Virgo Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Virgo woman and Scorpio man have a blend of practicality and emotions, and they work hard at making their relationship work.
  • Virgo woman and Scorpio man have great communication, but the Scorpio man sometimes holds things back.
  • Virgo woman can attract the Scorpio man by being efficient, organized, and loyal.
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The combination of Virgo and Scorpio is a blend of practicality and emotions — all in one. Both of them work hard at making the relationship work, especially Virgo and that is truly cherished and appreciated by Scorpio. Neither of them is frivolous about being committed, and if once they commit to each other, this pairing is hard to break.

A Scorpio man is an invincible person. He is an extremist with calm and steady surface and smoldering passion within him. He is very intense; he can reach levels of intensity that other men don’t even know exists. Beneath the soft voice of Scorpio man lays his subtle strategies to enhance his career and personal life. He is one person who loves luxury and comforts immensely. He goes to any length to keep the ones he loves safe and sound. He is very loyal and faithful to the woman he loves. When he loves a woman he completely gives his entire heart to her.

A Virgo woman’s most outstanding characteristics are efficiency and her critical nature. A Virgo lady believes that she is extremely competent and organized and that is usually right also in most of the cases. She is also highly loyal and works unselfishly for the good of the ones she loves. She doesn’t think the world or the man of her life owes her anything and that makes her self-sufficient. One of the Virgo female’s most shining virtue is her gentle and unselfish devotion to the man she loves. She is a born homemaker with a great imagination and splendid creativity.

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A Virgo woman and a Scorpio man make a beautiful connection. She has much respect for him. He understands imperfection and knows that no one can be perfect. Seeing how the Virgo woman listens to her Scorpio male, he is able to convince her that striving for perfection is a waste of time. He helps her to understand that everyone has imperfections and one needs to love one another with those imperfections, and not for what other wants someone to become. They are like a poetry in motion. They deeply respect, love and cherish one another. He is known for his integrity, and makes sure that he lives up to what others expect of him. Virgo woman and Scorpio man have great communication, but without her knowing, the Scorpio holds things back and keep to him in his ever lying depth.

In a romantic relationship, a Scorpio man is typically very loyal. Even if he wanders for a moment he quickly returns to where he belongs. He makes for a very passionate lover towards his Virgo woman giving her all the love and support she wants. He is faithful, true and devoted and always provides everything that a woman of his life deserves. Scorpio man is a protector by nature and never allows his Virgo woman to face the world alone. He is not the typical man; his love goes much deeper for the people he loves including his family, friends and the lady of his life. He never waits around for his woman as he is self confident and lives by his rules which are sometimes hurting for his Virgo woman as she feels dejected by such attitude of her man.

As both the Virgo woman and Scorpio man discover the reality of love, they rediscover their soul and oneness in such a form that their odds become good and they unlock the gates of their hearts to be loyal and devoted towards each other forever after. They give an exciting glimpse to all the possibilities they share in their life and also have the power to realize a satisfying approach for their once seen dream. He understands the critical nature of his Virgo lady and his fineness and tenderness always help her out of miserable conditions while the magical presence of her makes him more open. They both encourage each other and magnify each others’ virtues. They bring out the liveliest stellar and most flamboyant rainbow out of their romance, walking side by side, and remaining close forever.

Both Virgo woman and Scorpio man are more or less introverts. Due to their shyness it is hard for these two to openly confess their feelings of love for one another. But they always know how they feel about each other and it is just hard for them to open up until they feel safe in each other’s arms. Once they feel safe they are able to introduce themselves and communicate freely. In sexual nature the Scorpio man is like two sides of coin. One side of him believes wholeheartedly that sex is a sacred spiritual union between two people becoming one. Then there is the erotic side of the Scorpio man who needs to release his lust and passion in the bedroom. He changes things up quite frequently, which makes for a very exciting sexual partner. A Virgo woman makes love in an unsophisticated manner. There are moments of awkwardness between them while making love. The solution occurs once they feel more comfortable with each other. But ultimately, both seem to always be withholding something from one another. Both have to make some changes in order for the love to flow freely in the bedroom and feel the ultimate satisfaction of physical intimacy.

Though Scorpio man and Virgo woman share a very beautiful relationship but there are some characteristics that are troubling for both of them. She can sometimes be very critical of him who never appreciates it; in fact it creates differences between them. On the other hand, the world famous depth of Scorpio man troubles her as this gives her the feeling of dissatisfaction and uninvolved in her own man’s life. Such situations can create long term troubles as well if they do not communicate and resolve the issues. But if taken seriously and understood they can make up even the biggest of problems. The Virgo woman’s independence allows these two to have a very manageable relationship with one another. Scorpio man’s self-confidence and his Virgo lady’s self-sufficiency create a golden foundation for a good relationship.

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  1. His Blondie January 28th, 2023

    My husband and I fit this almost too a T. Incredible. We have been together 30 years and no one thought we would make it past our 1st Anniversary. My Scorpio is my everything.

  2. Northshore Light November 25th, 2022

    I’m a Virgo woman and my apple pie is a Scorpio. I love him so much. We light each other’s fire.

    • Michael Carlson March 16th, 2023

      I am currently married to a capricorn lady. But we hardly make eye contact. Cause we just force ourselves to be happy. But recently I found a virgo lady and ever since we starting talking I have had peace and she makes me want to believe in love again. I am thinking of ending my current marriage as it is already heading for crash. I hope this works out for me.

  3. Sylvia Willis November 21st, 2022

    Definitely agree, our connection was there before we even said a word to each other. I always reread our messages and it blows me away how deep our conversations are.

  4. Vanessa Williams June 20th, 2022

    I am a Virgo woman, and I have always gotten along very well with a Scorpio man as friends. And now that I have finally met again another Scorpio man I going for it. We talk for hours over the phone, it’s like he really knows and understands me. I love how he makes me feel…

  5. Sherita Bryant June 8th, 2022

    Absolutely agreed… I’m at Virgo woman and I’m so in love my Scorpio man… We have our disagreements but we’re so great together!! We’re both Truly Loyal.

  6. Alex August 26th, 2021

    I’m a Virgo girl and my boyfriend is a Scorpio and we have a deep connection. Beautiful relationship

    • Dom June 18th, 2022

      I am Scorpio man that is truly in love with a Virgo women. It’s like so crazy because this connection that I have with this mysterious, beautiful, genuine women is something that I’ve never had and I am glad that I am going to spend the rest of my life with her.

  7. Innocentia August 9th, 2021

    I’m a Virgo woman with Scorpio man. He loves truely and makes sure that I’m happy always.

  8. jj May 31st, 2021

    Hola im a scorpio
    & i am perfect
    so no worries
    Virgo ladies
    nothing to correct
    & no flaws to ponder on
    that’s right, now
    let’s go straight to the bedroom
    for some naughty sensual
    habitudes de ma jeunesse

  9. Ed May 30th, 2021

    Im scorpio with a virgo girl. Is it easy for scorpio guy didn’t appreciate what virgo girl did such as take her love for granted. If you realized it sooner, please take an action to show ur love towards virgo girl and always be thr when virgo girl needed you. If something went wrong, don’t run from ur problems, solve it ASAP before virgo girl give up in the relationship.

  10. Wendy February 10th, 2021

    I’m a Virgo woman and got cheated on by a Scorpio male. Lol

    • Trisha May 14th, 2021

      Amen. Virgo woman with the same Scorpio result.

    • Jonas M Antley June 16th, 2021

      Scorpio me.whos been cheated on thrice by a Virgo woman …not very confident anymore. And what of what loyalty she fkn gets me anytime I turn my back them won’t talk about it and then makes it fault like “well you shouldn’t have been so nice to me then maybe I wouldn’t have cheated” bs

      • Ace April 30th, 2022


        They always turn it back on you I’m a Scorpio she a Virgo

      • His Blondie January 28th, 2023

        I’m sorry that’s happened Jonas. You’re right, it’s BS, their excuses. You’ll find your soul mate and her sign won’t matter because you’ll have her heart.

  11. Joseph May 31st, 2020

    I’m a scorpio man too and i looking for a virgo in my life

    • Lisa August 20th, 2020

      Joseph, I’m a Virgo myself, and I can tell you that we’re not always easy to get along with because of our critical and perfectionistic attitudes. If you’re a perfectionist yourself, it will be a little easier.

    • Arnel January 30th, 2021

      I’m a Virgo

    • Inda Anobad April 5th, 2021

      Im a virgo 😁

    • Myra December 9th, 2021

      Im virgo

  12. Ethan December 9th, 2019

    Virgo maidens are ruled by mercury…they are perfectionists.
    If it helps, here’s a free 2020 Forecast for VIRGO:

    • Kristy December 10th, 2020

      Y’all say perfectionist like it’s a bad thing. There is nothing wrong with giving your best. Being a perfectionist does not mean I always exect everything to be perfect. As a Virgo I thrive in chaos. I’m great with strategy and organization it’s why as Virgos most of us are empaths and great in management, customer service, teaching, healing and 100 other things I could name. Can we be hard to handle? Oh yea. As a virgo am I a perfectionist by nature? Yes I am. That means I give my best.

