Virgo Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility in 2023
The Virgo woman has recently lost someone important to her. This is causing general feelings of upheaval for you both. The Virgo man may be struggling to connect with the Virgo woman and wonder what consolation is most appropriate. Being open, affectionate and present is most useful. The Virgo woman is feeling lost, looking to connect to a spiritual path. This is something you could embark on together. Try and gain some perspective by engaging in charitable work. Travel plans might have to wait given the recent personal upheaval. For the Virgo man, be honest and share a secret. The Virgo woman is ready for you both to be open and honest in a new way.
Virgo Man and Virgo Woman Relationship - Complete Guide
When both are Virgo, they value the same things in love, which is a good starting point in their relationship. Shared interests are important to both, but in this case, when two Virgos are together, it would make a little more sense to have different projects and interests as both tend to run the show.
A Virgo man is a very practical person with strong intellect and detailed information of all the aspects of life. He is usually success hungry, and takes short, calculated and precise steps to reach the desired destination. A Virgo male can easily analyze a situation and can be quite critical regarding it, if needed. When angry, he never becomes rash rather he keeps the feelings deep inside to hide them from people around him. Being sentimental is not the cup of tea for Virgo man. He fears commitment, so it takes quite some time for him to get involved in a relationship.
A Virgo woman is as an alpha female. She is an emotionally strong being who can handle anything thrown her way. She has clever wits and is a stickler who can point out flaws in almost anything but her motive is always to improve the thing and not to insult. She doesn’t look upon excessive emotion as either sensible or practical and maybe unresponsiveness to some degree which is due to her shyness. But when she chooses to love someone she loves him with all of her heart and soul. She can do anything possible for the man she loves.
Virgo man finds himself being very lucky being loved by a Virgo woman. She has anything and everything any other woman can offer besides being weak. She is determined and once she sets her mind on doing something she completes it with great achievement both in career and love. Virgo woman has great respect for her man and both the families that are a part of their lives. There is never a moment of boredom between the Virgo man and woman. They both have very bright minds, but lacks the know how to have a successful intimate relationship. Both Virgo man and woman are intellectuals and find a connection between their minds, but lack an emotional connection. If he does not attends to the passion needed by his Virgo woman he may lose her.
A Virgo man is not prince charming, so Virgo woman should never believe while involved with him that any fairy tale romance can come true in their relationship. He does not know how to romantically sweep you off his lady’s feet. If she can live without romance, then she finds herself with a very dedicated man who values his family and friends and of course his relation with his Virgo woman. There is always plenty of verbal communication between Virgo man and woman and once there is a loss for words, they can light the fire place and began leisure activities. But their frequent leisure conversations are not the meaningful conversations to enhance their relationship. It is the Virgo woman who has to take main responsibility for relationship because he often feels he has nothing to lose when a woman walks away because he enjoys being a loner.
As the love of Virgo man and woman blossoms, purity in their life is dissolved with such an unconditional love to be given to each other that make them complete and gratifies their existence. Virgo man gives her a sense of true peace and relaxation in her life while she provides him with stable support in all walks of life. Their understanding is unshakable with lots of fun and smiles to share with each other. They actually help each other to fulfill their dreams and make a dreamland come truly to existence with wisdom and love going hand in hand. There is total acceptance for each other with deep and overwhelming oneness that gives them a soothing and gentle experience for life time.
The female Virgo might find herself settling for tenderness opposed to a fierce fiery relationship in the bedroom. If they both choose to pay attention to one another they know exactly how to please each other. He carries a rigid demeanor in the bedroom which often creates quarrels between the two about lovemaking. She can become disgruntled by the long periods of retreats between making love again. She begins to think she is doing something wrong during lovemaking, causing the long periods of wait for another go in the bedroom. She starts to internalize everything and feel that he no longer desires or wants her. The lack of sex will cause her self confidence to decrease. In order for these two to have a good sexual union they have to realize that lovemaking is not something that can be analyzed or broken down into details. If all else fails, it would be good for the Virgo man to dig in a special lovemaking time weekly to make her feel loved and needed and she needs to give her man the authority in the bedroom and get completely involved in their mating.
