Gemini Man and Scorpio Woman Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Gemini man and Scorpio woman have a challenging love affair due to their differences, but initial attraction can be intense.
  • Scorpio woman's strong sexual prowess may overwhelm Gemini man, but she can take charge and show him a passionate relationship.
  • Gemini man can attract Scorpio woman with his charm, wit, and romantic nature, but he must respect her privacy and avoid trying to control her.
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The love affair of Gemini and Scorpio has got to be one of the most challenging combinations! Initially, the attraction between these two may be intense. Both of them are curious lovers and so they can be entirely fascinated with one another. But the very differences that attracted them to each other in the first place can turn into serious issues as time goes on.

A Gemini man represents dual personality. He may exude tons of handsomeness, charm, masculinity, intelligence and romance, but he does not ordinarily exude excessive sexuality. Gemini man finds all forms of jealousy difficult to fathom as he himself is very independent and loves his freedom. He knows the talent to impress and pursue anyone. A Gemini man possesses the unusual and uncommonly appealing quality of seeming to remain eternally youthful, rare enough to attract the normally self-contained and cautious Scorpio woman into wondering what makes him scintillate with such multiple colors of the mood spectrum.

A Scorpio woman is a strong, intense and poised woman full of mystery and intrigue. She can handle pretty much any situation on her own and is tolerable of most. However, get a Scorpio woman angry and you can most likely feel her stinger. Jealousy to a Scorpio woman is more passionate than the initial love created between two lovers. One can feel the wrath of this passion and she stops at nothing in getting her revenge on you. Being in a relationship is no less the biggest passion of a Scorpio woman’s life. She is a very caring and possessive lover and gives her lover a priority above all.

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The mysterious beauty of the Scorpio woman deeply stimulates the Gemini man and compels him to fall in the relationship. Though his sense of passion and sexuality doesn’t stand a chance against the strong sexual prowess of Scorpio woman but then this is where Scorpio woman takes charge and shows her Gemini man that a searing passionate and sexual relationship is just what she is entitled to. His attraction to her is due to the fact that she is interested in him and wanting to begin such a torrid affair with him. She always tries the sensual side of things to keep her Gemini man bonded to her. When Gemini man realizes that Scorpio woman won’t play along with the games, he so desirous to play, it can actually disturb him. The best medicine for the Scorpio woman and Gemini man is to just give a little space to allow the love they have, to breathe.

Scorpio woman is attracted to Gemini man’s plethora of colors he reveals due to his child like acts and talks. She does not come at rest until her curiosity is satisfied. Gemini man must realize from the beginning that he can’t go into such a relationship with a light foot. He is debonair, full of charm, witty, and romantic and makes his Scorpio woman feel special and loved at all the times possible. The intellect of the Gemini man is always a reason of admiration for his Scorpio woman. The Gemini man respects his Scorpio damsel for he strength and courage and appreciates the passion she shows in almost all fields of life especially their love life. Many times Gemini man will try his affectionate and romantic tactics to win over his Scorpio woman. She is sexually attracted to him for a long time until she realizes she can never know all of the intricacies of her Gemini man. There are too many secrets that Gemini man keeps and this upsets a Scorpio woman in long term.

With the love passionately growing between the Scorpio woman and Gemini man, as they both reach out to call one another, they both can enjoy the music of spring breeze and sound of waves lashing the shore. They soar high together to see everything from a different perspective, including their lovely relationship. Their happiness includes all the magic and wonders of the world where they are able to express their deepest dreams to each other and help each other to realize them as well. With their growing relationship, the Gemini man learns to be patient about the passions and emotions of his Scorpio woman and the Scorpio woman finds the way to whisper to the wandering spirit of her Gemini man and bring him to rest.

Gemini man has air as his element and Scorpio woman has water as her element, as a result Gemini man is not into the sexual nature that Scorpio woman is. Normally he takes other virtues over sex, whereas she finds that it is a top quality her lover should possess. Gemini man likes the games that go along with his sexual interests. Scorpio woman is very direct in her sexual nature. This makes it surprising that the two are so attracted to each other. During the lovemaking the Scorpio woman may not experience the level of passion she has, in her Gemini man but his creative style to make their sexual oneness an exciting experience is always well appreciated and responded by the Scorpio woman. The only thing they have is the sexual attraction and that is not enough to keep a relationship going for long term unless they are both willing to compromise and try to work out the problems in the other aspects of their relationship.

There are certain issues that need to be handled on greater level to have peace in the relationship of Gemini man and Scorpio woman. One very strong problem area of such a relationship is Gemini man’s desire to roam and Scorpio woman’s extreme jealous nature, and if Gemini man knows what is good for him he won’t anger her this way. It’s not something he would like to deal with. Her extreme vindictive attitude surfaces and rest assured she gets her revenge. Their natural instinct with one another is to explore each other and whatever it is that makes them tick. This isn’t such a good idea with a Gemini man and Scorpio woman’s match. Scorpio woman likes her privacy and any meddling or scrutiny into that is enough to irritate her. This criticism and constant questioning causes her to lash out in anger. To have a successful relationship out of the bedroom as well as in the bedroom, they need to respect each other’s privacy and not insist on trying to get into each others heads so much.

Gemini Man and Scorpio Woman Love Compatibility Rating

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  1. Lisa Raisbeck June 3rd, 2023

    I am a Scorpio woman married to a Gemini man. Bedroom fireworks and instant attraction for sure!
    My ex husband was also a Gemini and he married another Scorpio. After 30 years she passed away and he is now dating another Scorpio.
    My Gemini husband was previously married to a Scorpio woman who then got remarried….you guessed a Gemini.
    So I find it so interesting when I read these 2 signs are not compatible. There are challenges but we have worked through them fine. That is 6 relationships of Scorpio women in long term relationships with Gemini men.
    I adore my husband, he is my best friend. We have 6 children and we work well as a team. We call each other soulmates and wonder twins. ❤️ I love the way he loves me ❤️

    • Ali January 19th, 2024

      Hello Lisa, Sorry to jump in here but I don’t know how you’ve made things work out or is this your husband (the Gemini) had more contribution to make it work? I think you are blessed for sure. Good luck.

  2. La March 14th, 2023

    My experience in talking to a Gemini man is that they are exciting for a scorpio woman, the Gemini man has alot of charm, brains, and he’s pretty masculine, he has a way with words. The passionate side of the Scorpio woman is attractive to the gemini man. The Gemini man is more than capable of handling the Scorpio woman however in many cases the scorpio woman may find it hard to handle him, as the Gemini man has too many sides to him, he comes up with new things all of the time, he has new ways of being and new ways of doing things, he’s too mutable for the fixed scorpio, the Scorpio is often times dark and emotional and moody and intense, fixed,l passionate whereas the Gemini man is more lighter, adventurous, easy going, and at times has a youthful personality, and at times unemotional, mutable etc these 2 people have different personalities and different elements, nevertheless they can still make it work, it can go 2 ways they learn from Each other and embrace their differences or they argue and fuss all of the time. Nevertheless the sexual attraction and the passion between these 2 are out of this world, they may find themselves obsessed with each other because of the passion they give off on each other. It can work but it takes a lot of compromising.

  3. Eric January 22nd, 2023

    I dated a Scorpio woman. The attraction was magnetic. I was able to feel her every being. Yes, will I date another Scorpio. But not a damage one. The articles I read earlier seem to me, that some people dated damage Gemini’s and Scorpio’s. Look for the warning signs and those red flags. Remember there are people to.

  4. Khristah Walker June 17th, 2022

    No complaints here. My Gemini and I are GREAT!! MUCH better than the Leo experience.

  5. Scorpio February 24th, 2022

    I had the best sexual encounter of my life with a Gemini man. Unfortunately it didn’t go beyond sex. I tried to contact him and have not received a response. He was proposing that we start a relationship but suddenly he disappeared leaving a very confused and hurt Scorpio!

