Virgo Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Virgo man and Aquarius woman can be a good match if they can overcome their differences and find common ground.
  • Sexual intimacy between them can be challenging due to their different needs and expectations.
  • Aquarius woman can attract the Virgo man with her intelligence, bubbly personality, and adventurous spirit.
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The combination of Virgo and Aquarius is quite a typical one. Aquarius gets off on visions, possibilities, and opportunities while Virgo is most concerned with making a relationship work. Mentally, both might have much to share but their physical aspects and worldly needs are very different from one another.

A Virgo man’s life revolves around himself. He is very analytical and pessimistic and expects perfection from those who surrounds him. He spends a lot of time pointing out the flaws of the others instead of looking in the mirror and finding the flaws within him. He is a focused person and due to it he may often miss all of the other things that are going on around him, such as the emotions of his friends or lover. Surprisingly, Virgo man is able to excel at carrying out the duties of a husband but the problem is to get him committed.

Aquarius woman is generally very friendly and sweet lady who is not just intelligent, but often genius. She may seem detached from the rest of the world but actually she is extremely alert, never missing a fine detail. She is very intuitive and often scary psychic. She is born with a fine tool that many others seemed to lack. Innately an alarm goes off inside of her telling her instantaneously something is not right. Love is not a very good idea for an Aquarius female in the beginning as she confuses it with friendship. But gradually she learns to care and feel.

Aquarius woman is very bubbly and friendly lady with an impressive intelligence to make a Virgo man fall for her. She loves to dream and admire her dreams and her fancy dream world. Nothing can ever stop her, not even her stable Virgo man. She brings a new spunk and excitement to the life of her Virgo male and shows him the horizons he has never ever dreamed of. Though it is not her ability to pay attention to fine detail, it is her intuition telling her that awakes her when something goes wrong or when he needs her helping hand. When she finds love that is fulfilling emotional, mentally and physically which she receives from her Virgo man, she is ready to head to the altar to get properly engaged. But sometimes she can be very cold and detached which can make him insecure.

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A Virgo man is sincerely devoted to his woman and this is what makes him a great match for Aquarius woman. Though, he needs a great amount of time to ponder before making life altering changes, even if he is completely madly in love but once he decides then he is the most dedicated and loyal partner. He and his Aquarius woman do not really bother each other with their natures, but they rarely have much to do with one another. The timing between a Virgo man and Aquarius woman is typically off. She has the ability to show many people how wrong they truly are, which does not suits well with to him. Once he smells his own stench of failure, usually pointed out by his Aquarius lady, he shuts down and no longer wants to communicate with her. Together they lack the communication needed to keep a relationship thriving.

As the twinkling eyed Aquarius woman solves the silent mystery of her Virgo man and brings in new dimensions of excitement in his life, they both enjoy the warmth and fun of life with unconditional love and stability that is a rare thing for Aquarius woman to experience. Their love has all the expressions of enthusiasm and romance and yet has a silent serenity. With her expressing face — having a flashing quicksilver exquisiteness for her Virgo man — and he having all the care and substance to give to his Aquarius woman — they make a perfect togetherness with blissful thoughts and deep intellect. Their achievements and accomplishments are so very delightful for them, that they always bring home the trophy of success when they work shoulder to shoulder supporting each other. Together they discover the inner beauty of hearts and relations and understand the oneness that keeps them close forever.

Sexual intimacy between Virgo man and Aquarius woman cannot be awarded as a very good experience. Virgo man has intense desires and way of expressing love while Aquarius woman takes love making for granted. She is one of the few women of the zodiac who is able to have a sexual relationship with a man while not being romantically involved. She can return to her own world of ideas and dreams with no strings attached. While the Virgo man has very different point of view regarding physical intimacy where it is both on emotional and physical level giving complete gratification to both the partners. If the two have any type of relationship it would be a friendship that from time to time involves meaningless sex. He requires a relationship to have some meaning. Therefore, the lack of empathy between the two may lead to an uninteresting love making where either one or the other feels unsatisfied. The one way to make it better is to understand each other’s need; Virgo man should be more creative in his physical expression while Aquarius woman should be more sincere towards their intimacy to make the relationship better.

As problems creep in the relationship of Aquarius woman and Virgo man, they get to move on in opposite directions more quickly then couple from other zodiac signs. When she finds that he has made a mistake that breaches their trust and loyalty she instantly becomes detached from the relationship. It is not that she is unable to forgive; it is that the purity of the relationship has been tainted with. She requires a pure clean connection with a man, so once the connection becomes fuzzy she disconnects and moves on to a new man who is able to provide her with purity. These two typically have a doomed stricken relationship. The only thing that can prevent destruction between the two would be true love. They may be able to find love in their intellectual worlds they both seem to live in. They both have to work very hard in order to keep a happy healthy relationship between the two.

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  1. Meii December 11th, 2023

    He wants me, my Virgo
    I want him, I’m an Aquarius
    I always feel him when he’s not around me, I KNOW WHEN HES WANTING ME
    I WANT HIM 24/7
    His touch I’ll do anything for it
    Amazing sex that feel electric
    I love him, he doesn’t know

  2. Steve August 2nd, 2022

    You got one guy who was hurt blaming himself like a typical Virgo. Other than that this reading is rubbish so many flaws where do I begin?

  3. Will March 31st, 2022

    This is so far from the truth it’s hilarious. Way off.

    • Wisdom February 17th, 2023

      What is the truth due to your experiences

  4. J October 12th, 2021

    I’m a Virgo man and was married for 8 years to an aquarius woman. All I can say is that everything I’ve ever read or heard about these signs in a relationship together are completely spot on, but be careful she will make you extremely jealous all the time, and won’t even realize she is doing it which was extremely hard for me to get use to. In fact this was one of the primary reasons for our divorce, but it was my Virgo insecurities that ruined this relationship for me and was by far the biggest mistake I’ve ever made. I’ve never lost touch with her and I don’t think I’ll ever feel this way about another woman ever again, so if you ever feel yourself getting caught up in the moment with your aquarius woman, don’t ever think twice about anything and take everything at face value and if she says she loves you, she really does…

    • Myrva Michel October 19th, 2021

      That’s is so “TRUE”

    • Niqua January 15th, 2022

      You are spot on… my ex is a Virgo… he use to get jealous when other ppl came around me, but I never fed into it…. he use to try to make me jealous at times to but it never worked… he broke my heart and caused us to break up.. although the love is still there between us we manage stay somewat friends, I feel he regret it letting me get away…. I was a good women to him and really did love him…. he will never be able to have me the same way, and I think he knows that..

    • Lee April 5th, 2022

      Thanks for sharing this friend. Virgo man just dating a Aqua female, and already I see some of the challenges I will face. That said we have mad chemistry together that really could blossom into something.

      Wish me luck 🍀

    • Amber Rose August 8th, 2022

      Omg Sir. You are so spot on with that advice. Me being an Aquarius female. We always I’m mean ALWAYS say what we mean or don’t say anything at all. Face value is key.

    • Dayle November 4th, 2022

      I am an Aquarius female and I totally agree with your statement. It is absolutely spot on.

    • Debra February 16th, 2023

      Thank you and 🫶🏻to you from an Aquarian woman.

  5. Emilee Wilson September 23rd, 2021

    I am just trying to find out some information with my mothers connections with Virgos. Shes an aquarius and has been with two Virgos and had children with both. My whole life I have come in contact with countless Virgos. Just trying to get some understanding.

  6. Heartbroken June 4th, 2021

    This is so spot on for me. I am an Aquarius woman were off and on for 11 years or so with my Virgo man. He has the ability to make me mad more than anyone else in the world, and at the same time I have never laughed so hard with someone either. I hate to yell and when other people yell, yet he and I have had countless moments where we were yelling at each other. We are so connected that when I would think of him my phone would ring and he would be on the other line. My friends thought it was hilarious that when I would say his name in conversations with them he would call me. He’s my best friend and I was madly in love with him.

    Because of our desire for success we didn’t spend as much time with each other as we should have. Making time for the person you love is very important to me but there were definitely times that I focused more on my career and put everything else in on the back burner. So we continued to break up, realize we missed each other, and proceed to get back together so we could do the same thing all over again next year.

    As toxic as it was to show one another repeatedly that we were willing to walk away from each other, we both wanted desperately to find a way to make it work. Around year 8 or 9.. who can remember these days😂; we were certain we had both grown up enough to handle the relationship. We promised to each other that we would both put in the effort towards each other no matter what. This would be the time it was different, we knew each other’s likes and dislikes so as long as we remember that we loved each other and wanted to be in one another’s life we had faith in our success. We decided to take things slow and date each other, he had his place and I had mine.

    We argued here and there but we would work through it. Not saying he didn’t drive me crazy but I believed in my heart that this was my person, so we got through it. Not like we were in high school or anything but this time around he was holding back on calling me his girlfriend as much, though he would refer to me as “his girl” with his friends. When we talked about it he admitted that he was fearful from our history and having trouble letting go of past times I had left him. We talked things through and in the end he decided that he wanted to continue to be together and work to truly let it go.

