Leo Woman and Virgo Man Love Compatibility

Leo Woman and Virgo Man Compatibility in 2022

The two of you are called into challenging circumstances in year 2022. A recent loss of a loved one could be prompting these events, the need to hammer out a settlement for an estate or a real estate property. It may also be the right year to evaluate the legal status of your own relationship. If you are not married, it may be right year to tie the knot. The Leo woman has a problem or mistake that she has been keeping to herself. It is time to get truly honest with each other, warts and all. In other to smoothly transition to the next step of your relationship, clear, candid communication is needed.

Leo Woman and Virgo Man Relationship - Complete Guide

Virgo and Leo are side-by-side sign and they have different elements as well as different modality. This can result in lack of understanding between them in the beginning. But with a healthy dose of tolerance, this relationship can be handled. With different needs but common goal to have a life time partner, these two can work well with each other.

A Virgo man is very clean, tidy and completely practical person with steadiness in everything he does. His life is always in order and to live in chaos makes this man physically ill. He is firm and conventional and does not waste his time on frivolous matters. He likes the calm and serene lifestyle. He is not one for making waves and when someone or something threatens such stability in his life he becomes introverted and highly sensitive. Relationships are very important for this man and he selects his mate with great care so that he can shower the deserving one with devotion and immense care.

A Leo woman is definitely the real lioness with all royal flavors and strong poise. She craves for admiration and certainly deserves it. If treated properly she carries gracious warmth and alluring sensuality in her persona but if misbehaved then she is one of the most cruel and hot-tempered woman of all Zodiac Signs. She is rather a very sentimental woman and when in love she desires consistent appreciation and praise to keep her spirit burning well. Though she always respects the dignity and superiority of her lover but she never considers herself anyways less then him. If any man wants to change her, he has to do it slowly through almost non-existing hints and ideas.

Though Leo woman is very different from the Virgo man, she feels a very strong attraction towards him. She has a very different expression of love for her Virgo man which is lavish and even showy. She is consumed with the romance of the relationship. For some out of this world reason, when a bond forms between these two zodiac signs, it is a love that fuses together in just the right combination. Leo woman’s arrogant and conceited ways somehow melt into a generous, loyal and affectionate lover who respects her Virgo man when he shows the right amount of admiration toward her. When she treats him good, she finds him friendlier and much more extrovert in behavior in which he portrays himself. She is one lady who is capable of bringing out the most creative and adventurous side of him.

Virgo man always finds Leo woman irresistibly gorgeous and independent woman. He is a man who is, by character, shy to a point where he finds it hard to show public affection for his Leo lady and even sometimes needles her about her terrible habits. She needs the attention and admiration to keep her insecurities from building up. She spends extravagantly and is quite the social butterfly. But he expresses love by laying solid groundwork for the partnership they both share. He also teaches her to be more stable and practical regarding life and love. All that these two have to do is think about the other person and try to fit the other’s qualities into their own life a little bit. With a bit of a change in their attitudes to fit each other will be beneficial to them both. They aren’t really so different if they stop and think about it.

When the burning passion of Leo woman and stable love of Virgo man blend together, they make a beautifully enticing relationship. Their differences make their relationship more exciting with lots to learn from each other. The sweetness of their relationship comes from the understanding that they develop with time towards each other’s approach to life. She brings spark and spirits to his life while he dissolves her arrogance to make her a warmer and caring woman. The dreams they build are colorful and more practical that gives both of them a reason to share even more smiles in their relationship. The fragrance of their love fills the air around them with glittery happiness of togetherness to be cherished for the lifetime.

The sexual relationship between Leo woman and Virgo man is one that cannot go on without good communication both mentally and emotionally. He tends to be too passive towards her, creating insecurity in her heart that makes her feel he doesn’t really want to be with her. Her anger and cold response to that causes him to be even more discouraged. This causes problems in their relationship. They both need to compromise and meet somewhere in the middle of the spectrum. He is on the passive and subdued side of this spectrum, whereas she is more aggressive and passionate in her lovemaking. She needs to calm herself a bit and come to realize that passion can be felt in a more serene state of mind also. On the other hand, he needs to realize that sex is not just a controlled meeting of two people who exchange a bit of affection and then go about their lives normally again rather it is the most beautiful form of expressing love to the spouse. He needs to be more free and more fervor in his actions to bring about the real essence of love making.

The relationship of Leo woman and Virgo man has to go through a lot of rough patches to actually make it work. Virgo man, although it is not easy for him, needs to be more complimenting and less critical of his Leo lady and she has to try to be more generous and less arrogant. If he loves her and is willing to work toward keeping her, he has to realize her hunger for attention. She needs to understand that he goes through life needing everything to be perfect and in order. To just go about her business, letting him worry about and work through all of the problems is a heavy burden on him. She should stop and try to get him to ease back and help him work out the problems with him. This will soothe his heavy tension and enhance his affectionate side for her.

  1. Sihle April 23rd, 2022

    Very true! I always just listen to him wine and wine pointing fingers, just strug it off and kiss him hard and drive him weak, end of game !!!!! Am 08/13.
    They really are handy for us

  2. natasha March 1st, 2022

    the weirdest thing happened…ive never been involved with a virgo man. but then I met him at work. I’m an intern, and he is an attorney. real power dynamic goin on. but I kind of like it. he’s a weirdo, and apparently he is bipolar, but he seemed so put together when I first met him, and he continues to be. but he unravels with me. and I understand it, but it’s not what I want in a man…but I can’t cut It off with him. he somewhat interests me. I don’t know what it is. but I think I like virgo men. I’m a Leo. I’ve been ignoring him though. when he gets to egar I just back away, ignore him, kinda make him go crazy. and its cool to be on this side of things (as a Leo, I was always the one giving more, wanting more, and now I’m just calm) advice??? pls?

    • Ezra March 4th, 2022

      Hey Nat,

      I find for me, I’m like a mirror…the more you give me, i’ll reflect it twice as much (be good or bad), so either lavished with love, or just blank indifference from being hurt. We aim for stability, cause we have no issue supplying it. Yes we can attempt to keep up with your energy and love for social adventure (though it drains us), if you play with us in terms of your interest, we’ll just leave. It hurts and we wouldn’t make you fight anyone else for out affection, we don’t want it in return. Show genuine love and affection and we come out of our shells and lavish in return.

      As for your person circumstances (being the power dynamic at work) I don’t think you should follow through. Work relationships can cause a lot of issues, and I’ve found a lot of virgos don’t deal well with chaos and blending; we prefer that break away (if work is bad, home is good. If home is bad, work is good) which helps keep us calm and sane. Do what you feel is right, but I’m only giving my views as a virgo (I’ve never been with a Leo though, only Virgo, Pisces, Capricorn and Sagittarius)

  3. Say February 25th, 2022

    This is new for me Leo woman I’m 43 and he’s 29 and he makes me want to be his everything and more it’s been a couple of months and I know that I do love him I learning to have patience and I’m always my true self. He pays attention to detail and tells me how I am but I hope that all my good won’t get in the way of my corky self. I pray that this would be the last man I’m ever with again

  4. drift hunters February 23rd, 2022

    Your post is amazing. Keep writing next posts.

  5. Tsmmy January 26th, 2022

    It is so true what they say bout Leo woman n Virgo man I being with my man for 9 n half years n we fight but we r still together my birthday is July 26/75 n his is Sept 10/89 n we r still going out together I love him dearly he is my world n I am lost without him n it is the same for him …

  6. Tsmmy January 26th, 2022

    It is so true what they say bout Leo woman n Virgo man I being with my man for 9 n half years n we fight but we r still together

  7. Nathan August 22nd, 2021

    Hello Everyone,
    Most of what I have read is very close to my experiences. Some of these responses are great.

    I truly give all the love and respect to the one who holds the cards and the stars..!

    When the Virgo man is able to understand and accept the following;

    “I believe this can work. I have accepted you as you are. I am willing to allow you to change my mind.”

    That right there brought nothing but awe and admiration to my mind.

    I’m a Virgo man (04 Sept) and I am with a Leo woman (25 July) we both met on the job, both working in law enforcement.

    Prior and former relationships have been quite a trying effort for both of us. And we have gone through some extensive conversations about some of those times already. She has two grown children from a former spouse. I have children from a former spouse.

    Love is worth fighting for. I told her I will not be the one to walk away and I mean that. I can work and fight for what I want, and I will. I love how understanding and passionate our relationship is. I also love how we both worked in, not only law enforcement positions, but we are both former U.S. Army soldiers as well. We knew each other for roughly 5 – 8 months before we decided to engage one another and started a relationship that took off. (from 0 – 60!!!)

    The chemistry, the attraction, the compassion, and dedicated & devoted best sides of ourselves were able to shine through in the beginning. I did not give up. And I will not give up. The chase was very worth it.

    I look up our zodiac information & compatibility all the time. And do it just read to understand what could be easier and better. Mostly because we are still in the “getting to know & understanding one another” stage. Getting past the difficult and hard times is becoming easy. I look forward to more struggles, but because we understand, love, respect, and engage each other very well. It is for the good of what we know is -right and just. It’s never going to be extremely easy. And without effort, I get that. But it’s been completely worth it! I’m in love with this woman. I am a lucky man to have such a beautiful, independent, woman who is willing to be herself. Now, that’s real love.

    Through these responses I have been reading, there is a lot of TRUTH. Believe every word of it. Make your relationship work. It’s yours! Make sacrifices if necessary. I can’t wait to marry the LOVE of my life. “Happy Husband, Extremely Happy Wife.” I loved reading that too. Do put everything you have into it. Know and believe that it will work. A marriage is not 50/50 but it is 100/100. (I loved reading that too.)

    Honest, heartfelt LOVE is not easy to find, or come by. I do know how to keep at it..!!!

    Be a best friend, tell the truth, and overuse I love you
    Go to work, do your best, don’t outsmart your common sense
    Never let your prayin’ knees get lazy
    And love like crazy!
    Have faith,
    And keep the heart of a faithful woman close,
    And don’t forget where you belong,
    Always treat your woman like a lady,
    Never get to old to call her baby,
    Never let your prayin’ knees get lazy,

    Both of my Grandparents did over 50 years each! I’m hopeful. I believe I got this.


    • Kitty Mlili September 18th, 2021

      Beautiful 🌷❤️

  8. Jae August 2nd, 2021

    I’m a Leo woman ( Aug 9 ) and I am with a Virgo man ( Sep 19th) and we have gone through some rough patches, and I had to learn how to communicate even when I’m upset and want to just walk away. I love how understanding and passionate our relationship is. I also love how we knew each other for 5 years before we dated, so that helped out A LOT because my life was never settled and he knew about most of the things I went through. I look up our compatibility all the time and just smile because we’re doing so good on getting past the hard times. I look forward to more struggles, but because we understand, love, respect, and engage in each other, I know we will work. It’s all about effort people. If you’re willing to make sacrifices for your partner, it’s never going to be easy. Love will be hard, but it is completely worth it!