  6. Mary KNEPP January 26th, 2022

    Say I read the difference between Scorpio and Gemini relationships and I already knew this about my Gemini lover, and I know because of our work time he’s an actor and IM a tax consultant and my time is more liberal than his and I understand his time because I was in the same profession that he is in now I understand that they like to roam and he is too attached to my sexuality to roam. He’s very sensitive and very in tune to family that he is not used to having and wished he did and I am the right person to bring this family together with our own new family and he’s all in for it matter fact it was his decision he’s very sensitive and we do not bother each other during the day except texting I love youse every now and then just to let them know we still exist but when it’s nighttime he’s in my bed where is sleep together we make love together and following morning before anybody gets a cup of coffee when he wakes up the first thing he wants to do is tell me good morning he loves me more than anything in the world daily and sometimes I wonder if that would get old but it doesn’t we have common interest in our financial world in our plants of life and family life and my gym and I love her it’s so intelligent I have tried to prove him wrong sometimes and he has always come out right I give him the benefit of the doubt and I promised I would never doubt him again and I won’t as long as I don’t know about it if I ever find out he Romes sexually I’m gone he does not want STD he says he doesn’t stand for that he’s really old fashion in the way he thinks he’s the head of the The Gemini I’m the tail of the scorpion so yes I have a stinger and I’m vengeful and you know when I do I swallow that venge and give it to God and now he does the same thing he gives everything back to God I think if you really work at your gym and I love her you guys are gonna last forever because he says we’re gonna last forever and you’re right when we have arguments he doesn’t want me to go he won’t let me leave, he will who me back right into bed he is one smart cookie and he’s one good character actor and everybody knows him especially me and I love him with every beat of my heart and I will give him the space he needs to do what he needs to do and I have the space I need to do what I need to do and that is respect for each other‘s space and I think that’s going to help us last to and he’s going to give me an adopted baby so I can have something to deal with I guess during the day I have a very respectable very handsome very loving very caring very intelligent very wonderful Gemini man in my life and I won’t let him go and he won’t let me go . God bless you babe and you know who I’m talking about if you ever read this we all have secrets especially you and I

  7. Trudy January 13th, 2022

    As a Scorpio woman, I have male Gemini friends and they are the nicest people, in my experience.

  8. Kash December 28th, 2021

    I’m a Scorpio woman with a Gemini man, been together for 3 years. The beginning of our relationship was very spontaneous, passionate and fun. Now that we live together all the fun is gone, all we do now is argue every single day. I’m taking care of him in all aspects, we don’t have sex anymore and he loves to roam a lot and talk to random people. He’s so combative with me and he’s not as serious as I thought he would be with our relationship, his career and his financial responsibilities . I love him but he smothers me entirely too much and he doesn’t allow me to go anywhere without him. I feel like one of his twins is holding my tail while the other twin leaves and runs wild. We are definitely having some power struggles and major trust issues. He is loving, protective, youthful and spontaneous but he is possessive, angry and jealous all the time. We have a very hard time reading each other. We have a love hate relationship. He wont let me leave!

    • Malik January 14th, 2022

      He’s definitely not letting you leave. You ground him

  9. Calli December 22nd, 2021

    My parents are Gemini man and Scorpio woman and they have had 40 years together so far. They are opposites in many ways but have a deep understanding of each other and a commitment. I am Scorpio woman with a Gemini man too and he is the only human that understands me, we are different in many ways, but cut from the same cloth
    He is my person. I am extremely close to my Gemini father too, and he has also always been a safe space
    All the Gemini men in my life allow me to vent my depth, sometimes tell me to lighten up but never judge me and truely make me feel “seen”

  10. Sophie November 24th, 2021

    I’ve been married to a Gemini man for twenty years now and I am a Scorpio. It’s been challenging, but he is the only human being that understands me, loves me unconditionally, and travels the same spiritual path as I do. My bestfriend, I adore his differences and cherish our similarities.

  11. i-Gemini November 16th, 2021

    I don’t agree much with that article but i had 2 scorpio exs dont know why i was even there i would suggest to find cancer woman or sag woman instead i been happily married to my cancer woman i left my last scorpio for and honestly thats a choice i never regretted i also have a gemini friend who been married to cancer lady for 32 years now

  12. Queen s November 16th, 2021

    Gemini men are the worst for scorpion woman. Stay away ladies, it either a lasting miserable long marriage with ups and downs or it either a temporary failed on and off relationship ✌🏻

    • Kash December 28th, 2021

      I totally agree with you on this. My Gemini is not a good match for me. I can’t deal with the mind games

  13. Mia November 5th, 2021

    I’m a Scorpio Woman and I was married to a Gemini Man. We’re divorced now lol but we’re great friends and he’s a great provider for our daughter. He cheated (online conversations, saving other women’s pictures on his phone.) I couldn’t even tolerate this kind of behavior and emotionally checked out.

    Now, I’m dating another Gemini Man who is extremely romantic and traditional. He vowed he’d never cheat on me. So far the relationship is going really really well. I’m as invested as he is.

    My advice: Be a woman who listens. Be a woman who truly understands him. Gemini Men can’t imagine losing that.

    • Calli December 22nd, 2021

      So true!

  14. Niah Armstrong August 16th, 2021

    Ima Scorpio & Gemini men are disgusting found out yesterday that he cheated me after almost 2 years & I have his kid next month I’ll never get back with him he’s disgusting to me now

  15. Rachell July 25th, 2021

    I read all of this at the start of dating a gemini man. It resonated and I knew it was true. I knew it was going to be a difficult relationship. I knew as a strong Scorpio woman with a big heart that it probably was going to be very bad for me, but I foolishly ignored my gut feelings and all the information here and thought I would prove it wrong. I didn’t. A very short relationship played out exactly as predicted. If this gemini guy had a heart he must’ve kept it in the boot of his car because I never saw a glimpse of it. He pursued me and sweet talk to me with his words, seduced me into bed. Took what he wanted and then left. It was a horrible experience and I will never ever date a gemini man again.

    • Rachell August 23rd, 2021

      I’m sorry this happened to you. It’s happened to me too and you feel completely violated afterwards. I hope you are okay and have yourself a decent guy now X

    • Haylee September 10th, 2021

      You can’t always assume that it won’t work. I’m a Scorpio woman and I’ve been with a Gemini man for three years. It’s been the best relationship I’ve been in my entire life. Yes we have differences but we accept those and move past them. The Gemini man and Scorpio woman can have an amazing relationship if both have the will to make the relationship succeed.

    • Scorpio female March 28th, 2022

      Dated a Gemini guy for five months after he tried to get me to go out with him for one year. I gave him a chance and what does he do, he cheats on me and lied. His lies came so easily. He was very impulsive and made poor decisions. He was never consistent always changing his lifestyle and made me feel like there was no stability .He said he loved me but who cheats on someone they love. Will never date a Gemini they are not reliable, they are cheaters, they are liars, they are not upfront t with their feelings, manipulators, avoid confrontation, and two faced. Just like their signs symbol. For being good communicators they can’t communicate their feelings. Then again I am a scorpio who feels deeply and communicate how I feel and want honesty in return. Which I did not get from him.

  16. Mimi May 13th, 2021

    Holyyyy this is DEAD ON. I’m a Scorpio women but not jealous ever! I really love this relationship, he’s so good to me but you’re right even though he’s twice my age he’s very childlike. We’ll see where things go!

    • Jo June 13th, 2021

      Be careful the Gemini man is a roamer and needs his ego stroked and the only way to do this is to have other women…as a fellow Scorpion woman and of an older age, Gemini men are just not worth the effort, find your soulmate in a Cancer or Pisces 😉😉

      • Niah Armstrong August 16th, 2021

        You are so right the roam & love there egos stroked it’s disgusting they act like kids . & be grown as hell I just found out my Gemini guy cheated on me a month before my baby is due ewwwww

  17. Queen January 29th, 2021

    Wow this relationship seems fascinating but also requires hard work,I prefer an extrovert as I’m N introvert. Since he’s curious sex won’t be boring then. He needs a little depth to his airy nature. He loves his alone time, I also love my space and do not like control. He’s outgoing so he’ll do most of the talking,I’m jealous but working on it after all no one needs to be controlled. He’s fun that compliments my adventurous nature. He’s intelligent perfect match then there’ll be a lot to learn from each other. I feel if this opposite are ready to work things out. They’ll be a great duo

  18. LOH November 19th, 2020

    I am a Scorpion women, middle aged and I was in a on & off again relationship with a Gemini man, middle aged for years. l have no regrets! I loved him very much! We keep in touch but I guess we never had high expectations or goals for our relationship and so it just never evolved into something permanent. I guest it’s was bad timing for us over the years. I will never give up hope. Maybe one day we will seal-the-deal who knows? But our relationship is one I will keep close to my heart forever. He is very special to me and always will be!

  19. Gem November 17th, 2020

    A scorpio woman can be the best thing to happen to a gemini man.
    communication is key even for compatible signs to be honest.
    its the nature of a scorpio to dig deep and the deepest fears and insecurities of a gemini man will be unearthed by the scorpio woman. If you love it scorpio woman you must let her in. She will love you with all ur imperfections and fears and be like a rock but if u cross her those will be used as weapons against you. Gemini man. a scorpio woman has no space for childish games but is a treasur trove of childlike fun, affection humour and innocence. keep communicating, when together a Gem and a scorpio can move mountains and can be a powerful couple

    • Scorpio Woman here April 3rd, 2021

      I love this 💗💕😊

  20. Goddess October 15th, 2020

    Scorpio woman and Gemini man together for 15 years now. His two side personality can be over bearing sometimes. One positive aspect in our relationship is knowing when to give each other some space to breath. It’s so worth it. He is aware that he doesn’t give me the satisfaction in bed and most times apologises about it a lot. Ehhh.. I’m flexible.

