Gemini Woman and Virgo Man Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Gemini woman and Virgo man are a good match, bringing excitement and stability to each other's lives.
  • They are sexually compatible, with the Gemini woman's playful nature complementing the Virgo man's strong and stable passion.
  • The Gemini woman can attract the Virgo man by showing her enthusiasm and colorful nature.
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The earthy Virgo and airy Gemini make an extraordinary match for each other. Gemini wants to discover every possible thing while Virgo loves to be around the tested areas. Once they actually are involved in a romantic relationship, they have to face many differences but their love has strength to stand tall in all walks of life.

A Virgo man is a perfectionist. He tends to move away from any possible conflict and is always confident on his road to what he believes in. He is never the dominating type and is often thought of as cold and selfish due to his quite nature. His business-like arrangements are quite flawless as far as the little comforts are concerned and one can rest assured to be around such an honest man. In a relationship, a Virgo man makes a wonderful partner for any lady. He provides her with pure love and a life which is well organized and well managed with nothing to actually worry about.

A Gemini woman is not a typical woman; in fact she is a beautiful butterfly with many colors. She is incorrigible. She is irrepressible and this makes her quite irresistible for most men. She changes her moods faster than anyone can. She goes from miss happy go lucky to a total wreck and then turn around and engage in intellectual conversation. Gemini woman always showers her loved ones with little yet interesting things. In a romantic relationship, her sentimental gestures and charm keeps the relationship alive. Her display of affection keeps fire in the romance.

Gemini woman supplies to her Virgo man’s much needed zest for excitement and stimulation. This initially attracts these two, while an outside stimulus such as family or some other type of tie is usually responsible for keeping them together. She has the need to wander, to seek out the company of others but that mustn’t be construed as infidelity as she is truly a very devoted lover deep inside. He should never try to pin her down as this can make their lives dull. She is the type that needs to fly and she will, with or without her Virgo man. A Gemini woman can make anything happen. She does not believe in “I can’t”. She always charms her Virgo lover with her qualities but never feels dependent on him. She never bores her man rather she delights and amuses him most of the time, keeping spark and brightness in their relationship.

Virgo man provides his Gemini woman with the stability she needs, even if she feels she doesn’t need it. Although she loves to spread her social wings and fly, she always appreciates and respects the stable partner she gets in her Virgo man. With the right combination and love provided, if he lets her go, she’ll more than likely to come back to him. He is often punctual, organized, is up early with the crack of dawn and prefers to stick around home. He truly loves her and never bounds her to do the same; in fact by doing all this he induces some structure in her life too. But deep down there are hidden secrets that he does not divulge to her, nor does he wants to.

As the blazing fire of love and passion enters the lives of gleaming Gemini woman and self-controlled Virgo man, it makes them experience many new and beautiful things in life. Their love has a lot to discover and appreciate in each other and also give the other what is lacking. With every new sunrise they make some lovely plans and at every sunset they have a sense of gratitude to have those plans come out beautifully. With never fading light of affection, they walk miles teaching one another new lessons of life and love and getting themselves involved in each other so much that nothing else in this world matters to them anymore. The love of Virgo man and Gemini woman is so radiant and colorful that each day brings something extraordinary to their relationship which they cherish for the life time.

A Gemini woman and a Virgo man are sexually quite compatible. They make their love making a playfully passionate experience by blending their individual essences wonderfully. He is not dominating in his quest, nor is he too affectionate. But he has a strong and stable passion for love. Together with it, his ability to keep love making light causes him to succeed with Gemini woman. This is a good match for his Gemini woman, who loves to keep things ethereal, delicate and likes to play games. She makes some of the most interesting and imaginatively romantic moves in the love making, giving their sexual intimacy some freshness. However, things are sometimes so light on the part the Gemini woman that Virgo man sometimes fails to arouse his initial passions but it rarely happens. She feels comfortable and emotionally safe with him, while he feel refresh and revived with his Gemini woman and this sense of security and spark forms a solid base for a profound passion between them.

There will be a few arguments and differences of opinions in this relationship. When Gemini woman is ready to socialize out and about, Virgo man who is more home bound, verbally show his concern in letting her go, but more than likely, deep down, he sighs a little sigh of relief that he is able to spend some much needed time alone. Generally, he has too much to offer her and she does not have enough for him nor does she wants too much from him. He does not usually expect too much from her and with due course of time she also learns to adapt to his ways as much as she possibly can. But, her constant changing makes him crazy and this could pose a problem in their relationship. Although he is introverted and sometimes not the best company for her, she knows to spice things up with a bit of her enthusiasm and colorful nature.

  1. Jack October 12th, 2023

    Hi Mary, it sounds to me like you don’t want him but you don’t want anyone else to have him. Let him go and stop being selfish

  2. Gem April 16th, 2023

    I’ve just recently started back-talking to my Virgo man. We use to “talk” back in 2019 but lost communication. I msged him recently & now we’re talking everyday. I instantly feel a connection to him like I’m excited everytime he calls me or texts me. He is exactly my type by the way, 6’2, tall, darkskin & handsome. We haven’t met face to face yet so I’m highly anticipating that, but base off the reading we’re highly compatible im so excited. I’ve also been manifesting him through orgasming… just to make sure that our talking stage goes on beautifully. Anyways I’m just so excited to be talking to him again. He feels like home💟

    • Motumi Ranthimo May 22nd, 2023

      I am chasing one of the Gemini woman.She is ignoring my texts,and also my phone calls.

  3. Michael August 21st, 2022

    My Gemini wife and I (Virgo male) been together for 21 years. I love everything about her, we are the perfect match. Maybe we are just old school NYers lol. I’m 44 BTW. This article is pretty much spot on. Thank you for that.