  13. Emily October 27th, 2019

    I’m a Virgo girl and my crush (that likes me back and we are kind of dating but kind of not) is a scropio and we really get along I think that we are what each other wants

  14. Thea Mitchell October 1st, 2019

    I am currently with a Scorpio man & although I’m only 17 & he’s almost 18 I truly believe we’ll be together forever & he believes that too. We truly are utterly in love. We met my 8th grade year, but little did we know we knew each other way before. We didn’t even remember each other but, my mom worked where his Grandma worked & he says he remembers me running around as a little girl. Like as toddler.

  15. Pauline April 30th, 2019

    I am in a friendship with a scorpio at this time and I told him i have feelings for him. He said he doesn’t feel the same, but I know that he is lying/hiding his true feelings because of little tidbits he has given me. I finally stood up for myself, i said i don’t do 3rd party situations because emotions get involved. I told him I deserve commitment and im tired of the friendzone, with men. Also that I don’t have time for men that don’t know what they want. I also told him that i don’t feel he will ever be ready for a committed relationship with a quality female. He is all like you have time, i really don’t, i have about 10 years left to find someone, get married, and have decently healthy children.

    • Lisa August 20th, 2020

      Pauline, it sounds like the Scorpio man you were friends with couldn’t “make up his mind” about whether or not to do more than like you as a friend. You were smart to put your foot down, because it’s what Scorpios need in order to understand the people they’re dealing with.

      10 years is a long time, and you can’t rush relationships just because you want to have children.

  16. virgo girl April 10th, 2019

    I am with a scorpio guy and it already looks like we are fated. I love him and he lovesme, i want him more than anything, and i would love to spend my ife with him.

    • Sonshine April 10th, 2019

      I haven’t commented on this for a while, but congratulations on your relationship to your Scorpio mate but I had to let my Scorpio mate go for the new year…We had and will always have a connection but he has ways with him that he refuses to change. Scorpio has a way of always justifying their wrongs as menial and making your issues with them seem unimportant and that pisses a Virgo off cuz we take our views very seriously especially when we constantly express what’s bothering us. I pray your Scorpio is not like that and I wish you all the best.

      • Virgo girl April 25th, 2019

        Dont try to change scorpio. If they really love you, they hange themselves. I think some where its also a virgos’ faults too. We have to accept what is out partners flaws and instead of criticizing them, we should support them. I wish everything will be right with you and your scorpio♥.

  17. Jeremy October 22nd, 2017

    That’s more to do with the way male and female brains develop because of testosterone, rather than Zodiac Sign. Men Operate and focus on things very differently. There are times when a man needs to focus on nothing to rebuild his testosterone so he can then spend it on the next thing he needs to focus on. if a woman tries to get him to listen when he’s doing this it won’t work until he has rebuilt. But if she keeps talking to him he cant rebuild. for a full explanation on this check out Alison Armstrongs book, the Queens Code. It’s helped So many women and men learn how to communicate with a man, influence him to both share and unpack himself, and also get him to listen.

  18. Annie September 27th, 2017

    I am a Virgo woman and have been with my Scorpio for almost 13 months. We are so in love it feels like a dream I often wonder how i got so lucky to be with a man like him although there are some things that we need to work on in our relationship I know he loves me so much and i as well. even though we have been together for a year there are things i feel like i don’t know about him its like he is completely unemotional I have a hard time talking and expressing my feelings but with him its like it all spills out because i trust him. So that’s where we struggle is telling each other how we feel.

    • Sonshine September 27th, 2017

      That is the area where it can get a little frustrating. As a Virgo woman, I can be very moody. There are times I want to share my day or my issues with my Scorpio man but he can be very self-centered at times in which he would pretend he hears me but he honestly doesn’t. We often seem to clash when it comes to communicating with each other. I usually shut down in which i wind up not saying anything at all so he never really gets to know the inner me;but when he keeps prying and asking me what’s wrong,,, eventually I explain what’s on my mind and how I don’t appreciate him not understanding or listening to what I have to say. Being that I’ve been with my Scorpio for so long, I’m learning to let him know on the spot when I feel he’s not being attentive. I’m learning the importance of communicating how I feel instead of shutting down and putting up a wall like I use to. I even notice that now he is finally listening and realizing when he’s not being attentive. I guess it’s all a part of learning as a couple.

      • Annie September 28th, 2017

        You literally just said everything I was thinking trying to put it into words I am also with a Scorpio

      • Somesh November 14th, 2017

        It seems to me that he is trying to gain control over you psychologically by being passive aggressive. Survival instinct in Scorpios can be very strong, if they feel or perceive that by committing to you they might loose their individuality or the relationship would become only about the partner then they withdraw. Now this feeling/perception on which they act can be real or imaginary. Apart from that Scorpio is an water sign, hence they are emotional. Emotions are fluid like, susceptible to change in intensity/direction e.g., sometimes we feel upset, another time we may feel angry which can transform into violence, so you see same emotion changes intensity and form. This fluidity of emotions makes Scorpios behave hot and cold, sometimes intense and other times distant. I would recommend dating an earth sign. Earth signs are stable emotionally. Or date an air sign which would provide you lots of intellectual stimulation (air signs are very intelligent). Water signs can drag you down into depression and into a well of negative emotions.All the best. God bless you.

    • Pauline April 30th, 2019

      Same with my scorpio it is like investing in a black hole.

  19. Sonshine September 18th, 2017

    I’ve been involved with a Scorpio man for now about 11 years….on and off. We actually dated in 2006, found out he was seeing someone else and we broke up in 2008…out of all the men I dated, he was the only one that was not cheap…he was a giver, he was very family oriented and being that I had kids, he always planned dates that included my children. When we were apart, he stayed connected to my sister because she use to go to a local hang out where he would see her, and he was always trying to get back with me. (Scorpios will cling to you no matter what! Especially if they are determined to get you back!) Anyway in 2010 we started talking again. I felt as though I couldn’t trust him due to the past but deep down inside I knew that he sincerely loved me and us being apart really affected him. I always give him a run for his money because as a Virgo, I am going to let you suffer till I see fit that you will never ever ever cheat on me again…and the funny thing is that he endured it. He just kept coming back regardless of the torture I put him through.(lol) I believe he knew deep down I loved him too. So now we are in a good space. I still keep my guards up, that’s just me but he let’s me be who I am. Scorpio men can be cocky, annoying and overbearing at times, but they have a big heart, they don’t give up on you, they are loyal and they are great lovers. Virgos have a way of pushing people away because we want to see who really cares about us. Well Scorpios will not give up on you no matter how much you push them away…eventually you will fall in love with them.

  20. Vanessa September 1st, 2017

    I am currently speaking to a Scorpio man and I am a Virgo woman. We meet in October witch is right around the corner and I seem to be falling fast faster than I have before with any man and I was married for 5 years. I am so nervous after reading this and reading allearth3000 comment lol and ghost comment. Wat if we fall in love omg.

  21. Shelley July 21st, 2017

    I & my boyfriend was planning to get married last month, just last week we had some argument that made him get angry on me just because of the argument, he said we will not marry me again and the next day he left me and we broke up. I still loved him and I wanted him to marry me, for me to get him back i had no choice than to contacted dr_mack@yahoo. com to help me and he helped me to bring my lover back to me so we can continue our plan to be married. he came back after 3 days, we are happily married now…..

  22. AllEarth3000 July 18th, 2017

    Virgo woman here, falling quickly for a Scorpio man. I know there are things he’s keeping to himself, but I’m not tripping b/c we just started dating less than a month ago. I’m keeping stuff, too! lol. But he’s so FINE and the sex is AMAZING!!! The BEST!!! Looking forward to a promising future!!!

  23. Ghost May 4th, 2017

    As a Scorpio man I can totally agree with this. I’ve been with a Virgo for a short while now but it feels almost unreal. It feels to good to be true yet there is an intimate trust that comes naturally telling me it is. I’ve had many partners throughout my life but I have never been so hung up on a person or had the feelings come as quickly as they have with my amazing Virgo woman. Definitely lucked out this time around 🙂

  24. Alondra Bryant April 12th, 2017

    Just feel so right..

  25. TBaby April 6th, 2017

    I’m currently looking to marry a scorpion so I’m definitely excited.

  26. T March 20th, 2017

    Wow.. I just started dating a Scorpio man and being a strong Virgo woman was blown away by what I just read I sincerely hope that that this new relationship is what it feels like. Very impressed!

  27. Martin February 24th, 2017

    Love my horocope sign 🙂

  28. SexyScorpion February 22nd, 2017

    I’m Scorpio woman but I like a Virgo man but he has his girlfriend. My question is would he ever live a Taurus . and fall madly in love for a scorpio?

    • staccibaby March 16th, 2017

      nope can’t there way tooo compatible

    • Sonshine September 18th, 2017

      My best friend is a Virgo. They are very complicated. They like to have their cake and eat it too.. He can date you and the Taurus forever…and never cut either of you off. They are very honest. If he tells you he doesn’t want a relationship, then he doesn’t want one. If he says he has a girl and he’s not leaving her…hes not leaving her. It’s take it or leave it with them. Good luck.