  9. vienna June 17th, 2021

    I’m a Leo woman (July 30th) and my best friend is a virgo man (September 9th), I have feelings for him and he always cares for me when we are little, though he has been busy studying he still tries to contact me every day. He never judged me for who am I. I was very grateful for that. Though he goes through tough stuffs he can get moody sometimes but I’m fine with it. I just hope we are soulmates at least but his dad might not approve.

    • Peeeraya June 27th, 2021

      Wow, this is amazing, I am an Leo (July 30)woman who married a Virgo September 9)man for 12 years now.

      • Rachael July 11th, 2021

        My marital relationship with a Virgo is suffering a lot he loves me cares for me but still there his family who are still not connected with me and it creates a lot of mess between us we just got married in jan after 5 long years of love relationship. Now we are living separate n I really don’t know how to go through this😔

  10. Tamieka Christisa Taylor June 15th, 2021

    Yes i met a couple of Virgo men but this one particular Virgo man he is spontaneous and he likes adventures with me and he won’t let up in other words he wants me real bad and he is 9-19 and my birthday is 8-20 and i can deal with his wacky ways and yesterday was the very first time that we met ever and i really enjoyed his company and i didn’t want it to end

  11. Lioness in love June 11th, 2021

    I am a little nervous to share. I am a Leo woman (8/17) and I am married to a Virgo man(9/09). We have been married for 15 years this past March and I couldn’t have asked for a better man! Although his judgmental ways sometimes drive me insane!!!! I know he is coming from a place of love, and he is usually right more often than not. The dynamics of our relationship can often go from hot to cold quickly, but he actually balances me out.

  12. Lioness June 11th, 2021

    I am a little nervous to share, but my I am a Leo woman (8/17) and I am married to a Virgo man(9/09). We have been married for 15years this past March and I couldn’t have asked for a better man! Although his judgmental ways sometimes drive me insane!!!! I know he is coming from a place of love, and he is usually right more often than not. The dynamics of our relationship can often go from hot to cold quickly, but he actually balances me out.

    • Sihle April 23rd, 2022

      Very true! I always just listen to him wine and wine pointing fingers, just shrug it off and kiss him hard and drive him weak, end of game !!!!! Am 08/13.
      They really are handy for us, he really grounds me, always speaking thruth to the power

  13. Da May 4th, 2021

    I’m a Leo women (7/29) and my boyfriend of 5 years is a Virgo man (9/7) throughout the years our relationship is like a rollercoster I never thought we would make it this far. Many people told us we’re not compatible as well as our horoscope signs, but he is someone who balances me. Yes most of our arguments are about him not showing me affection in public, which hurts me but I don’t see myself with anyone else but him. Reading all these comments how similar Virgo man /Leo women relationships are going through the same thing I’m going through. Yes we’re not compatible but opposites attract and I know he’s my person and I’m his.

    • Shameka May 13th, 2021

      Wow I’m feeling this because im a Leo 8/1 and he’s a Virgo 8/25 I’m going through the same thing but omg I’m so in love… lol

  14. Lioness -Heart January 15th, 2021

    Loved the stories I read so I decided to share too. This article is sooooo true…. I’m a Leo woman (Aug. 11th) and he is a Virgo (Sept. 11th). We meet two yes ago and it’s will be three this summer. We have had nothing but ups and down but it’s something about him that I could NEVER put my finger on. He’s definitely more levelheaded then I am… cooler tempered… practical… and organized. TOTALLY OPPOSITE from myself. And I love it to a point but he’s judgy (HA..,not a word) to me which really bothers me, which has never been a problem in past relationships due to their complete admiration and appreciation. Who knew I was obsessed with that kind of thing till I didn’t have it anymore. It’s turned me a bit argumentative and defensive and have caused a lot of misunderstandings…. I’m really trying and staying mindful not to cause to much damage tho. If we remember these extremely true “fun facts” I think we can finally understand each other enough to build the loving unbreakable bond we both crave and searching for. I never even knew I actually wanted to get married until I met a man like him…. which is totally ironic since I never wanted to marry the ones I got all the admiration from. I loved reading all of the other comments because I see that we have a lot of the same things going on which is so cool to me. Who knew this kind of stuff could actually be true on certain levels.

  15. Dev November 24th, 2020

    @Boss Babe We’re both in our senior year of highschool rn and her situation at home is pretty bad. She can’t come out of the house or do anything much because of how her mom has suspicions about what it is she’s up to. I don’t wanna ships up un announced at their house especially cuz I don’t wanna get her in trouble. I would call but like I said she’s pretty much ghosting me at this point so I don’t even know if I wanna try. The last time we actually texted I told her I just wanna be there for her and love her. I also told her I wasn’t trying to force her into anything as well. I said that I was begging her to let me which I didn’t like that I said because it made me seem desperate which I didn’t want to come off as even though I’m actuality I kinda was. She never responded after that and now I’ll look at things she’s posted being as it’s being a few months since we FaceTimed or had a conversation and she’ll retweet something saying “Why is no one in love with me” and things like that when I’m in love with her but she’s ignoring me.

    I was coming off as forceful which I never wanted to do but naturally ended up doing because I was afraid of losing not only someone I love but also a close friend. The silence between us rn is making me doubtful of the future. However, I’m not giving up or leaving by a long-shot because I made that promise that I wouldn’t. Just don’t wanna force things and let them naturally fall into place. Praying and still have faith in us.

    • Alice August 13th, 2021

      What your doing is very admirable I’ll pray for the two of you. Never give up on love

  16. Boss Babe November 16th, 2020

    I am leo woman and i met a September Virgo man on a flight, when i was working as a cabin crew. After that flight he connected with me on a social media forum. since then we were good friends till the day when he expressed his feeling that he wants a serious relationship with me. I was not not ready for this but when i got to know that he is serious with me… i started ignoring him. And eventually i stopped talking to him. But in that period of time i realized that not talking to him is making me sad and frustrated because he used to give me attention all the times and we Leo crave attention and like to be chased.
    I also started liking him but did not want to accept my feeling for him.
    Despite of the feelings i had for him i did not want to jump straight to a serious relationship so i reconnected with him and i openly talked that we can be friends but not more than this (even though i had a feeling for him.. leos and their ego..) we got reconnected and literally i tested him a lot just to make sure if he really loves or cares me or not. Not just he was being tested by me.. he also tested me.. i was literally a spoiled leo with full of proud. But he made me realize about my weaknesses.
    After 3 years of beautiful bumpy roller coaster we got married this year in August.

    so yes leo women n virgo men have two different personalities and we also have different personalities, he is calm n cool and i am a dominating sensitive person with lot of ego. But that’s how we both compliment each other and that’s a beauty of our relationship.

    • Dev November 22nd, 2020

      So I have a question because this is kinda similar to my situation. However she told me she liked me and then a day later I responded by admitting I had been liking her as well. But I she started to not talk to me after and me still concerned about how she is mentally( was fearing what she could do to herself/if she’s still alive) and etc. But I also started fearing she might’ve moved on and stuff and not like me anymore so I did start sufffocating her a bit and I don’t like that I did that. Especially when I know how she gets and the things she does. But she had told me she didn’t wanna hurt me and she wasn’t pushing me away tho I couldn’t tell because it was like she was literally ignoring me. I feel like I came off as desperate and kinda forceful which I wasn’t trying to do I just didn’t want us to lose our connection.

      Fast forward to know she is str8 up ghosting me but I haven’t given up hope and faith. I just don’t know if me not trying to text in response to her ignoring me is the right thing to do. I still hope and pray about it but I just wonder if me not focusing on her rn is messing up what could happen in the future. I always checked in on her and asked how she was doing and was there whenever she was down. I still have a lot of love for her but this gives me hope because it’s exactly what’s happening to a point.

      • Boss Babe November 24th, 2020

        As a Leo woman i would suggest you to speak to her directly instead of ignoring and testing each other. Invite her for a coffee or dinner. Just plan a casual meet up. Have an open dialogue. Don’t try to hide how you really feel. Don’t be afraid to be direct. It’s a key way for you and her to be understanding of certain things and how her ignorance is affecting you. When you explain what you want then there should be no room for confusion for both of you. Even I always try to explain this to my husband that i want our relationship to always be open with feedback and dialogue. Honestly, nothing will kill a relationship (even the best of relationships) more quickly than ego. Relationships are never easy. They take a lot of work, but if you push through all the hardships, then you can find ways to emotionally communicate better with your partner. Otherwise this hide n seek game will emotionally drain you both.

  17. Dev October 14th, 2020

    I’m a Virgo man and I’ve fallen head over heals for a Leo woman. Everything was going great and upon our first time really taking we just had a long conversation about life, what we expect out of relationships, and etc. We then ended up talking everyday and FaceTiming each other until one day I noticed she wasn’t the same. She told me she was going through a depression and naturally I wanted to do nothing but be there for her and help her. However, she stopped replying to text sometimes but eventually weeks later called me and told me she had caught feelings for me but didn’t want to confront me about them because she’s scared to get into another relationship. I then confessed to her my feelings a day later and told her more the following day. I felt that I over confessed and told her too much about how I feel. After that last phone call we haven’t talked much sense and I’ve texted her first may times and she’s replied at times, but hasn’t the last few days. It was only one time she did recently and that was when I explained to her how I hoped I wasn’t being annoying and not trying to respect her time to want to be to herself for a while. I told her that I just want her to know how much she matters to me and I care. She hearted my text then that’s the last of it. I don’t want to lose her because she’s someone who’s given me hope that theirs someone to love again and I want her to feel she can love again too. We both feel the same way but I’m afraid that the more I do nothing and be patient I’ll lose her.

    • Leolady October 15th, 2020

      I don’t know who you both are and I am not saying I have a solution. I do hope it works out for you…
      But I am a Leo woman and I relate to how she responded to you. I have regret over letting a male friendship drop bc I was scared to enter in again.

      While we love being showered with praise we are also incredibly independent and anything that threatens that can be scary. Stay consistent if you feel it’s right, we love the chase! 🙂
      (Try to not friend zone yourself too)

    • Jorge October 21st, 2020

      Wait a little longer. Maybe a 3-4 weeks or so, text her or call her. Tell her that you’ve been thinking of her… etc. you want to hangout, take it slow. Don’t be too pushy, and see where it goes. If it feels like it’s being forced maybe it’s not the time. What’s meant will come your way. You just have to let it play. Just my advice on how I would handle it. I hope it works man! God bless!

      • Dev November 5th, 2020

        We haven’t talked in about 3 months now the last time we texted I told her that idk if she was trying to push me away but I wasn’t going anywhere and she replied by saying she wasn’t pushing me away but just didn’t want to hurt me because she knows she can’t be with someone without breaking them. I replied by saying she didn’t have to be scared about what could happen and I don’t want to see her hurt or suffer anymore and I just want to be everything for her if only she let me. She didn’t reply and I texted her 2 or 3 weeks later and just said hey and she replied by saying hi but didn’t respond when I asked how she was doing. I haven’t given up but I’m tired of putting all my energy and effort into someone who seems like they don’t care. I pray for her and her family and about us but in recent weeks I’ve begun to lose motivation too. I really do love her but it’s hard to keep hope when everything seems to be hopeless. I really don’t know what to do guys.