    We continued to date but never agreed to exclusively being together. I would periodically ask him if he was sleeping with anyone else. (Another part of that connection to one another) He would always tell me no. I talked to other men on the phone and told him about it, but a few months in I dropped them because I realized he was the only person I wanted to talk to and he was really the only one on my mind. About 1 year in I found out he was sleeping with another woman that he had met during one of our breakups. I’ll spare those details, but the point I want to make was I was more hurt over him lying to me.

    Before that day I believed he would never lie to me and I was confident about that. I personally do not believe you can have a relationship without trust so I not only lost the love of my life I lost my best friend at the same time. I know I played a huge part in why things ended the way they did. I could literally feel something was off but I ignored it, I saw that I wasn’t his priority but I made excuses for him. I knew my directness and dominant personality were difficult for him to swallow and that we argued more than necessary.

    We still talk and laugh from time to time, but like the article says once that bond is broken I can forgive but I can not accept a relationship without trust and purity. My heart breaks every time I hear certain songs or see my puppy running to the front door in the evenings when he would usually come over.

    I will not limit myself in the future should another Virgo come along but I will be very cautious with my heart in the future. My Virgo needed a lot of attention and empathy which is hard because my Aquarius personality is quite objective and matter of fact. If you’re thinking about trying it I would suggest having some very deep conversations around what your expectations are for your future. Finding out about each other’s thoughts on family, religion, marriage, etc. sooner than later will probably be best.

    Sometimes love just isn’t even enough.

    • Joyce Owolabi August 20th, 2021

      I agree with you. My virgo husband left me and he never Said a word he just lied his way out with fake sickness.

    • Aikhuomo Anetor August 22nd, 2021

      Whew! Experiencing similar from an aquarius woman and I’m a virgo. Wht is your advise for me. Lol

    • Conflicted February 20th, 2022

      Hi, wow your comment was very mindblowing. I am a woman in my early 30s and so is my Virgo. We’ve been dating exclusively for about 5 months now, even live together. It has been great for the most part, relatively due to it being the honeymoon phase, but we’ve already broken up twice. The chemistry we have is out of this world.. and I’d know, I dated a Gemini for 8 years before him (Aquarius’s perfect match) .. yet my Virgo’s chemistry in much less time has gone over the roof.
      The point I want to illustrate is that I’m a bit scared of this relationship. It seems too good to be true but when we argue (about 4x overall, last 2 caused breakups), we just get so disconnected. Reading your comment made me think about this… and about what I should do. I cannot do this for another 8 years … I need to find him, as I’m sure we all have to find our true love.

      • Conflicted July 14th, 2022

        Update as of July 2022

        We broke up. He cheated on me. I forgot to mention my Virgo ex-boyfriend has demons that run deep. He was sexually molested as a child by a relative and had 2 absent-minded parents who neglected him both physically and emotionally. This inability to connect will be his downfall if he doesn’t correct the conditioning upbringing he had. His last relationship, he fell hard for, so hard that til this day he still cries for her… I wonder if what he told me about what they broke up was true or not. I don’t believe him anymore. So, anyway, his traumatic upbringing led to 3 failed relationships so far. The first doesn’t matter, he was in his early 20s and he just lost his V-card to her. 2nd was the meaningful one. This one lasted 5 years and from what he told me he was deeply in love with her … but after. She fell in love first, yet he hadn’t. They weren’t balanced in that aspect and inevitable led them apart. Or actually, HE breaking her heart. Now onto relationship 3, or mine. The Angel he loved… which he played. He categorized me in this angelic-like pedestal because he saw a good woman with a full heart of love to give and endless radiance of positivity… don’t get me wrong, these are HIS words to me. Along with others such as “I know you’re good for me, I love being around you” to endless affection (primarily me to him)… but in retrospect, all the signs were there. He “admired” how good of a woman I was.. a catch he never thought he’d catch.. and he www ready … but he always spoke in the past tense with me. Like, the moment he said it, it invalidated itself and left with the wind. Whatever he admired, was soon struck down by whatever demons were haunting him… and these demons were deep. I can honestly say I loved him.. with all of my soul. I never thought I’d love a man as deep as I loved this Virgo man in the 9 months we were officially together. Now it is over.. he cheated on me… when I asked him why? He simply said: “besides the fact that I am flawed and I know it and I don’t know why… I hurt the most beautiful soul I’ve ever met unmerited … and I don’t know why. But what I think it may be is this, part of me, selfishly, is a man. And when I was growing up I was very timid and scared, bullied, etc. just zero confidence whatsoever. And this plagued me.. so now, I’m changing every aspect of me and part of it is ugly, like when I went to the club by myself and saw this woman in her 40s (we’re in our early 30s). She was drinking, very beautiful and had all these guys looking at her. I wanted her, I can’t deny.. and I saw how she rejected other men. I took my shot, she rejected me. But I don’t quit, I went after it ferociously, and I won the prize”. I realized in this moment I was dating a narcissist man incapable of loving anyone else. As much as it hurt, and it HURT BAD, I realized I am better off. I am a soulful woman who’s happy within and doesn’t need a type of man who can easily disregard her from his mind like that – I wasn’t even a thought of prevention. This was my Virgo experience. I honestly think if my Virgo didn’t have trauma and other medical issues, and he was more emotionally stable and moved on from his pasts – both parental and romantic (ex), we would have had an amazing life together. I didn’t want children but he was such a caring soul most of the time, that he would have changed my mind. I loved him that much. I don’t wanna shoot him down, he was just a man with flaws. Very big flaws that went deep within him and he hadn’t gotten them in check. I wish nothing but the best to him, and all you others maybe experiencing some sort of breakup loss, and I am confident I will find the one for me in this life. Best of luck!

  7. Queen February 10th, 2021

    I’m Capricorn women my man is Virgo, we broke up and I want my man back can that be possible? Please tell me

    • Haha March 9th, 2021

      Hell naw lol

    • Heartbroken January 6th, 2022

      Communication and vulnerability is key in any relationship but even more with the Virgo man. They want to know that you feel the same, if not more than the way they are feeling.

  8. RG October 13th, 2020

    I’m a teenage Christian Aquarius girl and I’ve been in love with a Christian Virgo boy 1 year u her than me. We both indirectly know that both of us liked each other once in the beginning. But now it’s just mixed. I show I still like him indirectly by my actions but he gives me mixed signals. Everyone tells me he definitely likes me still but he’s been literally giving me mixed signals. Since we are both Christians, we follow a tradition that you can only date or focus on the opposite sex when you can fully handle a relationship. Since we’re still both in high school, me almost graduating. We don’t go on dates. But when we hang out with other friends with him we have this weird special connection where we both notice little details about each other and we help each other quietly. But we also still talk just as “friends” what do you think about my situation?

    • Trin October 20th, 2020

      this sounds like me and my Virgo boyfriend🤦🏾‍♀️ It’s the mixed signals for me too!

    • Ranji November 5th, 2020

      haha okay I think I could help you or at least I would give you a bit of insight. I am a virgo man and my bestfriend is an aquarius woman. she is my friend from highschool, we are 25 years old now which means we’ve been having this friendship for 10 years. since we were at high school, we’ve never been single together at the same time. now, we both are single. she knows everything about me, even about my ex because we always share anything each other just like brother and sister. these days from now on, I feel like a butterfly in my stomach when we hangout together. especially when we found something that connected between us. you may’ve experienced often with your virgo boy when you two coincidentally say same words at same time, think same things, did thing before he asked. because I experienced it too with her. it’s been 1 month I am confused with this feeling. if she loves me, maybe she has a same problem like you. maybe she thinks I gave mixed signals for her. and I think yes. because I doubt if she is the one for me. I never thought if she could be my future. but on the other side, I feel so safe when I’m with her.

      this is my deductions of why virgo men give mixed feelings to aquarius woman :

      1. virgo men are shy person and mysterious. maybe he hasn’t believe that you love him. try to make him believe. just be more dominant or a bit aggressive if its necessary. personally, If my friend is clearly showing her feelings, I could be kissing her and wanting her to be my girlfriend.
      2. virgo men are fanatic to perfection. does he have a unique hobby that you haven’t try for him? try it. I play music, and I really wish my partner could play music too. if she just tries to learn music, that’ll mean a lot to me. bcs she wants to know my world. I’ll never look for other girls if she keeps trying. even just trying for me.
      3. virgo men don’t like to be judged.
      he is probably sensitive person. if you did this to him, that might turned him off.
      4. virgo men want their partner is a part of their dream.
      If he is a driven person, supports him undoubtedly. follow his dream because he thinks he knows the best for his partner and him in his way. I have a plan to go to overseas country for working. then I think this will be my milestone to reach my dream. I ask her to go with me next year, but she is still hesitating my idea.
      5. last thing, he might believe horoscope. and he speculates that aquarius woman is not on the list of best matches for virgo men. personally, i’m still craving for taurus, virgo, cancer, or capricorn girl. but I could say my bestfriend is so attentive and is attracting me right now. I hope she could break my perspective of horoscope

