Gemini Man and Virgo Woman Love Compatibility

The airy Gemini and earthy Virgo make a somewhat contradicting match. There may be some personality conflicts those are easily noticeable when these two Sun Signs come together as the sensible and serious Virgo always finds the Gemini unstable and funny. But at the same time their differences make them interesting and complementing mates.

Everything is symbolic, academic or rhetorical, to Gemini man. He generally makes decisions based solely on quick impulses. Even though he is not completely insensitive, he does have a knack for keeping a distance. But of course Gemini man possesses a very strong intellect and pretensions in front of him usually fail. In a relationship, he makes a very easy going and loving mate who respects his as well as his partner’s freedom and is always ready. Never suspect about Gemini man because even if it is not expressed directly, he eventually figures it out and feel miserable for it.

Although she is her own worst critic, Virgo woman wants to serve the world and everyone who belongs in it by identifying their faults and bringing a systematic order to the confusion and disarray around them. Personal security is a virtue that she works at creating for the future. Being overly organized and efficient is one virtue she takes pride in even though it seems a bit over the top to others. Virgo woman does not have time for unwarranted emotions but she does have a need for affection. In a love affair she is adaptive and affectionate enough but she always wants her man to be well structured and planned.

Gemini man and Virgo woman are very vocal towards each other. Virgo woman becomes giddy at the new careless lifestyle she is introduced to by her Gemini man. Not much is held back in the relation when it comes to be a Virgo woman with such pure heart and straightforward feelings. The Virgo woman always respects her Gemini man and teaches him to be calm and serene, just like her. When there is a lot of love in the relationship, their words are healing to each other. Virgo woman is beautifully responsive to the needs of her Gemini man and she takes good care of him as she so desires it as well. But there is always some form of slight tension in their relationship. Sometimes the Virgo woman can be too critical regarding the work and attitude of her Gemini man and this thing disappoints him badly.

A Gemini man is always very pleased to see a disciplined and well maintained Virgo woman; in fact he is fascinated by her charms. Her feminine nature draws him in as well. In the influence of a strong Gemini man, Virgo woman slowly comes out of her insecurities and become more self confident. He always loves to talk with his Virgo woman about her insecurities and help her pull herself from them. Gemini man gives his Virgo woman the freedom she needs to grow and always tries to be there for her when she needs him. Occasionally, his distance from her when she needs him most can hurt her more than he could imagine. But in such cases the Virgo woman has to understand that his actions are not intentional. If they both are ready to hold on patiently, they can create a calm and effective love, to hold on for throughout their lives.

A Gemini man and Virgo woman though have many differences but actually that’s the reason they are so much deeply in love and find each other fascinating. Though the Virgo woman may not be a very great conversationalist but the quick witted Gemini man teaches her to expresses her well and let go her insecurities and discomforts. The Virgo woman, on the other hand makes the life her Gemini man stable and strong. She directs him the right way without stepping over his freedom or making him feel bored. They know each other’s weakness and are always ready to become their lover’s strength. The love of a Virgo woman and Gemini man is a deeper and purer form of friendship with such mutual harmony that exists in their hearts and souls forever to keep them bright and sparkling with each other.

If Gemini man and Virgo woman could base their relationship on an emotional affair, it would be a successful relationship as each leans on the other for the support they crave for. Sexually, Virgo woman and Gemini man may have some major differences and this could problematic for a long lasting relationship. Virgo woman being an earthy creature needs to feel the physical affection of her lover. She is not an overly passionate lover, but she needs to know her man is there. She needs the feel of security and confidence. Gemini man, on the other hand, is not one for familiarity. His excessive desire for change causes his Virgo woman to begin to doubt herself and his devotion toward her. She ends up retreating back to her insecurities and does not responds well during love making. For success in their sexual relationship, they both need to understand their different approach and needs towards physical love and then they can actually enjoy fulfillment which is a lovely blend of earthy sensuality and airy creativity.

The fascination of Gemini man and Virgo woman for each other goes hand in hand with their frustrations for each other but with a little effort from both the sides, they can make this work. At first, their affair appears to be new and thrilling. But after some time, the substantial Virgo woman begin to wonder if she really wants to tie herself to someone still too curious than to be tied down to just her. Gemini man gives second guess to himself about really wanting someone who is so transfixed in being with him. For her it is difficult to be with someone so unorganized and for him it is impossible to tie to a monotonous schedule. There is no doubt that they respect one another’s mental abilities, yet they may too often stifle open expressions of affection in each other. With some compromise and compassion they just might be able to make their lives a little brighter.

  1. Aalexiss November 22nd, 2022

    This article is spot on! I have been with my gemini hubby for close to 11 years, married for 2. It was a whirlwind in the beginning. My ex husband was a taurus and i came out of that marriage with ptsd which only exaggerated my virgo tendencies. After reading so many astrology websites saying gemini man and virgo woman love outlook is iffy, I wondered if it was true. In the first few years of us dating, it was tough and we had to learn how to work together and communicate. We both chose to fight for our relationship and have come so far. He is my best friend and biggest pain in the neck at the same time. But i will always choose him and he always chooses me and together, we work to make us work. My astrology match, Taurus, was god awful so I tend to take these with a grain of salt until I see ones like this lol!

    • Hannah December 1st, 2022

      LMAO! Yes I was with a Taurus and it did left me very much traumatized. But I’m talking to a Gemini man atm and I had to make sure why I’m feeling it’s gonna work out so good but also not because of how outgoing and bored he gets so fast and is being so critical and just analyzing everything that is happening in front of us. It just making me doubt it because of how easygoing and messy (sounding) his life is.

