Gemini Man and Cancer Woman Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Gemini and Cancer relationships can be challenging due to their differing needs.
  • Gemini and Cancer have a strong intimate relationship mentally and emotionally.
  • Cancer women can attract Gemini men by being warm and happy, and by helping them out of their shell.
Continue reading for our in-depth analysis on Gemini Man and Cancer Woman Love Compatibility and get insights from 136 experience reports shared in the comments. Also take a look at our dating guide tailored for this astrological match. Your thumbs can unveil hidden aspects of your relationship dynamics, check them on our Thumb Compatibility page.

In a relationship of Gemini and Cancer, Gemini always has a lot to learn from Cancer. Though it is usually a nice relationship, but when it comes to love, their needs are very different. The Cancer needs close bonds while Gemini needs air to breathe and space to keep moving.

A Gemini man has an insight that enables him to analyze people quickly. He can read any person and untangle all the knots. He is not one to hold on to the past, his belief is that time is to move on and leave the memories behind. He doesn’t belong to any one place or any one person and continues to feel this separation until he finds that one woman who can hold onto his heart and definitely, the sensitive Cancer woman is one such lady. Gemini man always proves to be an interesting mate with lots to give as well as take in the relationship.

A Cancer woman is alert and intensely aware of human nature. She may appear to be busy in life, but her mind is cautious and measured. She keeps to herself for she doesn’t like to share her inner self with others and feel safer that way. Cancer woman is a woman who is prepared for anything but past is one thing that keeps on haunting her. She is strongly attached to her family ties and is very emotional. In a relationship with Gemini man, Cancer woman is one lady who always admires his intellect and remains on his side to help him with his dreams.

A Cancer woman’s gift is the ability to hold on to her Gemini lover. Cancer woman’s quest, her dream, is to be able to completely satisfy her Gemini man and she always tries and strives toward just that. As their relationship deepens and she gets rid of her fears and undue possessiveness, she allows her Gemini man to roam around easily. With her strong sacrifices and successfully winning her inner battle, the Cancer woman hangs on to the love, and makes their relationship amazing thing even if it isn’t an everlasting one. When the Cancer woman is in love, she pours on the affection and loves to cherish her Gemini man. But she maybe an unsolved mystery for him especially her changing moods frustrate him sometimes. Her nature of holding on to the past is also something that a Gemini man finds irritating and her possessiveness can make him feel trapped time to time.

A Gemini man is a boy at heart and will always be, but still he loves his Cancer woman dearly. Even though Gemini man is clever at solving such mysteries but the deep dark secrets of his sensitive Cancer woman is something that keeps him always around her. In a heated discussion, when the Cancer woman refuses to talk, he always takes the first step and fixes the problems in their relationship. With his intellect and humbleness, he helps her to open up and become free from her fears. Gemini man is unsure of what he actually wants and this is one thing that makes Cancer woman very confused. Moreover he doesn’t show strong attachment which makes her feel insecure at time because together with this he is very outgoing and she lacks his presence.

With the close association of Cancer woman and Gemini man, each new place they both discover hand in hand becomes a garden filled with the fragrant flowers of traditions. Their sunrises and sunsets are more beautiful and lovingly mysterious for them to follow on. With the shadows of love from Cancer woman, Gemini man learns to hold and observe the prettier clouds and the moon peeping out of them, helping him to discover the hidden secrets of his lady love and Cancer woman learns to cheerfully spin and dive in the fascinating world of her Gemini man. Their souls rejoice their togetherness with the songs from heavens and blessings from angels exclusively for their happiness. The great universe and glittering galaxies lay graciously waiting for them to make a warm and welcoming oneness lasting forever with the coolest breezes soothing their lives.

When the Air of Gemini man and Water of Cancer woman mix, sexually, they form an aromatic cool breeze that keeps growing with growing nearness. The Gemini man and the Cancer woman have a strong intimate relationship in the mind and at emotional level over a physical relationship. She is tender, affectionate and highly imaginative while he is sexually sensitive and delicate with his touch. Together they form a sexual bond that works between them. The Cancer woman needs to know that Gemini man needs her. Since he isn’t really the embraceable type, this could hinder the relationship causing her to crave such a touch even more. The physical sense of the relationship would come in quite handy here. The greatest sexual recourse between the two is shared when Cancer woman steps up and reaches in toward her Gemini man, pulling him out of his dream land and into her. This could be the biggest and most rewarding fulfillment of all.

The relationship of Gemini man and Cancer woman is usually a puzzling one with many ups and downs and also with many good moments to cherish forever. Cancer woman should make it very clear that her Gemini man has an adventurous spirit. Let him use it and in fact help her out of her shell. While Gemini man can benefit her to enhance her emotional spectrum by showing her how to be happy and satisfied. This relationship can work if both are aware of their differences, and are willing to work them out. If Cancer woman can make Gemini man’s temporary stop a warm and happy one, it just may be the formula he needs to stick around and if the Gemini man can make her more assured and relaxed, he can get the secret key to her heart.

Gemini Man and Cancer Woman Love Compatibility Rating

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Relationship feedback is based on the evaluation of experience reports and self-assessments submitted in the comments.
  1. Becky June 8th, 2023

    7/17 Cancer woman and 6/5 Gemini man.

    I met a Gemini when I was younger that I had very intense feelings for. That was a few decades ago.

    However, 2 years ago, on 6/24, I met my Gemini Man. We were instantly connected and really miss each other when we are apart, even when at work. However, we are also old enough to know that individuality, self-development and personal goals/hobbies are very important in relationships.

    However, I have never met a man where I connected with him – on every level. Emotional, Physical, Spiritual, common backgrounds and same generation as he’s 2 years older. We even have very close political beliefs and we don’t argue too much when we have different beliefs. We listen to and respect the other.

    Seriously, for the first time in my life, I am truly in love. I also believe he is as well.

  2. Andy May 23rd, 2023

    Me and my Gemini man are so happy together ❤️ Just been dating for a year now, going strong 💪 😊

  3. Kierra March 21st, 2023

    Cancer here net ny Gemini king Jan 1st 23 and now we’re dating been going on a few month I love it here ☺️☺️🥰

  4. Ken February 8th, 2023

    I’m a gemini and I have met my cancer women for a few days ago on social media and when we met face to face we were emotionally connected at once. We feel something for each other.

    • Lj March 19th, 2023

      Ken,. Very strange I am a Cancer woman, I met my Gemini man on March 7th/23 At first I thought it was the same day as you. Anyhow we were connected from the first time we spoke on the phone, (met on match.)at that moment I didn’t care if he was the person in the pictures or not! When we met in person we were bonded instantly!

  5. SMB January 20th, 2023

    Cancer here, I met my Gemini in highschool in 1997 we’ve be inseparable ever since. Married for 20 years.

  6. Lynn August 23rd, 2022

    How interesting, I’m on this page because I’m a cancer woman 7/19 and I just met a man 5/28 so I was searching for answers.

  7. Heather Fisher June 6th, 2022

    I am a cancer woman 7/20 who has been in a relationship with a Gemini man 5/29 for the last six years and has been the most healthiest relationship I have ever been in. He was my high school sweetheart and we reconnected 6 years ago. He is my soul mate.

  8. Jan April 12th, 2022

    It looks like i dreamed a dream which wasn’t of my right to dream it. I am the last person who he would ever think to be with , but i wished i would just wake up earlier and realize it.

  9. Shi81Lover March 21st, 2022

    I’m a Cancer female 7/19 freshly dating a Gemini male 6/13. I Initially approached him thru a mutual friend. But he’s the most affectionate person I’ve ever been with. I feel different with him. I don’t want to come off to strong so I’m following his lead. Front the start he’s shown nothing my Love & Affection something I’ve been wanting for a really long time. I just pray it’s real & it last because I’m so afraid of being hurt again.

  10. Rainey23 March 2nd, 2022

    I’m currently dating a Gemini man, I’m a Cancer woman. His birthday is 6/17 and mine is 6/23. We haven’t known each other long but the chemistry and sexual connection are off the charts. He’s about 15 years older than me, but he’s definitely a lot more playful and outgoing than I am. We’ve both already stated that we want to make it work and we want to be together for the long haul, as we’ve both been divorced once before. He travels a lot for work, so I struggle with how to keep the fire alive and make sure to keep him happy and interested. We’ve already have one blow out and I’m afraid to lose him if we have any other. Any suggestions would be kindly appreciated.

    • Omg... March 8th, 2022

      I got my best gmeini man in world. kindly please mention your and his birth year + birth time:)

    • jason April 21st, 2022

      I am a Gemini man. So, let me suggest that you do the following: Tell him when he’s away that you love him and that, before you go to sleep, you want him to tuck you in. He should feel flattered by that, and you will talk each night. Make sure you set aside a time, and be flexible with that time. Even if he says that tonight he won’t have the time, just make sure that you communicate, via video, for even five minutes. This is what my Aires love did to me years ago, and we are as madly in love today like teenagers because she held on to my heart that way and showed me how to hold onto hers.

  11. Zodiac November 17th, 2021

    Just made a quick counting due to a comment on here…. Gemini man-Cancer woman was top rated 1# of most positive comments in Ask Oracle site . Following it Libra Man-Taurus woman in 2# in best positive comments in the site. While Aries man- pisces woman / scorpio man- pisces woman gave a close counting in positive comments and came as 3# most positive comments in Ask Oracle. least positive comments was Pisces man- Scorpio woman 1# in the least and considered the worst. Following them Leo man- scorpio woman as #2 least positive comments. Then comes virgo man- Gemini woman as 3# of the worst comments 😂

  12. Zodiac November 17th, 2021

    Just made a quick counting due to a comment on here…. Gemini man-Cancer woman was top rated 1# of most positive comments knack Oracle site . Following it Libra Man-Taurus woman in 2# in best positive comments in the site. While Aries man- pisces woman / scorpio man- pisces woman gave a close counting in positive comments and came as 3# most polite comments in Ask Oracle. least positive comments was Pisces man- Scorpio woman 1# in the least and considered the worst. Following them Leo man- scorpio woman as #2 least positive comments. Then comes virgo man- Gemini woman as 3# of the worst comments. 😂

  13. Zack November 17th, 2021

    Gemini guy here born in june i am gemini and i think they should put this article top#1. I found my real soulmate and me and her read that article today about us we laughed and kissed. it was first time i have dated a cancer woman i didnt know she was a cancer because usually i wasn’t caring about the zodiac stuffs. Everything between us is Blessed and wonderful we complete each others she is my heart i am the mind we talk daily i dream about her a lot our sexual life is over amazing too and i want her to be the mother of my children in future she taught me a lot of things and helped me to get rid of my anxiety he was my protector and she is the lady i got truly romantically involved with she got emotional and i feel she helped me being fully matured with.