      • Kris February 7th, 2021

        I’m in love with a Virgo man and he always gives me mixed signals. He does things which makes me feel/think that he likes me but then he annoys me to the point where I tell myself he’s not the right guy for me. This have been going on for past 3 years and I am so confused and not sure what to do :/

    • Ranji November 5th, 2020

      haha okay I think I could help you or at least I would give you a bit of insight. I am a virgo man and my bestfriend is an aquarius woman. she is my friend from highschool, we are 25 years old now which means we’ve been having this friendship for 10 years. since we were at high school, we’ve never been single together at the same time. now, we both are single. she knows everything about me, even about my ex because we always share anything each other just like brother and sister. these days from now on, I feel like a butterfly in my stomach when we hangout together. especially when we found something that connected between us. you may’ve experienced often with your virgo boy when you two coincidentally say same words at same time, think same things, did thing before he asked. because I experienced it too with her. it’s been 1 month I am confused with this feeling. if she loves me, maybe she has a same problem like you. maybe she thinks I gave mixed signals for her. and I think yes. because I doubt if she is the one for me. I never thought if she could be my future. but on the other side, I feel so safe when I’m with her.

      this is my deductions of why virgo men give mixed feelings to aquarius woman :

      1. virgo men are shy person and mysterious. maybe he hasn’t believe that you love him. try to make him believe. just be more dominant or a bit aggressive if its necessary. personally, If my friend is clearly showing her feelings, I could be kissing her and wanting her to be my girlfriend.
      2. virgo men are fanatic to perfection. does he have a unique hobby that you haven’t try for him? try it. I play music, and I really wish my partner could play music too. if she just tries to learn music, that’ll mean a lot to me. bcs she wants to know my world. I’ll never look for other girls if she keeps trying. even just trying for me.
      3. virgo men don’t like to be judged.
      he is probably sensitive person. if you did this to him, that might turned him off.
      4. virgo men want their partner is a part of their dream.
      If he is a driven person, supports him undoubtedly. follow his dream because he thinks he knows the best for his partner and him in his way. I have a plan to go to overseas country for working. then I think this will be my milestone to reach my dream. I ask her to go with me next year, but she is still hesitating my idea.
      5. last thing, he might believe horoscope. and he speculates that aquarius woman is not on the list of best matches for virgo men. personally, i’m still craving for taurus, virgo, cancer, or capricorn girl. but I could say my bestfriend is so attentive and is attracting me right now. I hope she could break my vision of horoscope

    • Zenele November 15th, 2020

      I am in a similar situation

    • Sadly September 20th, 2021

      Girl, I was exactly you and married the Virgo despite my own misgivings that we may not be compatible enough. I thought our love would overcome.

      Maybe it’s just him or all Virgo’s but he has never been moved by my feelings. It is always his thoughts and feelings first, for 24 years now. He makes big decisions without me sometimes too that affect both of us. At one point he made friends with a Pisces female at work and treated her in all the ways I always hoped he would treat me. Kind, compassionate, accommodating etc to her and it didn’t bother him that I was heartbroken over that. He did not care about my feelings and barely apologized after she was no longer in the picture. I know they did not take it to a physical place because she was not attracted to him that way, but I believe he would have if she had initiated.

      He works very hard to get others to like him but I’m not one of the people in that mission. If you ask anybody else, he is the greatest guy on earth. And he is, just not to me. All these things cause me to withdraw from him and act coldly and then I feel ashamed for it. Not to mention he micromanage is me and is critical.

      Here are the good parts of our relationship: we both are good at partnering for professional goals and both of us have the same values and a strong friendship.

      If I’m being honest I don’t believe in divorce or I would have left him years ago.

  9. Aaliya September 26th, 2020

    What to say after reading this. I’m an aqua woman & used to be in a relationship with a virgo guy. I don’t know man, I probably ended up with a bad virgo. I’m sure there are good virgos out there too. But the limited experience l have had of this sign (my ex & 3 people I know) has just been BAD. My ex was controlling, insecure & a hypocrite (may be because of strong libra energy in his chart)… It didn’t work out, I tried to make it work for 3years. I tried giving him many chances, but he was always a liar. Also, his so called “alpha male” personality only came out in front of me & only to control me. While in public, he acted like a pu**ey. Glad that I left him… He was being the same drama queen the last time too, when was leaving, but I had had enough. Recently I started reading these articles on all zodiac signs, so found this article. Interesting stuff !!

    And I suppose that bad experience was for the good as I later met my soulmate, a sexy scorpio. Despite of how physically hot he is, what turns me on is the fact that he can challenge me in the mental field too. Crazy intelligent. I experienced real love for the first in my life with him. Before him, I wouldn’t have even imagined that love could be so strong & passionate. He’s gonna make me his wife soon. Marriage scares me, but I know him, he’s definitely gonna make me his wife XD

  10. Nabeela August 27th, 2020

    Hey suny ozuna thank u for sharing your story. Itgave me alot of hope… If you dont mind just need to have a personal talk if you are available

  11. christian gachette April 18th, 2020

    Dear friends I been in love with dis aquarius girl for 5 years and I’m a virgo and dear no sex and I love her I would like to have sex with her wat can I do I’m older don her please help

    • JT September 4th, 2020

      First off, stop viewing her as an object for your gratification and your actions toward her will adjust in a way where you’re actually being her friend first and she may grow to like you in time.
      and finally, DON’T CHASE HER!, be different from everyone else.

      -Virgo Advise

  12. Moon Reader October 29th, 2019

    I think that it can work, only if the Aquarius woman provides lots of attention and treats the Virgo man like he is a precious prince. Or else, it can be difficult.
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  13. Suny Ozuna June 5th, 2019

    So my call has been heard and My Virgo and I found each other. this wonderful Virgo tried and I declined what I was to fearful to see. We officially broke the ice after his second attempt approach me. I can not express the power of self awareness and law of attraction that I have perfected, ignored and perfect again. I was having a terrible meltdown and harmful overthinking episode. I meditated and focused on releasing my fears, my physical pain, and previous Twin flame runner. I kid you not this Virgo heard me and texted right after my self healing. He instantly gave me what I was “seeking” in all the wrong men and drained myself of my valuable energy. Later that very day we spoke via cell and the spark was undeniable and scared me when he showed me how much Loves without saying that actual word. I went almost from I am a free woman and answer to you know right I do want a relationship with you as well opinionated Virgo. His relentless deliverance of his expectations of him and from me was wild to receive at first. What I can already tell is that he is very much professional and his intelligence is so refreshing for me. As an Aquarian woman I know myself and am capable of shaping what I know needs to be unblocked using the power of the mind. This Virgo a ballsy and for the first time in 29 years living I am excited to submit and let him lead(to an extent of course) Its so true how the communication level he has is very poor, and I almost said nope not for me. We got into what I was trying to keep at a respectful debate on a disagreement from turning into and hostile argument. His frustration and even anger humbled me when I once again manipulated and reversed his negativity that he will get better the more I let him lead and in all positivity allow him to think he has constant lead. I see his past pain and quickly understood that in order for to ACTUALLY hear and let me speak, I have to talk to his divine not his human. I am now going to heal him so that he can trust this Twin Flame Reunion. I know we have been together in another time and place. He feels so familiar it doesn’t surprise as much my Virgo is and I know he doesn’t mean harm but he does when he shows his insecurities and underestimates my relentless appreciation to Logic. So I as an Aquarian, that’s Knows as well Can see beyond sight. As a 29 year woman, mind and body connected. Self Nutrition expert and best of Creator of my Art and gift of Vocals. I accept the challenge because I’ve calling his spirit before I could see him. I must heal empower his energy, so he will be able to trust me nd the “crazy” timing that sykes him out. All of this unfolded in less that 10 hours tops. Rn its been quiet and I am annoyed that He’s seems retreated and had to blast Love song and am singing my heart as I type this to focus on the exchange and recharge myself and all the wonderful changes to come. Note to all those that make this far in my rise to All knowing and all that is. Steve my handsome breath of fresh Ai, and Virgo to the tee is now genuinely the 3rd successful Twin Flame that heard my call. The other two I am grateful and appreciate how we equally transformed into a step toward the right direction. In letting them go I allowed myself to fall madly in Love with myself. I am fearless and confident that 3rd is the charm. Loving your true inside and out is the key to all Happiness. Fear is the root of all delay, blockage, confusion. Unlock that and keep it open, ALL ELSE IS ALREADY IN PLACE. Thank you reading!