    • Motumi Ranthimo May 22nd, 2023

      What should I do to attract her?I mean Gemini woman.She appreciates my compliments.

  4. Oh_that_Gemini ! November 16th, 2021

    As a Gemini women who dealt with mostly Virgo men I can say we relate in a lot of ways. When we are together it’s as if only we matter we fit into one another lIke a puzzle piece It’s like we are dancing on Mercury in space and nobody can come between that. The sex doesn’t help because it’s so good we can’t resist. We are so good together it seems we both want to fight the fact that we really are compatible because both Gemini women and virgo men can be stubborn when upset or In competition With who can care less when in all reality we are wanting and Feening for each other. Virgo men feels as though a Gemini women don’t care or we don’t show any love or affection, yet Virgo men have a way of being nonchalant which Geminis feel and we give what we receive. Virgo men are charming yet sneaky and bipolar as well which Geminis can see and feel it all which also makes us question of a Virgo man is the one for us. Most Virgo men are cool laid back and can get a women to do as they say in one wink yet with a Gemini women they don’t have that control and they like that , Virgo men love a challenge and this challenge dealing with a Gemini women it not for the weak nor is it short term , we are playful and love giving out test to see if he will fail or succeed , the Virgo man it interested and aroused by her independent yet fun ways. We Gemini women love their firm manly beliefs . We love how they cherish us and give us their attention like a trophy. We love our Virgo men but we will not let you Virgo men get over on us because unlike the other sign dealing with a Virgo ! We WILL LEAVE & never look back.

    • Melva Williams July 5th, 2022

      You got it all right!!

    • Gemini Queen February 2nd, 2023

      THATS SPOT ON. AS A gemini female myself, that’s so funny you said that we give what we get. I just started re-dating my Virgo and after a lot of growing up between us we’ve grown to really appreciate one another deeply. He wants to get married but I’m not in a rush. I sense that he hides his disapproval of me spending time with anyone other than him. He becomes distant and then qhwn I say I’ll call you back he responds if he’s up. It’s just a jealousy feeling I get from him. Am I wrong?

  5. Brie July 12th, 2021

    Gemini Deity (5/26)here, I’ve been with my Virgo man (9/17)for 9 months, we were friends for 2 years. We must’ve known we were gonna get together at some point in the 2 years of us being friends. Like the other comments I’ve read my Virgo man gets on my first and last damn nerve! But I love him as much as he gets on my nerves. We don’t argue we have disagreements and tough conversations. You’d think it will lead to arguments but they don’t, he doesn’t take it there. In my eyes a Gemini woman and Virgo Man is the true Alpha woman/Alpha Man relationship. Though I’m more blunt and he’s passive as hell, our differences work out for the both of us when it’s needed.

    • Michael August 21st, 2022

      100 percent (Male virgo here)

      • Blue June 25th, 2023

        I’m a gemini woman and i think virgo guy are not compatible for a lasting relationship with a virgo guy. Maybe a friendship?

        Virgo guys are too critical, boring, not open-minded like gemini women and they can seemed bored. I say not all of thrm but mostly. They can ghost you and reapparef to your life like nothing hqppen it a virgo things i guess…

  6. Wind Goddess Gemini July 8th, 2021

    I’ve been with my Virgo husband for almost 25 years. He infuriates me at times but he also is the balanced package I’ve always looked for in a partner. The libido has not changed at all after all these years and mentally, he still stimulates me as well. Through raising 5 kids and now spoiling our grandkid – life is still exciting and we look as young as we feel.

  7. Wind Goddess Gemini July 8th, 2021

    I’ve been with my Virgo husband for almost 25 years. He infuriates me at times but he also is the balanced package I’ve always looked for in a partner. The libido has not changed at all after all these years and mentally, he still stimulates me as well. Through raising 5 kids and now spoiling our grandkid – life is still exciting and we look as young as we feel.

  8. Je L April 8th, 2021

    I’ve been with my Vertigo man for 6 months. We get along great, and I honestly couldn’t imagine my life without him. He may be a pain in the ass sometimes, but I can be one too! We’re getting married next year, and he gave me the diamond Christmas 2020. He’s honestly my best friend, and the best thing that ever came into my life. Love him with every ounce of my heart and soul.

  9. Whitney February 8th, 2021

    I adore my virgo man. We’ve been together for almost a year, and although we do have our clashes, I feel secure and grounded with him.

  10. Daphne December 7th, 2020

    im dating a virgo guy hes great and all and im falling for him hard but hes not putting me first he hangs up our calls to talk with his friends he puts his friends above me i feel like hes not intereted to be with me in future ll these things are making me kinda detach from him a bit tho he aopligizes when he sees im upset i dont feel like he means it

  11. A happy Gemini October 4th, 2020

    So I am now happily married to my Virgo man. We have been dating 10 months. He asked me to marry him on Xmas 2019. We married in July 2020. In all this time we have never “fought”. Yes we have disagreements but we both have been cheated on and torn apart in other relationships. We both knew we wanted something better and we both knew we are worth better. So we work really hard to never say anything disrespectful or hateful to each other. Why would we want to tear down the most important love in our lives? Our sex life is beautiful. Our life is full of communication and respect. I think … where has this man been all my life? But I also understand I had to be who I am to truly appreciate who is now as well. So I will enjoy my Virgo love for whatever life together we have left.

    • Sofyan November 11th, 2020

      Can u give me an advice

    • Gemini Woman Virgo Man November 12th, 2020

      Me and Virgo man never “fought “ , disagreed . But we cannot be upset with each other (or stop talking) for no longer than 5 hours lol! That’s my best friend! We’ve been dating for a year . It’s not always peaches and cream but what relationship is ?

