Aries Woman and Virgo Man Love Compatibility

As the Fire element of Aries mix with the Earth element of Virgo, it makes a difficult combination, but with certain merits of its own. Aries need stimulation and excitement while Virgo needs safety and security in the relationship. These two signs can be quite active together and pour some energy into activities they perform together.

A Virgo man is a very practical person with strong intellect and detailed information of all the aspects of life. He is usually success hungry, and takes short, calculated and precise steps to reach the desired destination. He can easily analyze a situation and can be quite critical regarding it, if needed. When angry, he never becomes rash rather he keeps the feelings deep inside to hide them from people around him. He in love with an Aries woman gives her tender affection and stability with no strings attached.

An Aries woman likes to live in the moment and make most out of it. With this aggressive nature and restlessness that dwells inside her, she may sound exciting and very active to most of the people around her. She can be irrational at times and do not bother the cautions to be taken. In love with a Virgo man, she gives a lot of excitement to their relationship and teaches him to fly high and breath free! She also admires his considerate nature and bright mind with strong passion.

An Aries woman always gives a Virgo man the energy and spark, he lacks in his individuality. She is an inordinate devotee of his intelligence and appreciates every aspect of planning and working. She always supports him in his blues and is beside him like a solid rock in all ups and downs. Her reliability and courage is something that drives him crazy and he is ready to be her partner to fulfill all her exciting dreams which fill enthusiasm in his life too. He has to just avoid being bossy with her as this is one thing she can never stand. She can sooth away all the fears and worries of the Virgo male and teach him to be more amicable and expressive at least with her. She is a jolly mate and can take him to the skies of his imaginations and expectations with her passionate ways of loving and expressing.

A Virgo man is one person who gives his Aries female the richest and sincerest form of love throughout their lives. He is very trustworthy and considerate. She always appreciates the nature of a Virgo man to work towards finer perfections and plan everything down to the last detail. This gives her a sense of relief and security in life. He is always willing to edify her, while refraining from competition. He makes her hidden Aries anxieties and secret fears of inadequacy melt away and bring peace to her life. The extreme nature of Aries woman never intimidates him and he admires her strong will and passion. Though she may feel bored sometimes due to his passive calm nature but her impulsive behaviors fill up the air with much excitement around both of them but this time rather more sensibly.

The union of Aries woman and Virgo man seems to have been made in heaven. They can find a strange comfort in their relationship when their paths cross. Their oneness brings a lasting satisfaction of all the possible outcomes through this blending of the two divergent natures. He seldom interferes with her freedom and she becomes more stable and finds patience in the arms of her Virgo man. All the squabbles are washed away in the tender care and unconditional love given by these two souls to each other. He always sympathizes with her faults and has faith in her dreams. While she understands that though he is not demonstrative but his chivalry and honor is worth loving and adoring. The love, of this unique combination last forever, making their life very beautiful, and providing them with the truest and purest form of oneness.

There is a strange sexual connection between the Aries woman and Virgo man. They both are compatible physically pertaining to expression and desire. She provides passion and blaze to their love making while he provides stability and harmony in their oneness. It is a strong union where they both believe that lovemaking is bringing together the body, mind and soul. Kind of like a trinity. The Aries woman is sexually mysterious to the Virgo man and that keeps him excited and looking forward to future love making sessions. On each occasion they are renewing themselves. They create an oneness together during their lovemaking. When they are finished they are physically fulfilled and emotional at peace with in their souls. There is a strong magnetic attachment in their physical intimacy which lasts for long time and makes them desire each other more every time they get together. One could not ask for a better union. The only downside to this union is that the Virgo man may not be spontaneous enough for the Aries woman. It would be wise on her part that instead of getting irritated she remembers his other good qualities which make her feel so loved and blessed.

Together the Aries woman and Virgo man have contrasting personalities. They are totally different from each other in almost every way. He is very careful and attentive person while she is a careless bird. He likes everything to be perfect and neatly organized. She is more interested in adventure and excitement rather than any boring plans. He lives in the future but she lives in the moment. Her spontaneity may clash with his tendency to remain calm and organized. Though it is very easy for these two to be drawn together but the strain is experienced in keeping the spark alive.

  1. Virgo men smarty 2 days ago

    I’m a virgo man. Due to my possesiveness ( third person) i behaved little rude with arise woman, from that incident
    I tryed everything to compromise her ,but at the end she broked up relationship wth me,

    I tryed suicide attempt also but it turned not use

    Now she is being with that new friend gemini man ,who is the reason for my breakup,

    I can’t come out from my past sweet memorys.. I loved her from past 11 years from child hood,
    She loved me last 5 years..

    We had a beautiful &happy relationship, we were like husband and wife… So many things happened

    Now she is not littlemuch worrying at all..

    I think I will have a beautiful married life her ….

    I don’t know she will come to me again…

    I’m dyeing every day with her memorys..

    Don’t know what going to happen..

  2. Emma November 24th, 2019

    Omg I dated a couple virgos and it was a little nightmare… nitpicky, so controlling, and everything has to perfect at ALL times. Exhausting. I got a free love reading and it was helpful:
    Hope it helps xoxo

  3. Aries Woman September 23rd, 2019

    I am currently in relationship with a Virgo male and its been pretty difficult for the last few months, hence why I am on this website. Don’t get me wrong, when things are good, they’re REALLY good and its probably the most beautiful relationship you’ve ever witnessed, but when things get bad, its almost impossible to get through to him. We’ve been together about 2 years now I want to continue this relationship but I’m mentally drained of how I am being treated. I know I am not perfect and I know he is not perfect, but I want to work towards a relationship with this Virgo man simply because I love him and see a future with him. I read that Virgo men tend to hold in their problems and release it all at once, which is one of the biggest problems we have. I love this Virgo man with all my heart and simply want the best for him and for our relationship. We’ve had many beautiful times and I want more of those but I am having trouble. What can I do on my part, as an Aries woman to make this work? I’ll do anything. Help.

    • Kamsamida September 28th, 2019

      How does he treat you generally? Coz virgo men are so hard to read. Being cold and fussy and judgmental will always be part of them. Onmy part when he gets overbearing I will tell it honestly. We fight a lot. He hurts me a lot but With this man I know my future is secure. I’ll have a bestfriend for life. A good dad to my future children. He causes me headaches but he makes my heart flutters some days. My relationship with him since 2 years ago has been conflicting yet beautiful. I hope you get to communicate with him regarding your concerns and hold on a bit more..

  4. A January 21st, 2019

    This was/is so me and my ex….we were together for 4 years…but he felt like he wasn’t good for me and broke up with me. A year later, he admits he is still in love with me and he knows God is telling him I am the one for him…but he is scared. I am completely in love with him still…but I can’t wait another 4-5 years for him to even marry me. I am 40…..still no kids. and I was so angry because I felt like he wasted my time knowing my desire to be a mom and get married. Now I have so many walls up….I just want us to be us…but better. No issues with other women (he didn’t cheat, but desired them), or me doing what I always do….waiting on him to make any moves….and put myself on the back burner. I’m so conflicted. We can’t seem to get it together…

    • Kitchen March 1st, 2019

      I too was in a relationship with a Virgo man for 4 years and he also recently broke up with me, I have no idea why I feel like my time and energy was wasted and I’m afraid that he is going to come to me and tell me how much in love with me he is and I’m still very much in love with him now but not sure about how I would feel about him later

  5. Quianna Washington January 18th, 2019

    Take it slow with her she wants you also just scared to get hurt again. I myself is an Aries Woman and was once with a sag who broke my heart too! Crazy! But yes just give it time and be there

  6. mimi October 17th, 2018

    I am getting married to a Virgo man in two months. Our relationship has been off and on for the past 14 year. This article describes us well. he is protective , very calm and love peace. I never really though he could handle my hot head Aries, but I wouldn’t change this for anything in the world. he is exactly what I need in my life. he is trust worthy and committed to me. I can wait to say I do. Honestly it was very hard to have a common understanding , but am glad we worked through it. Don’t give up on a Virgo man. They are simply the best.