    • babygirl.olivia2183 June 18th, 2019

      I’m an Aquarius woman who is talking to a Virgo man at the moment. For some reason I just find myself attracted to him, idk what he does. A couple days ago I broke up with him, but today he tried to get back with me. What did I do? It’s like he gives so much effort when I didn’t catch feelings. But now that he got me i feel like I’m the one who shows more affection than him? I don’t know. I feel like if I break up with him again he’ll come back

      • christian gachette April 18th, 2020

        Dear friends I been in love with dis aquarius girl for 5 years and I’m a virgo and dear no sex and I love her I would like to have sex with her wat can I do I’m older don her please help

  14. Aqua woman May 4th, 2019

    As an aqua woman(26) dating with a virgo man(28) I sometimes find my partner(Virgo♂) too judgemental & manipulative. I sometimes feel like I’m a bird in a cage. We used to be so close and everything was fine until I realise that he deny everything I say and makes me feel like I’m wrong all the time.
    If anyone had gone through this situation with Virgo man, how did you manage this situation?
    I love him but at the same time, I don’t think I can deal with his pessimistic opinions towards everything anymore.

    • Sebastian May 16th, 2019

      Hi, Im virgo and I can tell your partner is either bored or simply has an other opinion about the stuff you were saying 🙂

      Here are some ideas for what you can do:

      Plan A: Try to refresh your relationship, do not go to therapy yet! Show your partner that you are a nice catch and make him think that he would be a fool if he left you, you know the drill!

      Plan B: Keep your head cold and dont freak out if you are the type of couple that argues about the silliest things. Just keep your voice calm and try to talk with him about the deep stuff because only you have access to his heart.

    • Kd May 22nd, 2019

      I feel exactly the same. Im Aquarius with a Virgo man, and I feel steam rolled all the time. Nothing I do is ever good enough. I am constantly feeling sub par, and judged. I’m not a planner, I like to take things as they come, and I’m “wrong” for being that way. I should “want to plan”. It’s just exhausting.

    • Kendall October 26th, 2019

      Hi I’m been dating a Virgo on and off since 2011, I feel the sane way you feel. I deep down don’t think we are a match for each other. There’s too many differences and how we view relationships. I just think we just will never be on the same page and should move on you’ll be more happier in the end, keep trying to make it work and it just not unfortunately

  15. Envietta April 2nd, 2019

    Holly!! Aquarius woman here too… That guy sounds like a douche bag! I can’t even believe he would of taken off like that. I’m pretty sure if it was me I would of harassed him to the point he gave my stuff back if they were (important) of course! Maybe it was god pushing you away from this no good man. Gladly, it happened or else he would probably done something else more moronic!

  16. Billy February 6th, 2019

    His mind went to working. And in his mind you where cheating or something. So he backed off. Just my opinion. Virgo man here. I have an Aquarius woman and I always think she cheating just because see a free spirit. I’m working on me because I love her alot. I had to research about her to understand she most likely not going to cheat. She just a free spirit type of woman. My mind still goes crazy. But I am aware now so it makes the difference.

  17. Jeruxerxes December 10th, 2018

    Am a Virgo man with Aquarius woman. She is do amazing…..her eyes are extremely captivating. I have dated a Capricorn but she gave up on me for someone else who could offer her financial assurance but she has been bothering me ever since trying to make a cheating environment whit i have avoided with all my strength till i found my Aquarius.
    My Aquarius is so submissive, very smart but always asks me everything even permission to attend parties and if give her a choice she wont go with her friends and she would get mad just because i could not make a decision for her. At first this was strange but after sometime she gave me sense of total control and damn it feels good. i usually tell her and ask her why does she do that and her answer is just simple “That’s how a woman should be” so i believe that really turned me on and surprising God has blessed us and everything in my life is aligning and all the decision i make for her turns to be very very perfect. She is so Emotional last night she called me just to tell me how her life has changed just being with me n the decisions i make. it was her first time on this approach and we are blessed. 2 years now and i am definitely marrying her.

    • Holly January 11th, 2019

      Hi I’m a Aquarius Female & I’m happy for the both of you. I’ve dated a virgo male & he is a sweet loving & carrying man. Till one day he changed dramatically & I still don’t know why he’s done what he’s done to me. (Which I’m going to tell you in minute).
      We both met online thru a dating site & serve been dating for about 4 months. Everything we great between us & until we both decided that I’d move closer to him. One night he picked me up from another town & we headed to where he live. The following day we picked up his brother & they both wanted to have a few beers & I don’t drink. So then I was beginning to get hungry & decided to walk to McDonald’s. I told him where I was going & that I’d be back. Soon as I got there he called & told me to wait there & he was on his way to pick me up. I waited outside for him & I might’ve waited for about 20 minutes. Then next thing you know he never came to pick me. I called & left send him tons of text messages…Not once he returned any of my phone calls or my text messages. And I still haven’t heard from him & plus that I left everything of my belongings in his car. Later I found out that he’s blocked my number.
      I’m really trying to make sense of all this & as why he did what he’s done to me. I was so hurt, confused , angry, heartbroken. Becuz I truly loved this man…& I still do!
      If it’s not too much to ask if you could perhaps make sense out of this…Anything! Pleze!
      Thank you!
      Aquarius ♒

      • Jeruxerxes January 11th, 2019

        Am so sorry for what happened. All i can tell is that there must be some influence from his brother or friends. People grow at different environment and form different behaviors to…so maybe he was influenced. Dont give up coz love always finds a way.

  18. Tobias March 4th, 2018

    Was this written by an Aquarius woman that had a failed relationship with a Virgo man? LOL

    • wandakate September 29th, 2018

      Whoever wrote this is full of it. First of all these signs change with age. I am a Aquarius woman and the way I was in my 20’s and 30’s is NOT the way I am at this point in my life. Much has changed with me for the BETTER.
      An older Virgo would also NOT be the way he was when he was younger. Every sign has their pluses and their minuses, and positives and negatives…But this article on it is contradictory. In the beginning it sounds like they are really great for one another and then on down into the article it says just the opposite…
      SO, I don’t trust this one at all !!!

  19. PRINCE HUNTER December 11th, 2017

    I’m a Virgo man & I likes the eyes of Aqua girl. They are so brightening & glorious. The only thing Aqua girls Eyes which is really stable to starve me. The Aquarius girls are like a shiny brightening moon in the night sky. I want to fall in a affair with Aquarius girl & I will & also promise to satisfy her with my best. And yes I will never do anything harsh which will put our affair to feel uncomfortable. Love my Aquarius I’m arriving for you 🙂

    • Destiny Gardner January 21st, 2018

      I think that is so sweet 😍😍I am a Aquarius women an I always hear my eyes tell the story

      • wandakate September 29th, 2018

        TO PRINCE HUNTER: I suppose you have found that Aquarius woman by now, so if that’s the story, then I hope you are happy with her…good luck.

  20. anonymous89 June 27th, 2017

    27yr virgo female & 27 yr aqua male

    in middle school i had the most ridiculous crush on this guy. i came from a big family which meant tight budget. i excelled easily in school academically and athletically but was never the social butterfly. He of coarse came from a smaller household which in my opinion enabled him to be more blessed lol. kids at that time focused on who has on what name brands, to put it short he was popular and well groomed. That wasn’t why i liked him. it started more from a competitive note. P.E. i was the fastest female runner and beat out quite a few boys…but not him. i didn’t like that and he never knew…flag football, track and field, dodge ball, it didn’t matter, it was my personal goal to beat HIM no matter whom was participating. well one day in dodge ball we were on the same team but lined up against the wall, the whistle blew and i took off…I MADE IT TO THE BALL BEFORE HIM. he looked and me and said oh good job. THATS WHEN IT STARTED. i started paying attention to his demeanor and character more. i mentioned that he was popular which meant 80% of his friends were unnecessarily mean to most kids that weren’t like them. He wasn’t like that. i never saw him picking on anyone or egging on cruel situations. He was somewhat quiet. He became my first true crush at 12 years old. i moved away, and visited here and there (its a small town in which my entire extended family lives).
    as an adult i got married had 2 kids became a nurse…dealt with infidelity with a Capricorn for 6 years then gave up and we split.