Though Virgo man and woman share almost same interests and values, yet they have to work on their differences in accepting each other’s flaws. They need to learn how to be critical of themselves before they can resolve any issues with others. A Virgo man and woman are light minded and intelligent. Virgos are able to spend a lot of quality time together, but lack that passion to keep a great relationship alive. One has to try a little bit harder than the other to keep the intimacy thriving. Of the two, the Virgo woman is the one who holds the key to passion. In a business sense or friendship they can move mountains. It would take a lot of work to keep a romance kindling between a Virgo man and Virgo woman especially when they are involved in their favorite projects and are focusing more on their worldly affairs than their relationship.
We both have same birth date I.e. 5 th sept 1978 married in 2019 mahashivratri. Both have several misunderstanding n quarrels there is no caring from the man nature is not good he is from village I m from metro city how to adjust to save our relationship cause he is not interested in becoming a parent too fonts me like anything sometimes extremely selfish sometimes I think I took a wrong decision by making a wrong choice
Only a Virgo can break through the mountain high walls of another Virgo. If you believe she is your soulmate never let her go you two can move mountains together
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This describes my relationship to a T…I’m amazed at how accurate it really is. As difficult as it’s going to be, I think it’s over.
I have never had a problem showing my romantic side of me. It’s one of skills and passions. I know how to keep it going I’ll never have a doll moment.
This is nothing like ours.. but he is aug23rd on the cusp.. we have a passion that’s unbelievable like sparks.. he walks in and I feel it.. when our eyes meet. I have to be touching him ..its magnetuc.. it’s been that way for 30 years
Tanishà. Nothing like keeping it real, just come out with what it is. One thing about a Virgos we appreciate honesty and the truth. Besides what do you have to loose?
I’m probably one of the worst Virgo men to deal with lol so I might be able to help when it comes to your sex life with a Virgo man
if sex isn’t happening as much that means it’s time to switch it up make things spicy open up your arsenal and go to war do things you said you wouldn’t do but don’t go against your morals maybe bring up trying out new things and ask about any new fantasies that might have caught his interest
I can relate to so many of these comments
Im married to a virgo man myself being virgo woman too fr 4 years. Yeah sometimes feel a lack of emotion in him,, but overall have a stable relationship and a very genuine strong trustworthy caring partner by mah side. Not only happy but lucky too.
My boyfriend & I are both virgos. We’ve been living together 7yrs. Things have been rocky between us lately. After reading the article I must say, this explains exactly us to a T. Yes! The lack of sex SUCKS and has become a major issue between us. Until a yr ago our sex life was awesome. I care a lot about him, the lack of intimacy between us leaves me feeling lonely. The more I fuss the more he pulls away. We aren’t married and I often wonder if he’s unhappy why is he still with me. Has he gotten comfortable in the relationship or is it over?
has it gotten any better?
Maybe he is just board. Maybe you can spice it up with a 3 some or swingers club
Try talking to him ! My boyfriend & I are both Virgos too ! Having seriously deep conversations about our differences always brings us closer . Virgos always enjoy a great exchange of meaningful words
Some Virgo men are very strong and caring, once they know that a woman will stick with him no matter what! you can forget it, he will be with you for life!
I am m vergo female and i’m in a reletion with vergo mam almost from 4 years. and we have the best relationship and we are perfect togethe.I will not regre it. ?. We are the happiest couple ??
I’ve been dating a Virgo for 4 months now. I thought that he was the one. He would often tell me how beautiful my mother is. I thought that he was trying to charm me into to thinking we could grow old together. The other day he forgot his phone at my house when he went to work.. I know I shouldn’t have but I couldnt help myself and I went through his call logs.. turns out he’s been secretly dating my mother this whole time who is also a Virgo! Neither of them know that I know. I’m not sure who to confront first. I was planning on confronting him but that was before I found out I was pregnant!!