    • Karen October 18th, 2018

      Yay congratulations. I agree with what you said. They might be a little naughty but they are just trustworthy especially when they are truly in love. They can be quite hard to read but will understand you to the very core. I am now on a long distance relationship with my virgo man and i missed him alot. Fingers cross, I want to marry this man. There were days that I want to end the relationship already but he would convince me not to. It’s hard on most days , but when it’s good it’s heavenly. Our sex is always satisfying as well. He’s worth every distance and miles between us. I love my virgo man.

      • Mimi January 22nd, 2019

        No seriously this is creepy af 😩 now that I just read your reply to her comment, me and him are also in a long distance situation. Omg what a coincidence. I would love some advice from you as well follow me and dm me as well 😊

    • Mimi January 22nd, 2019

      Omggggg your comment just really shocked me. I’m talking to a Virgo man now that i really like and can see myself falling for him and I wanted to see other people stories. You said your hot headed like me and he too is calm and too my surprise he handles me very well and is patient. Then I look to read that your name is Mimi like mine, that caught me by surprise 😆. I would love some helpful advice from you since we are still fresh. My ig is @MelaninMagicFashion 💖

  7. Austin October 15th, 2018

    I’m a Virgo man and for the past maybe 4 or 5 years I’ve just been awe stricken by this Aries woman. We dated once and had a pretty long sexual night once but that was a couple years ago and we haven’t really talked since until just recently. I just got out of a relationship with a Pisces who was great for me at first but as we grew there was this undeniable disconnect. I know this Aries woman is perfect for me just based on the way she talks and her sense of humor and how understanding she is of my viewpoints that differ from hers. We hung out for a couple hours last week just sitting in my car and talking because is was 9pm and there was nothing else to do and it was just amazing. We had no trouble in keeping the conversation fresh and interesting while we listened to classic rock and it just felt perfect. A few days later, however, she told me that she wasn’t looking for anything other than platonic and I’m perfectly fine with that but eventually I think I’m going to want more. I know she got out of a relationship she was in with this Sagittarius guy who is just a waste of space in my opinion. He would start arguments with her about anything whether it was worth it or not. He’s just a whiney, self centered snake who is “always” the victim. This was her first serious relationship too. So, she told me that she didn’t like dating because she doesn’t want to be responsible for someone else’s happiness and that got me thinking. Dating shouldn’t be like that anyways. You should be happy as yourself and the person you’re with should just be the person who takes it to the next level. I want to explain that to her and let her know that I’m absolutely nothing like her ex. I’m perfectly fine with taking things slow and just being friends first so we can build trust but I know she’s the one I have to be with so I can’t stay friends forever and I can’t let her go. Apologies for the incredibly long comment but this is just really important to me. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do or say?

    • Kitchen March 1st, 2019

      Omg where are I really love Virgo men y’all truly light up my life if you reply back I’ll explain everything to you

  8. Sannu September 8th, 2018

    I am a Aries woman and this really describes me. I just got out of a relationship with a libra. We moved in together and since then everything between us got so boring. He didnt really want to do anything or go somewhere and didn’t give me enough attention and we picked on eachother a lot too. So i thought that he is not the man i want to be with for the rest of my life and I’m only 20. I broke up with him. I met a virgo when i worked at a grocery store. He left his credit card there and i wrote to him on Facebook. And since then he kept chatting with me. I was still together with the libra but he was cool with it. I’d never cheat on him or anyone. So since i broke up with him the virgo guy started chatting with me more often. We started sexting a little and sent eachother dirty and sexy pictures and gifs. He just seems so interesting and not like the other guys. So he invited me to a party and we kissed a lot and he touched me just the way i like it. He made me felt so good, like he knew exactly what my body wanted. But we didn’t get to sex. But we talk about sex a lot and I can tell that we want each other so bad. Sometimes i don’t get him, he has his problems from the past but he says don’t worry and that I should be brave with him and not to be afraid to ask anything. And since i just got out of a relationship, we have talked about being friends with benefits. I love the idea. And I feel so free and protected with him. And he is so bright and calm and mysterious, i love it so much. But he is a busy guy so every day we talk, i dream about him so much. I can’t get him out of my head. I have told him that and he said that it feels so good that someone wants him like that. I know if I’m patient with him and keep things exciting, we will start having great time together. But not sure if I’m ready for a relationship just yet and i think he doesn’t want one too. We’ll be just friends who use each other for company and sex 🙂 can’t wait to see how things work out between us

    • Austin October 18th, 2018

      A tad late on the reply but whether or not things worked out between you and this guy, would you care to give me a little advice as to what I should do in my situation with this Aries woman? I have my own comment explaining the situation. She’s unlike anyone else I’ve ever been with and I really want things to work out between us. What are some of the things that made you and this other guy click?

      • mimi October 18th, 2018

        Well first you have to understand her needs and don’t ignore them. Show her love, care and comfort. Aries women like to feel love, they like to be assured that you love them. Give her space sumtimes. When she is upset , just try to be nice to her and console her. I hope it works out for you and the woman. Just don’t ever ignore her feelings .

      • Sannu October 18th, 2018


        We’re still not sure what we are. Last time we saw eachother was 16 days ago. He’s so busy but he’s coming over to my place tomorrow.
        And I think what made us click is that we’re both adventurous, like to keep things interesting and try new things and do something. And the fact that we don’t see eachother often is a good thing i guess. Even though it kills me, because I’m so impatient and tell him i want to see him everyday but he just can’t find the time. But I love that he is so calm and tries to show that he wants to see me too and show me he cares. And I love that he doesn’t want to hurry with sex. Most guys have sex with a girl the first opportunity they get. We’ve had the chance 3 times but we haven’t got to sex. We’ve only done oral 😀 he wants me to get on the pill and he wants us to be sober too. (We’ve smoked weed and tried acid once) I think it will take a lot of time for us to get to the point where we talk about what we are. But I will keep you updated if you want 🙂 and if you have any other questions, ask away!

      • Austin October 18th, 2018

        Not sure if my last reply worked but for us it seems flipped. I’m always asking to hang out and she’s always busy. We hung out once and she said she had fun and was looking forward to doing it again but we just haven’t gotten the chance. It seems like she tries to ignore me but whenever we do get to talk she looks like she has a good time. She FaceTimed me unprompted last night and when I answered she looked as if I had called her and she was annoyed by it. It’s really confusing sometimes. It’s almost as if she’s wearing a mask that says, “I hate you” but as we talk and carry on she can’t help but laugh and the mask just crumbles away. I’ve asked her a couple times if she actually does hate me and get seems annoyed by it and just says something like, “Dude no.” This has put me in a weird place because she’s so hard to read but I like it. A lot of things say that Virgo men and Aries women have too many differences but we seem to enjoy each other pretty well. Anything different in our personalities or whatever we just make fun of and laugh about it. The thing with sex though is that it doesn’t matter to me when it happens. If we do have sex I want it to mean something. I want her to trust me and do it out of more than just lust. I want her to know that I will always be there to care for her during bad times and that I will be there to make the good times better. I really want to tell her that but I don’t wanna scare her off.

      • Sannu October 18th, 2018

        It worked. Perhaps you’d like to chat elsewhere?

      • Austin October 18th, 2018

        I think I have it down. I just have to use my email.

      • Sannu October 18th, 2018

        As you wish 🙂

      • Austin October 18th, 2018

        So based on how I described it, is this going in the right direction? Should I keep pushing to hang out or back off?

      • Sannu October 19th, 2018

        You should try hanging out with her and talk to her about your feelings. I am not sure if it will help or if she feels the same way but atleast you tried. If you give up and don’t try, you might start feeling guilty and think what if you did try, but then it will be too late.

      • Austin October 19th, 2018

        We had a long FaceTime that ended in us talking about a relationship and she said I got her thinking. She went to bed and I sent a message explaining that I wasn’t trying to take advantage of her and that everything I said was the truth. Hopefully I was able to show her how it feels to have someone truly care about her.

      • Sannu October 19th, 2018

        That is good! I loved that my virgo made me look at life differently and got me thinking many times as well. Let her think for a while and when she’s ready to talk, she’ll write to you. I hope everything works out for you!

      • Austin October 19th, 2018

        Thank you. I appreciate all the advice and hope everything works out for you as well.

      • Sannu October 19th, 2018

        You’re welcome, I tried to help as much as I could 🙂 let’s stay in touch and keep eachother updated!!