    He (aquarius) found me online, he had aged well lol, very in shape, football coach now among other venture to say that i had as well, considering 75%of all his old friends had at some point either apologized for youthful events or tried to persuade me to allow them a chance to date me.
    his message was brief, complimented my photos, but his next message was pretty direct which surprised me . He wanted a chance to go out together. not gonna lie. i beat around the bush heavy. i am VERY SHY. and although i was no longer the unfortunate school girl, old insecurities crept up FAST. eventual i think he realized what i was doing and he gave up. he later added me on facebook and the same thing happened. months later i received a similar message from him and i decided to grow up and agree to meet up. i did. omg he was so tall in person! we went to a park and talked. he was far from the shy school boy i remembered which was a little intimidating, he sang to me as he threw rocks off the lake. i thought he was cute. eventually thing got a little heavily and admitted to knowing that i liked him in school and voiced that he felt the same but was shy.
    the night resulted in sex. i am ashamed because although id known him for years i knew nothing of his new life.
    later i found out that he had been involved with someone i was close with which threw a wrench into our relationship which annoyed him because he felt it was insignificant and didn’t matter because it was before me. me being a virgo, it was hard for me to deal with because that person and i were and still are close. so naturally i backed up. his pride i feel came into play because he got angry although he denied such feelings and then ultimately stopped trying to convince me not to care about the previous situation. we stopped talking for maybe 2 months or so. during this time i moved back to my hometown(he lives there) with my kids to be closer to family.

    although we hadn’t spoken i couldn’t help but think of him from time to time…he lived 2 miles from me at that time and dint even know it. i drove past his home daily on my way home from work.
    i wondered if id bump into him at a gas station awkwardly, or worse end up sitting near him at a local restaurant lol. thankfully neither happened. he randomly texted me. and said that he wanted to reach out many times but decided not to. was blunt and asked if i would give him a chance or just let him know to leave me alone. i didn’t want him to leave me alone but i didn’t want to rush into anything either. my indecisiveness is my curse.for a few days he would call and text whether or not i answered but i felt like his delivery was with irritation. he would say things like
    we have already wasted enough of each others time
    weve known each other for years
    you like me, i like you, what is there to decide
    later his messages turned into can we please talk, so we had a long phone conversation,
    now his messages are
    can i come see you
    good morning Mrs.HisLastName.
    tonight he texted me and said “im coming to see you when i get off, no if ands or buts”
    he lucked out because aggression is the only way to progress with me.
    my mind is all over the place…i will be a nervous train wreck all morning knowing he is coming by and that i haven’t seen him since the night we went out.

    but im still beyond nervous. our zodiacs aren’t compatible so id hate to take a leap in faith and we end up hating each other. what do you think…i don’t know one virgo/aqua couple who have been married 10+ years…i want longevity and a stable foundation.
    help me!

    • Jackie July 2nd, 2017

      My best friend is a Virgo male and I’m an Aquarius female. We have been best friends for 10 years, granted that’s not being married or anything but he has always been more than a friend. When we were kids we were too shy to do anything about our feelings and he moved away about 6 or 7 years ago but we’ve always maintained our friendship. He visited me about 4 years ago and we had our first kiss with each other but then he had to go home. We kinda lived separate lives for awhile but we always stayed best friends. Now we’re both adults and at a place we can work towards him coming home and it’s the best thing ever. He’s coming to visit in a couple days and we’re beyond excited because we finally get our chance. We may have differences and whatever but it’s true love and that’s all that matters. We are willing to put in the work to never have to lose each other again.

    • ella September 14th, 2017

      WE NEED UPDATES~How is it going?
      Also I am an Aqua girl. Basically..if we really like you we will not back down. Or it takes a lot for us to move on. If he has had his sights set on you for this long he is not going to just give up unless you forcefully tell him so. The thing about that even if our astrological signs do not match up with the person we like or love we will not automatically give up on them. If it is worth it to us, we will make adjustments to make the relationship work. We only call it a quits if the partner is totally unagreeable to us. I.E. is a completely ass whit or jerk. Sounds like he really wants you. Try to get out of your head about the past and take it day by day. You need to hop off the fence and hop on something else (*wink wink)

    • PRINCE HUNTER December 11th, 2017

      Good luck both of you. I can asure Virgo is the best one who can satisfy you which others might not 😉

  21. Janae June 14th, 2017

    @Woman Wrestler

  22. Ulysses June 6th, 2017

    I’m a virgo male, trying to impress an aquarius woman. I don’t consider myself a typical virgo male, but I do have those traits of perfectionism, logical approach to relationships, subverting my emotions in favour of being analytical.
    The woman I love (whom I’ve never met) is incredible, smart, passionate, fiery, gregarious, but slow to commit her heart. I need advice! How do I move from chatting online to real life in a way that won’t be a shock? I know that aquarius women and virgo men aren’t an ideal match. But I want to let her make that choice, after meeting and contemplating our future while touching (not sex, obviously).
    I like to bake and I’ve sent her some cookies with pecans. I like pecans, they are smooth and tasty with no bitter aftertaste like walnuts. Will she like them? Will she say she likes them if she doesn’t? It’s silly to worry so much about some cookies, but I thought of her while baking and tried to touch my aura to my art while doing it. We haven’t met, but if she tastes what I made for her while trying to put “me” into it, will that help? Or should I just ask her to meet and see how it goes?

    • Ulysses June 6th, 2017

      Rachel and Stan below me, you are virgo men who are with aquarius women, what should I do? How do I win the love and long term devotion of this aquarius woman in my life?

      • Paisley June 20th, 2017

        I’m an Aquarius woman with a Virgo man and we’ve been together for about a year now. Aquarius woman love adventure and new things so you gotta switch it up to get her interest as shallow as that sounds. Ask if she’d like to go to some cool place around you or on a drive somewhere. Like there is this cool Clift by where I live that we like to go and watch the city lights over. Just don’t be overbearing. Aquarius woman don’t like bejnf rushed or forced into things

    • Woman Wrestler June 7th, 2017


      Please let me know how it goes with your Aquarius woman. Has she tasted your baked goods? Was it a warm reception? My inclination is that if she tastes the aura in your cookies, she will most certainly welcome you for an in-person visit. If you say you write to her, maybe she feels this was a better way to get to know you. She’s probably grateful. It is a common mistake for people to meet for the first time, with no prior interaction to form opinions based on appearance alone. I say just ask her out. Tell her you want to see her. You will have a positive reaction.

      And if that fails, I am a single, unicorn believing woman who has a palette for pecans (although, I do love the after-taste of walnuts and pistachios). Should your search broaden to other Aquarian women, might I take a stab at love with a Virgo male such as yourself?

      Please let me know if you’d like to see a picture of me. I have several selfies that I just took in my building’s elevator and with animals at the zoo. You need not send me anything at all but I would love to send you some of the essential oils that I have infused with the sweat of my body and the tears from my eyes.

      If this is at all appealing to you, please message me.

      • ulysseswaterloo June 7th, 2017

        Wrestler, I feel as if you really understand what I need, not just to know for sure that my She-Aqurarius is the one for me, but that I’m the one for her too! I believe that for two people to find true love, they have to be compatible by the stars and by their auras. I infuse my aura into other living things, sharing my essence. She has received my special cookies and she’s eaten my nuts, and says she liked them. But she didn’t say anything about the batter, which is what really contains my essence.

        I would love to see your photos! I sometimes share my essence with my favourite animals, and your essential oils could be just the thing to help me with that. Let’s make some magic!

  23. Rachel June 5th, 2017

    I have read alot of virgo and Aquarius articles. some of them say that the relationship is doomed but then a few say it’s a soulmate relationship. It depends on the couple. If you truly believe in zodiac signs there are certain things that researchers do not consider. What day you were born (as far as if you are close to any cusps), the time of day or night you were born, but also how you were raised. These are all major factors. I am with a virgo man and we have a fantastic relationship. Our sex life is out of this world and we have an emotional connection I have never experienced before. Now, he is on a Libra cusp and I am very close to the piceses cusp. We were both born in the morning and we were both raised similarly. My advise if you are having issues is: if you guys have been arguing from the start, you’re miserable, and yiu never seem to connect or get along, then it’s definately time to end Things. But if you love eachother and have issues, that’s normal with every relationship. If you care about eachother just keep fighting for oneanother. I firmly believe in zodiac signs but remember that not every article is correct, you have to discover what the stars say about you on your own.

  24. Stan April 27th, 2017

    I’m a Virgo man currently dating an Aquarius woman and she really is making me feel frustrated. It just hurts that I love her so much. But I’m thinking of ending things with her, after having read this, I know breaking up with her is the best thing to do.

    • trysha May 5th, 2017

      what things she did that made you frustrated?

    • selma May 18th, 2017

      u must kidding … u say tht u love hr so much whr is the problem
      just try to communicate with hr … she ll be by ur side in the darkness before lightness and give u the love and loyalty tht u need
      i’m sorry but tht so silly idea to breaking up with hr cz an articl … by the way i’m an Aquarius woman

    • Liam Lindner June 5th, 2017

      Want some serious advice? Don’t leave the fate of your entire relationship up to some horoscope post. Make your own decision based off your conlcusion, not someone elses.

  25. blackgirl60 April 14th, 2017

    This is so on point and so amazing

  26. MyHeros4Life March 24th, 2017

    I must have true love with my man:) bc we get along perfectly. We RARELY ever fight and when we do it’s always something small and we apologize and make up shortly afterwards if not right away. We laugh all the time always having fun with each other. We fully support each other’s decisions as well. He never treats me wrong. I feel like I can do anything as long as he’s by my side. And as for our sex life, it’s nothing like what that describes. It’s wonderful! And almost everyday! And the last sentence, saying the two would have to work hard to have a happy relationship, isn’t true for us either! It’s not one bit hard for us, I feel like us being together is as easy as it is for superman to fly. I’m glad I read this bc I feel even better about our relationship now. Like another (of quite a few now) sign that we were meant to find eachother?