  2. Alin April 2nd, 2022

    I love a Virgo , I know now…We started as friends but I never had such a deep connection with anyone before , mistakes made by both kept us from not being together and we waisted so many years , I regret so badly that I didn’t try harder , now it hurts me so bad because we don’t speak to each other anymore and she was my soul and I figured that out onlyafter I lost her…😕😕😕

    • Darcy April 28th, 2022

      I feel the same about a gemini man from years ago. Many years not together now. Distance seperated us. After 5 years Canada and the United States.

  3. Quay March 7th, 2022

    I’m A Virgo Woman Married To A Gemini Man && I Must Say This Article Is Dead On.! Things can be very good or very bad. Buts It’s Never Been A Walk In The Park. But I Truly Believe My Gemini Is My Souldmate!

    • Annette Sydnor March 31st, 2022

      I was hoping I would run into A Virgo Queen and Gemini King man girl I felt your post we will be married 15 this coming July and when I was reading, I’m like I bet no one else will be like me because they say we are very toxic, but I don’t believe so.

      • Quay April 2nd, 2022

        I feel like it can come off as toxic only because of the ups and downs mistakes. But one thing ppl never wanna acknowledge is the effort both signs put in to make shit work. Outsiders will never understand and that ok with me. Long as me and my husband understand that’s all that matters.

    • Chelsea November 20th, 2022

      I met one. I love him dearly. We met at work and our connection is unmatched. It is a push and pull. I moved away. I hope to have my king and marry him.

  4. Geminivirgo January 11th, 2022

    As a Gemini Cancer cusp ♊️ man I can say that if both are mature, this can be a great relationship as each can balance each other.

  5. Ethan December 9th, 2019

    Virgo maidens are ruled by mercury…they are perfectionists.
    If it helps, here’s a free 2020 Forecast for VIRGO:

  6. Chieftain January 3rd, 2019

    Is Gemini man and Virgo wom good for marriage?

    • Emz June 3rd, 2021

      Hardly… Why struggle? Better find Taurus for Virgo.
      Gemini is good for fellow air sign, and can be with fire sign Leo or Aties.

      • Marie June 5th, 2021

        I’m a Virgo woman, and I’m here to say Virgo Gemini relationships are very possible. My current fiance is a Gemini, and we have been together for 5 years so far and it is by far the best relationship I’ve ever been in, and I’ve been with Taurus’ and Cancers’ supposedly the most compatible signs to a Virgo. The best analogy for my personal relationship with a Gemini man is that I am the sturdy reliable nest. I will always bring protection and comfort through the hottest of summers and harshest winters. With me around, he will always have a home to fly to. He is the wild free bird flying and exploring the world and all its many wonders. He will always fly back to me at the end of the day, he will build me up if I fall apart, entertain me with all of his many stories, and most importantly, he will ensure I am never bored lol. If you want to get into a relationship with a wild bird, just remember wild birds do not belong in cages.

      • Ann October 20th, 2021

        Not really. I am leo. My husband is gemini. 10 years marriage and everything when wrong.

  7. Bulb November 19th, 2018

    Gemini guy that I had dated for a few months tried to bang a random girl in a hostel, in a foreign country he traveled to ( he would never state beforehand, that he wants an open relationship or that he wants to sleep with other people). I found about all this, after we broke up.
    He would brag to his friends about it (one of them was a common friend).
    While we were together, we would usually text every day, but during his trip, he wold be online and ignoring my messages. After he returned, he told me (without me asking) that he had no internet connection. Right… Following days, he behaved as usual, we got intimate, he said that he loves me, as if nothing happened. We broke up later, and 5-6 months after the break up, I found out that he gave me HPV. Looking back I just don’t get why he put on this façade ( why even bother saying “i love you” to a person, when you don’t mean it). It was such a waste of time, feelings and money on my part. Learned my lesson…moving on…

  8. Cheyenne October 21st, 2018

    I just hooked back with my gemini after 15 years of running from him at the time he was all over the place i loved him so i moved away so he could do whatever without bitching him out all the time he found me. I was shocked when i heard his voice on the phone i still live him. Im going to be patient and see where it leads he says he grew up i don’t do stupid i don’
    t even know otherwise i would not have left before

  9. Erin May 8th, 2018

    I have been talking to a Gemini male for several months now. From everything I have read it appears they are just distant and emotionally unattached. As a Virgo woman i need attention and communication. I feel that if I didn’t text him daily I wouldn’t hear from him and he does talk about sex alot. In the past I would of blown it off like all he wants is sex but i have spoke to so many that say that is a Gemini male for you. When i go all day without texting him he does message me. And i have received a few drunk dials that I allowed to go to voicemail where he confesses something dumb he has lied about and then goes on the 8 more minutes about how special i am and how much he really likes me and wants to see where we go. It doesn’t help that we live 1.5 hours apart and also work different shifts. GOING CRAZY is an understatment lately with me trying to figure it out. Often times I lose interest due to things not going my way and in my timing. I am trying not to do that but I also notice it affects my mood daily and I can’t stand it 🙁

    • Lucy November 20th, 2022

      I felt this.

      Have you experienced deep emotional conversations with him? Mine we jump from both.

  10. jackieskeet April 3rd, 2018

    I’m a virgo woman and I dated a Gemini man for 5 months until he broke up with me through text. I’m not sure why but he was probably tired of me bringing up my insecurities. I have been in a very bad relationship before him where my ex fiancé if 2 years left me with another woman. But anyways, long story short, he was in Alabama and I was in Nashville, that one night I texted him after we got into a huge fight the week before. All I ever said to him was I love him and he said, I don’t think we should be together. he hurt me so bad sometimes I ask how did he go from saying I LOVE YOU routinely to no contact for almost three weeks now. how is it possible. I’m not gonna lie, there has been major differences in our lifestyke because hes very country and I’m straight Hawaiian. so I feel like sometimes opposite attracts doesn’t really work for some people. Even up til now I still wait for him to call me back but I just have a feeling that hes totally over it.