    Despite the age difference that i am older than her with 21 years but she is most wonderful person i met after my mother and i think geminis do have love for cancers in the road because i had my cancer best friend too also my other friend she is cancer and married to a gemini guy. That cancer lady i am with she is absolutely my other half and my dream world even my family love her she fill a gap in my heart that other older women from other signs and i even used to prefer women who they are older than me but no one could fill my heart like my cancerian and i was worried at the start because of our age difference 21 years old while i am in 40s she is 20s but she comforted me and she didnt actually care which i find it blessing.

    i love her to the moon and back and She spends most time with me she also changed me and other things i have now a comforting home i know i became less hard working because i want to sit with her more but my experience with her taught me not everything is just about money- friendship- and mind but she also let me know the heart is important place and that’s exactly where she is 💙

  14. Gaelle November 16th, 2021

    I am a cancer woman, 2nd decan, i know that my relationship with gemini- aries- leo- (all air and fire sign is) is very good relationship. My relationship unfortunately with earth or water signs is not good, i am born 8th july. I met a gemini man 8 years ago, but at that time i want interested in him, or to describe it better he is very rich and famous but i wasn’t still attracted to him maybe cuz he was mostly busy, almost a year now since we met again, and all i can is this is the most relationship i have in my life and hope to keep it, geminis are amazing and very worthy, and with cancer woman its wonderful! No one can understand gemini men like us cancers, do you know why? Because gimin inside of them they always remain like a children, a beautiful young child, while is cancers are the mothers of the zodiac, we understand them and they in beautifl bond and need to us ❤❤❤ my gemini been hasbro forgotten me since 8 years ago, even when i didnt notice him back then but he kept me inside his heart till we met again, we met again by that i am a nurse at hospital and almost one year we had a patient i knew who he is so i went to be caring him my self thats why he smiled once he rememered me , we laughed a lot and he hopes me get out of my shell and bad moods,
    he understand me well because we both are changable but honesty i am more sensitive than him which makes him worry if he ever hurts me, he keeps talk with me daily our emotional communcation is over the wonderful! 😍 now we are engaged and soon to get married, he is the most kinddest man i met and its first time i date a gemini, he is born in 13th june, words despite its s a lot i still cant describe my love life, everything is very perfect, he said i taught him how to commit and to be responsible when he needed it,i tol him he taught me how to be flexible and smiling most time 🥰 i am really gratfeul i met him! Even my male cancer friends married to gemini ladies are having beautiful bond and long marriage today, my cousin is also cancer with her gemini husband they been tighter for over 29 years ❤❤❤❤ now me and him he been crushing on me kept me in his heart for 9 years, but that last year its very deep love , i won change my gemini for anyone. B.S i also had a wonderful relationship with an aries but he sadly was gone, now i am praying for forever with my gemini 💙🖤💜

    • Anonymous November 17th, 2021

      Im a June 13 baby as well. Recently met a cancer woman. I’m taking things slow at the moment because I don’t want to bother her “shell” but thus far I’ve gained her trust and she’s said she feels comfortable around me. Any suggestions as to what I should do/say if I want her to know that I deeply care and love her so dearly. She’s brought me so much comfort and stability in such a short time being and i absolutely appreciate her so much

      • Gaelle‬‏ November 17th, 2021

        Haha 13th june baby i think you are one of most amazing signs! These geminis btw 10th june and 20th june are 3rd decan, aka gemini infected by aquarius, they are the most young, sweet but also most childish gemini and fun of all! I hope your cancer lady is 2nd decan like me too infected things will be amazing btw u both. i am happy that she giving you secure and comfort, thats true and its what my man said to me too, your relationship with her will be amazing but the more you get her to smile and teach her to laugh and to be happy taking things simple the the more she will open up and adore you! Remember we are the mothers of the zodiac we adore kids and somehow childish men too but not too far childish that woul cause a troubles lol ^^ be aware to make her smile and let her lead , geminis dont mind to be followers in relationship and they have flixibilty and beautiful sense of humour! If you need more infos about that for you and your lady please let me know, we can contact via email
        too for help!

  15. Motodancer September 21st, 2021

    I am a Gemini Man! My plan is to make some slow deliberate love to my Cancer Queen! I am going to treat her with love , respect and admiration! Panties will introduced to the floor for sure!

  16. Jalissa Tartt August 1st, 2021

    I’m a cancer woman , my daughters father is a Gemini and we are bond but not in a relationship ibut this is so on point

  17. Bri bri July 21st, 2021

    This is just so spot on. I am a cancer woman partnered to a Gemini man. Above it mentioned the part where I tend to be quiet when i’m feeling cross and that’s when my Gemini man try to make me speak my mind so we can reach an understanding.
    Understanding is the key to this relationship and once you have that, you’ll be like YinYang. Complete 🙂

  18. hadas June 21st, 2021

    i am a cancer lady and my boyfriend is a gemini but am scared of losing him cux i dont know if he can copy with a long distance relationship

    • Tessa George July 18th, 2021

      Hey! I am a cancer women dating a Gemini man, and we have been long distance for two years now! And when I mean long I mean long! We are about an 8 hour drive away from each other. We make it work because our communication is great and we always make time for each-other when we can. Long distance is all about the communication. And every time we see each other we are overflowed with love and gratefulness for the time we do get to spend together. I wanted to write this to give you hope that it can and will work! As long as your willing to communicate effectively and make time to see each other when it’s possible!

  19. KD December 23rd, 2020

    I am a Gemini guy and the girl I love is Cancer very much Happy to read this and also she’s my childhood friend,,,,,,

    • Dana Mainzer December 23rd, 2020

      Forever and always…

  20. ruisha October 18th, 2020

    I’m happy to see comments that view this relationship between two very different signs in a positive way! I do think that the article should point out that the writing is based on the general sunsigns, though. Other placements in our natal chart definitely affect how successful a relationship could be. For those who do consider astrology when looking into a partnership, I suggest that you see your entire natal charts to see how compatible you are.

    If you have inner planets in air signs, especially Gemini and Libra, you’ll most likely get along with your Gemini sweetheart!

    I myself have Gemini in Mercury and Venus, while my Sun and Moon is in Cancer! 🙂 My Gemini ex and I had loads of fun. Dating was lighthearted and never suffocating. He always made me laugh when I got into one of my classic Cancerian moods, while I got to talk him back down to earth whenever his lightning-fast brain makes him overthink. It was so easy and literally felt like I was floating on air (because Air sign…get it?) We were together for a year before I broke it off to pursue my life goals. I am now engaged to a Leo man. He has a Taurus Moon, so he just snatched me up right away! Hahaha! I don’t regret being with my ex, though. I also have many friends who are Geminis. Never a single dull moment when with a Gemini!

    • MoonMaiden October 22nd, 2020

      Gemini’s are awesome! Mercurian beings (Gemini & Virgo) in general lol =)

      I too am a Cancer sun, Virgo rising and my moon is in Taurus. But my venus, mercury and midheaven are in Gemini. It appears I have a Gemini stellium (I was told)

      I can’t be with someone who has an earth or water venus or mercury, I know this because my ex was one. We couldn’t communicate. His dominant sign was Scorpio, mine was Sagittarius (Gemini after that) he has a Scorpio moon but Libra rising, he too was a Cancer sun.

      I had to broke up with him zero communication, always wants to stuff with food and sit on the couch. Too possessive and dominating. I was always easy going and understanding. I chose me and always will. I know I’m good and I will find someone who will want to accept as I am.

  21. Indigo September 20th, 2020

    Love love love my Gemini guy. We get along so well. Yes he changes his mind a lot which is annoying at times but I get him. It’s been 3 years but it still feels like it’s brand new. He is so gentle, sweet, giving and considerate. We talk for hours about everything. He makes me laugh. I am super energetic, very independent and love taking care of myself. He dazzles in my presence. I spoil and love on him nonstop stop. Sex is fantastic. Im very passionate but can also be naughty and he loves it! When I read that Gemini men and cancer women don’t work I cringe because I don’t understand. I guess it depends on the couple. Btw he was with an Aquarius and I was with a Pisces which are suppose to be our ideal mates. Well as they say…you can’t believe everything you read.

    • Alyssa September 22nd, 2020

      Wow, that’s amazing! My crush/friend is a gemini and I let him be him so that he won’t feel tied down. We can talk about anything and we make each other happy. I understand that we are both different but as long as we communicate and enjoy spending time together, it works out. He was with an Aquarius when I was with a pisces too!

    • Paulette November 12th, 2021

      Thanks because I was about to run for the hills. My first time dating a Gemini.

  22. Mary September 9th, 2020

    I have been with a Gemini man for 28 years now we have had our ups and downs but we work through them and I have always have let him be him our bond and our relationship is very very close and our love is strong I am a cancer woman and one thing I am not and that is clingy and we have always live together my birthday is july 1st. and his is June 20th

    • Sehrish riaz October 9th, 2020

      Gemini man & cancer women marriage is possible?????????

  23. Anamika July 14th, 2020

    I strongly recommend to the cancer girl,never marry a Gemini boy life long you will get hurted and lots of sorrow also you will feel regret on your decision of marrying the Gemini boy…….. be carefull while choosing your better half.

    • Oliver July 14th, 2020

      Be careful judging people based on their signs. That’s not taking responsibility. That’s called giving in to irrational fears.

    • Paulette November 12th, 2021


  24. Aliyah May 18th, 2020

    I’m a cancer woman(June 30th) and I have been dating a Gemini man close to a year now and I must say its the best relationship I have ever had in my 27years. He is everything I have ever wanted.. Its like someone was watching when I wrote a list of everything I wanted and sent me this guy… I have dated almost every sign and this relationship is my dream come true… I dated a Gemini man before when I was younger and that was fun but we had so many issues and we broke up so I stayed away from Gemini men and the internet does not help either… What I’m trying to say is if u wanna date a Gemini man, go ahead, just make sure he is madly in love with you tho cos if he is, you are about to experience a relationship u never thought could exist. If he does not love u that much or he is still contemplating, u in for a rough ride… Good luck!

