m trapped in a love-to- hate-you nightmare! He is my best friend, father of my kids and has my heart… that being said he tramples it ram- style almost daily and uses my loyalty and deep affection for him against me. I have recently met a Cancer man who after knowing him just a short while treats me like the queen my ex always promises to… but true to my care-giving nature I feel torn about letting the ram do his thing. I have never had a more fulfilling sexual partner but when he chooses to be harsh and cruel he still feels entitled to intimacy and holds a grudge when I refuse to yield. I want nothing more than to keep our friendship and end our relationship clean but the fire in bed burns and so does the flame of our arguments. I am a true Scorpio and never back down from a conflict, but this is one enemy I would rather not wound to escape. I will do what I must but I’m looking for another way out. Talking to an Aries about something they don’t want to hear is like talking to their behind! So telling him how I feel is a ship that has sailed.

  38. ann-knox June 19th, 2011

    I will be celebrating my 37th wedding anniversary with my Aries male hubby. He has always loved me and I have never experienced anything from him but total loyalty and devotion. Right off he was in awe of my beauty (his words) and held me in high esteem. He still validates that I am the only woman he will ever love and I do believe him. The problem is that in later life he showed himself to be very immature and a taker of the most self-centered variety. He allowed me to become the dominant one which makes me crave a more dominant male now. He sat back and became spoiled by my giving and I find the lack of reciprocation to have way too much disparity for my liking. I am the one for him but he is childish and a blamer. I shall divorce him after years of offering counseling and other options as he is spoiled now and I want to be with someone for sex and security of which this Aries is sorely lacking.

  39. Author
    Ask Oracle May 10th, 2011

    @lily Its a good thing that you freely expressed him what you feel like and about his “unstable” behavior.

    To clear off any confusion, you should visualize yourself how you want to be after 1yr, 2yrs and 5yrs in future. This will give you a clear idea what your wants/needs are. Ignore anything and everything that doesn’t helps in building a perfect future. If this Aries guy doesn’t fits well in your vision, you know what to do.

    This thing called Love only survives in presence of truth, honesty, integrity, diligence etc.

    Fear, doubts, confusions, anger, aggressiveness, demands, control, jealousy, excitement are all enemies to Love.

    I would suggest that instead of focusing on external factors, you must work on your CAPACITY to experience this wonderful thing called Love. Its very healing and precious and not everyone is capable to handle it well.

    Found this for you –

  40. ari201010 May 9th, 2011

    Ok so my aries guy, well I can’t totally say he’s mine, and me were so attracted to each other for months. We would flirt like back and forth and then finally one day when I was talking to another guy I met (whom he happened to know) he comes up and says hi to me. He says he’s glad he finally spoke to me and basically the rest of the night we spent talking and laughing. So before he left he asked what I was doing the next day and I said I was busy so we planned for the following day. The date was great but evrything moved so fast. My scorpio sexual side was excited that we were making out but my good girl side was like “woah…buddy!” He also brought up marriage and all this. anyways that whole week he called and texted me saying he missed me, etc. So we saw each other again at the end of the week and then things got really intense in his car. He was very aggressive and i didnt mind it kinda turned me on but at the same time it was a weird aggression like he was angry and he would drift off sometimes. We didnt have sex just really really made out. But he told me he loved me. I freaked, this was only the 2nd date. So after that day we texted on weekend, then suddenly nothing. Like we barely text now and I’ve see him once in about a month since then. It pisses me off because the last time I saw him we had sex and I clearly wasnt ready for that. He just moves so fast and says he cares and tells me he’s just been depressed and really busy because he’s leaving for the summer. two weeks went by and we didnt talk so me being impulsive sent him a message saying how i felt and how upset I was that he was being that way but at the same time I understood I just want to know whats going on. He still hasnt replied but I dont know what to do. Its so complicated between us. I know that relationships take a while and he wants to take it slow but how can you possibly take it slow yet tell someone you love them, ask them about kids, and have sex with them? Its all too much, any advice gals? or guys? = )