      • Austin October 19th, 2018

        That sounds great. Would you rather have a different way to communicate than this?

      • Sannu October 19th, 2018

        We can try. What do you use?

      • Austin October 19th, 2018

        The only thing I have is Snapchat. Probably be good to just keep updates.

      • Sannu October 19th, 2018

        That works. Give me yours 🙂

      • Austin October 19th, 2018

        Mine is afizz60

      • Austin October 18th, 2018

        The thing seems flipped with us. We hung out one time and she said she had fun and was looking forward to hanging out again but she’s always busy. I find it really hard to tell if she likes me back or not. It seems like she tries to ignore me but whenever we do get to talk she really seems to enjoy herself. Almost as if she’s wearing a mask that says, “I hate you” but as we talk it just crumbles and she can’t help but laugh and whatnot. Honestly, that’s like the best feeling I’ve ever felt. But it’s just so hard to read her sometimes, especially since she’s not a big texter and I am. I know most of the qualities that make Virgo men unattractive to Aries women aren’t really me. I’m not sensitive or shy or anything. And the thing with sex isn’t really a big thing to me with this girl. I mean, yeah she’s incredibly attractive and I would love to have sex with her but I want it to mean something. I want her to know that I want to be there to care for her during bad times and be there to make the good times better. I really want to say all this to her but I’m afraid I’ll scare her off.

      • Sannu October 18th, 2018

        She seems complicated. I feel like me and her are complete opposites. But when I don’t like a guy, I do try to ignore him but when he texts me, I always text back. I think she’s texting you back so you won’t feel bad or you won’t think she’s ignoring you. She doesn’t want to be mean to you. Atleast i do that to guys that i don’t like. I think my only advice is for you to talk to her about your feelings. Ask her if she feels something towards you and does she wants to be friends with you. Because if she doesn’t text and so won’t you, she won’t do it anyway. It’s not hard for Aries to ignore someone but they hate being the ones who are ignored. And try to meet up with her as much as you can! Because I hate texting with him because sometimes I don’t understand what he wants to say and I don’t see his emotions and reactions. But it’s positive you make her laugh and you two have interesting conversations. It’s important that she doesn’t get bored with you

  9. Laughnowcrylater July 14th, 2018

    Well I am a Virgo man everything was as good as it can get after 11yrs with a arias woman I love her with all my heart but just recently found out that everything I knew about her was a lie and that she had cheated on me with two different men we are still together because I still love her with all my heart and we have a family together but with all that she had done I don’t think I will ever trust her again her lack of trying to make the situation better and me being the only one trying to fix what she broke makes me want out the things about her that made me respect her now seem annoying like the way she never took shit from anyone is now like WTF stop acting like a child looks like she wants to get in a fight with everyone her laziness her inability to multitask is just they say arias need to feel adventure looks like the drop the ball on her IDK just need some advice

    • Erika September 7th, 2018

      I felt sad reading your comment.Betrayal is so hard.Never understood how people can do that to another.Incidentally,I am an aries female(moon in scorpio) and I think cheating is shitty.If you love her and both are willing to try then counselling might help.Best of luck 💚

  10. Arvind January 16th, 2018

    i am virgo man . I like one aries women. I am single .She is just married. We know each other for last three years. I like her very much becuase of her qualities. But after marriage she is not responding me in the same fashion which was earlier.The main thing is that i was interested in only and only friendship before and after marriage . Again we are having almost 20 years age difference. I am elder. But she could not under stand me. What is the solution.

    • chantal March 19th, 2018

      move on, she can only love one man at a time. some relationships are not long lasting and your relationship with her is over.
      you can find another woman, there are many out there who are also looking for love.
      best of luck, and know that the lucky woman that you find will be so happy with you,

  11. FilipinoAries November 17th, 2017

    I’m an Aries and the love of my life is a Virgo. Dating for 10 months now. We fight a lot when we’re together due to contrast of personality. Him being so sarcastic whenever I become short tempered and I being so insensitive and harsh sometimes. But apart from those conflicts and differences, if you get passed them and just always look for the good in each other, It can be very beautiful, loving and perfect. I never knew love til I finally agreed to be his girlfriend. We were special friends way back highschool. He courted me but I wasn’t ready yet during those years to be in a relationship. He kept courting me on college but still said no. He pursued a Pisces woman instead but they didn’t make it after 3 years. When we found each other again in facebook and agreed to meet one day, all was casual until I, the prideful woman, breaking those emotional barriers, let loose and embraced my special virgo man in my arms again.. Then the casual yet special friendship flourished into something more. After 12 years, I said YES. Best decision ever.

  12. ramgirl November 1st, 2017

    fellow aries gals; how do you handle communication problems with your virgo men? seems they can be very difficult with talking

    • FilipinoAries November 17th, 2017

      I went through the same phase especially when the relationship is new, he barely opened up and doesn’t really express well. I raised the issue to him in a respectful and playful way. Told him it’s hurting me (and its true) because openness and communication mattered if we want to take the relationship into next level. Virgo seems to be detached because a lot is going on in their mind but that doesnt mean they care less about you. They are seriously hard to figure out anyway. Be patient on him. Ask directly and gently whenever you can’t seem to get his way of communicating. Good Luck. 🙂

      • ramgirl November 26th, 2017

        Thanks for the advice, best of luck to you guys as well 😊

  13. Gracie October 30th, 2017

    I honestly fell in love with a Virgo friend. I am an aries. We where just so comparable with how we acted I dont think either of us realized we fell in love. We never had a relationship though because I moved. but I will say he defiantly knew I had feelings for him and never made the move.

  14. Hansura May 12th, 2017

    I’m vigro male and i have relationship with an aries women we still love each other and there is nothing stop us to keep doing this b/c we discuss and killed what thing’s that are make our relationship surivive anyways i’m excited being with her b/c no one like her that why i loved her

  15. Mary C April 20th, 2017

    I am Aries woman. Reading these comments I realize the Aries woman don’t get any long-term commitment (marriage) from their VIRGO male.

    SO it makes the Aries woman wonder: WHERE IS THIS RELATIONSHIP GOING???
    I never found a Virgo male anything more than just a friend. Why this is…. because of the lack of any kind of commitment on they’re part and lack of spontaneous.

    That doesn’t make them a bad person. Just makes it hard on a relationship with an Aries woman.

    I am with a Leo/Virgo male. I get the positives and negatives of both worlds. With communication and hearing each others truth. That is how we make our relationship work.

    • Hal May 1st, 2017

      I am a virgo make and look forward to a commitment with my Aires female ..she is the one afraid no the commitment…I look towards the future ..she lives in the moment

  16. raj March 13th, 2017

    I have been dating an Aries women very preity,sparkling,and honest and clever. They don’t know what to do very immature takes wrong decisions in life inspite of advicing severely to be on safeside.She is her own decision maker and always do things way she likes to do. good from heart but if she want to tailor revenge she will do sweetly. Only thinks about her her and her ambition never get worries about the Virgo men who is there around her.if annoyed with ego she will stop communicating and do thinks with plan. Pretends that she don’t know anything.she will never let you to be superier to her she want to be bossy and she can change her promises accordingly with situation she pretends to be truth in front of you and will take all your available help but when its get turn she will show U professionalism simply by avoiding she is not very perfect lady for Virgo men please avoid this compatibility.aries is dangeriously clever to cheat the Virgo men with ust and attraction and put them lots of rumour and bad image in front of other.aries women looks for fucking sex and Virgo men looks for long lifetime relationship.

    • SpiritualMinds May 16th, 2017

      I believe that you are dealing with a broken Aries Woman. Maybe her heart was broken in the past and she has yet to repair it. There is no real telling on how she was broken. Being an Aries Woman myself and have been through that stage of my life, looking back on it I was very broken after my first relationship I had ever had went bad. At the time I didn’t really notice I was being as cold as ice and had all of my feelings locked away. And by all of my feelings I mean ALL of My Feelings. In love and even friendship. No trust, No remorse, No feelongs of guilt, & Any type of affection was not given unless it was physical and any being giving was ignored. The last thing you ever want to do is try to get into a relationship with a broken Aries Woman. Aries like excitement and one thing that is very exciting for her is sex. She’ll do it whenever she pleases because she knows that she can and tends to have that immature mindset of “I get what I want, when I want.” So commitment will be one of the hardest things to get her to do if It isn’t already with one who is not. Attention is also something Aries Woman need, sometimes more than usual. And since Virgo men have pretty low emotional levels that can be a problem. Aries women also do not dig as deep to find out emotional problems as opposed to the Virgo male. If you don’t say much chances are she’ll play it off as you are fine or that you’ll simply come and break down to her whenever you are ready.