    • Carmen Canari May 27th, 2020

      Ohh thank you for the advice 😉

    • Danniella July 7th, 2020

      This is reassuring to hear! My birthday is also June 30th and I just started speaking to a Gemini man. I was worried about our signs being next to one another and I also have a lot of Gemini in my birth chart. My ex was a Taurus and our signs are supposed to be one of the most compatible in the Zodiac. I thought we were in a lot of ways, but there were ultimately some fatal differences. The end of the relationship saw it completely unrepairable. It’s been 6 months since the end and I feel a super strong connection to this new guy, something I didn’t think I would feel this early on. I’m hoping my story ends up like yours 🙏🏾 all the best! 🌟

    • Daisy rose August 18th, 2020

      This comment is to Aliyah wow same birthdate as mine June 30, I had to comment! My gemini boyfriend was exactly the way you described…at the beginning. But i began to realize his love his selfish love. It’s been 9 years, I am not happy and want to leave. Just wondering if you have seen both sides of the twins yet Lol.

  25. Ria March 4th, 2020

    Gemini Man and Cancer Woman … Are we a good match?
    We been together 5 Months and we never met in person b’cuz we live from different state but our connection is super strong… we Both have plan to meet in person. Can anyone guess If our relationship is for long term. how we get along… ? Whoever is the closest gets the points!

    Sun – Cancer
    Moon – Libra
    Rising – Sagittarius

    Sun – Gemini
    Moon – Aries
    Rising – Leo

  26. Medina January 28th, 2020

    I Am in the exact same boat with my Gemini Man. I am a female cancer born on the 7th of July. this year in June makes 3 years that I have been with my boyfriend. I am so confused and puzzled actually. he is always on social media liking and reacting to photos. I have even caught him having flirty conversations with women and commenting on photos in the past. When I bring up that fact that I don’t like it, and I am not comfortable he tells me he is grown and he feels he can like what he wants to.. He stops, to then go back and do it again.. we fight a lot and he gets disrespectful with his words. I need help as well figuring this one out. I feel like I am in a toxic relationship. I love him but I don’t feel happy anymore. He seems to be very insecure with what I wear and what I do. He wont tell me not to do something but he will make nasty comments or say things like you look stupid instead of saying “dam babe you look good, where you going? I don’t get support at all from him. yes I can be moody, and I can drag things, but im telling you its not just me… has anyone experienced this with a Gemini man before?

    • amy February 23rd, 2020

      yes!!! get rid of him fast! he will drag you down and make you crazy! I just started seeing a gemini man and Im starting to see similar things from him on facebook which led me to look up our astrology and then I saw your comment! Cancer women cant deal with this kind of behavior!! When he is insulting you but flirting with other women online then its time to go, he has no basic respect for you! If he thinks he is grown and can do what he wants then fine, tell him to go do it and be single!

    • MoonMaiden October 22nd, 2020

      Take it lightly, you shouldn’t take it to heart. Unless you caught him in actual cheating then it’s time to dump his ass.

      You could just make him jealous, he will be flighty. Gemini can be possessive if they are truly in love and become jealous.

      Gemini is the child and Cancer is the parent, you can’t expect a child to behave like a grown up. They are learners and some need to learn the hard way. Give him a taste of his own medicine.

  27. Sarah July 14th, 2019

    I am having an affair with a Gemini guy. I have never had anyone pursue me like this. We met at work. At the time I was going through a very stressful period. I loss someone close to me and was in the process of quitting my job. He started asking me out to lunch and honestly I welcomed the company. We would talk about life, my job and both our relationships. I am married and he and his girlfriend had been together for a few years at that point. He shared that he was going to pop the question soon and I would be very encouraging and listen. Anyways we started going out to lunch more and more talking . During work we would be engaged in texts even though our offices were steps away. He was so funny that I would be laughing at my desk and I’m sure ppl thought I was crazy. Anyway after I gave my notice, he encouraged me to take longer lunches and call in sick which I was very hesitant to do even though the job treated me like crap. A few weeks before my departure I got a text from him while sitting at my desk. It was a very blunt text that I am sure I was blushing. I don’t think I ever had anyone be that direct to the point that I read it over and over bc I thought I was being duped. I’m paraphrasing but he said he wanted to fuck me and that he wanted this P. He said I was so beautiful and sweet and that had never met anyone like me. He had been wanting to fuck me every since he laid eyes on me. He admired my classiness and conversations . He asked if I would be willing to get a hotel room. After some back and forth and days of me saying I could not go through with it I reluctantly said agreed. Well he booked everything instantly give me info and all I needed to do was show up. However at the last minute my nerves got the best of me and I changed my mind and sent my apologies. He was super understanding and convinced me not to let the room go to waste which I realize now was some player move but did agreed. Needless to say we fucked hardcore. 2.5 years later, lots of starts and stops with him ghosting me and me getting angry and hurt then changing my number, blocking him, we are still at it. He is relentless and always has a super apology that is like no other. Now he married with kids. I know nothing good can come of this but don’t know what to do with him or myself for that matter. I have fallen in love with him and know that he has with me too. Sex is a lot more intense now and honestly has gotten better. He brings me out of my shell and I unleash crazy passion. When I’m hurt and don’t wanna talk he won’t let up until I give in. One time I asked for time and he gave me 24 hours. Next thing I know he was back with dinner reservations. texts and PCs. He plans stuff for us and like a true Gemini will texts me all day and we get into heated and fascinating conversations. He is super charming. Intelligent and funny as shit. I have a goofy side which makes him pee in his pants. Although I have my own life and I love my life this situation is overwhelming., confusing and hurtful. He is very committed to his obligations at home. This is a mess and I beat myself up for allowing this to go on so long. Cancer girls beware…they got us figured out. At least this girl!

    • Dana August 11th, 2019

      OMG, it’s like we are with the same Gemini living the same story only he is the married one and I am single waiting for him to leave his wife.

      I’ve honestly have never been so deeply in love and connected with another man. He and I are bonded yet he doesn’t want to destroy his family with a divorce. It’s a horrible situation to be in. I know that being with a married man is wrong. His wife knows about me and yet stays with him so I have continued to allow him to see me several times a week and some weekends away. This has been going on for about a year now.

      The truth is I want to move on, find someone else. But he keeps me close and won’t let me go. I really enjoy his company. He’s my best friend and we are truly in love with each other. And that’s never going to change no matter who we are with.

    • Louise April 30th, 2020

      Hi Sarah,

      I’m in a similar situation to you with your Gemini guy. Only we are just starting out.
      I’d really love to chat to you privately to see if you could give me a heads up on what to expect. No pressure! Just let me know if you are ok to chat

  28. ExecAsisst May 1st, 2019

    Young Cancerian woman ended up dating her Gemini boss. I was in my early 20’s, graduated from college and I had a rough time finding a job. I applied to become an executive assistant for an airline CEO. He’s young, under 30, tall (>6″), attractive, very wealthy, smart, witty BUT he’s a player and has a beer belly. I know this sounds like romcom and unreal. Trust me, I was living it!

    Being an assistant, I knew he was a generous and caring person. Sometimes he would tip me 300 dollars just to pick up him and his friends after crazy night outings in West Hollywood. While he enjoys being in a relationship, he also likes to f**k around as well. Which foreshadowed the demise of our relationship down the road. 4 months in working for him, and after his recent breakup with another girl, we spent 6 hours bantering back and forth at his bar, drinking Jack and coke, and shit-chatting about life. It was getting late, and he asked me to spend the night. I was pretty drunk and I couldn’t drive home. We spent the night in bed making out and teasing each other. Although I REALLY want to sleep with him, I couldn’t give him what he wanted; he’s been with so many girls and I knew if I let him have it, I would be another girl. We didn’t have sex until 1 month into dating when I knew he was falling for me. It was amazing and intense. Despite his lack of size (down there), he still managed to deliver an intense orgasm!

    Right after, our relationship started to deteriorate. He got what he wanted from me despite his strong feelings for me. I knew he started talking to other women. We would argue a lot, nothing serious; small banters here and there. He would call me out on my insecure comments made about myself and how much he disliked listening to me put myself down. I knew it annoyed him. His specialty is in SMOOTH-TALKING. He would tell you what you want to hear, which made it difficult to differentiate whether he is being genuine or being a f**kboy. I noticed he became more distant and less engaging via text. This confirmed my suspicion when he left me at his condo alone. I knew his password on his laptop, and sometimes I would sift through his emails and FACEBOOK. I’m aware you SHOULD NEVER invade someone’s privacy. I knew this would upset him but my curiosity got the best of me. I found multiple women chatting him up and asking him when they will fuck again. I cried. I knew this was too good to be true. Why would a young successful man settle down with a nobody?

    I unexpectantly quit my job and distance myself from him. He couldn’t figure out why but he didn’t seem to care. I ran into him a couple of times at the nightclub, he would always make me the center of his attention. Putting me first before any girl that comes his way. He would always tell me he misses me and wondered what went wrong. I shrugged it off. Today, we’re good friends who flirt on occasion. He always the first to like my Instagram post and always the first guy to offer to buy my all my friends drink. Despite all that, I refuse to get back with him. I care about him a great deal, and I will always have feelings for him, but this as far as our relationship will go. Sometimes you have let things go, you can’t change a person, sometimes this who they are even if they have no bad intent. I went on meeting the love of my life 1 year later. So do not feel discouraged ladies!

  29. DOLLY April 8th, 2019

    I have known my Gemini mate since middle school. He is 49 and I am 48. We reconnected about three years ago. This is the greatest relationship I have ever been in. It was a rocky start as I wanted to dive Right in and he was more on cruise control. But once we fell in sync… WOW!!! He always makes me feel BEAUTIFUL AND SPECIAL. I can be stubborn…at times …but he is such a charmer that I eventually cave in. My Gemini man can also be hilarious.. which I find truly endearing. He can adapt to any situation. He can be extremely social or a hermit like me. I can do the social thing but I keep him in my sights. By no means because I am jealous.. I just feel more comfortable and at peace with him near me. I think it took 30 years of us receiving hard knocks before we could cross paths again. I believe that we are where and with whom we were supposed to be with because now we can actually appreciate and tresure what we have.

  30. John April 6th, 2019

    Try using a period occasionally.