  12. MedinaGemini October 2nd, 2020

    We were about to get married with my the only lover Virgo man, but our family members were always insisting on postponing the wedding month by month, to be more exact my mother, after one year of our happy relationship when she finally agreed, his mom started disagreeing on our marriage((( We loved each other so much, wanted to be in the marriage so much, we couldn’t ever meet with each other a lot bcs of his busy work schedule and my shyness, so a lot of the time we texted everyday with Love messages❤️💔. There were times when we had arguments over the problems about the family members, I made him angry and upset by not meeting with him as much as he wanted to(although i also wanted it so much) We had some arguments and broke up many times and missed each other and got back together again saying how much we love each other. But unfortunately, then the day came when we had to separate for a lifetime bcs of the wedding plans not working out. He left me without saying anything, he didn’t go on his social account for nearly two weeks, then I also deleted my account, when i messaged him he didn’t reply.. I understand him, he did everything he could so that we could be together, I also did everything in my power, but probably we weren’t destined to be together. It was really heartbreaking, now I don’t know how to love after our almost perfect relationship)) He was the Love of my life, I could have done anything to make him happy❤️ After this situation, I understood that you can’t always get want you want in life, bigger things like to whom you will be married and have a family will be written in your destiny. No matter how hard you may want, life always gives us the people and things that we need most in our lives.

  13. Atlantisheals July 13th, 2020

    I think think 2020 Mercury retrograde over lapping the Venus retrograde has been hellfire for our relationship.Especially since Mercury governs Gemini and Virgo.
    Not looking forward to the next Mercury retrograde overlapping with the Mars retrograde.
    Today he really was verbally abusive and I will not tolerate it. So changes are about to be implemented.

    • GeminiWomanCrazyAboutAHandsomeVirgo August 10th, 2020

      Wow… listen… when I tell you we just had the same experience these past two weeks. Where I had to question my reality. Then another argument after another. I often find myself apologizing when I shouldn’t have to. Overall I love him to pieces snd value him but I think he feels entitled to his mantrums… lol im quite over 40+ adult males acting like 3yearolds who need naps.

  14. Mariethegemini June 20th, 2020

    I am a gemini female and my bf is a Virgo male. I like him but not the same way that he likes me. He sees a future with us but I don’t see that. I am starting to catch feelings for him but not strong feelings. I love everything about him and he loves everything about me too. I want to see myself with him but it’s hard for me to reciprocate my feelings towards him. Because I consider him as a friend in a way. I’ve already got him confused with everything that I say and when he asks me how I feel towards him or if I’m attracted to him. I get upset because I hate talking about my feelings towards him. Because he already knows that my feelings aren’t in sync with his. i care for him so deeply. I don’t know what to do. I can’t let him go cause it breaks my heart. I have love for him but I’m not in love with him. I love being around him, he makes me happy and I feel calm when ever I’m with him. He’s my first and he respects me and tries to understand my confusing side. I was in a bad situation with a guy that I had a crush on and I was so infatuated with him but everything went downhill after that and when I told him about that situation, he was so upset about how that guy treated me and he knows that he wouldn’t treat me that way but I’ve always believed every word he says. I don’t get red flags from him. His heart feels so bright to me. And it makes me feel at ease. I get slight butterfly’s for him but not strong ones.Idk if I’m ready to settle down with him, I want him in my life and I don’t want to lose him.What should I do?😣🥺

    • Anonymous June 27th, 2020

      Take a chance regret is one of the worst feelings you can live with

  15. Yin June 19th, 2020

    The energy between you two is probably too intense. Try asking her questions. Don’t throw them on her out of nowhere. Make sure you guys are having fun, then maybe a moment of silence then start a conversation with her. Don’t make it feel like a interview. I’m a Gemini woman dealing with a Virgo man and we have the same problem. Our communication is nerve wrecking and it’s so much that needs to be said between us, but yet when we look into each other’s eyes. I know it’s real.

    • Lucas February 22nd, 2023

      Tell me more. Just started a relationship with a Gemini… an would like to know the not to do’s… you know…

  16. Kinzay April 8th, 2020

    Hy I’m a Gemini girl…airy gemini are very sensitive… give her sometime ,,, make her feel comfortable around u ,,, protect her and show her that u care about her …. everything will be in ur favour Soon …
    Best of luck and I’ll pray for ur relationship

  17. Gemini babe 🦋 March 1st, 2020

    I’m a Gemini woman and I’m currently dating a Virgo man. We’re quite different but alike at the same time. He freely opens up to me about things and even sensitive things, but I hardly do. I’m usually not the type to talk about really sensitive things or exes but he freely brings me into that part of his life which I really appreciate and I wish I could reciprocate that as well.
    He’s also quite controlling but he never admits. I feel like he always trying to hold me down from “flying” which can be very annoying. He’s also extremely detailed and it’s good but pisses me off cuz I’m like, “ who has time for all this details?!”
    In all, he’s an utterly amazing human being and I’m blessed to have him in my life. I only pray to learn to love him the way he deserves to be loved.

    • Mariethegemini June 20th, 2020

      I’m having the same situation too. What happens between ya’ll after that.😣

    • Gem-ini December 5th, 2020

      I love that you posted this.. Just lost my Virgo best friend. He opened up about his feelings and I couldn’t reciprocate. Its only been a couple days but I feel pretty, empty.

      I think I needed to see more stability in him. More motivation to provide and build “a castle in the sky” with me. Friendship was perfect, sex amazing.. but long term I just wasn’t sure and didn’t want to hurt him. Thank you for posting

  18. Jozef February 1st, 2020

    I’m a Virgo man. I love a Gemini woman, but sometimes I feel our communication is very difficult. When we look at each other, everything changes like I don’t know why but it’s pretty weird. She looks at me like she is in love with me too. but when we talk she just changes and doesn’t talk a lot. Can someone give me tips to have a better communication with her?