  11. Alayna March 9th, 2018

    I’m a female Virgo 15 and recently I’ve got on a relationship with a Gemini boy 16 and to be totally honest I’ve never been more in love with someone in my whole life we’ve been dating for about four months and we’ve gotta into a couple of arguments, his words can cut like a knife its true Gemini men have a silver tough but he always speaks his mind and being the introvert I am I always just wonder how he always knows just what to say. I Love ❤

  12. Terri February 9th, 2018

    I am a Virgo woman with a Gemini man we have dated for nearly a year and moved in together recently our sex life is amazing and never boring although he’s much more demanding than any other partner the only downside is he’s so possessive I can hardly move and very old fashioned in his values. I overcome the negatives as I do believe he’s one of the few loyal partners I have had. Also he always has to be right the first few months we did nothing but argue but now I have leaned to just ignore things that he says that I would usually go mad over we have a very loving relationship

    • Lola August 31st, 2020

      I’m a virgo woman fking with a gemini man. I have been sleeping with him since 2015. We have had other relationships yet we kept cheating with one another. Now we are both single and he wants to be exclusive. I have started seeing another side. Jealous possessive, emotional and overly affectionate. I love him I do but the virgo in me hates the jealous overly affectionate clingy side. I even offered to bring another woman in the bedroom. I really feel like he smothering the fk outta me. It’s fking with me bad. I hate this BS. I don’t know what to do.

  13. Audry December 20th, 2017

    I’m a Virgo women with a Gemini man and we’ve been strong for 8 months. He takes things slow just like me. he always gives me hugs and cuddles. He makes me forget all my insecurities. I love him so much!

  14. star13003 December 19th, 2017

    so im a Virgo women and I’m with a gemini man. We’ve been together for a month now. i need help because i really like this man. the thing is he’s so used to getting his way, and I’m not like that. I love the feeling of a man chasing me. And he sure does but we tend to bump heads when it comes to sex. See I’m wanting to wait. Im not like most women i respect myself, and i like to wait before i give it up. Now he tells me he really likes me and he wishes he could show me intimately. The thing is he also rushed us into being together. I feel like he’s only rushing just to get into my pants so he can leave. I also have trust issue due to past relationships, and i do tend to overthinking a lot. which I’ve notice i guess its normal for a virgo to over think. The thing is this guy feels like my one. He really does feel right. Ive read that gemini’s are not loyal but he seems very serious and he has been in long term relationships as he’s told me. I just want to know if its normal for a gemini man to be like this. Is it normal for them to rush things? is that in there nature? or does he really wanna just get in my pants. Or do you think he really just likes me and wants to be with me. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME.

    • Michelle VanPoole January 13th, 2018

      I’ve read your comment, and being a gemini, who has dealth with numerous Gemini males. I can astest to the fact , that yes …The Gemini is exactly as you precocsive him to be…. With that being said anyone can be spoiled … Not to say that this is a good Thang… But hey it is what it is…. All you need to do is ask yourself one question…. Do I want this Man or not…. Weather he Gemini or any other sign, He’s still a Man….SO ACT LAKE YOU KNOW….. DONOT PLAY MIND GAMES… SPEAK YOUR PEACE, ITS WORLD …. SELF-SATISFACTION IS KEY TO LONGEVITY, HORMANY…. THINK ABOUT….TAKE CARE OF YOU💜

    • princess omooba January 9th, 2022

      Gemini men may be like that. They’re not bad, but have a short attention span. If he says he loves you, he probably does, for now. Try to make your own happiness. Don’t let your happiness depend on his mood, and don’t tell him what I say either. But your confidence in your self will be infectious and will keep infecting him.

  15. Chuck July 11th, 2017

    Am an Gemini male and am talking to a Vigo woman . She’s manipulative and tries to control me . When I don’t give her , her way she yells and screams at me . It seems like she’s the Gemini , she uses her words like a sword . She has a hard time letting me in I don’t know why she wants to get back together with me . I think she needs her ego stroke because she scared off another guy and is insecure. Things go good for a while then she turns into a manipulative bitch that wants her way or no way .Am going to give her another chance because am such an elusive and exclusive person am very lonely. She’s such a bitch she can’t maintain a relationship so she’s lonely too . Loneliness is bringing us back together . This is going to be another one last time again.

    • Daniel January 2nd, 2018

      “It seems like she’s the Gemini, she uses her words like a sword”. Lol, shut the fuck up fuckin dumb. Geminis suck

    • Rachel Page January 2nd, 2018

      Sounds like you you need give this bird the elbow, you sound like you hate her lol

    • princess omooba January 9th, 2022

      Sounds like she’s very right about you. You need to agree that neither of you is perfect and not be so arrogant.

  16. Kaloniahi Haare July 7th, 2017

    Omg this is so accurate now that I have a better understanding of our relationship.

  17. Charlie April 24th, 2017

    This sounds like the both of us. Very accurate and helps in developing the relationship to it’s fullest.

  18. Jeremy Brown February 20th, 2017

    I am so fascinated by the new Virgo interest in my life. I can’t wait to see what this is going to be like!! The link i just read seems to describe us both perfectly. This is going to be 1 hell of an adventure full of love and growth.