  21. Nikki April 19th, 2020

    OMG! You give me so much hope! I am a Scorpio and I am in love with a Gemini man. I don’t know what to do because we are literally perfect for each other. He can’t stay away from me and I him. The worst part is he already started dating a Leo. So I feel like their is no hope. Every time people see us out they think we are a couple…sucks.

    • Grace June 9th, 2020

      Don’t go there, hes just having Great sex with you thats all. A Leo girl will be a better match 4 him, thats why hes with her. The sex wears off years later then all the flaws start showing.. Youll argue black n blue, you cant understand ea others personality. Youll get insanely jealous..not worth it..37years later and trying to leave knowing I’m going to be the one who will suffer.

  22. Ethan December 9th, 2019

    Scorpio are so magnetic and irresistible!
    Here is a free 2020 Forecast for SCORPIO:
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  23. Daisy November 10th, 2019

    I’m a Scorpio woman born Nov 1 my boyfriend is a Gemini and I never had a connection so strong and real. We balance each other out he keeps me calm when I should b cause I can have a temper. He is so fine and goofy and intelligent talented which intrigue me to wanting to know more. We communicate very well and our sex life of amazing this man make my body feel things I never experienced before. I give him his space and I don’t even get jealous I trust him completely. He understands me my flaws moods and all he is very tentative to my emotions and feelings. He always compliments me and do lil things to make me feel special EVERYTHING THIS SCORPIO NEEDS. WE ARE KINDRED SPIRITS. HE IS MY LIFETIME

    • Oyin January 4th, 2020

      Are u guys still together?.. How do u keep things in check… Am also dating a Gemini guy but finding out that both zodiac can’t work.. Am scared..

      • Bonnie February 26th, 2020

        Dons be scared, I am a Scorpio woman and deeply in love with a Gemini man. This article is to the tee of our relationship. I will say overthinking is something that i tend to do, all of the time, but it is all worth it to make it work. The sex is amazing, and because he knows how emotions affect me, he is open to his emotions with me. Ill be honest, I do get nervous when i think (over think) because i could say the wrong thing and let my emotions get the best of me. I say experience it to the fullest, dont let the idea of lack of compatibility scare you off.

    • Rosemary Bauman August 14th, 2021

      I’m November 1 as well
      I think we’re rare gems

  24. Marry January 24th, 2019

    As a scorpio woman dealing with a gimini man my problem is; even he says he has feelings towards me I end up not believing him ( even I try so hard to trust him) because he is very superficial. He is not able to be there for me emotionally when I needed because he is not emotional. And for a scorpio women emotions are everything. And I feel I am the one who needs to do the empathy where he never does that and that makes me tired , even I have feelings for him I’m thinking to end up this because I am so tired for trying to be understood. He doesn’t listen what I’m saying as he always has something to say opposite. So we never have a dialogue where he is in a monologue all the time. And that makes me think that he doesn’t respect me because he doesn’t show any willingness to understand me. Hell and heaven at the same time… well they are gemini, 2 different personalities…

  25. rafael September 2nd, 2018

    I was born on th 6th of June, so that would make me a gemini. my wife was born on november 11, so that would make her a scorpio. i’m 4 years older than her. we’ve been married for 20 years now, and we have 3 kids. We had a really good laugh reading this.

    • Oyin January 4th, 2020

      Finally, something positive!!.. I have been reading both can work.. Pls can u share how u guys balanced with each other

  26. ibrahim May 20th, 2018

    just foll in love with a scorpio womam i love her só much
    im gemini, lucky that we can be compitable

  27. Cedriq April 22nd, 2018

    I’m a Gemini man deeply in love with a Scorpio lady, I can feel the love we have for each other but, we fight like 4 out of days of the week and it really hurts when she is angry with me, sometimes we would go days without talking. How do I steer this relationship safely? I’ve never loved like this before & don’t wanna lose her though sometimes I get the urge to end things.

    • Steve April 27th, 2018

      The only way to navigate your relationship is to come clean with your Scorpio lady. Sit her down, tell her your fears, swallow your pride (time and time again), and HEAR her. She is more rigid in her ways than you are in yours; you are adaptable, so if you want it to work, adapt. You may feel like you are surrendering part of your soul each time, but she isn’t doing it vindictively, unless you really messed up, then she will destroy you.
      If you are on these sites, then you obviously feel there is something to this, maybe sit together and go through some of the descriptions so that both of you can get a better understanding of the other person.
      I’m a Gemini male and i married late in life to a Scorpio female. Just like you, days without talking (swallow your pride, crawl back if you have to), in fact i proposed in the middle of an argument because i believed that the amount of passion we had for each other would get us through anything. It doesn’t; only communication and understanding does that.
      I wish you luck; i still miss my Scorpio, but we let it slip to a level that was irreparable, don’t do the same.

      • April 28th, 2018

        I don’t know Steve i really think it time to call it quites i have started having sex just sex no strings .

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    • Scorpio Queen June 18th, 2019

      Pay special attention to her and we enjoy time spent over all else. We are very compassionate beings don’t confuse it with anger. We need to be heard at times. but a Scorpio woman will love you through this life and the next.

  28. Madison April 3rd, 2018

    I’m a Scorpio woman and my lover is a Gemini male. We get along well most of the time, usually it’s me finding something wrong with him or what he did that starts little fights. My only problem with him is that sometimes he’s too damn lazy and doesn’t put effort into things. His only problem with me is my enormous waves of mood swings and grouchyness. Besides that we go very well together and love each other to the moon and back.

  29. nostalgialeena March 17th, 2018

    i am a scorpio female and i dated a gemini man for a bit over a year he was 11 years older. we drove each other crazy and at times it seemed to be our only rush we just couldn’t find a middle ground it got to the point where one of us had to become the other in order for this to wrok and that was impossible so we had to end it i truly loved him and it tore me apart when we broke up but i come to realize it was for the better

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  31. payl.asatrian November 22nd, 2017

    it seems like I’m in love with a Gemini man.. He’s 12 years older than me and I fuckin’ don’t know how to approach him. He’s stucked in my heart. I’m kind of scared and I feel it’s wrong but at the same time I want him so much…he is so amazing, so humorous, so clever…….
    It’s strange..

  32. GV November 10th, 2017

    I am a Gemini man. I love a Scorpio but my Gemeni traits drove her away. It basically played out as it was written in the narrative. Can I ever get her back ? And destined to be alone?

    • Jerrianne Hemrich February 27th, 2018

      As a Scorpio woman it depends on what damage is done.

      • Scorpio Woman here April 3rd, 2021


    • Scorpio Queen June 18th, 2019

      Show her she’s important, listen to her even if you don’t agree. Us Scorpio women are very compassionate and take relationships very seriously

  33. Monika November 7th, 2017

    Not true at all, I’m a Scorpio woman and his a Gemini and it’s been nothing but amazing between us… we’ve been together for a year and a half and out love always grew stronger and stronger… we had a blast from the moment we met, we obviously had some bump in the relationship but if you talk calmly and explain what u meant he appreciates it and be a very loving caring woman… I love him so much I can’t see my life with out each other… at 33 and his 40 I can assure you we have a strong bond that will last forever.

  34. Cooljazz October 27th, 2017

    Oh Yes
    Not all Gemini men are the same.But a gemini-scorp relationship IS NOT a good match! NOT AT ALL

  35. cornerstoreshawty October 6th, 2017

    I am dating a Gemini man currently, I like him a lot and find that he satisfies me mentally. However, emotionally and physically he’s just not doing it for me. Emotionally, we’ve been talking for a while but i feel like i don’t honestly know him. Its almost as if when i ask him a question he gives me a partial story and not whats really deep down inside. I don’t possibly know what questions I can ask or what topics i should talk about to spark some emotion. I am extremely open, and i hold back a bit too (but thats only because we come from such different environments; im not ashamed of my childhood but i don’t think he will never truly understand me or my families struggles and even then I still talk about my family more than him) With my gemini man, i don’t have a dual personally issue…its more like a mono personality issue. He has the same emotion every second of every day and i don’t know what that emotion is. Sexually, i am unenthused. Im a scorpio, so i am extremely passionate and ready 24/7. Its almost reverse order, i’m the one waiting for his virginity and being patient…Waiting for him to open up; waiting waiting waiting….and at the end of the day i still dont know if he’s going to wake up one day and want to live in another country (he likes new cultural experiences and learning new language). Then i would have done all this waiting for nothing and that is also makes me hold back a little bit. I wish i had the problem of him asking me questions to get into my head, he never asks me questions, NEVER. He says im sweet and thats all he needs to know. I could be a serial killer buttering him up for breakfast and he probably still wouldn’t ask me “are you trying to kill me”?