  27. AquaSarah February 21st, 2016

    comment’s even said what i was about to say. i guess i would never try to search this page. but what can i say i am going through a rough patch with a virgo male. he is too judgemental, he is picky.. he belittles me. he is pessimistic. he doesn’t care about my opnion. he complains about everything but doesn’t see the real prob. which is him being to0 negative and thus hurting other people for being an ass. i thought it was temporary but trust me it is not. couple of months passed. if i try to… explain or point out the problem or.. give opinion. he blames me and my problems. he have a huge anger issues too. it wasn’t like this before. i guess in time real personality comes out. now i dont know what to do. it has been more than 2 years. and if i want to break up. he is like i will die! i feel like shit.  

    • Fiona Mokonyane January 17th, 2017

      Im experiencing the exact problem but did you manage to get help

      • AquaSarah March 8th, 2017

        i managed..
        I wasn’t happy and i was feeling disturbed and down a lot. reached my limit and became cold …

        and it helped me break the relationship up.

        no more virgo.. 🙁
        that was my 2nd one

      • Leo the Lioness March 26th, 2017

        I have been around this pairing and none has ever turned out good. Aquarius woman are so smart and Virgo men, sweet, but insecure. Ladies you are not responsible for your Virgos happiness. He is going to have to figure his own securities out. Aquarius is too free spirited for the untrusting Virgo…ugh! Oh the fights it creates. Good luck to you all.

    • Ushna February 8th, 2017

      sometimes i feel like i’m in a similar kind of situation…
      sexual intimacy is his weakness and i think every virgo man is weak before his desire of being physical with his partner… you guys can solve your problems by being close to him physically… try to use his weakness to make him realise his mistake…if you can then try to convince him on your point better in bed.. try to stay close to his heart.. his aims his desires.. try to truely understand him first… getting a deeper i’ve experience being in relation with virgos for twice… i think m too much emotional to move on.. cuz its always too hard for me to move on from any relation that i value… when i broke up with the first virgo, my second virgo(true love of my life) he treated me in such a concerned way that i always feel grateful to him… yes he is a bit rigid about his ideas.. a little overconfident with his aims but with the passing experiences of life i feel like he was the one who tolerated me, who changed his mind according to me… i did the same for him at times… and now we both are at the same level of compromise… i belong to an eastern family.. loving someone is not considered as a sin in my family but they opposed me a lot as my b.f. was not a successful person then… i compromised with his failures, i prayed for the best.. cried a lot… putted down my esteem to make him feel confident and sometimes even insulted him in front of people.. but the things we both did cancel the effect of each other and as a result i know that i love him and i care for him and i want to do anything i can so that i could make him feel more comfortable.. he’s the most important person in my life i never wish to lose him.. but the thing i’m feared of is that if he’s not going to succeed in his life i have to face more and more questions and questions are the part which i hate the most… people getting nosy about my life i don’t like that… my relation with my virgo man goes great until or unless others get nosy about us… hope u guys will be able to go deeper in your partners heart…

      • AquaSarah March 8th, 2017

        ah … well

        we broke up
        and i am happy 🙂
        no regrets

    • Stan April 27th, 2017

      Dated my first and hopefully my only aquarius woman. I’m sure she and I would break up soon. She’s so cold and detached.

  28. [email protected] January 29th, 2016

    Wow this totally nailed my problem with the Virgo man I was dating. Everything was going great until he dropped a bomb on me out of nowhere. Which made me withdraw from him emotionally and he could not understand why. Reason why the importance of purity in the beginning and once it becomes tainted it\’s hard to go back.

  29. AndrayaTheTerrible January 2nd, 2016

    The author of this is so spot on, I know I come off as disconnected in a relationship, and I recently reconnected with a friend who quickly pushed me into a relationship, he is a Virgo and he is soooo judgie and if I point it out he becomes very defensive is quick to call me out on my mistakes. Idk how much longer I can deal we don\’t tango well together at all. And the sex is horrible and idk how much longer I can deal with that

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  31. Missherbivore July 3rd, 2015

    I wish I could get past the purity part of the relationship. My fiance of almost five years and two lovely babies later cheated on me one time (to my knowledge) when I was pregnant with my first on a far away job. Does anyone have advice on how to get past this? It took him a year later to tell me. This iincident happened when we were on mushroom. He proposed to me, couldnt stop feeling guilty about cheating and a few minutes later told me what he had done. Let’s just say that’s not an easy thing for an Aquarius woman to hear right after a proposal. Talk about a feeling of entrapment. 
    Ever since then I have grow to become a very jealous woman, I am sneaky and overly attached. I have become everything an Aquarius woman is not (free spirited) 
    Do any of you ladies have advice on how to get through to my Virgo? Our fights are hotter than hell and very repetitive and my goal is to marry him but our communication needs to improve drastically before that happens. And he needs to re propose before then. Obviously. Lol. 
    I don’t want to be those doomed Virgo man Aquarius woman relationship.

  32. Missherbivore July 3rd, 2015

    My Virgo can be the same way when it comes to sex. I have to be nice about how I explain to him how I want to be touched or else he feels like he fails. We have been together almost five years and now have two kids and ever since we have been together I’ve wanted more oral sex, however from all my (Aquarius) criticising that part of our sex life is slow. But with the bite of my tounge and some positive encouragement he can make my legs shake, so keep that in mind.

  33. apostrophe83 April 7th, 2015

    I’m an Aquarius woman and my current boyfriend is Virgo. We’ve known each other a little over a year. I can almost promise he’s had feelings for me since the night we met. He waited several months to pursue me and waited until I was with someone (he didn’t know that at the time). I mentioned to him I liked our friendship too much to ruin it. Things ended with the guy I was seeing but I still wanted to remain friends with The Virgo.
    He kept after me. I one night told him sure…let’s try it. He backed off saying he agreed with me, it wouldn’t work. I said okay. He tried again, and I being an Aquarius told him no. I was set on my word. He told me off, said very harsh and crude things to me. We ended contact. 3-4 months later, I passively aggressively contacted him again. He responded, to my surprise. We left off where we were as friends; talking as though nothing happened. I still hold onto those words a little as they were really hurtful. We finally made it official in January of this year and so far, he’s only a little of the Virgo described here. He doubts himself sometimes, he’ll express feelings but not make a big deal out of it. But he’s a pleaser, he keeps going on and on about wanting me happy. He wants to better himself and his home, for me. I tell him do it for him, not me.
    My only complaint is his lack of tact. I try to open up, slowly, and he has no tact in his replies. I have learned to shrug it off because he doesn’t mean it harshly. He wants to learn about me. He IS self crtical but I haven’t heard him yet criticize me or anyone else. He works hard and prides himself on it. He feels like a failure if he can’t get something perfect so it makes it hard for me to tell him how to improve in bed and how he touches me. I don’t want him to feel like he can’t ever touch me again.
    He makes me happy and for now, I want to keep things moving forward. He has never judged me on my skeletons or made me feel bad. Virgo and Aquarius can either be a horrible match or a very intense, high energy match with all kinds of positivity. Don’t take these things so seriously. You can’t base your relationship on astrology. If you do, you’ll never find happiness.

  34. Emieh123 March 23rd, 2015

    I am the Aquarius woman dating a Virgo male for 2 years; it is sad how true this is. I can feel the impending doom approach us and it has been going downhill for awhile. I love this man very much but I feel that I am not as happy as I could be, and after seeing all of the comments along with the compatibility statement, I feel as though that I should end the relationship before I get into deep…

  35. somia February 1st, 2015

    somia ..All of that is non sense there is nothing like that whatever is written about virgo man and acqauries women . i am an acquires i have my virgo partner and he is so carring and loving ,more than any one eslse in this world .we spend two years with each other there are many ups and down in our life but both of us  were sincere with each other so we are never seprated and Insha Allah soon we will get married …

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  36. tano January 2nd, 2015

    M engaged to an aries and m extremely happy with my aries man bcz he truelyyyy respects me n loves me n he is not flirt like that bastard I wish not to met him but it was in fate but now m happyyy alottttt with my aries hubby

  37. tano January 2nd, 2015

    M an Aquarius girl n I was with a virgo guy n the above compatibility is soooooo true aahhhh can’t explain the exact bastard he was as described here but God saved me n now

  38. isyedaa December 29th, 2014

    i love my virgo <3

  39. emolover December 26th, 2014

    Im aquarius and im dating a virgo guy we are still dating, we have had obstacles for only 4 months but later we got the happiness, im aquarius but im not adventurous like some aquarius….. cuz im (aquarius with Pisces) we have done alot of sex…so yeah our bed is on fire…he changed he has been so romantic with me…he is really sensitive and me too but he protects me alot. He always want me to be happy, and when im sad he would be by my side…he is the guy I want to be with <3 I love my man <3 
    So u guys it depends each guy ,not all virgo are the same and not alll aquarius are the same,  if u really love her/him go for it take the risk, if that man  or woman has been with u in bad and good times then go and be with him/ her, u don’t need to be confused, if u love him/her then go and take the risk:)
    Leslie M.