  29. cmsitati September 13th, 2016

    I believe you have actually hit a spot with me because everything you wrote above describes my husband’s and ex wife’s marriage and life as well as all his relationships after his divorce.I met my scorpio man 3 years after his divorce to his ex wife and during that period of time he had a lot of evolving to do. Because of bad choices he made he now regrets and it’s haunting our marriage and instead of destroying it, it has brought us closer together and stronger. 
    Like you mentioned @ScOrp10 my scorpio husband has grown and learnt the meaning as well as the importance of communication. Because of that I am happy to say that I am benefitting and reaping the rewards of the person he’s become. In all his relationships especially with his virgo ex wife he lacked happiness, warmth, intimacy, trust, security as well as communication. Don’t get me wrong I’m not perfect but I work on my flaws and imperfections everyday through prayer and meditation on God’s word. Because I do this he also follows suit. 
    Relationships and marriages are will not always a bed of roses; they will have good as well as bad days. On his bad days I encourage and uplift him as a wife is supposed to; and he does the same for me his wife as a husband is supposed to of which I’m truly grateful and blessed.We both know nothing can stay the same forever like you said but each day we accept our flaws and imperfections and try to learn and grow together as husband and wife. 
    By the way my husband is a cusperian (born when the sun sign is transitioning from one sign to another)like me;  we’re both born on the 19th day him in November mine March. He’s a scorpio/ saggitarius and I’m pisces/aries. Yes I’m a pisces with aries qualities too.
    Didn’t mean to intrude on the scorpios and virgo site;  just wanted to share and let you all know my experience with my scorpio husband. Not all scorpio men are bad, they have good intentions it’s just the way they express themselves and don’t mean harm. Both my parents are scorpios as is one of my brothers. 

  30. Kt3 July 6th, 2016

    As a Virgo woman, I’d like to say that this compatability post holds truth but needs to add a pound of salt to it. My Scorpio man and I have been together for 6 yrs. We may be the text book example of taming of the shrew. I’m not an easy person to deal with, he’s an even harder person to deal with. It’s a constant battle between wits, facts, and emotions. He is the unevolved Scorpio borderline narcissistic sociopath. Lol OK that was a bit harsh, his dark sense of humor has definitely rubbed off on me. But the truth is, I can’t explain why we can’t just get away from each other. No one understands why we’re together, but somehow in the midst of all our fuckeries, we just work. We both have messed up, he blames me for all the events that rooted from one problem and I have to remind him that his choices and the consequences of those choices are what got him to his current point. Point is I didn’t run, like I’m used to running, when I should have. And he forces me to face my problems head on. We’re far from perfect, we both have a lot to learn, and we both have a lot of growing to do. There are many times when we’ve both have thrown our hands up and said fuck it, but there is this unspoken bond and understanding between us that we just can’t explain, and it pulls us right back in every time. I love him, I know he loves me. It’s intense, and insanely addicting. 

    • Kristy December 10th, 2020

      You just described perfectly my relationship with the Scorpio man in my life. He’s hard to deal with. I’m a handfull. We clash and we cmploment each other. He isn’t perfect and neither am I but when we are together we just work. It’s intense and addicting. He quiets the chaos and the entire world slips away and burns brighter at the same time

  31. Mikkimoto April 26th, 2016

    Nick@platonic Zombie, 
    Looks like you wrote your comments back in 2012, so 4 years on and I am replying! I just want to say thank you for giving such a great insight into the Scorpio mind set! I have many Scorpio friends and most of them male. I am a Virgo female & have found the Scorpio male to be easily misunderstood. I think the main reason is communication. Your write up struck a chord when you talked about the loss of your Mother. I too lost my Mother and feel an eternal pain. It also affected my relationship when I lost her because I became very lost in the pain. I am slowly getting there and finding peace with the loss, I hope you have also. All you Scorpio’s out there…don’t be afraid to open up and love your Virgo’s. You never know what you might find at the bottom of the rainbow!! 

  32. loveGODDESSb August 16th, 2015

    I’ve been dating my Scorpio man for a little over 2 years (we’ve been knowing each other over 15) and he’s the best thing that has happened to me in about 5 years! He’s so loveable and passionate about our relationship, he will do ANYTHING to make it work. I know I can be over the top sometimes because I am a Virgo woman ok lol. He tries really, really hard to please me in EVERY way possible in and out of the bed! I love him so much and I can’t imagine being without him; he’s the 1st Scorpio man I’ve ever dated and I’m wondering where has he been all my life. Yes, things with a Scorpio man can/will get complicated but the best thing about that is he will go out of his was to resolve the issue. He’s a family man and a hardworking man which I love; he really does complete me because I can be mean and critical at times (I’m a perfectionist and I drive myself crazy at times lol). Virgo ladies, please take heed…..if you have a Scorpio man in your life, you have the BEST thing this side of Heaven-literally! If you can deal with his silence and his sometimes distant nature, trust me, you will win with him! I am very happy with him (don’t get me wrong, we have had our share of ups and downs) and I wouldn’t trade him for any other zodiac sign. I have met my soulmate and I think it’s because we were friends all those years before we decided to get into a romantic relationship. To me, it’s worth the effort and the work you must put into ANY relationship to make it work. I don’t mind trying to make it work with my Scorpio man because I KNOW without a shadow of doubt that he will go to the end and back for me…..this sceptical, mature VIRGO has spoken! WORD…….love is worth the work and the wait (in my case).

  33. Pachecoa101 October 28th, 2014

    This is the one I have been trying to look for.  I met my Scorpio man at work.  He works at the warehouse and I work as an associate..  Weh dated once and we fell in love right then and there..  There were sparks,  magic etc as I feel and as he explains me..  We do love each other and we fight for silly stuff..  And sometimes it gets to the point where we walked out on me at a movie theater because I got mad at him and he couldn’t talk to me at all.  SO,  he walked out,  walked on foot for an hour to get home..  II just let him do whatever he wanted then.  At the middle of the night,  I woke up from his texts and misscalls.  He told me he was waiting outside my house inside his car like around 3am.. He would do efforts to make thing work out and it will be just fine.  Then it went on for a month feeling as if everything happens so suddenly and here we were talking about moving out,  veating married,  having kids starting a family and all the good fairylifestlyle.  It makes me believe he is that in love that it made me worried that it might not work out well.  Son I tried to cool it off with him but he wouldn’t let me..  So I just stuck with it.  Then almost 2 months is coming he told me we should not make love that often so he would miss me.  II felt as if I was spanked in the face..  That was in the middle of the night there’s no way for me to walk out and go home..  I let it go because I love him..  But then again the other day 3 days ago,  he told me I should stop visiting him because the landlord doesn’t want any visitors and we got caught I was staying there at night sleeping.  AI mean I understood his situation with his uncle L. L.  But he got a car to use to visit me instead.  I got mad that I hung up and would never call me back..  Its been 3 days now I o ly see him at work but I just ignore him.  Coworkers tell me he looks at me when he sees me and he looks as if he was so sad for the past few days.  I said don’t blame it on me.  RGht now we are kinda giving each other’s space. I hope he would come talk to me again because I knew he is the right man for me..  BDW age doesn’t matter too because I’m 27 and he is 24. He is really matured guy..  He fixes my car too he is a mechanic. Even paid for my brake pads for $400. Give me $200 per paycheck for me and for our food when we go on dates outside. Both our parents like us to end up together.  We love each other but we just need some time apart..  Csite wait any longer.  He drives me crazy.

  34. k.g-88 September 2nd, 2014

    It is lik my relationship has veen talked here. every word defines my relationship.

  35. desimasalachai June 10th, 2014

    @[email protected]
    Go back and read my and scorpio2k14 posts- you’ll find some answers there.
    Who is to know what really happened, but I can tell you this, if a scorpio male gets it into his head that he isn’t getting what he wants or can’t have what he needs. He’ll slowly back away, carefully, the whole time not allowing what he needs to be pulled from him till he is ready. When he is ready to let something go.. then he lets it go completely.
    Most Scorpio’s are very pure at heart…. and hate hurting someone. Give him a little space and since you’re broken up, time is what allows a scorpio male to come back: as long as he is attracted to you. if he is talking to your friend though, there probably isn’t much hope. I’m a realist, I Hope my candor doesn’t hurt you but it is what it is.