  31. Debbie June 29th, 2018

    I’m a cancer female starting a new relationship with a gemini male he scares me to death obviously but I can’t help myself he is so exciting but I’m 48 and he’s 51 and I’m hoping I’m finally mature enough to handle his ways usually I need constant confirmation but I realize that’s not fair to any sign so I’m stepping up and putting my insecurities to the side wish us luck

    • desmond September 15th, 2018

      My girl to be is also so scared of me where sometimes it leads to negative vibes in me and makes me worried about how will she face the world holding my hand, does she really hav got what it takes to stand by me… I request u to please open up to ur guy n trust him so that he can pull u out of ur box n show his world to u…
      By the way I’m Gemini n she’s cancer, all the best for what so ever comes in ur life GOOD LUCK!!!

      • Nadean Waite February 17th, 2019

        Thank u I have been talking to a Gemini for a few years and I have never let him in properly i run away from him he scaresthe hell.out of me but u admire his spirit well I’m finally going to take the plunge with him let him in wish me luck lol

  32. Kye February 25th, 2018

    Reading everyones comments made me really happy, especially the cancers who are married to their geminis. i am a cancer female and am dating a gemini male.. i am very into zodiac signs and was aware we werent that compatiable. but wr clicked the moment we started talking, like we’ve been friends for a long time. he is a piece of work.. but so am i. and coming from 2 different backgrounds is hard too, i am black, white and native american and hes asian. but something about him is something i have never felt or experienced with any of my exes. these comments really gave me more hope of this relationship really working out.

  33. Sadie February 17th, 2018

    For some reason I find myself always having Gemini friends, but recently I met a Male Gemini I’m a cancer Female with a moon in Aquarius and i think i always end up around them and get along well with them because of my Aquarius side but man let me tell you it’s not an easy plane to ride but the journey to meet them is so worth it I would’ve never knew I would ever want to date Gemini’s because I never entirely got along with the females I’ve had longtime friends as female gemini’s but they’ve always parted ways with me and honestly Gemini’s are the most interesting funniest people I’ve ever met in my life and i want to continue getting to know their sides

    • Moon babe November 20th, 2019

      I’m a Cancer female with an Aquarius moon too. Gemini men are ok but the females are the absolute worst. It’s like I make so many air sign friends except Gemini girls. They always come off as rude or unfriendly. It’s really weird

  34. Stephanie October 20th, 2017

    I’m recently dating a Gemini man and he knows just what to say to get me weak but I can’t seem to read him at all though he plays the bad role extreamely well

    • Oliver December 10th, 2017

      This sounds interesting.

      I was recently dating a Cancer woman. From my perspective, I thought we opened up rather well, provided I asked her questions as she would never volunteer any info. She also had this habit of never continuing a discussion I would start, but she would assume I was bored if we never continued her conversations. I was never bored of her, but I began to wonder if she was even into me. She told I made her feel safe, but I couldn’t feel safe because she did so little to show affection that wasn’t outside of kissing. It seemed that making out was her thing and not so much talking. Maybe I’m wrong, but when you ask a person you love important questions in a relationship and just stare at you, not offering anything…well, that makes me feel, like maybe you don’t want to necessarily connect.

      I’m a gemini, by the way. I was wondering if you can help me understand. Because as much as I miss her and love her, I want to understand what cancers go through. I actually want to ride the emotional wave with them, but with the right one. Though I can’t help, but feel she was it.

      • Oliver December 10th, 2017

        Basically, I mean to say is what did he do (or didnt do) that made you unable to read him?

        I don’t mean to pry, but I’m trying to understand. Lol It’s a doozy trying to.

      • Kari December 20th, 2017

        Oliver, I am a cancer lady who is married to a Gemini. what you said is a lot true and i could connect to that. Making out is our way of showing affection. I always plan to do something diff but end up kissing him. though i am the one who does the talking among us, and i have the feeling that may b he is not interested in that topic then i draw back.
        cancer’s are highly emotional and thus reserve their thoughts, as they are scared to get hurt everytime.
        I can just say that every person is different and you can never completely understand someone. You just have to evolve with her. Ask her whatever confusion you have don’t assume. Being open is the best thing.

      • Oliver December 21st, 2017

        Thanks for the reply, Kari.

        As for the whole thing between me and her, it’s over. It was over about a month ago. I ended it because I couldn’t trust her brand of affection.

        But I understand what you mean now. Some people show their affections differently. And besides, as much as I blamed her for it then, there are no hard feelings now. At this point, I don’t even mind it that we don’t talk anymore. It’s fine with me.

      • Kari December 21st, 2017

        Oh, I am sorry to hear that it didn’t work out between you two.

        N it’s good that you have moved on.

        All the best for your life ahead.

      • Oliver December 21st, 2017

        Thanks, Kari. I wish you the best as well and hope your marriage is a fruitful one. 🙂

      • Tina December 26th, 2017

        I’m a cancer and the cancer you described sounds like she just wasn’t that into you. I’m currently not into this Gemini I met because I kinda got turned off when I had to dig out some information he should have told me before I gave him my number. I can’t deal with someone like that makes me think what else is he possibly hiding.

        What did you say to her that could have possibly turned her off?

      • Oliver January 3rd, 2018

        No idea to be honest.The last thing I remember is her calling me out for being weird, but she’s just as weird. And if I call her out, she gets all silent about it. :/

        Looking back, I found her agonizing. She was too miserable as she found herself unable to move on from a decades worth of emotional impoverishment she apparently suffered from an ex husband. That shadow was way too big for me to take on. And besides, the truth is, no one is supposed to be falling for someone who is broken. Its not another person’s job to fix you. Only you can do that yourself. She never understood this and I honestly doubt she ever will.

      • Anonymous October 23rd, 2018

        Hi, I’m a cancer woman dating a gemini hughly creative man. & We have run into the same things your describing. When he asks me dirrect questions and I don’t answer right away…deep inside of me I wish he understood how my depth of emotion and expression are unique and profound and can only be brought out beautifully when the Gemini understands we need breathing room and space to learn the depth of our expression. Because Geminis can be rather inpatient our true beauty remains a mystery.

      • Oliver October 23rd, 2018

        Makes sense. Its been a year since then, but that was all the breathing room I needed to learn what I have about her. Its too late, now. But the lesson, that’s important.

        Hope you two succeed where I didn’t. Good luck to you both.

  35. Yvonne williams September 25th, 2017

    I’ve been married to a Gemini man for 32 years. Yes, I said 32 years and he is a piece of work. I know him like the front and back of my hand he is hilarious. When there is an argument I know how to win his heart back.

    You must have patience to deal with a Gemini man. I know him so well that sometimes I can’t help but laugh.

    They can play that stubborn role, but not for long. They like sex to much to continue to stay stubborn. Sex is one if there weakneses.

    • Avid Williams August 19th, 2020

      WOW…THANK YOU!!!

  36. Shamere Wison April 8th, 2017

    Omg i don’t know why I’m attracted to Gemini men I’m in a relationship with a Gemini he left me for an old flame he was back in 30 days. I took him back you never know if they love you or playing you all i can say is Ride the wave it’s fun exciting never bored. There’s an age difference he doesn’t care about that they are very Moody worst than cancer give them Space don’t be Clingy let them Roam i love him so……Much we very seldom argue much he travels with his job so that works out perfect he’s indecisive forgetful dominate in the bedroom i take over sometimes and seduce him it’s all about Holding on to your love it’s a challenge!! It can work be Patient cancer women if you love him it’s about being Patient with him even if it drives you Crazy ride that Wave it’s Worth it Geminis bring us out our Shell just Relax and ride that Wave and Enjoy i didn’t say it was Easy but if your decicated it can work he’ll love you for Understanding his Twisted, indecisive, changeable, Moody ways lol

    • Stephanie Littles May 12th, 2017

      I really need to read this. I am in the Same position. It very hard. I was apart from my Gemini for 6 years. Married someone else. He tracked me down. Now, we are apart again. I hope and pray…. he will return. Yes, This is a crazy ride. ?

      • sweetness September 13th, 2018

        Omg I went thru the same situation I married a Gemini he was young and I was friends with a Gemini since I was 15 he been locked since 99 but I been with him off and on but when I got married I cut him off bc I was marry the marriage didn’t work and my friend that was locked up contact me again bc he said he felt like something was wrong Oh we fuss he piss me off bc he started to talking to another woman while locked up but I knew it was my fought but we back together again we keep saying to each other we got a strong bond that nothing can’t separate us!! I am still trying to figure out being a cancer woman what is it between us??? He said respect bc I never lied to him he knows every dude I dated and been with since he have been locked up and he was honest to tell me he is still talking to another chick but not like that the way we talk I just don’t know?

    • mommylife16 November 4th, 2017

      Your comment just gave me hope 🙂

    • carol November 19th, 2017

      i need some lessons on dealing with my gemini man,am a cancer born

  37. Cancer Woman March 30th, 2017

    Cancer female, Gemini Male- I have had an ongoing relationship with a Gemini for a over a decade now, problem is, it has been an open relationship because of his reluctance to fully commit. Every time he gets near the threshold, he turns back, and yet he is tormented each time he give my time generously to someone else. At this point, I plan on moving on, when the time comes, but no matter what we have an intense shared love that we both realize will never die.