  41. beautifulScorpio April 19th, 2011

    im a scorpio female and i just broke up with my aries. we were attracted to each other immidiatly. i loved how he acted and they way he carried his self i loved the way he tried to control me but it got too out of hand he became too possesive and just tried to find a reason to be upset. we had sex and it was AMAZING. the sexual connection was amazing. i naturally feel suspicious so i always felt like he may be lieing or sneaking around. i never caught him. we argued alot over rather or not i was up to no good when in all actuality i was being loyal to him. he always thought i was doing something and to me that was just him being guilty of something. what eneded us was the fact that he was over possesive and texted me and said “babe i do love you” when we wernt even having a conversation on love. it was about what i was doing on twitter and the fact that im “crazy” just because i asked what took him so long to text back,i think he ment to send that to another girl so i broke it off anlso because i was tired of having the gut feeling that he wasnt being totally loyal to me but if i wasnt loyal to him he’d try to kill me probably total bs that i dont need. smh but i just cant leave him alone im so foolish and i no i am thats the worst part aboit the whole thing.!!

  42. Courtney March 23rd, 2011

    I am a scorpio female engaged to an Aries male and this described us exactly!! We will be together 10 years on 9/7/11.

  43. Aries stun by a Scorpio March 10th, 2011

    I am an Aries male who have dated and almost married a Scorpio Women after close to 4 years of intense love, sex, arguments, secrecy and jeolousy. But despite all the challenges, I would give anything to get back together and try to make it work because. The emotions are so intense I don’t believe I have ever loved anyone as much.

  44. sarita March 5th, 2011

    im going around with aries guy so im jst waiting how long our relation will last……………im an scorpio…im jst thinking our relation will work or not

  45. pop February 26th, 2011

    i am a aries man and for me i must say i love scorpio women im single right now but the past 2 women i dated was scorpio the main problem was just the distance 4 one of them the other was 2 controlling the SEX was AMAZEING!!!! i love scorpioz because i like the way they thnik see im a aries but much like a scorpio i like 2 observer everythin about a person i noticed that scorpioz think about every income and outcome befor thay make decisions the only way you’ll catch them in a bad situation is because they took a risk that they knew would be a bad idea but they always have a plan b emotionally scorpioz are master minds great thinkers i love scorpioz and cant wait 2 run into another one and start a realation ship i know this time we will go well toget her

  46. scrop! February 20th, 2011

    im a scorpio woman, and i dated a aries man and it was a massive headache, he was too stuborn self-centred, controllive, and idiot and a cheat… -.- on the plus side he was very generous and very out-spoken wich drew him to me in the first place i cant stand the silent boring type, well anyway we broke up due to the fact that we boths wanted dominance in the relationship and we wont ready to give in i was the one who ended it it broke my heart because i loved him so much but the stressing and worrying was to much for me to handle 🙁

    now i am dating a cancer and wow he is amazing on so many levels sweet, generous, open-minded and has a soft heart like a teddy bear 🙂 🙂
    trust me girls its true when they say scrops are better off with water signs,, save urself the trouble and dont go there with an aries too much of a roller-coaster!!!!!!!!!!!

  47. jiny January 31st, 2011

    i lyk a aries man frm lst 3year bt bit scared 2 keep him as my bf…bt stil i <3 him a lot dono y diz kind of attraction hpn…suggest

  48. Colleen January 30th, 2011

    I Love my Aries Man!! I’ve dumped him many times and he always comes back. I’ll never leave him again!! Everyone has to give in once in a while. Leave your ego at the door.

  49. Diamond January 30th, 2011

    ok, i have some a scorpio women..but im far from faithful..y do they say we have faithful when im not….and with a gemini man, and they say that gemini men roam…we have been together for 8yrs andhe has never cheated on me… me

  50. ashley January 14th, 2011

    Ha! The aries male…..were a challenge…’s i love u today, hate u tomorrow

  51. Scorpiogirl January 9th, 2011

    oh yes I forgot to mention the saying that even though Aries man are like stone at times, the Scorpio woman us like the rain; we shape and mold that stone, we smooth it all it takes is time