  36. [email protected] June 6th, 2014

    I am virgo woman…..
    I met a scorpio guy few months back….we hit it off amazingly.
    He was so sweet, caring, charming and affectionate. But was a bit pursuasive, i didn’t mind that. Then one day he propsed me and i accepted. 
    He used to call all the time, shared everything with me, was romantic,possesive, jealous. And i loved it all. He said the he loves me and i was falling for him hard.
    Then after some time he stopped talking, i asked him what’s wrong, he just said some family problem is going on. A month passed like this but there wa no change. He stopped putting effort in our relationship, i was the one who contacted him all the time, then he said that he is sorry that he was not able to give time to me. I forgave him,after that i thought everything will be fine but it was not. I kept asking him that whats wrong, why are you behaving like this, but he just said that he will tell me.
    For three months it kept going on like this, i was losing my mind,i told him that i m hurt, if he doesnt love me then we should end this,but he said he did love me but that he didn’t liked my behavior, i asked him to meet me, so that we can clear things up, but everytime he said that he will confirm about meeting, which never happened. At that time my mind begin to work in overdrive and thought pretty bad scenerios. 
    Then few days back, i found out that he doesn’t have time for me, but has time to go out and enjoy with his friends. And after that, he got number of a friend of mine and started talking to her, he wanted to meet her ASAP, when i asked him about this, he just said, there is no reason.
    Never once he shared any of his feelings and thougths with me, i know that i am not perfect, i was willing to change for him, but he neversaid anything, i didn’t know what “wrong behavior” i had, he didn’t tell me. 
    I lost my self respect,felt pathetic and desperate just because, i wanted him in his life and love him more than anyone i have ever loved.
    But now I couldn’t take it any more and said pretty hurtful things to him, after that we broke up. I still love him and don’t know how to get over him.
    Help me!!!!!

  37. [email protected] June 6th, 2014

    I am virgo woman…..
    I met a scorpio guy few months back….we hit it off amazingly.
    He was so sweet, caring, charming and affectionate. But was a bit pursuasive, i didn’t mind that. Then one day he propsed me and i accepted. 
    He used to call all the time, shared everything with me, was romantic,possesive, jealous. And i loved it all. He said the he loves me and i was falling for him hard.
    Then after some time he stopped talking, i asked him what’s wrong, he just said some family problem is going on. A month passed like this but there was no change.
     He stopped putting effort in our relationship, i was the one who contacted him all the time, then he said that he is sorry that he was not able to give time to me. I forgave him,after that i thought everything will be fine but it was not. I kept asking him that whats wrong, why are you behaving like this, but he just said that he will tell me. For three months it kept going on like this, i was losing my mind,i told him that i m hurt, if he doesnt love me then we should end this,but he said he did love me but he didn’t liked my behavior, which i don’t understand at all.
    What i dont understand is that if there is any problem, then why instead o sharing it with me, he kept silent???
    Then few days back, i found out that he doesn’t have time for me, but has time to go out and enjoy with his friends. For three months, there not a single call from him, just a few messages here and there. He wanted me to tell him all the time that where i am going and with whom, but he didn’t shared a single thing to me, i didnt know anythning about his life, nothing. I kept asking him to meet me, to clear things up, we made plans, but he cancelled them at end time.
    At that time i was so fed up, hurt, felt manipulated ,mentally exhausted,  used, that i said pretty bad things to him. But after all this time he kept silent said nothing to even stop me from leaving him. 
    Few days back, we broke up after which i said pretty bad things to him and he just said that i am the reason of all this. 
    Now i am feeling lost and hurt.

    • Joseph May 31st, 2020

      06 nov scorpio im seeking for a virgo women

  38. desimasalachai May 22nd, 2014

    @jaime, I’m so very sorry for the interaction you had with a Scorpio Man. 
    I’m going to attempt to shed a little light past what @ Seth said. 
    There are a few things about Scorps people rarely understand, in many ways there are 2 very distinct different types of “us” out there, within which are 2 more types. I’ve had a therapist for 7 years whom I talk to every week, to evolve myself as a man. There is the Extrovert, then there is the Introvert. I can only speak about the Extroverts as I have several friends who are Extroverted Scorps looking to evlove themselves out there…  Everything in this post is my opinion and I am in no way trying to suggest that I’m stating facts. This is just based on my own experience of 44 years and 7 of which have been with a counselor and therapist.
    Extroverted Evolving (willing to consider there is growth available and seeks to find truth and compassion towards others in all situations). Often very gregarious and gabby (you think looking at this post?). 
    Extroverted Non- Evolving (unwilling to believe he is wrong and doesn’t care to hear it). Quiet and recluse- 
    Introverted Non-Evolving- (unwilling to believe he is wrong and doesn’t care to hear it). 
    Instroverted Evolving (willing to consider there is growth available and seeks to find truth and compassion towards others in all situations). Once trusting of you- similar tendencies as Extroverted Evolving.
    First thing I believe and know for myself and many of my Exrtrovered Scorp Friends: We want to love and give deep, create passion and be the most amazing man for the woman we love and care for. The dark sides of us are easily kept at bay in the following ways… 
    Scorps are insanely complicated and we get even,  not mad, however, sometimes we get mad and then get even. This is one of the WORST traits that exists about us. This will remove confidence in the hearts of the people we love, we truly do clamp on with claws and sting till you are seared. I HATE this about me, I DESTROYED a marriage with this trait and that is why I have a therapist now to help me get my $hit in order! I spend thousands of dollars annually to talk with an amazing therapist who I trust, love and care for in a clinical sense. She has my back and calls me on my $hit.
    Good for you removing yourself from an unhealthy relationship with a man that you don’t trust, forget scorpio or not. If you should get involved with another one. Here are some things I believe could help you… have a great relationship with us and to keep us honest, loving, loyal, devoted, purchasing you gifts and doting on you.
    DO it BACK, don’t yell at us, complement us from time to time, listen and make efforts to hear us. This goes MILES with us. When you want something, don’t ask for it, when we are “asked for something” we are mentally disordered and that lose cannon comes apart.. (Sometimes I still catch myself being a Piece of $hit). Want something from us… ready for this, men scorps who read this are going to shoot me… 
    Tell us HOW what you want would make you feel, let us know that things we do bring you closer to us and that it helps you feel PROTECTED and taken care of. (please don’t lie about this, if it doesn’t make you feel this way).
    We are the breed that LOVES to lead and loves to serve, it is a dicotomy we struggle with and a constant push/pull. Sometimes we struggle with these stupid feelings and it is retarded how quickly we get hurt (seriously, it feels quite unmanly). The acknowledgements go miles and pay dividends!
    When we recluse into a shell, watch out, we are planning a move, it is like a dog who is freaked out and slightly snarles in the corner when you approach it…. tread lightly. Here is the secret to win us back and keep us from turning into a complete B@$tard- Take a step BACK, let us know that you understand we feel BETRAYED, our imagination is one of the most deviant that exists on the planet and if we feel scorned we don’t know how to comprehend in the moment. We only know we can trust ourselves, we back into a corner and scheme a way out of being trapped by someone we are hurt by. It isn’t pretty… but we are loyal and trusting to a fault so:  Offer a hand out and – DON’T take responsiblity if it really isn’t your responsibility… instead, comfort us, give us that space. “Baby, something has gone south and you’re very hurt, this is making things awkward, please work through it. I’m not leaving, we’ll work it out- I love you… I know you love me” It is like calming and soothing that small child who can’t comprehend anything but anger in that moment, the words however, help us calm down and re-ignite the love in us to serve and protect, let go of the selfishness and be there for our lover!
    Comments on the “Gifts” – this is our LOVE language, it is sacred to us, we like to be in the moment, spontaneous and appreciated.. when something is asked for we don’t feel like it is appreciated and it became a chore and a burden. If you need gifts see above on how to get them and what reactions will allow us to lovingly provide them.
    Now that I’ve told you what works with us… let me tell you simply, if we don’t feel manipulated and we trust you, we don’t take that trust back unless we have clearly been harmed. (I walked in on an old g/f in bed with another man- lets not discuss what happened but there wasn’t a single gift I gave her left in the country. I was QUIET, I said nothing. I simply apologized I wasn’t good enough and that I’m happy she is being taken care of by another man). That killed my trust, it is one of the few people on this earth to this day that I still don’t have any issue with her passing life on and never talking to her again. You get my point right, Honesty goes a long way, betrayal has us become sinister… 
    We are passionate men, very much extreme, always wanting to be more than what is expected or needed by the woman who we are clear loves us. Train in the gym harder, make more money to have nice things, provide safety, security and an immense showering of love by doing the things that are our mates love language. In the bedroom “She comes first”, we will go to the inner depths of the world to understand how we can do more.. for that smile, that amazing session for hours of lovemaking, that day together just relaxing, holding hands, picking out furniture, discussing our dreams and a family/life together… cooking together.. you get the point right? We are extremely passionat and loving and most of us are not always scheming.
    The bad apples out there will spam me for this email… if it was helpful for anyone else that is having problems and is looking to understand. I’m glad you got something out of it.
    wishing you the absolute best in love and relationships with good Scorps out there .. we are VERY intense and our depth is uncontrollably powerful when a woman is both in front of us and behind us (metaphorically), that means she leads at times with love and respect and follows at times with love and respect.  In closing, remember a scorpio man strives to create:
    LOVE, TRUST, RESPECT, and LOYALTY… in that order. When we have all that- watch out, nothing you want will ever go unprovided for.. and we give 10x more in all situations than we get!

    • MSadina November 7th, 2022

      Wow! Thank you so much for this. Wish everyone would write this about them so everyone else can have a much better understanding.

    • Christine January 14th, 2023

      Wow well written
      Thank you so much for sharing these insights about the beautiful Scorpio man

  39. Sc0rp10 May 11th, 2014

    Having been with a Virgo woman 10yrs i can say i know why a virgo would think we are manipulative dark deceitful etc –

    Its like this…

    If a virgo woman thinks she is perfect and doesn’t listen to scorpio man he will stop attempting to communicate … This makes virgo woman suspicious and virgo and scorpio paranoia kick in – scorpio / virgo together may have trust issues… in turn the male scorpio will question virgos loyalties .