      If not then she just hasn’t grown out of her wild life stage or you haven’t really shown her what she wants to make it work.

  17. JD February 22nd, 2017

    The article above describes me quite well as a Virgo. Reserved, shy, bottled up feelings, very analytical and worrisome.

    I was with my Aries girl for almost 4 years. When we first met as friends, she was very bubbly and playful to a point I find it quite annoying. She started pursuing me after she broke up with her ex and tried pretending to be as a friend for 2 years. Being a Virgo, I was quite reserved and didnt even dare to propose to her and she being an Aries(strong and confident), proposed to me instead. We coupled up and awesome time together. We did have our small and really huge fights but no matter what, we end up being together.

    Our sexual life was awesome, she likes it alot and most of the time initiates it. She is very pretty and has a hot body. She likes exploring new stuff and was more wild than me on bed. Being in the bed with her was actually my favourite time together, not because I am a sex addict but because i felt very connected with her.

    However, there were times when we were quarreling, she burst out shouting she needs her freedom. This was really weird because I gave all the freedom she wanted. I have never restricted her from doing anything she wanted to do and she wanted to meet. Perhaps she wanted freedom from me, I am not sure. She kept mentioning to me she wants adventure, maybe bungee jumping, scuba driving or some outdoor activity. Being a Virgo, i turned her down because not my cup of tea.

    Then 3 months ago, i notice she started paying less attention to me and was always on the phone messaging someone. I didn’t bother because i trusted her. However it became very obvious that she was more interested being with that person in the phone than me. Later I found out it was another guy, her colleague and he is quite the adventurous a**hole and this attracted her.

    I got very jealous and at that time not believing in horoscope, believed that forcing her to stop any communication will stop her from doing so. She started meeting him behind my back and despite catching 5 times(i know, i have a problem), she still feels it was ok to lie to me because they are just friends.

    Now i realise although I gave her all the freedom she wanted, she didn’t want to be controlled in any way. Her Aries was just trying to escape her all this while.

    I broke up with her and till today she still wants me back but she destroyed my trust in her, the most important foundation in a relationship.

    I am going to avoid Aries in the future.

    • lisa June 20th, 2017

      So sorry that happened to you. Your Aries girl was very immature.

    • Bambi July 20th, 2017

      Hey, I’m an Aries and I don’t think you should discredit our whole sign bc of her. The fact of the matter is, she did you dirty but us Aries’ are actually very loyal typically, sometimes to a fault. The issue with you guys’ relationship it seems, is that you didn’t explore enough with her. I know that you said the wild stuff isn’t your cup of tea, but have you ever tried meeting her halfway? Like, taking her to an amusement park or ziplining or something? Hell, even to just explore new places she’d never been like a state park hike or something. The key to keeping Aries’ attention is to in fact, hold our attention. As odd as it sounds, we are very child-like in our desires most of the time and we need entertainment bc we get bored so easily. If you ever encounter another Aries, just try to step out of your comfort zone and be more adventurous.

  18. Yvonne February 20th, 2017

    Am an aries woman I’ve been dating for almost 3 years a virgo man, very controlling, inconsiderate is not generous but loyal good manners and is polite saids he loves me.bit I don’t see him doing anything for our future or the present.
    So confuse

  19. Donna February 13th, 2017

    I. Am an Aries woman married to a Virgo man for 40 years and this is so accurate the way you describe Virgo man Aries woman I swear this is how our lives went so far thanks

    • Esme April 12th, 2017

      What is your secret I must know! I love my Virgo man but we definitely need to work on our communication! I just feel like I’m the only one doing that..

      • Cleo August 26th, 2017

        @Esme .. I found out the secret to late, but it’s patients.

        Don’t force for emotions. Don’t beg… Just go with the flow with no pressure and know if he wasn’t interested that he wouldn’t be there. So never guess.

  20. Ariana December 27th, 2016

    The sun signs alone do not tell you perfectly how your relationship will turn out but also the moon signs, because they are your emotional self while the sun sign is your basic ego

  21. Jkr December 26th, 2016

    I’m an aries woman, married to a virgo man, and this is not an accurate description at all. My marriage is a constant struggle. This fails to describe how it’d be if you have a controlling, condescending virgo.

    • Anonymous February 17th, 2017

      Im an aries woman with a virgo man also and its a huge struggle…

  22. Grace1234 April 13th, 2016

    The description I so the money for both signs! Only one word of warning, Aries woman will need to be able to handle the  Vergos moody ness and dismiss them! He can push an Aries to frustration which usually results in agitated outburst! Avoid this at all cost, he’s expressing his frustrations on the one he love the most. I usually calm this by telling him to quit being Ugly or fussing at me! His usual response is an apology followed by hugs, kisses, and cuddling! On the other hand as an Aries I am quick tempered, he recognizes this and knows the right time to be quite,and give a huge caressing hug and kiss that would put out any fire! It takes effort and understanding on both ends!

  23. Joy-Ful October 14th, 2015

    I looked this up because of moon positions – 1st house/6th house – I’m 1st house. The above description sounds so fantastic it is almost unbelievable. My 6th house moon-man was extremely romantic and kind, but he was so withdrawn and quiet that I didn’t trust him. Early in our relationship the trust factor dissolved. We managed to maintain the relationship off/on for 4 years, but we could never get to that point where we could really trust OR depend on each other. It was like we were in a ball being tossed around with the hope that we would stick together by velcro or something. Very frustrating. I would love to have developed the kind of relationship described above because I really did (and still do) love him.

  24. SerenaQuaye April 17th, 2015

    I’m an Aries gal. I once dated a virgo man. We met thru mutual friends. Well, as a setup. At first, I didn’t know what to think of him. He seems sad, passive, and holding on to past issues. When we talked it was if I was at a meeting with a casual friend than a potential date. The romance was far. Yet, I tried to keep an open mind. After out event, while walking hkme, he reached out n held my hand..never thought he could..then I learned from him later, he thought I was easy that he could getucky the first night. I looked at him n smilled. Nver bother to waste my time on a statement with no essence. But boy, moving forward was the hardest thin of my experience datin men. My virgo was always moody, imagine that. Whenever I did something nice, it was why u did that? Or u spend all day doing that?  He felt impossible. He never really argue though out interaction was difficult. He likes to play bossy which is the worse thin with an are is woman. I would get mad at him easily n never knew how to handle it. We were like two beans trying to play fish, polar opposite. One day, he called and broke up with me. I was like oh well. I felt bad a Lil but was glad it was over. Hopefully the next virgo I meet, we will understand each other better. 

  25. 7003260152084 January 29th, 2015

    I am an Aries woman I loved an Aries guy when we were at high school, he was the most intriguing person I have ever known and I fell in love with him. I never knew how he really felt, he didnt tell me, his friends claimed that he did but he seemed too shy, but I always saw it in his eyes when he looked at me, the love was there. Unfortunately he left high school before I did and he moved on and married someone else. We still kept in touch, it was always me being the initiator. I also had to move on and married a great guy, an Arian as well, so the fire keeps burning, but I always loved him (Virgo) so much. There were many guys who wanted to go out with me but he was always the one, yet I couldnt have him. I now have three children, all grown up. He is married with grown kids as well as grandchildren. We always kept in touch, however, he kept me at arms lenght, at all times, I on the other hand would have indulged in a secret affair with him if given the chance, however, I doubt that was ever on his mind. We recently had a bit of a fallout and I feel that he has judged me without seeking the real story. No matter how much he has hurt me emotionally, I always found my way back to this compelling man, I have now made a decision in my heart to let him go because it is just the best thing for me to do. He is and always will be the love of my life and I always live with the hope that someday he will tell me that he did love me and that I will always be in his heart as well, even though we have seperate lives….