    • Koashe May 21st, 2020

      Just relax and tell her what you want she will eventually come to realize she might want the same thing I’m a Gemini women and I had a friendship with Virgo man for years now we are finally on the same page I just had to know what he was thinking it’s hard for us to figure out Virgo and it drives us Gemini women mad you guys are good at keeping things to yourself as we can be but it’s if it’s blocking our future or are need to fly things can turn upside down so just tell us don’t hold back because we are probably on the same level

  19. Susan Al January 23rd, 2020

    I myself have a Virgo friend sometimes it seems like we’re getting together and sometimes it seemed like when not he says I move Beyond being a friend I’ve moved Beyond being a best friend and more like the love of a family he says that he cares about me more than anyone in the world I don’t understand I want to walk away I am a Gemini and you know when we leave we leave sometimes I think he’s just playing me he’ll do anything in the world for me I myself have a Virgo friend sometimes it seems like we getting together and sometimes it seems like when not he says I’m movie on being a friend iMovie on being a best friend I’m more like the love of a family he says that he cares about me more than anyone in the world I don’t understand I want to walk away I am a Gemini and you know when we leave we leave sometimes I think he’s just playing me he’ll do anything in the world for me when I asked him and I’ll I don’t understand do I leave a stay he tells me I’m not going anywhere but he won’t go all the way with the relationship we never had sex or anything together and it’s been almost a year

  20. Sharon Kelly January 10th, 2020

    I love my Virgo man. He was exactly what I needed in my life. Hes grounded,stable sure of himself,meticulous and very focused. He gives me a sense of security, focuses me and shows me so much love and affection. I feel like I can be myself with him, I never feel judged in any way.

  21. Calvin January 5th, 2020

    I’m a Virgo man in love with a Gemini woman. The first time I saw her, I saw the pain in her eyes and wanted to make them shine again. I did, she has fun and is happy when she is with me. But every now and then she just drops off and has to date idiots that end up just making her mad. Then she reappears and I see the life return to her eyes and then she’s off again. I’m lost and have no direction now.

    • JT January 6th, 2020

      Hey Calvin, as a fellow Virgo reason is our strongest suite. Use it!
      Understand fundamentally Gemini’s need freedom. It’s not like she doesn’t have feelings for you, she’s just exploring and doing her own thing. If she didn’t like you she wouldn’t reappear, that’s a fact. They’re things going on around her that grabs her attention. Being a sign that tends to live in the moment distractions are bound to happen. Don’t take it to heart, Gemini’s are able to commit to long term arrangements in the right setting. The key factor to take into consideration is her age/maturity. I suggest looking for a more steady partner to save yourself the hurt. We come off aloof but we feel deeply, the last thing you want to do is resent her for her just being herself. It’s not fair. Seek out a Capricorn or Taurus as there routine will more fit your own, maybe a Pieces or Scorpio to further develop your emotional intelligence(they’re very complementary to us).
      Don’t get romantically involved unless you’re on the same page, that’s fundamental for any sign.

      Hope the insight helps

      -Fellow Virgo

  22. Anonymous 36 yr old December 18th, 2019

    I am a Gemini woman. I love my virgo man. I normally initiate conversation and he is more of a listener. He doesn’t judge. But I notice when I talk emotional and deep and show affection, he immediately responds with mutual feelings. He seems very loyal as he always responds. If he initiates conversation it’s very subtle like hello and what are you doing right now. Sounds boring to me but I can read between the lines and hes showing that he is trying. The virgo man is a very serious in love. We have not dated long enough but I wouldn’t mind being with him in the long run.

  23. im gemini July 9th, 2019

    Im a gemini female, and i’m talking to a virgo male. He is an introvert like me but sometimes i can be an extrovert.
    i’m always the one initiating the conversation.
    I stopped texting him for 3 days now, and he shows up asking me if “i’m okay” and i said “yes i’m ok”. I told him why i stopped texting him and he said “ that he had some issues he needed to take care of and he wasn’t “sure” if he could tell me about it. Somedays i wish he could tell me but i don’t want to push any buttons. I like him but at the same time i don’t because it feels like i am missing something or he just wont open up to me. I won’t rush him but i want him to just tell me. Please i need advice.

    • Genia July 21st, 2019

      I have the same issue with my virgo man and I’m Gemini. I like him a lot but he tends to disappear on me and when he comes back all loving, sweet and romantic. I never try to push too hard and I give him space so much That I learn that he disappeared cause his been so stressed with work and school. It’s not the same experience but he might ghost you too and you know how Geminis don’t like to be ignored and we do it when we not sure.

  24. Gemi June 11th, 2019

    I met my Virgo man when I was 21. We got on so well. We married seperated for a year or so and got back together. He’s my best friend and we both allow ourselves freedom to be ourselves. If I did not have that i would definitely not be with him. He annoys me a lot, talks too much and repetition at times and I still love him sooooooo much.

  25. ps May 11th, 2019

    I have a similar situation but the only difference is that we never dated and I’m so in love with him..its been 3 years and he doesn’t even bother to reply to me. I wonder if I’ll ever have the luck to be with him. I’m still hoping and patient.

  26. Dee Dee January 22nd, 2019

    I’m June Gemini. An my first boyfriend was a September virgo man.didnt work out at first but I take the blame ,we where teens then,but years later now we back together in our 30’s.An so far so good.i think this is accurate. He pushes my nerves sometimes but captures my heart all the time.

    • Debbie Shaw January 25th, 2019

      I hear that. I’m a Gemini girl who has reunited with my virgo man after 29 years lol we were 15 and 17 back then and just too young. Now we are older, experienced in life and so much better now 🙂

    • josemontana714 February 7th, 2019

      Congrats on your rekindle relationship

  27. Jennifer June 17th, 2018

    I’m a gemini woman with a leo moon sign I had a relationship with a virgo man with an Aries moon sign he was the best man I’ve ever seen he was perfection, i love all virgos cause of him

  28. Anna June 17th, 2018

    Hi guys is gemini woman with a leo moon sign compatible with a virgo man with Taurus moon sign? ps shes a may gemini and he is a September virgo.