    Sorry for the long message, but really i have two questions.
    1.) How do you get a Gemini man to unveil his deepest desires to you?
    2.) How do you get him in bed, because i cant wait any longer?

    • Nichole October 7th, 2017

      I’m going to be honest with you. I think you may be wasting your time with this one. I just left my Gemini ex and everything you just said mines did the exact same thing. They are apathetic to the fullest, of course they are charming, but understand that charm is nothing but deceit you will never know him because he is full of secrets. I have female friends that’s Gemini and they are the same way (secretive) and even they said they wouldn’t date a Gemini man and they are a Gemini themselves. Please don’t be like me waiting to see change which happens to be 7 years of wasted time. He’s with someone else right now and she is a scorpio. Oh and I’m still learning more things about him now that we are done with each other.

    • Tadow October 20th, 2017

      are scorpio women promiscuous? high body counts…easy to smash?

      • Felicia Rowe November 15th, 2018

        If they are single they might be promiscuous but they’re faithful in relationships.

    • S October 21st, 2017

      Oh my god, this Gemini guy I’m into is just like that!! We’ve been associating for two months now and he’s secretive, and I feel like I’m giving way more than he is… lately I’ve distanced myself from him, but now he’s like “why are you acting shy, and MIA?” I can’t keep waiting for him! Also found out recently he has a baby. he knows way more about me than I do about him. I keep holding hope that there’s a chance for us, but I’m starting to think he’s just flirtatious and likes playing these games.

      • Nichole October 22nd, 2017

        He’s going to continue being secretive. I went through that with mine. The only time you’ll find anything out is if you find out on your own and If you confront him, he Will give you half of the truth. They are masters at lying by the way. Run for your life!

    • Rae October 31st, 2017

      Hi, there I enjoyed reading your story it’s pretty great to know I’m not going through this alone😟I truly Love my Gemini man as well as my Gemini daughter, but I must admit they are a handful at times but you gotta love them! I don’t know how many times I tell him I’m tired of waiting and its like he doesn’t get it but his charming ways is what get me every time I always question my mind is that enough is it more and he always have one more show.(I like to call it) I just make sure he’s has his man cave and I have my comfortable den and it works a whole lot until he says I don’t talk a lot because he does most of the talking it’s quite funny It’s to the point I’m like (What do you want to talk about)😂 It’s very truly is a blessing to have a Gemini he quite of an amusing soul from another Scorpion 🦂 to another Scorpion patience is the 🔑 and more space,but not to much just enough. Thanks again for sharing your lovely story i appreciated it😍 From another #ScorpioWomen

    • Malik Greaves January 14th, 2022

      Gemini men are Sapio. Learn things and share it with him. Books, food, spirituality. Etc. intellect for the sex. The key to the Gemini man is his mind.

  36. Dora September 26th, 2017

    I have gone out with three Gemini men, and all three were disastrous relationships, this last one was the worst by far. As others have said, there are two people in there – one may be kind, alluring, saying all the right things. Unfortunately, there is the other half too – secretive, evasive, and yes, roaming. The hard part is that you will never know which twin you will get in any given situation. It really is like there is some sort of multiple personality thing going on. Oddly, I have never found problems like this with Gemini women, just the men. Even the Gemini’s I have not been romantically involved with seem to have this duality problem. I wish any Scorpio woman good luck going out with a Gemini man. At first look they seem to be wonderful, but there is always another side.

  37. Lia September 17th, 2017

    My Gemini man has his moon in it, the same as I. Does that mean we’ll be more compatible than this article describes?

  38. Nawamee June 26th, 2017

    I am experiencing a Gemini man and he excites me and his venacular and bluntness intrigues me beyond measure. Our sexual chemistry is astounding and his fominace over me is unearthing. I know where this is going but I am here for a good time and all his shenAnagins for now??

  39. Lina April 3rd, 2017

    Girl if it’s been 20 years and your still not happy leave as fast as you can. How can you have a happy marriage if you are mesirable yourself?

    • Tyrina April 12th, 2017

      This just blew me away!!! Your comment hit the nail on the head for me. I’ve been with him for 20yrs. And we just don’t click and I hate his negative manner!

      • September 8th, 2017

        Wow I’m a 41 yr old scorpio woman my husband is a 60 yr old Gemini and we have been together 10 years and for the last 4 or 5 years we don’t get along and i can’t say nothing to him cuz really I’m the one dumb i smh cuz as long as i been with him he doesnt take me any way every date we had i took him on paid for tried to be romantic and i don’t care if its a movie a resteraunt we always wind up talking shit at each other. I hear everyday about what he paid for what the rent and car note i tired of it . i have been getting what i need some where else he’ll never know until me and my kids get on. I over it sex it fire when i get maybe twice a month then after that I’m masturbating my kids is over his bullshit to he gets at me like i some type weak bitch like he all i can get cuz can’t nobody do what he do. If i have be miserable for you to do what you never the fuck mind

    • Tyrina April 12th, 2017

      This just blew me away!!! Lina! Your comment hit the nail on the head for me. I’ve been with him for 20yrs. And we just don’t click and I hate his negative manner!

  40. Vanessa March 15th, 2017

    Y’all give me no hope I just started a relationship with a Gemini and he seems devoted faithful focused goal oriented and he tells me he loves me everyday and how he wants to give me the life I never had! Now I read this I thought I had some hope until your comments is it really that bad ….

    • Amanda July 7th, 2017

      Don’t be deceived by what people say about a relationship. I am a Scorpion woman who has been married to a Gemini Man and we have been together now for over 12 years. We have a strong relationship even though we have had many struggles and many challenges. Those challenges if you can get through them together will only bring you closer. I love my husband deeply and we have a relationship you don’t see often.

    • Madison April 3rd, 2018

      Don’t worry, every relationship is different! I’ve been with my Gemini guy for 2 years and it’s been great. Of course you will have your fights and whatnot but at the end of the day it’s your love for one another that keeps you going.

  41. Drizzle_romeo731 February 21st, 2017

    Guys I’m pretty upset on your comments… 🙁 I’m a gemini guy loves a Scorpio girl…. Didn’t know b4 falling in love that she was a Scorpio.. she has a craze in horoscope that’s why I searched and now disappointed… I guess I can change things as you mentioned above… I’m 23 my 1st @17 with a Taurus it lasts about 4 years 2nd time with a virgo 30days after tht I stop those *****.. now the 3rd one… v both in love I’m waiting for her proposal… And she too…. Let’s hope things will move smooth after marriage

  42. RoAnne Smokler-Costin February 18th, 2017

    I am a Scorpio woman married to a Gemini man for over 20 years, and I am miserable. He is everything you’ve described and more(except for the roaming part, he is rarely sexually aroused, except for sports, that’s his mistress.) When I initiate, he often says “Go away”. On the rare times he does, I I have to comply, and he has ED, so he makes up things. Ugh!

    I’ve forgot what it’s like to smile. I have been quite ill lately, and still crawl if I had to, to do what was needed for him at home. No appreciation wantsoever. We have ABSOLUTELY nothing in common. It is so frustrating.

    Went to seek help, and therapist threw him out of office in a short time. Imagine if a professional couldn’t take it, what hope is there for me?elp

    Don’t want a divorce. Want common sense help. This is my second long term marrige. I gave the first marriage all I had, as well, and did not take my vows lightly either.

    Any assistance would be greatly appreciated.
    Thank you.

    • Jan Schnabel March 13th, 2017

      Hi RoAnne. You don’t know me…my name is Jan, but I’ve done a great deal of leg work on this subject, so I thought I would weigh in on your behalf. I am a 55 year old woman who married a Taurean right out of high school…too young, bad idea…seven years and two kids later, try though I might, it was over before it started, but I tried to stay together for the kids…almost always a mistake. I then rebounded to a Sagitariun, who also turned out to be an abusive alcoholic, but like you, I take wedding vows very seriously, and I wasn’t going to let this marriage crash and burn too. But when even your kids come to you and say, “have you lost your mind…get away from this guy”…you come to realize that it really is time. From that point on, and even before we were legally divorced, I have fallen for not one, not two, not even five, but six Gemini’s. I never married any of them, but I came very close with the last one. We were engaged for over two years, I have the ring, the dress and the venue…I just don’t have the groom anymore, and this time…I was the one who said “enough.” Honestly…I have no idea what the draw is between us Scorpio women and Gemini men, but I’m telling you…run, don’t walk to the nearest exit. True to form, there are two guys in there…twins or otherwise. One whom we can’t seem to live without, the other we want to suffocate in his sleep. The problem, of course, is that you can’t have just one…and he/they will never change. Their one and only priority is their happiness, not that even they know what that looks like, but trust me when I tell you…it’s not yours, and never will be.