    • Perry April 12th, 2017

      I feel the exact same way. It perfectly discribe my relationship with my Gemini man. But more then that, it helps me understand him & some of the problems we have encountered. I get him much better now. Thank you. Ask-oracle. Com

  19. bnsn1987 December 22nd, 2016

    HA!!?!! Couldn’t be any farther away from the truth

  20. BlackVirgoHippie123 April 1st, 2016

    pleas read next one down this one is all jacked up

    • Alexandria Booker January 9th, 2017

      Girl you just told my life story, my Gemini boy is fine too! But we are kinda in a situation rn but we are planning to work it out in a very helpful way

      • LizzyFlower January 28th, 2017

        How is this going for you? I been dating a Gemini for a year and change

  21. BlackVirgoHippie123 April 1st, 2016

    So.. I am currently at a training center where I live on campus.. I have had a lot of experiences with a lot of different zodiacs like.. Leo I was head over heels in love with  that Leo.. Scorpio I guess my mid thought since he was a water sign that he would automatically have sensitive feelings towards Me I let him in I let my gad down and that was the worst thing I could’ve ever done I don’t think I will ever find a Scorpio man attractive ever again I just broke up with him and hate his guts the thought of him makes me want  to vomit.. And so I am now currently trying my luck with a pieces and yes he treats me good way beer than the Scorpio ever did but I feel like once he got me he got comfortable like he didn’t have to keep me and I’m a Virgo black woman.. I have no desire to waste my time on any man you can tell me you love Me till your blue in the face but I go by how you show it not tell it .. My Scorpio had a problem with that.. And so I stopped wasting my time and moved on with my pieces now I can’t say that I am fully happy but it was better than the last.. Now I have ran into a Gemini and boy is he fine!! he is extremely gorgeous it’s one of those guys where you feel like you will never have a chance with them cause you think their into like super model looking chicks but he actually finds an interest in me! but only thing is I’m with my pieces and I leave and graduate form my training soon and he will no longer get to see me face to face and so I’m treating each day as though its my last time seeing him which is sad because I want so much more from him we talked on the phone last night and we had an amazing time it’s like time didn’t exist omg I never thought he would take me into consideration I mean I’m cute but he is finnee!! and I mean gorgeous, beautiful any girl would be head over heels in love just by the look of him I mean my pieces is a hunk himself but it’s just something about that Gemini I think about him more than I do my pieces and I don’t like to hurt ppl especially when I have been hurt my Scorpio man was not that attractive he had no goals no ambitions and he was a turn off to look at but i gave him a chance based on personality which seemed to be ok for 4 months I’m a virgin so I did not let him do anything finally i moved slowly observing an analyzing him for what I thought he was and he showed me that all my assumptions were right he never cared I told my Gemini this and he made me feel so good and cherished like I was a queen or something it was like my heart was swaying in with him each minute we talked it was like heaven idk how this is going to work for a Virgo it seems that I have a bit of and unorganized messy situation right now but lets hope that god choses the path and i walk it we’ll see where it goes from here I’ve learned to take life to the fullest day by day and I think i might have a little Leo in me to or I just have really bad ADHD well yeah so that’s the story of this Black Virgo Hippie.

  22. BlackVirgoHippie123 April 1st, 2016

    So.. I am currently at a training center where i live on campus.. I have had a lot of experiences with alot f diffrent zodiacs like.. Leo I was head over heals inlove with  that leo.. scorpio I guess my mid thought since he was a wer sign that he woul atomatically ave sensitive feelngs twoards mei let him in I let my gad down and that was the worse thing i couldve ever done I dont think I will ever find a scorpio man attractie ever again i just broke up with him and  hate his guts the thought of him makes me want  to vomit.. And so I am now currenty trying my luck with a picese and yes he treats me good way beer than the scorpio ever did but I feellike once he got me he got comfortable like he didnt have to keep me and i’m a virgo black woman I have no desire to waist my time on any man you can tell me til your blue in the face but I go by how ou show it not tell it .. my scorpio had a blem with that.. and so I stopped waisiting my time and moved on with my picese now i cant say that I am fully happy but it was better than the last.. now I have ran into a gemini and boy is he fine!! he is extremley gorgeous its one of those guys where you feel like you will never have a chance with them cause you think their into like super model looking chicks but he actually finds an intrest in me! but only thing is im with my pieces and I leave and graduate form my training soon and he will no longer get to see me face to face and so im treating each day as though its my last time seeing him which is sad because I want so much more from him we talked on the phone last night and we had a amazing time its like time didnt exist omg I never thought he would take me into consideration I mean im cute but he is finnee!! and I mean gorgeous, beautiful any girl would be head over heals in love just by the look of him I mean my picese is a hunk himself but its just something about that gemini I think about him more than i do my pieces and I dont like to hurt ppl especially when I have been hurt my scorpio man was not that attractive he had no goals no ambitons and he was a turn off to look at but i gave him a chance based on personality which seemed to be ok for 4 months im a vigin so I did not let him do anything finally i moved slowly obseving an analiyzing him for what I thought he was and he showd me that all my assumptions were right he never cared i told my gemini this and he made me feel so good and cherished like I was a queen or something it was like my heart was swaying in with him each minute we talked it was like heaven idk how this is going to work for a virgo it seems that I have a bit of and unorganized messy situatuon right now but lets hope that god chosses the path and i walk it we’ll see where it goes from here i’ve learned to take life to the fullest day by day and I think i might have a little leo in me to or i just have really bad adhd well yeah so thats the story of this Black Virgo Hippie.