Dear Tanisha. First of all you don’t need him. He’s all wrong. You need a Scorpio. Scorpios never date older women. They are providers. Although the down side is if you have a daughter a Scorpio might leave you for her. Unless your daughter is a Capricorn. In that case she will probably be a lesbian. Hope that helps. Good luck
Derek.. thank you for the reply. You are so right about Scorpio’s! My sisters baby daddy is a Scorpio and he is quite the catch. I was with him right before she was but I’m glad he left me for her. They are so perfect together. She a Capricorn. She thought she was a lesbian once and dated this chick shanaynay for a year.
The Virgo I was dating for 4 months broke up with me today and him and my mom announced that they have been seeing each other behind my back and are expecting a baby! Neither of them know that I’m also pregnant with his child! What do I do?! I don’t believe having an abortion is right. But I also don’t want my child to have a brother/sister who is also their aunt/uncle. There is already enough confusion in the family.. my dad divorced my mom a few years ago and is now happily married to my Uncle Bobby (my moms brother, who is also a Virgo!). Any advice about my situation would be greatly appreciated!
My ex is a Scorpio I’m a Virgo and I’m older by 10,years so Scorpios do date older woman we lasted 14 years
You seem like a sneaky and deceptive person who is trying to manipulate Tanisha Franklin’s pain and sadness caused by her unrequited love she had for her Virgo partner to convince her that Virgo man Virgo Woman relationships does not work and that she should go for a Scorpio. That they are far better. With all due respect, Tanisha’s relationship with her Virgo ex did not work out because of mismatched Venus Position. Any good astrologer would tell you that Sun signs is not used to assess compatibility. The position of Venus, its directional strength,its aspects,conjunctions determine relationship compatibility. It has got nothing to do with sun sign. By manipulating this poor woman Tanisha who is nursing a broken heart, you are just giving reality to the rumor about you guys among st astrologer, that you Scorpios are deceptively manipulative and can go to any lengths to get what you want.
Omg! That’s so.. sad and disgusting and weird and… just ugh! I hope you mange to sort it out – you should probably talk to him first.
HONEY, YOU NEED TO LET THEM HAVE AT IT.
AND AS FOR YOU.
YOU NEED TO GET YO SHIT
AND MOVE ON. BELIEVE ME
IN THE LONG HAUL, TRUST
ME. YOU’LL BE GLAD U DID
I am a Virgo woman. I hate to say this, but I could not have that baby.
I’m a Virgo male and I’m dateing A Virgo female and we have the best relationship and we are perfect togethe.if your a Virgo try your hardest to find a Virgo. You will not regre it ?
I’m really happy for you. Unfortunately I know a Virgo-Virgo pair who divorced and had serious issues during their last years together. But that can happen with any relationship of course.
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typo meant “they are just as picky”
I am a Virgo woman who has dated 2 Virgo men & married 1 (me, him, & his mom shared the same birthday). Virgo men have similarities but they differ with maturity and individual life experiences, so they were all different. We got along but I could not stand them seeming to think they were millions of steps ahead of me. I often felt they missed the greatest part of this union which is we both understood our forever changing needs. I have never fallen completely so all of the break- ups have been rather bitter, except this last one with an August Virgo (same birthdate as my sister), which I feel makes a difference. He was passive- assertive-wanting to stay on the fence, briefly dating him reminded me of “marco/polo”; while I am passive-aggressive -let’s establish the rules of engagement and cut the games…be clear! It was this that caused the break up. With September Virgos the only issue is pushing each others buttons, which is hard to do if either feels attacked or at a disadvantage in an arguement. I really enjoyed all the Virgos but I see longevity with 2 August Virgos or an August & September Virgo–yes even though we haven’t contacted each other and it died out pretty quickly! They are just as pick but much more laid back-outwardly anyway. Usually will not engage in silly arguements or show they are upset. I am going to wait him out & then some. The next time he sees me will be in person. All of this was done via text which is another thing- August Virgos just seem to want to feel right about what they do- can’t stand to be caught wrong but in all fairness they don’t complain much. They do not want a true meeting of the minds…unless they are right? I APOLOGIZE to any Virgos this may offend, this is just my experience as a Virgo woman.