    • Andyesxd October 25th, 2020

      Im a Leo woman and you are suffocating her. At least that’s how she feels. Just completely ghost her, act like you don’t care at all! It literally drives us crazy when we stop getting the attention because we need so much attention in order to feel worthy. She will come back full force if you cut her off cold turkey

    • Sabir October 30th, 2020

      Please dont give up on her if you sincerely feel as if this might be love for you . Sometimes us leos may need to fully isolate to focus , if anything continue to let her know your there for support and shell come around transparently if the bond is solid in foundation.

      • July Leo woman January 28th, 2021

        I am a Leo woman, and I totally agree with the first part of what you said, but the part about her coming back “full force”, I don’t know. It really depends on her pride. If her ego is bigger than her heart, then she’s just ghosted. She will suffer in silence if she really likes you, but will not be the one to give in. That would make her seem needy when she’s not. I know this is what I would do, and have done. We like to be chased, but will never be the chaser. Facts! Give her some space, but stay in touch and make her feel like the only woman important in your world, and if she wants you, then you will win her over, if she has no interest in being with you, she will be slow and indecisive about everything pertaining to you. We are fire signs, and we move fast and know just what we want.

  18. Tamieka C Taylor August 31st, 2020

    Hi I just met me a virgo man a couple of months ago and he really thinks the world of me and he is so attractive and sexy and I really like him but I don’t want him to be over controlling with me or that will spoil my moment with him but I’m nervous to meet him face to face but I’m willing to meet him face to face so how can I not make mistakes being with him because I don’t want to mess up our relationship either and I’m breaking a bad habit that I have going on which is I almost broken it because he doesn’t really drink and he doesn’t smoke but I’m willing to give everything I got to put towards this relationship and him

    • Trish September 7th, 2020

      Omg Tamieka, I am totally in the same scenario, he’s a Virgo man and we’ve had an argument already about “control” , me asking him to be less of ( controller) he does not drink, smoke etc. I love him, we’ve been together since May and by June I moved in with him, everything is/was great until I moved a salt shaker/ along/ and etc after that every little thing became an issue, he hates changes and I am trying not to be so “Leo” about it, but common…. idk what to do, I feel like if it’s not his way there is no WAY. Compromising some things it’s the way I believe relationship are willing to do FOR one another, so what does it means when the only one is compromising is me… he is so good looking, I am so extremely attracted to him, was that’s all it was going to happen? I sure hope not, unfortunately it looks this way and I do love and am in love with him.

  19. Kat July 23rd, 2020

    As a August Leo woman, I was crazy in love with September Virgo man for 2 years. When our communication and understanding was aligned, we brought the best sides of each other. However, unfortunately, I went through a low point of my life and I guess he wasn’t mentally ready to support me how I needed him too…I become very insecure and possessive. Our relationship ended due to his infidelity. That really hurt and I was not expecting him to do that . I truly believed that he was my person. But I really enjoyed myself being in that relationship when things were aligned organically.

  20. Teia July 9th, 2020

    July Leo woman here, interested in a September Virgo man. It’s only been a week that we’ve been talking and understand that he’s shy and it takes a while for him to open up but what should I do in the mean time?? Should I text him everyday just to see how’s he’s doing or should I give him space?? I just really don’t want to screw this up because I always seem to run men away. He doesn’t initiate conversation at all. I’m worried that if I don’t contact him we’d never talk again. Also, how do I know if he’s really interested?? Please help 😩😩

    • Donna July 10th, 2020

      I have the same problem, I scared off a wonderful Virgo and wound up here trying to figure out what went wrong. I feel like I’m not enough so I become too much. Imposter Syndrome. I am after a semi famous Leo currently and he is completely impossible. It makes me realize what it must be like to deal with me.

    • Shaina July 12th, 2020

      Be yourself, if he isnthe right Virgo man he will stay. Keep in contact so he feels you interested but don’t pester him he will go nuts. Im a august leo with an august virgo and we have been making it work for 13 years.

      • Sanique July 16th, 2020

        Ok, perfect I’m glade you said this because I’m a Aug Leo and just started dated a Aug Virgo and I wanted to know how to make this work. We like each other a lot and the company is great but don’t want to mess anything up on either end.

  21. Zee May 12th, 2020

    I met my man who is a Virgo around 4 years ago and I am a Leo, at first it was so hard to make him open up and he believes strongly in perfection it was tough. but I have this strong desire and really interested in him and I patiently wait for him to see how he gonna bring this relationship in the future, there’s a lot of time I want to give up and sometimes his shyness and insecurity really annoying that I want him to be more confident in his self. after a long time he opens up more and more to me and he treats me so dearly until now

    • Julia June 6th, 2020

      My boyfriend is a Virgo and I’m having difficulty understanding him because he has his moment where his so loving and then cold. Almost like a bipolar person, is this normal?

      • Zee June 6th, 2020

        Oh my.. my bf also like that sometimes but it’s only when something bother him, maybe he got something to say but actually scared to tell you.. that’s what always happened to me and my bf tho.. idk.. just give him sometime

    • Leo gal July 8th, 2020

      I Am a Leo woman and I’ve been talking to Virgo man for about 2 years now. We live in different states. He would be up and then down. He went through a lot with losing ppl to gun violence which made him very passive towards me and in a dark place. It was a situation that I had lived before so I know how to relate to his emotions and feelings. Today in 2020 he had stated to me that he wanted to have everything sorted out with himself and gain strength and happiness within his self beFore he gave it to me. That showed me that he was very patient and committed and loyal as a person. I began to stroke his ego and remind him who tf he was and it sparked up GREAT vibrations! Uplifting ones spirit is SO IMPORTANT in any relationship! Some ppl know that they’re the shit in their minds but sometimes have to be reminded OUTLOUD! It truly makes ppl feel great inside and they’ll love you for that😘 afterwards he really started to open to me about a lot of things and started to uplift me back! Virgos have very creative and rich mindsets in correspondence to Us Leo’s! You don’t have a relationship until you uplift each other, motivate and drive each other crazy to each other’s dreams and happiness. Also, Leo pay attention and remember things! Love 4 life xo- Leo

  22. Ethan December 9th, 2019

    Leos shine bright like gold. They just have to learn to soften and “let go” more.
    If it helps, here’s a free 2020 Forecast for LEO: https://youtu.be/3S5PqjeTBVE


  23. Liz August 19th, 2019

    I met a Virgo and I am a Leo; I find that our relationship is passionate and that we have a lot in common. I’m not good at expressing my feelings verbally, but he is. He is kind, gentle and romantic. I say, go ahead, and see how things develop. I don’t feel like a fire lion, so maybe it works. It feels like it is working. I feel wonderful when he is near.

  24. Milly July 15th, 2019

    haha, Leo ascendant Virgo with ascending Virgo Virgo, both were calm and intimidated; He intimidated me because of my personality, he intimidated me by his appearance. He was 100% beautiful and kind. He follows his friends too much, for me that made him look weak.
    My children are both Aquarius and we get along perfectly. They think that I am the most fun and funny intelligent person. I teach them constantly, and I place them in adoration. They are very wise, affectionate, artistic and willing to please, and follow others, as imitators. That part still worries me. They are very impressionable.
    I think now that I’m in my thirties I would like to go out with one again
    Oh, and the best friend of my childhood was also with another Virgo.

  25. infoxycation May 22nd, 2019

    Tell her how wonderful she is. Tell her that she is wanted with you. Don’t tell her she is taking too long! Tell her that is so hard to wait for so long you don’t want to have to loose trust in her and that you know she has the grace to let you know so you don’t worry.

  26. Linda May 14th, 2019

    Tom bracken
    The woman was a scammer they saturate the dating scene with both sexes.
    Sorry you came across one i have experienced many and thankfully they got nothing from me except a little hurt in the beginning.
    Wise up please

  27. Caroline March 31st, 2019

    Well yes that was a fail, she took advantage of you and wasnt that serious to you at all. Well im a leo female, i have an independent mindset. And i have a husband that is a control freak, taurus guy. But when we fight and asks me to give all his money back and send it to him i give it back like right away even tho i have rights to it cos he wont let me work and im stress for not having my own savings. Anyway, leo have pride.

  28. Tom Bracken October 17th, 2018

    I’m a Virgo man and have met the most beautiful and sensual Female Leo on a dating site where we both, almost instantly, expressed to the other a very meaningful “connection” that had us both, myself admittedly ever since, recognising we desired to continue our new found ” fascinating and enlightening” distant new friend with our openly shared needs and hopes in ultimately finding that “special” someone!
    In the next several months of many engaging, soon to become mutually loving and deeply intimate conversations, texts and emails expressing our devotion, loyalty and honorable hopes and lifelong prayers of what we had been discovering was this amazing person on the other end of these limited (WiFi issues) communications we were more and more frustrated with because of unknown forces not allowing more than 5 minute connections with newest Verizon iPhones (I bought and sent her one) and as noted earlier the worst WiFi.
    EVER. !!! which caused us , more myself actually, so much stress that it also showed me by example of her ability to remain calm and her natural ability in having a profound calming effect on me also. All these little insights (nuggets) and greater meanings or positive effects I kept noticing that she NATURALLY influenced me with as we continued to grow deeper in love and admiration and also were finding ourselves discussing more and more OUR REMARKABLE FUTURE together, marriage, children soon possibly and since I owned my home and car outright I on many occasions asked her when could I buy her a flight (Ontario, CA) to come to me (Oregon) so that we could start OUR life and of course, lose ourselves in our mutually and explicitly shared intimate desires that we had been anticipating for some months now!
    Here’s where, if I entertained ANY doubt of her true intentions, I feel I’m at a loss.. I sent her (wired) the $ to buy herself a flight ticket which she, i believe, got cold feet and then within a day or two of recei ing the no e.g. had to be taken to the hospital by ber brother, and I didn’t hear a word from her for 5 days before her BROTHER called me and told me she was very sick and he had just brought her home from the local hospital but that she would make contact as soon as she was better and able. 4 more days pass and she was finally well enough to call me and I could stop worrying because she was much better. Today she texted me with LOVE IN HER NORMAL way at 6AM (time zone difference) 3 am here, And that was all I heard from her today. Meanwhile I texted and emailed her throughout the day with NO RESPONCE WHATSOEVER!!!
    In reading all the Leo FEMALE comments on this thread… of why it’s always them putting matters of reconciliation in the Virgo man’s path! ….but someone… a Leo woman plz… Could someone explain to me if you could, why have I seemed to have met the ONLY Leo woman that seems to be the only single one that does the exact opposite, in terms of keeping up with my many attempts at any response from my beautiful, caring and REMARKABLE Leo soon to be WIFE ( So I was led to believe) plz explain to me before I send her a final text, stating if I was to ever have any DOUBT ever, It would be because of your (her) total LACK of mutual courtesy and TOTAL DISRESPECT OF MY BEING WORRIED AND THE ONE LEFT ALWAYS WAITING!