    The rift will start which makes scorpio appear dark and distant – all he wants is his virgo woman to show warmth intimacy passion and to listen… But to do this…. Virgo has to admit they are not perfect else she will believe its just scorpio lying to manipulate her ….

    If Virgo thinks “well I’m perfect so its got to be him – he’s just a lying and cheating scorpio who’s trying to control me”

    Then know this…. he’s not – he’s just a typical scorpio male seeking warmth passion and intimacy

    If Virgo woman would first rather point out that scorpio is not perfect …..and discuss that point first

    scorpio will listen but yes will accept the same in return –

    If this cannot happen scorpio male may feel discontent and again become distant and therefore appear to virgo as though he cannot be trusted – he is a scorpio male and before long warmth and intimacy will be offered elsewhere and virgos suspicions may become a self fulfilling prophecy – this may then appear to confirm virgos suspicions and hence…. now she does not need to listen to scorpio…. Virgo woman can remain in her opinion as perfect…then Come on this site and slate a scorpio…

    Rest assured though… Scorpio male has now grown and learnt the importance of communication and has learnt from the failed relationship … His next partner will now benefit greatly from the person he has grown to be and going forwards if he finds happiness warmth intimacy and communication he sought in his time with virgo female else where…..

    Then its virgos loss…

    Someone else is getting everything she had and more –

    Yea the new partner may not be perfect …. But who is?

    Ooh yea i forgot…. Virgo woman right? – he he 🙂

    Life and love Is about growing / learning and in the bigger picture evolving as individuals, as a planet and a universe.

    Nothing can stay the same forever… Not because it is not perfect…

    But because the universe will not stand still – you are and always be as close to perfection as the universe allows virgo but u need to allow space for growth and admit ur not perfect or always right


  40. Dw566 October 24th, 2013

    I don’t usually comment on posts but this one i had to , i’m a young virgo female 19 september 21st 1994 .. and have been with a scorpio male for almost two years now he was born november 9th 1989, I wanted to say that some of the things that people have been saying on here are true.. and some of it’s not .. , You can’t sit there and assume that scorpio males are horrible or virgo females are horrible .. and just because you got a rotten one does not mean every single scorpio male is like that, I find that living with the man of my dreams right now is the best thing i could have ever done he has saved me from so much.. He is smart, outgoing , loyal , protective and does almost anything i ask him to do with a little push. Yes they are hot headed and get way over the top when they are mad but if you love them anough the fights and arguments will just brush off, We get into fights but it’s nothing bad we usually fight and then just brush it off after, But any sign can be like that any sign can be hot headed and anything els you can describe.. I may not be the smartest person in the world and yes i know that i am young and that i still have a long life ahead of me but it just got to me that all you guys and judge someone so cruelly on the day that they were born or just because you got a ” bad one ” .. No one said that you had to put yourself through those things with the scorpio male.. that was your own fault for sticking around, but you don’t half to sit there and assume that all scorpio males are bad people… NOT ALL OF THEM ARE.. My man is the best man in the entire world to me and i refuse to let anyone get in our way and try and make me feel different. To be honest i think that any virgo female like myself with all my life problems and stuff i have going on to have such a manly dedicated scorpio male in my life and whome i live with to look after her should be the most proud and loving virgo female in the entire world , I can say this without a dought he is my future husband.. and i can say this because i just know deep down in my heart from the moment we met even though i was young he was the one for me and  the only one i trust to be the father of my children someday, I know that everyone should stop slamming down the scorpios like they are complete jerks because not all of them are, Yes they can get very angry .. BUT SO CAN ANYONE .. so stop all the judgement.. just don’t judge another scorpio just because you had a bad one.. you probably did not know how to deal with them at the time and were just very angry and frusterated anyways i’m done with this for now and i am sticking to everything i said i love everyone so i’m not pin pointing out anything so say comment or do what ever you want. 

  41. anuj9122 September 9th, 2013

    i am scorpio and my girl is virgo.What would you suggest to me?Should i live my wholelife with her or i should leave?

  42. whtwzzrd88 October 1st, 2012

    Ok, reading through this i have seen some relationships fail and some flourish. I am a scorpio man and I admit to most of the faults that were given in the above posts. But like anyone else we are not perfect. We have flaws. We are human. 
    I personally was an unevolved Scorpio through most of my life until i did some self dicovery and i guess “evolved.” I have learned to control my worse attributes like being possessive and jealous. I still feel them but i personally believe that to be in a true relationship you have to always work on changes yourself to the better person that YOU want. 
    You shouldnt judge all Scorpios because of one experience. I dated a Virgo for 2 years and she never let me in, she never fully trusted me even though i showed her my true self and wore my heart on my sleeve. But im not going to give up on all Virgo’s because of her. It just seems unfair.
    I personally have never been physically or mentally abusive and never even thought to be, i dont think that is a “Scorpio” trait, i think that is just how the man was raised or just how he is. He just so happened to be a Scorpio. Make us all look bad. 
    I do agree with the silence thing. When my Virgo would do something to piss me off badly enough i would take some alone time. Because I had to analyze why she said or did it and what i had done to deserve it. But you will find that with any male. Thats why they came up with the term “man cave.” We men need it. Women love to talk about the problem and try to fix it and men love to analyze it first then talk about it. 
    I see that there is a lot of talk about “unevolved” and “evolved” Scorpios but barely any talk of the other Zodiacs having that distinction. I personally think that everyone has to look into themselves “evolve.” Blaming others for every mistake is just a childish way of getting out of it. These failed relationships on here have been the Scorpio’s fault only. But look back and analyze yourself and figure where you also screwed up. Except Virgo from above. What that guy did was all him and you didnt deserve it. I would have killed him if i were you. No one should ever be abused in anyway.
    I know this is pretty scattered but i dont like talking about things i personally have experienced. So sorry about that. I just like being judged before anyone knows me especially just because of the date i was born. Not my choice. Blame my mother and father? It seems wrong. But im not afraid to admit my faults and try to change them. As long as i have a reason to and help along the way. 
    All in all we all have faults. When in a relationship you should accept those faults and if need be help that person change them not force them to do it alone. Dont judge the whole by the part. Meh.

  43. Tinaaapay September 1st, 2012

    @jackieoFucking true. So fucking true. Especially this part, “They NEVER say goodby because, they always want to come back”

  44. Tinaaapay September 1st, 2012

    Damn autocorrect. I mean narrating

  45. Tinaaapay September 1st, 2012

    @jamieask Oh my. Same sentiments. Why do I feel like I amatter atong my own story. But ours lasted for 6 years. Man, that was long! 

  46. VirgoLadiesRock July 7th, 2012

    Hello Everyone,
    This post reflects quite accurately my own experience with my Scorpio.  
    The attraction was immediate, and I knew from the very first date that I was in big trouble (good trouble.)  We met two years before, but circumstances prevented us from moving forward.  Very unexpectedly, we were reintroduced and, honestly, I’ve never looked back.
    Because I am so transparent and verbal, I find myself challenged by his relative silence.  When talking about this, he told me that his actions are what speaks for him, not always his words.  For him, love is about caring for you, protecting you, making time for you, holding you and being there when you need him.   And he absolutely excels at this.   This man definitely takes care of those he loves.
    I am a Virgo’s Virgo, with a Sun and Moon in the sign.  But, I do have a Scorpio rising, which might help me a bit as I navigate this man.  He’s a Scorpio Sun and Moon, which is interesting too.  In the end, it is pretty easy, even if we have our moods and our moments.  And, when I hold him, and he holds me, between all his other commitments, there is peace and he can rest, and we are in a place all of our own.  We get each other, and we laugh, and we are not afraid with one another and honestly, this is magical.
    As I read this post, the thought that I have, is that for me, with this man, there is a sense of home.  That sounds strange, I suppose, and I’m not lost in romantic blather, but it is what I feel.   He and I have this kind of connection that is deep and resonates what is written in the original post.  We don’t have to say the words, we just know.  Somehow we understand the other.  The times to be strong, the times to be soft, the times to emote or stay silent, a dance…delicate and beautiful.
    Will this man be the love of my life?  I think it is very possible.  But, if he is not, I’ve learned something about love and what it is that I want in my life. And, I’m better for this…I have more to give back to the world because I’ve known him.
    In my lifetime, I’ve loved a number of signs (or thought I did) — this one is different.  It goes deeper and touches something that is transformational.  I’ve been with another Virgo, Cancer, Aries, Leo(s) — this man is the best fit by far.  I have a sense of peace with my Scorpio that I’ve not had with the others.  I know that this sounds strange in some ways, reading some of  the posts above, but for me it is true. Here, there is a fit, and a harmony.  I don’t have to be anything but who I am, nor he anything but who he is, to make things work.  We get each other, intuitively.  And, this is a great place to be.
    For those Virgos with negative Scorpio experiences, I am sorry.  But, I encourage you to look deeper at the relationship and yourself.  Maybe your Scorpio wasn’t yet fully evolved, or had mitigating influences (mine is probably a bit older than most of yours and lived, loved, and learned a bit before coming into my life.)   Don’t give up on them in total because of your experience.  And, guessing that I am a bit older than most of you, I will say that life is large and you will meet many people along the way.  Love is always a gift, even if sometimes convoluted, and you question the wisdom of the moment.  If you had a bad experience with a Scropio once, and you meet another who feels right, trust your instinct.  It might just be about the right time, place and person.
    Best to you all :-).