I am involved with a Virgo man and I am a Virgo woman. We get along great…very good actually! We have a very strong emotional and physical attraction. He gets me and I get him and it’s just easy. No head games, no tit for tat. The only problem I could think of is that we both think way too much. Which prevents us from acting upon how we really feel but we have really good communication so in the end we nip issues in the butt before they really even become issues. He is always open to talk about any and everything as am I. When I talk he listens and actually hears what I have to say. We are ten years apart. He is 36 and I am 26. We are both very critical of each other and he will definately call me out and likewise for me. I will check him also but I know what place he comes from and I never take what he says too personally because I know he means well and has my best interest at heart and the same for him. He has a strong personality and so do I and we both have thick skin. Very Blunt. We pick fun at each other all the time over everything and he notices everything down to if I’m wearing makeup or not to my nails to my hair…but HEY I always stay on point 🙂 We both place a big emphasis on family which I love. The last guy I was with hated to do anything family related at all…So i love the fact that he is all about family especially since I have two very small children who are my entire world. He is a gorgeous man honestly… One thing that does frustrate me a little bit is that he does take very slow steps…and sometimes I feel like he is cautious to get too too close to me because he is afraid that I will hurt him. But since I have brought it up I can definately tell that he has taken it to heart and makes an extra effort to be more open to me, and that’s something that comes with time anyway because I’d be lying if I said that I was 100% ready to just give him my heart because I too am a little guarded as well. I hope that this gives anyone who’s interested a little hope as far as relationships go with a Virgo man and Virgo woman match up because everything it says in this article is 100% true to my relationship with a Virgo man. If you view being critical in a negative way then your relationship probably won’t last but if you accept each other for who you both are, keep lines of communication open and just enjoy each others company… your relationship will flourish! Good Luck Love Bugs
Iam a Virgo woman just started talking to a Virgo man for the first time. We are getting to know each other he is crazy he calls me aloto around the same time very day if I don’t answer he will keep calling. He gets mad if I tell him I will call him back and if I don’t call him the time I said he will call me back and say I lied to him. he calls me a lot while Iam working and I don’t answer he will said I should of went to the bathroom and answered it. Iam not sure if he is the one Iam looking for love my soul mate someone I can have my first child with. 🙂
help me lol
He is insecure, nothing to do with Virgo. His personality has formed that way due to his family background, lack of education, friends and so on. He is immature- that’s all
I am a Virgo women. I have been involved with a Virgo man on & off for 7 years. Right when I start caring again he takes off & disappears. Right when I get over him he comes back into my life. I try so hard to gorget about him but no one can have the same type of conversations he can. He makes me so happy when I’m with him I feel like I’m on cloud 9. I’m always careful at first but i cant stop myself from caring. Our sex life is always amazing at first then its like he pulls back & we go a while without
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reading this I’ve realized it’s not me
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I am a Virgo women involved with a Virgo man. He is my best friend. He’s funny, reliable, dependable, passionate several times daily, takes cares of me when I’m sick, holds things in until he blows up but I understand him so well and he’s apologetic shortly after, he’s reserved while I never meet a stranger. He prefers spending our time alone together. I like people in general he generally doesn’t encourage conversation with anyone he doesn’t know. He is not over weight but is so critical of himself. I couldn’t care what he weighs. However he’s critical of my eating habits. I love to eat and I used to get offended because people would ask why I was so skinny. When he’s dieting (he doesn’t need to) He tells me that I have gained 20 pounds. I gained 15 and actually look healthy finally. I have invited him to all my family functions over a years time but he hasn’t come. He hasn’t invited me. I know more about his family from him he adores them but I’ve never met them. They know nothing of me.He’s never been married. Lives alone. Only recently did he start spending the night at my home. I have 2 children. He is a wonderful cook. My home is noisy full of activity. I love dancing with my