Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man Compatibility in 2023

You are finding out in the 2023 how much you truly depend on each other. Relationships are not just about romance and good times -- a lesson you both need to imbibe in 2023. It is also about lending one another the emotional support to get through turbulent times. The Scorpio man may find his reputation is in trouble in work and social spaces or at least feel considerably worried that it is. The Gemini woman requires guidance and comfort as she confronts some challenging person decisions regarding a relative's crisis. You both have a lot to offer one another. You may not be able to generate easy solutions for one another but you can listen, offer solace and embody the unconditional love and support you each require, especially in the year 2023.

Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man Relationship - Complete Guide

Gemini and Scorpio make an absolutely odd couple. Since both of them are often gravitated towards challenges, they try to tame each other in their own ways. Gemini infuses a lot of lighthearted fun into the relationship while Scorpio’s love nature is intense. Learning to blend these distinctly different styles and values can be challenging, but with success, very rewarding!

A Scorpio man can handle, solve, win and conquer seemingly all impossible situations. He can handle pretty much any situation on his own and is tolerable of most. He is a strong individual, full of mystery, who is constantly looking for power and is quite loyal to his loved ones. He is intense, suspicious and quite a jealous creature in any relationship. If he finds his partner to be genuine he will be loyal to her till the end. However, get him angry and most likely one has to suffer the wrath of his sting.

A Gemini woman is many personalities bottled in a single woman. Her dual nature allows her to be someone different throughout her life. No commitment, no settling, no one personality. Though she is a very clever and intellectual human being but her mind never settles, and her thoughts are always in a fantasy land. She wants someone fun, someone exciting, and someone who can stimulate her imagination. This makes it difficult to convince her to become deeply involved with any one person. But at the same time she is very romantic and brightly sensitive person who can manage to show affection with ease.

The initial contact of Gemini woman and Scorpio man throws sparks and cause captivation. He falls for the Gemini female’s bubbly charm and intellect, her clever conversations and the delicate nature she gives out. After the newness wears off he begins to reevaluate how much he really adores her charm and bubbly attitude. His awe of her starts to be replaced with jealousy which causes her to rethink such a relationship also. Although she feels that her he is constantly trying to pin her down and control her every move, she must realize how deep rooted his love for her really is. He may also cringe at her frivolous attitude towards money and her ever changing ideas about what she thinks and she wants. But she can always figure out how to form the lovely bond and Scorpio male is the one who can fix the cracks and strengthen that bond when they become a threat to their relationship.

A Scorpio man attracts the Gemini woman from the first time she takes a glance of him. His stability, his firmness and self-discipline is irresistible for her. These two would not be worried about falling in love and will focus more on staying in love. The mood changes, little tempers, personality changes and inattentiveness of Gemini woman toward her Scorpio man are treated by him with patience and endurance. He also understands when it seems as though his Gemini woman is scrutinizing his integrity and self control. But when the Scorpio man feels that his Gemini woman is trying to change him from the very deep leveled roots he was born with, it becomes very difficult for him to take it. In such a situation, he just needs to understand that it is just her whimsical ways of trying to tell him to back off and let her have some room.

As the Gemini woman and Scorpio man intensely desire and rediscover the purity of their love, their unison becomes miraculous and they retain the brightness of their hearts. They both share enthusiastic affection and long lasting devotion mixed with memorable parts of classic fairy tales. She is full of feminine wile and guile– teaches him to be more free spirited — while he teaches her to take things more seriously in life. They both enjoy promising love and always honor and cherish their relationship in the heaven of passion and romance where angels sing for them and fairies shower them with glittering stars and soft blossoms.

As the airy Gemini imagination, and watery Scorpio passion, blends for sexual unison an interesting beginning is experienced by both of them. Her playful side always comes out in her sexual relationship. She looks at it like a game, a pleasant pastime, nothing too serious and definitely not something that should be dealt with on a deep level. Keeping things light and fun is the way she likes it to be. Scorpio man, on the other hand, feels strongly reaching the deep levels of passion that are so important in a relationship. He is a person who takes physical love to a spiritual level and makes the pleasure of sexual intimacy, an eternal unison. If she can reach these levels with him and fulfill his deepest desires she need not worry about infidelity within him. If Gemini woman genuinely loves him, there is a possibility with some teaching and charm that he can show her what it is that he so desires in his lover and can even put flame to her passion. She may just be able to reach those overwhelming desires he so craves and actually make their sexual union eternal!

The relationship of a Gemini woman and Scorpio man can be no less than a bumpy ride around a smooth road. She needs to work hard in staying calm and level headed when her Scorpio man shows his stubborn streak or becomes violently emotional over her light and delicate attitude toward things that mean so much to him on such a deeper level. She has to understand when he needs her close, to show him that she should be devoted and faithful to him and only him when all she wants to do is spread her wings and fly. He also needs to get used to her occasional bouts of devotion and game playing as well as her wandering mind that wants to take her away from him for a more social atmosphere. If treated cautiously, the initial love and power of these two is enough to form a strong bond between each other with enough effort on both the sides.

  1. eggy car May 13th, 2023

    Although there may be a strong connection between Gemini and Scorpio, maintaining a committed relationship will take work on both ends. For disagreements to be resolved and a relationship to remain healthy, communication is essential.

  2. Christine March 30th, 2023

    I’m a Gemini lady and i love me my Scorpio guy, we are good friends and we can converse for hours, laughing and joking..
    I know Scorpios are seriousminded, dark with hidden secrets but that just intrigues me the more.. we are good friends for now, but from indications, i think we’ll be leaving the friends zone soon and become lovers. I really cannot wait because i know the sex will be explosive.
    I don’t think i will be tired of this Scorpio guy in a while because he can be lighthearted and serious at the same time! so I’m looking forward to all that this relationship offers, and did i mention how erotically sexy he looks and loves to touch.. infact i get off thinking about him.
    If we eventually get more serious and commit to each other, i see a blissful life with him of endless opportunities, we don’t always agree but boy! do i love those arguments!, they reinforce the fact that even in our disagreements, i see the genuine love i have for him.

  3. Sum September 25th, 2022

    Dated a Scorpio man for 8 years.. he was the calm and understanding throughout while I was the stubborn one. But I overloved him.
    He always choosed his friends and family over me and Iam just devastated. Still can’t get over him. Fighting with depression. All I wanted to say is Gemini women love hard if they do. 🙂

  4. Ant September 10th, 2022

    I’m a Scorpio man and I’ve been in two relationships with Gemini women. Never again! I was the serious, decisive and secure one on the relationship. However, their indecisive nature, flighty, head in the sky attitude is tiring after a while. I’m super intense and serious and that’s too much for a light Gemini. In the friends zone, it’s great because their lighter flexible side balances my nature. Romantically however, it just doesn’t work. To each his own though..

  5. Christine July 16th, 2022

    All my serious relationships have been with scorpios and I’m a Gemini, I find there is soo much sexual chemistry between us. I can confirm that I’ve never had an issue with a Scorpio man in the bedroom, they tend to be just as freaky as I am or are at least willing to allow me to express my freakiness.
    My last Scorpio has recently come back begging to be back together, he hadn’t shown me as much passion when we dated before, and now he has seen me date someone else he can’t bare to see me with anyone else.
    I’m scared because the last time we tried, he could not decide to commit to the relationship for several valid reasons….I know he can provide the stability I need, he has so many strong qualities that I can learn from but as a Gemini I know I’m capable of changing my mind so much.

  6. Tramell December 6th, 2021

    Scorpio Man here, I’ve been BLESSED with a Gemini Woman… FOOLISHLY lost her & I’ve been pining over her for over a decade. We maintain a great friendship & stellar communication. In all my years, I’ve never experienced such an organic connection with anyone. She gets me, I understand & love her flightiness & quirks. She is truly my Muse!
    I couldn’t imagine myself with anyone else… EVER.
    We’ll either be together again, or I’ll continue trying from my deathbed. Cris means the absolute WORLD to me.
    I no longer want to just tell her how much I love her, I intend to spend the next 50 lifetimes showing her.

    • Katrina June 22nd, 2022

      I’m talking to a Scorpion male we’ve been talking for years, he’s soooo sweet but shy… what your saying is adorable 😉

    • Sum September 25th, 2022

      She’s a lucky woman indeed. I hope you guys are together now. X

    • Tyty October 8th, 2022

      Oh wow lol. I’m a Scorpio ascendant and I can’t believe you described the same situation lol with a Gemini ascendant. Same dude.

  7. kc19291107 September 4th, 2021

    im a gemini woman…and ive been married for 5 years with a scorpion man…the thing that said how we see each other for the first time is sooo true…it freaks me out.And it is true that we are so different…but i dont know at the end of the day we always make it work.

  8. William rongo August 20th, 2021

    Loving the fascinating Gemini
    By a prue blood ascòro kibble ß

  9. Peter August 16th, 2021

    I’m going on a year with my Gemini and she’s the best thing that has ever happened to me! I’m scorpio to the bone and she has my heart and soul….and my loyalty.. I plan on making her mine….we are completely different but we are the same in all the ways that count. Amazing I’ll always love her.

  10. Astro fan May 17th, 2021

    Too long to read.

    • krtok August 10th, 2021

      man, you need to go back to school to get some gettin’ used to! lol

  11. Sara April 13th, 2021

    It’s been almOst 6years with scorpio man& I’m so done with him. I left him twice before for same reason & I came back for nothing. Of course we can not change people behavior That’s Why above of all I come to love my self more than my own ego.

  12. Lotte March 15th, 2021

    I would recommend every Gemini, and especialy with a venus in Leo, to get a scorpio men! If you are ready to work, change en develop yourself in a positive way. Mostly Geminis are not ready to be togheter with a Scorpio in the beginning, but the main reason for that is that we don’t like to be confronted with our weak spots. Because then someone gets to close and we don’t like that as Geminis.

    Positive things you get out of being in a relationship with a Scorpio, when you are open to learn:

    Geminis are good in communication, but we tend to conflict with ourself in discussions because we change too much. From a Scorpio you can learn to be steady in your opinion and make up your mind about something. Which makes a strong combination. The same with that we talk a lot, but with many words we couldn’t say less. Scorpio can teach you to really bring over a message with all your words.

    Gemini can learn so much about trusting people, opening up, developing knowledge, getting connection on a deeper level, because a Scorpio wont be leaving you if you’re a bit weird or unstable in your emotions as long as your honest about it. And Geminis are really honest in there words, so if a Scorpio just accept that Geminis are just really light and bubbly that tend to come off as fake, then you can have a really strong relationship.

    But Gemini girls, get ready to work you a**. :’) it’s totaly worth it, I can say with a Scorpio men next to me. But he made me develop in ways I couldn’t ever imagen that I was smart enough for that in the first place. Really happy for that now.

  13. Sarah February 21st, 2021

    Our relationship complemented by marriage is a tender and emotional person, I love my husband Scorpio

  14. Syreeta McFall February 20th, 2021

    I am also dating a 🦂my third to b exact!!! The first 2 were full of drama and enjoying the arguments and unnecessary stress but if u have a 🦂 who is calm and aware of himself, u shouldn’t argue except for the important things…we all argue but doing it healthy is another thing and most people regardless of sign dnt know how….

  15. Luna January 31st, 2021

    I’m a gemini woman and I’m dating a scorpio man for three years now also we’re long distance relationship. the longer our relationship is, the harder to handle it gets. i am his first ever girlfriend that got this far (mostly his exes was short terms). but we argue most of the time. i badly want us to work, but the harder we try the harder it gets. what do i do?

    • Aisa February 4th, 2021

      I’m marrying a Scorpio man and it is a Rollercoaster every week. We fight a lot, but there is such a deep connection and bond that it’s worth it.
      Nothing compares to being loved by a Scorpio. Are you fighting over miniscule things or real challenges? We Gemini tend to want to push buttons if only for the challenge!

    • Jonas February 11th, 2021

      as a scorpio just try to be clear with him and dont give everything at once we like things to be slow and smooth dont be so dramatic and dont creat problems over small stuff respect what he likes to do and let him get the space he needs and it will be fine

    • Lotte March 15th, 2021

      Hi Luna,

      I’m togheter with a scorpio for 2,5 years now! Scorpios are really hard to fight with as a Gemini. Communication is easy for us geminis, but we tend to go different ways in our opinion too much and that’s dificult for a steady scorpio. What I tried in my relationships is to ask my partner for help in better communication. He can tell you how to be more steady in your opinions and that already helps a lot. If you have a fight, go different ways and talk it out later. Geminis need more time to relevate the situation and come up with a good solutian or understanding later. And the most important is that as a Gemini you need tot secure your scorpio that with all your wandering and freedom you will stay by his side and are not going to leave him. And even show him that not only with words but also with actions. Scorpio tend to believe actions harder then words. Hope you can do something with my advice. 🙂

    • Jesi July 15th, 2021

      Life is to short to argue with anyone all or any of the time especially long distance! Find yourself an Aries man, the compatibility is great and freedom should be liberating! If u don’t get butterflies when he calls, run! Seriously don’t waste time being unhappy, u will regret that later in life! Love love love and get on with your real path to destiny honey!

  16. Leesa December 20th, 2020

    I always fight with scorpion man. And i always fall in love with him. I don’t know why…

    • Mr,scorpio December 22nd, 2020

      Because he is your soulmate

  17. Careen September 20th, 2020

    A gemini woman and a scorpio man. I can say the intense nature begun the first time you set their eyes on them and he’s all you want and need. Feels like you’ve never felt the type of connection with anyone. The scorpio man from the beginning shows you what you mean to him but a gemini woman has a lot of suspicion and is reluctant and hesitant to the end. Deep down she feels and believes he’s the one and if indeed he is then no matter how much she cuts the scorpio man off in the end he will always find her

    • Mr.Scorpio December 7th, 2020

      Why are you sure in the end he will always find her?plsss can you explain? I’m interested in your comment.thankz

  18. Grace July 28th, 2020

    I love your description of a Gemini woman and that’s me all around, I’m very bubbly and enjoy the company of friends but I also can’t wait to get away from them and be alone. Physically I’m attractive and I know that because I’m five 1 and 134 lbs so I get attention. Recently stated talking to a Scorpio which is a first for me and oh my he was intense in how he already wants to be my boyfriend and seem serious about it. I’m just here to learn what or who I may have in my hands so thank you. I enjoyed reading your post.