  23. Sparkygreeneyes January 9th, 2016

    Kathy hang in there. It really will be worth it if you can give your Gemini some head space. In saying that to much might leave a Gemini to be lazy in their thinking!
    How do I know this my husband is a male Gemini I the female Virgo. And our kids a daughter and son are both Gemini’s too!
    They are highly intelligent in fact academic’s but not always good with their “emotion’s” so to speak.
    However once their mind is made up you can’t stop them when they are absolutely “sure” on something! They will go after it with a fierce reserve like no other! Acting aloof and somewhat interested is the key here! Trust me on this one!!! ?☺
    I love my Gemini’s they are witty, smart and fickle to boot but I wouldn’t want them any other way! The only one who truly drives me up the wall at times is our son when in love! But having said that he is just like his dad “all or nothing”!
    It’s truly worth it to love or fall for a Gemini! And yes they can be loyal as the day is long!
    I find my relationship with our daughter so loving and refreshing always!
    I guess I have the right to say I’m a glutton for punishment having a daughter born on the 1st of June Hubby the 2nd of June and our son the 4th of June!
    But they also have to put up with a very analytical thinker in me as a Virgo too!
    But it does and can work very well! ?☺

    • Nush 1 day ago

      Hahahahaha i read all of those comments… But yours filled my heart with laughter. How beautiful to deal with three Geminis now. My man is also gemini and I love him to death 🙂❤ and I want him to be my man for life. Pray for me..

  24. Blueeyestoo January 7th, 2016

    I am a 40 year old virgo and my bf is a 45 year old gemini. I love him dearly. We have not been together long maybe 2.5 months but we met over 10 years ago and have been friends in passing for that long till now when I finally gave into his trying to see me for so long. When we first got together it was great. He’d come see me at work he flirts with me and makes advances towards me. But when it comes to sex or cuddling it’s not so good, he just pushes me away and tells me to go to sleep. He has not had a relationship since 09, I’m thinking that has alot to do with it. He says he’s nervous about our relationship. What should I do, just sit back and wait for him to come around or what. He says he loves me and everything it’s just he seems to be getting uninterested in me it seems or is it me being a virgo and over reacting in this situation. Someone pls help give me some advice. I can’t seem to get comments so pls email me at ty pls I need help

  25. Blueeyestoo December 17th, 2015

    I just have a quick question for the virgos and gemini out there. I’m in love with a gemini and it’s be this way for the past 12 years. But I just never gave him a chance,but finally been with him for little over a month now, but he is so different than what I’m use too. He’s laid back,speaks his mind and thinks that getting along with us and everything then the good stuff like sex will follow. I understand that they are more distant than us, but is this one of the traits of a gemini? Is this what everyone says about diffences? Pls help I just don’t wanna come on to strong. Wanna make him extremely happy

  26. Blueeyestoo December 17th, 2015

    I just have a quick question for the virgos and gemini out there. I’m in love with a gemini and it’s be this way for the past 12 years. But I just never gave him a chance,but finally been with him for little over a month now, but he is so different than what I’m use too. He’s laid back,speaks his mind and thinks that getting along with us and everything then the good stuff like sex will follow. I understand that they are more distant than us, but is this one of the traits of a gemini? Is this what everyone says about diffences? Pls help I just don’t wanna come on to strong

  27. Sayga23 August 15th, 2015

    I’m a Virgo woman who has had a bad relationship but before I was in this relationship there was this Gemini man that would pick on me and joke at me when we worked together but I thought he was being a butt couple of months down the line after I left that job we started talking and right now I’m so drawn to him that I hope one we can be in a relationship but he’s so mysterious to me sometimes…si far he is warming up to me but I’m scared sometimes because I don’t wanna be played anymore but I guess only time will tell..

  28. khacho January 14th, 2015

    I’m writing 4 years ago, but I’m honetly hoping u got what u so desired for..!! I’m Gemini male.. I would say too romantic sometimes.. I’ve had couple of crushes through my life & none of them worked out.. there was a Leo, Virgo, Pisces, Aquarius & Virgo again.. the feeling with the first Virgo, years ago faded away really quickly.. but this particular one.. I don’t know what to say.. I’m not the person who falls in love instantly, but the Gemini nature allows me to get attached to people very easily & strongly.. Sparky.. as u’ve mentioned urself that u have to drive 3 hours to see her.. I wish I was that close myself.. I wish, I could be there to get to know her more & more.. I want to show her my side which she hasn’t seen yet.. the moment I shook her hand when I met her last year at the end of December.. don’t know what happened.. I was LOCKED..!! We had quite some conversations while she was here & we had some sexual exprience as well, but now she’s gone & she lives far, far away.. In California.. When I’m in Sweden at the moment.. And I’m not even from Sweden.. I’ll be leaving & going back to my country soon enough and I’ll be even more far away.. I don’t know what to do.. I don’t what to say to her.. So, my friend.. use ur chance & drive as many hours as there is & just take an example from me.. I’ve to fly 15hrs+ & drive a lot to even get to see her..!! The problem right now is.. how I forget her.. It’s not easy for Gemini to do that..!! It’s not.. 

    • Marie June 5th, 2021

      I wonder what happened since then

  29. MoonGirl99 January 4th, 2015

    My parents are a Gemini and a Virgo and although their personalities are incredibly different, I can say that such differing signs can result in a long-term relationship. They only need to listen to each other.

  30. whatlove89 July 5th, 2014

    I was in a relationship with a gemini man for 2yrs and it was so great. Im a Virgo woman and we broke up about 1month and a half ago because he simply wanted change and said he just didnt have time for me anymore. Simple way of getting out of a relationship, I think. Well I still Love him he was my bestfriend my confidant, my lover, my everything.  I know he still Loves me but how can i get him back if he wants space and venture out and me being a virgo am impatient And want it my way of course.  Please advise. I still have high hopes. 