  26. samantha12345 October 24th, 2014

    I have been with a virgo man for well over an year now and this is such an apt description of how we are. We had loads of fights and I had so many difficulties in understanding him as to what he wants. He didn’t seem to understand my emotions and I didn’t seem to understand how he never expresses his love. This did bother me but somehow I could never doubt his love. He is loyal and committed and you see that side all the time, even in his non-expressiveness. Be assured that he is devoted to you as much as you are

  27. lannocc June 13th, 2014

    There is a lovely Aries woman who has been occupying my mind as of late. She’s independant and driven, which I really admire. She looks great and takes good care of her body. I’ll tease her a little, because she is covered in tattoos and yet I am totally naked. Known casually for years, we are now just getting to know each other outside of the local music scene. I wish her welll and now seek advancement between us, despite my complications and her obligations. So I test these waters with hopeful trepidation…

  28. Wallacesgurl May 16th, 2014

    I am a true Aries woman and met my Virgo man by chance one day, and every since we have had very special moments, intimately and emotionally.  He works, A LOT, and I work half as much as he does, so we have that understanding of that being part of our lives.  One comment I read about being close with family is very true, and I learned early to allow him that space, also in matters of something he says he will do, he is going to but with his busy schedule my “do it now” spirit has to be patient.  He has a spiritual side that he is trying to nurture as well and that we also have in common.  He has commented that he likes talking to me, even to the point that he does most of the talking, but that is okay because I want him to get r-e-a-l comfortable sharing and expressing with me.  We are most compatible intimately and I think that is why he has times that he is “busy”, but when he was getting to know me he made time.  In his defense though, he did get behind in business which is not good so we’re leveling out into a easy going, gradually developing, long term, REAL lifelong relationship and it is so fantastic, I thank God for it everyday!

  29. mariah232 March 31st, 2014

    I don’t like vigro man.They are not romance. They don’t work out arguement. I dated vigro. He played me like a fool. He didn’t believe God. He wasn’t sweet to me.Vigro man not helpful.He didn’t care about me and my feels.He didn’t treat me like I was special in his life.

  30. mariah232 March 31st, 2014

    I am aries woman. I dated vigro he broke up with me. He wasn’t romance.He didn’t care about valentine day. He didn’t care about making things special for me. He broke up with me after valentine day.I told him I wanted celebrate valentine day with him. He didn’t care about what is important to me. He only care about his ex girl friend and not me. I was fool by him. I cried over him.

  31. miss_jane January 11th, 2014

    I am a spunky, firey Aries so in love with my VIRGO! He doesn’t know it yet, or at least I haven’t told him. Reading this bio of the two signs made me feel so happy and excited.  I hope with every fiber of my being that it plays true.  Good luck to everyone out there who reads this. Happy New Year

  32. laflare June 27th, 2013

    I’m an aries and I’ve been dating a virgo for almost a year now. He’s the exact opposite of He’s calm,patient and very laid back.I never would have thought i could be so compatiable with someone who was so different from myself but he really balances me out. I have a quick temper and he knows just what to do and say to soothe me. We met through a mutal friend and at first I wasn’t attracted to him.It really turned me off that he was so quiet and reserved,I thought he was sneaky,but I was very wrong. I also thought that my loud,over the top personality would drive him away but he says it’s one of the things he loves most about me. He doesn’t say much,he just observes everything. He brings a lot of peace,stablilty, and comfort to my life.He’s more of a “show&prove” kind of person. He does keep a lot of his emotions bottled up but we are working through that, but on the other hand he is very open and honest about how he feels about me. He’s very attractive but he never lets that go to his head.It doesn’t bother him that i get a lot of attention from other guys,he kind of likes it because he knows they can’t have me.He’s protective,not jealous or overly protective but if you get too close he has no problem handling the He’s a humble and beautiful soul to be in love with. He’s the only man that I’ve dated that knows how to handle my “red hot” aries personality. Virgo males make great lovers. They will stop at nothing to please you in every way. I’m fire,he’s ice but we make a great team.

  33. gzddd May 14th, 2013

    Well thank u for saying what was on my mind. I think we may be the same cuz I swear I was about to write this same thing just I don’t work with the guy

  34. Mjbear08 March 3rd, 2013

    Erbear Did you read that shit ,. its the truth. I am scared..Ain’t nobody got time for that..lmfao

  35. Erbear December 2nd, 2012

    I am an aries woman and I met a Virgo man about a month ago. I want to be in a relationship with him so badly. He’s funny, and sweet and caring. Seriously, haven’t wanted anyone this badly in a long time. We text a lot but it’s hard for me because he is very closed off with his feelings. He just got out of a bad relationship that messed him up pretty badly. When I see him at parties he doesn’t really talk to me much until later in the evening. Recently we were cuddling in his bed and then we ended up kissing and stuff. Now I don’t know if it’s just a hook up for him or if he actually likes me. I haven’t heard from him in 2 days… That’s the only thing that bothers me about him. I just want to know what he’s thinking especially because I am so incredibly straightforward With my feelings for him. 

  36. KattyRM November 23rd, 2012

    I’m an aries women and i recently met a virgo guy. Everything in this reading seems right of what i know about him and i am a true aries. Hes 7 years older then me which makes it even more difficult because hes at that age where he seems ready to settle down and well… i’m not exactly there yet. On the other hand i think that if something was to happen between us I would be willing to settle if thats what he wanted, i guess thats what it meant about having to change a bit. Hes really quiet, and i actually found out how he feels about me from one of his friends, while i’m way more forward about it all. Always joking with him and he just laughs. Sure hes passive but so sweet, and sometimes it even seems like he is trying to be a little more forward, he will ask me to lunch and stuff like that, but it doesn’t seem like a date because there are always other people there. I should probably mention that we work together…. i know its not a good idea but I really don’t care. He also gave me his number but made it like it was for work, but since then we dont text about work, its pretty much just us talking. Obviously i’m really impatient and i read way to much into things he says and does (i usually see things negative….) I just hope something will happen.

  37. mjahre September 21st, 2012

     I just went on a first date with an Aries woman and the chemistry was just beautiful. The potential for a long term relationship had me coming here to check out our astrological compatability. I can’t believe how accurate the description is. It fits us to a tee. Now I feel more confident in going forward, knowing that this union can actually succeed. I feel so intense and wonderful around her…and I know she also really digs me. coming back to reality for a second…what do I see as the pitfalls? Very simply, the Aries woman might be too airy fairy. They are like hot air balloons that just float with no grounding. That can be a turn off for a Virgo guy because it makes it hard to relate. Yet, I found that my Aries woman is also extremely bright. She seems to get me and when I converse with her, nothing goes over her head. That’s a very good sign, indeed! As long as we can converse and our communication is effective, I’m sold! Aries woman has given me reason to move forward and abandon my hesitancy. I trust her completely and have much to learn from her beautiful ways. I sense she adores me, my grounded and practical ways yet still romantic and alluring. Perhaps we both mystify each other and that is just how I like it. I wouldn’t change my  Aries woman for anything. I like her just the way she is! 

  38. LadiiSteph August 23rd, 2012

    I am a Aries woman. I’ve been dating an Vigro man, on and off, for almost 5 years. We have a child together. This article describes us perfectly, though we are not together. We have that magnetic energy. Everytime we see each other, there’s a need to reach out and touch the other. We can look into each others eyes and know exactly what the other is feeling without saying any words. He has expressed his love for me in so~ many different ways. With those expressions and feelings aside, Virgo’s are realists. He flat out told me, if we were to work towards a relationship, this is how it’s going to be. I wasn’t ready for what he wanted. One of his requirements was that we moved in together. Being a young Aries, in college, I need my space and alone time to focus on my studies. Am I ready to be around him 24/7? My Virgo man can be selfish at times and only think of himself. When things aren’t right between us, he abuses alcohol, drugs, and has sex with other women. After that passes, guilt and shame sets in. One thing I love about him is that he sincerely apologizes for what he has done and tries to resolve the problem. When I first met him, his personality was kinda out there but the more time we spend together, I can see him maturing. He says, I bring out the good in him. And I agree.