  29. Sherri December 29th, 2017

    Gemini woman with a virgo man, 2 yrs now and he is the love of my life. This article is dead on….not sure about this part “Generally, he has too much to offer her and she does not have enough for him nor does she wants too much from him.” Maybe I am reading it wrong…..Looking forward to growing old with him
    Bobby and Sherri

  30. HyPnoTiK November 29th, 2017

    I am a Gemini woman and I just got into a relationship with a Virgo man and I am already MADLY in love with him, he is amazing. We have known each other forever but I never saw myself falling in love or being in a relationship with him. I’m so happy that it happened! I can say that most pf this seems to be pretty accurate for the most part.

  31. Emely October 11th, 2017

    Hi im a gimini woman who is still in love with her virgo ex we still talk on the phone but in person we don’t and it’s weird cuz we see each other everyday idk what to do I still love him so much BTW this Artical is so true he was the live of my life

    • Cb January 28th, 2018

      What happened? Why did the relationship end?

  32. Urs truly October 4th, 2017

    Gemini woman virgo man.. We have the worst fights and the most epic make-ups.. It’s the most joyful agonizing playful emotional exciting game of tug-of-war ever played.. He’s my sweater when I’m cold but also a blender when I’m angry.. He coyly pushes my buttons as if he programmed all the codes.. But i wouldn’t trade him for anything..I love him… and I’ll Love Him more tomorrow than I do today..

  33. Bernadeth September 27th, 2017

    Hi I’m a gemini women who was still madly inlove with my ex virgo man..even he doesn’t talk to me already for almost 1year..I try to message him but he doesn’t bother to reply me.. Im thinking if how can I get him back..

  34. Nyabi ete July 15th, 2017

    I’m in love with a Virgo boy and I don’t know how the relationship is gonna be??

  35. Marie The Gemini July 13th, 2017

    I’m a Gemini woman and I’m madly in love with a Virgo man ❤️

    • karan July 15th, 2017

      Hi, I am a virgo man, I need to talk to you and exchange my ideas regarding the women i love probably, its too strong. but don’t know if its right or wrong. will be grateful for your advice and suggestions, neither i want to loose her, but cannot even see her in pain. probably by exchange of words we can understand requirements of our partners.

      • Marlie St.Paulin August 1st, 2017

        so my virgo male is very quite but direct he is an english teacher for middle school students very private, what are your concerns of the gemini woman maybe we can assist each other

  36. Mike June 13th, 2017

    I am a Virgo Man who is madly in love with a Gemini woman. I hear you and relate because while i never “left” we definitely strayed apart over the years. At the end after 15yrs i can say that we (virgo m) habe a tendency to lead others who love us on inadvertently all the while searching and verifying that we truly do want what we have. However once weve realized the answer we run full steam with no 2nd thoughts to making our partner happy forever. I would link up with him for a casual time (drinks, lunch, outdoor hike, walk) whatever it is you all enjoy together. Feel the energy emission you two have with each other. Then if you enjoyed your time do it again. You will see that if you 2 have what it takes to make it.

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  38. @sxgem June 10th, 2017

    I think I am falling for a virgo guy.being a gemini,there is some kind of planned love life or just some sort of types for me.this guy was all about being confident in own self and also somewhat made me tell him a little over about everything happening in my life is not at the best of my days (teen problems haha and life).I want to be with him even though how much fickle I am and also over analyzing about taking cautions to not fall too deeply,I want to be with him.its crazy ?

    • Genoveva July 8th, 2017

      Iam also a Gemini woman and started dated a Virgo man a few weeks ago and I’m also very cautious and scared. Idk what it is but I’m crazy about this guy. We get along great and doesn’t annoy the hell out of me. I feel like he’s what I’ve been looking for my whole life. He’s respectful and patient and he gets me. Idk what it is but I like him so much, I’m scared he might turn out to be a player or maybe he’s not on the same page. Then again ever time I think he’s going to bail I get that reassurance text message. Just him asking how my day is going, or how he wants to make sure I made it home safely.

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  40. Jon May 12th, 2017

    I am curious because I am a virgo man, it is usually difficult to me approaching to someone, even if i am dying to say something simple as ”Hello” however, even after it took me a year to talk to her I think I am in love with a Gemini woman who showed me that not all the world is as bad as the responsibles for my behavior, but how can I start ?, I want her in my life but I am scared of her reaction if I confess I am actually more than just comfortable with her.

    • Audrey Weidemann May 14th, 2017

      I am a Gemini woman engaged to a Virgo man. We were friends for 5 years before I finally asked him to marry me. We weren’t even dating before that but we had talked lightly about it before. It’s the best decision I ever made. I say just tell her. Gemini are attracted to our men’s minds more than anything else. If you’re already intellectually connected, the rest will fall into place. Good luck! I hope it works out. I know my Virgo is the love of my life.

  41. NIque March 7th, 2017

    i have been with my baby for over 3 yrs now and we argue he hardly communicates but i like it that way…when we do it just burn out of us and we talk it out, i feel if you love them you will stay with them ….and i plan on keeping mine, hard to find a good man these days and i can truly say we been to hell and back and still say i love you to each other after each convo….take care and just flow with it

  42. Trust me February 21st, 2017

    Gemini women are nuts and is NO match for a Virgo.. Take my word for it, I just lived 4 years of hell with a Gemini.. Her multiple personally and consistent arguing was completely out of control. Virgo men stay clear of Gemini women.