    • Leo Rhonda December 3rd, 2018

      I hope by now you see this woman was taking advantage of your kindness… Pray and ask God to send you the right woman to be your wife. You desire to have true love and respect!

    • Antoinette December 10th, 2018

      I’m sorry she did that to you as it is most deceitful. She has proven to not be an honorable person. Even if she got cold feet about flying to see you, she should’ve sent the money back. A LEO woman doesn’t need someone to give her money, so I don’t understand why she would even take your money unless she was a SCAMMER to begin with. People will be all that you want them to be behind a computer screen. Reality was coming in fast and she could very well not be who she was portraying. She wasn’t real. LEOs aren’t that way. She was a fake Leo.

    • Vicki January 1st, 2019

      I am a Leo woman and I have a heart of gold, I would give away my last dollar if I felt that someone needed it more than myself.
      I pride myself on honesty and integrity.
      If someone/something seems to good to be true then 9 times out of ten then they are.
      Take this as a lesson maybe and be thankful that you weren’t put a lot more, I hope the New Years bring you love, happiness and laughter, and your hope and dreams are realized.

  29. Ashley Rene July 25th, 2018

    I’ve been dating a virgo man for almost 2 years now and we’ve been bestfriends for 4 years all throughout college. Being able to see other stories and read this piece here today was relaxing. It sometimes becomes over bearing & frustrating when you don’t understand someone or things they do because it’s completely opposite of how you’ve done things…

    Just thank you

  30. Lola May 5th, 2018

    I know this is kind of naïve and sounds very high school drama but I am in highschool so here goes nothing. I am a Leo woman and very much so at that, the guy I like is a Virgo and he seems to fit a lot of this described, only, he’s emotional(and not just the emotional that is equated with sadness; he can get pretty mad sometimes too) and he is very passionate. We click in so many ways and a lot of time we seem perfect together but then there are times where we are like complete opposites or something and end up in an argument that eventually fizzles out. I really like this guy but I’m kind of afraid that our connection just won’t be enough to overcome these differences that I’m noticing everyone keeps mentioning. I see this going long term but all these horoscopes are starting to get the best of me. Am I being silly or do I have a right to be worried?

    • roxy November 27th, 2018

      I’d say there’s nothing to worry about I think he loves you I think you just needed time to work everything out in his own mind before we can make the step towards you

  31. Meg April 1st, 2018

    I am a Leo and my man is a Virgo. In the beginning I needed to get used to his very down-to-earth comments. I would take them to heart and feel he was being too critical. But he was only being logical in his mind. My Virgo man notices everything being very observant. His compliments are very genuine and he makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world, as all Leo’s want to hear. Although, he doesn’t like to reassure me all of the time in that in his mind he loves me and I should know this already. This may be just a man quality. Lol. When I get too feisty and mouthy he has a way of defusing the situation in his calmness. As a Leo and Virgo we have a lot of fun together. Being a Virgo he keeps me grounded, which is a good thing. Lots of fire, he keeps me from burning down the place. Ha!

  32. Sophie December 16th, 2017

    I’m a Leo woman and the guy that I met about two weeks back is a Virgo man. Some of what I’ve read is pretty spot on, but I’ll admit it’s been a bit rough. I’d say it’s been a rocky beginning trying to get the feel for each other, as well as communication. Sometimes, he goes a while before responding. He gives me compliments, but I do admit to being the stereotype of needing reassurance and some flattery. Otherwise, I get insecure and think things aren’t working out well. But reading this article gives me a little better understanding as the the workings of a Virgo man. It’s also pretty early, so guess we’ll just see where this goes! Thank you for writing this article!

  33. April October 17th, 2017

    This article is incredible. Most spot on thing I’ve ever read, truly. I was sobbing through it. My husband and I are having some serious connection issues and I’m just trying to see what it’s truly going to take. I will be reading this with him in the am. Thank you. Thank you!

  34. Christine Leistner June 22nd, 2017

    By the way I failed to mention that my husband is a Virgo LOL

  35. Christine Leistner June 22nd, 2017

    I’m a Leo lady married to my handsome, sexy, and faithful husband of 20 years. I read this article and I was laughing through most of it, because IT’S DEAD ON!! My husband has always made me feel like the only woman in a room. I was taken aback at first by his cold attitude and hateful comments when we would argue. I told him flat out that he better change that crap, because once you say something you can NEVER take it back. I am DEEPLY in love with my husband, and not one day goes by that I don’t thank God for sending him to me.

  36. Pankaj Gajendra June 5th, 2017

    I have read this article completely. I am too a Virgo man and my wife is a Leo woman. Sometimes we have been facing some problems but after reading this article I realized to what kind of the Leo lady is and how to be treated in right manner to receive love and care from her. Honestly saying this article soothes my mind and soul to And all parts of confusion between me and my wife has gone quickly. I think we would be one of the most precious couple in the world at all. Thank you so much.. to make us understand well..

  37. Wishful_Thinker May 23rd, 2017

    I’m inlove right now to a Leo lady. I hope this works out.

    • 1LadyLioness814 May 23rd, 2017

      If you show her she will definitely reciprocate.

  38. Author Unknown February 19th, 2017

    I have met the most amazing Virgo man. Yes, this article is totally, absolutely, positively true every single word. This article have truly given me some incites concerning our relationship. I truly give all the Glory and Honor to God because every word I am truly living. When the Virgo man made this statement, “I believe this can work. I have accepted you as you are. I am will to allow you to change on your own”. That right there brought tears to my eyes. This article have describe the both of us. He just recently pointed out that I was arrogant. It hurt my feelings, I cried, yes I did. He allowed me to go through it for a day. But in the end he called me back and apologized for being so rough on me. He states, “I did not mean to hurt your feelings but I wanted you to know what you were doing”. Now, that’s real love. Because LOVE covers a multitude of sins. I received his apology. We have discussed who will be in control of money decisions. Of course, it is him. This article is 100% TRUTH. Believe every word of it. For the information is true. I even knew about the sensitive part of him. I know that he carries things in his heart and will shut down when his heart is to heavy. Oh my God. I was reading this article with joy and tears at the same time because it gave me clarity and understanding concerning somethings we are facing now. So, now I know what to do to make this relationship work. Which I am learning that on a daily bases. I am so glad we decided to get to know one another before we marry. I can’t wait to marry the LOVE of my life. Ladies, it does not hurt to bend a little. For it brings happiness and unspeakable joy. There is a saying, “Happy Wife, Happy Life”. I beg the difference. It should be, “Happy Husband, Extremely Happy Wife”. Because he then will put his all into it. Know that it will work both ways. A marriage is not 50/50 but it is 100/100. Meaning both desire is met. Hello, somebody. Women we must work just as hard to keep them pleased and help. To the editor, Great report. Thank for the extra information to help me make my relationship with this wonderful, sensitive, compassionate, loyal, devoted, honest, heartfelt Love that has come my way. Now, I know how to keep his head turned and his heart happy. No stress..No mess.. I will bring down and calm down the fusing.. LOL

    • Tammay May 7th, 2017

      Hahaha, your novel made me laugh. I truly appreciate your realness and encouragement.

  39. JohnSandy@ask-oracle.com December 31st, 2015

    Superb!!! I\’m glad to seen this words….

  40. Camillamercedes July 3rd, 2015

    I’m a Leo woman. I dated a Virgo man for 4 months. Everything that is says well most of it  is true. He had strong feelings for me, but my feelings for him wasn’t strong as his. Our break-up was terrible in the end.  During our dating time their were some great memories.

    • arya January 13th, 2017

      I hv crush on a leo girl nd im virgo… Nd i know its impossible ?

  41. Haiki January 26th, 2014

    Hello; I’m a Leo female and the person I’m talking to is a Virgo male.
    We’ve been talking for about a month and ten days now; and we’re going to meet each other pretty soon. So far, the only problems we had was communication on my end. But, we’ve always made up some how; though he’s sometimes upset, and he still likes me.
    He shows me admiration, and gives me all sorts of praise that I enjoy from him; as well I show the same. We also have a lot in common, though… I don’t know how well it would work out between us yet.
    Any advice to help us lead towards a longing relationship between us?

  42. Anonymousguy January 1st, 2014

    I’m a Virgo male, and I don’t really find myself shy at all (unless I’m near my crush, then I’ll blush while I attempt to talk to her :O). I think in the end it really depends on not just his horoscope, but his personality in the first place. I’m pretty outgoing among my friends and can talk to other females generally fine. 
    The article is pretty accurate though, if I have a girlfriend I’d care deeply and love for her, and Leo females seem to be somewhat intimidating because of their immense beauty we melt under haha 😛

  43. grace456 September 19th, 2013

    in recent times i had observed around. Whenever i made a comment on my facebook. He seems to be “behind me.” Still observing around though, but I will not be forgiving that easily.

  44. hrtbrkn23 June 26th, 2013

    So I have this close friend, we went on a trip together and ended up sharing a room. We were play fighting before bed and next thing I knew he had slipped his fingers in to my vagina and was fingering me so hard. Everything happened so fast, we were naked but we didnt have sex, I felt the tip of his penis touched but he stopped and said he cant do it. So he basically just tease me. He said he dont do casual sex and neither do I. It wasnt awkward tho, we just laugh about it and talked. Im usually very conscious about myself but for some reason I felt really comfortable with him. He said he’s not rejecting me that he really likes me as a friend and he doesnt wanna complicate things. I asked him why me if he sees me as a good friend and he said he wanted to see how far he can go and silly me allowed it to happen. To be honest I felt disappointed with myself as I know im not that kind of girl and also I felt stupid for letting him. I asked him why he ddnt do it with this girl that likes him and he said its coz she’ll fall in love with him, I said what if i was in love with him or if i fall for him after that, he just basically threw the question back at me and asked if i’d ever fall for him, i told him no because i just see him as a really good friend.. the next morning he hugged me from behind and apologised to me for what happened and said that we cant let it happen again and he promised not to ever tease me. everyone that knows us says that me and him should just go out coz we basically are like boyfriend & girlfriend apart from we dont kiss and do any physical things bf & gf do. I must admit we do have moments but I always fight it back as he is my friend and doesn’t want to make things weird between us and he’s always saying he just sees me as a friend. I told my bestfriend about it coz I was confused and my bstfriend says he took me for a D***head and that he doesnt see me as a friend coz if he did he wouldnt have done what he did. Things is a bit awkward but at the same time not really. He still acts like usual, however I not feel a bit conscious with the way I act with him because I dont want him to get the wrong idea as the other night when he went to bed early, and after a few minutes i did too and I think he thought that I was expecting something to happen again. Now Im really confused, I know for a fact we are not the type to have casual or random hook ups so I don’t know how we even ended up in that situation. People say we do like each other and that we just don’t wanna admit it but I am not sure. I am actually starting to question myself, what should I do? What does he want? Does he really consider me as a good friend? Why did he do it and what was his intentions? 🙁
    He’s a virgo and im a Leo.