      I could go on and on at nauseam, but what would be the point. I just wanted you to know…I get it, I hear you…run. 🙁

    • Sally March 19th, 2017

      in my experience, most Gemini are attracted to our sense of mystery. You also have to know this sign is an air sign (most aren’t that emotional or forward with their feelings) and this relationship can last id you both know your differences and accept them, he wants something new, out of the ordinary. Instead of telling him to give you attention make him want your attention. If you both fell for each other there must have been a reason, try remembering what made both of you so attracted to each other and work with that information.

      Goodluck, it will be a bumpy but very fun ride…

  43. prinalram June 4th, 2016

    I am Scorpio woman & I love a Gemini man but he seems not to be interested, how can we be together forever? 

    • jlynnschnabel March 13th, 2017

      That would be the million dollar question of the day…the answer I have found is that you can’t. 🙁

    • Sally March 19th, 2017

      try to be mysterious to a point where you aren’t trying. Showing interest in other people might create a spark.

  44. ScorpioMckenzie December 31st, 2015

    Well I’m scorpio woman and I’ve known my Gemini over 7 years and he is very diff. From the usual guys I’ve dated. Yes I can tell a lot goes through his head but from what I know I simply ddon’t force him to tell me. As a scorpio knowing how intense I can be so far he accepts mme I’m worried my sex drive is too much at times so any tips making sure to keep my Gemini happy much appreciated he does take great care of me I’m just not sure if I’m doing the same or too intense

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  48. Scorpioredhead August 8th, 2015

    im a Scorpio gal and I’m with a Gemini twice my age, the sex is amazing And our relationship is even better. I just don’t get how ppl say they’re not faithful and like to play games cause my gem sure doesn’t we been in a serious relationship for seven months but I’ve known him for many years now and I have three kids all which he more than happy took responsibility for even tho they’re not his own!! I think that as long as both parties are happy and love each other then that’s what counts. whats even funnier is in more the secure with him as far as trust goes and he’s the one that gets a little jealous at times and I’m the redhead hot tempered one haha!!! All in all just be faithful and loving and caring and all that fun stuff to one another and the relationship will work!!! 

  49. kjohn March 30th, 2015

    I’m curious; is english not your first language, or are you just a terrible writer? I mean, I know astrology mostly appeals to a very stupid demographic, but dear lord, your writing is so horrible I can’t imagine anyone taking anything you say seriously! Which is possibly a pity; if you do have any knack for astrology, it’s impossible to tell from how poorly you express yourself.   Consider another career, as in this one you come off as a imbecilic scam artist.  It’s really pathetic.

  50. ScorpGrl08 January 4th, 2014

    Scorpios are deep, passionate, value honesty above all else, and are not moved by superficiality. They are brave and courageous, unafraid to plunge into murky depths. Gemini’s are so much the opposite of this. I’ve known and befriended many Geminis, and I don’t think I’ve been as scarred by any other sign than a Gemini. 
    As a scorpio woman, when I love someone, I tend to regard them highly. The higher you are on my priority list, the more important you are to me. I have found that Geminis, if they hold you in high esteem one day, can easily drop you like a hat the next. They see commitment as being “tied down;” their greatest fear is probably to limit their freedom. Gemini’s are “social butterflies,” flitting from one flower to the next, constantly changing in preferences, moods, and interests. They have no qualms about this, either, since this level of disloyalty and superficiality does not seem to perturb their sense of fairness.
    Even when their hearts get broken, they possess this amazing ability to recollect, tossing their emotions to Ying, and move on. I call it amazing, because I think it’s even faster than my regenerative ability as a scorpio. They can be cruel, calculating, and methodical in their manipulation.
    I’ve gotten my heart broken by many Geminis, and I know I’ve unintentionally hurt Geminis as well in my thirst for revenge.
    Currently, I am surrounded by a lot of Gemini men. The magnetism and explosive passion I express from my Scorpio sun combined with the disarming charisma and quiet, non-moving nature of my Taurus ascendent seems to intrigue them. There is one Gemini in particular who has really been grating my nerves. He expresses Gemini’s duality, quick wit, and humor. I am stuck with him on an almost daily basis.
    He plays mind games with me. I’m a scorpio; we’re really good at sniffing out lies, so I can easily see through his manipulation. Being deeply perceptive, observant, and highly aware of our own emotions, I can sometimes know what he’s thinking and feeling intuitively, even though he tries to weave all these delicate words around it. All that does is irritate me. I just don’t call him out on it, because I know it might make him an insecure Gemini. He has other aspects in his chart, I’m sure, that pulls him away from the true nature of his Sun. Nonetheless, he’s very easy for me to read.
    I do not like Geminis at all. That isn’t to say that the tension I feel with them isn’t sexual, though. Their dual nature leaves me at this speechless cross between despising them completely, or seducing them, making passionate, passionate love to their entire being, and then throwing their bare, naked asses onto the cold street, never to speak to them again.
    Sometimes, I think the former option would be a Gemini’s preference. Mine the latter, but most likely neither. LOL.

  51. Youthful December 24th, 2013

    I’m a gemini guy and I have fallen in love a scorpio girl before but, the way you’d describe our relationship is a little bit unique. I don’t have “wandering feet” and I think that is way off key for describing a zodiac sign and cheating has to do with the person not having any relavancy to their zodiac sign. I’ve never cheated once in my life because, I can barely even be flirty with my girlfriend without having to get past the nervousness and yeah, I have “cold feet” whenever starting relationships such as these and besides, I don’t want to be cheated on.
    I don’t know if many geminis cheat but, I know that I don’t.
    Originally, I do very much seem like a gemini with two very much contradicting sides of my colorful and strange personality that can be sometimes youthful and yes; I fell for this attractive, lovely, beautiful and mysteriously cute Scorpio girl but, not at first as you originally might have thought. I didn’t fall for her at first because, love genuinely wasn’t a big thing for me even though some girls and guys that I knew may have hinted to me being somehow likeable or something. So, I befriended the Scorpio chick instead and after two years, I got to know her personally through opening up a bit so we could exchange conversations about the past whenever it was just private time between us and we got to know each other and hang out a lot like when they gang went to the movies or so. Maybe I did want love but, realistically I didn’t bother because I couldn’t even flirt or make any advancements unless I felt okay with the person I liked. She just so happened to be that someone who I grew to comfortable with after she started showing my her Scorpio’s insecure side when we dated. Actually, this Scorpio lady was the one to bring up the topic of dating and I was a bit shocked being the one who had ‘cold feet’ at first cause, I’ll be flirty to my girlfriend sure but, I couldn’t do that unless I opened up and showed that timid side of my personality. And wow it showed as she started getting more specific about dating preferences. I could actually remember seeing an actual blush on her face when she said all of that too. I told her that we could give a try as you know friends dating and it was common thing. Whenever she got jealous, I gladly reminded her of why I liked her and the sexual tension was “exciting” or flusteringly nice if I were to put it in better terms. I got use to not being shy around her and she became okay with telling me about most things. She had a past that I could actually relate too a little. I didn’t show much jealously. When anyone complimented her, I just agreed with them as they were right and I complimented her even more so and if someone hit on her then, I’d walk up and hug like I was the only one able too. One side of my personality usually makes it so I don’t back down from fights and it doesn’t matter how big my enemy is or how insane and threatening they may be and if someone ruined her day, I would go back to bite them for barking at her as I was protective but, not the slightest bit possessive becaus she proved that she loved me by being so possessive on a scale of 5 of out 5. Though that calmed down later because, she knew I was hers already. We fought sometimes but, I would rarely ever try fighting with any girlfriend that I ever had because, that isn’t something I feel like I should be doing with any girlfriend. The relationship lasted two more years after our two year friendship until, she moved a way and we agreed to be  friends and even now we’re still cool so…. all is well that ends well and I don’t regret a single minute of it. I have dated three girls and each of my relationships were long terms.