    • Gemini♊♊ December 15th, 2020

      I’m the same! Just met a Scorpio and I was very taken back by how serious and intense he is. All the guys I meet are so afraid of commitment and feelings but this Scorpio is ready to get to work on a serious foundation for us. At first I was scared but I realized how important it is for me to have someone so stable and I’m excited to see where this goes

  19. K February 27th, 2020

    Buchi and lat should’ve been mentioned

  20. Misficat February 13th, 2020

    Gemini woman here, with a scorpio man. This is the happiest I have ever been in a relationship. We have a mutual passionate connection, that until now, I never really had the chance to experience. Yes, it did take a while for me to start letting my guard down, although I had a crush on him for about 3 years before we even started “just having fun” . It took him a little while as well, he hadn’t had a serious relationship in about 20 years. When I develop a connection with my partner, I love whole heartedly, and will put my all into the relationship. Of course in the past, it has led to a lot of pain.
    I’m not the “typical” Gemini, in the sense of socializing. My scorpio and I are both introverts, and are happy sitting at home playing video games. Even when we do go out, he is the more social one. He will chat with some of his friends, and I usually sit there and draw. I’m also not the super flirty person, even with the people I think are attractive. I’m happy, I have no want, or desire, to even think of other possibilities with having a different partner. With finally having the deep, intimate connection I’ve always wanted, in the bedroom as well, yeah, no way in hell would i want anyone else.
    I finally have a partner, not an unbalanced “power” relationship, we both support each other, we both take care of the house. We stand by one another, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

    • Phoenix Rios May 8th, 2020

      Thanks for this. I’m a Scorpio man just starting a relationship with a Gemini woman. It’s interesting.

  21. Kartz December 4th, 2019

    I will only start to love after i get married… So the person i would love is my husband… I dont care whether he is a scorpio or taurus etc… Before marriage i will try get to know him for several years…but I will still maintain my dignity….. Because it is very precious and i will loose it to the person i love the most and only to him(my husband) …

    While you are dating or relationship pls girls never ever loose your dignity… When i read the comments above… Scorpio people said we want soul connection and we cannot find it at playful geminis… My question until you meet your soulmate will you have affairs with other ladies??? Is the show how much loyal you are??? And you guys are trying to prove that we geminis are wrong and you are right…. Fuck you…. Never try to prove that you are very loyal person…. If you cannot prove it in your practical life….

    And one thing Scorpios…. Karma is more evil &powerful than your sting….dont let it sting you…. If you hurt me hundred times It will hurt you thousand times 😂

    Geminis pls never trust and loose your virginity to someone useless…. Start to love deep when you are married…. Be loyal and show these people what is the loyalty means…

    • V2608 December 8th, 2019

      Lmao what 😂😂😂.. why even bother to come here in the first place then, that’s actually proving what others are busy in discussing here. Hahahaha this is a really cute comment

      • Kartz July 6th, 2022

        Why you even bothered with my comment… If you can’t accept it just leave it…this comment is mainly for good Gemini girls who get involve with toxic Scorpio guys…

        If you don’t have any issue here…then stop waste your precious time here…thank you…

    • Tammy December 18th, 2021


  22. Harleen November 8th, 2019

    Scorpio men, don’t waste your time with gemini females, you deserve better. But if you still wanna do something similar, go find yourself a sagittarius woman. Here’s an interesting observation, geminis seem to be highly smart or intelligent initially, but a closer look tells you they aren’t. It’s just that they’re quick or perceptive. Look at sags, they seem absent minded & fools initially, but a closer look tells you how full of wisdom they’re. Sag woman is much better for scorpio man

    • tweetj23 November 8th, 2019

      This is not true actually sounds like it suppose be other way sag women act and are h#&$&something a Scorpio will not tolerated but you guys will get confuse because there honest people and us Gemini are to but around a bush about telling whole truth and Scorpio don’t like liers my personal experience my BD his ex was a sag he told me how she act and they not together no more and that was four years agoif you guys meet a gemini or Scorpio stick it out it’s worth it and powerful

    • V2608 December 8th, 2019

      Hmm, sag female scorp male definitely works better than the other way round. I would say that with sag female, there would be more clarity & honesty than gemini female. Plus, the sex is gonna be the main factor coz sagittarians are highly sexual & sag is also one of the most compatible matches of scorpio sexually. I’ve seen this pairing quite often, seems to work more when it’s sag girl scorp guy. Also, the wisdom thing is definitely true, btwn the sag woman & gemini woman, the sag woman has that sense of “knowing”(in my opinion). She will be more open minded for all kinds of knowledge & consistent, comparatively, that would also be attractive to scorp guy. Now it all varies individually, so there must be great successful gemini girl scorp guy pairings also

    • Alisa December 28th, 2019

      Gemini women ARE smart and you sir are a JERK!!!

      • V2608 January 5th, 2020

        I’m sorry if my opinion hurt u. I didn’t even say anything bad about Geminis, but is it really SMART for u to still feel offended for something that’s *general* as fuck. It isn’t a personal attack on anyone for god’s sake… let me give ya’ll a tip, sensible or evolved scorpios NOTICE such details where they’ll automatically identify anyone’s weak spots in their personalities, be it gemini or other stupid scorpios or any other sign. If u “defend” your so called #sign# as if it was your “clan” then that’s the first point they’ll see, meaning that there’s some immaturity. Then they’ll further observe you, and estimate how much stupid you actually are. There on, if you show more of such behaviour, then your stupidity bar increases in their minds. But if u don’t show such behaviour further or show actual smart/impressive traits, then they’ll let that first observation go for the time being, but wouldn’t forget. Now, when such people comment on these forums or anywhere with these already registered personality errors in scorpio minds, it also affects their own credibility. Evolved scorpios already know that the person(s) in the above example isn’t “self aware”, the question then is HOW MUCH is s/he not self aware. And when such people go on to tell their relationship stories, scorpios won’t take that on face value coz they KNOW that your behavioural weakness is obvious even from such a trivial online medium, LITERALLY visible in the first few sentences of your posts, meaning that there’s likely possibility of high variation or difference between the actual story and the story you’re telling… – – Unrelated to this, Similar deduction happens if u meet such scorpios in person, and that’s usually within first few minutes of meeting u.- – -… Do you know how many fools are there who happen to be scorpios & who can’t control the super stylish description of this sign. It gets over their heads & even they do the same “clan” non sense. Sensible scorps don’t take even them seriously, they too go into the same category as you, irrespective of their sign. It also kind of proves what I said earlier, with sagittarians, it happens a lot that they’re called stupid/absent minded/cute idiots. But that’s the interesting part, they are used to it, but always show that firey passion to “learn”(if u are aware of the principles associated with this sign) and in that stupidity, those clowns sometimes teach you deep lessons…(for safety, once again, IT DOESN’T HAS TO MEAN THAT EVERYONE’S SAME) … So if you know that some kind of criticism doesn’t apply to you, then it shouldn’t bug you at all. Similarly, those who do generalise it or go on ranting about everyone under a same label just coz their personal experience was like that.. also shouldn’t bug anyone, coz u know that the person generalizing is also immature. I did it this once, coz this particular forum is really interesting, a lot of research data available, so this is just a needed contribution to IT 🙂

    • a gemini girl January 21st, 2020


    • Lotte March 15th, 2021

      It depends on you moon and rising sign. I’m a Gemini sun and a Sagittarius moon. My partner is a Scorpio. I was just really intrigued by his steadyness. I wanted that as well! Because I was driving myself crazy with all that switching and not being able to set myself with both feet on the ground. I had the craving of finding my deeper self and develop myself and I wanted to be smarter and have steady discussions without loosing myself and my opinion. I asked my partner for his help as he is a scorpio. Now he was veeeery Happy to help me because it annoyed him, ofcourse, but because I opened myself in being able to learn from him helped me in a way no one ever could before. And I do the same for him in pushing him to be more adventeurous and being more free. 🙂 But I think a Gemini should accept that they need too adapt, both ways. When you do as a Gemini you have a partner for life with Scorpio.

  23. Aquaman♒ September 26th, 2019

    I’ve read all the comments here, especially the 2 long ones by that scorpio guy, like he really explained it all, almost perfectly. I’m an aquarius with strong pisces, capricorn energy & scorpio rising. I’ve known geminis very closely all my life. I get them, they’re like those too smart young souls shown in movies., that young thing also brings with itself a selfish nature.. THEY JUST CAN’T CONTROL IT, Im tellin u. As an aquarius, even I think of all the different possiblities, of how love cud be very much by chance, so why not explore & find the best one. But just like it was earlier mentioned here, aquarius being a fixed sign somehow manages it. I avoid getting involved&hurting others & if I fall, then it’s real love, I’ll stay.
    Here’s the difference, gemini too wants to explore, supposedly to find the best match. But while aquarius wud focus on the result or destination.
    Gemini somehow starts over-enjoying “the journey of this exploration”.. It’s like the typical psychological movie scene where the too smart child starts to develop “the bad side”.. It’s innocent in the beginning & even they don’t know when does it change, but they PLAY with people, they usually don’t care even if they find the right one.. Their lust for more n more exploration over powers everything else.. Oh but Don’t get me wrong, they do care& feel it all, they even want to be in love with that right one they found, they’re scared of rejection & that their freedom will go away if they stay with the special one…. This is indeed the duality of this sign.
    I’ve 2 gemini cousins, both of them have personalities which people usually label as bitchy… They aren’t exactly alike, but the overall gemini nature is there in both. Both never dated seriously, jumping guys so quickly. One of them(6june) had a crush on a scorpio guy nd oh lord how crazy did she get for him!! Had never seen her act & feel so strongly for someone, she used to pride herself that how no one matched her intellectually, how she liked guys keep guessing, but with this guy…and I saw her behaviour in front of him, it was like he had a spell on her or somethin. Nothing happened, he was already with a cap female.
    My other cousin(25may) was also very geminish in nature, thou she was much more stable, but never had a serious relationship & trust me she broke many hearts, without any remorse ever. Her one “serious thing” was my scorpio friend, the guy literally asked her on their first meeting if her bday was in May or June & that did she like maths, both being true, didn’t surprise me as he does his detective/psychic thing all the time. They dated & even became a kind of couple for a while, but she ended it for no apparent reason. And even the guy wasn’t much upset about it, it was like he always knew it. He once told me that he never expected anything much,. Idk but he was more of a teacher to her, she changed a bit after. Onetime she was drunk & said something like “left him coz he made me fall in love with him”. That was the only time I got some actual input, they aren’t in touch & never talk about it to me either… But she still asks me about him sometimes.
    I really love my cousins & want them to be happy. The case isn’t that different with other gemini friends I have, it’s like they are on this hunt to find some happiness, but deny it when it’s right in front of them. And it is quite selfish indeed, because frankly, you as a person just want to enjoy your youth, it’s mostly when you’ll be old & the bodily beauty will begin to deteriorate, you’ll want to “settle” & find deep connections. And then these mercury people, along with Virgos, look for the more secure option, not the one that would make them happy… It’s pretty sad, but I don’t think they ever even realize it, they just forget n forget, like running from their truth.

    • HAZEL December 15th, 2019

      Coming from a Gemini i tend to disagree. First, not everyone is the same because of their signs. Second, yes we have dusl personalities just like many other people and signs its just that we are “labeled” as such. I believe its alk in your upbringing, beliefs, cultures, environments, and lifestyles. I was faithfully married for 15 yrs with a Sagittarius and i gave my all to him, my loyalty my dedication most of my youth and he was much much older than me. Well guess what, he cheated on me with someone younger. When i confronted him about it he answered “i fell out of love with you a long time ago” (a “gemini” trait). Hurting me with no remorse (another “gemini” trait). While i remained trying to understand him (a non gemini trait) and working on the relationship (non “gemini” trait) at the end after trying 3 more yrs after our divorce it just simply did not work out. The sexual compability that they say was not there. The communication “sag” trait was not there. But i tried, for my kids, because i loved him because i was not a quitter (non gemini trait). Although a free spirited person i dud not give up.

      I started dating a Scorpio and i found my soulmate. The only person that ever got me, accepted me for who i was. My true love. Unfortunately he passed away suddenly, unexpectedly and my world crashed.

      My point is that we are all looking for the right one. When we find it, the skies the limit. Regardless of signs. If you put the work in and want it to work it will. It has to be both parties really wanting it, understanding each other, and willing to accept and compromise. Thats what it takes.

      Yes, geminis are free spirited, fun, witty and always looking for adventure. Yes we have. Not dual but several personalities. They come out based on how we are treated. We will not hesitate to tell it how it is but we slso love hard. We are loyal, understanding and compassionate to the right people. We are also mean, bitchy and cold hearted when we need to be. We are just more guarded. We need to be entertained or interested constantly and when we find the right one we will do whatever it takes to make it work because although free spirited we are also adaptable. Most of my closest friends are either Geminis, Scorpios or Sagittarius. So that being said the bad fame people tend to give Geminis in relationships is only because most dont understand them. Like anything in life, if you really want it to work then you have to put the work into. Plant a seed, water it, give it sun, watch it grow to something beautiful.

  24. Jenna June 16th, 2019

    All my gemini sisters, I advice you to learn to be stable. Instead of boasting about their sign, people should learn what’s the negatives of their personalities. That’s what zodiac is there for. I regret not being sensible enough when a scorpio man was all for me. We’re still friends, but had I just been not so all over the place.. not so unnecessarily irritating, I would’ve been writing my own pefect story here. Scorpio men would look into your eyes and see your soul, I crave that kind of love, on the bright side, at least I realized how much better I could get. I love him and I messed up and he knows that, all of this being mental communication, we talk just as friends, nothing more than that, but we both are aware of the actual feelings. He knows what he means to me & I know that it was my fault to miss the opportunity… 🙁

    • M February 17th, 2020

      Hi Jenna.

      Can you email me?