  38. Roxanne Bourgeois March 8th, 2017

    I’m a Cancer woman and my Ex, of almost two years was a Gemini man. I take the time to read compatibility on any guy I’ve met or could be interested in and did the same with him. I saw that we weren’t traditionally compatible, however I still believe in making my own path, and gave this man a shot. Although he was a divorcee and had 3 kids with his ex-wife and another woman, this did not scared me away. I was 35 at the time and he was 33, so through our conversations in the beginning, he seemed to be ready for a serious commitment . I was EXTREMELY happy with my decision, then after dating for 6 months, he wanted a break. As a sensitive crab, my heart and soul were crushed. I looked toward what I had done vs. this is his nature. I gave him the space he needed and he came back and it was GREAT. Then he broke up with me on Jan. 18th 2016. I, was again devastated, but I kept my distance, didn’t call or text him and two weeks later he texted me that he “loved me and wanted to be with me in some capacity “. I decided I would oblige and made a promise to myself to take it slow this time and give myself time away from him and for myself. I didn’t follow through,and regret now that I didn’t. Through September of this year of dating, it was a blast, we traveled, had fun, TALKED, enjoyed each other’s company and I enjoyed doing for him and his boys’. By October I started to become impatient with my Gemini and ask him to begin to show and do more to assure me of the fact that he wants to build a future with me. My request became for frequent due to some issues regarding the relationship dynamic between he and his ex-wife. I began to feel less important and voiced my opinion,once again, just before Christmas. We had a wonderful Christmas with us advertise the boy’s, but even all that did not stop my Gemini from breaking up with me on NYE. I begged him to give us a few more months and he declined, I was crushed. We keep in touch, because I asked him to after our break up, however that has been a mistake, because now I know more than I want to know regarding him, moving on. He’s already seeing someone else and up until this point I was hopeful he and I would get another chance. I made too many mistakes regarding how I handled myself and my Gemini man and ultimately he stayed true to his nature and found and escape, only leaving me torturing myself about what we had and what we could have had. My advice for this pairing would be for the Cancer woman to know that she is dealing with a fun, yet flighty guy, who makes an indelible impression on whomever he comes into contact with. Have fun with him, because less sensitive and less available, he will ultimately appreciate this. But, still do your Cancer thing, because motherly and nurturing and take care of him, your childish Gemini will like that as well. I will never forget my Gemini, most fun and best sex I’ve ever had, but he was not a man who was ready to be kept, so I couldn’t keep him.

    • Suweg November 22nd, 2017

      It’s not your fault that he left you. Gemini men are definitely flighty. My gemini man, although we never dated, seemed like that type. He would push and pull me. One day he would act interested and then the next he would push me away. I think it was partly my fault. I think he was genuinely interested in the beginning but I was always scared of a new relationship so I pushed him away. After that he stopped being serious with me and I think that’s when I slowly realized that I was in love with him. But, deep down, I know I did the right thing. He seemed too carefree and hard to tie down. I wasn’t that person to keep him tied down. I just want you to know that it’s his lost and your gain. You will find someone much better who will appreciate your love.

  39. prinalram June 4th, 2016

    I was friends with gemini man, now he doesn’t want me in his life, I love & care for him but it looks like he’s not interested in me, how can we stay together forever 

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  41. susieev January 29th, 2016

    When I first met the gemini man I thought he was cute. He had spiky hair. Definitely my type of guy. I don’t even remember how we got to talking.  But we became instant friends. I felt like he understood me on a different level. I would talk to him about things that I would never talk to with others. We had class together and he would walk with me to my next class. I never thought much about it until my friend revealed to me that he liked me. Then it all made sense. That’s so me though. Whenever someone likes me I never notice it. I’m oblivious to things like that. But I was so surpised to find out that he liked me. I never told him I knew though. Who would? I didn’t want things to get awkward because I liked how our relationship was at the time. But day after day he would pursue me. While I didn’t want him to keep pursuing me I also didn’t want him to stop, to be honest. It was selfish of me really. Even people around us thought that we were in a relationship. One time while we were in class doing a group project, a girl we were talking to asked so what are you guys? Asking if we were a couple. I was shocked to know that some people thought that about us. Apparently we looked like a couple. I kept my distance with him though. I didn’t want to get too close because of my fear of rejection. Maybe subconsciously I knew that the reason why I didn’t push our relationship any further than just friends was because I had a feeling that he wouldn’t be able to commit. I need that stability and assurance from a man before I take things any further. The tension was definitely there, but I didn’t want to give myself to him because one we were both too young and dumb for that kind of stuff and two I didn’t want our relationship to be just physical. I need a sound foundation before I give myself to another man and with him I didn’t see it. Unfortunately, things never went any further than friends but I am glad to have known him. Now, I am in college and he is off in another state working. We have our own lives now and we have both moved on with different people. I wish him nothing but the best. 

    • Andy February 3rd, 2017

      Mine was the other way cancer man and I am a Gemini. Started out the same way instantly friends. Understood each other on a different level. We came from completely different backgrounds. We had an intense attraction to each other that we tried to fight off because of how good of friends we had become. Until we gave up and said to hell with it and gave us a shot. Now we are expecting our first baby and couldn’t be happier. I know hard times are inevitable but we make each other better people and I truly believe we can over come anything.

  42. mv808 May 8th, 2015

    @alecia876 ur right, my ex bf he was a dj, but he really sucks to tell u the truth and doesnt understand rhythm and different notes and tones. So he doesnt have a ear…but in his bussiness i think he isnt trying his best when he is spinning he just spins the top played songs on the radio he doesnt even bother to look up other songs thats available it doesnt have to be mainstream popular music i could do better in his bussiness their mind is so simple lol

  43. mv808 May 8th, 2015

    So right on this article,…ive had been with a gemini for almost 2 years. He is 43, i am 21…a lot of his friends say he has so much energy for his age, hes into fantasy world while im into reality and whats real, and most of all it was all “cookies and ice cream” at first when we started dating and being in the relationship but i soon found out he was a pervert in a way  or admire other womens beauty so he would comment sexual stuffs on fb and say its nothing cuz hes not asking for them…and  i told him first time how i felt, and how hurting it is for me AND HE STILL KEEPS DOING IT until it took him a whole year to stop only when another women had to tell him why its wrong.I still think he can always look at women online ,but not like or comment becuz he is still following the women there.He has a lot of women friends, and seems to like to be around women And ive noticed overall it makes me feel like hes like a child, and he tends to beat around the bush a lot until i blow up becuz i know in obvious ways hes lying , then he tells me the truth when i bring the facts and he knows he cannot prove otherwise. He also  irresponsible(What bothers me is He trusts people A LOT  and which is why he comes complaining to me when i try to teach him to not make the mistakes so he doesnt stress as much on himself at what he is doing financially and life and bussiness wise.  (makes me feel like im teaching a child cuz it takes him so much to understand and we argue becuz he doesnt want to do the obvious solutions i gave him) right what this article states>geminis are not that stable sometimes. Money wise he likes to spend, but i like to save money . The way he does financially wise is he doesnt plan budget good or save up especially if there is a bill coming up, or a dued one already o.o when if i was in his shoes i wouldve done it easier and faster or bills would be payed and gad enough to get by. Trust me,  u gonna be with a gemini man ,dont treat them like he is everything to u becuz they are very smart at looking at people and reading them like a book and know any womens weakness and use it to get you back into his life. WARNING: US CANCER WOMEN SHOULD NEVER TELL OUR INNER FEELINGS ABOUT THEM, TO ANY MAN BECUZ THEY COULD USE IT AGAINST YOU AND WONT LET U MOVE ON. All i say is he doesnt get me, and he doesnt get im trusting my inner gut feeling that hes not the one. 

  44. Aleelove January 10th, 2015

    Hello again im back this is Desirae who was having trouble debating if I should get back together with my ex. Eventually I did and we worked everything out. We had a couple small hurtles since getting back together but were stronger now then weve ever been. We haven’t even made a year yet. He told me he loves me finally after all these months damn geminis. At least they wait for the right time n moment. I can actually say im in love with him finally. I guess now we kno what we both want. I always gave up too soon but I realized if u want something u have to put the work in and not jus expect things to be good on its own. Good luck to u all who are unsure it will get better jus know what u want n go after it. If the mans not good for u then let him go…doesn’t mean u wont get back with him n who knos it might be even better when u get back with them im talking from experience. 

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  47. Niki.gonzo November 9th, 2014

    I have been with my Gemini man for almost two years. I am more happy with him than I have ever been with my previous tauras and Libra. He respects me, he strengthens me, he protects me, we agree on almost everything and rarely fight. When we do fight its over something stupid but we are both so stubborn that we won’t give up and got to have the last word but we both understand each other so much that we laugh it off and come to an agreement. When we first started liking each other in highschool I would agree with all of these comments for sure. I thought he was a manwhore and he always stared at me with this look where he drew me in but at the same time stay away. I have had strong feelings for him for years and never understood why. Years later he looked me up and we started talking and we instantly clicked and fell in love with eachother. We stayed up with eachother almost every night not eating, sleeping, communicating with anyone else but each other and in the bed was amazing (and still is). He knocked me up a month later and that just made our connection even stronger. He works so hard to satisfy me and as do I to him. He only wants me and I only want him. I am always told bypeople I have the patience of jobe to be with him. So that is very true you need to have patience and encourage your Gemini man to be something great my Gemini man feeds off of my love for him to be a great man for me. He needs lots of love and affection which I love to give 🙂 Gemini has a very dark angry side as well which is where all that love comes in which cools him down and makes a perfect match. As a cancer woman I have cheated which makes me very paranoid about cheating and with my Gemini my loyalty to him is 100%. But I always worry he is lieing to me about things so I’m not hurt by him. I have many dreams that he is cheating or hurting me in some way. Does anyone else feel this way? I try not to let my dreams affect me but by his past actions and two lies I have caught him in (with actually good explanations) it is hard sometimes. My love and understanding makes me ignore my emotional self and focus on what’s really important though which is keeping our love alive to make sure he has no reason to stray away.    Im very interested in astrology and it surprises me to see that the majority say that Gemini and cancer isn’t a good match…