  52. redfox1234 December 16th, 2013

    I am a scorpio woman, currently with a gemini man, omg where do I begin, It was like love at first sight I tell you, our relationship happend so fast, we started dating right after I hung out with him twice. There is such a magnetic pull between us, its hard to explain. He is my complete opposite, for example, he does not  stop talking, but it works because I am more of a listener. He is quite the charmer, handsome and everything, the thing that bothers me though, is that every girl wants him, and I mean every girl, deep down inside I get so jelous, because I just want him all to my self. I have realized that the only way to make this work is if I stay 100 % confident with my self, Scorpio ladys, make sure to work on your self on all levels, so that you love your self enough to not get jelous. My gemini man is very open and honest about everything, he will talk about hot girls, and tell me when other girls flirt with him, which totally gets on my nerves, but I know he would stay loyal to me, just by the way he looks into my eyes. He does have multiple sides to him, so be aware of this if you are with a gemini. He is very affectionate which I absolutly love !!! , and he is definatly not affraid to show his affection in public, which makes me feel very special. Scorpio women, make sure to give him enough space, gemini men are never really sure of what they want, is you give him his space, he will just want you even more, trust me 😀 .. As far as sex goes, omfg some of the best sex I have ever had, we scorpios love to domminate and possess, he absolutley is into that for sure, he loves passionate aggression durring sex also. I have never been so attracted to someone sexually, its incredible. My gemini man rushed the relationship quite a bit, he told me he loved me a week into our relationship, I thought I was the only one who had feelings for him , so I was relived I wasnt the only one who felt stong feelings towards him right away. I am aware gemini’s love mind games, and he even admitted to me he was very manipulative person, and I can definatly see it which is why I wont let my gaurd down for a while, just be cautious  and dont expect anything that way you wont ever get hurt 🙂

  53. Kerr-Bear October 9th, 2013

    I’m a Scorpio woman, seeing a Gemini man. I think it’s the best match I’ve ever had, to be honest. I’ve tried every sign before him -thinking maybe signs did matter, and it just didn’t work out. Then again, it’s really not about your sign compatibility, it’s how they are in the end that defines if it’ll really work out or not. This man and I have the same goals/dreams in life -raising horses, and cattle, out in the country. Our dreams and goals literally match up, a for a. I think that’s what keeps a relationship strong in the end. That and the will to want to be together, and compromise. Sign or not, you can’t have a fufilling relationship without those three things: similar goals/dreams, the want to be together, and compromise. (:

  54. Sweetcarmel61 May 20th, 2013

    A true Scorpio woman is insecure about nothing. She depends on her gut feeling and its never wrong. We have deep emotions you can swim in. We love a challenge and as long as you are open and true we are down for you like four flat tires. You have a negative and positive side of Scorpio male and female . I am the positive one. It’s always a better day only if you look for it. Life is to short for none sense and game playing. I am dating a Gemini man and we have our differences but we are adults enough to work them out. He’s very loving and caring and he loves to make me happy. I love making him happy. Don’t  stay in a relationship for the wrong reason. If you are not getting anything from it leave because I can’t see being there for sex. 

  55. sharmilameena March 16th, 2013

    I am a Scorpio lady and initially I once praised my Gemini supervisor and told him not to leave the office where I was working, because he was clearly protecting the interests of the employee against a highly sarcastic and satirical Aries/Taurus cusp boss that kept threatening to remove us from the job even in the face of recession. The Gemini misunderstood my comment when I told him that he should remain in the company and that I will stand by his side even if no one can vouch immediately for my opinion as a response to his statement that no one wants him or likes him within the company. He thought I am having romantic interests in him and started flirting with me, though I did not and it took 3 years to get a similar opinion from a colleague. A year and a half later, I left the job, but kept in touch with him via Facebook. He widdled me a lot to join the company he was then working in after some 4 years. I told him I like the job profile and he suggested that I write a test just for the sake of completing the formalities, but when I asked him the address, he asked me to call him up when I reach somewhere near his office and then, he would tell me the easiest way to his company. It is usually impossible to hear on the phone, especially in a crowded city like mine (he is flighty and impractical, I guess, though I appreciated him for his humane nature). He was all excited till I did some research on his company myself and was shocked to know that the company he worked in was located at a place that I disliked – an old mill and that I did not want to come there. I told him that and he immediately lost all enthusiasm he showed earlier. He then tells me that I “must” come and try. Then, he asked me my salary. How could I have been able to tell him my salary is only INR 2000 per month and what if his boss decides to base my salary on that? So, I advised him against considering my current salary, which he did not. Then, he said that I should ask for Rs. 15,000 per month or so (actually the job does not deserve more than Rs. 6000 per month inclusive of travel and also because of the simple nature of the job and the transportation charges apart from which I did not need any more money for spending on things that are useless to me or saving up too much)
    Then, he postponed the interview once by one day and then promised me he would turn up the next day at 2 p.m. The next day, I had trouble finding the exact room number, though I found the address easily as I had been there before. I called him up and he said he is not coming immediately and that his boss would take care of me. He could have at least asked me to come again another day. His boss was quite unenthusiastic and lifeless till a call came from the UK when he started happily shouting, “Hallo mate” over the phone (obviously the client, but he should realize that even if the money is overseas, it is our own people that really work hard and get the money for them) and I had the feeling that he would treat me worse than an ordinary employee considering that I would have joined the job by influence (my supervisor is quite persuasive and I could easily see that his boss had been persuaded the same way I was by him). I have had an experience in the past, where even though I got my job on merit, I was not treated well and they treated me like I got the work based on my gender. I did not want history repeating itself. The boss of my supervisor then marked certain areas of some guidelines to be read against which I was to proofread the graphic and the copy, etc. of the sample catalog. I read only what he said, because in the media industry, you are expected to finish stuff within time to please the clients. After the test, I did not feel satisfied with the performance. The boss then asks me, “Did you read this?” I almost said yes and then I realized that it was supposed to be answered with a “no”. Then, he says that I did not proofread everything. He had actually never specified a time limit and was quite uncommunicative to the extent that he did not let me ask him questions about the test. Then, he runs off to somewhere else. I was all alone attempting the test and I didn’t have anyone to brief me. I felt it was unfair, considering that a human can be trained and made to rectify their mistakes before actually putting them on the job. Finally, I finished the test and left early, but thought that it would be courteous to let him know that I am leaving. So, I call him up and he asks me to meet him at the station. I found him with great difficulty and since he had this unsaid understanding with me, I gave him a regular hug that only tomboys would confidently give their friends. Again, he misinterprets it when I just praised him for the warmth I felt in it. Also, he started asking me about the test and I told him I did not take my own sweet time to finish it, since his clients would react badly to it. He told me that I could have taken my time to finish it instead of leaving it halfway and he kept blaming himself for not briefing me before hand on the salary negotiations and the testing procedure. What was he doing when he could have briefed me on Facebook or on the phone for sometime? It was certainly not his fault, since he has a beautiful child who needed his attention immediately that day and he got held up at home. He said he needed a proof-reader immediately and then, he did exactly what I was afraid of – classify me into a watertight category – maybe a fool – and then he stops responding to me on Facebook. I was wondering why he couldn’t show the same enthusiasm that he did while telling me that he had a vacancy in his company? Then, I got all irritated by his girlish behavior and gave him a lecture on why I thought I was right about not taking my own sweet time for the test. He completely avoids me after that and even removed me from his Facebook profile after my lecture.
    Conclusion: Never think that a Gemini is humane and appreciate him for anything. He might think you are flirting with him and the whole thing might backfire on you. Not only did I find out the hard way that Geminis are flighty, but also learned that they do not keep promises.

  56. samallama January 14th, 2013

    im a scorpio lady and my husband is a gemini. we are a match made in heaven. we click so well.maybe its because im a scorpio sun and my rising is saggitarius and he is a gemini sun with a scorpio rising. we are still in love and flirting after 5 years. 

  57. GemiGemi August 28th, 2012

    Well, After reading the compatability and the comments below… I am a bit afraid on expressing it to my Scorpio counter… But I dont want us to stop here… Will write another comment after few months to let you all know how things are working out with me and her..

  58. Hellokayla1990 August 9th, 2012

    I am a Scorpio woman and I just can’t seem to stop dating Aries men.  However I recently started talking to a Gemini and from what I am learning about them from these compatability charts is that they could not be as bad as an Aries man. My last relationshipoo was with an Aries for 2 years and the fights were so intense, the sex was immaculate, but his childish tantrums and fits of anger were just way too sever for me. He cut me off from my family and friends and expected complete submissiveness on my part as well as criticized me and nothing I did was ever good enough. Near the end of therelationship, he had fully convinced me that I was crazy and it was all my fault that we split up. Honestly, after all that I have been through with my fiery and extremely emotional Aries man, I could use a little air in my life.