daughter or listening to my son tell me about stories of school or girls. He is starting to bond with them but they can feel he’s reserved. We are not sure if he really likes us at times. He thinks we are all crazy and retreats to my bedroom after dinner where I bought a flat screen smart TV with every channel for him to retreat to. For being so serious he loves futurama. He makes enough to provide if we lived together but instead pays twice as much for an apartment than I pay for a 2000 Sq foot house. He spends half his income on rent. If we lived together we could have a very comfortable life. This seems so impractical to me.With all that said he gets me so well. We don’t have the same opinions but we totally know the others without any doubt. He’s never been married. He’s 42 I’m 36. He says he wants a future but I don’t think he’s serious. I think he loves me wants me to do well enjoys our high libidos doesn’t want to be without me but will never fully commit. He used to think I wanted to much attention so I gave him space and now he thinks he’s missing out on attention I give to others. I truly love him and want him happy but am beginning to think he might be happier alone if he we weren’t so compatible in the bedroom. I also love to snuggle and he snuggles me all night. I don’t know if I will ever be what he wants me to be he’s full of self improvement ideas. Thing is I like me. Confused but in love and want him happy but I need him to tell me he’s proud of me instead of pointing out everything he deems negative. I love him unconditionally. Scared I’m spinning the wheels but no traction is being achieved.
Virgo men and Virgo women relationships are a hit or miss.
Several years ago I used to work as a receptionist at a hair salon and I overheard a stylist (who was a Virgo woman) and her customers, some who were also Virgos and other signs unanimously gave reasons for not wanting to date a Virgo man.
Moody, arrogant, liars, moochers, cheap, know-it-alls, selfish, egotistical, users, players and stubborn.
As a Virgo woman myself, I couldn’t agree with them more because I was briefly involved with one who fit all the above characteristics. Even a close girlfriend of mine whose a Scorpio said the same thing about a former boyfriend who was a Virgo. My fiance’s brother is a Virgo and from what I’ve learned, can’t stay in a relationship for long. As an exception, a male friend of mine and his wife are Virgos and they seem to be doing fine. I guess whatever is in their natal charts are agreeable. I wish them well in their life together.
I’m a virgo woman n of course my boyfriend of 3years is virgo also. Our relationship didn’t start on good moral seeing both of us where involved with other people but our meeting changed all that,we immediately felt the connection between us. Months later we broke-up because its purely not a virgo thing to cheat or hurt other people deliberately but my guess is we did what we did because we were not happy in our current relationships nonetheless we got back together again last year n finally with less baggages,we love each other infinitely,completely committed to our relationship kind n caring to each other,we talk for hours without notice,when we are together its like time just passes by and I’ll admit we talk more than we kiss or intimate. We enjoy each others company get along blissfully. However reading the comments about raised some concerns about other romance,which we hardly show because we are often busy trying to save the world,being there for our friends n family,we completely loyal but lack passion for one another.
@michd i agree with you 100% what you said sounded more like me than what this post said! i know some virgo males that are complete douche bags but then i only know a few that are like me and you. but idk about virgo females…i have an ex thats a virgo and her and i still sorta talk to this day. but the thing is when i lived in the same town as her she would always say lets hang out and do this and do that but when it came down to it she always has other plans then when i tell her lets hang out and i dont call for the first time she gets angry and wont talk to me for a while! she is so confusing but i one thing i can say is that she isnt like anyother of the zodiac females!! she is one of a kind and im sure she will make a wonderful wife one day!:)
After reading the original post I felt the same way you did. As I went on to read your comments, I wndered to myself if I was the one who actually wrote it because I feel the same exact way you do when it comes to my personality vs. what they claim I’m supposed to be. I’m that guy who takes the bigger steps towards commitment. I can go on and on but I’ll just end it like this — you are definately a stand-alone Virgo because we are very much alike my friend. I will use your experience and learn from it for my new relations with a Virgo woman whom I’m very much interested in getting into a serious relationship with. Good luck in your relationship.