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  42. LA3 April 21st, 2014

    Updating my opinion since 2010; my virgo man is amazing. He’s sweet and understanding and let’s me be me. We both appreciate our differences and we still have a spiritual connection. He’s my best friend and I am his. 

  43. [email protected] March 22nd, 2014

    Wow so damn true the aquarian woman here, 11 yrs with this virgo because of my stubborn nature and the fact that give up easily comined with my small heart been searching for reasons as to why what and hw, but after this conclusion thers actually no hope its a dead street, so nw its tym for me to sit down and figure out hw wen and where gona call it quits

  44. Roadcruiser1 December 30th, 2013

    I often find myself smitten with the intelligence of Aquarius women, and I am a Virgo man, but I haven’t dated one, and reading this makes met not want to really risk it, but I will if I found the right Aquarius lady………

  45. Alan-Grae March 24th, 2013

    Everything in my power

  46. Alan-Grae March 24th, 2013

    I met this Aquarians girl I really like and she is indepenpent, smart, beautiful and outgoing and me being a virgo, am very pessimistic, but i want this potential relationship to work. I am not nitpicky or a nagger but I admit I have flaws. I am willing to to do very tho g in my power to make it work I’m 18 and she’s 17, only a few months younger. Any advice

  47. mareikura2 February 17th, 2013

    Ive recently started seeing a delicious Virgo man…I mean delicious mentally,physically & emotionally! We’ve both received wounds from past long term lovers & have high ideals for the potential… He has lived alone for years but with his charismatic wit & intelligence had no probs roping in the Aunties:) I tend to enjoy being a freedom loving individual & enjoy being naked around my man…sometimes he’s ok with it & sometimes he thinks I’m an exhibitionist..I’m confused!! He’s so sensible I feel that I have to hold Mack emotionally at times….but damn he excites me & makes me feel like the most desirable woman on the planet….after a long term drought , my thirst is now being quenched!! 😉

  48. Flux30 August 16th, 2012

    I am a Virgo man and I love how this site just trashed us haha. I fell in love with an Aqarius women and I was her rock. She seemed to put me in me place and when she did that I was so turned on. We could have some real heated arguments, but our make ups were to die for. I had so much fun with my Aqarius woman. I think opposites attract and the only way for this relationship to work is for both sides to get over themselves and f%#%# live already.

  49. angel53209 June 8th, 2012

    Virgo Virgo what is the difference between an august virgo and a september virgo?     

  50. angel53209 June 8th, 2012

    I am the aquarius woman in a sometime emotionless relationship with a virgo man. Virgo men are very self centered and are lighting quick to point out others mistakes and runn like a chicken %#$@ when their faults are on the table or has come too the light. They are horrible in relationships and are drama kings.

  51. crubb May 30th, 2012

    I am so amazsed at the Author of this?  I am an Aquarius woman, and have been with a Virgo man for 17 years now!  He is great, yet – as I has his faults!  And every personality traits the author has given us both is so right on!!!!  I would love to share more of my 17yrs of experience if interested?  Because if I could do it over?  I would never choose a Virgon again!

  52. Ahad April 18th, 2012

    I am an Aquarius woman and two of my ex were Virgo.
    I liked my discription (aquarius lady), all positive and written in bright colors while Virgo male were portraid very negative, and may be thats why it brought a lots of negative thought/comments on compatilility of these two star signs.
    Two Virgo men that i dated were really different, its not just about star sign but also an upbringing, culture, value etc. One treated me like a princess but something was missing for me, while othe did stragle with communication and commitment (i think he was just scared). One thing that this two men had incommon is that they both scared me when we broke up but breaking up is not a happy times anyway. I said to myself i’ll never date Virgo man again but ‘never say never’!!!!!!
    I just met another Virgo man and me being open minded, optimistic, positive aquarius woman going to give another chance to a Virgo man as they do have a good characteristics like family oriented, caring and supportive!!!!!!
    Happiness is in our hands 🙂

  53. lolawantslolagets March 29th, 2012

    I am an Aquarius woman with a virgo man for 3 years.  The only thing that I can truly say that is in our favor is the fact that he’s 52 years old.  I know for a fact that if he were at least 10 years younger, he wouldn’t put as much patience into this relationship.  Out of all the explosive arguments we’ve had, if wasn’t living with me, and had his own place, he would have been left.  He is a good provider, but he is mean and I’ve called him cocky on several occasions, because he has an arrogance about him.  He pisses me off a lot because he just seems so well put together and even though we have love for eachother, I believe he’s sneaky….I’ve checked his phone and basically confirmed my own suspicions like for instance, his niece sent him a picture which made me feel very uncomfortable as his woman because it was provocative ( her legs open, on the floor, with an extremely short skirt and high heels) so when I told him I felt that was out of order, not only was he harsh towards ME for FEELING the way I did, but he condoned her actions.  And this is another thing that I don’t like about him, he doesn’t understand my feelings right away, we always have to argue first and later he’ll understand.  I’m just tired of the relationship and honestly, I wish I would have gotten to know him better before allowing him to move in with me.  Now I’m 41 years old, engaged to him and feel as though I’m in too deep.  We argue a lot…..I’m not happy the way I’m supposed to be. I feel very misunderstood by him.  It always takes a lot to get my point across to him….:-(

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  55. Aqua--Bull February 8th, 2012

    This is 100% accurate as my moon sign is aquarius i lean towards that way when in relationships and find this site to prove what ive always thought was true ‘ just cos u get along dosent mean its gona work’ some people are just better off as friends. 

  56. moongoddessdivine19 December 28th, 2011

    I am married to a Virgo guy…after 1 year of marriage, he threw me out of his life because he said he was frustrated. I was trying to reason out  with him about his still strong connection of his ex-gf (Gemini) for 8 years. Asking him kindly if he could give me atleast 2 months to adjust with the situation and the Indian Culture, but he was so stubborn. He slapped me on the head and made me cry.  And though it is ridiculous to be coming home 1 am in the morning with the sister of his ex-gf after gym training, it is rather disappointing that his sense of fault- finding made me feel a worthless woman (as I am an Aquarius woman who won 150 pounds: Jury’s choice Award in a contest to which I only submitted my ideas. And I was the one who was willing to support my Virgo husband financially when has asked for it) I was really devastated when in May 31, 2011…He just pushed me out of India…wrestled my arm, made me cry for 3 months. telling me that he will just accept me if I only follow him.But I was told that a man who truly loves a woman will never hurt her in anyway…
    After the months had healed my heart, all I can say is – it is my Virgo Man’s lost…because he got an Aquarius woman who will clean his house like a house help, cook his meals, caress him at night, willing to give him wonderful children (But he said He will never ever make me pregnant because I will find support from our children and we will leave him- he is so crazy!), work for him and allow him to control her earnings, plan a nice future for him, for their family, accept his mother and make sure his mother grows old cared for, and even die for him….but he threw this Aquarius woman away…Thank God…there are other Zodiac Signs who wanted her and appreciates her uniqueness.

  57. aquariusgal November 20th, 2011

    my two cents:

    “Aquarius woman is generally very friendly and sweet lady who is not just intelligent, but often genius. * :)) * She may seem detached from the rest of the world but actually she is extremely alert***, never missing a fine detail. She is very intuitive* and often scary psychic*. She is born with a fine tool that many others seemed to lack. Innately an alarm goes off inside of her telling her instantaneously something is not right. Love is not a very good idea for an Aquarius female in the beginning as she confuses it with friendship*** (definitely. happened to me, and I just recently figured out that I was so in love with my best friend from high school. even through him telling me, I couldn’t get my head around it. Until a couple of years after hs. I’m an idiot). But gradually she learns to care and feel (yup).”

    “Though it is not her ability to pay attention to fine detail, it is her intuition telling her that awakes her when something goes wrong”

    Yes, maybe. True.
    “She is one of the few women of the zodiac who is able to have a sexual relationship with a man while not being romantically involved. She can return to her own world of ideas and dreams with no strings attached”

    BUT after falling in and out of love (kind of still, IN love) I can say that it’s not true, all of the emotional detachedness. When you make an aquarius fall in love with you, OMG. Well I can speak for myself, it’s been almost a year now and my heart is still there with him. And the stupid thing, I NEVER EVEN TOLD HIM. Cause I was so outside my element, when I spent time with him, that I could not bring myself around to doing it. 🙂 Which brings me to my next point:

    “She requires a pure clean connection with a man, so once the connection becomes fuzzy she disconnects and moves on to a new man who is able to provide her with purity.”