  47. StellarGirl May 20th, 2012

    i am a virgo in the truest since of the word, i have all of the good & bad qualitites of her too, mostly good! very hot headed, i abhore unfairness & scorps are very unfair. done get me wrong, i love my scorp, but i often wonder if i truly like him! he is all of what has been said above, the good & the bad. i’ve been punished for days, but w/the expectation that i should be perfect or always on point. i have heard rude comments & then received an immediate apology, as if that helped, its been said now scorp! to be so in-tune, ya’ll are cluless at best! when you are in-tune, you since the hurt you are causing & out of love & respect, you STOP, CEASE & DESIST! But no, you simply vouch for your mishap & move past it, expecting others to forgive you instantly! what if i want to be like you & hold a grudge? what if i want to be like you & smile in your face, but silently plot to underhand, undercut or leave you? how would you like that? i am loyal to a fault, until i know its your fault that i am no longer happy! which does take quite a bit, despite your judgmental beliefs of me. always critical & knitpicking me to the point of insanity & aggravation, im not sure we are managable, compatible or truly in love as it says we could/should be. it saddens me, b/c i have given my all & i feel persecuted & i have lost a great deal of respect for you. even the guy above FAILED MISERABLY to see that his Virgo female moving on was HIS fault, after his MOM died (sorry for that, but dont punish others!) & he distanced himself, it is not our nature to CHASE or beg to be treated as we should be or as you have been! we are not mind readers or psychics either! how was she to know if you did not tell her? that was unfair of you to erase HER when SHE didnt do anything wrong! she gave you space, space you obviously needed! & you decide to be friends again as if you are doing her a favor, but now she has moved on! oh well, you got what u deserved. i am usually a nice, loving, caring & an awesome person to be around, but now I feel awkward, angry, slighted, slightly miserable, unhappy, confused, in a daze, bewildered, and more! w/ my scorp man. i am hurt that it has come to this, but sick of being the problem, the issue, the only one wrong, blah blah blah! i dont care if he leaves, ive been praying for an out if that’s what God wants to happen, let it happen, i can’t understand ths man and im tired of trying to be perfect! for him, when he sits there being HIM 100% & doesn’t feel bad about it at all! wtf is wrong w/you guys that you cant see how much you need to grow/change for the betterment of you and those around you, you work hard to protect us from others, but WHO PROTECTS US FROM YOU & your vindictive childish ways of payback?? huh? what defense do we have but LOVE, & even that GETS OLD! You give, change, try & still feel BORED! That intense quietness guys can be read/translated as a BORE! Im so bored i could scream, the constant need to correct or control, the smart ass mouth and comments only to read me the riot act when I get smart or disagree w/him! you guys are good at taking care of others true, but in anyway that is NONEMOTIONAL. You lack the common sense to understand a virgo woman’s TRUE nature, which is a loyal, loving, nurturing creature-that has your best interest at heart, she’s not vindictive by nature! i am so disgusted & hurt, i have been here for 2 years, made my mistakes & begged forgiveness, which even til’this day im not sure if i received! no i did NOT CHEAT,nothing even close to that. i went through his phn b/c i was curious if this PERFECT ACTING PERSON WAS REALLY.. IN FACT PERFECT! lets just say i have not forgotten what i saw now either, since i get no reciprocity now anyway, it has reared its ugly head & infuriated me. now i am angry & i dont have a clue what i really want anymore. everyone thinks we are the perfect couple, but they dont see/hear what i do. smh! whatever happens-happens! im gonna work on me and either he will follow suit or fall away! either way, as the rest of you virgo women know, I AM A CHAMELEON & STRONG ENOUGH TO SURVIVE!!!

  48. platoniczombie April 6th, 2012

    I find what a lot of people have said about us male Scorps troubling. I just hope all of you out there with negative experiences know that there are two types of Scorpio’s: unevolved, and evolved. And judging from a lot of the posts, there are a lot of experiences with unevolved Scorpio’s happening in this world. Hang in there, and don’t let one experience ruin a chance at happiness.
    My story (hope this helps reveal a few things to nonScorpios, and assure those Scorpios still trying to figure stuff out):
    I don’t profess to be the perfect Scorpio. I try to be, but – as any Scorpio being truthful about themselves will tell you – we have a lot of emotions bubbling around inside, many of which are hard to pinpoint which means next to impossible to understand. Now, recently, I have found myself falling hard for a Virgo female. We met through a mutual friend (who happens to be my best friend) about two – no! three and a half years ago (wow… has it really been that long?). I’ve been a guarded individual throughout the majority of my life thus far, because in the majority of my relationships I’ve been burned. I was raised by a single mom and was taught to love and respect women from an early age. This meant that when I fell in love, I fell in love with my entire being; because I believe she (the love interest) deserved that respect. Unfortunately, there are women out there who do not find that desirable. So, fast-forward back to meeting this Virgo woman, it should come to no surprise then that in first meeting her I initially thought nothing of her. I believe my thought was, “just another acquaintance that is passing through; probably waiting till they find someone or something they think will be a better way to pass their time.” But she began to hang out with my group of friends more and more. Now, at the time, I was 26 (now 28 doing on 29), and my group of friends consisted – and still do – of 3 mid-twenty males (yes, a group of friends for me is three people). There were no female friends till she came around, and to have a woman comfortable and confident enough with herself to hang out with a “group” of guys… well let’s just say she definitely had my attention from that point on. We hung out more and more as time passed, and more and more we began to hang out with just each other. The more alone time I got with her the more I felt I got to really know her, and the more she got to really know me. Unfortunately, I met her at the wrong time. Not because either of us were dating someone at the time, but because I was, and still am, going through a tough personal time. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer and her health had been declining. She eventually passed in July of 2011. My mom and I always had a special connection/bond, which makes since because she was born on July 6th (which makes her a Cancer). So, I lost a mother, and a best friend. It hasn’t been a year since her passing, so the scar is very fresh and it hurts even as I type this out. But it needs to be brought up, because I have been trying to deal with that while also confronting my feelings for this Virgo woman. I find her (the Virgo woman) beautiful inside and out. She’s smart, funny, sexy, flawed, etc… I recognize she’s not perfect, because hey… nobody is. But being flawed is part of what makes everyone beautiful! I digress; I find so much in my life uncertain now. I always kind of have, but having lost the one person that loved me despite seeing the worst of me was devastating. The time I took away to grieve (though I believe I will forever be grieving) resulted in a drift between me and the Virgo woman, because I didn’t really talk to her (or anyone for that matter) while I grieved. I didn’t intend for that to happen, in fact that was the last thing I wanted, but it happened. I admit it was partly my fault, because if people who I consider my friends don’t contact me once in a while, I cease communicating with them even though I want to. It’s not exactly pride, its more belief of what I think a friend should be expected to do. If they are a friend they will check in on you if you haven’t contacted them; especially when you don’t do social media (I don’t do facebook; in fact, this will probably be my only post on here. I don’t do things like this normally). Well, needless-to-say she didn’t contact me, so I didn’t contact her. She did eventually text me (I’m not going to lie) but by the time she did I had already deleted her number and had to ask who it was that texted me. (Don’t get the wrong idea. Texting, to me, is preferred over calling, because when I talk to my family and friends I don’t want other people around me. I want my privacy to talk, and generally that’s hard to get on a cell phone.) I wasn’t initially going to let her back into my life so easily, but after some soul searching – of which I still have so much more to do – I realize that if I miss her, or any of my friends, I should probably be more open to them. It’s hard for me to do, because there is a sense of not being in control. But control is never really something we or anyone else ever have. See, a lot of us Scorpio’s don’t make the connection that the constant emotional flux within and our stoic exterior means we’re not in control. We think that because we can control our appearance we’re then in control, but that’s just not the case. I see that now. (Yikes! This story of mine has become wordy. I apologize. Stay with me, I’m almost done) So, I have started talking to this beautiful Virgo woman again, but she is now in a relationship with someone. We still have our one on one hang outs that make me feel like if the world were to end while we were together I wouldn’t care; we have our fun banter back and forth that make me love her more and more, and I have admitted to her that I had a crush on her. (Hey! One step at a time. I’ll eventually admit to her that I’m head over heels in love with her.) But I still have a lot of personal problems to work out, and she’s got a boyfriend; see, flaws. I have omitted some things; some of these things would make me look good and some probably bad. But I believe I’ve given a decent glimpse into, at the very least, this man’s rambling Scorpio mind. I hope this helped someone out there.