  39. Flux30 August 21st, 2012

    I am a Virgo man and I can love an aries woman dearly. I have not had the chance, but being a Virgo I look for the out going signs… Aries, Aqarius, Leo, Libra… You get my hint. I do this because I want someone who is not a safe player like myself. I don’t speak for all Virgos, but opposites attract.

  40. nubnqn2004 August 8th, 2012

    My Virgo man and I have been married for 29 years and dated 3 years prior to that.  For us, the above description is perfect.  It’s almost scary to see us described so accurately, but I love it! 

  41. Miss_T May 15th, 2012

    I started dating a Virgo man back in Dec. I have never had anyone click with me so well. We meshed in so many different ways. Neither of us dropped the L-bomb, but the energy between us was intense. The above description was pretty much us. Just recently he moved back east because his mom got pretty sick. The last month before he left, he shut me out and didn’t want to see me. We did see each other once before he left. We’ve been in contact since he left and I know that our jouney together isn’t over. This being patient and waiting is killing me though!  From everyone’s comments, it looks as though I just need to hang in there….UGH!!! This sucks!

  42. WowingAries May 12th, 2012

    I am an Aries woman married to a Virgo man and I must admit it was a fight in the beginning. We have pulled through for 15 long years after our bitter, sweet struggles with our personalities. I can’t help but wonder if that’s the very part that keeps us together, tho.  There is never a dull moment. I am constantly trying to figure him out but I can’t LOL, and I still am learning him. His calmness use to passoff to me as arrogance and unconcern, but I’ve learned that I was wrong. He is analzying when I think he doesn’t care. He’s trying to think of a plan to make it better. No, he’s not outwardly emotional, but inside he truly is more emotional than I’ve yet to learn. He is a great father, and works outside of his characteristics to be romantic and sometimes that can even be fun to watch. If you can appreciate the gentleness and loyality of a virgo man, you can get past the rest. A relationship with a virgo man is really worth discovering.

  43. Lind09 November 24th, 2011

    They should be called Birgo for Boring :p

    I get along with the girls they are fun but the guys are always worried.

  44. ariesaries November 19th, 2011

    well,the virgo man….what can I say…I dated him for a year..then off then on..I never tried for a man like that…but like someone said before…they only like people from who they can benefit in any form… from outside he is good friend, caring, he’ll do anything for you, mister know it all…ALL FAKE…perfect from outside, but inside…sad story
    I saw his real face and I couldn’t stand his acting roles with other people..
    He was faithfull,interesting,dependable,you can talk to him…
    but maybe i’m more -little less conversation, little more action please-

    I wish him luck, I think he will have great life..
    but I can’t stand personality like that…
    only thing that makes me sad, that my direct approach to him has resulted in better manipulation of others…

    if there was someone I don’t like, that person knows it, and if i attack it is face to face..
    while virgo tries to manipulate with words..and if he doesn’t win that person, he tries to manipulate others to do dirty work for he would always look perfect…

    I prefer real world rather then illusions of utopia..

    I think that virgos should be politicians…

  45. Lastar91 November 13th, 2011

    I am an aries lady. I have been dating my virgo man for 2months now. my first time seing him was amazing. I will have to say it was love at fisrt sight in my senior year in high school. I was madly into him and wanted himto be my man, my first and only one but things didnt work out that way. After two years, we got together.At first,things was going very well between us. He took me to so many nice and romantic places. We fell in love quickly . I can see us in the future happily married. But he is kind of scared of my young age and thinks that my feeling can change anytime toward our relationship.he is a very caring,strong,handsome and lovable man but cant be sometimes. He definatelly recommands his space and timidity which deeply kills me. I want to be there for him in any circumstances. Most of the stuff I read here are mostly our relationship. sometimes,his actions make me think that he dont care and dont love me but I be patient and wait for him to come back to his sense. Im very impatient and talkative, but Im learning to be patient with him to save our relationship…I love him more than anything in my life and I hope things out between us. He is the best lovemaking ever. I feel free safe and protected when I am with him. I wish he stop doubting me so our love can happily last which was my wish for 11/11/11 at both 11:11:11:11. By the way im 20 and he is 28. I Love u babe k…..

  46. nataliecorozco September 14th, 2011

    I am in a relationship with a virgo man right now and I couldn’t be happier. So far, I have enjoyed every second of everyday with him. I actually feel happy and I hope we lasts a long while.

  47. neeharika1317 September 7th, 2011

    @jdmoreira yeah I agree making love with him is awesome heavens under me.

  48. neeharika1317 September 7th, 2011

    It was 4 years back when I was 20; first saw my man of Virgo, at that stage where I never knew that all these signs influence the match etc… But his words n acts started capturing my heart soul gradually never wanted to be away from him even for a second.
    At times was getting irritated by his acts but like sum magnetic pull dragging me towards him. Then I was a young dashing fiery girl of Aries who considered me practical. But this man made me realise the dream love world’s beauty. Since then his has been the only man in my heart.
    But unfortunately I was forced to marry a diff person, but still n still this man is in my every single cell, and also I believe that he will be my man in nearing future n I want him whole heartedly. As it’s just n just him who can make me feels complete, in all d acts of life.
    I agree to it 100% it’s the match made in heaven. I consider myself luck to have met him in my life.
    Guys please do pray for me n his reunion ASAP….. Life without him is like exactly like body without soul (dead body)

  49. jdmoreira July 12th, 2011

    It’s been 15 years… the tides of a lifetime of loves, loss, heartache and sorrow found me one day on a boring date in a bar where my Virgo was working. I never forgot my Virgo – sweet, noble, loving, considerate, masculine and sexy. I was 24 the rash, impulsive, beautiful Aries everyone thought was a catch – he was 30, sexy, aloof, dangerous, unattainable to everyone – and the only man who drew my eye so many long lost nights ago. We fell in love quickly: making love, battling and remaking love so many times my head spun. I was young and totally unprepared to trust the all-consuming love that my Virgo felt for me:afraid I trusted everyone else’s condemnation of what we had. I walked away, and every once in a while I remembered him even reliving those passionate moments secretly while in someone else’s arms.

    Fast forward 15 years and my Virgo stands before me with the same love in his eyes – he sees no one but me and with him I feel safe, protected, loved and appreciated. He never forgot the finest details of our time together: the room we first made love in, the songs I loved, even the birthdays I spent without him. I am stunned, honored, and humbled by his enduring love that to this day patiently sees the lost span of years as a brief moment vs., a bitter loss. He was and is what a Virgo represents – steadfast love, loyalty, patience, consideration, caring to fault and responsible to a tee.
    Ladies look out! There is no other man who can love like this but a Virgo don’t underestimate the muted tones of his affections because they run deeper than you could possibly know and to this day even so many years later making love is heaven!

  50. sancee March 31st, 2011

    im seeing a virgo man now he is a beautifull man and i fell in love with him so quickly. he makes me laugh and has taken me on many adventures and shown so much kindness generosity, goodtimes and love. he loves in a different way then im use to though. he defenately needs his space which i find extreemely hard to give to him because he is always on my mind and im constantly raving his body against mine. the sex is the best sex ive ever had too. weve been together 2 weeks but he seems to be alot more casual about the relationship then me and he freaks out when i want to talk about a future between us. im a little confused as im letting it consume me . he seems to have a comunication problem and all of this stuff sometimes takes over the good times .im feel sometimes i might be smothering him. the more i do the more he pushed me away and the more that i feel i need him to be there for me emotionally. i hope we get through it as the tenderness he shows is bliss.

    i copied and paste cause it is exactly to the t…wut i am going through wit mine

  51. sancee March 31st, 2011

    i recently started seeing a virgo male nd it wuz amazing(love making and connrction)but it seems now i am to much for him and it sucks cause i fell for him and fell for him hard

  52. ana March 21st, 2011

    It’s true, my Virgo man is an oppotunist, does not express himself, is selfish, but also tender, caring and makes a good family man( not necessarily a good husband) also very stingy, but wants nice gifts. Remembers what you’ve said a year ago, but is no fireworks this guy- If you want stimulation, excitement etc, look elsewhere!He loves me but it’s not enough I know what I want and this is not what I want.