  25. Queen J May 13th, 2019

    I am a Gemini female and my boyfriend is a Scorpio male and these are true points made but It is a lot of work because I have chosen to pull back a lot without losing myself as I am still a free spirit I just take into consideration that it’s not just me anymore and I am fine with that. He has pushed me to grow up and be better and take things more seriously. He is my soulmate and we are planning our future together and I love it and I couldn’t be happier. Initially when I told my friends i was dating a Scorpio they all warned me about Scorpios and their sting when they don’t get their way and they are controlling and jealous and I was skeptical at first because he is intense, spiritual, intellectual and deep and he is hard to read and he doesn’t open up right away. My advice is to keep people out of your relationship at first because it’s gonna take a lot of your time and energy and having everyone in your ear can cloud things even more as you are trying to figure out if this is worth it for you. Be patient, learn how to communicate ,be open and honest with one other and be flexible because he is gonna require a lot he is a man with a plan and he will make a plan for you if you don’t do it on your own so if your not ready to be serious with him don’t bother and be ready for a lot of sex omg but we never had an issue with that as our sexual attraction to each other was always strong and I love to please him but I feel like if you both want it you will make it work so have fun enjoy each other but don’t play games with him. That’s been my experience so far

  26. READ_THIS_CMNT_2 May 1st, 2019

    Editing & deleting cmnts shud be made easy on this site, it’s irritating af. My cmnt below was already too big, but now there’re 2 of them wow.
    General Scorpio perspective: Use zodiac for basic knowledge, it dsnt have to be always true & not everyone is like their sign. Dnt judge ppl on zodiac basis.
    Now, Air signs have an “overly happy butterfly” behaviour& there’s no problem with it. They need a partner who wud give them this “freedom,” a partner who wud enjoy with them & the one to whom they finally go at the end of the day after roaming around. Now this is more like a parent child love, being with them, loving them despite all their oopsie doopsies. Scorpio wud get this thing & wudnt leave them if it’s true love but u have to understand that Scorpio needs to have that soul connection, which is obviously at a higher frequency than the light hearted blank love which air signs think love to be.
    Air signs are scared of heavy emotions, they avoid them. But U CAN’T ESCAPE SMTHNG WHICH IS A DEFAULT PART OF U, be it sex, ur emotions, ur true self or ur own darkness. Scorpio wud bring that part of u out, like it or not. There’s a reason why this sign is most popular on all platforms. Ppl dnt really have an idea of wt true passionate love means until they meet a Scorpio (evolved).
    If u think emotions are a hurdle in logic, then learn to control them & not avoid them. Scorpio is emotional but equally requires a mental connect, remember it rules the human psyche, the subconscious. DUMB PPL ARE A BIG NO (with exceptions).
    Scorpio already feels like no one gets them, which is true, the last thing they wud want is a partner with whom they wud’ve to adjust on THIS topic, to whom they understand but the partner dsnt. There wud be love here for sure, but it won’t be “that love”. This is a scenario of scorp with other air signs. They wud love u, but if it isn’t “IT” & if they meet a good pisces or leo woman, then they wud leave u, for their happiness & ur own happiness.
    Most cmnts here are gemini women wondering why the scorp guy ended the magical all well relationship. It was magical for u bcoz u never experienced it, but not for the scorp guy. Wt ever u feel, multiply it by 100, that’s how intensely this sign feels everything.
    Scorpios crave for a love where both of u are the vampires in the long dark night, against the rest of fucking world. BE REAL, AVOID FAKE OR SUPERFICIAL BEHAVIOUR.

    This sign has 7 stages, there’re 3 stages(scorp>eagle>phoenix) commonly known, and I dnt knw how correct is this 7 stages thing, but it’s much cooler. Spider>scorpion>lizard>snake>Wolf>Eagle>Phoenix.
    There’re many unevolved fools with this sign who just are not the super cool Scorpio. Learn to differentiate. The last 3 stages being the evolved ones. Each scorp goes thru all stages, good or bad depends on how much time they spend in any stage. An evolved scorp shud be at wolf stage in early 20s, so if u find an older bad scorp, s/he is probably at a lower stage.

    U need to have a personality, I get the air sign logic that everything is relative, but that dsnt mean u as a person dnt have any viewpoint of ur own, it then just looks flaky & superficial. It’s only aquarius which presents this relativity principle in a good way & still has a personality, probably bcoz its a fixed sign.
    Other 2, especially gemini, pls dnt be the “damsel in distress,” develop the “warrior personality”. Fire signs can be stupid af, but still scorps like them, it’s bcoz they dnt care. Too much emotion is also not good, i personally dnt like the cancer sign, straight up idiotic it is.

    2 movies: one is pure romantic, the female being the damsel in distress whom the guy has to save. The other movie being an action romantic, where the female is equally competitive & both of them need each other.
    Now assume that there’s that perfect mental connect in both scenarios, the damsel understands the hero so well like no one else. But is dependent on him, while in the other one, the female is stronger. Scorpio wud like the action star, this being just a stupid example…understand the meaning here.
    Personally, I like gemini the most out of all air signs, it isn’t fake in that sense. Whereas, I like the aquariun female the most among all 3 females.
    Hate libras. But not everyone is the same, right.. EXCEPT LIBRAS xD

    • Isssh June 8th, 2019

      Glad I read this one. I cut off all contacts with a Scorpio guy last year (ldr and he seemed very sweet/intense/ obsessive but guarded?) and after i broke it off he went away for three months. We tried to talk and it was too emotional and I asked him to leave me alone and to date someone else. Then he tried to hurt me for months, it’s like everything he did was to see how I woukds react!! Fnally I disappeared and he started to behave great. I went back after few months and he tried to be sweet with me(why??!). I got so confused by this erratic behavior. I was mean to him. And he started to flirt with tons of girls in front of me and on his own told me he liked me and he got hurt when I ended things with him.
      I apologized and was thankful for the closure(?), I went away and he stopped flirting.

      Why even tell me he liked me after a year? That too after flirting with my own friends? I can see him flirting and he thinks I’m a fool who is gonna run to a flirt cause few idiots want him? They can have him.

    • Scorpio man December 3rd, 2020

      Hi I’m curious about scorpio evolved in 7 staged,how could it be? Coz I’m a scorpio,where can I search about this scorp evolved 7 stages?

      • V2608 December 4th, 2020

        Bruh there’s much more deeper info than the usual pop astrology bullshit. Scorpio is primarily associated with the Kundalini (base chakra of the 7 chakra of body) & has 7 signs before it. The number 7 itself has too much significance attached to it & scorpio is the 8th sign, signifying infinity… the infinity in between alpha(♈)& the omega(♓) where everything begins & everything ends, both from darkness… “the snake bitting its own tail”…. Snake also being a symbol of scorpio. You literally have to search 7 symbols/stages of scorpio & u’ll find it. A person once mentioned this 7stages thing in a live chat to a highly reputed shaman(he also has youtube channel), who gets all the clients from secret societies kind of rich levels & when he read it, he smirked & said “oh I’m very impressed you know about the 7 stages of scorpio”

        7)The Phoenix

        Here’s a link

        And remember, don’t get over excited by declaring yourself to be a Phoenix or Eagle, achieving those stages is tough af. An example of the Phoenix stage would be Shahrukh Khan. Read about his life, his whole story is super scorpionic. And it’s only in recent years that he can be qualified for the Phoenix stage, has been a wolf, then an eagle for the most part of his celebrity life. Watch his interviews or Tedtalk nd all. Also, Serpent doesn’t mean all bad. The creature has been associated with wisdom & transformation since eternity. So, there could be bad Serpents & evolved Serpents. Pewdiepie is a good example of a developed Serpent transitioning into Wolf stage at the right age(mid20s to early30s).
        Joe Biden is forever stayed in Serpent stage sort of position or at best, a wolf. Emma Stone, good example of evolved stage, a she-wolf. Ryan Gosling is also a decent representation of the wolf stage. Usually, the Serpent & wolf stages are the popular stages Scorps tend to be or the kind of Scorps people commonly encounter. Eagles & Phoenix are not super rare, but the lower stages below Serpent are just too damn more in number, which makes the last two stages less common. Hope the references helped with making a broad mental spectrum 😁

  27. PLEASE _READ_THIS_CMNT May 1st, 2019

    Need gemini female perspective here, so plz help me out. Made another cmnt ABOVE THIS ONE which has a general Scorpio perspective, might help others.

    So, the setting is an academy, ppl btwn age grup (18-30) study here. Met a gemini girl *officially* when she got into my batch, both of us had noticed each other much before. I cud tell she was a pure soul just by looking at her, beautiful like a goddess. She looks like a water sign like strong watery energy. The moment she told me that she was a gemini, I knew that her inner chart must’ve got cancerian energy( inner chart usually has ur sun sign or its neighbouring signs) & I was correct, plus she just has her sun&moon signs in gemini, rest of her chart is full of water & earth signs. She’s diff than typical gemini, not extroverted at all, quite shy.

    Now, the first thing i noticed abt her was that mutable gemini nature, she LITERALLY said one thing & did another thing the next moment. A weird or shallow behaviour from normal perspective, but I understand her easily & know that it’s natural to her. We both literally think alike, she’s as much aware of her surroundings as i am & she has fine deductive skills. It’s like we dnt even need to talk, we just have a natural ease with each other. I’ve been the one so far dealing patiently with her highly fluctuating behaviour. I’m 20,shes 24 & yet I’m the more mature one, but she’s definitely more mature than most ppl. She’s too awkward socially, I asked her normal qstions in the beginning to bring her out of her stagnant state & she cudn’t answer even the simplest of qstions like which were her fav cartoons in childhood.. She didn’t really snap but said “wt kind of qstions were they, who asks such qstions, how can a person speak when u put them in a spot”. Basically, she needs some personality confidence. This scene wasn’t a big deal but I kind of cringed & she knew that she messed up. I didn’t talk to her that day, felt bad when she was looking at me to talk but I avoided it. Later I messaged her a sorry if the qstions were too much (frankly it was nthng tbh) to which she replied that it was no big deal, just that wt cud a person say on “personal qstions”.. Now this is even cringier, I didn’t reply anything to this.. Wht happens is after 2 days of this chat, suddenly I get a msg that “dnt take it to heart, I just felt weird talking abt myself”.

    After this it was all really nice, she opened up to me, we texted each other almost every night. 95% of the times, she being the one to msg me first. With air signs, never assume this too early that they like u, they’ve a natural need to talk & to others it feels like they’re flirting.
    Anyway, she was wilder & deep when she texted, but awkward in person. Wudnt let me say the fuckin goodbye while texting haha. Except her sun in gemini & my sun in Scorpio, both of our charts are actually very much compatibile, like her gemini moon my aqua moon or her mercury venus in cancer, my mercury venus in Scorp. She told me that I was different & one of those few ppl who shud be saved & not let go.. She once said that I was more mature than my age grup.

    Anyway, geminis are way too distracted, she now didn’t want to do the very thing for which she had joined that academy, was looking for a job as back up & I understand the situation of a mid 20s person who’s still not self dependent, the family pressure, the feeling of not “getting somewhere” with career. She wasn’t getting the interview call for that job & it was obviously bugging her, also the exam for whose preparation we had joined that academy was also nearing. The plan was that she wud’ve gotten the job for the time being & then prepare properly for the exam to attempt it next year. On Sunday, we went to a park, talked for long there, she talked way more openly now, her gorgeous eyes so pure & innocent. I was finally just a little bit certain that she had put down her guard. We were expecting the job call by Monday or Tuesday. It was on Wednesday that I called her cell, she didn’t pick up but messaged me that she went to her hometown, to her parents & we then had a normal chat like always. I had no idea wtf happened, probably there was no call so she must’ve decided to focus for the exam. She said she wud be getting back here on the coming Monday, which I doubted, knowing her confused nature. I was right, she didn’t come back & OUT OF NOWHERE I WAS BLOCKED ON WTSPP.. rekttt. I realized it when i cudnt see her last seen & that mental connection we have, I just knew it.

    Look at the psychological behaviour of geminis, have seen similar behaviour with other geminis. After the blocking, i didn’t try to contact her thru fb. There was a msg i had sent her on fb before this blocking, which never reached her, fb server errors. I got mentally frustrated for 15 days after the BLOCK FOR NO BLOODY REASON AT ALL

    Somehow that lost msg reached her after 15 days, to which she replied just like always, very casually. I asked if she blocked me, she said yes. I laughed a bit at this weirdly cute behaviour, but still, such behavior wudnt always look cute after a limit. Then i asked if I had done smthng wrong, but she said “it wasn’t related to me, it was abt her & she needed time from everything”.. It wasn’t like I’ve been the one always texting wtf. I told her that she cud’ve just said that she was going to be busy, she replied “there was no time”.
    Impulsive air signs, they just “do things & forget abt it”. She then said there was no problem at all & also asked how was it all back at the academy. She said she DID THAT BLOCK FOR HERSELF & NOT FOR ME, plus she didn’t want anymore drama at her home,. .. probably abt the career thing or may be smthng else

    She told me that she had to come back once to pick up her stuff. She has a book i gave her, so she said that she’ll meet & mentioned abt returning the book. Has been almost a month of no contact. Now GEMINI FEMALES, plz explain if u can. “Blocked me for herself” wt does it mean. It wasn’t like we became great friends or anything, it was all just starting. Blocked for herself has one too good to be true interpretation. Other than it, plz explain anything here if u can.

    • Leila May 5th, 2019

      I’m Gemini, 23 years old.
      I can see 2 possibilities here:
      1. She was way too insecure about herself and she thought you might not like her the way she was. I think so from your words about the insecurities she had and about her texting you first.

      2. Possibly she had a lot of drama in her past relationship and when she started to fall for you, she decided to quickly cut it off before it too late. Possibly in past she had a painful relationship or she hurtEd someone in her past relationships.
      That’s what I would do on her place. Gemini’s are sensitive people and they are caring.

      In any both scenarios it’s over. Or maybe you can try again after a while. Gemini’s are always changing. Next time you see her she will be a different person.