    • Lady Gemini February 25th, 2017

      I am a Gemini woman. I am neither crazy nor do I have multiple personalities. I am calm, level headed, rational, logical, and analytical. I am also affectionate, caring, and selfless. I am also very straight forward, an open communicator, and I don’t play games. That was a very broad and general stereotype you put out there. Not all Gemini woman are the same, just as not all Virgo men are the same. Don’t be so quick to group us all together. Although I believe in a lot of this astrology, I do believe there are always exceptions and people should be judged individually, everyone is different. Get to know the woman for who she is as a person, not what her star sign means.

      • Josh March 12th, 2017

        That was beautifully said and true. (Virgo male)

      • Anon May 2nd, 2017

        Thats what you think, but what do your exes think. Gemini’s are kind, loving and fun to be around. But if plans are not going their way, the temper tantrums kick in and you can cut the atmos with a knife. ?

    • April Milan April 23rd, 2017

      I’m a Gemini and we aren’t all that way because baby I hate hate hate arguing

    • Chris April 24th, 2017

      i have been with my Gemini girl for 5 years and pretty much caught her cheating a few times. money always going missing, leaving early from work, has a 2nd cell phone she fwds her calls to, i am a virgo man, i cannot stand Gemini women, the relationship is 100% a waist of my life money and time… don’t do it guys you will thank me later!! these type of women never change.

      • Sherry May 9th, 2017

        Sounds like your gemini woman isn’t content in you all’s relationship. That happens she’s merely still with you because she feels obligated to you in some way. Seems like she’s looking for a way out instead of her being honest about it she’s acting out and pushing you away… let her go. (Gemini woman married to a virgo man 10yrs) Good luck!

    • rex November 5th, 2018

      i agree.

  43. cj0617 July 11th, 2016

    @Msiazz I’m trying to be straight forward with my Virgo but he isnt being as direct as I want and is causing me to be wishy washy. After 2 1/2 months of dating and really enjoying each other, I felt compelled to ask him what he felt about us and what he wanted. Also bringing up the fact that I was worried that he still had feelings for his ex.  He was uncomfortable with the conversation and mostly just said he liked where things are and wants to take things slowly and doesnt still have feelings for his ex.  I told him that I was willing to go at his pace because I didn’t want to scare him off.
    But after reflecting I decided to email him and let him know that how I really felt was that I wanted someone who wanted me as his girlfriend and that based on what he had stated that we wanted different things so I was moving on. He replied with “I think we are good together and I am happy when we are together and I am sorry if I have ever hurt you….. Take Care.”  
    I want to be patient and be with him if he truly wants to keep seeing me but now Im worried that this last week of DTR and wishy washy-ness has caused things to be too difficult (complicated). I wish he was more direct and would just say what he feels and I didnt have to ask so many questions. I wouldnt be wishy washy if he was more clear. 
    But truly I just wish I had not even gotten to that DTR yet and let him have more time. Now how to salvage and regroup after all that ?

    • geminilessons March 14th, 2018

      Gemini woman here and I’m in a similar situation. Can you give me an update on this situation? I am torn between completely removing this Virgo man out of my life or continuing to go with this very slow flow. I’m used to relationships unfolding fast, so this is uncomfortable for me. We go days without taking then he shows up like time has not passed. Drives me crazy…

      • istunthrd September 27th, 2018

        Omg. I used to go through this. In the beginning, I almost left him because of the lack of communication. Whew! Thank god I didn’t do that!! Lol I think I’m falling in love. As time went on, I decided to accept who he was and what he came with. Because he accepts me and my craziness. We do argue sometimes but we’ve learned when we find ourselves ready to argue, we give eachother space. We both lovee our alone time. It doesn’t bother me. This is the best partner I’ve EVER had! He’s so experimental just like I am. We have the mostttt fun together. I’m very glad he asked if I was single 😂😂 it was so funny because I was already planning to ask him lol 😍 I better marry this dude lol

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  44. Msiazz April 27th, 2016

    To all you Gemini women unsure about your Virgo man’s feelings, confront him. We Virgo men are very straightforward don’t hint or play around with anything serious because we won’t take it seriously. If you like him and are unsure if he likes you too all you have to do is ask. We are never afraid of telling the truth but we tend to avoid wishy-washy behavior. You must communicate your exact intentions to truly capture our attention. Best of luck to all of you with your lives and relationships.

    • Shiela746 July 14th, 2017

      Thank you for the advice Msiazz. I’ll definitely follow this. I’m now in love with a Virgo man. He’s my kind of ideal man. He’s so respectful and kind to everyone and I don’t know if I should tell him my feelings or not.

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  46. cathyducusin October 11th, 2015

    OMG! So perfectly true. Im a typcal Gemini with the perfect description above and my Virgo man as well! We started out as friends and eventually ended up spending times together a lot. I always think that he’s the most insensitive man ive ever met so i never really showed him that im deeply in love with him! There are times i dont even hear a word from him in a couple of days or even a month and when im finally over thinking about him, he suddenly shows up as if we were just together yesterday! I am totally confused and i dont know if i should even try to invest my feelings for this man but i know deep inside that i love him but i dont want to push him so hard that i might end up losing him forever! What shoul i do?

    • istunthrd September 27th, 2018

      A month?!??!? Oh something must be wrong. That’s wayyyy too long

  47. Virgo1969 April 19th, 2015

    I will never date another Gemini woman. She was the most superficial, flaky and unbalanced woman I have ever met. I tried to get away from her and she tried to overdose on her nephew’s allergy medicine in an attempt to make me care for her. Complete mental case, which was too bad because I thought she had potential as she was going to school made national honor society and trying to better herself after a couple of failed marriages. 