  59. Illusionsnomore August 2nd, 2012

    I just wish to say this. I’m, yes, a Scorpio and of course dating an amazing Gemini. I agree with some, yet disagree with facts. What may be true about how the relationship is between a Female Scorpio and Male Gemini is not quite true, first thing is you have to know one thing, what happend in their past life in relationships. How my Gemini is isn’t true. We are both similar, yet opposits and that’s perfect. We can’t expect or partner to be heaven on earth. In my Gemini’s past is quite touching and sad, the same happened to me, so we both understand eachother and don’t want to hurt one another, we have been good friends and yes, I liked him a lot, and he didn’t quite like me in that way. So, he gave me a chance, I was happy, but none for the right reasons, he said he didn’t know why he gave me a chance and I will always be puzzled with it, but for now as time passed we are happy, play around, werre there for each other and further on are having a blast, we have one quality the other doesn’t, I have the creative mind while he has the smart one. Not saying I’m an idiot, but just not good with school wise. Please understand that things aren’t always what it seems on writings as what we read today on how one acts to the other. Hope everyone has a good day, night, afternoon or evening, sayonara. =^.^=

  60. ad62762 July 8th, 2012

    I love these compatibility posts. They are so very accurate as of far. I am a Scorpio woman and I used to date a Gemini man. I was attracted to him because of his playful attutude. He was very popular with others and yes, I admit that sometimes I did jealous. Over time, I found out that he liked me because I was intense, mysterious, a very hopeless romantic, haha. We had many quarrels and fights because he was very independent whereas I, was possessive. There were ups and downs. Things didn’t work out in the end however, but now that I look back, it wasn’t a complete waste of time or effort. I gained much experience in the process.

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  62. Male_Gemini84 April 21st, 2012

    I see I’m not the only Gemini male that loves Scorpio females. Well, from my experience when I dated a Scorpio female it was some of best days of my life! Not only was she beautiful, but posessed such passion for life, our relationship, and just having a good time. Sex with a Scorpio female is like heavan on earth… For the most part, we truly balanced each other out and helped one another through so much together. Those were some good days.
    To all my Scorpio ladies out there I have a question for ya’ll. I recently spotted this beautiful Scorpio female that I have a thing for, and I’m not trying to screw up my 1st true conversation with her, so may somebody give some ideas on how to gain her attention and keep it?
    I’d really appreciate it.

  63. Bonnie_talk2em April 13th, 2012

    Well since we have been to gather its nothing like any comments I have heard not even the horoscope teller. It’s something deeper and more understood. Many of you say that you and other lover, wife or whatever have all these problems and it’s not a good match. We go together like earth and the sun not moon but he sun we need each other.Well thats at least that’s how I feel. Ima be hear for him untill he the world blow up. I’m taking this love roller coaster a day at a time.

  64. Bonnietalk2em April 9th, 2012

    Well im a Scorpio woman and he’s a Gemini we haven’t been togather   That long but I have never felt anything like this. We balance each other out. I think I figured this love thing out. I know we are both different but kinda Ying Yang thing. I try no to be jealous cause I know he’s mine. He’s excellent with the “Charm” OMG he never misses a beat but neither does I. I know my place and what I’m suppose to do as his woman. I see the positive and negitive outcome but I wanna ride this out as long as I can. He makes me feel likequeen and don’t care who sees how much he care about me!

  65. caja January 4th, 2012

    Me Scorpio..He Gemini. We are both age 53 at present. Therefore, we will turn 54 this year. I like the comment I read earlier that the Scorpio woman should be confident, flaunt it and know how to become prey. In addition to my husband being a Gemini, he is also the middle child. Will this need to stray or roam for the Gemini man lessen as he ages?

  66. Gem2madd September 21st, 2011

    @zoe27 I’m willing to bet it’s the need for you to capture him that keeps you wanting more. However, even in the most committed relationship, Gems never totally give in. So fight the good fight but keep in mind…you’ll never completely have us. You will have to decide what’s good enough for you. Sidenote: Gems have more energy than any other sign combined…it just may not be all sexual energy.

  67. NxSan September 12th, 2011

    Scropioblonde, just because you had a bad relationship with a Gemini, you don’t have to go tell everyone that each Gemini will break your heart. I am a Gemini (June 14) and i’d never break a girls heart. I’d do everything and anything for and to her, as long as she is OK with it. I don’t need to be on my toes (although, it will keep me guessing, which i love to do). That doesn’t mean i will cluster her with my love. If you assume all this is fake, then i must be a weird f.cking Gemini.

  68. Diaa July 21st, 2011

    Sooo true ! Im a scropio and my boyfriend is a gemini
    We have a special type of love like no other we may disagree to alot of things but mee being mee im always right lol but he would always let me win 🙂
    I am a jealous type not going to lie but i know how to control it hes very firlty and nice to others (girls) but for the best part out best relationship ive been in so far

  69. zoe27 June 8th, 2011

    Supernova, no need to be insecure. Truth is Geminis don’t posses the loads of energy we do. I am a scorpio woman and he a Gemini man. We argue a lot and we’re engaged. Sometimes I feel this may not work out but at the end of the day I feel a strong attraction to him. Not sure if it’s my passion to posses him or if its love. I tend to do want to conquer men first to figure out if Im in love than when I do I decide if I’m through. Scorpios are terrible but I think Geminis are our match because they are just as bad. In love and war everything counts and in this relationship love is war so be very prepared.

  70. can't tell you ha ha April 10th, 2011

    i’m a gemini man i’ve been with 3 scorpios,their very selfish won’t admit to there sexual craving mistakes, very bitching jealous and abusive but always giving and responsible, in my book very jealous and love to keep space from other woman as if they fear em, i’m not perfect i study and know well of myself and use against others, no doubt about it facts is what i speak on..

  71. Reva April 5th, 2011

    I am a gemini man, married a scorpio woman for 18 years. She is very strong, sarcastic and tries to let me down all the time. I have not sought a divorce due to social status issues. She made my life miserable. I am highly romantic and a bit playful. But she is always serious. We have a kid. I have never seen her hugging our daughter and expressing any mean of love. She is not at all emotional and at the drop of a hat, she would stop talking to me for days together.
    Otherwise she is sincere and dedicated, any time ready for sex. I too believe the a Scorpio woman is never the right choice for a Gemini man.

  72. LovE bUG March 8th, 2011

    i am a Scoripo hun. and i have been dating a Gem for 7 months now. at the start there was a big fight of me not wanting anything to do with him. i dont know why but i just didnt feel it. but later on he still stayed and waited on me to understand that he does care. We have had our problems but we both talked them out. i do have trouble talkin but he has open me to him and i feel he is my best friend and love and could talk about anything and everything . i always have a great time with him and always learn something new about life each day from him. He has great word choice as to cheering me up and callin me “beautiful, princess, and my love”. i would say the relationship will work just always give 110% and talk from the heart how u feel. 🙂 Enjoy.

  73. ranvj February 20th, 2011

    scorpio woman is best match for capricorn man and virgo or cancer

  74. Princessful February 13th, 2011

    I am a scorpio woman and i’m mad for a gemini man and i want it to be a long lasting relationship so how do i do it?

  75. mary February 8th, 2011

    Scorpiocougar, be wary of your gemini, they love the mind games, and scorps don’t understand them and vice versa, he will mess with you to the point where u feel u are losing your mind! I’ve been there, and never before have I felt so broken and used, he went so far as to make me feel like I didn’t know who I was anymore, angry with myself for allowing him to make me so weak. The thing is with gems, they love the chase, once you submit and he knows he’s got you, he will tire and edge away, leaving you confused, exhausted and beat. Be careful, have fun, but don’t expect much from ficle gemini, best of luck 🙂

  76. Scorpiocougar February 6th, 2011

    im a scorpio lady, i recently met a Gem guy 6 years my junior…i cant stop thinking about him, thing is he keeps wanting to play mind games but at the same time wants to be with me, i on the other hand am trying to read his mind, the few times we have seen eachother he has totally denied me sex 🙁 this to me is puzzling, becoz i recently came out of a ROCKY 11 years old Sexual relationashp with a Gem guy, how do i get this guy to like me and crave for me?

  77. diamond January 30th, 2011

    im trynna understand y the zodiac sign sayhs that gemini’s cheat and scorpio’s are{scorpio lady} have been with my man{gemini} for going on 9yrs..he has neva cheated on me nor has he gotton bored of the na na….i blame the women if a man get bored with it..but me on the other hand i have cheated in the past..can the attraction to a gemini man be the reason y i cheated..cuz i can’t begin to say im faithful, and im a scorpio..or can it be that im so into the sex thing a gemini is not the on for me..?