  52. Scorpiogirl January 8th, 2011

    I agree with this detailed description. My Aries man and i have quitea story between us. We’ve been seeing each other since April 2009, and what a bumpy ride he’s taken me on. Commitment wasn’t his favorite word but since April 2010 we’ve been official. He’s learned a lot from me about love and respect, and just recently we’ve declared our love for one another. As a Scorpio, he is attracted to my secretive mysterious nature, but I will only let him know so much. I’m a good manipulator and thats part of the reason I got his heart. Aries are childish at times and like to been kept off a lease, going out fand staying out late at times, but now I’m a the point where I completely trust him regardless because I have him hooked. Their honest and cater to you at that point, paying for everything and craving the role of hero to takes care of you. Scorpio reward men with the deepest love (and sex) they’ll ever feel and thus they are like mary’s little lamb. In the beginning scorpio must be patient if she desires him for her mate, and don’t be intimidated by the other females, because scorpios know the most intense choice. I’d he’s smart he’ll catch on. I’m his good girl and in return he gets his seductive “damsel”. We fight like crazy, and his temper is strong when things didont go his way. He is my spoiled baby but I will still have my way without him even realizing it. 😉 his tempers and chasing after me wheb we fight are magnetic. I know im wanted, needed; and its intense. So yeah we fight but I get the feeling he likes it. Right after he closes the deal by making up. The make up sex is out of this world! Like something out of a movie. He’s easy to seduce with my innocent yet deeply magnetic moves. I love this man. He has taught me to relax more and get out for a few adventures while I taught him the importance and enjoyment of intimate alone time, respect an love. It’s the best relationship I could ever hope for. It isn’t easy but you have to compromise and understand how each other works and that we are both dedicated and loyal. What does fire and water make?: steam. 😉

  53. Soli December 17th, 2010

    I’m a scorpio woman and my friend wants to set me up with a man who I found out is an Aries. Everything I read about this match screams red flag. They told me he’s a really nice guy who just finished his duty with the Coast Guard and is very out going. I’m really quiet and hard for me to open up right away. I have been seeing this Pisces man who I really like but lately he’s been really flaky and hard to figure out. Anyway, I’m debating whether to meet this Aries man or not.

  54. tamy December 1st, 2010

    Well im a scorpio female and i was dating an aries man untill he cheated on me with my bestfriend who is an aries female who acually introduced me me to him in the first place. when i first met him he came across as very sweet and charming, abit flirty but a very interesting man to talk to. we seemed to have very simular minds untill and so much in common, untill we moved in toghether one year prone to the relationship. when i acually got to no him better than i thought i began seeing a different side to him he came out to be very self-centred at times and i absolutley hated that about him,, then other times he was very inatiative and giving. we debated alot and never stoped arguing adventually it got really anoying and i realised we wont gonna work so we took a brake. he wasnt very happy about the idea and he felt like i was giving up on the relationship so i was worried that he might do something careless and i was right for worrying he slept with my bestfriend…
    scorpios save urself the trouble and DONT! date an aries man it would just be a headache!!!!!!!!

    • workmaster50 December 11th, 2017

      So he didn’t actually cheat? You just wanted to keep the cake and eat it

  55. Samanthaa November 28th, 2010

    I’m a Scorpio girl nd I’ve been messing around an talking to an aries guy for about a month now. Lemme tell ya, he’s not like anyone I’ve ever came across. We have nothin to fiqht about yet since we stared talking but, I do qive him alot of space nd I never pressure him to choose me over his other thinqs. I’m not sure how it’s qonna all play out but, we are deeply attracted to eachother. I just don’t know how to take it o the next level….

  56. scorpiogirl1234 November 26th, 2010

    aries men HATE to commit! beware scorpio women, they will lure you in only to pull away. they hate to talk about how they feel about you and heaven forbid you ask a question about your future together. they freak out. i will not date another one.

  57. I AM Aries! November 15th, 2010

    it’s all up to watever you make it!!.. no matter wat!

  58. scoripo52 November 15th, 2010

    Yes, Ariesinspired I am feeling you with Aries Man. We have been communicating for 2 mos over internet and then phone calls (mostly about him) lol. As I’ve said we met twice, we have had a wonderful chemistry, first hot, hot, hot kiss. I like you ,you like me. Then guess what I have not heard from him for a week now. I am like ‘whats up’… Is this what they do, no warning nothing just shut it down. He knows my b-day is on Wednesday. So I guess I’ll see just how romantic and full of surprises he claims he really is…Strange hot/cold then nothing. I’ve never been with an Aries man refore. I really thought we were cool. I don’t know what to think… Any advise?

  59. AriesInspired November 13th, 2010

    I have been talking to an aries man for about 3 months off and on, and one thing I know is the conversations are always electrifying.He compliments my scorpion zest for adventure.He also satifies that challenge hunger we all seem to have. However, he seems a little apprehensive about one on one contact, its almost as if he is afraid of me? I know that he is single, my intuition says “give it time”. So I am going to practice patience, and know that this man will be by best friend first.. 🙂

  60. scoripo52 November 9th, 2010

    you all know what I meant ‘both feet’, give me your blessings ladies!!