    • Arthur May 13th, 2019

      This is what they do bro & then FORGET SHIT. She probably liked you. Even if all the feelings were real, she would’ve FORGOTTEN it all next time you meet her. Look at all the other comments here, so similar. Even the reply u got above, what does it even mean!!? Why even bother talking in the first place if you’re so CONFUSED all the fucking time. Most of these ladies “explaining” themselves here about how so deep & emotional they are & yeah, I get what they mean, but still … Why do u always keep running away from every goddamn thinggg?? Mature scorpios instantly know it in the initial interactions that gemini females are scared of letting themselves completely surrender to the matters of the heart, but we ultimately respect those who’re strong. Honestly, Scorpios don’t deserve such a relationship, you know that intuition which is always there from the first time u met her, but we ignore it, isn’t it.. Even if they make it work, it would be the Scorpio who would be patient & adjusting not these unreliable people & just like how most women share same stories here, the scorp guy would one day LEAVE YOU WHEN HE FINDS “THE ONE”, while obviously you won’t know shit why they left as you’re always lost in god knows what confusion

      • Ruby June 8th, 2019

        Oh the great Scorpios! Little wrinkly babies. Go find a pisces or a taurus and be happy. Says, “Oh our connection with pisces/taurus is insane”–but chases the gemini girl. Dates the Gemini and when we end it flirts with our own girl friends right in front of me!! Public sex is cool and all but only in porn. So annoying. And the worst part?has the balls to tell me “I liked you!” JFC!

    • Aqua_woman May 28th, 2019

      She likes you, but seems to be too distracted or mutable. Any updates?.? What happened??

      • Isssh June 8th, 2019

        She was starting to like him and realized he doesn’t like her. He can’t even handle her awkwardness and seems to diss her a lot. Typical scorpio.

      • Arthur June 10th, 2019

        @Isssh please don’t bring all the people under same category just bcoz you had a bad experience with an unevolved Scorpio, probably bcoz of your own stupidity. Don’t mean to offend, but your comments are conveying exactly that. The main guy LITERALLY WROTE IT that he was the one dealing patiently with her all the time, did you even notice the way he talked about her, all that pure innocenct eyes whatever he wrote. And it’s amusing how no one really seems to care how she behaved with him, I mean THAT’S A LOT if you ask any good Scorpio, usually we won’t even stay around such behaviour, trust me when I say this, this guy really liked her & all your replies here are shouting that you are an idiot, who dated another idiot. And now you judge the whole zodiac sign on that single basis. That’s the proof right there of unevolved gemini women’s behaviour

    • Isssh June 8th, 2019

      Why do you care why she blocked you? I mean, like you said it isn’t like you guys are close. Disregard her behavior.

    • Jenna June 16th, 2019

      Isn’t it obvious, she started to fall for you real hard, all geminis would get this behaviour.. reminds me of one Scorpio I know.. Kind of similar situation, I was scared of believing or accepting that I was lucky enough to even have such a guy liking me. It was all so perfect, we hadn’t started dating as such, but I flipped & cut him off. Then it all changed, I very much felt it that I was no more that “special”, but just a random friend. Regret it to this day, it’s like a weird vibe I get when he looks at me now each time we meet, like with that one look he tells me how good it could all have been if I wasn’t so stupid. It wasn’t even a proper experience, but they say it right that scorpios definitely transform you as a stronger person. Dated a libra, an Aries, a cancer after that, but no one AS A PARTNER was even close to that scorpio AS A FRIEND, I wonder how would it have been if he was my boyfriend. He’s with a Scorpio woman now & oh they make everyone else feel jealous

    • V2608 December 8th, 2019

      Yup she liked you, but seems like I’ve been late to this party going on here on gemini scorpio forum..
      ,. People replying to your post are probably getting the wrong idea about you that you were being too rude or dismissive of her. From what I understood, you gave an objective analysis of her personality — HERE, for others to understand–.. Obviously people, he wasn’t critical of her in person… are ya’ll that stupid.!?

    • ..... January 5th, 2020

      I am a Gemini sun and pisces moon woman. She most likely needs time to solve a problem. A scorpio and me are very close. And I try not to weigh him with my problems. You need to get to the emotional side with her, but you also have to share about yourself. We Geminis are deep but only with certain people, show us we can let our guards down with you. You might not like what we say about our past. So dont judge us when we tell you our deep side, instead give advice. P.S. She is falling for you.

  28. Dee dee January 22nd, 2019

    Well I find one thing to be true about a Scorpio man.he is secret, he will not settle down unless he knows there is no one else he wants or desires.i made the mistake an marries mines only to lose him to a younger woman.So he gave up his family with me an our three kids because he was not fully convinced in his heart I was everything.Great in bed an a great father.Maybe she will convince him. We argued all the time behind his jealousy. But in the end he was the one who left me.Will always love him but not so sure he felt the same.

  29. Amber January 17th, 2019

    This is insanely accurate! I have been with my Scorpio man going on 6 years and we have been married going on 3 years in October. I read this to him and he was wowed at how spot on this was.

  30. Louda July 17th, 2018

    Hmmm Im just hitting it up with a scorpio man. First time Im having a scorpio. I dont like the name scorpio and I dont like what I have been reading about scorpio man and gemini woman. Well I’m yet to know if i believee these matches, I was invlolved with a sagitarius who was supposed to be almost a 100% match for a gemini woman but that was the worst man ever for me. Lies, deciet, gas lighting. He nearly drove me crazy and treated me so lightly. He was manipulative as well and felt he knew my weaknesses and was using them against me. When I found out I ran for dear life. Im going to give my scorpio man some chance. Im at that point in my life where im looking for some stability, I have worked on myself so much over the recent past. I wish me well.

    • Charlotte August 12th, 2018

      I’ve been with my Scorpio man 12 years now and it is THE best relationship I have ever been in. It can work, we’ve both evolved as people, learning from each other. He’s made me such a better person than I was before and vice versa. Sometimes it’s hard as when we have an argument it’s in my nature to quickly move on and forget about it and he holds such a grudge, but I know it’s his personality so you do have to work at it, but don’t you have to do that in any relationship? I hope it works out for you.

    • Randi August 12th, 2018

      My first relationship and marriage was with a sagitarius (I’m a gemini) and it was an awful relationship. Mine treated me the same yours treated you. I really doubt sags are made for us gems. Good luck with your Scorpio. I have my eyes on one, hence why I am on here trying to read about our possibilities 😂

      • HAZEL December 15th, 2019

        Good luck…. I’m on the same boat

    • Julia March 25th, 2019

      Hi, I am just curious how things turned out for you and your Scorpio man. I am in somewhat of the same situation now. I just got out of an 8 year relationship with a Cancer. I thought he was my soul mate but he just couldn’t be faithful.
      Anyways this new Scorpio man in my life has really caught my attention. More quickly than I even expected. From what I’ve read on this thread im not too sure what to think. But it seems pretty accurate thus far.
      Update me please!!! I’m curious.

      • Amber March 25th, 2019

        My scorpio man is amazing. 6 years strong 🙂

      • Mr,scorpio December 17th, 2020

        Just be loyal,honest,and pls don’t cheat.

    • Brina April 25th, 2019

      I’ve had similar experiences! I think they are called narcissists and I’m glad you’re out of it!
      I just met a Scorpio man and I toovwill give a good shot 😁
      I wish you well, I wish I’d both well x

    • HAZEL December 15th, 2019

      Best of luck….

      Coming from a Gemini I must say….First, not everyone is the same because of their signs. Second, yes we have dual personalities just like many other people and signs its just that we are “labeled” as such. I believe its all in your upbringing, beliefs, cultures, environments, and lifestyles. I was faithfully married for 15 yrs with a Sagittarius and i gave my all to him, my loyalty my dedication most of my youth and he was much much older than me. Well guess what, he cheated on me with someone younger. When i confronted him about it he answered “i fell out of love with you a long time ago” (a “gemini” trait). Hurting me with no remorse (another “gemini” trait). While i remained trying to understand him (a non gemini trait) and working on the relationship (non “gemini” trait) at the end after trying 3 more yrs after our divorce it just simply did not work out. The sexual compability that they say was not there. The communication “sag” trait was not there. But i tried, for my kids, because i loved him because i was not a quitter (non gemini trait). Although a free spirited person i did not give up.

      I started dating a Scorpio and i found my soulmate. The only person that ever got me, accepted me for who i was. My true love. Unfortunately he passed away suddenly, unexpectedly and my world crashed.

      My point is that we are all looking for the right one. When we find it, the skies the limit. Regardless of signs. If you put the work in and want it to work it will. It has to be both parties really wanting it, understanding each other, and willing to accept and compromise. Thats what it takes.

      Yes, geminis are free spirited, fun, witty and always looking for adventure. Yes we have Not dual but several personalities. They come out based on how we are treated. We will not hesitate to tell it how it is but we slso love hard. We are loyal, understanding and compassionate to the right people. We are also mean, bitchy and cold hearted when we need to be. We are just more guarded. We need to be entertained or interested constantly and when we find the right one we will do whatever it takes to make it work because although free spirited we are also adaptable. Most of my closest friends are either Geminis, Scorpios or Sagittarius. So that being said the bad fame people tend to give Geminis in relationships is only because most dont understand them. Like anything in life, if you really want it to work then you have to put the work into. Plant a seed, water it, give it sun, watch it grow to something beautiful.

  31. Wunmie February 20th, 2018

    It’s been over a decade of dating. I love him too much but he’s always feeling unsecured. He doesn’t trust me. I don’t want to loose him, what do I do

    • U know June 28th, 2018

      Stop cheating on him and stop flirting with other guys!

    • Mr,scorpio December 18th, 2020

      Be honest,loyal,stop flirting other guys,the ask him what you gonna do so that his trust come back

  32. Sheena December 27th, 2017

    My husband is a Scorpio. We met in high school and he persued me for about a year while I considered him my best friend. We starting dating when I was 16, married when I was 19. We now have 3 children, 3 dogs and we will be celebrating 15 years of marriage this March. It’s challenging for sure and I know I drive him nuts because I’m constantly changing my mind and I still can’t figure out what I want to do for the rest of my life because let’s be honest that’s a long time to stay focused on one career! I’m also loud and slightly obnoxious at times. He’s hates being the center of attention and when we are out I draw attention with my personality but he’s the love of my life and I’m thankful for his grounded nature, it helps me not be so flighty.

  33. Gerard November 20th, 2017

    @Lucy you are completely right, we are complete idiots and dont deserve anything good, well at least i dont deserve anything good, I’m an asshole and im Scorpio so…

  34. Dalene Spiring September 12th, 2017

    I just met a Scorpian man…what a breath of fresh air. Never felt so comfortable with a man in a long time. He is kind, considered and want to spoil me rotten. He doesn’t judge me or want to change me. I know Gemini woman is a handful. It’s all about comprising and caring .

  35. tweetj23 August 30th, 2017

    I’m a Gemini women with a Scorpio the first day we meet aug2015 I felt like I know him forever he even gave me the chain off his neck fast forward we a lot stuff happen in between but now aug 2017 we have a daughter and previous he wasn’t fucking with me but I’m currently out town and he wants to work on are relationship

  36. Lucy July 8th, 2017

    I’m a Gemini woman and with my experience with Scorpio men, they are self obsessed and selfish who simply don’t care about others feelings, they are manipulative and flirty which can cause any woman to become infactuated with them. Try to stay away as all that will come of it will be pain

    • Mac August 29th, 2017

      Wow, somebody hurt you BAD. Not all Scorpio men are like that. I’m definitely not.

    • LadyBug August 31st, 2017

      I’m a Gemini woman and believe this might be true about the Scorpio male, as I’m finding out today. He lied about so much, his where abouts, found messages to his BM where he wants her to bring his daughter and he wants to be sexual with her. He’s been conversating with other women. Just a bunch of lies!

  37. Tanya July 3rd, 2017

    I am a Gemini woman and have a Scorpio man friend for 16 years. Almost one year ago he declared his undying love for me. We then had deep feelings which developed over time in staying with him and loving his kids who would stay on weekends. We kept this a secret as he was going through nasty court battles with his ex partner who was very nasty.The feelings between us were developing very deep and I felt like a school girl it was the most beautiful feeling I have ever experienced, especially when he asked for me to sit down there was something he wanted to share with me. He was very nervous while at the same time pouring a glass of red wine to calm his nerves to express his feelings for me. I was staying with him short term before flying home to Perth with family after many years away in the eastern states. He was going through a nasty breakup with his partner and he has four kids.

  38. Shari June 27th, 2017

    I too am in love with my first Scorpio. I’m a mature Gemini female and my male Scorpio counterpart and I have had a very, very rough road the first year. I find out that after reading this sign it was probably a test on his part to see how and if I would continue seeing him but he was also facing 8 months away from society for something he regrets. So I am waiting for him and I know that he appreciates and is blessed to know that i am here for him. If this isn’t the ultimate test in showing someone especially a Scorpio that you are here for them regardless and when they come home to you then I don’t know what is. He tells me he loves me all the time and I’ve seen his possessiveness and jealousy a lot lately. He asks me all the time what am I doing where am I going who is this person who is that person, as wonderfully communicative as Geminis are we do have a knack for soothing the trust issues and calm down our Scorpios because he stops and moves on from his initial self-inflicting wounds of jealousy. I’ve even sent him articles on his sign and he never knew about himself so it was an eye opener for him. I have NEVER needed or wanted to listen to or be controlled by a man of any sign except for a Scorpio. I think because on a deeper level that we can’t even comprehend we know that they are there for us with every last breath in their body and they utterly devote themselves to who they love and trust. It is definitely and absolutely a love that you read about and watch in operas. It is a feeling, a deep rooted soul binding feeling that I’ve never got with anyone else. I’ve come close with a Sag but he was involved with someone so I wasn’t going to allow it to go further but the love of a Scorpio is without doubt the strongest I’ve ever felt. Geminis are knocked for being superficial, I get that, but because we’ve never been around a sign that we can replicate. See, we are skilled at feeling what other signs feel and Scorpios are so deeply emotional passionate about what they feel we get that and understand them on a level that we can relate to and reciprocate that. It’s difficult for a Gemini to allow someone into their soul, because we have to completely trust you with our heart first. We are such an air sign and we live in a fantasy world and I think that gives us the depth that Scorpios need since we are fantasizing with what’s right in front of us and Scorpios are living in the depths at that moment it is a very spiritual connection. Something that I can’t even explain. It just is. And when he hugs me, omg, he reaches my soul, his touch with one finger touches parts of me that I never knew could be touched and when we make love it is the most cosmic epxerience I have ever felt. I have yet to let myself go with him because the depth of this love is so surreal that I even have a hard time grasping. He is patient and I told him that I will open up more to him but it takes time and I think that’s what helps drive him too. Knowing that he will have all of me in time and I ensure him that I am all his and he has nothing to worry about and that I am not going anywhere. I think our gift of communicating works well here as I’ve read on other sites that Scorpios are immune to such things, but I believe that if a Scorpio truly loves and trusts you your words mean more to them than you think. I’ve defused situations with my words of loyalty to him and we can only say such things to someone if we mean them. We will not and cannot fake what we feel for someone and because we both believe that we deserve the best out of a relationship than I believe we are each other’s soulmates. There literally are not words to describe this love. As a natural flirt as I am, i tend to not be as much because of him. And I would never flirt with another man while he is around me but unfortunately it’s a habit that I’m trying to break. It is completely harmless and I find his jealousy to be quite comical. But it’s good that a man gets jealous I think and is possessive, that means to me at least that he really loves you. Maybe not so much in a Scorpio’s case but he’s not going to feel this way about someone unless he is sure about them. Otherwise, why would he waste his time, heart and soul on something he is not sure about. I do agree with that aspect of this sign because it makes sense since they love so deeply.