  31. yello_lovebug December 13th, 2013

    @Loobie how’s everything?
    we were fwb for 4 yrs and I cannot stop thinking about him.
    not an ideal situation but we were single and needed each other.
    there were signs it was more for him too but he never stepped up.
    shrugs such is life ehhh

  32. Loobie March 1st, 2013

    I have been with a Gemini for the past year and I instantly fell in love with him, I knew he was the one after our second date. He’s liked me since school and we are both now 36 and never did I think we would end up together. He is so much fun I just completely adore him and he drives me crazy in the bedroom department, he taps into that wild side. Then after 3 months it went sour. There’s no emotion from him, he says he loves me but I don’t see it, I get no affection, he doesn’t desire me or want me. He goes out all of the time with his mates and leaves me at home. He’s a very angry person so when he blows up its scary. I have a calming influence on him so he’s made it obvious he’s always needed me. Our connection and bond is so strong, I literally have never felt this strong about anyone. We were on the same page, wanted a family I just don’t know what went wrong. I’m organised, he’s not therefore he becomes very stressed. I help him out but he sees it as criticism. He eventually became nasty called me boring, safe, reliable and made me very insecure. A very selfish man who never considered my feelings. He dumped me 4 months ago, my world has collapsed, my heart hurts without him. I’m too scared ill never feel that easy about anyone else. I never gave up on him but he did me and I fought for it but no good. Ill never look at a Gemini ever again. 🙁

  33. al-ex January 8th, 2013

    @ :  ….just be there for him, gemini’s  are strong and capable of anything and so make excellent killing machines in a war, however,  they sooner or later let their guard down and then all that have   been through catches up with them, like when the stress is over and the physical costs hits youh three days later,  well imagine what war has done to your already big hearted emotional guy,  it could take a long time for him to come to terms with what he has seen and done and for him to learn how to protect u from it. hang in there and be there ready to talk when he needs to unload and you will be able to help him heel, thats when you will get your man back. =)

  34. al-ex January 8th, 2013

    Hi guys, Well I’m a gemini male who has found a virgo female. Firstly let me say that I am a May gemini not a June gemini. Difference being is that may gems do flirt but that’s about it where as june gems sleep around. There are more differences but they’re not important here. What can I say, the virgo female blew me away, she is a lady, she is fun, she is intelligent, she is whitty, she is a whore in bed and she loves to be adored which I do and she loves to be loved again which I do and she loves to love back safely which she does. We are an amazing mach and yet I never thought id ever end up with a virgo after having known some family and work colleague virgos. My first two wives have messed up cheated etc. She will be my third and I’m so happy about it, I will be her second and we can’t wait, literally!
    alex & christine

  35. Heather62 June 18th, 2012

    I’m a Virgo woman and my boyfriend is a Gemini. We’ve been together for about a month, but have known each other about a year. I agree with everything stated above. Me and him are so in love it’s crazy. We are very different, but those differences are what makes us. We never fight but when we do it doesn’t last long at all. He is always the one to apologize straight away. He is super fun. I could be with him forever. He is really cuddly, and great at it. Also he is a very passionate lover. 
    I think this is a great match. I don’t have one complaint about him or us. It’s rather perfect. I’d suggest a Gemini man to any Virgo woman, or vice versa. 🙂

  36. March 23rd, 2012

    I am a virgo 13 sep he is June 19 ..
    Aaah how du I start hmm well , it’s very true tht we Virgo serve all the time and nevere think of geting severed !!
    I am madly on love with him since past 5yrs so , is he..
    Sumthings I feel he ignores Me n stuff lik tht bttrust Me alws when I hell at him he jus takes it does not say a word I feel I alws eat up his space and I am very dominating aaah yet with all of tis difference we hav come tis far thank god..
    One key advice is pls don’t think ur guy is not rest less like u jus tht thy don’t express it and u ovr re-act thoar of time..
    Giv him his space and jus c the amount of love he will shower on u..
    I am sorry I complete disagree tht Gemini guys are not loyal they are very committed though at times their eyes wonder (look at gals and admire) being a Virgo I too du tht !!

  37. Tatikay February 28th, 2012

    @sana am going through the same thing..he is loving sometimes and the other times i feel ignore sighh but he is not a bad person

  38. virtualvirgo December 20th, 2011

    I’m a Virgo female in love with a Gemini male who is one of my best friends. Normally, this is fine since we’re not in a relationship. It stinks when he tells me about his girl crushes, but I can’t really say anything since we haven’t put ourselves out there yet. And I’m not sure that I’d want someone that emotionally closed off. He runs scared when he’s a little too honest with me. But I also appreciate the fact he reminds me to lighten up and to relax. To conquer life when my insecurities get the best of me.
    I think we’ll eventually date. Just not…soon. We have a lot of chemistry, though. I’m not a prim-and-proper Virgo, either. I’m far more adventurous in the love department. 

  39. coko_chanel November 23rd, 2011

    @ well like the article clearly states that “Gemini man, on the other hand, is not one for familiarity. His excessive desire for change causes his Virgo woman to begin to doubt herself and his devotion toward her.” So with that being said its just that he longs for change but Geminis are so wishy washy he will go back to his oldself..unfornately when he see what he has been missing. Trust me Ive been there!

  40. coko_chanel November 23rd, 2011

    I am a virgo woman…sure I have a couple of loves in my life but none other than that gemini guy i had. At first sight there was an instant attraction . The way he looked at me… wow i use to get shortness of breath. Being with him made my days brighter. It was such a challenge to figure him out in the beginning with led me to be unsure of myself. After awhile being a Gemini that he is he let his guard down and I just got even more madly in love with him that it scared me. Its like he had me all figured out. I want him back so bad I really dont know if I will have that same feeling with anyone else….