  61. scoripo52 November 9th, 2010

    I am a Scorpio woman and I resently meet an Aries man on on-line dating. We’ve meet twice. I’m going to be 52 on the 17th. And believe I have never felt this much chemisty and energy from any man. LADIES I think I’m in Love. We did back and forth on-line for a month (teasing),total timing 7wks. Everything I have heard and read I am intrigued by. I am going in with foot. I am going to make this work. I like this Aries Man he is amazing. I’ll keep you all posted on our progress… Love my Aries Man!!!

  62. Apple21 November 9th, 2010

    Are you sure you haven’t been taping my day to day life? I too am a Scorpio woman with an Aries man, 3years now and I love him to death but he is very passionate about everything and sometimes I just want to live a peaceful life. He is very sneaky and I don’t trust him, this keeps our relationship on edge. I can’t say I regret it, I live life to the fullest with him.

  63. derbygyal November 5th, 2010

    well im a scopio female & my x aries partner is jus how you all say it is true true true we split up bcuz he cant be committed 2 me.. also ive found flirty txt to other girls tut tut aries twat!

  64. mith October 29th, 2010

    I’m an arian man. I have not met the scorpio female personally but have been speaking to her since some time on phone
    And she sounds very homely and nice. We might meet tommorrow but I don’t know why I’m very excited and
    I feel she is the ultimate wife material. Hope things turn out well

  65. Scorpio Woman October 17th, 2010

    I am a Scorpio and want NOTHING to do with ARIES women or men. I Hate them

  66. Scorpio Princess October 13th, 2010

    This is very true. I’m in a relationship with an Arian guy, and as I have experienced, this is very very true! I agree with it.

  67. Scorpio88 October 10th, 2010

    Ok…I’m a Scorpio girl, and I just met this Aries guy at work, we’ve only known each other about a month now, but after reading all these posts, I really see that what most of you girls are sayin is right. He is very self-confident, and he’s not afraid to tell anyone that. There is alot of physical attraction, but I can’t really tell if thats all there is or not. He just recently had a relationship break up, but I’m not sure if it was his doing or hers. So far, it seems as though he’s been very honest, I just worry that it may be as some other Scorpio girls have worded it, that it may be too good to be true…

  68. nene_scorpio'born October 8th, 2010

    i am a scorpian female and have jus met an aries boy. the chemistry and physical attraction is definatly there. he’s fun to be around and to talk to . I do find my self getting jealous when seeing him around other girls, but ive been working on it. after reading all these comments, i think im goin to put in all my effort and see how this goes; im excited.

  69. nene_scorpio'born October 8th, 2010

    im a scorpio girl and ive met a aries man not too long ago . he’s very intruiging and he’s sooo fine ! the chemistry is definitly here. so far he’s great to talk to and fun to be around. after reading all these comments, i think im goin to put my effort into this and see how far this goes !

  70. florence_capri September 5th, 2010

    hey wait is it a mathamatics counting????? ok whatever gud luck

  71. gihay September 5th, 2010

    n hey he was chasing ur tail…..hmmmmm r u a bitch…lol

  72. florence_capri September 5th, 2010

    r u sure he counted on u……hmmmmmm great confidence lol

  73. mia September 3rd, 2010

    wow…interesting, an aries has been chasing my tail for 5months now, apparently he was counting, i its true the chemistry is there but i feel like he’s only fascinated by my mystery and odd behaviour. To my surprise he was very intuitive and dead on about what im thinking; it was a pleasant surprise that he had depth but it made me more withdrawn….i felt naked and caught off guard so im more secretive. He HATES that i don’t spill my guts, when he puts me on the spot firing questions at me, somehow he’s the one who ends up having a full-on confession He says he’s going to domesticate me and teach me how to be more open, like thats gona happen!! He knows that beneath my calm exterior, there’s an element of danger but it seems to excite him. he cant reconcile my past dealings in all things men and this “image” he has of
    also very territorial n jealous and not knowing where he stands with me makes him restless.

  74. Devin August 26th, 2010

    I’m an Aries male and I’m totally monogamous. My Scorpio cheated on me, so take that star sign fan-people.