  45. guiltymanners February 26th, 2013

    So I’m Leo with moon in saggitarius, while my Husband is Virgo, moon in libra.Note to everyone, if you want to know about compatibility, look up your moon sign.
    Sagittarius Moon and Libra Moon have a very good chance at a long, loving relationship. Both partners are friendly, tolerant, outgoing, idealistic and think the best of people. Where they differ is in their needs.
    Libra Moon needs more time with their partner than Sagittarius Moon may be willing to give. Sagittarius Moon has a strong independent streak, and they may find Libra a bit clingy. Together, they have a great time out with friends or having adventures. Libra may get hurt occasionally by Sagittarius’ complete obliviousness to the feelings of others. Libra Moon won’t ever say anything, however, in the interest of keeping everything conflict-free.
    Libra Moon’s diplomacy will keep the peace more often than not with Sagittarius Moon. When Sagittarius Moon goes off on one of their solitary adventures, Libra Moon may find themselves feeling abandoned and insecure. With these conflicts, both partners will need to make some concessions to be truly happy. If they are really attached to each other, they will make it work out to both their advantages. Their good times will far outweigh the bad, and Libra Moon will tolerate quite a bit in the name of diplomacy and tact.

  46. grace456 December 1st, 2012

    about 3 to 4 years ago, i caught up with a fellow Virgo classmate online, he asked a lot of questions, whether I am single or not.
    He was from a better (elite) class.
    I caught him once for chatting to a (libran) girl on facebook. (She wrote a post on his wall, she was the top student. 
    When I cannot go to the university (I went to a university that I liked), he began to criticise me. However that changed when I went back to school.
    I went to confide with my friends about it, they told me to ignore him.
    I feel that he is trying to play games with me.
    The last time I chatted with him, I caught all his lies about he not being able to find a girlfriend when I happened to chance upon his friendster ( a woman, also a Leo, happened to left a comment saying that “he is mysterious and all do not want to say who”).
    Recently, I saw his name in another classmate’s blog (she is a Gemini).
    I hoped to get some advice here. Is he trying to play into my insecurity? Or just merely trying to play games with me?

  47. Leo_T November 14th, 2012

    @Dr.-Shakra: Right now i feel as if he knows he wants to get back with me but he’s pacing himself and still is deciding. I feel the same too and i want to be with him too but we both have things going on. Its like we’re both single but know where we stand with each other….i think!  Oh yeah, i almost forgot…So when you said your Venus is in Cancer, is Venus pertaining to certain traits or qualities how you are like in relationships? 

  48. Leo_T November 14th, 2012

    @Dr.-Shakra: Oh yeah, i almost forgot…So when you said your Venus is in Cancer, is Venus pertaining to certain traits or qualities how you are like in relationships?

  49. Leo_T November 14th, 2012

    @Dr.-Shakra: Right now i feel as if he knows he wants to get back with me but he’s pacing himself and still is deciding. I feel the same too and i want to be with him too but we both have things going on. Its like we’re both single but know where we stand with each other….i think! 

  50. Dr.-Shakra October 30th, 2012

    I would say call your man and get back together. Its hard to find true love and when you find it hold on to it especially if it is worth holding on to. 
    Leo woman(man)+Virgo man(woman)=balance
    Leo girl(boy)+Virgo man(woman)= chaos
    Leo woman(man)+Virgo boy(girl)=chaos
    Leo girl+Virgo boy=what the hell were we thinking
    Leo woman(man)+Virgo woman(man)=balance
    Leo girl + Virgo girl= highs/lows
    Leo boy+Virgo boy=fire/ice

  51. Dr.-Shakra October 30th, 2012

    Greetings my fellow Leo Women, 
    I am a Leo Woman in a committed relationship with a Virgo Man and we are wonderful together. We have been together for a year and this is my third relationship with a Virgo. Now the difference between this relationship and the past ones is that we have open communication, understating and patience. In order for this relationship to work you have to basicly define the relationship and communicate the expectations as the relationship grows. We have had our ups and downs in the year we have been together trust me it was not easy, but at the end of the day I know where my heart is and it is with him. Here is some advice look up your birth charts together and see all of the different components that make up who you are. For example, I look ours up and even though I am a Leo, my Venus is in Cancer and Cancer and Virgo are a match made in heaven. So I would advised to know yourself first through your birth chart and then research Leo and Virgo characteristics. God Bless and I hope it works out for you. Know that any relationship can work with good communication and unconditional love. P.S. Leo Women be honest with Virgo please even with the small things, Virgo men have to know their women inside and out. 
    Love. Peace. Unity. 

  52. Leo_T September 30th, 2012

    Im a leo woman and i just got out of a relationship with my first True Love he is a Virgo man. We were together for 2 and 1/2 years.  It was both of our first LONGEST relationships ever. I think one major thing that caused us to break was our communication and the fact that we’re both so stubborn. Sometimes it was hard to tell if he loved me or not because he rarely showed his emotions and feelings and told me how he felt until i left then everything came out. Its weird cause when i get around him all my worries and everything just disappears and i start gettin all warm and i just smile alot. I mean i’m just happy….We’re cool now and i’m still in love with him, now idk if its me or what but i feel (intuitively) that maybe he is still in love with me but he maybe indenial and not admit it unless he’s really over me. But its only been 10 months so far. We only broke up twice out of the whole 2 and 1/2 years…I just need some help in trying to get closer to him and trying to get him to open up to me to at least let me know something if he does feel the same way. He say our feelings bout certain things are mutual. So i cant help but think that if Im still in love with him he maybe still too…We rarely are talking now but we cool though, idk if he has moved on or just dont know what to do or say himself because he probably think i’ve moved on.  I NEED ADVICE (Please comment back on this) Thank You! 

  53. ajwil3973 May 29th, 2012

    I am a leo woman and just went on my first date with my virgo this wekend. It was an instant connection. I found myself being drawn to his quietness and soft romantic tendencies. Our first date ended up up lasting 30 hours, as it seemed we couldn’t pull ourselves away from one another to say goodbye. He is almost the perfect virgo stereo type. I am just about on the mark for a leo woman (minus the extravagant spending). The only thing that worries me is the chaos with my teenage kids in my house might drive him bonkers. I felt so many of the things the article talks about right away with him. I can’t wait to spend more time getting to know this amazing virgo.

  54. sondra1 April 12th, 2012

    I met a virgo guy last march, started lil dating in may, cause i moved back home, chemistry amazing!!! (when in person only). We hit it off for 3 months, got into a argument and he was gone basically. Talked to him couple months later (because of me) reaching out. In dec he finally atmitted that he was an asshole, i was a great woman, beautiful, he missed me, and said he just wasnt ready to commit, cause when he does she’s like family to him. Made me feel great and terrible at the same time, but being me having to think more into detail with his crazy ass (to me) meant once he’s in a relationship he’s in it for the long hall, so i freaked his brains out that night, and left feeling great, that i finally had an answer!!! Nothing bothers me more than to not know why something ended (that i want soooo, of course). Last month i texted him tipsy (dont know what to say, have a good night:), woke up the next morn like pleeeease tell me i didnt do it!!! (dam i did). Cause i had vowed to myself that i would never say anything else to this man UNLESS he makes a move( call me 1st for once). So i let it go, said nothin else and he called me 6 days later (asking me how im doing, my daugher…). Ended up going over his house, a week later, doing the nasty, left out he was suppose to take me to the movies, the following day. (We made these plans prior to me coming over) and that punk stood me up, and only after i cussed him out (nicely cause he’s so sensitive), why am i even still thinkin of his feelings???uhh, anyway so he texted back , i’ll make it up to you. PS I know i got great stuff cause he try’s to not make me feel like im the shit but sai softly (u know u got it too), i cant stand him, yet adoooore him at the same time. I will never look at another virgo, and as soon as im over this, NOT LOOKING BACK. Ive been loyal, NOT in a relationship 4 a yr now (havent met anyone that could hold my attention, touch me, look at me, give that married 4 3yr + affection the way he does) :(, and PATIENT, how long is that suppose to be??? we arent compatible, its like he thinks im suppose to read his mind, and not be mad cause its only a movie. We dont click when were apart, but ammmmmaaaazzzzziiiiiiinnnnnggggg when were together. All that being said (SCREW HIM), trying to make myself think that anyway,lol

  55. Bruciebabe April 9th, 2012

    Hello All, People talk about communication being key.
    I am a Leo woman with a Virgo man and we have only just started going out. 
    Any tips on how to communicate would be much appreciated. Especially in terms of how to handle disagreements.

    • Winfred March 31st, 2018

      Handling arguments is good but it matters on the person in accepting their faults. P.S. Im a virgo man

  56. NumbaOneD March 21st, 2012

    I am curious to know what happen in your relationship. Did you guys ever get back together and if so, how did it go.. my relationship with my virgo man was very simular to yours. From the trust issues to the bruses, to the make up sex.. Just was wondering how it went!