  49. allie94 March 13th, 2012

    I find this article to be very accurate. I’m a virgo girl and I’ve been with my scorpio guy for about 4 months. There was instant chemistry between us when we first bumped into each other at a bus stop, I noticed him right away! At first he walked right by me, although I knew he noticed me too, and suddenly he turned around to come back and talk to me. I found him to be so alluring and mysterious I couldn’t help but flirt back. There was just something about him. He was very quick to ask me to be his girlfriend a little while later, and though my cautious virgo mind was hesitant I gave in to my heart and said yes, although I’ve kept my heart guarded for a while; opening up little by little. 
    He is a very loving and loyal guy, going to such lengths as to ride his bike hours to come see. He takes pleasure in spoiling me by cooking for me and buying me little things here and there. He always calls me in the night or webcams with me on facebook randomly, saying he just wanted to see my “beautiful” face or hear my voice. I have to say he is slowly but surely getting under my skin, in a good way of course! 
    However he does have some typical scorpio traits. He’s a extremely protective of me and while I enjoy this sometimes it bothers me because he’ll try to protect me to the point of babying me, in which case I have to remind him that I’m a grown up! He also can be very jealous and suspicious sometimes, and when we do argue (which is rarely) he’ll give me the silent treatment. And when I get angry, I tend to shut down too, so it’s hard for both of us to communicate. I think that is the key to a scorp/virgo relationship, both sides have to put everything on the table. Because we can both be quite secretive (for different reasons) we need to make an effort to communicate what we are thinking and feeling. 
    Nonetheless, I love my scorpio! 🙂

  50. Scorpio1984 October 11th, 2011

    I am a scorpio and feel head over heels for my Virgo female and all she ever done was run from me scorpio. We been together for almost a year. Just the other day she Virgo told me not to communicate with her Virgo anymore. Yea it was in an argument but still all I scorpio have been trying to do is love her Virgo and have her stop running. Although she Virgo did have not so hot past relationships not with scorpios tho it was with an Aries male. I scorpio got her virgo many gifts even sent her Virgo money while she Virgo was on these trips. So you virgos back off us good scorpios. In my intense nothing was good enough my scorpio love my scorpio caring my scorpio nurturing my scorpio non judgmental ways. Still to this day I scorpio male love my Virgo female but I scorpio am still dumb founded to what I scorpio have done wrong to my Virgo female to never get replys to texts return phone calls or anything from the Virgo female. All she virgo ever did was critique critized and ran from me scorpio. I tried having her virgo stop having such a negative out look on her Virgo past. No body is truly perfect no zodiac sign is. We all zodiac signs make mistakes it’s life you plural life learn and grow. I scorpio male love cherish yearn desire and want back my Virgo female back in my scorpio arms. Now you female virgos please tell me what I scorpio male am or doing or did wrong. I scorpio male have tried all my magic charms tricks the whole shoot and match. Through all her Virgo adventures or trips I scorpio have been loyal honest and did nothing but try to comfort her Virgo. Just to get ignored or treated like a monkey who flew pooh across the dining room and the pooh landed on the generations of passed down luxious china set of dishes. To all you Virgo females is it just me scorpio male who fell flat or short of my luck with her Virgo or is it the Virgo female cuz virgos stay stuck like chuck on bad past experiences and don’t give a true lovely likable lovable caring nurturing compassionate non judgmental scorpio a fighting chance. I scorpio male say the past is the past leave it there leave it alone and just grow from it move on. I scorpio male love you because you Virgo female are were you Virgo female are in life. Not I scorpio male love you because of your Virgo past. We all zodiac signs have a past either good bad or indifferent. It is still your all zodiac signs past just pick yourself all zodiac signs and grow from it. It’s not a past if you all zodiac signs keep going back to it or not learning from it.

  51. san03 September 9th, 2011

    @jamie- I am totally agree wid u and every single word is correct.I felt that u r narrating ma story. I am virgo female and ended my 2 yrs relationship wid a scorpion man.Same situation n same prbs.Dey r gud liars and punish u only. He would abandon me and our relationship for days and disappear without a word. N den back wid his lies n fake storys. Sumbdy tell bloody scorps dat virgos r nobody’s fool.He ws nt a giver,but want everythng.In 2 yrs, he gave me just 1 red rose when we met first time.He used 2 sleep arund evry single women he met. For him lust is love.Dey just knw hw 2 use u and play wid ur emotions.

  52. Powerofthe4 August 12th, 2011

    @VeryVirgo911 I feel the same exact way…its really amazing…we’ve been together for about 6 months

  53. jamieask May 6th, 2011

    Sorry to all you good scorps out there! I had a rotten one, and most of my girlfriends have too!

  54. jamieask May 6th, 2011

    Many of you are spot on about scorps! except for the one who said he showered her with gifts!!! This is far from accurate, I am a virgo woman that just ended my 2yr relationship with a deceitful, manipulative,cheap, vindictive scorp! Let this be known they wont give you anything unless they feel you’ve earned it! Scorps start off great, thats how they get you..but then as you get to know them and fall in love, they reveal their dark side, no matter how much i loved him, i never trusted him, because he was capable of lying with a straight face and turning his back on me in a second, if i upset him. I gave him all the loyalty, love and attention, in the world,(thats true virgo nature) and got nothing but lies, mind games, punishment and empty promises in return. He was a taker not a giver! He would keep everything from me, his thoughts, his feelings, you never knew what he was thinking, and when i would catch him in lies, he would become verbally abusive and then punish me by not speaking to me for days. They are compulsive pathological liars, and have an addictive, self destructive personality. He would always turn things around and make me feel like i was imagining things, even when i had evidence!! He was completely selfish, self absorbed, and would always make me feel like i didnt matter to him at all. He would lie his way in and out of everything. They are very controlling,mean, abusive and selfish when they want to be. In 2yrs he only bought me 2 gifts and only because i had to ask. and whenever he did anything remotely nice for me he would say “dont get used to it”. One thing he did do was tell me he loved me everyday, but you cant believe anything they say because there is usually an alterior motive. I never caught him cheating but i accused him and he never denied it. They are sneaky and always doing things behind your back. You have to be quick and always look out for yourself, because they will take advantage of you if you let them. If you show any sign of weakness they will use it to their advantage.
    My scorp would constantly punish me, whenever i upset him or we had a fight, he would abandon me and our relationship for days and disappear without a word! Someone commented about how to get rid of them, by giving them a list of everything thats wrong with them or that they do that hurts you and you wont hear back from them. That couldnt me more true. I had a fight with my scorp and of course he punished me by silent treatment for 5 days, this was typical of him. so finally i had enough, i wrote him scorp a very long email about all the hurt and pain he contiuously causes me and if he refuses to speak to me, i will have no choice but to end things, sure enough i never heard back from him. Gone just like that, after 2yrs, without a goodbye. They never communicate and they never break up with you, they just turn their back and avoid you!

  55. Seth April 9th, 2011

    Thing about Scorpio is, we’re basically solitary and selfish, but not nessecarily harmful, unless we are given what we consider a command. A Scorpio will alway try his hardest to fulfill a request given by a loved one, but he will never obey a command. He may carry out what was demanded, but know this, we are always keeping score. It’s not something malicious, it’s as natural as breathing to us, and the only logical way to make sure we’re getting a fair shake. You never find a Scorpio in a grey zone, he is good, or evil, and nothing in between. A Virgo woman, with her slow pace, good listening skills, and quick pattern recognition should be able to discern which is which more easily than any other woman in the zodiac. Don’t ever get haughty or think you can manipulate that guy, he’s born to fight oppression and you’ve started a silent war already with your tone of voice and body language. He DID notice that the inflection in your voice being condescending, no matter how subtle you might think it was. Watch being judgemental and you just might end up with an angel that uses that agression to fight for you instead of that devil you can conjured to fight against you. Virgo is the most healthy woman for a Scorpio to be with because she mitigates the worst traits he has naturally, without scheming to change him ( rest assured, his worst fear is being controlled, which is why unevolved scorpios try to beat people to the punch and control them first) . the Virgo woman is the perfect jungian archetype for a scorpio man. Virgo ladies, if your Scorpio man starts with his bullshit mind games, turn the conversation concrete with facts and figures, there is no counter to that, and don’t let him pull you into that subjective emotional ocean and drown you. Don’t ignore red flags and call them yellow

  56. VeryVirgo911 March 31st, 2011

    @ IntenseScorpio ~ Wow, thank you so much for telling the beauty of a Virgo ~ Scorpio relationship! I am a 30 year old Virgo woman and I have been in a relationship with a Scorpio man for 3 years now, it has been the most amazing relationship of my life. In him I have found more than a husband, I have found my best friend. Both Virgo and Scorpio are very loyal and love hard! We keep a very open and honest relationship. We work together as a perfect team, well almost perfect. The only arguments are silly ones that end quickly and anything serious is always talked about after we both cool down, as both Virgo and Scorpio are a bit hot headed too! My Scorpio is very loving, caring, smart, strong, loyal, dependable and a true leader! I can’t imagine life without him! He supports me and always knows what direction to take us in business or life. If I am not sure, he is and he instills confidence in me! He is amazing in so many ways!