  75. yvonne August 19th, 2010

    i’ve been with my aries boyfriend for a little over a year… let me tell you . we fight a looooootttt.

  76. Michelle August 6th, 2010

    Im a scorpio girl who has been on 4 dates with an Aries and I really like him. Obviously we are not in a committed relationship yet but seems like there is a real future. Being a scorpio woman I keep my heart well protected and don’t offer it up on a silver platter to the first handsome man to cross my path. He just was dumped recently so I just want to give him room and space. I know my worth and Im an attractive young woman in NYC—basically the land of endless possibility when it comes to dating. The key is friendship we’ve been to lunch, kayaking, a picninc and shopping for sunglasses together. He is fun to be around and makes me feel safe. He is also pretty honest. I dont trust men in general so Im trying to refrain from finding flaws and having a reason to “get out” before my feelings start to grow. I could see myself with him longterm.

  77. sarah August 3rd, 2010

    I’m a scorpio woman dating a aries guy. It’s so crazy how close this website decripes me and my aries man of 4 years! At first in our relationship, we had probelms. I started dating him when he was still immature and self absorbed. But ever since he’s dated me he has changed for the better. Things are more important in his life, he’s grown up alot, and he always does things for me. Scorpio women do not get discoraged with aries men. At first it may seem impossible but I think if ur willing to wait and see results, you will be shocked at just how much an aries man will love and appreicate you. You may have some issues to come across with an aries man, but if you both are willing to put stubornness aside, you will be very happy in ur relationship.

  78. ravage July 27th, 2010

    I have never had so much fun before in my life. I am a Scorpio female in my first relationship with an Aries man. I feel as tho I am in a role playing game. I don’t mind backing down and letting him be dominate in all aspect of the relationship it makes me feel like a woman. Tho I do see the point of the Scorpio woman leading the emotional side of it. We have fought a few times, and like it says he comes to me and makes peace. My sights are set and I am determined to make this one “mine”. So as a Scorpio lady, I will do what I am good at and hide what needs to be hidden, and bring out what needs to be there to keep him interested and always in a constant change so his eye doesn’t wander to and fro. Arie men can be faithful when with the right woman, and the right Scorpio woman has to attract him. Its the sense of adventure that really lures them. You must be willing to be flexible which is not a Scorpios favorite word. Give and take is required for this one. But I am glad to be here. No matter how many emotional tantrums go on. I just remind my self its proof of his affections. We all need the security of being wanted and needed, Aries are needy of that as well as a bit of personal freedoms that “we” don’t like to give. 😉 This is one exciting ride that I would like to take down the life time road.

  79. giggy July 7th, 2010

    hey don’t know why i’m saying this, but it’s in a concern way, i think Steve is slightly playing with you guys, beware….u guys are not married yet, u r just engaged… better think before u leap in a soup of marriage…..:)n please don’t be proud if Steve selected u in the end, becoz he is a big crap and worthless boy…:(

  80. giggy July 7th, 2010

    OMG things are really bitchy in your life…poor girl..:(

  81. crid July 6th, 2010

    hay, im a scorp dating an aries, been together for 3yr and 4 months. I love him to bits but…. Before him i had dated a Leo and my bestfriend An Aries, she slept with him while i was with him and she got pregnate and lost it and whatever. Anyway. We stopped talkin i thought she was a total bitch. This guy i thought he rocked my world but he was just a jerk it was her as well as him.
    I met this guy called steve (aries) when i was 18 and by than i found my self talking to to my bestfriend again stupid bitch and i forgave her. Steve and her knew each other. They always hung out got drunk and stuff.
    We started dating and stuff. But 2 yrs ago one night he told me that my bestf tryed to kiss him when they were drinking.
    Im quiet upset he didnt tell me straight away.
    Im glad that steve chose me in the end.
    The thing im bothered bout is they are chatting on face book and gave he number out to him. Steve and i are engaged now. She lives in S.A I still dont trust her.
    But he love talking to her and he even said its more fun hanging out with her, they accually do things not so boring. That hurt me. He would rather hang around my backstabbing bestfriend than me.