  39. Dez June 19th, 2017

    I’m a Gemini who dated a scorpio and we only dated a couple months but we fell so hard for a each other. After the break-up we still basically acted like a couple. There would be month-long arguments and then he’d come back and we’d be fine. We got in another and now it’s been 2 months of nothing. I’m STILL sprung. What do I do?

  40. Stacy April 24th, 2017

    I am in tears. This is exactly what I have been feeling. He is my first Scorpio and we love each other so deeply and it’s all happening so fast.

    • Rusty May 3rd, 2017

      I’m a Scorpio who’s been blindsided by a Gemini. And not just any Gemini, she was my sister’s best friend growing up. Regardless of what is said here, I’m interested in seeing where it leads. No one else has drawn my attention at all. She snuck up on me lol.

    • Dee Dee June 18th, 2017

      Omg…ME TOO!!!!

  41. wildflowersandglitter March 3rd, 2017

    I’m a Gemini woman who has only fallen in love twice and both times was with a Scorpio man. I honestly believe that all (or at least most) Astrology sites/books get it wrong when it comes to understanding Gemini women. While it is undeniable that we are mutable and change frequently, it is so incredibly far from reality to assume we are unemotional or not deeply emotional and I’d even go as far as saying that we have the deepest emotions of all the signs put together. However, you cannot and will not ever recognize this, unless you are also a Gemini woman yourself. In fact, it’s exactly why we remain eternally in a state of imagination and fantasy daydreams, because it’s the only way we can handle the depth of what we feel. Staying almost permanently inside the daydream is our only means of reducing the intensity of what we experience moment to tiny moment. This is also exactly why we tend to fall so deeply in love with Scorpio men, because they give us a safe and stable place to rest and anchor ourselves in peace. If I visualize myself, it’s like I am a butterfly that needs to fly constantly but because I’m in a perpetual state of danger of having the wind blow me too far, I can only be safe if I tie myself to a stable place and the only thing I could trust is a Scorpio man. Sadly, because we Gemini women also feel so much and think so much and because we see and relate to the duality in all things, Scorpio never recognizes that he is the only thing in our lives that we could never be swayed on, and it’s our love for Scorpio, and our behavior toward all other things in the world cause Scorpios to believe we see them the same as we see everything else, but it’s the exact opposite. I love both of my Scorpio men in ways they’ll sadly never know. I know more about who they are, about what they feel and why they feel the way they do about everything that means anything to them. They feel as if no one understands them, and they are so extremely private they appear to be living vaults with their thoughts and feelings locked eternally inside themselves. And for some strange reason, Gemini women don’t need to find the key like other women, to know what’s inside them. This is because we ARE the key, the living breathing key that naturally unlocks the living breathing vault of Scorpio. This is why Scorpio loves Gemini woman and he doesn’t even know why. Both of my Scorpios opened up to me in ways they never did with anyone else. And it was natural for them and I honestly believe it actually scared them. Because typically they opened for no one. And they never understood that I never even tried to turn the key, I *was* the key, so never needed try. They also both felt a need to protect me and keep me near them in ways that only a Gemini woman never ever needs. Gemini woman is and will always be a complete mystery to them and the tragedy is that although it’s nearly impossible for us to ever love deeply any other Sign, the Scorpio is the Sign we couldn’t stop loving if we tried. Love, for us Geminis, is unconditional when it’s pure and never ever depends upon reciprocal feelings. We can love despite their hate or even complete apathy. And because this is something that most people of any Sign cannot begin to understand, most don’t recognize it at all when it’s right in front of them.

    My first love was my (now) ex-husband, and although I no longer love him in a romantic way, I will love him in another way, a special and true way, that even I can’t explain, until I die because of what we shared, and he will never know. My second love, who I still love romantically, is my soulmate and only I know this. He pulled away from me and despite pleading with him to acknowledge my continued letters asking him to come back to me, he remains as silent as could be. No words at all. No sign that he even reads them. Although he’s said crueler words to me than I thought I could ever stand or survive, I still love him as deeply as I ever have and will never be capable of loving him less. This is because when the heart of a Gemini falls in love, it’s a love that is so deep and so true and so pure that it defies explanation and even the Gemini woman herself cannot understand it. Its because a Gemini woman loves beyond the flesh and the mind and we love the very Soul of our Scorpio men. We love outside and beyond the physical manifestation of the world. We love what our Scorpio was before he was born and what he will return to after his death. It’s most definitely a Spiritual Love and it’s hard for even us to understand. If we cannot understand ourselves, no one else has hope of understanding us either. But this is simply the painful irony of a heart that loves so few. It is so rare that we even have a chance to love deeply, so when we do, the love is something that is undefinable. And when we lose our loved one, it changes us on a fundamental and spiritual level, and the damage done is permanent. We are mutable and easily adapt to anything the universe throws at us, but Scorpio cannot figure us out and Scorpio is used to figuring out everything. But as I said, if we cannot understand ourselves completely then Scorpio certainly has no hope in doing so either.

    I most certainly will never heal from losing my Scorpios, and as strange as it sounds, and despite the fact that neither will speak another word to me, I have this feeling that they will both love me till the end just as I will love them. They will never ever say it but it’s true regardless. They will never believe or realize my eternal love for them, but I will believe and realize our eternal love for each other. I would literally give my Scorpio the sun and the moon if he asked for them. 🙁 I will never be the same, and as painful as will be, I would gladly live my life in pain from his loss than to live without pain having never known him at all.

    • Micah April 10th, 2017

      So true!!!

    • Nikki April 12th, 2017

      Wow I couldn’t have said it any better. I am a Gemini woman and I am the exact same way. I loved 2 Scorpio men. He first was the love of my life 12 years ago and I love him the same to this day.

    • anon April 15th, 2017

      This is honestly the most accurate analysis I’ve ever read. I’m a Gemini woman and my first love (still boyfriend) is my everything and I can’t even imagine life without him. It’s sad. But i feel like losing him would be detrimental to my emotional health. People always have this perception of geminis where they feel we come off as egotistical and emotionless when it’s the exact opposite. Not saying that some common characteristics aren’t true but for certain that one isn’t. I don’t know why I’m so attracted and attached to my Scorpio male but honestly I hope it stays like this forever and I’m afraid that after him I’ll never be able to love again. He’s the most independent, strong, loving and goofy individual I’ve ever met and I can’t get enough. I really don’t know why almost every article I read says that Gemini’s and Scorpios aren’t such a good match b/c overall I feel like we really are. I think what they mean it that sometimes Gemini can be unsure of themselves and Scorpio loveee someone that’s strong and confident in who they are and don’t like their love being doubted, as geminis tend to do sometimes. I’ve definitely tried to work on myself for our relationship and he’s done the same. I hope that our love never dies. I’m a Gemini woman and I love my Scorpio man to death.

      • HAZEL December 15th, 2019

        I agree with you that if you lose your scorpio you may never find that live again. I lost mine recently due to a sudden unexpected death and my world has crashed. I will never find that love and connection we had. He was truly my soulmate, my true love. For sure i know it was mutual. He made sure he showed me and told me pretty much everyday.I wish you both nothing but the best may you have many more years of love and happiness. Chrerish every moment.

    • Sarah April 27th, 2017

      The above post so so accurately written. Loved to read it and felt i am not the only one feeling those depths of my personality while being misunderstood and at times accused of being flaky and shallow. I love my Scorpio man deeply and I hope that i can succeed in making him see that 🙂

    • Dayna May 2nd, 2017

      Wow, thank u for speaking this into existence! This was an amazing read and so incredibly true. I felt as if I could’ve written it myself!

    • orchidsandthoughts May 10th, 2017

      Wow, this made me cry because I know exactly how you feel as a Gemini woman. I fell in love with a Scorpio as a teenager and we stayed together on and off for about 3 years. I’m just now entering early adulthood and I still love him even though we no longer communicate. I know he still loves me and will always love me because I knew him on a level no one else did. I am currently in a situationship with my male best friend who happens to be a Scorpio. The love we have for each other is out of this world and he makes it so safe for me to be myself. We are so similar in so many ways. Each situation with a Scorpio has brought so much pain but I am so happy I’ve had the chance to love them.

    • Shari May 24th, 2017

      I absolutely agree. I even pull levels of my Scorpio male deeper into himself. We are very deep creatures indeed and I am really impressed at your understanding of this. I’m so glad I am not the only one who feels this way as I am a mature Gemini woman and I know exactly what I want and us being in a mental fantasy state is because we haven’t reached those depths with anyone to fulfill except with my Scorpio.

    • magda.olivier123 June 13th, 2017

      Wow @wildflowersandglitter
      I am also a gemini woman and I felt everything you said.. Never has anyone understood.. Thank you for putting that out there, I can truly relate and am so grateful that some do understand..

    • Shari June 27th, 2017

      why did you guys break up?

    • Loyal and loving Gemini June 12th, 2019

      I am a Gemini woman. Your description of the way WE, as Gemini women, love is perfect. My most in depth love has (is) with Scorpio. (2 past and 1 current). I love him in ways that “I” can’t even comprehend.

  42. lifeisaGEM August 17th, 2016

    @Scorpio-Man your comments are from 2011 but they sound very similar to my past with my ex Scorpio…
    I have a Scorpio ex that I don’t believe I will ever get over in my life. A part of me will love him until the day I die, and even after. We grew up together but as we got older he moved to another town in which we then went to different schools so we never saw each other and lost touch. He was always always always in the back of my mind since I can remember (he is still and I am afraid always will be). I remember I used to go to a friends house near the track all the time, especially on weekends just to hear the race knowing he was racing in it. My heart would do a happy dance every time I would hear them announce his name and especially when he would win. Finally got the courage to go up there and watch one night with a friend. I found myself, once I spotted him, just obsessively staring at him the whole night even though I don’t think he ever saw me, but never got the courage to go up to talk to him since we hadn’t seen each other in so long. The years passed since that night and with the wonders of the internet and social media we finally reconnected. At first we just exchanged casual conversation since I was dating someone else at the time (a Leo, never again… He was a cheater). A few months passed and me and the Leo broke up. Within a week or so the Scorpio messages me seeing about meeting up for a drink and getting my number so we can catch up. I will never forget that night as long as I live. I was at at a friends house hanging out when he texted me to meet up at a bar with him and some friends (all guys). I left my friends house and went to the bar. I remember exactly how I felt walking up to the bar from my car. My heart was thumpting and I felt like I wanted to vomit I was so nervous. After that night we hung out several times before he started a strong pursuit of me and by strong I mean I start getting texts to the effect of “I want you so much…” and things of that nature. I was terrified to death to be with him because of our history so I tried so damn hard to brush off his advances as long as I could until I literally fell weak in my knees and succumed to them. I have honestly never in my life gone so “rounds” of being intimate with someone in one night than I did with him. It just felt so right… As a few months went a long of just pretty much dating things starts to unravel. We both early 20’s still trying to figure life out that I think I wasn’t “secure” enough for him even though he kept saying he didn’t want anything serious. I’ll be the first to admit as a Gemini I am ridiculously flighty, completely unpredictable, and sure as hell have a hard time EVER apologizing. I know those traits I will probably carry with me to my grave, its just instinct for me. Where everything turned sour was he got with another girl one weekend when I wasn’t around, and he decided to move on rather quickly from me since he apparently felt like he was “done” with me. It hurt me so much that he did that, I literally laid in bed and cried for an entire weekend. I was so upset that actually did like Scorpio-Man commented about with the “character assassination” starting with the girl he dated before me, mutual friends, and then the girl he was moving on with. I will forever regret spreading all malicious gossip, even tho much of it was truth, but that I should have just kept to myself even with a broken heart… He has yet to ever speak to me to this day… I have tried to contact him numerous times casually to break the ice so we can talk about things and try to mend things, but he still refuses to acknowledge anything I say at all. I had since moved on from him and thought I let go but the past few months, I am not kidding when I say he is all I can think about. To the point it is driving me crazy. I tried reaching out to him twice during this time, once to even semi-apologize for what I did when my feelings were hurt all those years ago. I won’t go into a full apology until I KNOW he is willing to listen. BUT Still nothing, as he continues to stay silent. I honestly don’t know what to do. I miss him so much sometimes its like my heart hurts in my chest. Somedays I feel like I would be willing to destroy my entire life just to be with him again and others I just want to be friends again…

  43. Scorpphi June 27th, 2016

    Scorpio male here; Im in love with my Gemini friend and I don’t, I mean, never want to hurt her…She sez she’s in love with her boyfriend an Aries guy, but will spend the whole day with me, without flinching. She’s intelligent, kind, Witty and smart, and I love every single bit of her…She says she hates me in a good way, and I really dnt knw what to think…she would tell me a lot of peronal and secret things, and I sure do try my best to demisify her any conflicting, hurting or difficult thoughts and feelings, well, at least I think I do, cos after the talks she gets some of the happiest I’ve ever seen her,don’t want to get my hopes up though. Recently, she got drunk with friends at a party(held at my place), which I had to close down before any her drunkiness could surface, however because I felt she was too drunk to take the walk home, a short walk, cos of her repute in the area, I  let her sleep it off at my place, resulted in her parents seriously lashing out. In her drunkiness she did repeat her saying of “she really hates me in a good way, however she added that, she does this, cos she loves me too much to hate me in a bad way”, I feel it was jst the alcohol speaking or she basically means “loves me as a friend or brother”…I had never seen her get this drunk, however, ofcos im totaly not offended by this cos i believe stoping her from drinking and having fun wouldn’t reveal the dangers of drinking, however, her getting to a safe limit in a controlled environment will reveal a deeper understanding of herself and limits. Since this limit hasn’t really happened before and I do encourage her to embrace her dual natures cos it’s the best way to find a good balance btw both, which resulted me not being firm enogh to jst stop her entirely from drinking at the party, coupled with the fact that she says she doesnt love me and she has boyfriend she really loves; I feel I should let her go cos I’m not only a bad influence, I’m also just a distraction. Reading about all this Scorpio-Germini incompatibilities and some of this pair relationship experiences, wich in some cases eventually results in the Scorpio star becoming less caring unlike the beginning of the relationship, I’m scared I’d stop loving her as much if I stay on and she does eventually likes me….Please I need advice…I honestly will really appreciate it, cos though, I’ve had oda sparks with other stars in the past which might actually seem better if compared, I honestly really feel very strongly for her and don’t want to live with out her. What should I do please?