  48. Aleelove November 7th, 2014

    Hello hello…I am a Cancer woman and I’ve dated 2 Gemini men boy were they so similar.  Always joking and it seems like they are making fun of you.LOL and us sensitive cancers take it to heart.  They need to be more sensitive to us and our needs and we also need to stop being so sensitive and take it as a joke and laugh with them.  They don’t really mean any harm.  Not only that they say they are joking but then when they are serious you think are they joking now? LOL it’s such a contradiction with Geminis it drives me nuts…but Cancers are also a contradictions.  Many tears with both Geminis…I’m so sensitive but I can see from all the previous post I’m not the only one.LOL
    So my first relationship with a Gemini didn’t work out because we got into a big fight because we were both drunk and basically it ended up being physical…he didn’t hit me but he dragged me by my hair across the freeway…he felt so bad when he sobered up and we decided to end it but wanted to stay with each other also because we were physically attracted to each other.  I noticed my two Geminis needed to be stimulated mentally…they both smoked weed what the maybe it’s my fault for choosing them but the 2nd one I didn’t know smoked until later.  They smoked but were both very intelligent you know not the stupid stoner type of guy.  It’s so strange because they both were super sweet esp if there really into you they will compliment you all the time but they are also very insensitive to most things.  It drives me crazy because if they just changed a little I would be so in love with a Gemini.  They make me laugh all the time and are so goofy like me and I love that.  I would not like a boring guy at all.  At times I think what do I want myself…you have this funny upbeat guy but I find it too much at times because I feel like he’s making fun of me but then I don’t want a boring guy?
    My 2nd relationship with a Gemini, yes all above is true the sex is out of this world and I don’t think it can get better.  I feel like he knows what I want without having to ask.  Communication is a big factor in this relationship, Geminis need to know how you feel in order to deal with the situation.  Don’t be shy or afraid to tell him because honestly you will get no where being quiet and keeping to yourself.  I was at first but then when I started to talk about my feelings I realized it’s not bad at all and Geminis love that and we usually always work things out by talking.  Then you realize it wasn’t what you thought it was when the Gemini explains himself.  We are on a break right now…well actually I broke up with him because he said he was “unsure of his ex” what the hell does that mean? you have to be sure in order to move on? now he tells me I told you I’ve been over her over 100 times…that’s a lie you did not say that.  See they are a contradiction.  Cancers remember everything a man says so you can’t turn things around now.  Gemini’s like to manipulate situations especially when they want something I noticed.  Like I feel like I could trust them 100% but when they do that they seem so shady? Anywho I fully broke up with him and my phone is currently disconnected or temp out of service and now he’s calling my work and emailing me and even texted my mom.  I don’t know what to do now.  I ultimately stopped talking to him because I asked if he was talking to someone else because my psychic instincts told me so and he said yes so why should I even talk to him anymore when he said he wouldn’t? I feel like I should just move on and hopefully one day find my Pisces but now it seems like he wants to give it another chance which is what I wanted but now that I thought about everything I’m unsure.  I do love him although we didn’t say it to each other but he took care of me so how can I not? At first it seemed like he was keeping me around because he didn’t know what he wanted but knew I was a great girl now that I’m fully out of his life it’s driving him crazy.  It’s easy for someone to say just move on but when you invested your time and feelings into someone and you see potential and we both learned from our mistakes maybe it’s worth another shot? I lost most my feelings for him because he hurt me but I’m still unsure.
    To everyone above good luck in love and if your with a Gemini i hope it works out and if you were hurt by one I’m sorry I know your pain.

  49. Scandalise_u September 16th, 2014

    plzzz pray for me that i get back my gemini man.. r us se shadi b ho jaeee… :p

  50. Scandalise_u September 16th, 2014

    m also in relationship with gemini guy.. but he is fraud.. he making fool again and again.. i love him alot and he also know abt it.. but still ignoring me r teasing me.. he’s making a lame excuses and told me what type ov girl i am.. he is nice man but i dont know why he did this wd me.. i want my gemini man back.. i love him truly deeply and madly.. he said that he loves me also but i dont know why he left me..

  51. Sam-Santos August 29th, 2014

    I have been with my gemini man for 14 yrs and we have 2 wonderful children… gemini man are really loving, caring, hard working people… I love my gemini man

  52. Courtwilso22 August 18th, 2014

    My Gemini man and I had beed together for four years. We have also made thing extremely difficult for one another at times. “testing” the other constantly. We know how to push one another’s buttons. The two of us have made great efforts to make our relationship work but are successful partners now. As a cancer I have to be more vocal about what I need from him and he has to be reminded that even though he’s joking in his mind it might not come across that way to me. The two can work but you have to be willing to compromise with one another or you’ll rip each other’s heads off! 

  53. mandzremz March 10th, 2014

    I love my gemini man :)…No one understands me more than him…Everything said above was true.I have a very very sad past that haunts me until now.Everytime i think about it i just want to stay in bed and not talk to anyone,then comes my Gemini man who comforts me and tells me things to calm me down..I also adore his intellect and humbleness. I hope one day he will be the man who will totally help me forget my painfull past…

  54. [email protected] November 16th, 2013

    in 2010 a cancer girl was admitted in my class. she had a look on me and in two weeks she found her self involved in me. she hadn’t been in any relation before. nor do i. she wanted to talk to me and to know about me,my likes and dislikes. she got my number and. i accepted her as my 1st 4nd or gf. then for consecutive 8 months she took such a grest care of me and loved me madly. that care and love lead me to make her the most special one in my life. i was then fully involved in her. we both became life of eachother.                                                        Last year she struck with some severe family problem. and without intimating me ,she………..she left chating.and now i dont know where she is? how is she doing? whats going on in her life?. but then i came to know that she has been engaged and she is so much ashamed of her self . that she couldn’t with stand the promises we made to each other.                                                                                 I tried much to know that. but no body supported me. all i know now is that i couldn’t live without her!!. And i couldn’t think of any one else ever in my life.I want to wait for her for my whole life. and i will.I AM IN LOVE WITH HER AND I TRULY TRULY MEAN THAT.
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  55. Black-Goddess October 28th, 2013

    I am a cancer female that knew my gemini male 13 years before we ever did anything. see, a gemini male will be digging you and wont say anything, they will leave you in suspense. I guess that is a good thing for the mysterious cancer, plus I have a decante in scorpio so I love the occult! My gemini loves me though. I just wish he would slow down and take better care of himself. He is always in the streets and he drinks alot! but, I can honestly say that he is the most fun person I have ever been in a relationship with because he is actually a little boy at heart. he LOVES to be told what to do, how to do it, and when and I do that well!!! I want him to marry me though. not right now but eventually and I want to be able to help him accomplish some goal he may have in life. Let’s just see where God takes us because they are very God conscious, almost fanatical.

  56. True-Experience August 7th, 2013

    Greetings. I see many of the comments speaking of a negative relationship between Gemini man and Cancer Woman. I have two suggestions for the women and men on this forum. 1st suggestion is to get a natal chart reading done. Astrological compatibility is much more than comparing sun signs. There are so many different factors that makes us unique than just identifying our sun signs. In fact there is no one who 100 percent represents the qualities of their sun sign. First identify the 5 personal planets and in which signs they are in (that includes the sun, moon, venus, mercury, and mars additionally the ascendant or rising sign). You may find that your traits have greater influence from other planets then you are own sun sign. For instance I happen to be a Gemini sun, Capricorn ascendant, moon cancer, mercury cancer, venus gemini, mars virgo. If you notice the pattern in my personal planets including the ascendant I have more planets in feminine signs which makes me more sensitive, intuitive and feeling, than the emotional detachment associated with my sun sign. Thus there is a balance with intellect and emotion. Also locate if any planets that are in the 5th house (romance, dating, children, and creativity) and the 7th house (marriage, partnership) to see who you might be drawn to romantically. Keep in mind the moon corresponds to your emotional needs, what you need may conflict with what you view as ideal. My 7th house happens to have a moon mercury conjunction in cancer. Thus my emotional needs deal directly with cancer (security, sensitive, nurturing). I have always attracted cancer in some form or the other. Even if it was just as friends. I am saying all this to prove that you can’t determine a connection based solely on your sun sign. To the women who have had bad relationships with gemini men, you may have had planets in your chart which may have squares to your partners chart, which creates difficulty and needs for adjustments. I know that my potential partner will be best suited as a Cancer woman, because of I need I have to connect with someone both on a intellectual and emotional level.

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  57. itsallaboutm3 May 10th, 2013

    I am a cancer woman that dated a gemini man for 4 years and i must say it was awful! at first it was great but then i found out that he was cheating and we tried to work through our problems. he was a consistent cheater and liar….he told me loved me all the time….but then again he cheated all the time. i had a hard time leaving because the beginning was great…but then again, aren’t all beginnings of new relationships? we’ve been broken up for almost two years and i still miss him sometimes but i haven’t talked to him since we broke up. i refuse to. i hate him. seriously….i hate him. he drained me emotionally and i cannot stand him to this day. if i ever saw him starving on the side of the rode i would drive through a puddle just to soak him water and hopefully make his life as miserable as he made mine. yes we did have some good times, but dammit the bad times outweigh the good ones by farrrrrrrrrr! he was always breaking up with me then getting back together. nothing but an unhealthy emotional rollercoaster that was not worth the 4 years of my life. i wish i could kick him in his balls one good time and break his right testicle off! 😉

  58. figurelove February 20th, 2013

    I am a cancer woman and i am in love with my gemini man. It took 8 months for him to say he loves me. But i can see it in his eyes his immense passion for me. Wenever we fight which really rare since both of us are damn understandin, he’s the one who reaches out and pulls me out of my nonsense assuming typiclcal cancer woman thoughts. At first he didnt wanna commit n now he thinks of it with me. I gave up a stupid as hell taurus guy for him.. He the perfect guy for me..

  59. Charity January 19th, 2013

    @AllSpark79 Ok I am a Cancer woman, and I’ll tell you now you will regret sleeping or even engaging with the Sag. woman. Because the Sag. woman can’t give you what a Cancer woman can. And Sag. don’t care about how you feel, you must know that!!!!!!!! One thing you need to know about Cancer women are that they need financial stability and if she doesn’t have that she will obtain it the best way she knows how ( not saying u need to provide for her, but that’s why she works 24/7). Now if you do engage with the Sag. woman, make sure you don’t ever tell the Cancer woman, because she won’t let it go and she will hold a grudge…forever. Trust me….I know. I would give it some time for the Cancer woman to come around, because 9 times out of 10 she is probably doing what she says she’s doing ( meaning working). And the only reason she is saying lets just be friends is because she can’t trust you ….yet. If she is like most Cancer’s it’s hard for us to pour our feelings out even when we have been in a realationship for awhile ( like a year or so or more).  The trust is everything and it can make us very hesitant of what we choose to do. Most Cancer women expericence bad relationships so it’s hard to trust and get us to open up. And she probably thinks “well as easy as he came into my life he can easliy leave.” If you really like her like you say you do, then give it some time and you won’t regret it at all. 

  60. Gemini-Wonka December 13th, 2012

    I just started dating a Cancer woman today btw that’s why I read this page!  I really like her so I will show you all WHAT’S WHAT!!! LMFAO 🙂

  61. Gemini-Wonka December 13th, 2012

    Ladies let me give you a positive perspective from the Gemini male.  This is just a suggestion btw!  I myself did not believe in the zodiac until 3 years ago!  I’m 31.  Reading about my Gemini sign pretty much dropped me to my knees!  Explained everything about my entire life!  Answered so many questions on who I was and why I made the choices I made growing up.  My wardrobe was constantly changing.  I moved every 6 months.  I’m extremely sexual and kinky and more affectionate and emotional than the average man.  All the ” white lies ” and ” lack of commitment.
    My point to all this is, now I work on all the faults to be a better person.  Not to jump to conclusions but maybe all these gemini males your dating have no idea who they are and why!!!  I advise you to have them study their own sign.  They will wake up a better GEM 🙂  I promise you!!
    As the BOW TIE killer from Problem Child says ” I’m not a bad guy!  I’m just misunderstood!”  