  82. melissa July 5th, 2010

    i’m dating an aries guy for about a year now he does have the temper and when i asked him about it he said that if he was bored he would leave but that he’s not bored right now, he is kinda scary but i enjoy him a lot i can’t see myself without him right now

  83. Love Bug July 1st, 2010

    Well mary, i’m sorry to hear that. But I do hope you find mr. right, can I ask you ladies something; me n my aries well were just talking not together. And the other day he said to me he’d move where ever I would go once I got stationed. Is that a sure sign he’s ready to take that next step? P.S he’s got a baby on the way so also is that far of me, but I would make him leave me for a long period of time to see the baby.

  84. lisa July 1st, 2010

    i’m a scorpio girl whos bn dating an aries man for 6yrs n we r the perfect cpl! i am totally in luv with him as he is with me! i do believe though that u both hav 2 b totally inlove with each other or the relationship wont work. and u must remember scorpios especially women tend 2 c the flaws in ppl b4 they see the gd so it will take a GOOD aries man to gain a scorpio womans trust and when he does it will b worthwhile!!

  85. mary June 29th, 2010

    Scorpio girl are u sure that aries guy has said you “i luv u” from his heart n if yes than proposing some-one else is really cheap n low on his part…..:)

  86. Love Bug June 26th, 2010

    Well Mary if you do date a Gemini just be careful they do keep secrets, also they’ll keep you on a need to know basis.

  87. Latifat June 24th, 2010

    More help about aries and scorpio

  88. Scorpio Girl June 24th, 2010

    I’m a scorpio girl and I met an Aries guy 2 months ago.. After being with him, I found that-
    Aries guys are short-tempered, arrogant, unsupportive unfaithful and disloyal.
    I had supported him as much as I could but he did not realise its worth! That guy cheated on me! He said ‘I love you’ to me and proposed another girl! I hate Aries Guys! I can’t believe that he could be so cheap!

  89. Crystal June 15th, 2010

    im a scopian women who just met an aries male he is very passionate loving and kind he really wants to move fast in our relationship moving in together marriage and kids hes also very kind and very understanding. there is a megnetic appeal or attraction that i dont understanad ive been dating him for 3 days now, but hes great and amazing and the more mature and uderstanding he is the more i fall in love with him. he is very naturistic and not self centered hes very easy to get along with i am scared because ive never had a guy so great and i couldnt ask god for better it like our relationship is too good to be true.

  90. aria April 27th, 2010

    I am a scorpio woman and have been with my arian man for 3yrs. We have a very intresting relationship. Very committed by both of our part. He is somewhat self centered but i balance him when he gets into himself and remind him tha humility is the way to go in this life. Aries men are by nature prideful and arrogant because of their child like personality. A scorpio woman will give them the fire they need as well as the constant reminder of you are not all tha honey! You can never show them a sign of weakness they will capitalize off of it.

  91. MissAnonny April 27th, 2010

    I am a Scorpio woman, dating an Aries male for four months now. We were immediately physically attracted to each other and it is the most passionate relationship I have ever had. Many years ago I dated another Aries who was very immature and very unlike this current man. So it is going to depend on the individual, but I can honestly say that this man is going to go into my personal history book as one of the best ever, and although I am a bit scared of it being too good to be true, I will say on the ride and hang on, because every minute is worth it.

  92. sujasha April 13th, 2010

    i hv dated 2 aries guys..da frst one ws self-centered and a total idiot…i jus h8edhim…but the second one is really sweet..and romantic….i dont think hez dishonest…..i love him nd he loves me..thats all i noe.. 😀 <3

  93. Anonymous March 8th, 2010

    So true….

  94. MnM January 13th, 2010

    Sooooo, My fiance and i are sitting here reading this and agreeing with just about everything everyone said. The difference is that we are the soul mates and perfect couple and yes we do fight bu we are happy just about ALL the time. This relationship works as long as both partners are 100 prcent into it.

  95. Your name November 17th, 2009

    I decided… SHE IS THE ONE! 🙂

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  97. Marion July 14th, 2009

    and we really liked each other.. it was something I did that make him disappear.. what can I do to win him back? this story began almost 3 yrs ago, and the last time we spoke was on March/April I think..

  98. Marion July 14th, 2009

    So true.. but my prob is I don’t know how to win him back.. when we talk all he wants is “the moment. we. us. together. no ages. no tomorrows.” … I want him but I don’t wanna be with him a week and loose him for another X months, and so on and on.. What should I do? I’m too proud to make the first move but at the same time too weak to contain my emotions. He made the difference in my life, but I don’t want a “week-stand” man..

  99. jenine June 17th, 2009

    true….but i lost him already

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