    ^^This is why I was able to be so detached from everyone before; this is really true. This is why I’m still hung up on that guy because things were soooo pure. I felt something amazing for him. And that’s why I’m still looking for that pureness, but I’ve lowered my standard. Or I’ve grown up, whatever you want to say. And I’m much more tolerant, even when things get fuzzy. Cause I know we’re all human… things are going to get fuzzy.

    That is all I wanted to say. I’ve never been with a virgo before. Oh yes I have. A long long time ago. Hmmm, I’d say this is definitely true then. Except the guy ended up dating this girl that is not old fashioned at all. She was kind of slutty… and they’re still together. But now she’s like old fashioned. It’s weird how people can change people. Or love can change people. Anyway, peace and happiness and love to all <3 <3

  58. Annsplace October 20th, 2011

    I am an Aquarius woman in the beginning of dating a Virgo man. I have dated one before, however, he was just boring! No conversation, not affectionate unless he wanted sex (which was horrible) and we were just very different. My new Virgo man is September born, intelligent, witty, loves to travels, loves to cook, an animal lover, stable, neat (air-force trained) uplifting, positive, great listener and so very kind & kind hearted. He seems to love with no pretense or expectations. He’s very different from the August Virgo I date over 10 years ago. I have shied away from Virgos since that time until now. I know me…I am comfortable with me and will leave without hesitation if my “NEEDS” are not being met; especially my emotional needs. That is crucial for an Aquarian!

  59. echidalgo October 18th, 2011

    this is so accurate. i am the aquarius woman in the relationship, and im dating a virgo man. i’m emotionally detatched, but our connection was immediate. were best friends, and lovers. i can honestly see us beig together for a long time. and the sex is amazing hhaha.

  60. dwils02 October 4th, 2011

    I agree with a previous poster that horoscopes are not 100% accurate but it is pretty accurate. Even when the advice is something that is hard to hear like being incompatible with someone you have spent years with. I have been married to my husband for almost 2 years and have been dated him for 5 years before that. I can honestly say as an Aquarian woman that his Virgin critcisms drive me up the wall. And alas, for us, it wasn’t love at first sight and we have both been trying to make it work anyways. I know he will never leave me but we are simply not healthy together. The best and worst thing about this kind of combo is you can either bring out the best or the worst in one another. Good luck to all the couples who are making it work.

  61. Carla April 6th, 2011

    I’m the Aquarius woman and I’ve known the Virgo for 2 years as a friend (was great!) and been involved for 3 months (a nightmare) he is high strung and needy and nasty and selfish and is so miserable with his life that he tries to take me down with him..but I wont go cause his neurosis is not my fault…I am on the verge of leaving him for good but I see that he is so frazzled and making dumb decisions that he needs someone clear headed to help him think clearly…its that Virgo dissatisfaction with his own failure that makes him unbearable but he wont fix it. Plus he’s a flirt and gets very spiteful and nasty like a woman which turns me the fuck off…

    • Sadly September 20th, 2021

      Wow, so very much my experience as well. Complains constantly but puts no effort into changing or seeing in another might. He need someone clearheaded to help him think clearly yet he will not listen to you in the end very likely. You will be right 9 time out if 10 but still he won’t listen. Speaking from experience it’s a frustrating hamster wheel. All of that clouds his vision for you and kills romance.

  62. fzs7* April 5th, 2011

    ok I am totally in love with this bright shining forehead aquarian girl and although I want her badly but it has always been a restrictive and puzzling for me, I know that that she wanted me three years ago(I wanted her more than she liked me) in school when it all started but she didn’t know the whole story, I tried telling her my ways and she don’t like it at all. I goof off from time to time and I don’t know it brakes my heart but that’s how it is. May be we can never be together or may be we are meant to be together I don’t know! age difference, background difference, style difference so many differences and difficulties? hmm….. I guess that’s why love is called blind!

  63. girly April 2nd, 2011

    ok tottally bummed and torn…but i can try see what happens i want this virgo hes gorgeous im thinking hes the one ive known for maybe 3 years n swear i see him everywhere ladt time i got his number n he likes stuff bout me n what not but like turns his phone off at night i dont know im thinking im good at wiithdrawing so im just going to check it out if we can ever get together maybe tomarrow i hope lol im sad

  64. potra March 16th, 2011

    sadly, i am the aquarian in the relationship… god knows if i can even call it a relationship. its like we are business partners or something… but, sigh… he is worth all the trouble. i intend to make it work. even if it might break my heart, i cant give up right away. and the part about not having enough coomunication, i must say thats not true.

  65. BWS March 15th, 2011

    Im a virgo male. I have been on and off with an aquairus woman for 3 years. Im NOT a perfectionist on every little thing. But i will say a virgo male is always trying to solve other peoples problem before their own. My girlfriend is amazing but when she comes across a problem i always offer advice to help. Being that the aquarius is stubborn it does make us butt heads. Overall i am happy with us because we balance each other out. As much as the horroscope can be accurate its not 100%. Not everyone has problems with this matchup. Im happy with my woman. Remember women. Not all virgo males are the same. It takes awhile to get to our heart but its worth it.

  66. RKS March 15th, 2011

    TO the contrary of one reads “The only thing that can prevent destruction between the two would be true love”.. so it will always works..
    Am a virgo guy getting married to a aquarius woman…

  67. may March 3rd, 2011

    The moment I saw my Virgo friend I fell in love with him .he was gorgeous in every way. I think this is somewhat true however this does not apply to every Virgo because each individual is different.I miss my Virgo,he recently moved and I have not seen him in two years. I am still wishful that he will be the man I marry regardless of the distance and relationship status

  68. sativa February 23rd, 2011

    all of mi siblings are virgos. though i am an aquarius female (so is mom & dad). i have never DATED A VIRGO male but just recently on mi birthday i met a male virgo :). INSTANT EYE CONNECTION & we found ourselves holding hands for ovr 30 seconds the MOMENT WE MET! we do music together nd its been 1 month today. but i do have small commitment issues. i just hope mi experience w. virgos means i was training for this day!

  69. Classy February 8th, 2011

    This is so wild,, I’m a Aquarius, and my 1st love, his a Virgo after 30 years of not seeing each other, we had a secret meeting and Lord knows he still drives me crazy and I will always Love him madly, but i was glad to come home too my Mr. Cancer.

  70. cherryb February 7th, 2011

    i am an aquarius woman, that has just ended a relationship with a virgo. i can’t believe how accurate this is.

  71. Shelly713 January 29th, 2011

    I’m in Aquarius been wit a Virgo for abt a year, and all of this that says abt a virgo is soo not true in my Virgo boyfriend, We are so inlove, we are intimate in every level, he’s amazingly careing puts so much effort in this relationship it kind of scares me sometimes but I love it. How it says how Aquarius are so unemotional and dettached that’s not true I’m very emotional and loving, I believe that opposites do attract, that’s what makes the relationship soo interesting I love my Virgo I wouldn’t trade him for anything

  72. Cindy boo January 27th, 2011

    I ben wit a virgo for 3yr. This info is on da money.I ben thru hella ups & dwns.But he held on.And me @ my best as an aquarius helpd him.We never gave up he wants wat i want.We are that 2% that hav true love. Auquarius ladies if they worth it stick it out teach them that communication.Things will work out if u can stop him from shutting down. Cindyboo and im outtie 5000.

  73. Keri January 11th, 2011

    I think this is a little bit sad because a friend of mine that has recently come back into my life (which I have known for 11 years) with the potential of being a romantic and committed relationship is a Virgo male. After reading this I have found that everything that is said about the Virgo male on here is 100% completely opposite from how he is and who he is. With that in mind, does anybody think that, as this says, he and I will still “not work” together?

  74. marie January 3rd, 2011

    hahahaha okay so my cuzzin is a virgo and im an aqaurius female and we definetely do NOT always get along or see i met this guy and he is a virgo reading this im guessing i shouldnt even pursue this relationship ..i dont have time for conceited people, and from what im hearing thats all virgo mean are rude, concieted and selfish !

  75. amanda December 30th, 2010

    i’m an aquarius female, and both of my last boyfriends were virgos, the one i was with for 4 yrs was the worst thing ever. he turned out to be evil. & the last boyfriend just ended because hes a self centered douche. this was so accurate.

  76. LA November 5th, 2010

    This is so accurate. I am the aquarius here and its becoming clear I need to walk away from my virgo.

  77. Kortnee August 24th, 2010

    Its funny that Im reading this on the day of our 5th year anniversay. Im the aquarius in our relationship and I trying my best to find reasons to stay with my virgo but reading this just makes me understand more why the thoughts of this being our last anniversay might just come to light.

  78. love March 26th, 2010

    ha ha i agree with the above comment about it ending in doom lol……but iv read other info that gives you info on the virgo, so that it does not lead to doom…but yes-all the info on him as an individual sounds correct, along with my sign and me :)…. but i have to much faith in love to believe him and i would not work if we want it to 🙂

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