  57. NumbaOneD March 21st, 2012

    Hi Everyone.. Let me just say that I first read this article about 4 months into this leo-virgo relationship.. i was amazed at what I had read because EVERYTHING it said was dead on how our relationship was going. I was so amazed that I read it to him and he said that he never really believed in astrology but it sounded like maybe it could all be true because he agreed that that was exactly how we were as a couple.  It has now been almost 2 yrs that we have been together. All aspects of our relationship are still the same. I have been ready to leave him over and over because I am a very beautiful woman.. I get a lot of attention from other men where ever I go, and I just don’t feel that he love and appriciates me as much as I NEED to be. If I am crying because of something that happened between us, he will just leave out the door and say that I need some time and space to get myself together. What I feel that I really need is for him to apoligize.. maybe not even for what he did if he doesn’t feel that he is wrong, but for how he made me feel. Not just leave me siting there with a borken heart. We have been living together almost since the day we first me. We have learned how to work together in a lot of situations, but because I already had 2 kids prior to meeting him, and the fact that we just had a daughter about 8 months ago, we still have so many issues that cause us problems, some dealing with how he thinks the kids should be raised, some regaurding money should be spent, and other issue include his extravagent need to hang out with his friends ALL the damn time. Let me also state that I am 31 yrs old and he is only 23 yrs old. That is where another one of my problems comes in.. a lot of our issues deal with the fact that he is much younger than me and obviously not as mentally and emotionally mature as I am. So I often ask myself and others, how much of what I am gong through is because of his age, and how many of these issues will work them self out over time as we both continue to grow. Another issue is that last year right around the time when i found out I was pregnant, we talked about geting married. He bought me a ring, and then a couple of months later we went an exchanged it for a wedding set so we could do it before the baby go here. I mentioned to his mother that I thought it was important for us to get married and she didn’t agree. She advised him not to get married and he slowly pushed back out wedding plans until now he is just saying that he is not ready because of money probs etc. but yesterday he just told me it was because if someone advises him not to do something that he is going to listen.. In other words.. if Mommy says no.. then he is not man enough to make his own decisions. She also recently advised him not to upgrade his cell phone stating that he didn’t need it because if he needs to use GPS or something when he is out then he could just call me. She always advises him against him being more independent, he couldn’t even fill out a check when I met him, because everything has always been done for him. So.. just the other day I found out that I am pregnant with my 4th child.  This will be my 2nd by him. Of course after having my last daugher 8 months ago.. his mother sent me a text message saying how adorable our daughter was, and how I need to stop with her. She tried to convince him to go and get a freaking vasectme (how ever you spell that) and I was so upset, because that is something that you dicuss with your partner.. not you mother.. plus he is just too young for that. If things don’t work out with us he might want to start a family later in life.  Anyway.. I am so confused on what to do, because I have always wanted 5 – 6 kids. This will be my 4th. I am an excellent mother.. I have been homeschooling my kids for 13yrs now and they are reading and writing in 8 different languages. Having a family, and being loving and dedicated to my man is what I am all about right now. So because of our leo-virgo differences, (mostly him not showing me the affection and love) and the fact that I am going on my 4th child, and he says he is not going to be ready for marriage any time soon.  I want to get up and leave. I don’t have any money to go.. but I am a rider, and I have raised my first to kids on my own, so I am not afraid to do this. We both agree that we love each other more than it seems from the problems we have. He wrote me a 4 pg letter expressing how he felt and how he knows he needs to work on his affection, but after reading a lot of other comments on here, and  from the 2 yrs, we have already been together.. I just am unsure if he will ever be capable of filling my heart up with affection. Sex usually comes down to.. “take thoes off”… Is this man just not that into me? Is it his age or the fact that our signs are just wrong for us to be together. I honestly think it is a combination of all of them and prob. more. But just any advice anyone could give me would be great. I love him and I would love to spend the rest of my life with him and our children, but I know that the day I walk out this door.. (minus the 9 months I gotta get through if I do have this baby), I will be able to find someone who will love me for me.. not be so critacle about everything I do wrong, be understanding and not blame me when things are wrong, and treat me like the Beautiful Queen that I am. And even with 4 other kids, I think I can find someone to treat me better than this, because I am that good of a women, intellignet, beautiful, strong, arrogant, passionate. (My Leo traits in full effect). Anyway if anyone even made it to reading all of this.. thank you for listening, and plz give me a little feed back. My love for him is making me stay, but my pride, ego, and heart tells me to move it along. Maybe at least until he is with out me and can choose if this is really what he wants or not. Don’t want to push him into marriage, but I refuse to say and live in SIN, and feel like I am less than because I am good enough to treat him like he is my husband, but not good enough to BE hi wife.. Thanks again.. -NumbaOne

    • Boss Babe November 24th, 2020

      Just give him space. Leave him for a while and definitely he will realize your worth. I am a Leo woman and i can well understand that we Leo have courage to make difficult decision. Never let him take your love for granted. When we love we love hard and that’s our weakness so don’t make him play with your feelings and take your love as a weakness.

  58. LeoNLove January 24th, 2012

    I am also a Leo woman in an 18 month relationship with a Virgo man. We are the “typical” Leo & Virgo as you read above and like so many on this thread. I am a single mother and he has no children. We do not live together. He has met some of my family, I have met no family members only a few buddies. Communication is well let just say he warned me and is SLOWLY trying to work on it. I must say I do here form him every day. There has only been maybe one or two instances that I did not here from him for 2 days. Which after reading a lot of these blogs is pretty good as I read so many woman waiting to hear from thier Virgo for as long as 2 months!
    Leo woman…do you find it hard to spend time with your Virgo man?  Are you always the one initiating time together? Do you have children from a previous relationship? Does he engage with your children? or do you find he only makes time if you have a sitter? 
    Virgo men ….please give me some guidance here: I see that my Virgo will begin a project and be consumed for days till it is exactly how he wants it. Which is fine…however why not just let me know “hey I am gonna be real busy for a few days, I may not text or call.” He just disappears and that makes me feel so insecure and leaves me wondering WTH happened?  Why be so distant and shut off to the world?  Why is it so hard for the Virgo man to let a woman in his world?
    I would love some insight!

  59. renee80 January 18th, 2012

    Hi everyone,
    I am totally in love with my Virgo guy.  As it is mentioned in the thread.  Virgo mean are very calm and logical.  I am learning with a Virgo man you must ask them direct questions and wait while they analyze it.  As a Leo woman we tend to be quick-minded, instant-gratifcation seekers, and above all else we want to be adorned and admired.  A Virgo man will not “SAY” this to you.  I repeat will not “SaY” it to you.  He might think it but it takes a bit coaxing to get him to say it.  Most Leo woman find this time consuming and laborious but give the Virgo man time.  He will come around.  If you want something you have to tell him.  Both signs have a hint of stubborness about us.  So, I believe through all of the selfishness-if you can get your Virgo man to see your side and you see his side, you both will be able to win at the battle of love. 
    It’s been almost a year with my guy.  I’ll keep you all posted 🙂

  60. Karen2012 December 14th, 2011

    Oh wow, everything they describe is so true about virgo man. I’m a leo woman to the heart and has being living with a virgo man for 10 months. Our relationship has been up and down I can’t count how many times we broke up and I put my pride aside to get hime back. We truly love each other and I’m understanding him more. We moved in after dating for a month he makes my life complete and I’m so in love with him. And might I add he’s 5 years younger then me he’s 21 lol but is so mature. After reading the article about the virgo guy cheating repeatly I’m so afraid that might happen to me. The reason being is one night I woke up and he wasn’t in bed it was the early morning of his bday he was on the phone with some girl explaining why he stoped talking to her. I was pissed and to make matters worse she saw us out together weeks before, I just hope he don’t send me through drama. He’s also a liar 🙁 but he has a good heart I haven’t suspected him of any wrong doings lately. But for now we are madly in love and the sex is overly amazing. Thanks to everyone for sharing their stories and I hope your relationships works out. Damn these virgo man they have such hold on us its crazy.

  61. LeoGene December 5th, 2011

    I have been dating a Virgo Man for 6 years and just 2 months ago he cheated on me..(kissed a girl) We wanted to spend our lives together and we were happy until I got insecure and so did he. There wasnt enough communication going on. I am a passionate girl and his a shy guy. Everything that is said above is correct but they are not all loyal sadly. However, our love is strong and I forgave him and took him back because Leo’s believe in second chance and see whats true about people. I expect more from him right now.. I want him to text and call me more and he doesn’t, I would love for him to be romantic – but im dreaming right?. He thinks im overreacting. But he is caring and when we are together it’s the best..he cuddles me and kisses me and we make love but he’s still not open with me but am I expecting to much. I dont know if I can trust him but he apologised and said that he loves me more then ever, he made a BIG mistake and will never do it again and to show how much he loves me that he will marry me. But I cant do that until im ready to move on with whats happened. It’s hard but I want him in my life..
    I think a lot and make stupid scenarios in my head – of him cheating, of him proposing to me, of our life together , of our lives separate..it’s draining at times..
    Any advice??

    • Boss Babe November 24th, 2020

      Virgos take time to open up. in my case he lied me few times and every time i used to force him that don’t ever try to cheat me (its not about other girls but in every scenario). we had so many fights on that communication issue. Every single time i caught him lying with me that made me more crazy because we Leo are very loyal and appreciate honesty. With so many fights i started having trust issues on him. He loves me a lot and once we had an open conversation that because my aggressive personality he started hiding things so that his mistake wont make me crazy but this habit of lying made our relationship more worse so he wanted to make things better. we both are married now n honestly he changed himself a lot. My suggestion is to have an open dialogue and analyze if he really loves you then what is making him to cheat on you. May be there is a communication gap. assure him that you appreciate honesty even if that will break your heart.

  62. mssleo December 4th, 2011

    This is so true. I am going out with a virgo man and I am a leo woman. We argued about how I don’t feel appreciated. Even though, I read in the other articles that We shoud avoid Virgo man because we are not compatible with them. If a Virgo man and a Leo woman like myself come into an agreement with my boyfriend about our issues amd differences then we can make it work because if you truly love the person you are with, nothing I mean nothing will pull you apart. Every Leo woman out there are the greatest woman in the world because despite our personality, we know how to calm ourselves down and appreciate the man we love despite the fact, they don’t compliment the way we show our love.

  63. sophieprep101 November 27th, 2011

    PLEASE! and I mean PLEASE Do not listen to him! Don’t get invloved with this Virgo man ever again! You need to cut him out of your life before it’s to late.

    My mom is a Leo and my dad is a Virgo, And well lets just say my dad treats my mom alot like you were treated…To this day they fight and it just didn’t work out.

    I can’t stress how much you do not need this man in your life.

    Just stay away from him trust me.

  64. ndnic9 November 12th, 2011

    And by the way ….everything described above is accurate …I am such a Leo it’s not even funny …I love lavish things, I love attention etc .. my virgo ex boyfriend is a typical Virgo … I just wanna also add to the story above the sex was amazing …I’m talking about 2or 3 times a day …and Trust me as much arguments we had,we also had a bunch of makeup sex !!!

  65. ndnic9 November 12th, 2011

    Wow okay this is gonna be long….I’m a Leo female and my ex boyfriend is a Virgo and we broke up about 8 or 9 months ago …our relationship was the most craziest toxic yet passionate relationship ever…let me explain from the beginning:

    Supposedly word around campus is that he had a big crush on me . I neva really payed much attention to him but i would occasionally catch him staring intensly at me everytime I passed by. Finally after everybody told me to give him a chance, thats what I did. The typical aggressive leo that I am , I approached him and asked him for his number. We immediately clicked. We were talking on the phone all the time , texting each other all the time , even started hanging out . His friends were excited because I was the girl of his dreams and he finally got to hang with me…

    wait hold up before I continue with this juicy story let me quickly describe
    him: black male,very studious ,likes to dress up or wear polo, super anal and meticulous,very scheduled,shy (well at least around me but not with
    his friends),doesn’t say too much(more of an observer) you catch my drift …now back to the Story….