  48. Godlynico January 22nd, 2015

    These are very accurate in lots of ways. But as a Virgo we are also shy. Are we not called the Virgin? I know I can be quite shy. It takes us awhile to be like, “Hi, I’m Nico” and conversate. Walk up. Smile. Be happy. Instant win over. Confidence and fun are so attractive not only to you women, but us men too. As a Virgo man, we want to step out of our bubble. We do. We’re not afraid. We over analyze and throw red flags all over. Again. Look at us, smile, be happy. That’s the way to win a Virgo man any day. We want to be there for you, comfort you. You doing that is just assurance. When it comes down to over thinking, which we do a lot, especially in our relationships, we start taking bricks down off that wall. We practically will kill our relationship without anything even happening. All we need everyday is that assurance. Look at us, smile, be happy. You being happy is key to the Virgo mans heart.

  49. dcflo September 19th, 2014

    I was married to a Virgo male 14 yrs. And while there was tons of freedom, support from every side, and tons of passion, I always longed to see the real him. I wanted so much more of a deeper spiritual connection he just didn’t know how to give. Imma Gemini woman, I study constantly, I’m extremely spontaneous, and I just love life. He supported me, but never went off to do anything that truely interested him. It broke my heart. I wanted to support him, be his cheerleader. I needed that. I always felt that would take us to our next level, but it never came. 
    Him talking about his problems, or childhood issues so we could work through them. That way he could be the best possible version of himself, to truely free himself and love me wholely, nope, wouldn’t do it. It hurt knowing we spent yrs working together and healing my issues. I love him so much for that, but when I wanted to return the gift, I was turned away. Brings tears even now. I couldn’t get through his walls. So support,  yup, freedom for me, wonderful, but who was he? I’ll never know. 

  50. jmm0585 April 21st, 2014

    @Debi_Rava I just started dating a Virgo man, and he is a partier and more outgoing than me.  His moon is in Libra, so that might be why.  We can talk forever.  So far, its going well.  I’m excited to see how far we go.

  51. Debi_Rava July 5th, 2013

    I found most of the things quite true. But my man is not introvert at all, he is more out going than i am. Few of the things about the Love, Spark & Attraction mentioned here is very true. My Virgo Man is a perfectionist, He can give me all stability. And i am those typical Gemini gal mentioned here. I believe if yu find a right person, yu make it a great relation, Doesnt matter he/she are of which so ever sign.

  52. Mishiss June 16th, 2013

    am I the only one who found @inamo11‘s comments completely cringeworthy? I mean his ‘the Gem girl had better be good looking’ part??!! I detect bitterness which would be best replaced with a relationship lesson. Such as, having “great” things to talk about is never ever a bad thing for a relationship to revolve around, even if you air quote ‘great’, nor is an attraction based on mental stimulation and exchanging of ideas. Another lesson could be learning that all relationships will reach a stalemate of sorts at some point and will take “drastic measures” (ie. effort) to make it work. I do agree with the sentiment that this little write up seems a bit too optimistic considering the two signs involved. I think the more the Virgo has the personality you can detect from @inamo11‘s post, the less likely a healthy relationship with a Gem would occur, including a friendship. WTH is a platonic relationship with sexual undertones?! lmao! Ah, if “Tyrone” isn’t a Virgo, he sure plays a good one on tv, lol. 

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  54. inamo11 September 11th, 2012

    Any initial attraction between Gemini girls and Virgo guys pretty much revolves around their mutual mercurial quick-thinking tendencies. But as soon as they run out of ‘great’ things to talk about, the relationship tends to hit a stalemate unless drastic measures are taken. This relationship usually starts out with high optimism due to the realization that both parties share some fantastic ‘ideas’ and this may be enough to sustain the relationship for a while. I just don’t think Virgo guys are programmed in such a way to fully trust the typical Gemini girl. However this can be a great platonic relationship with some sexual undertones. But frankly, to think a typical Virgo guy would put up with any woman’s constant need to ‘look outside the box’?  You may have grossly under-estimated the Virgo ego and misread his personality. Virgo guys know exactly what they bring to any relationship. Furthermore the Gemini girl had better be above-average looking too!! I’ve found the most compatible relationships for Virgo guys are with Scorpios.

  55. ap08 August 19th, 2012

    Yes! I’m so excited to read this, because I’ve been hanging out with a Virgo since the middle of May, and I quickly realized that… Not only is he my best friend… I’m in love with him. I’m not the kind of person that gives my heart away easily, so when I realized after a month of hanging out with him non-stop that I actually had any form of feelings for him, I freaked myself out.
    He’s the kind of guy that is so set in his ways, that it makes you want to vomit. He has his routine. His routine cannot get interupted. He likes to stay at home, work around the house, and hang out with close friends. He has to have things done his way; If you try to do it your way, he’ll redo it, I swear. Haha. He’s absolutely comical, and severely attractive. He isn’t clingy, needy, or too affectionate. He likes his space.
    I’m SUPER sociable. I like going out and having a good  time, but I also like to stay home and do work around the house, or help him with anything I possibly can. I’m eager to please him. We’re not completely on the same page intellectually (I don’t get some of his jokes, he doesn’t get some of mine. he has a DRY sense of humor, I have more of an all around sense of humor.) I’m always willing to drop what I’m doing for him. I’d have to say, I may be more out going, but I’m definitely the affectionate/lovey one… that’s slightly contradicting.
    ANYWAY. We recently ended up together. After we made the decision, a lot changed. Before we were together, he was self loathing, distant, and not into talking about his feelings, where I was pushing him to do it. Once I stopped pushing him, he ended up wanting to be with me. Once he made the statement “You’re with me” He decided I needed a towel for the bathroom, I needed to bring my make up over, I needed to get shower supplies, and I needed to help him finish decorating his house. I can’t help but to laugh, because NOW he’s everything a virgo is, but I’m 100 percent in love with him, and tend to devote every waking moment I can to him. I think we’re gonna make it for the long haul.
    THANKS! haha.