    • PerfectGemini April 4th, 2017

      Hi @Scorpphi.
      I am a Gemini girl. First it’s been a year since your comment, I hope things might be good for you.
      As about your dilemma. I think you must confess to her your true feelings for her to know, what she really is to you. You both desrves it.

      From what you have let on I guess you are her special someone. True that geminis are very talkative but they Never let others know their secrets. If she shares stuffs with you it means you mean a lot to her than you can imagine.

      May be your friend is struck between her crush and love kind of dilemma. She likes her boyfriend a lot but she loves someone else i.e. you.

      She might be shy and afraid to confess her feelings towards you. She might think that you don’t feel same towards her. She would rather endure pain of unrequited feelings than totally loss you as a friend too.

      Please tell her. If not much, you will get a closure.
      I hope and wish you best 🙂

    • Shari June 27th, 2017

      I would tell her how you feel but this all depends on her maturity level. She might not be ready for the depth of a Scorpios love. Unless she is willing to move on with you and have a serious relationship, it’s best you move on if you can. Or be her friend and be there for her. Believe it or not, being a friend will eventually lead her to look at you in a different light down the road. We want the long haul and Scorpios are willing to give that. Be patient which I’m sure you can be; it will pay off. You guys are very intuitive. So keep me posted on how it went. I’d love to know and hopefully, as a Gemini myself, I can try to help you the best way I know how.

  44. Ashyjaycs March 3rd, 2016

    Im a may gemini; my boyfriend of 8 months is a scorpio. And when i say this man is passionate he is passionate. Our first date he gave me the most mysterious sensual glare in my eyes and that moment i knew i had to have him. It was really odd somethinflg about him really caught my mind and fascination. I never was the type to be tied down but he made me feel like i belonged to him and i really loved it and it made me turn into this sensitive submissive woman that ive never been. he literally pulled it out of me. He is so masculine and mystically mysterious. Every time we make love It is magical and he makes me melt. He is very protective over me kind of like a father. He can be a nag siometimes and he can find me immature sometimes but he overall treats me like a princess and makes me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world how he looks at me. Plus he is like my bestfriend. I am a gemini but my venus is in taurus and says that im more sensuous and territorial of my lover due to it. He is my baby and he told me he is going to put a ring on my finger someday and we will start a family when we are older. I never felt so serious about someone. I thank god he put such a sexy lovely man in my life he really keeps me sane and understands my bad nerves and spazzness ha ha

  45. Carly449 October 25th, 2015

    I am a gemini woman who just went out on a first date with a scorpio man. Just sitting across from him at the restaurant i felt some type of way. The chemistry was so strong it was scary! I found myself wondering what it would feel like being wrapped in his arms. Now, get this…I am over 50 years old and so is he. I felt like a giddy school girl. We talked or texted every day since and it’s like we’re doing a mating dance or something. I haven’t had sex in a while so I’m wondering if that is what the attraction is. Then i realized that other men don’t have that affect on me. I do not live by horoscopes but i thought i would check out some horoscope websites for some insight. A lot is clear to me and i think i want to explore this possible union. Scared as heck but i am curious.

    • Shari June 27th, 2017

      it is well worth it. Trust me. I’m 46 -year-old Gemini and my Scorpio is 40. The arms and the holding is the best feeling in the world. I loved when he held me at night and I would have to get up and use the bathroom his arms would be wrapped around me so tight i would just smile. He even said he knew when I would leave him during the night because he would tell me in the morning that I left him. I felt heartbroken. It is a love to die for. The sex, omg. I can’t even begin to explain it. But I will give you one word of advice. Take him seriously, very seriously and open up with your soul to him and hide nothing. Not only will you get the best love of your life you will be transformed. But remain who you are. My Scorpio says that he loves that I keep him on his toes and I’m always making him guess and he can never figure me out. Good luck. And enjoy it.

  46. paradise2106 October 2nd, 2014

    my scorpian man took me in when my daughter and I was homeless. We’ve gone through changes. He had pressure from his brother. Because I’m black and he’s sicilian. His prejudice brother is married to his cousin. He is angry cause I am very protective of my Tony. We were friends for years and for 11 yrs we’ve been husband and wife. This man makes me free and I can let go of all the abuse I endored growing up. He’s my gift from God. He doesn’t pressure me at all. I make sure he comes home to a clean house and everything is prefect. I have medical problems. He understands that and goes to doctors appointments with me. he’s been there for all my surgeries. The love of my life.

  47. [email protected] June 25th, 2014

    Will I get married again? Will it be Richard?

  48. SkylarLiar June 1st, 2014

    @scorpiodave You sound so much like the Scorpio man that I’m in love with. I’m a Gemini, and I’ve found that I’ve made quite a few mistakes when it comes to going about being with a Scorpio man. I left absolutely no mystery about me, since, being a Gemini, I talk so much about anything, including myself. He doesn’t try to read me at all, already knowing everything that matters, while I know next to nothing about him, even though we’ve been good friends for over a year now. When I fell for him, I told him straight up. Left nothing to discover for him. I kissed him on the first date, as well as many other things, but we never had sex. Through it all, he insists that we are good friends. That I matter to him, and that I’ve helped him with so much. Then, a couple weeks ago, he told me he had a girlfriend. And I kind of went ballistic. I was hurt and confused and wasn’t able to accept it. He had become a bit of a fixation for me, having put up such a thick barrier around himself, piquing my curiosity even more. To know that I’d been going about pleasing him all wrong, so much so to the point that he’d found someone else, well… I was more mad at myself than him. I was hurt, all the same, but I didn’t blame him for it. I guess when I saw your comment I saw an opportunity. You are a Scorpio man with a Gemini woman, and I was wondering if you had any advice about getting out the friendzone. Oh, and I guess I should mention that his relationship didn’t last very long. He ended things with her just last night, and now he wants to see me, saying that he needs company. He’s made it very clear that I shouldn’t get the wrong idea when I come visit him, and that we are just friends. He was in love with her, and now he needs comforting. I’m happy to do this for him… maybe too happy. So maybe you could help me out? What should I do, how should I act when I go to see him in a few days? Thanks for listening.  

  49. scorpiodave May 8th, 2014

    I’m a Scorpio dating a married Gemini female.  We have been dating for several months now and we are on fire with passion.  Our biggest issue seems to be that we are also both empaths.  This means when one is mad the other gets even madder and we end up in a downward spiral.
    I trust her fully, something I’ve never really done in a relationship.  I’ve given her my account info for Facebook emails etc.  She offered me hers, but I won’t take them.  I have no desire to check up on her. 
    The sex is amazing.  Granted I’ve always been good, but I try so much harder with her.  The biggest problem I have is the games.  She “tests” me…  at first it was to see if I would drop her name, then it was to see if I would go on a date with another woman.  Then it was to see if I “really loved her” she even did a psychological “intake” on me (she’s getting a PhD in psych)
    Our worst fight…  when I even shocked myself with the “Scorpio sting” was when she told me she couldn’t see me again because she told her husband about me… I had no idea there was even a possibility that she wouldn’t choose me over him.  The pure shock to my system made me snap.  I scared her.  I gathered up all of our hotel receipts printed off every message (48 pages worth) and was going to bring them to her husbands work I was going to force him to swing on me…  and then demolish him.  Have copies made and put them on the cars at her church.  I had his parents address. This plan of attack included escalations such as calling the DEA on the pot plants of her husband.  Telling CPS to check the video footage in their house for the fathers abuse on the son.
    None of that ever occurred.  She came back to me the next day.  I have been far more pessimistic about our relationship since. I know that I would have destroyed her, and it scared me to death.  I never want to hurt her.  Not hurt anyone like that.  But I know I am capable of it.  That was a couple months ago.  We still see each other everyday talk non stop, and she is again talking about leaving her husband.  When she brings it up I stop her.  I tell her I don’t want her to talk like that unless she is 100% sure.  I know I can’t let her raise my hopes.  I love her, I’ll take what I can get.  

  50. cgonzales700 April 14th, 2014

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  51. Phillygem526 September 1st, 2013

    @Phillygem526 I meant to you *why don’t scorpio men…

  52. Phillygem526 September 1st, 2013

    @Scorpio-Man….I see your post was from March 2011…did you ever apologize??? What happened between you two? I’m curious… Why you do scorpio men don’t like to apologize? You have to get past that…

  53. Geminiareawesome July 6th, 2013

    @josh maybe there a reason she broke up with you from your last comment something tells me u wouldn’t really be sweet to her slut I hate you really from this something tells she needs someone better than u

  54. Geminiareawesome July 6th, 2013

    @gaby people don’t tell u who u are u tell them 

  55. Gemini91 January 5th, 2013

    I’ve been with a Scorpio man for over two yeaRs. I love the guy but i don’t always like him. I have a Sun in Gemini , moon in Aries, and Venus in Leo. So being a Gemini in generall i am like a butterfly who likes having intelligent conversations. I dont really like changes but i dont like to be bored or people aroud me to get bored. Before i met my scorpio guy i used to date so many guys, even at the same time. Sometimes i found it fun and sometimes i used to get home feeling sad because i needed a soul-mate. Someone to complete me fully; emotionally, intellectually and phyisically. So at tht time maybe people thought i was being a playful girl because i am fun but not commited in one person. When i met my scorpio guy , i became myself ; loyal and also jelouse. i also need lost of attention from my scorpio man (probably because i have a leo on my venus). I sic attention and affection. At the moment I’m not very secure with my scorpio man but he is my first love (im 21) and i can’t not picture myself being with someone else. We tryed to break up many times but i am scared to let go of him so i always try to work it out. He lives far away from me , i will move in London near him in 6months so hopefuly things will get better. Right now our relationship isnt that secure but i let him have everything he want just so i dont loose him. I love him with all my heart, i have hopes for him and i pray that we will be together forever. 

  56. rudegirl2013 December 25th, 2012

    I’m a gemini woman and I have been with a scorpio for the past 11 months now and boy it has been a ride. Like all relationships it started off so amazing… We saw eachother every other day, talked on the phone all day, lol we got sick when we couldn’t be around eachother but after a while that all ended… He started getting very jealous and controlling and the relationship got a bit aggresive… Now it’s to the point that we argue every other day over the simplest things… Most of the time the arguments are caused because of me but we never really solve anything… Our communication sucks cuz he always feel that he is right and never wants to hear the truth…  We could be arguing and i’ll listen to everything he has to say but as soon as it’s time for me to talk and speak my mind he hangs up and say that I always say the wrong things…  He’s very stubborn and arrogant and that urks my nerves… Sometimes I sit and wonder do he really love me and my heart tell me he do but sometimes I just don’t see it… But it’s strange cuz when we’re together everything is good but as soon as we get apart shit just go koo koo crazy… lol… I can say that the sex is AMAZING though… I don’t know what it is with gemini’s and scorpio’s when it come to sex but daaaaamn(THAT SHHH IS THE BEST)but anway now he is going through this phase where he insist that I need tough love… Which I hate cuz why do he feel that he can make that decision… I just wish I had a better understanding about everything… One thing I can say is that I’m a good example of a crazy gemini… Lol I tend to do childish shhh like find ways to piss him off just so he can show me some attention, or say crazy shit to him then turn right around and tell him how much I love him and I much I want to be with him… I really don’t know what have got into me cuz I was never this crazy… They say that love make you go crazy and do things you never thought you would so I guess it’s true… This is my first time ever being in love so I just want to know is it really worth fighting for? At times I sit and think and often regret falling inlove cuz he hurts too bad or is it just I’m not ready? Can someone help me out?