    Things were going so well and we even became intimate pretty fast but things didn’t change after sex, it just made us stronger.I loved the fact that he was calm and sweet…that he wasn’t so ostentatious like many of my ex boyfriends and that he could sweep me away with subtle things that he did. It was the end of our junior year and everybody was packing up to go home …we both live in the same state, so we figured things would work out .he warned me that this summer would be a busy summer for him bc he would be working and traveling …I understood that and told him that if he would continue communicating with me (phone calls,text) and just see me when he could ,it would make me happy.he agreed !…we went our own separate ways for that summer I was at home and he was working …he came to visit me in July and met my mom ..immediately he asked me out and we were boyfriend and girlfriend (even though it felt like we were already in a relationship ) anyway after that visit everything went down hill from there ..my mom wanted me to take summer classes and he was traveling more ..he stopped calling as much and he would text me one word responses …I would ask him to see me and he would reply with “your being a brat,not now ” it Started to feel like I was annoying him and he just didn’t want anything to do with me …things became so weird for us in the summer …it was like he hated the fact that I wanted a lil bit of his attention and I hated the fact he was so cold …my birthday was coming around the corner and basically he didn’t get me anything and broke up with me …I was away in miami celebrating but I didn’t even celebrate the way I wanted to bc I was heartbroken….his exact words were “this is just not gonna work out ” n he clicked the phone on me !! Anyway my pride would not let me beg him back, so I kept it moving …he was still texting me and I just wouldn’t respond …sorry this story is taking so long …anyway senior yr was here and everybody was heading back ,he kept on hitting me up and calling me to check on me and like a fool I caved in ..we were boyfriend n girlfriend again …. i still couldn’t get over the way he treated me that summer and my intuition was telling me something was up…so I did my research and a good friend of mine told me he was cheating on me the whollllllle summer and that he really wasnt that busy …he would make trips to see this girl and told her more than once that he didn’t have a girlfriend…I was hurt by this and confronted him in front of his friends (the worst way to get a Virgo is to embarrass them) he apologized n apologized and I took him back …then I found out I was pregnant …he was nervous and repeatedly told me “you can’t keep it, I’m not ready for a child ” so I scheduled an appointment for us and basically he stood me up n lied to hang with his buddies while I got the procedure done …which happens to be a thing of his …I confronted on him lieing and he cried …I Neva saw him cry evaaaaa or show any kind of emotion like that !! he kept on saying ” you dont deserve a guy like me” but like an asswhole I took him back :(… He tried to be a better boyfriend but I just couldnt trust him anymore anything he said to me I automatically took as a lie and it was becoming stressful for us …we would argue, fight, scream at each other ,he would kick me out his dorm and that same very night ask me to come back n spend the night …I knew he wasn’t good for me …I changed and everyone around me could tell from the weight I was losing to my hair falling out to the bruises on my arm from us fighting …I guess he changed too … He wasn’t the shy sweet innocent boy I thought he was !!!anyway the last straw was when everyone on campus was saying that he was cheating again and I mean EVERYBODY!! It was embarassing …he claimed that it was all lies and everyone just wanted to see our relationship fail…we got into an argument and he ended up choking me …once he realizes what he was doing , he let go and i stormed out…he called and apologized a million times. We broke up a week or two later …well he broke up with me and said he couldnt do it anymore …he said he had to focus on school and all the fighting yelling and accusations were driving him up the wall …he said he loved me with all his heart which I doubt that and would take a bullet for me but we had to go our own separate ways …we stopped talking for awhile .I went MIA changed my number deleted him as a friend on Facebook …basically just dissapeared off the face of the earth …havent talked to him for 8 or 9 months until a couple days ago …he found me on twitter and we exchanged numbers again …he said he was looking for me….need advice n help …I don’t think I could Eva get in a relationship with him again at least not now but someone (a Virgo ) tell me if he did really love me …

    • Winfred March 31st, 2018

      If your virgo guy (virgo or not) have cheated you not just once or twice but several situations, I say you stop seeing or communicate with him. He is not true to you (hint: the first summer he cheated on you). Exactly, virgis are calculative and analytic, so during that summer, he knows what he is doing and calculates the period when to see you and when not, carefully no secret to be spilled and yet everything was spilled after. Trust me, im a virgo guy. And most characteristic of a virgo is with me too.

  66. rinoa November 10th, 2011

    Yeah -creepy how this is pretty much true. Good news, it can work! I am married to a Virgo and I am a Leo. Been together five years. My advice…patience and understanding. Talk less and listen more. Leo’s can evolve, and Virgo’s can learn to step outside the box.

  67. Aubbers November 10th, 2011

    I cant believe how spot on this is…. I dont know exactly how to communicate some issues with my virgo though. I am reading this because I want things to work between us, I need some serious help. YIKES!

  68. catherinea November 8th, 2011

    Boy, I wished I’d have seen this years ago – I would have saved myself some grief and had answers that would have resolved issues. True to the above forms defined, life was fabulous with him. I would look to him to take the reins at times because, even being a Leo, it can be exhausting and having the pillar to lean on was great. However, the introspection was becoming more of an obstacle and communication was more difficult. It seemed he thought I could “guess” what his thoughts were and when I tried to get an exchange going, at times it was like pulling teeth. We were together for four years and it didn’t end well. I had reached my limit and my patience was at its end. Which is too bad . . . really love this man. We’ve been eachother’s life for over 25 years, in varying degrees and he was my dream come true. One other thing, though, he is a slob.

  69. kaylalaine November 2nd, 2011

    I find it pretty peculiar that almost all of the positive comments are of a relationship between a Leo woman and a Virgo man. That is my situation as well, and I found this article to be extremely accurate. I’ve been with my Virgo for three years now, and most all of the information was spot on.

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  72. ledmond September 21st, 2011

    After 4 months and tons of differences(LOL) I think I am getting the hang of this guy. things are finally seeming to come full circle. I am a leo woman and my virguy has been driving me up the wall. Not intentionally of course. He is the most gentle man Ive ever known but by far weak, firm but sweet in his own little special way. I struggle with the non verbal and non physical displays of interest/affection but then I have to look deep in myself and consider all of the actions that he does that clearly scream HEY LADY I LIKE YOU!!! We can talk for hours but when it comes to talking about feelings and where we are in the relationship the moment becomes akward. Not a day has gone by that he hasn’t reached out to me and when our schedules get too busy that we cant see each other the text and phone calls from him pile up. I must admit, that, I love, but I could sure use a hug or a kiss initiated by him. I still feel like when I initiate it he is going to wet his pants, so bad that I get nervous for him. I cant wait until that blows over. My love language is physical and I am going CRAZY!!! LOL. We are so opposite, yet so attracted to each other, I remember I told him we have nothing in common, now anytime he can find a common interest with us he points it out, its stuff like that, that keeps me going in this thing. I read somewhere that Virguys are doers and I agree, if he can do something to make me feel better he will but if he has to emotionally treat me, I can hang it up, I dont think he knows how to. It is a lot of work with these men, but in reality what relationship isnt. I must say I love the fact that I have so much trust in him and that is a great feeling. w/that said Im taking it one day at a time and where it ends…..well we’ll just have to see.

  73. ali_khan September 6th, 2011

    If Leo women are wondering why Virgo males did not leave much comments in this article; the reason can be they laughed at loud after reading it as I did. Secondly look how much i wrote above still i think it’s not perfect and still I got more to add… remember the detailed analysis 😛
    Virgos may think that as they cant put all their words in a small box, means it wont be upto their standards so it’s better to leave it rather do it half heartedly :):):) lolz…
    Leo women, communicate with your virgo partners, you are special in their lives. It’s just they cant get out of all other things easily unless they get to the bottom of it & draws some kind of results which can atleast satisfy them 🙂 And Virgos please limit your all other interests & RESPECT you Leo. Good Luck!

    • sahar November 24th, 2020

      I will remember all key principles in my future life. “Virgos dont do commitment until they really means it. Once they do; thats it, end of world, no matter what happen, most of them fulfill it” Completely agree with this.

  74. ali_khan September 6th, 2011

    Hi, I’m Virgo male. I’m speechless after reading this article. Looks like someone talking about me & my Leo partner. Everything is so true. I wish i could know this earlier to avoid all those conflicts. I used to think my Leo partner is demanding too much from me I thought she is rude, self centered, mean, arrogant, short tempered etc etc. But it’s now after knowing my & her natural characteristics; It wasn’t too bad and all conflicts are avoidable since i admitted now Who Am I. Virgo & Leo can easily ignore their differences & enjoy the best qualities which they both have naturally.

    The key principles which worked for me;
    1- Reminding myself nothing is perfect except the creator. Means accepts others with all their flaws.
    2- Reminding myself the good points of mine rather being busy in sorting out just all the problems in me so that i can find time for my partner.
    3- Setting out the least standards for most of things in my daily life to find some more time rather than wasting it to make things perfect which will never be perfect anyway. Also I avoided much of the tension at back of my head to sort out pending work…Analysis:)
    4- Write down my concern areas on paper prioritywise so that rather than achieving averything i can concentrate on few things (the most crucial ones). So that I can decrease my worries, get some more time & get some life too. Before that I convinced myself I cant achieve everything, i cant simply be perfect in whatever I do, its humanly not possible…. thats the most toughest work to do for me :p
    5-In case of Leo woman; Pass on Compliments, tell her how special she is in your life. My partner exeeded my expectation sometimes, but as my standards were too high in negative terms so I failed to recognise most of the efforts she was making & learned the hard way after losing her 🙁
    6- Just hold back your criticism guys; even though I’m still struggling to that. coz I just go into detailed analysis whatever i am involved in within few minutes. After reading this article atleast I am to some extend accepted that there are others as well with the same issues … lolz, i mean thats natural.

    On Positive notes girls; Virgos dont do commitment until they really means it. Once they do; thats it, end of world, no matter what happen, most of them fulfill it. Virgos are very family oriented, faithful, truthful, they are emotional too its just that we describe our emotions in logics & analysis 😉 What can i say my mind does not accept emotions unless they are backed by my mind too…..lolz

  75. Passionate1 September 2nd, 2011

    I am a Leo woman married to a Virgo man for 11 years now. We are completely different in all aspects of life and it has taken me this long to realize that we are incompatible. This is my second relationship with a Virgo man. The first Virgo man I dated and the second I am now married to. As for renee80 question regarding confrontation with a Virgo man,they seem to be self-righteous making you feel as if it is your fault the confrontation happened. Both Virgo males where/are like this. When a confrontation happens, in my opinion, it is best to give the Virgo man space to think about it.Attacking makes the situation worse. As for those dating a Virgo man…they are wonderful to date, but being in a committed relationship takes more energy than it is worth. Meaning, a Leo female will give more than they receive, thus starving on the few crumbs the Virgo man provides!

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    Ask Oracle April 25th, 2011

    @renee80 Love is a matter of heart and not intellect that it needs any exhaustive analysis of any kind and one is always responsive and active about things to be treasured. And in case someone is taking a lot of time simply means they don’t care about you and not ready for the relationship yet.

    In such a situation, I would prefer to run from such a person.

  77. renee80 April 24th, 2011

    Hi thread! What do you all think about when to respond to Virgo men. should you respond right away when there is a confrontation or would you wait a day or so? I have noticed that with Virgo men, they tend to need time to think before they react on things. As a Leo woman, I like to arrive to solutions quickly. So when you have issues with virgo men do you attack the issue quickly or do you attempt to act more like them, as in digesting the issue first and then in a day or so respond?