  78. mari January 24th, 2011

    I couldn’t agree more. They promise a happy future but it’s all talk and only exists in the imagination. I made the mistake of falling and trusting a gem that said he loved and wanted to marry a few weeks after meeting.He was cruel and hurtful only when I broke up with him. He never felt because he had been talking to his skanky ex gf and a 19 yr old during his time with me and who knows who else. Flakey, inconsistent, selfish, fickle, superficial, dull, cruel,immature, unemotional, manwhore is what I’d describe it as. Dont fall for the charming handsome exterior its an act.

  79. mary January 17th, 2011

    I am a scorpio gal just been in a whirlwind romance with a gemini male which was over as quick as it began, its true they promise you the world, you let your guard down, then pull your world from under you.. While I’m sure there may be happy couples in this pairing, the persnalities of both tend to more than likely bring out the worst in each other, be wary, carry on protecting that guarded heart, as in this case, you would be right to build up those walls!

  80. MsZ January 16th, 2011

    I am a Scorpio woman and my childhood boyfriend was a Gemini and he broke my heart. From that moment on I didn’t really care for Geminis whether they were male or female. Then one day I met a Gemini man and we became friends. He asked me everyday to be his girlfriend or marry him and I’d always laugh. I was attracted to his personality but there was no other connection for me. One day we went out on a “date” and I had more fun than I expected. After being friends for a while we became intimate but I vowed it wouldn’t go any further than that. We went through moments where I thought he was way too pocessive and it creeped me out but now we are engaged and I can’t wait to spend the rest of our lives together. He treats me like I’ve never been treated before. He is respectful, loving, compassionate, accomadting and attentive, AND he can’t go more than 2hrs without saying he loves me 🙂

    I think if the Scorpio woman can be more tolerant of the Gemini man and keep him “in check” so to speak when it comes to certain things, then he will give her his heart and the world and she will feel like the queen she is.

    Good luck to all the couples out there! Live, love and never forget to laugh.

  81. supernova November 21st, 2010

    Im a Scorpio woman dating a Gemini—all I want to know is–What is this thing with holding back sex by the Gemini? He goes months without it and it makes me insecure!

  82. Yesi87 October 28th, 2010

    I a scorpio woman and I am with a gemini man. At first we argued a lot, but now we realized, mainly him that it is not worth it because the love we have for each other is one of a kind. We are so deeply in love with each other. We trust each other. I am not jealous much, I used to be, but not anymore so I think that is why our relationship works. I never knew someone could love me so much until I met my gemini man. As for him says he never met someone as sweet, kind, faith, loving etc… as me. He really does show me a lot of love and he listens to me and tries to sees things in my point of view so I am sure we will be able to work our differences and truly appreciate each other because we are planning to get married!!! 🙂

  83. scorpio woman October 28th, 2010

    ive never been so hurt, the gemini man is shady and will hurt you, even if you dont expect it.

  84. santu October 12th, 2010

    I am Gemini Man and my woman is Scorpio.We are having relationship for about 3 and half years.And the way we think,act and respond are totally different.But the warmth I receive from her,the trust,the love I get from her has always captivated me.What I found about Scorpio is that they have certain set of beliefs and feelings which they treasure the most,and If the partner can stand by those beliefs and respect those feelings,then relationship will be solid.Further Scorpio wants to take total control.But what I found is that to make my relationship going on,we must understand each other differences,spend more quality time n support each other in every aspect of our life n most of all respect each other individuality.Whatever the zodiac sign be,I believe is that a relationship requires dedication,trust,support,care n loads n loads of love

  85. olivia September 29th, 2010

    me scorpio, he gemini. Attraction from the start. I had to have him got him and because I am a scorpio know how to play the game and become the prey. He is totally devoted and extremely passionate, witty and and I have him wrapped around all of my fingers. he is very attractive to other women, however, he has proven to me that he can be trustworthy, dependable, honest and stable. the lovemaking is insane. i probably do more flirting with others than he does. it has been 4 years and going strong. he wants to commit and i am the hold up, just because. have never had any relationship like this. i guess i found the right one.

  86. scorpiobrunette September 2nd, 2010

    well i completley agree! i am a scorpio who has a best friend who is a gemini, and i *like him but he most definitley cant’t keep up with a scorpios sexual desires and clearly has no problem with that,gemini is not at all possessive and has very little intrest in staying committed,unlike the scorpio..

  87. cboo August 24th, 2010

    I am a scopio woman and dated a gemini man for 5 years and at first it was fun, unpredictable, passionate, and full of life. As soon as I wanted to get serious he changed and brung out my worst characteristics; jealousy, anger, and just not my happy self. He didn’t want to compromise and work together so we end up hating each other until one day it was over.

    However now I’m in love with another gemini and he’s the one he knows me inside and out. I know we have differences but we both compromise and that what’s makes a scopio woman and gemini man a lifetime.

  88. Scorpioblonde August 21st, 2010

    I’ve got to agree with Lula!
    Sure he’s handsome and charming, but seriously Scorpio, take warning and see past the surface!

    Gemini’s are great for a short fling but try very hard not to get attached because they’ll break your heart!
    They’ll promise you the earth then drop you very suddenly when you want to settle and make things serious.

    Hooking up with a Gemini brought out the worst Scorpio traits – jealousy, anger, darkness. There are times I felt like I was going insane.

    Really not worth the very brief pleasure!

  89. lula August 19th, 2010

    Come on Scorpio you deserve much deeper love than messing with unreliable,craving novelty and variety, fickle Gemiz…..they are just too superficial us….been there done that….no thanks!
    Can you tell I’ve been twisted by their full of airs….

  90. Maria August 4th, 2010

    Top secret to other Scorp queens; Just ward off jealous a bit and dont be too critical. It may be hard at first but once you embrace it, no love affair can be sweeter! Try meet his needs first and prioritize them, but show him u cant be a mate on which he steps on either. Dont let go of your firm, assertive and confident attitude, he’ll love you more for that. Show him you trust him blindly, even when something’s fishy and laugh off any suspicious action as a joke and he’ll be faithful. Dont forget to remind him though that they’ll be a price to pay if he ever messes around with other women. Be a bit bitchy, and flount it, Gemz get crazy and they wont roam around if you do that. Compliment him everyday and write him so many love messages and cards and you’ll take him to the moon and back, he’ll NEVER look at any other woman. You’ve trapped him for good.

  91. Maria August 4th, 2010

    Am a Scorp gal in love with Gemini. It works. The chemistry is amazing. I keep his on his toes and he said he’s never met a woman all his life who’s been able to keep him both phisically and emotionally aroused like i do. I love him. He’s crazy about me. He’s talking marriage everyday!

  92. Bee April 29th, 2010

    Oh yeah, we both know each other so well mentally, physically and emotional wise, so why fight it? Oh yeah, LOL, sex is GOOD, LOL, we’re like rabbits, ha ha

  93. Bee April 29th, 2010

    I’ve bin in love with a Gemini for 6 years now…I’m a scorpio lady…our love when it first started, my god, I thought we were just a fling…but it came out to be more than that, we ended up with 2 beautiful daughters out of our time together…wow.
    Yeah, Scorpios do get alittle insecure in some areas in a relationship but they are strong. They’re grounded in their thoughts & beliefs but that doesn’t mean that Scorpios & Gems don’t have fun. We have lots of fun, I know we’ve had a few rough patches here & there but what relationship does not? We’ve learned to grow & learn from each other & he’s my best friend…together or not. I find balance in our relationship cuz when I first met him 6 yrs ago, he was quiet & very responsible in his living than I was, I was crazy & alwayz unpredictable…’s the other way around, after we had 2 kids together, well he turned crazy like I was when I first met him and I was the responsible one…now, it’s like we’re finding balance and we’re almost there cuz he’s my best friend and I know what he wants or needs and he seems to know me so well also…scary but true and honest & sweet all tha same time… 😉

  94. p March 4th, 2010

    I am a Gemini man and just tried to start a love affair with a Scorpio woman. however she is the one who played games in the beginning and made me fall for her. I cant stop thinking about her and yet cannot have her. I have gone my separate way and left her alone so she can figure out if she has lost anything.

  95. DPB November 18th, 2009

    Geminis are very intrigued by scorpio woman at first. This is misleading because after time Gemini realizes that there is so much more out there that he can dip into and get some juices. Not just dip in and get wonder from lack of reactions. Scorpio women by then start being very devoted to their gemini man and then he feels the drag because he is no longer interested. Magickal combination but it requires branching out from the self…and many times scorpio is unable even though he wants to. Scorpio insecurities can mess up the relationship or a lack of interest in the Gemini.

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