  57. Sweetiecharm November 10th, 2012

    Im a gemini woman. Ive known a scorpio guy, who was a classmate of mine since 3rd grade til 4th year highschool. Yes, it was that long but, we never talked that much within that span of time. I never liked him because he was arrogant, but he’s really intelligent and good looking too. I can still remember that he was a very mysterious person, he is a strong speaker, when he’s got something to say, people would really listen and he was a math genius!  That’s what made him famous in school and a lot of girls fell for him. We never saw each other after hischool. I went to college and finished my degree. And, surprisingly, after 4 years, our lives crossed. He got my number from a friend and I was surprised he called me. We talked and it was wierd because we were never that close. I knew that he had a girlfriend so I asked him about her, he said they were still together but he’s in a shaky relationship with her. Since then, we became close friends. I told him my problems and I liked that he listens to everything I say. Well, geminis are really chatty, right? So I kinda enjoyed the company. As time went on, I found out that his girlfriend for 6 yrs left him for another guy and he was very distraught. I could feel it. He told me he almost destroyed his life by slashing his wrist, not eating and taking drugs because he really loved the girl. After a few months, he started to ask me out. But, I had a boyfriend then, so I kinda prevented myself from seeing him that often. I realized it was wrong to go out with him because my boyfriend might find out about it and  I dont want rumors spreading so I cut all communications with him. For 4 months, he would always call me but I would turn off my phone, he would txt me but I wudnt reply. It so happened that me and my bf broke up because he chose his career over me and left town without even telling me his plans. I wasnt even sure if he’s coming back so I kinda felt that being loyal to him was up to no good. So when Mr. Scorpio guy called again, I picked up the phone, we talked and I was surprised when he said HE MISSED ME SO MUCH. I explained the reason why I avoided him and he understood. We started going out again and after a month, he finally told me he really had feelings for me and he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I was scared and skeptical at first but I came to realize how long he has been there trying to know me better and wanting to be with me and our personalities just clicked so I gave it a shot. We’re together for 6 months now and I have always been happy. I don’t worry that he might see another woman because I can feel how much he loves me and he has always been honest with me.. Our relationship has been with ups and downs but we always work on our differences and we adjust with each other’s preferences. I know that we have a long way to go and we don’t know what’s gonna happen next. Six months is just a short period of time but it seemed to us like we have been in this relationship for a long tym. I  truly believe that he is my soulmate and I love him very much!!! 🙂

  58. Hanibanani November 9th, 2012
  59. LuckyFlowerBomb31 October 9th, 2012

    i met my scorpio on facebook, he asked me out. we went out late. like 12a and had a few drinks and some food, and never n all my 31 years of living have i wanted to jump across the table and wear the furr off a man!!!!!! sheeeeesh! he is everything masculine, he is talented, driven, succesful, honest, believes in chivalry, paid for the food, kissed me good night…. damn dream!!!! but the next day, today…is even better….almost in a very eerie way, he knows how to deal with me, and that is aaaaaaahhhhlooot of KNOW HOW cuz us Gemini womeeeennnnn!!!! goooood grief lol lol so its new, and he seems like such a keeper, this site and all this awesome a$$ comments just put some brownies in his pan ;0)

  60. Nessa_Z August 16th, 2012

    @poopstick666 gemini women can be the most loyal and give their all if they know they are doing the right thing. Usually (as far as I know) the most wandering around gemini women are too distracted and too interested in many things around. But a gemini still has strong personal beliefs in many traditional things, it is only the stay that she can not promise (but she will stay if she feels it is right). It is only up to the man if he wants to pin down his dream girl, or let her fly around… and the best men are always the ones who let us geminis fly – personally me always will love my lovers who got my nature in its own ways.And I can make a right guess whether a man will try to change my ways and close my windows of my flight. If i feel this, then this is it. In such case gemini can be less thoughtful less considerate less logical and very much keen on walking! So for a scorpio i think there is only one way to make her bored – not to let her fly around. If a scorpio lets her do it, she will be loyal without dating. And flying can be anything from hobbies to funny time together at home! As long as the scorpio is interested in maintaining such relationship 😉 of course, I am only a gemini woman, what would I know… I am no psyhic here :)) best of luck!

  61. Nessa_Z August 16th, 2012

    I am a girl gemini and met a scorpio man a week ago. We are sparkling fireworks when we meet, our eyes can’t stay calm when we are close… think of it as a storm, we fight for nothing and for the sake of fighting, we even fight for fun! of course then one of us gets serious and goes for some quiet time. Until the next time we see each other. When we are intimate, he totally inspires me to go extra lengths, but seems to need more ”intensity than play” which is not my field of a game 😀 but we both love the time together when we are tired… I dunno whether I should call this a chemistry or a disaster, because he seems not to be bothered but keeps trying to pin me down, and I am always missing him to death but wanna go away when i we spend more than 15 min together. THIS IS A MAD CONNECTION! 🙂 still can’t decide if i like it or not… might take a while… hahah 😀

  62. poopstick666 July 16th, 2012

    will geminis get bored when the scorp needs to gain their trust? but when it comes to true love with gemini will they be loyal even without dating?

  63. poopstick666 July 16th, 2012

    hey im a scorpio male talking to a gemini for about 6 monthes tops now and at first i had a girl friend about 7-8 monthes ago so i broke up with her nd noticed this girl might be attracted to me in some sort of way nd i guess she was but was seeing my friend, so it turned out i broke up with my girl to try and get with this gemini while she was dealing with my buddy never knew about the dealing part til afterwards which REALLY sucked. so i started talking to her cuz it turned out he played her nd started doing stuff with his ex gf. so me and her wen’t out and had a good time and drank and i didn’t want to try to get too close to fast or anything, basically wanted to show her i want the real thing or nothing. so i kissed her before she left into her friends house and i know she loved it cuz shes the one who wen’t in for the kiss. so after that i asked her like i don’t think you like me…i never said that and she said im going to blah blah and we can see each other when i come back. then she wen’t to some place outside canada and got drunk and fucked some guy…. and then she came back, i found out and i thought we were atleast talking or seeing eachother, but after i found out i was pretty bummed off life, like i snapped on her completely called her a whore, then the next day i apologized and i felt like a dick. so then thats where it started we started on and off fighting not even seeing each other basically.. just texting and phone.. so she all of a sudden starts talking to one of my other buddies cuz she was hanging out with him alot then i find out then i was soo bummed again, so then i started talking to her in  front of the guy she was seeing but i dont think it was all tooo serious… soo i guess from then and there we kinda been talking alot more clearly and more meaningful/ understanding.. so i have not had sex with this girl and i want it to be the right time and not forced or anything… but after that i started trying to talk to her and stuff and she been enjoying me for sure and i want to be able to trust her but she has partys nd stuff at her hyouse nd i am not able to go over because i have a broken collar bone so i have been just sitting at home.. but she called me the other week and was talking to her and telling her some deep stuff but i dont think she oculd handle “deep”.. so we hung out at my buddies just me and her and some friends and it was amazing i knew we had such a connection and i think she kinda feels overwhelmed with my emotions maybe. but yeah now she hasn’t talked to me or anything but she puts in her status like “been thinkin bout you” and “hard to wait for someone when things may never happen, but its everything you’ve ever wanted… but now she has’nt talked to me or anything probably cuz she needs her freedom… but im still getting into the trust part , and i havn’t really tried to have sex yet cuz i wan’t it to be real… i just want to know how long does it take for a scorp to trust a gem usually and how long do geminis need freedom and what you guys think of my position? does she wan’t me and me only? even when shes at party’s cuz i know that geminis are iffy about settling down until its the “RIGHT” partner?

  64. LuluRane April 20th, 2012

    I’m a Gemini Woman married to a Scorpio Man. Wow I can tell you the first 4 to 5 years of our marriage was quite a ride. We were both right out of high school when we married and this August we will be married 17 years. We have managed to find “Our Own”. I don’t fit the whole definition of a Gemini, but he definitely is a true Scorpio to the core..
    I can however tell you that if you are in love with a Scorpio man it can work and it is well worth it. The sex, well it can definitely blow your  mind. I’m creative and love spice and he likes to “be in charge”, and has this stamina, WOW. It can make for some interesting and steamy things.
    Because our road was so bumpy in the begining, we didnt have children the first 6 years of our marraige. But we have been so very blessed with 3 wonderful children since. Our marraige is very unique and we have had to have constant communication. He is my true soulmate. It takes a lot of hard work, but it can work.. It has definitely been an interesting ride for us. But well worth it!!

    • ANDYVE137 March 15th, 2017

      Wow thank you soo much for this post ..really needed this ..I’m a Scorpio Man and I’ve been in a relationship with a Gemini woman for 3 years now ..and she’s really starting to get to me with her constant change of mind ..I didn’t believe in horoscopes till now ..and I understand her better now ..but I still think we need someone to counsel us ..I really want to make this work and possibly end up marrying her.

  65. Millennium Flowerchild April 18th, 2012

    Being a Gemini woman and accepting the flighty essence a Gemini woman has, I have met a Scorpio and am in love.
    Past relationships with different signs-including the signs that (by the book) compliment me, I am honestly flattered with how our signs fit together.
    The “sting” of the Scorpio is refreshing.  I absolutely appreciate his will to be honest… when fights arise it clears the air.  It puts my jealous love at ease due to the fact that when we have our altercations I realize how petty and little my insecurity is and he strengthens me. (or us I should say)  It also helps me let go.  He is loyal, with absolutely nothing to hide, and this attracts me to no end.
    Being a Gemini as well, apparently, I am not completely close with family (which is true in my case, but perhaps not in others).  He being a scorpio aids me in learning how to be closer to my family and melts my heart to see how close he is with his.
    I am the luckiest woman alive.  Thank you for your comments.  I had been a tad on the wayside (due to past [this including Aries, Libra, and Leo signs] and due to how strong I believe in Astrology)  but seeing how other Geminis fell for Scorpios with luck helps me know that his honest and loyal nature is the real thing. 
    Love my Scorpio

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  67. lizardlovely March 23rd, 2012

    I am a Gemini woman, I have been with my Scorpio man for almost 4 years now. I truly believe he is my soulmate. I am a true Gemini, exact. And he is a Scorpio to the core. He grounds me, and I make him a little less serious. I love him so much. He has never cheated on me, and I will never have to worry. Sex is incredible. & our 4 year relationship has been honestly magical.

  68. GeminiGirl7june November 18th, 2011

    Boy oh boy!! I am a Gemini Woman and I have been in a relationship with a Scorpio Man For 2 years and we recentely broke up. First I met him I was the good looking one but I really liked his personality .I really liked talking him , flirting ,kissing and loving. But they are so evil! After 6months I started to be jelous because I really loved him (like a very sweet baby). After six month i trusted him and knew that he disliked me checking on him so I let him do what he wanted. I than found out that he lies to me he was keeping secrets from me and that’s when I get really uppset and angry and say horrible stuff to him. Lots of extreme argument but later we kiss and make up after he promises me that he won’t do it again. But again he made me so weak extremly angry cos he never used to pick his phone up and still lyeing about stupid things . So I never trusted him , I tryed to but he never changes. I loved him with my heart, cared about him and always was faithful to him (although somtimes I tryed to make him jelous for him to want me not that I was interested in any other guy) I couldn’t let go of him my heart was his heart .. He always made me cry but still love and wanted him .. Until when I witnessed that he cheated on me with a random girl from his Uni. At the time we weren’t talking with eachother for like a week, he made an excuse that he was drunk and hurt. After that he broke my heart but never answer his phone calls or anything . I can’t even listen to his voice or see his eyes ..not that I just loved him purely but I also always helped him with money I looked after him like a baby. Trust me Gemini ,sex is too good ,you will have a good happy time with scorpions but please stay away they will break you heart and you won’t be able to move on because they are good at munipulating. If you think ‘oh he seems sad now , he probably regrets wat he did he will change’ NO!! He is just tryin to control your life he is tryin to munipulate so he can Win. I hate scoripon but this certain person still has my heart… HOWEVER, I NOW HAVE UNTI-SCORPIONS CELLS ON MY BRAIN THAT WON’T ALLOW HIM ON MY LIFE EVER AGAIN!! I hope someone like a easygoing Leo personality will come along . I need a honest balanced relationship with No secrets (I’d rather know the painful truth) ….. Hate you scorpion u hav a good heart tho just hate ur head.

  69. maddyrockstar229 September 20th, 2011

    m also a scorpion guy n i cn understand dat its not easy to handle a gemini women…..n thier crazy moods???????????as i was in relation 4r 6 years.with her but i wont be able to continue dat…..

  70. Gaby September 10th, 2011

    @Denise stop being so narrow minded, dont assume something to be true without giving it a chance,i bet even it ended up being true, you would probably be ignorant to admit that it could be accurate, and what are you doing here anyways? so get out, shutup, because in my opinion this is so damn accurate,it couldnt be anymore accurate if i tried,sorry,open mindedness promises more opportunities no room for norrow minded like you =P

  71. SuGaG July 19th, 2011

    Hi!!! loving this comparison… I AM A GEMiNi WOMAN!!! i am EVERYTHiNG it says iM and MORE!! 🙂 i have recently started dating a Scorpio MALE… 1st date was awesome!!! && he caters to myy EVERY WiSH… HOLD on, im not easily impressed doe. he did as me the famous question. “Do you believe in love @ 1st sight?” i blew it off… needless to say, sex game is on point, and i normally find sex as a game of “i WiN” he appears to be pretty cool.. it tooo soon to see if we’ll run off into the sunset together, but he’s fun to be around and the energy is there… thanks for the insite!!! GO GEMINIS!!!!

  72. Scorpio-Man May 29th, 2011

    As far as your Scorpio. Well I understand the self destructive phase he is in. We are creatures of death and rebirth. In order for us to be reborn and become better people we need to burn ourselves to the ground before we are able to rise from the ashes. He is stuck in that phase, and he is tied to you and your kid at the same time. He’s burning but has no way out (its a painful self inflicted phase that is necessary for us to grow. I really do not know how to explain it to others, but we need to do it). Something happened between the two of you that you are not talking about and I’m sure it is a much longer story with many complications. He is angry and yelling when he sees you because he still LOVES you. Sounds weird huh? Just remember, you can’t hate that much without caring. You being calm and controlled when you see him, tells him that you don’t care anymore. He loves you to death and can’t deal with the lose of his true love and the lose of his son. He’s trapped in a tortuous purgatory and will fight it through until it is resolved or die, which ever comes first. He doesn’t know how to explain it to you, and will not ask for help. That doesn’t not mean you can’t be his guiding light. It’s your choice. Being a single mother is a humbling life experience. It will make you so much stronger than you once were. I wish you well, and empathize with the ruff road you must walk.

  73. Scorpio-Man May 29th, 2011

    I know she still likes me, because she can’t hide her emotions from me. I’ve never met a person I could not read in an instant. I guess thats why people think we (Scorpios) are psychic or get in their heads and others think we make grand assumptions. Then you pile on the tell tale give aways of her friends body language, giggles, overhearing them talking about how she still likes me, and her emotions that could only be produced by a girl that is deeply in love and if that’s not obvious than I don’t know what is. The thing is while I do want her back, I only want her back if she shows me that she can deal with conflict in a healthy way.