  53. Julie March 3rd, 2011

    It’s a perfect description of me and my virgo mans life,yes I am a aries woman. Me and my virgo man have been best friends for about two years. On Valentines day we got together and ever since then I’ve just been amazed and so very in love! It’s just so different from all of the other men I have dated.But yet,so perfect. I love how he calls me “his princess”. But I love it anyways. He said to me that he loves me more than anyone would know. It was just so sweet! Whenever he is having a tough time in life I’m always there to cheer him up and make him feel much better. He respects my space when I need it.Also,I love how we are always picking on eachother and just playing around with eachother. The only negative thing is I used to get very impatient with him,but I learned how to be patient with him. I learned that one of things you need to definitly learn how to deal with him is being patient,especially since we aries ladys are very impatient but it’ll pay of eventually. I really do thank it’s a match made in heaven! 🙂

  54. lisa barber March 1st, 2011

    It’s a perfect description

  55. Just Me February 27th, 2011

    I love this! i have dated several cancers (even married one) and could never make it work. and so far the two greatest loves of my life have been other aries, but i’ve been seeing a virgo for about two months now and it’s completely different than anything i’ve tried before. he is not remotely my type at all and i think it’s his reservations that drive me craziest. i love the challenge of trying to catch this guy, and i really think it’s gonna pay off for me…

  56. Nick February 24th, 2011

    I am a Virgo man, dating an Aries woman for about almost a month now, and its going good. She is a very beautiful girl that always makes me happy. Yet sometimes our plans goes to dust.. as a Virgo man, I respect my Aries space and privacy. Yet sometimes worrying about it it bad. Yet I care. Almost half of what I read is true, and being to wonder. Also my Aries cheers me up and makes me happy though my rough times. ty lord!! 😀

  57. John January 29th, 2011

    I’m a Virgo man, falling very weak to an Aries woman who I recently started to work with. I’m reticent because we work together and I’ve had bad experiences with that in the past, but she’s special. She’s not a pushover and definitely not needy, something I respect, but most of all, when speaking to her, she has this sincere honesty (which she makes no apologies for) and gentle nature that shakes me to the core and crumbles my gigantic walls like no other. We’re not even dating, but I’ve never felt this weak — to the point of crazy self-consciousness. Right now, I couldn’t even be bothered by another lady… I only want her, I have such a hard time moving forward due to the circumstances, which is eating me up inside.

  58. Osage Dior January 19th, 2011

    Well…I am an Aries and I have had an on and off again relationship with a virgo for several years…He always surprises me and knows just what to do to pull me back in…However, we are different-I love to be spontaneous and he loves to plan…I feel sometimes I am more aware of it than he is…but he is always willing to try…I am excited to see what 2011 will bring to us…something more committed or the continuation of this casual affair or the nice goodby and thank you…Yet I am a sucker for the way he makes my heart flutter…

  59. Steph January 17th, 2011

    I’m an Aries woman and i’ve honestly never tried to put in as much effort into a relationship with ANYONE as i’ve had to do with my virgo man.
    Patience has never been one of my virtues but it’s something i’ve had to learn with him.
    Three months after we met, i left ‘cos i couldn’t deal with it.
    He appeared most of the time to be very cold and detached and would only loosen up ONCE in a long while.He was critical and very blunt. spoke his mind with little or no consideration of how the other person might feel.
    When i tried to be caring and nice, it would only push him away ‘cos of his fear of commitment.
    When i decided to give him his space and act unavailable, he accused me of being with other guys and that even drove him further away. It was like i couldn’t win either way.
    He was also a very private person and not a great communicator.
    To be honest, I went back to him not because i cared much at the time but because as a Aries woman, i have a strong passion to win and i saw this as a challenge. I wasn’t gonna give up.
    It’s been six months and i’m deeply in love with him. under that icecold demeanor, he’s very loving and sweet…and very sensitive..he’s opened up to me a lot and even though he may not be the most expressive person i know he loves me… if you’re looking to keep a virgo man, you’ve got to be PATIENT. trust me,it pays off

  60. Mrs.Virgo January 14th, 2011

    I have been married to a Virgo Man for three years. I am an Aries woman. The above match description has been our life to a T. He has not been without fault and neither have I for that matter but truly I am amazed at the perfect description of our life.

  61. Maddie January 6th, 2011

    I have been on and off with a virgo man for about a year and a half. At first the relationship was just sexual, and now it has turned into something bigger than I ever imagined.
    The claim that virgo men are terrified of matrimony is very true. It took him a year and a half to realize he loved me and wanted me in his life offically.
    If you put time and effort into a virgo man and not push him to any decisions, but just tell him how you feel every once and awhile, he will fall for you.
    He just told me last night he loved me more than anyone he has ever loved before, and that I am the first girl that cracked his wall down.:-)

  62. Me December 30th, 2010

    .. Virgo men are the most Uncompromising beings on the Planet

    They only want a woman they can profit from

    They love no-one but themselves

  63. Me December 30th, 2010

    …Leave Him

    And all those other Virgos who are making all you women feel the way you do

    Who do they think they are .. treating people in this cold clinical detached manner

    we all have feelings and get hurt and need ‘alone ‘ time, but not all of us treat people in such a disgraceful manner.. they’re just ‘ men ‘ but more like living Wimps

    where is your self respect girls?

    get tough get serious and tell them to GET LOST!

  64. A December 28th, 2010

    I admire my Virgo because of his organizing abilities, gentle character, truthfulness, loyalty, and sexiness. Whenever I am offended, he apologies, explains his point of view, and kisses me. That formula always works on me. Knowing that I like the impulsive, passionate encounters, he planned these instances into his day, pretending to act impulsively, in order to keep me interested in him. Because I am critical as well, he understands my point of view when I criticize him. Knowing how sensitive I am, he is always tactful when addressing concerns. He is an excellent communicator.

  65. Lola December 5th, 2010

    Oh and hes hardly the virgo described, he’s always centre of attention , rather rude and spiteful to even his closest friends , mocking them for a laugh.
    Hes loud and well plain confusing :S

  66. Lola December 5th, 2010

    Im an aries female , but always find myself displaying pieces qualities aswell.I think im a cusp. Well anyway there’s this virgo guy and well ive noticed him for quiet some time , but always have pushed him to the back of my mind . So recently he seems to have taken notice of me. But lo and behold , it seems like disaster, my presence seems to make him uncomfortable and he glares daggers any time im near and he refuses to speak to me. I really dont understand. Ive never wronged him. Is that a virgo thing? What goes on in his head when im there, im worried he hates me! Of recent i keep catching his eye and bumping into him , and he wears a blank expression. Anyone care to interprete this? I might be developing feelings for him but dont know what he thinks of me at all, i think it could work im quite the listener and am fine with sitting still and am rather thoughtful. But does he hate me?!

  67. Jeff December 2nd, 2010

    The Leo that I’ve got locked in my closet, by that I mean my heart, is one of the most beautiful women that I’ve ever met. And, she let’s me do WHATEVER, and I mean WHATEVER, I want to her. Not only is she a kind, affectionate, and free-spirited but she also never shuts up. I mean this woman can talk. One day I caught her talking to a telephone pole, and when I asked her why she was talking to an inanimate object she said, “Everyone needs some attention, even when they can’t talk back.” Well, I think that pretty much sums up how accurate, and effective, astrological directives can be to inordinately attractive people.

  68. lauren December 2nd, 2010

    I’ve been with my Pisces man for a little over a year now. He’s absolutely wonderful – intelligent, thoughtful, funny, easy-going – and the sex is s-t-e-a-m-p-y, though he first felt weird about getting tied up and stuff now he just LOVES it!!! He really is the best lay I’ve ever had and I want to marry him for now and forever. He is my one true love and i MEAN THIS!!!

  69. lee October 20th, 2010

    im seeing a virgo man now he is a beautifull man and i fell in love with him so quickly. he makes me laugh and has taken me on many adventures and shown so much kindness generosity, goodtimes and love. he loves in a different way then im use to though. he defenately needs his space which i find extreemely hard to give to him because he is always on my mind and im constantly raving his body against mine. the sex is the best sex ive ever had too. weve been together 6 months but he seems to be alot more casual about the relationship then me and he freaks out when i want to talk about a future between us. im a little confused as im letting it consume me . he seems to have a comunication problem and all of this stuff sometimes takes over the good times .im feel sometimes i might be smothering him. the more i do the more he pushed me away and the more that i feel i need him to be there for me emotionally. i hope we get through it as the tenderness he shows is bliss.

