The airy Gemini and earthy Virgo make a somewhat contradicting match. There may be some personality conflicts those are easily noticeable when these two Sun Signs come together as the sensible and serious Virgo always finds the Gemini unstable and funny. But at the same time their differences make them interesting and complementing mates.
Everything is symbolic, academic or rhetorical, to Gemini man. He generally makes decisions based solely on quick impulses. Even though he is not completely insensitive, he does have a knack for keeping a distance. But of course Gemini man possesses a very strong intellect and pretensions in front of him usually fail. In a relationship, he makes a very easy going and loving mate who respects his as well as his partner’s freedom and is always ready. Never suspect about Gemini man because even if it is not expressed directly, he eventually figures it out and feel miserable for it.
Although she is her own worst critic, Virgo woman wants to serve the world and everyone who belongs in it by identifying their faults and bringing a systematic order to the confusion and disarray around them. Personal security is a virtue that she works at creating for the future. Being overly organized and efficient is one virtue she takes pride in even though it seems a bit over the top to others. Virgo woman does not have time for unwarranted emotions but she does have a need for affection. In a love affair she is adaptive and affectionate enough but she always wants her man to be well structured and planned.
Gemini man and Virgo woman are very vocal towards each other. Virgo woman becomes giddy at the new careless lifestyle she is introduced to by her Gemini man. Not much is held back in the relation when it comes to be a Virgo woman with such pure heart and straightforward feelings. The Virgo woman always respects her Gemini man and teaches him to be calm and serene, just like her. When there is a lot of love in the relationship, their words are healing to each other. Virgo woman is beautifully responsive to the needs of her Gemini man and she takes good care of him as she so desires it as well. But there is always some form of slight tension in their relationship. Sometimes the Virgo woman can be too critical regarding the work and attitude of her Gemini man and this thing disappoints him badly.
A Gemini man is always very pleased to see a disciplined and well maintained Virgo woman; in fact he is fascinated by her charms. Her feminine nature draws him in as well. In the influence of a strong Gemini man, Virgo woman slowly comes out of her insecurities and become more self confident. He always loves to talk with his Virgo woman about her insecurities and help her pull herself from them. Gemini man gives his Virgo woman the freedom she needs to grow and always tries to be there for her when she needs him. Occasionally, his distance from her when she needs him most can hurt her more than he could imagine. But in such cases the Virgo woman has to understand that his actions are not intentional. If they both are ready to hold on patiently, they can create a calm and effective love, to hold on for throughout their lives.
A Gemini man and Virgo woman though have many differences but actually that’s the reason they are so much deeply in love and find each other fascinating. Though the Virgo woman may not be a very great conversationalist but the quick witted Gemini man teaches her to expresses her well and let go her insecurities and discomforts. The Virgo woman, on the other hand makes the life her Gemini man stable and strong. She directs him the right way without stepping over his freedom or making him feel bored. They know each other’s weakness and are always ready to become their lover’s strength. The love of a Virgo woman and Gemini man is a deeper and purer form of friendship with such mutual harmony that exists in their hearts and souls forever to keep them bright and sparkling with each other.
If Gemini man and Virgo woman could base their relationship on an emotional affair, it would be a successful relationship as each leans on the other for the support they crave for. Sexually, Virgo woman and Gemini man may have some major differences and this could problematic for a long lasting relationship. Virgo woman being an earthy creature needs to feel the physical affection of her lover. She is not an overly passionate lover, but she needs to know her man is there. She needs the feel of security and confidence. Gemini man, on the other hand, is not one for familiarity. His excessive desire for change causes his Virgo woman to begin to doubt herself and his devotion toward her. She ends up retreating back to her insecurities and does not responds well during love making. For success in their sexual relationship, they both need to understand their different approach and needs towards physical love and then they can actually enjoy fulfillment which is a lovely blend of earthy sensuality and airy creativity.
The fascination of Gemini man and Virgo woman for each other goes hand in hand with their frustrations for each other but with a little effort from both the sides, they can make this work. At first, their affair appears to be new and thrilling. But after some time, the substantial Virgo woman begin to wonder if she really wants to tie herself to someone still too curious than to be tied down to just her. Gemini man gives second guess to himself about really wanting someone who is so transfixed in being with him. For her it is difficult to be with someone so unorganized and for him it is impossible to tie to a monotonous schedule. There is no doubt that they respect one another’s mental abilities, yet they may too often stifle open expressions of affection in each other. With some compromise and compassion they just might be able to make their lives a little brighter.