  41. DK0528 October 17th, 2011

    I am a Gemini male and my first love was a Virgo. I am May 28 and she was Sep 13. We first met in high school. I was 9th grade, she was 10th grade and she was well over a year older than me. We were in a relationship for nearly a year a year after that when I was in 10th, her 11th until she ended up moving. We kept in contact for a quite a while but eventually it became too difficult for us as we began to grow apart from the long distance and not seeing each other ever. It hurt for a while every day after she left…To this day ten years later after seeing that she is now married on facebook, of course I still wonder how things would have played out

  42. Caramel_Virgo October 11th, 2011

    @ Its weird because my cousin is in the army and hes a gemini and shes a virgo and something happened between them also after he came back from deployment from Irag. He would not tell me exactly what went wrong but they are divorce. He says I remind him of her. 🙂 So hang in there. And I hope everything goes ok.

    Im a virgo and my future boyfriend is a gemini:He just don’t know it yet.

  43. Cinnamone48 September 24th, 2011

    Thats soo sweet yayyy virgos

  44. JoJo88 August 12th, 2011

    I’m a virgo woman and some of this is true and some of it is not. The reason some of it is not true is because my husband had deployed so he has gone from being affectionate to not being affectionate at all. He’s distant like crazy. & me being a virgo, it makes me second guess myself and wonder if I am good enough for him. Before his deployment, this article hit it all for him. Now, he’s too distant and quiet. We’re in marriage counseling but he puts no effort into helping the marriage. He’s also not very adventurous in bed like this states them to be. It’s actually me who wants to try new things and he backs down. Kind of weird… We had so much in common and so much fun before his deployment. So I guess this would be true for the men who have not deployed and seen stuff you cannot imagine. In his case, I can see why he has changed. I still love him and I always will, he’s got me by his side until he says otherwise.

  45. Keewatinz Cat April 10th, 2011

    my gemini drives me love crazy…weve only been togetehr for 2 months so far but every moment with him is a memory ill never forget..this guy makes me feel so free and i can just be me and he accepts it all….im glad he found me cuz id probably still be in my emotional ways and having insecurities…thank u u baby

  46. Kyle A. Lawrence March 24th, 2011

    and if she is reading this, i want her to know that i have never wanted anything bad between us just only empathy and trust

  47. Kyle A. Lawrence March 24th, 2011

    I once knew a virgo and she was an amazing/beautiful creature of God’s green earth

  48. sana February 25th, 2011

    i m virgo and i love gemini alot,but its too difficult for me to understand his mind,sometime he is tooooo loving but smetime he fully ignore me

  49. kesha February 17th, 2011

    I’m a 34yr old virgo woman, who is now seeing a gemini man, whom I’ve actually dated when I was 17-18. He was kind of a player back then, but what 17-18 yr old wasn’t!?! lol Anyway, a little over a year ago he found me on a popular social network and he wanted to rekindle, but my mind and heart was in another place. We talked and he asked me to be his wife. I thought he was joking around, so I told him, “yes!” I always had feelings for him, but never allowed them to surface. It fizzled out, because of my lack of interest, until 3 weeks ago. I decided to text him, to see how he was doing, but he didn’t respond, until a week later. After a few short text messages, he asked me again, “are we still getting married?” It was as if he knew, that we belonged together. Ive been single for 7yrs today. This has been the BEST two weeks of my life. I was nervous at first and afraid of another failing relationship, but I know, that I know, that I know, he is the one! I love you Jonathan and I want the world to know it! I am ready! I look forward to our future together! Thank You God!

  50. Tash February 16th, 2011

    I am a virgo with a gemini man and I cannot stand some of his ways but I love him and we work through our differences

  51. doreen February 6th, 2011

    hey sophia….ur story is totally wat happened to me….. strange….!!!

  52. Sophia January 29th, 2011

    I am a Virgo female with a Gemini partner-I can honestly say that everything I have just read is completely true. My partner & myself were young lovers- we parted then as he was a bit of a player &i was “better the devil you know!” even his friends would tell me “don’t think you’ll be the only one” jealousy? Maybe? …I chose to listen.
    We separated yet I still met him on random nights out & ended up back at his- our connection intellectually was intriguing to me- also just feeling him touch me made me feel alive- I’d always find that if nothing happened between us I would regret it!-which was generally the opposite with my other sexual encounters. I then met a cancerian and had a son- I found him to be completely on another wave length & cannot point why I was ever with him to be honest, being a cancerian he would always run home to mummy-even preferring to eat at hers rather than with me (I’m medditarian so I can cook!).
    I found myself looking out for my Gemini guy- seeing workmen and double looking just to “check”- then I went out to watch football with some girlie friends at a local bar-a guy starts talking to me that I do not know and my friends are surprised I don’t know him, telling me his name and surname, so I ask him how his brother is,he told me he is single & his house mate, turns out he had been talking about mevthe night before- so I take his number call him and we meet up…. Butterflies………… We have literally been together since… 6 years!!!!!!

    I have to admit that “thinking” about his past & his many conquests makes me feel physically sick-so I try to avoid them thoughts, he like me found himself looking for me-above all we missed our friendship-our sex life for me just being a bug bonus. 🙂 he makes me feel great about myself- I literally have some kind of body dismorphia so he helps me no end, and I (I believe) keep him organised and help stream his very varied thought process- I have to ask him repeatedly to do things I.e sign paperwork I have written -fir his benefit to the point where I feel k
    Like I am nagging him .lol…. I believe although he gets annoyed he knows that everything I do or ask him to do is for the benefit of our family.
    I will be the making of us just by organisational skills that he seems to lack-although he will not admit to this!…
    We hardly ever argue,although when you do there is a major blow-up, normally down to him overlooking something that emotionally I need him for-I will get on with my organised life and he will realise that without me he gets the shakes-and unless he finds another Virgo may never have an intellectual conversation with a female again hahaha 🙂
    Overall we have a lovely relationship 🙂

  53. BG January 26th, 2011

    We are a gemini man and a virgo woman who will soon reunite after 30 years. We are ditching our 30th year high school reunion to be together. His romantic and fun side has convinced me that I need to come out of my shell a bit after being divorced for several years. Enjoyed reading your comments, gives me the courage I somewhat am lacking. He still remembers our first and only kiss.