  70. Jhonny August 30th, 2010

    A was searching the net about aries (mex) woman and male (me) virgo, is nice and entretaining read all this,in ,y case im dating a great but stressful women ,the chemistry was good for the
    First 4 monts ,.now since I moved to her place its thought! Her temperaments are out of blue , I as virgo very detailist try to treat her as a princess but actually I’m not on her life exept as a.server,asd but true . I dont where we are going into…this has changed into a caos. Good nites

  71. Marica August 20th, 2010

    I dated a Virgo from 17 to 20. We clashed like crazy but other times we had fun.

  72. Michele August 9th, 2010

    I have been friends with a Virgo man for many years, since we were kids. I’m a natural Aries woman so most of what I read about myself is true, and I am proud of that! (Imagine that) This friend of mine and I have been going on dates for years…he took me on my first date when we were 16, and he took me to a high school dance. We’re nearing 30 now and both single at the same time again. Neither one of us has settled into marriage, but for some reason I always come back to this Virgo man, whether that be as a friend or more. I have always felt he wanted more but my wild side, or independency have intimidated the heck out of him…however he’s hung steady. He makes me set times for things, and dates. It’s a slow process but he could be the one that centralizes my focus without filling my head full of the garbage most do because they fall in love in five minutes without really knowing me. An Aries woman wants a man to take his time and get to know her. Our exterior may be tough, beautiful, strong and demanding but on the inside…there is a softness to us that whoever reaches it could hold the keys to our hearts forever. So far, my Virgo man has kept his hormones to himself and worried more about dating me. Men, take note…learn to date again. I promise you, it will pay off in the long run.

  73. Neicy July 30th, 2010

    Im an aries woman currently engaging a relationship with a vigro man. So far the zodic compatibility about us is half true and half not. I would have to say we could have good conversations bt sometimes can get to the point where were pointing out falses instead of working around it. He also saids things that makes me question his feelings towards me. Like he’ll mention about how much he miss me and wants to see me bt he doesnt show me enough attention or affection which i tend to feel implusive. Although we haven’t been conversating, more like siting in eachother’s presence in silence or cuddling together.
    He’s always think im not hearing him out. Im more of a listener than a talker so iont always know what to say bt listen and agree. I tend to worry more of how he’s feeling and thats what makes it complicated because he puts up this act as if he’s to hard of a guy to puzzle.
    He also seems to not be appreciative about the favors I do, then he will throw a fit as if he cant be satified for what he gets. On the other hand I’ll feel unappreciated and mad as hell about it and he’ll be over it expecting things to be cool between us. Another thing i peep about is aries are impatient! He tends to do things on his own pace,Lol.

    Besides all the negetivty I’ve pointed out there is a spark about him that just keeps me on edge to want to know him more. I mean we kiss and cuddle theirs chills that runs through me like no other!! Theirs not to many that can make me feel like this. Depise our disagreements he can break the silence by being really goffy which would spark everything back in place!

    Thats just my imput on aries woman and virgo man. I hope it is resourceful to you! much love!

  74. Ardra July 13th, 2010

    I just started talking with a Virgo man on June 8th and our conversations have been very interesting. With me being an Aries woman I know how my temperment is but in talking to him I am noticing that Virgo men do need their space and are very active with their families. I can find myself loving him but I just want to make sure it’s right and what he is saying is the true deal. He tells me he can see us together for a long time, so this is the time at 43yrs old that I am going to have to learn patience. Wish me the best!

  75. eric July 3rd, 2010

    but we have come to an agreement. I trust her deeply and my old vulcan type ways are being a little more submissive to respect her and comfort her. I have learned that virgo women and aries men are my choice both dangerous and intelligent. An aries woman though can come across as a little more naive and prejudice but a virgo woman has too much scheduling for work and shit like that so you can never have that quality time with them. I like that an aries woman has little to do. It allows me to be a man or feel like one at least.

  76. eric July 3rd, 2010

    I am currently dating an aries woman. I am a virgo man. I will say to some degree that aries women feel that meeting some one “half way” is actually means you agree with everything they do and must not disagree with them. I am captured by her beauty and I’ve liked her for over a year always seeing her with men of other signs that were lame. Finally though we hung out one night when I came back from seattle having a good streak of one night stands with amazing beautiful women of all types. I don’t want that anymore though. I’m a virgo not a whore. Im almost 30 also. I can’t be doing that. I was captured by her hips and she can cook as well. Its amazing but now shes modeling and its driving me mad. Her body is a temple. So is mine! Not eveyone should have access.

  77. Matt June 19th, 2010

    Interesting – Now I know a wee bit about this Virgo guff. I am a Virgo but only about half of what I have read today is true, more than not I guess. You know I cant remember if I ever dated an Aries ? Im 38 now and have been for the most part a bachelor, and thats just a choice I have made on the whole. The Aries Virgo thing is intriguing reading ! I think it must depend a lot on youre culture of origin and the way you were raised too, but I see Astrology as a good template to begin with, for sure and hello all you Aries Gals !

  78. Melinda May 30th, 2010

    I am wanting to be with a Virgo man so badly. I am an Aries,and i am in a relationship with a cancer,but i don’t really love him. I care,and that’s not love.This Virgo was in my class,from elementary to high school,and I have always watched him secretly,and he ,me!but we never got together or anything like that. He was afraid I’d turn him down,and when he saw me on facebook, he sent me a message,and his number. I immediately answered.I wouldn’t have turned him down. My God he was so darling in school to me,and BUFF!!! Geesh!And still is,and he says I would have turned him down. I let him know that that would not have happened,and now when we talk to each other over the phone he just keep saying he missed out. But he hasn’t. I still want him,and we live miles apart. There is a class reunion coming up,and i am trying to wait until then to see him,’s hard though. He was so shy in school,and now he says he isn’t,I’ll see. But I do not want to run him away with my forwardness though. I have this tendency to want something so badly,and don’t,or can’t wait to get it. Any Arien know what I mean here?I was married to a Virgo,and i loved him,until he caused the breakup over infidelity on his part,and a lack of communication.But over all it was great.And that was when I was younger. I feel now that I can do this again with another Virgo,and this time make it stick.I want him,ya’ll!!

  79. adriana May 9th, 2010

    i knew this virgo idiot like 2 months ago,i took care of him nicely,wash his clothes,cook for him,even shove him his shoe and put on his socks,and guess what he told me,please dont take care of me this way,this is too serious,as an aries,that is how i show my love and care,but this dumb virgo is a real dummy i left him cold,coz guess what im sensitive too.i know virgos are beautiful people,but this one is a black sheep,sorry to all the virgorians reading this,i hate him not you guys..

  80. Kristy April 7th, 2010

    I have had an on and off relationship with a virgo man for MANY years, and as a person I love him deeply. There are aspects of the relationship that are incredible, such as–trust,loyalty,and sincerity. When a virgo man says he loves you he means it..and means it in a big way. The idea of safety and comfort has brought me back several times throughout the years. However, as an Aries woman, I feel if things become too settled or clingy, I’ll find myself on the next fight out. If you are truly ready to settle down in a relationship, this is a FANTASTIC and loving match. However, if your true Arien nature is burning, and you crave freedom -be careful with a virgo man. For he may fall hard for you, even though your feelings may not be as strong. Because once you’re in this relationship, the virgo man is expecting the long haul.

  81. Libby October 17th, 2009

    I am an aries woman who recently started dating a virgo man. I love his chivalry and honor. he is very trust worth and considerate. I am very happy that i do not intimidate him and he admires my strong will and passion. So far the only problems have been his passive calm nature can come off indifferent rather than simply reserved, and my impulsive nature can come off inconsiderate rather than impatient. So far so good. I worry that i could fall for him harder and faster than he would fall for me.

  82. Terribia October 11th, 2009

    My new-found Virgo is a total match! I really am sooo feeling him. I feel the sense of restriction that the reading refers to, but I know that his intentions are to have an upstanding relationship. He’s sooo worthy of my respect and admiraation that it’s crazy. I’m willing to see where this goes long-term. God is so good!

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