  74. Scorpio-Man May 29th, 2011

    Catherine, I did try and work things out with her when things started to fall apart. She was too scared to face her problems and ran away. The ball is in her court now, and she has the game of her life to play. I hope she plays well. So I did apologize first, you are reading me wrong.

  75. Scorpio-Man May 29th, 2011

    Nicole, you worry about instant love with a Scorpio, but you shouldn’t. We read your body language and emotions so well (gemeni girls are so transparent to us). It also makes us susceptible to emotional contagion which sucks at times, but it just comes with the territory. We know more about you than you probably do. I was in a similar situation with my gemeni girl. I felt her before I even laid eyes on her. I knew as soon as I walked through that door I was going to meet someone that touched my soul. She got scared and ran away too. I assume I’m in that faze the two of you where in. She ran away, boxed herself in, stopped communicating, and dug herself in to such a hole you wouldn’t believe it. I would love to rescue her, but she has to show me she is willing to put in some effort to climb out herself first. Reciprocity is a major factor in all Scorpio relationships. We need to know that you care about it just as much as we do, and you are willing to put energy into it.

  76. Scorpio-Man May 29th, 2011

    Nicole, don’t be scared. I can understand where you’re Scorpio is coming from and the fact that you were the one that reached out to him, and fixed things, showed him that you are mature enough to be in a deep relationship with him. It showed him you are willing to reciprocate his effort. That when conflict happens, you are willing to work at things (that you will not run at the first sign of trouble). He definitely loves you now that you have shown him that.

    I think that is our (Scorpios) biggest obstacle with gemeni girls. Girls in general do not like to apologize, and gemeni girls are even worse at that. Like little kids they RUN from problems (cute at times). Their two sides kind, warm, carrying, care free, smart, passionate conflicts with their psycho, temper tantrum trowing, bullheaded, deceitful, dark side. When we meet your dark side (girl brain), and then the next time we see you, you give us the care free nothings wrong side it comes off as passive-aggressive. Which means we need to test your fatal flaw to see how bad it really is and test ourselves to see if we can manage it.

    Good for you that you showed him that you can work things out. We will always work things out with those we love and are loyal to the death. When we can love someone we know instantly. We look far and wide for the very few people we know we can love. When we find them it is SO obvious to us that we can fall in love with you, and that you can fall in love with us and we don’t really understand why you don’t get it. We are ready to skip most of the crap with girls we know we can love because that is where it will be down the road, we just want to skip of the bs and pain. Keep It Simple Stupid (KISS) and fall in love.

  77. Swam-away May 28th, 2011

    You won’t get her back believing you are the best thing since sliced bread..acting as though getting to know a Scorpio is a privedge and a gift. I knew a Scorpio. When I became pregnant for him and he didn’t want it HE tried the character assassination routine. He told people I bribed him to have sex with me, that he wanted to beat me until the baby was dead, that he only lasted 30 seconds because he wanted to get away from me. RIGHT!!>>For the FOUR years we were together he only lasted 30 seconds at a time. Ok so the second round would be an hour I won’t lie. And it was the best sex of my life. But that does not excuse that he is an immature, childish, arrogant(as all Scorps are) ass. And I’m being nice here. I am not a Gemini. I am a Pisces. He told me he loved me more than any other in his life. And then I became pregnant. And I saw him for who he truely was. You might wonder what I am doing on this board. My father is a Scorpio, my mother is a Gemini. When they met my father asked my mother if she believed in love at first sight. They are still married 50 years later and love each other. But I do know my father. He is a know-it-all. Definately arrogant. Thinks that others should cater to him. If he doesn’t get what he wants he throws a fit. Thank god my mother is a patient kind wife who has waited on him hand and foot all these years, cooked, cleaned and taken good care of the children(me). My father is highly intelligent and that may make the difference. My Scorpio was dumb as a brick. Didn’t make it to highschool. From a bad family. He has issues. BUT I would do it all over again for that kind of love. Where you Scorps falter is letting people know how great you think you are. And then believing it yourself. You’re not. And some are actually only showing you pity..that is unless they stay to realize it is a cover of insecurity for some truely remarkable and indescribable traits that you yourselves do not even know how to control. Your emotions are your poison. You will sting yourself to death if you don’t get ahold of your feelings and arrogance. Trust me. All those people my Scorpio talked badly about me to came to me and told me what he had said and that I should exact revenge. I did not. At first. Until his pride got in the way of his responsibility to his child…meaning he would rather make ME suffer even if it meant his child would too. So I filed for child support. He is and has been seething with anger. When we talk he is screaming and shouting, I am calm and serious. Let me ask you, as a Scorpio knows best, would someone responding in an extremely calm manner to your angry rants piss you off? I hope it does. You are right his revenge has torn me apart at my very soul, but he did not do it in silence. His revenge was misplaced and had no rhyme or reason. I was good to him. Too good. He made the mistake of underestimating me. Thinking I would never hold him accountable because I loved him too much. That, dear Scorpio, is where you falter. Scorpio Man, you may need to apologize first. You are not better. And sometimes it takes a stronger person to realize that. Good luck. To be honest I am truely amazed at Scorpios depth of emotion and vulnerability. When they love, well, it is like no other. But they could use a dose of humility.

  78. Scorpio-Man May 28th, 2011

    I had a run in with an amazing gemeni girl, we were totally into each other, and it was very intense. When things fell apart, she tried the character assassination routine on me as well. I overcame all her childish nonsense without breaking a sweat. Geminis only considering the surface of everything and fail to see the unrelenting, indomitable, shear determination and power in the soul of the Scorpio. You gravely underestimate us.

    When I see her now, she radiates remorse and sadness and suppresses intense emotions that bleed out in every body language possible. I wish she would find the courage to apologize and put in a little effort. She’s the only girl I would be this patient with, and be willing to mend the cracks of such a messy relationship. Don’t ask me why. I can get any girl I want, but for some reason I want to give her another chance, and want her to just stop hurting.

  79. Scorpio-Man May 28th, 2011

    HaHa gaby, you know gossip is something gemeni girls do best. As a Scorpio Man I don’t believe your story for a second. Our sting/revenge is far more painful then pointless gossip. A quote that comes to mind is when thinking of Scorpio guys and gemeni girls is:

    Spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart.

    Our revenge tears people apart at their very soul, and last a long time if not a life time. It truly is poisonous and hard to stomach.

  80. Gemgirl May 24th, 2011

    I don’t understand why so many people say this combo won’t work. I’m a Gemini female and I’m seeing a Scorpio male. Sure, he’s intense and possessive to some degree, but it’s not unbearable. We are totally devoted to each other and to making what we have work. I have been with Libra, Aries and Leo men — all of whom are suppose to be my perfect matches — yet they were some of the worst relationships of my life. I fall more and more in love with my Scorpio man everyday; he accepts me for who I am, and I him. Plus, no other sign can satisfy me sexually the way he can, and vice versa. With a little effort, this combo DOES work.

  81. farrukh April 10th, 2011

    i am scorpion and i love my gemini wife

  82. Denise March 21st, 2011

    I think this horoscope stuff is a bunch of boloney
    what makes you think that you are what someone tells you,we are from god and most important more than mear words, we are human, feeling, loving, and kind. no matter what that in the end is love. no horoscope can tell you what is ment to be. wise up!!!

  83. Nicole March 1st, 2011

    Im involved with this Scorpio male who I am very much into…. We have been dealing with eachother for months(met on fathers day 2010)…. Even planned to move in together back in November but decided the time wasnt right… So i was kind of hurt and backed off from him for some months… but I couldnt stop thinking bout him…So I reached out to him and he was so excited tht I was communicating with him again… because I was ignoring his calls and texts… Anywho on Saturday he told me he loved me and I was to shocked to reply… I dont want to put myself out there again… But I really love him too… Its scary because this (love) happened in such a short time…

  84. liz February 7th, 2011

    as u say we’re d most hard to know sign and i dont think we even know what goes on in each others minds when we meet a fellow gemini..but i dissagree with the female g’s always in fantasy land comment.. and the two faceited rep..i try 2 see things from both sides.. its called empathy

  85. 808Gemini January 30th, 2011

    I’m a Gemini girl true to the heart and recently developed a relationship with a Scorpio. I have yet to learn the dynamics of our relationship..Totally intrigued by him yet he can be a little to clingy for my liking. I’m hoping we can have a fun aspiring serious relationship that only bring out the best in each other!!!

  86. josh January 10th, 2011

    you whore i hate you and hahahahahahahaha STOP telling people u played me when i was the one who sweet talked you into thinking i actually liked you and thaught you were beautiful ahaha i think you are fucken ugly and you grose me out and i never want to see you again and talking to you was a big mistake i hope you finally realize that and stop calling me and texting me pretending to be someone else you bitch i hate you =D ….

  87. gaby January 10th, 2011

    i am a gemeni and my ex-boyfriend josh well yeah we were kinda going out :\ lol well yeah me and him would flirt alot and then one day he texted me saying and i quote “i really like you” and i texted back yeah i really like you too but a week after that he asked me out and i told him that i didn’t mean what i said and that i didn’t like him that way im guessing the poor guy got bootytickled slash heartbroken so he started telling his friends what i had done to him and his friends told their friends and their friends told their friend and so on and in the end i heard that people were saying i was a slut and that i messed around with guys too much.that is what i call a typical scorpio move getting someone back by revenge…

  88. Mario December 7th, 2010

    I’ve met this Gemini girl that I truly want to be with, but she takes this “horoscope compatibility” thing too serious. I just enjoy her time and company, but I’m learning to understand that she has to be independent sometimes. Which is kind of good, because I don’t like to feel pressured nor insecure. But I guess it’s more like a don’t ask, don’t tell type of thing. So I’m just waiting it out right now.

  89. grgsgeminigrl December 3rd, 2010

    I’m a Gemini and my fiancé is a Scorpio and I will tell you this, Scorpio men are very loyal & calm. I never have any doubts in my mind that he will cheat on me, and the fireworks in bed are awesome! People laugh at me when I tell them that he makes me see stars! I am the moody & aggressive one and he is the calm one. Very hot & awesome mix. Oh and the Scorpio men are very affectionate and passionate. Love him!

  90. camila abraham November 22nd, 2010

    i am a gemini girl and recently have met a scorpio mail …. he semeed really nice … he invited me for dinner ..dinner went on well .. we decided to goclubbing afterthat … he got really pissed at me for stepping on his feet …. they do get annoyed for silly things … but when we got home .. i was ready to leave … eventually he saud he wanted to know me … i melted …. i am not in love with him …guess i m gullible … we gemini girls are for the moment

  91. maythirtyone November 2nd, 2010

    this is so nice 🙂 a lot of websites would tell that i am compatible with an aquarius, leo or libra when in reality i never had true friends under those signs. the icing on the cake is, my first bf, an aquarius, gave me a hard time (to hell with that womanizer)! we broke up the worst kind of way.

    strangely though, most of my friends are scorpios with birthdays from october 31 to november 17 so in these weeks, my wallet suffers hehehe. there are a lot of scorps in my life the people in the office i trust the most; the 4 male mountaineering buddies i can trust with being cramped in one small tent to spend the night; my former boss, who saw his daughter in me and treated me like his own even though i resigned a year after; 3 of my childhood friends… i haven’t have an intimate relationship with a scorpio male but i’m thinking it’ll be a great one knowing how wonderful the scorps are in my life

  92. vivash October 31st, 2010

    im in love with this gemini girl ……..but she is always so fidgety….cant seem to understand what she wants. 🙁 wish gemini women were a lil bit less wandering…dunno what to do coz i love her so.

  93. syb October 20th, 2010

    Im deeply in love with a Scorpio man. Im not your typical Gemini woman. Im like a hermit and need lots of solidtude. I have very deep dark thoughts often. However Im shallow as well, just not often. This scorpio man I love, says he loves me back. But has had many obsatcles with following through. The last and final barrior is my precious daughter. He never planned on being w someone that has child w someone else. And this is enough to stop him dead in his tracks. I see the despair it cause him to turn me down. And I feel his sinsere emotion when hes with me. He has ignored me for over a month now and I think blocked my w phone and facebook :-/. He needs his solitude from me to grow and be who he his. I love him, and want every part of him. Even his mean neorotic ways. I hope for the day that he’l change his mind and come for me. Even if im withsome one, if i still feel this intense about him, I will go with him…..we will see. I feel like like im always waiting for him.

  94. dominique September 24th, 2010

    I love my scorpio man…..he Is very intensive, he knows how I’m feeling before I know……the arguments can get pretty intense…..but the thought of being without him drives me insane…..I love him past our life span on this earth…….he completes me, protects and loves me like no other…….I love that man!!!!

  95. dee-jayy August 4th, 2010

    i lovee my scorpio man even though he is ah jealous person i never ahd ah boifriend tht cared so much 4 me he’ll do anything 4 me thts y i love em sumtimes he has ah sort of ah temper but wen we are together its freaking amazing i love yu hunnie bunz!!

  96. Audrey April 22nd, 2010

    I’m a gemini girl, my best friend is a scorpio girl. They say the friendship is either never a friendship or a friendship to reckon with. We have the strongest friendship I’ve had with anyone in my life and I have an attraction to this scorpio guy. I like them scorpios! They in some way complete me. (: Calm me down too. Scorpios and Geminis, I like the idea. haha

  97. buddy April 12th, 2010

    anne frank and peter van pels were gem girl and scorp man. awwww. <3 rip <3

  98. D.J. in Tacoma March 2nd, 2010

    …end quotes.”

  99. D.J. in Tacoma March 2nd, 2010

    Well… Sun Signs work for men, but I use Moon Signs for women. Sun (and Moon) signs alone are just not enough information to say how any couple will do together. So, make that Mars and Venus, but in which signs and houses? Etc. Thanks for the opportunity to “voice” my opinion. I’m a Gemini female, and have been with Scorpio men. Past tense. Even with my natal Mars in Scorpio descending in the 7th House, I can’t stay there… love them as I do.

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