  62. AllSpark79 December 2nd, 2012

    This is a Gem male, who has just recovered (6 months now) from a 10-year relationship (no marriage, no kids) (which hints to my/our commitment problem I’d talk later) with an Aries woman. Now more or less I recovered, and I started feeling again. Namely, I sort of gradually slipped and fell for a Cancer woman (hard luck for us) who I think can make my life complete as I long for the deeper sea of emotions I was not able to find for a long time, with my Aries woman including. I have now “formally” started courting the Cancer woman for about 1-2 months now, and she is 24/7 working or otherwise not finding the time to meet. I can understand this hard-to-get game, etc. but her constant verbal fencing makes me weary, plus the ignoring I get, having messages unanswered, calls hung up, and all that moving sideways typical for the Cancer woman. Now the problem is that I as a Gem like some more open communication and have given her enough of space to move, plus we have been meeting for about 4-5 months now in total (no kiss, no touching hands, no sex), and at some point in time when I told her directly (which had some positive unexpected effect) that I had feelings for her, she told me she wanted to be just friends. But still on, we met and so on, I started really courting her, but she continued to meet me even in the face of me openly courting her, she did not cut me off. Now I grew tired of her not finding the time to say “Hi, how are you?” in a text, or on the phone even with her 24/7 working schedule, let alone invite me to anything, just anything, as I was the driver of this car, like 20 meetings so far. So my cup is now full, and over the brim, my patience, tolerance, pride, and understanding are overfilled. So my feelings for her started declining. And then came the Sag woman in this! Almost simultaneously with my getting tired of the steely patience/nonchalance of the Cancer woman.
    The more interesting part is now that I am confused what to think and do. My feelings for the Cancer woman are still strong, we connect on a mental and emotional level – I read this every meeting of ours in her deep eyes, but the relationship is not physical. On the other hand, this Sag woman started attracting me, and we met 2-3 times, not 1-1 but in a company. I really don’t want to “cheat” mentally, I have never done so, and never will (my ascendant is Capricorn). What to do? I really dont want to start courting the Sag as I know from my Aries experience what will happen thereby losing my precious Cancer woman with whom I can have future (I am 33), but on the other hand, I am sick of this Cancer woman taking forever to even kiss (if it takes 8 months to kiss, and another year to have sex, I dont want to find out that in 2 years from now we are not compatible!) and feel like trying the Sag woman. HELP!!!

  63. cantu0406 November 27th, 2012

    I was really good friends w/a Gemini guy almost all of high school years he never tried to talk to me he and I were just good friends there was not one thing we wouldn’t tell eachother! We loved to gossip about people from school and we always saw eye to eye on things. I eventually lost touch with him when I had my son and haven’t seen him since 6 years, I recently got separeted from my fathers son who is an (Aries) and out of no-where this Gemini guy old friend of mine comes back in my life! I was shocked to hear from him when he found me on fb but I was happy! We started talking a lot, through texts and over the phone just like old times only that this time we are adults and he confessed that he always wanted to talk to me since high school but never did cause I always had a boyfriend! I was blown away cause I never thought he would consider me, he’s a very good looking and always had VERY pretty girls after him in high school. So I gave it a chance and went with it, everything was perfect, he seemed too good and sadly it was! I went with him on our first date and it was amazing i haven’t met a guy that has made me feel like him not even my son’s father… I eventually started to worry like I always do and started doubting that he was too good to be true so I told him I was afraid of getting hurt… He assured me he understood and that he was not going to hurt me! Then he stopped calling as much, stop texting, until he finally put it up there that he was afraid him self in being in a relationship, i was crushed by him in such a short period of time! and everynow and then I still out of no-where get a text and yet I’m always left confuse 🙁 not worth the confussion! So I had to let go completely by asking him to not ever reach out to me it was just too much to handle

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  66. DeshkaGrace August 15th, 2012

    i have dated the same gemini man twice and both times we only dated for a small amount of time . the first time i broke it up bc my parents didnt allow it plus i felt he was flirting with other girls which broke my heart . the second time (he had to move different schools bc bad grades) was long distance and he broke it off bc he couldnt stand the distance and felt i didnt want to talk to him . we still talk and hes my best guy friend i tell him everything and hes always there for me . its funny bc we seem to always spark when we hang out bt ive come to a conclusion i only love him as a brother , we just dont work as a couple 🙂

  67. alecia876 July 29th, 2012

    They’re Dickheads.

  68. alecia876 July 29th, 2012

    Alright! I look at all Gemini’s as “Spunges”. I use the term “spunges” as i see them as having no real sence of self. Thust, thrusting over the lastest technology, latest catch phrase’s, latest name brand’s and even latest jobs to be cool! Ahh yeah so without stating the obvious ..If anything cancer girls …We are most definetly way to good for them, by far! 
    Step 1 – Dont ever divulge a thing to your gemini, even who you really are, for that will be spread around the entire neighbourhood within 1 week! My mother is a Gem and she gossips about her own kids …Yes! (sad but true!) Gemin’s love gossip, especially at others expense.
    Step 2 – Tell your self its not your fault. Gemin’s have this crafty way of making others feel as if its our fault, ITS NOT, Trust me!.
    Gemini’s feel very threatend very easily, so if they feel as though there dating a woman who may possess more creative qualities then they have, they will NOT …I repeat NOT give you the reassurance, support that you need to continue because they don’t share the same and hey will feel threatend.   
    Cancerian’s are the most creative star sign, Geminis will try to drain us of our creativity, making us question our selves. Please, as the others have said, A fling … but make sure YOU ARE IN CONTROL. Thats it! Do NOT have anything more.
    Taureen’s are best suited for Cancer’s 🙂

  69. SaudiBaby June 24th, 2012

    i have to agree with the comments of the other cancer women above . i have been involved with a gemini male since this past September and in the beginning it was everything i wanted and i thought what we both wanted . he told me in the beginning that he was not “ready for a relationship” , becus he had just recently gt out of a long one (with a Leo female) , who he had known since childhood. i accepted this and deicied to continue talking to him and not force a relationship , but obviously progress and build on. To make a long story short a gemini male is a cancer womans weakness,especially with our already fregile heart. sexually,mentally and on a conversational level he is everything we want and nees , but emotionally he is detached and is not ready to settle; especially with the clingy and mood Cancer . this “relationship” , if it get to one , will have many tears , but will be you best and worst relationship at the same time .The is a undeniable bond btwn the gemini male and cancer woman tho… they love each other and are sometimes each others’ strenght , but relationship wise … we need more T.L.C than them … they’ll find this annoying though …
    I myself am still trying to get over him( that’s why im on here in the first place, lol) but it is a process. it will be hard for you to leave this “relationship” becus of your feeling and attachment to the gemini but it will be even harder becus he won’t want you to leave (he wont show you this , but he will tell you . he’ll so just enough to keep you, up until the next agrument …….*never ending cycle*) ,  My gemini is currently alway involved with a Libra female, hopefully her experience won’t be as gloomy as mine…
                                                                        (18y.o NJ)

  70. Himcules May 28th, 2012

    I’m a Gemini male and I don’t entirely agree with all you Cancer ladies out there. Yes it does require a great deal of patience for some of us but not all of us are little boys.
    I for one would never cheat on my woman, thats like having streak at home and going out for hamburger. Right now I been dating a Cancer woman and she has been my whole world, for every part of me “we” have found love for this Cancer woman. 
    This woman has inspired all my “people” and allowed me to do and creative things I didn’t think possible from me. Even if I did ever grow bored of her, she’s grown so important to me I’m willing to change who I am to adjust to her, to be flexiable for her. 
    After talking to her for 4 years(once she ran away for a year) I decided to marry this woman.

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    Ask Oracle April 28th, 2012

    @ArabellaSky Weird dreams with rejections? Pay close attention to your dreams, they are telling you something about what might happen in next few months.

    Dreams that make us feel good, often bring good luck and good news.

    Dreams that make us feel bad, anxious and frightened, often indicate that there might be some troubled circumstances in new future.

    Dreams that bring mixed feelings, unclear, chaotic can be ignored.

  72. ArabellaSky April 28th, 2012

    I have a good friend well… close friend.. and after my “best friend” had stopped talking to me for about a month it sorta brought us closer. I had begun to open up to my gemini friend before my best friend shunned me and I started to get a crush on him. He always made me laugh and we talked always talked for hours but the thing is, he lives in England and I live in the U.S. so we use skype to talk. We both don’t want to have a long distance relationship well.. he had one with a girl about a week ago but she lived in England but not exactly where he lives so yeah. He knows a lot about me and what happened when I was younger and I know some stuff about him but not a lot. My gemini friend even knows that I like him but he always told me that he would never date me because of our age difference and distance so… I guess I’m out of luck.. But I really like him, I think about him most of the time, and I’ve even had dreams about him that were sorta weird. Argh,  even in my dream he rejected me. When can this cancer girl win some love?

  73. cancerian March 13th, 2012

    All these comments are true,I’ve been dating a Gemini man, at first our relationship was super but after just 3 months he became somebody else,very unstable,never kept his promises, doesn’t call me anymore ,sometimes seems bored or uninterested when I call him, I decided to dump him without even telling him because he’s not there for me there’s no future in this relationship.