  56. GeminiLady July 20th, 2012

    Im a gemini woman married to a Virgo man, this all seemed true and we are actually getting a divorce because of the inability to give him the time needed/wants. Although…I gave him lots. 

  57. Tbabyjane June 10th, 2012

    I am a Gemini woman whom dated a virgo man(38) ended Jan and have an attraction to another virgo man(27) for last 18mths! Both men very similar in ways; cleaning, presentation etc. 38 was into drugs hence end of relationship, but also found i couldnt help within his home nor have opinion on anything or i was shown the door? Very aggressive then! 27 I could almost say ive fallen in love with… He is amazing yet anoying? I cannot read him! He always makes effort to flirt and chat when im around, yet he knows i like him and he gives nothing away? No reactions what so ever? Guessing he’s not really interested? Built up courage (making myself sick in process) to give him my no over yr ago, nothing has been said since! Then found out week ago he has GF! Surely he should have said something when i gave my no? Why keep that hush? Yet Gemini’s are slated for being flighty? At least we are honest- whether truth hurts or not? Now i feel a fool for even attempting to let my feelings known!! I dont understand why people hide the fact they are in relationships? Yes im flighty, always craving new attention but not in a sexual way… I love mixing with people! Good job really since ive always been unlucky in love! I have recently believed you can love more than 1 person at a time but if i am with someone they have my heart completely until relationship fully ended!! Why does matters of the heart have to be sooo hard??

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  59. breya4 April 22nd, 2012

    See this does not help me one bit. “Once they actually are involved in a romantic relationship” I need help getting through the battle and then focus on the war. I’m a gemini woman and I am seriously head over heels for a virgo male. Long story short I was being typical gemini while he was being the virgos we all know and love. If not careful, a virgo and gemini can do some serious damange towards each other. Is there anyway to fix it?

  60. MissHeff November 30th, 2011

    I am a young Gemini woman extreamly keen on a virgo man, I want to know if I have to do all the work, initiate everything? How do I know if a virgo guy even likes me? Because I have been to only one really trying, but as soon as I kind of gave up he askes If he has done something wrong for me to stop talking to him, and yes, he hasnt told me how he feels what so ever.

  61. VirgoLogic October 7th, 2011

    Well there isn’t just one sign to every person, for this is a discription of a full Virgo man and a full Gemini woman. I’m a Virgo with a Leo moon and there are somethings here that I disagree on comparing them with me. But a Gemini woman sounds like a lot of fun.

  62. randy March 13th, 2011

    I’m now dating a virgin man, and basically80% of the information about the Virgo men are so on point. I couldn’t believe the information I retain. It now help me understand mg boyfriend ways in a different way, I thought he was just selfish and narrow minded.

  63. mothernaturetucotta March 4th, 2011

    any sign is compatible, depends on the couples compatible heart & beliefs and sacrifices bring best rewards through it all to remain strong.

  64. Gemini woman February 3rd, 2011

    I’m a woman Gemini who has found her soulmate to be a Virgo male. Not everything is spot on relationship wise, but 60% is mostly accurate for my Virgo. As for me…I only want one lover for the rest of my life…I’ve lived by that my whole life…Being witty lol… I wasn’t witty until I met my Virgo! I admit when I wrong as well.. That’s hard to find in a Gemini, let alone WOMEN as well! All in all… it depends on the person, how they grew up, wher ethey grew up, family style, school surroundings, and total outlook on life. If 2 people want to be together knowing they’re opposites… they’ll make it work somehow, regardless of Zodic.

  65. anonymous virgo January 8th, 2011

    Unfortunately for the virgo males out there who have found themselves seduced by the gemini woman there is little hope of you ever feeling trully loved by your gemini partner. There is always just enough gemini attraction to keep you hanging on for a hint of sincerity from her only to find her longing for something else. this will be very hard for you to understand as I have found. it seems more like a make or break scenerio in fact where as you the virgo who is constantly aware of the inter connections of all things will get to caught up in it all and finally break. after which time when you don,t care about trying to “control her desire to be with you”. will she be attracted to you again.
    My advise to you will be to avoid trying to over complicate things this way. Let her come to you rather than you trying to Make her do it.
    You can control all things physical in this world and many of you know what I mean when I say tuning a instrument is to the likeness of a perfect mathematical equation. A gemini is not logical in this sense and although you can accurately predict her moods you will never predict her thoughts.
    When you focus on her you loose you,re allure.
    I don,t have the answer to whether or not you should engage with a gemini but it is amazing and painfull both at the same time, never boring or predictable.

    • tinasavalon April 4th, 2017

      I’m sorry your relationship with Gemini wasn’t all you hoped it would be. I always read to stay away from Virgo because astrology said in most cases that we are not compatible.

      The traits you describe certainly are Gemini…but until the Gemini matures or feels like she is truly in love, it may not be a perfect match. It could just be a case of bad timing. Not all Gemini are the same of course!

      I met an amazing Virgo man quite by accident. I was not looking for anyone and he is everything I have been searching for my whole life!! A dream come true. He has my heart, mind and soul for as long as I shall live and if God allows….forever. I will find creative ways and do anything to make him happy. I never knew what it was like to fall in love until I met him.

  66. Gemini November 7th, 2010

    BANG ON! I have been in a relationship with a Virgo man for 18 years and I must say This article pretty Accurate!!

  67. Hey Mami January 31st, 2010

    read this..

  68. ritz December 3rd, 2009

    I think whatever written here is very much true. I also think, if being too much social or the term used here “Social wings & fly” doesn’t make the Gemini woman disloyal to her Virgo man, then its pretty much OK for the Virgo man.

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