  54. Jaycee January 17th, 2011

    I’m a virgo woman, and my boyfriend is a gemini man. We’ve been together for only 2 weeks now, but i’ve been good friends with him for abt 5 years now. We just get one another, altough we are complete opposites. i’m quiet, conservative and he’s outgoing & he expresses his feelings for me so easily, i feel so comfortable around him, sometimes i question it all. it’s all too perfect, hehe. i’m glad we got together. ; ♥’

  55. A Young Gemini Man January 13th, 2011

    I am not one who is experienced to love (at least in this life, I believe I have lived before), but I strongly believe I am madly in love with a Virgo girl. My situation is similar to Sparky’s, except I’m not sure if she feels the way I do…she’s very unusual, in a way that she can come off as cold, but is probably one of the warmest people I know…I have had hints that she feels this way, and I have had hints that she doesn’t…all I know is that the only other time I’ve felt such a strong attraction to someone was awhile ago, with a cancer…she is now basically my sister.
    One big difference with this Virgo:It’s stronger. She seems to be good at concealing things(it seems like she is, perhaps), and this may have something to do with the doubt that most Virgos have…we often don’t talk unless someone else starts the conversation, and we often don’t even meet eyes when we walk past each other…for me, it’s because I love her, for her I can only guess that she may be getting that hint…
    All I know for a fact is that she’s beautiful, a genius, and the best singer I know…it just worries me that, if I tell her how I feel, we may never talk again (like I said, we barely do now).

  56. Danielle December 20th, 2010

    And on another note, we make better friends. Cause we are able to confide in eachother etc. I would also have to say as far as the sex went– I have NEVER had as great of sex as I did with him. We fit perfectly as far as the sex went. He thinks so as well, since he does come back and ask for it lol– I don’t and have not given into his advances since we split. Especially since he found a new gf who he is still with the day we broke up. It’s safe to say the Gemini does not live in his past, but he is willing to have fun at all cost.

  57. Danielle December 20th, 2010

    I was with a Gemini man, for 4 years. The first 3 years it was amazing! great we did sooo many things together. However the last year, all we did was argue, he changed into something I didn’t recognize we fell out of love. To say he wasn’t a great guy would be a lie. However when he got angry it was scary. He never hit me but he never thought twice about calling me horrible names. Then he would switch and be sweet etc like nothing happened. Eentually we just decided we didn’t get along. We could ALWAYS talk, we never got bored, however when he changed the relationship and what we wanted changed.

  58. virgo December 15th, 2010

    virgo myself….my gemini man is extremely passionate,very intelligent,expressive and very romantic……we have our misunderstandings, the fact that we are both communicators , issues get ressolved quick and we move on fast…i love it!! life is exciting and thrilling with him, hes always on he go…very sponataneous!!! however i dont know why is he crazy about me??? i am his complete opposite…im simple,calm, collective …..

  59. Lunathevirgo December 3rd, 2010

    I have been in love with a gemini for a long time. I hope we can be together.

  60. lovebug November 15th, 2010

    Soooo I’m a virgo female crushing on an older gemini guy this is very informative I feel so close to him when we talk its amazing

  61. virgo_female October 31st, 2010

    ……and, Sparky, for God’s sakes, do your woman. If she’s a virgo, she’s got a wild side but, very intelligently hidden from all. Use your smartness and tap into her wild side, buddy. Six months is too long a wait to kiss her on the lips. Go get her, man. Good Luck!

  62. virgo_female October 31st, 2010

    What is written here, is very positively put. I wish it was this easy to make a relationship work. I’m a virgo and it makes me nervous, thinking, I might never be entertaining enough, even for the loyalest of the loyal gemini 🙁

  63. zafer and praseetha September 6th, 2010

    im gemini and i had fallen in love from last 04 years and married her(virgo woman). we are very happy partners and we leaving our life joyfully and our love life is very thrilling.Most importantly for beautiful life there is no such compatible signs between two hearts

  64. Sparky August 31st, 2010

    I am madly in love with a Virgo woman. She is intelligent, beautiful and she knows where every button I have lives. She is challenging, aloof, sensual and just plain drives me crazy, I have driven for 3 Hrs just to see her. I wish she was less challenging to be with. I would love to shower her with affection, but as it is I am lucky just to be able to rub my hand over her back. Its been like this for nearly 6 months. I have yet to kiss her on the lips ( she is driving me mental) I have never wanted someone so bad in my life.

    I suspect it is the fact that she is just so calm about everything, so organised and has an ecconomy of movement that drives me wild.

    She also has a sort of inner kindness of being that is so gorgeous I can’t put it into words

    I just plain love her. For all my sins I suspect that I always will – she is the first thing I think about in the morning and the last thing I thnk about at night.

  65. w June 29th, 2010

    i would love to get in with a virgo,im a gemini

  66. sunshine June 13th, 2010

    i like gemini men they r fun and do express there care and love in a nice lovely way, im a virgo myself 😉

  67. nitasadhu May 3rd, 2010

    gemini man & virgo woman :is it good for marriage

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