Being a Virgo man, I was just curious what it could possibly be like to be with a Virgo female. I read this and I just kept thinking how wrong this is about who and what I am, but maybe I’m just different.
I am a very practical realist, yes. But, I’m also tremendously passionate too. I find myself lost in a relationship I’ve been in with a Cancer at times. I am so attentive to her, her needs, her wishes, that I tend to place more value on those than my own needs. But the lack of communication and passion I get back from her is practically null.
That’s what caused me to wonder what it would actually be like to be with someone who would be just as attentive as I was, someone who would actuallly want to communicate (and yes, I mean really communicate), and someone who had a high level of passion in everything. That’s what made we wonder if being with a female version of me could actually work.
In this relationship, I find myself as the support structure keeping us together. If I didn’t ever say anything though, or never have any issues, everything would be pretty much status quo every day. I’m the one that brings up how our relationship could be better. I’m the one that always trys to communicate and get her to communicate. I’ve been the one that was willing to sacrifice virtually anything to make her happy.
I’m a very driven person. I’m a self made person in many ways. I’m severely dedicated and committed. And yes, I have been the one to ask her to marry me, twice. So, this post saying that a Virgo male won’t want commitment…. as far as I’m concerned, that’s complete BS.
Same with the bedroom… I’m the only one that ever tries, she never comes on to me. Ever. Being around her, I feel like she’s my best friend, but that she doesn’t even want me, but doesn’t want me to leave. It’s insane. I have no fear about lovemaking, in fact, I long for that type of true, visceral connection with another person. But it just feels so damn empty here sometimes.
Literally, if I didn’t come on to her at all… we could go months with nothing happening. And I learned my lesson early on with her, she really doesn’t even seem to ever like me coming on to her, so I quit most of it and settle for what seems to me to be a relationship witn no depth or passion.
I know, this is my own fault for sticking with it. But, therein lies yet another lovely “virgoism”, at least for me. I am the type that doesn’t “give up”. I always hold out hope it will be better tomorrow if I do this or that. Mind you, she and I have been together nearly a decade. The times we’ve had our biggest issues in this relationship – that’s when I really started backing off and when I didn’t put as much time, effort and care for things as I normally do.
But maybe then, maybe I’m not much like a Virgo male at all. Maybe I’m just different. Life can do that to you sometimes I guess.
So, I am a male, and happen to be a Virgo. I love deeply. I show it often. I commit to no end. I care like there is no tomorrow. I am not shy, but reserved. I can be a socialite publically, and content with myself at home. I go out of my way to spend time with the woman in my life.
Reading this post really made me feel completely disconnected. Maybe this truly is how most Virgo men are I don’t know. I’ve only really known one that dated a friend of mine, and to be honest, I wanted to kick his ass because he was such a self centered, egotistical dips–t. If most Virgo men are like him, oh my god. No wonder they can write posts like this. I am nothing, and I mean nothing like him at all.
So… for all the Virgo women out there that may be wondering the same things I do… not all Virgo men are like that, at least, I would sincerely hope not. I for one can attest that there is at least one Virgo male who is not. My best to all….
i thought that taurus man are compatible for virgo women……..bt i was 50% wrong because once they are rude they’ll hurt you so much that it’ll break you in millions of pieces just as i’m broken since 7 months………………
I fell so hard for a virgo man….Well, I’m not sure if we’re really compatible though.But one thing for sure…He’s not my prince charming !