  74. sdt71983 February 17th, 2012

    i agree i have been dealing with a gemini man for almost 9 years now and at first we was ina relationship  but for the longest it has been just a fling and now he says one day he wants to b serious but then the next hes with the cold shoulder smh so to protect the cancer heart i just keep it as a fling

  75. johnoirl February 13th, 2012

    I have to disagree with some people here. I am a 31 yr old gemini man. I was with my ex wife for over 10 years, she was a scorpio. all i ever wanted was to love her and make her feel loved. in which i tried in many many many ways. but i never ever felt loved back in the ways i needed.
    For me i must say as a gemini i need that feeling to be felt loved and wanted, thats pretty much it. i am not a materialistic person, when i get that mental/loved/attached/wanted connection i am always commited 100%. for me being a gemini its always about wowing my partner and making her feel she is my princess, no matter how long we are together.
    i do agree geminis do like to try and explore new things. yes indeed for me, i do in life like to try different things in life to explore new ideas and options. their is nothing wrong with having dreams or ideas or wanting to try something new. but not to try other people, no matter what star sign you are their is a thing called respect!!
    when i am commited to a woman i am commited 100%.
    you cant just say because a guy or girl cheated was because they where a gemini. 1000’s of people cheat, men and woman, but always for a reason, because they are not happy at “home” or for some reason or not.

  76. swanni December 2nd, 2011

    these commenst are so true, as a cancer woman, i treasure my gemini man, but i struggle to feel any attachment. i lust for him but i feel like i am floating in a sea alone. i foolishly make myself available to him, but it doesnt seem to matter.

  77. mariamansari October 21st, 2011

    ^ What Sofia said is true. Geminis do like to try new things and people- so there is a chance they could cheat.
    This guy likes me though and he tries to talk to me and he always stares at me… he’s been doing it for a month and it’s been very obvious and stuff. (im in highschool btw) Then, recently, I found out he had a girlfriend! All this time, after all that… he’s dating someone yet he still stares at me! Even once, before I knew he was dating someone, I saw him hugging some girl (who i now know was his girlfriend) and at the same time, he stared at me and looked down, looking unhappy and guilty.

    I never even see them together much, like in a month, I saw them only twice together. Other than that, he is with his friends like all the time. I don’t see them chilling or talking, even on Facebook they don’t talk to each other much… and he’s looking at me soo much.

    I’m guessing he is bored with his current relationship and he wants more. He seems very open-minded to dating different people, he doesn’t judge easily.. if he likes a girl, he likes them. I was shocked he was with the girl he was with, and when picture them together and stuff, something about them doesn’t click… like they aren’t meant to be together. Like two puzzle pieces that don’t fit, they look more likely to just be friends or something but still, they look awkward. but, even with good reasons to look for someone else, will he still cheat? If he got with me, and I gave him so much more, I was more compatible, gave him what he wanted, didn’t trap him cuz I’m not clingy at all and I hate clingyness… will he do the same to me (cheat or look at other girls)? I can sense and feel our compatibility in my gut, my intuition is telling me that we work out well together <3 even reading this compatibility thing, it was right on with how I can sense we both feel. The intuition we have going on is so strong, it's shocking.
    I know I like him, he really likes me and we're only in highschool so, nothing serious. Puppy crushes xD I'd love to steal his heart! I feel like I'm starting to, or already have perhaps since it has been a while. Just gotta talk to each other, let him know that he has me if he wants me… I'm open to whatever he does to try to talk to me and I'll jump into it if he does. 🙂

  78. Salander September 10th, 2011

    Gemini’s do not commit. It is so true. I have been with one for 13 years. Yes, truly exciting in the start as most of you mentioned here. Sex amazing. So physical and mental connections were great, but soulfully not that much. I don’t think I have met anyone else who made me cry that much in my life. Lots of tears, lots of disappointments, lots of unkept promises. By the end it became like a poisonous relationship. I knew it was not right for me, but I just could not stop it. I am glad I finally managed it, although it took many months. Cancers value honesty, stability and prefer to be always straightforward and to the point, they value truly deep soulful connections. But that is not always the case with Gemini, being lighthearted and wanting to try everything and everyone – and that would often involve cheating of course. Maybe not all the Gemini are the same as it depends on the rest of their stars in the chart of course. But it is still important to be aware of our main differences. So if any Cancer woman is reading this I suggest you be careful. Words from experience! Best, Sofia

  79. 75788 August 31st, 2011

    I was with a gemini man for 10years, I am a cancer woman we was married for 6 years and have 5 kids together in whom love,they are my heart.Our kids is the only love that came from that relationship!That was the first and worse relationship that I have ever had.Now here I am 9years out of one to get back involved with another one.He is purposing marriage and I do love him,but I feel like history is repeating itself just no children with him.My gemini man is everything the planet says he is and I am everything the planet says I am so?

  80. classynjazzy April 4th, 2011

    I’m a Cancer woman who is newly involved with a Gemini man. I believe that the key to it working is to let the man go where ever he wants to go whenever he wants to go. Don’t tie him down and make him feel trapped. In return that means you can go where ever you want, whenever you want to. This works for us because I don’t like to be tied down with rules and neither does he.

  81. tracy February 26th, 2011

    I am a Cancer woman trying to date a Gemini man. The relationship was captivating when we first met. We talked for hours. He made me laugh and I did the same. He made me feel like I was the only person in the room when there were at least fifty. He wanted and got my attention all night. I had my guards up with this man from the beginning because for some reason, I was a afraid of him. Afraid to like him. He would not pursuing me. Get this, months later when I do decide to tell him how I really feel. He seems to be harsh in his speaking. I tell him all the time that he talks what I call “hard.” When he is upset about something, he completely shuts me out. I know that this is his way of dealing with things, but I’m not like that. I like to talk things through. I’m am getting this man latter years. He is in him mid-50’s and I’m mid-40’s. Is there hope for us? Could it be a little better at this age. I do believe he really cares for me, but he is so insensitive. I don’t know how to handle that because I’m a very sensitive person.

  82. KlsyGrly February 3rd, 2011

    I am a Cancer (Libra moon) woman, who is getting involved with a Gemini man. I do have the typical Libran instinct to always be with someone, but I am really a person who likes her own space, and I become disenchanted with someone very quickly, and once that happens, I don’t ever look at them the same again. This Gemini man that I am talking to is SOOOO clingy. He sits around all day waiting for me to call. What’s the deal?? He does have a mercury in cancer and mars in cancer. He is cute, and I like him, but Jeez! Get a life!!

    I am still in love with my ex, who I regret leaving every single day, a Pisces, and he is still in love with me, too, but I live across the country now and he is seeing a Capricorn woman because he thought I had forgotten him. Any thoughts? Can the cancer woman win out over the cappy?

  83. Nikki Cancer married to a Gemini!!! January 23rd, 2011

    Ladies I wish I knew about a gemini man before my heart got broken by one!!! I have been with mine for ten years now… Married for seven and have two kids with him… I have never been hur so much in my life trying to see if he would change.. I have threatened to leave but he won’t let me go… He has cheated on me numorous times over the years while we were married and still tells me he loves me… I have no trust and have had my guard up since we met it has seemed… we only got married cuz I got pregnant now after the second he wont leave in spite of his children growing up without a father which is a good thing I thought but at what price. He is a good man and a good father but not a good husband at all!!! What have I got myself into???

  84. Broken gemini January 21st, 2011

    Wow I’m a gemini girl dating a cancer girl, I know what I want I’ve stated out loud and clear, pulled every trick in the book to make my cancer happy, somehow i feel like im never enough….. I don’t want anyone but her and I’m sure of it…but she makes me feel like a toy she picks up and plays with when she wants to it’s breaks my heart everytime…. I don’t understand why she does this…when I just want to make her happy

  85. diane January 6th, 2011

    I’ve been w my gemini man for a yr and a half and have been blissfully happy and devastated off and all throughout. For all the ups and downs though it has been the best relationship I have ever been in lol. As i’ve come to understand him and vice versa, we have found a fairly even “place”. I love him and always will regardless of how long we are together. The trick is to let him be who he is and remember who you are…then…it works.

  86. celine January 1st, 2011

    the gemini i’m with is very sexual and we clicked very quickly, but i’m afraid i can’t trust him while he thinks differently about what me being “his girl” is all about, while i think something totally different. Im very emotional towards him, and im afraif he wont stick around as much as he says he will.

  87. michyta December 13th, 2010

    wether people are different. they have to have an understanding with each other. love one another at the same time give each other respect.

  88. Willa712 December 8th, 2010

    WOW…so on point I’ve been in a fling with a gemini male 14 yrs…..JUST A FLING!!! never nothing more!!!Being a moody cancer I just give him a dose of his own medicine, keep your WALLS up all the time. I have never had to deal with the “evil” twin bcuz I keep my distance….Gemini very unstable people!!! LOL

  89. amber Kuma November 29th, 2010

    princess that was a perfect way to put it and mad funny too

  90. Princess November 13th, 2010

    HONEEEEE, let me tell you……It takes a cancer woman WITH OUTSTANDING PATIENCE to be with the dual-nature gemini man. They can be VERY SWEET and protective….BUT DO NOT GET COMPHY!! Keep your gaurd up until you are for SURE!!! AND THEN, once you are sure, LOL LOL put your guard up again! Im just keeping it 100!!!!

  91. Moodycrab October 17th, 2010

    Gemini male cancer female perfect sexual match emotionally draining on the moody cancer, am reading the comments above and am convinced ours will end up being just a fling but will always have love for him just realise his nature is to be untrusting of things he can’t see for himself and changeable to the point of frustration but loving tender caring and special i guess every cancer woman should give a gemini man a try but keep your shell on at all times or you will spend the whole time in tears.

  92. love My Gemini man October 11th, 2010

    gemini, they are heartless, confused, stingy, cowards.

  93. love My Gemini man August 22nd, 2010

    they are too lovely to be with but their dual nature just hurt us to the core more often. they are not one person at all. they can be 4 different people in 1 person.

    they are too sweet when they really come after us but once they get bored!!! then we’ll be left in sea of tears.

    but surly they will come back. cos gemini’s mind is unstable they cant decide what they really need in their life. their mind is more like a “monkey”

  94. Nikki ann Chestnut August 17th, 2010

    i think it better for a gemini guy and a caner to just be a fling because they are to lose for our fragile hearts. I love my gemini man i just know we will never work out.

  95. Janet June 17th, 2010

    My boyfriend is a gemini and I have never had a perfect partner. It did take a long time for it to be the way it is today though. It was just a fling for a long time because he didn’t want to settle. We are very different from each other but we have found a way to balance these differences.

  96. amanda May 30th, 2010

    I was with a gem man for 2 yrs. It was a challenge. It was really fun at first. He was exciting and smart and made me laugh. But he was never satisfied. It made me upset to think he wanted to be elsewhere. Good for a fling.

    I have a few gem friends – we have a blast but i dont trust them the way i do w some of my closer friends

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