    Those who are married to Virgo men, I would love to hear what you have to say.

  78. casey April 12th, 2011

    me and my virgo man have been together for almost a year now and our chemistry and love for eachother is still as strong as ever. like any couple we have our little arguments but i believe its good because we have learnt so much from eachother. i find most times when we disagree its because he is a lot more close minded than me and he believes in right and wrong and black and white where i see the big picture. but we love eachother very much and say it everyday. i truly believe he is the one for me 🙂

  79. Renee April 2nd, 2011

    I just started dating a Virgo about a month ago. We are dating from a distance because I met him online. Instantly, we had a connection and we literally talk for hours on Skype and wonder where the time went.
    But as a Leo woman, I need more of a committment from him or else I feel that I am not adorned and I look for adoration somewhere else (but in the back of my mind, I dont want to). Another Leo woman on the thread said something to the fact that a Virgo man can make a Leo woman very INSECURE at times. I believe this is true–b/c I constantly think of him and want him all of the time. And, I actually hate that part of it—that feeling!

    I did have a conversation with him last night about compromising and of course as with all Virgo men, he took a while to digest it and then said, I understand and I will change. So that’s great! But What I am fearful about as well is that Virgo’s over analyze everything! So I am unsure because of this “compromise conversation” will he think less of me.

    So far he has my complete loyality but he does make me feel insecure b/c of his lack of communication…but when we do communicate it’s electric.

    Again, I would have to reiterate what everyone is saying in the thread…it’s about communication b/c the love is there and the chemistry is there. We just all have to find the balance and fit the love, time, and attention somewhere between it.

  80. Dacia March 29th, 2011

    I’m a leo woman smitten with a virgo man. I love passionate displays of affection and it’s like pulling teeth to get him to even say that he love’s me. He prefers to give compliments without being asked for them. My virgo is creative and smart as well. Very shy. Very sensitive. To be honest I don’t know how much more of this I can take. I’m not a very patient person. I want a man that will tell the whole world that he loves me! I know he truly cares but he is so methodical in his approach to love. So systematic when all I want is passion. Maybe he’s teaching me that love doesn’t always have to be flashy and dramatic. Our personalities compliment each other nicely. He’s unlike any other man I’ve ever met. So precious. Communication is the key.

  81. Karen J March 5th, 2011

    I am a leo woman dating a virgo man and not everything they say is completely accurate. He`s shy but very patient and so understanding. Also, he`s very tidy he likes everything in order just like me. The man is very intelligent and operates on a time schedule. Being a leo woman I need someone who handle stressful situation well plus he doesn`t yell when he`s man and that`s good because I have a short temper. All and all the virgo man is well balanced and although he is shy he is not afraid to allow you to have the spot light. On the flip side I wished he opened up more freely. So leo women if you`re dating a virgo man just be patient and know if anyone understand the leo woman it is truly the virgo man.

  82. Julia December 6th, 2010

    I am a Leo woman married to a Virgo man and it’s not exactly accurate. He is shy and doesn’t like drama or “making waves” but he is the more creative one and extremely smart and I am the practical and conventional one. He is not tidy by any means and he couldn’t find a trash can if it was tied to him. We have excellent communication and well there is something to be said about a man who loves to take his time. He is extremely loyal and doesn’t yell when he is mad. I yell at everybody, lol. All in all, I’d say Virgos make good husbands.

  83. pentheo November 27th, 2010

    i am a leo woman living with a virgo. the first for me. i must admit, in all the horoscope readings on a virgo, the description of a virgo man is very accurate. i don’t necessarily require alot of attention or adoration so much as loyalty and communication. i am finding the communication challenging for me. he is very closed. very sure about who he is, but not willing to share anything personal. i know he is sensitive underneath the tough exterior because he tears up when watching romantic/dramatic movies…but he has yet to say he loves me after 2 years! i am concerned if it is just me he doesn’t want to love or his inability to open up? i do adore him and respect his need for space and independence…i guess i just wonder how much of myself i am sacrificing in order to maintain a peaceful relationship with him? he is very critical and opinionated…but over time he has learned to be more compromising with me..although it seems to be a struggle to get to that point..i am fiesty, but fair…i respect him and listen to his advice, but sometimes feel so unappreciated by him….i guess as a virgo the lack of compliments and adoration of my efforts should not be taken too personally, but its been a real challenging relationship to maintain…i wish all leo women that date a virgo man best wishes and strength to endure the tough stuff, knowing you’re strong enough to get through those moments…

  84. Angela November 24th, 2010

    Im a Leo woman living with a Virgo man… and this article for the most part is spot on, though my Virgo opened up immediately… only because I told him on our second date that he didnt have to be so shy… and boy did he take that to heart lol. We moved in together after about a month of dating and have been living together for 4 months now, and are madly in love (we starting to discuss marriage). I cant even remember what life was like without him. An amazing combo, Leo and Virgo.

  85. Nicole November 3rd, 2010

    I am a Leo woman and I recently met a Virgo man that I’ve been talking to for a few weeks and I absolutely adore him. The chemistry between us is Awesome. The article above is just as if it was him. I feel Blessed that I got a chance to link up with a Virgo man.

  86. Yentiboo October 24th, 2010

    I am a Leo woman in a relationship with a Virgo man and this so far is the most challenging relationship ever. We get along fine but figuring him out is the problem. He seems to like a lot of space. I know this is good for both of us but as a Leo I feel like I have no control which is not good. Seems like everything we do is on his time. Hence, we see each other when he wants and go out when he wants. I really really like him and so I comply but I don’t know how long I can put up with this. When we are together though, I feel like I am the only woman in the world and he has eyes for no other so he’s a keeper, can’t complain there 😉

  87. Stephanie October 6th, 2010

    Im a Leo Woman(july23) and Im dating a Virgo man, and I really think depends on how much the virgo man is intrested in you. This virgo man loves me, and has always liked me even when I was in a relationship with someone else so this was all he ever wanted. So I guess now that he got it, he cherishes every moment!

  88. Alice September 30th, 2010

    I think Amanda said it perfectly. I’m a California Leo girl who just started dating a southern Virgo man. Until I read this I thought his shy sweetness was because of his origin, worried that my outgoing west coast personality was going to ruin our chances. But we’ve been dating a couple weeks and I can’t get enough of him! He compliments me constantly and I love to see him blush when I catch him staring. I’ve been doing the same thing to him so we share alot of adorable moments. I’m actually cleaner than he is! And I’m afraid that I will turn our individual pride in cooking into a competition soon, because that’s what I do when I’m challenged and I hate to lose! But I love to see the pride on his face when he shows off for me and a strong confident cowboy seems to be exactly what I never knew I wanted

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  90. Priya September 13th, 2010


    May be she is really busy or she would have not cancelled out on you. I am a Leo woman and I value my commitments. If I promised a friend I would meet up with them, then I will meet up with them. Just give her a gentle reminder. You wont be disappointed.

    All the Best 🙂

  91. Greg August 27th, 2010

    I’m a Virgo guy, just started dating a Leo woman and we are somewhat hitting it off. I know it’s very early but I am extremely attracted to her drive and persona. Feel a little weird about something though. I recently asked her to hang out tomorrow night and she said shell get back to me because she had other plans. She got back and said she can’t. I feel uneasy about it and unsure if she likes me. Is it me or is that fishy. My take on it is that if someone really like you they will drop what’s going on and be with you for the desire to get to know you. Hope I’m not jumping the gun any comments would help.

  92. Amanda June 18th, 2010

    I’m a Leo woman and Ive just started seeing a Virgo man. He approached me and all I could think at the time was: “yeah right, this will go no where”… but to my amazement the first night together it all just seemed to click. Before reading this, I was so freaked out because I felt like a fool waiting by the phone after that first night(something that my pride took as insulting). Alas, he called me but I was distant because I just kinda feel like it might be one-sided and purely sexual. I do really like this man, but because I know all to well the games guys play to get into a girls pants, I’m left feeling insecure and somewhat afraid to let down my guard. After I read this page and all the responses, I cant help but feel hope and yet… at the same time I need to know what it is he is expecting to get out of all this so I know if I should be devoted or keep looking for the right guy to ravish, spoil, and devote my love and loyalty to. After all, all us Leo woman crave is to find our king whom truly make us feel like a queen while in his arms and on his mind. Wish me luck 😉

  93. charleen May 12th, 2010

    I am a Leo woman madly in love with a virgo man. your article is spot on. we have just reconciled after a 20 year gap. Both married and going through difficult patches on both sides.there are times when I despair about him and keeps him on his toes about sending messages. he travels abroad every week because he reports in London. when he gets a chance we really make the best of our time. we both can’t let go but its the time that really keeps us apart.

  94. sara March 29th, 2010

    i am a leo/virgo cusp terribly in love with a virgo man. this virgo man is exactly a copy of what i have read about virgo male in the articles.
    our relationship is also following the same pattern.. i am really surprised. according to the above analysis i still have a long way to go.. but believe me..He is worth every bit of wait. i love him so truly, so very genuinely.ooo he is so very cute…his unaware attitude makes him all the more attractive to me… cant get enough of him.

  95. Jovacyn March 16th, 2010

    I am a Leo woman dating a Virgo man and yes this article is spot on! We’ve only been dating for a few months and immediately I noticed that we have a great connection because we communicate very well with each other. I have found that although we are very different our differences make us appreciate each other more.Being with him taught me that it can be fun to stay in and relax, which was tough at first because I like to be out and about, but he’s compromising and going out with me more now too. so, giving a virgo what he wants will get a leo what they want in return. Virgo’s a very giving from what I’ve learned.

  96. Wimpie March 14th, 2010

    I am a Virgo man and are extremely inlove with a Leo woman but she keeps pushing me away although she says she loves me, i will take the advise above and go try it. everything it says is true though, especially about the sensitive part, when we have a fight i get way too sensitive way too quick…

  97. leo woman January 31st, 2010

    i am a leo female and dated a vergo, our relationship was exactly what this article implies, but it was also right about how to push a virgo away…. watchout leo females keep up on your toes with the communication because it is the absolute key to the survival of the relationship, no matter how in love you two may be

  98. Alicia October 30th, 2009

    I am a Leo Woman dating a Virgo man……and its true about him being very shy and calm….we are differnet in many ways, but somehow I actually have stopped and thought that the way he is is teaching me to be more I respectful towards who he is…and his way of dating..Hes very supportive….with me and my dreams…and his way of showing he cares I have to really pay attention into detail. He doesnt show it like others ive dated…..We do have excellent communication…he opens up to me, and I learn I can not push him to do so….and it makes me feel more important that he opens up to me…..I am truly falling for this man for all the right reasons….and without a doubt…I take my time….virgos ive learned are not one to rush into a relationship…..the courting each other means the world….and its meaning the world to me…

  99. Lelu October 1st, 2009

    I am a leo woman and my guy is a Virgo. This is dead on the truth of what our relationship is like. We have really good communication together and sometimes I think it’s the main key to us being so happy.

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