    Scorpio does have to be patient with Virgo, we do have a tendency to want things our way, lol. We can be tender hearts too, even if we don’t show it. Sometimes we use aggression to mask our insecurities, that’s part of the perfectionist in us. We are a bit submissive to the right man but still want to be able to speak our opinion and be validated. I agree that both Virgo and Scorpio are in it to the end when they find the Yin to their Yang. I love my Scorpio and I look forward to many many more amazing years!

  57. Mary-Anne March 14th, 2011

    So I really (honestly) did not go ahead with the revenge plan. I happened to meet someone else in an effort to forget about him. I ended up bumping into him at a club with a new guy I had taken interest in. I carried on with the new guy and really was trying to avoid him at all cost. he ended up making a fool of himself and trying all ridiculous things to get my attention. it didn’t work and I actually was carrying o0n with my life. until he told me how he felt about me and made me understand the miscommunications. he isn’t engaged and its a ploy to keep people out of his business and he like me. I’m so over joyed and I really think I going to fall for this guy cause his personality, humour, intelligence astound me. he lavishes me with so much attention that I cant help but be blown away. he can be so sensitive and yet such an insensitive brute at the same time…

  58. confused and frustrated March 11th, 2011

    I am a virgo women who have been with a scorpio man for 17 years. we have 2 children and i am deeply in love with him. It seems that i am just getting to learn this man after 17 years. He is secretive, loving, caring, mysterious, egotistical, mean and i can go on and on.with all that said I am confused sometimes as to his intentions. He is very out going and have plenty of friends. I think some times I am jealous because he’s so outgoing and he tells me i need to go out with my friends and don’t worry about what he is doing. He has an addictive personality. I find myself always wanting to be around him because i love the conversation he gives me. He is like jekyl and hyde…he can seems distant at times..We are not married and he just found out he has a 20 year old daughter…I think sometimes he’s with me until he finds someone better…I feel I am a wonderful women who any man would love but can’t imagine my life without him and i don’t want to because we share wonderful moments as well….

  59. false March 10th, 2011

    you know what im a virgo woman and i have talked to a scorpio male for like a year and a couple months we are not together but i do like him alot but he has a girlfriend the reason we are not together is because he play to many head games he dont share his feelings at all with me theres no reason to be with him because if he cheating on his girl that he says he love with me then he would cheat on me and im not going down like that my thing is i just cant let him go we stopped talking for like 3 months but that didnt work cause he came right back to me so i could never be in a relationship with a scorpio because they are all the same smh!!!!!

  60. IntenseScorpIo March 8th, 2011

    Wow.Scorpio’s are not as bad as most of you “Virgo’s” are claiming us to be. We’re actually very loving/ caring individuals. We’re affectionate/aggressive and we like to protect everyone we love. We also are efficient when it comes to making money. We will make you experience romance of magnitudes that some signs are incapable of.Honestly, I feel like Virgo’s are indecisive,insensitive at times and a bit prudish in bed but with time yo’ll eventualy open up.I love how intellectual virgo’s are and how they communicate. However, everything does not need to be criticized. Sometimes things should just be.

    For those of you who were cheated on by Scorpios or eft hanging..there’s probably a detailed reason for that. If you don’t show a scorpio the love/affection and time they deserve. You will lose them instantly because we love with no limit and hard. Every Virgo i’ve known has cheated on their partners numerous times. The Virgo woman i’m with already had a man when i started talking to her and was still with him after we had sex. She broke it off eventually. bt Im not going to label them as cheaters or mentally abusive. Although, i feel like virgo’s can be mentally abusive when they don’t tell you whats exactly on their mind unless its critical.

    I’m Currently with a Virgo now. She’s sweet, unpredictable, hot-tempered, intellectual,gorgeous organized, talkative, shy, etc. I am crazy about her. I just really hate when we argue. She claims that when we argue.. it seems as if we just dnt understand eachother. It’s not that we don’t understand eachother. It’s that we both want the last word and that doesn’t work. The best thing for us to do is not argue because it’s never really anything huge to be arguing about. Our make-up sex is off the charts! and we can really stir up a grand meal in the kitchen. We compromise. I can be a bit jealous at times but my virgo tries to reassure me. I’m only jealous because she is an amazing woman nd im possessive of all her beauty Nd grace. We would like kids together eventually but we’re taking everyday one step at a time. Everything is perfect But I just wish she was a little more affectionate & more open. Otherwise we have something I’ve been waiting for, for a quite awhile. She see’s the good in me and brings out the positive. I love her for that. She just “likes” me..alot and thats fine. As long as she knows what im feelin. We’re different but alike on some aspects. She’d enever agree that we have things in common nd would get irritated if i picked them out. lol but at the end of the day..we give eachother so much happiness.

    I think at the end of the day. If youre a Scorpio with a Virgo or a Virgo with a Scorpio…the best thing is to explicitly show how you feel for one another. Stop over analyzing the situation and put EVERYTHING on the table. Scorpios and Virgos can be’s in our nature but we must Open up to one another if we want something desirable. Virgo’s show your scorpio that you admire him. Compliment him. Virgo’s love to suck up Praise but I barely see one shoot praise back at the one they received it from. Scorpio’s PLEASE take your time with these virgo women and let them know you are in a relationship or seeing someone before you start talking to them, a virgo woman will appreciate this.. She loves the competition anyways. Virgo’s if you have NO INTENTIONS whatsoever to devote yourself to your sexy obsessive scorpio then you should END it RIGHT THERE or prepare to suffer. As scorpio’s we’re intuitive and can sense when someone is not being genuine. Don’t let us find out that you’re being untrue to us because we are vengeful souls. We can HATE just as much as we LOVE. Spread love and you’ll receive love. It just takes time and work. Virgo’s..STOP Expecting overnight progress, it will happen in due time& if you see your Scorpio trying..acknowledge him. Also, we sometimes like the aggression..try something new with us in the bed. Come out of your conservatism nd know that we want to take you there just as much as you want to take us there. IF both Signs are just up front..plain & simple.. a lot of time could be saved. Both Scorpio Nd virgo have plenty of positive traits. There’s no reason why they cnt make things work. If you’re not willing to yourself frm the minor headaches. Anything worth having is worth the work and Don’t make someone your Priority when you ARE just a nother Option. be true to your hearts. Remember for a virgo Nd a work..there has to BE TRUST & COMMUNICATION.

  61. Jenny February 28th, 2011

    @ Mary-Anne: I agree with Virgette “NEEEXT” is the right word form him. He may truly love you that time and can’t resist your Virgo charm, leaving you is the right but painful choice for him. No need for revenge.

  62. Jenny February 28th, 2011

    @ Anthony: Let Virgo girl know you exist, contact her through text or email first. 2 text messages is enough.

  63. Mary-Anne February 23rd, 2011

    thanks Mahalia atleast your on my side… I wanna make him pay!

  64. Mary-Anne February 23rd, 2011

    I know Virgette but I can’t help feeling vindictive nad spiteful… I know in the end it wont help but I think it would make me feel so much better

  65. Mahalia February 23rd, 2011

    Wow Mary-Anne, one word for you REVENGE!!!!! What a dick head you sound really nice and i hope you make him want to have when he cant. PEACE!!!!

  66. Virgette February 23rd, 2011

    Mary-Anne, wow.. What a bastard! How dare he lead you on this way telling you he’s been thinkin of you YET he’s engaged? What a scumbag.

    I’ve got one word for him honey: NEEEEEEEXT!!!!

    Forget about him, do you want a man like that? Hells to the NO! What a dirtbag..

  67. Virgette February 23rd, 2011

    Wow Kathy..

    What a dilemma you have there. I dont know how relevant this may be to you as I am nowhere near the level of experience (perhaps not even in the same ballpark lol) that you seem to have. So bear with me here.. 😛

    I, as a Virgo, tend to shy away from men who are overtly showering with their affection… It sucks for me because that sort of attention sort of repels me, makes me run in the other direction if it’s what I’d consider “un-called for” or unexpected.. Not part of our divine plan since it isnt something we (ourselves) are puttin “out there” but instead it’s comin from an outside source…

  68. Mary-Anne February 23rd, 2011

    I’m hopelessly in love with a scorpion man. the story becomes interesting because he is my one of my big brother’s childhood friends. we recently met and there was an instant attraction but we both shied away and silently suffered. the following week we met up (by chance I thought- only to find out it was orchestrated)and true to my virgo roots I was aloof and distant. I tried to hide how much I liked him only to get a pleasant surprise- he likes me too. he expressed himself articulately and i was quite taken aback. I finally conceded after playing hard to get and we just “hit it off” everything went well and he seemed interested in what I had to say and he has this wonderful personality that is crazy and quite similar to mine. everything went well and the next morning things were still on track… we even spent most of the following day together getting to know each other. Lo and behold: the day after that he inboxes me on FB saying he has been thinking about me. only to find out he is engaged and when I asked him about us, he never responded. I haven’t heard from him since… I feel so hurt and used. Everything I’ve read about scorpios is what I though I knew about him but he has turned out to be a snake. What to do, what to do?

  69. kathleen February 15th, 2011

    Should be casual friends, and not casusl friends.

  70. kathleen February 15th, 2011

    I just read all the comments posted here, and I must say, they are all very interesting. I have been bothered by recent developmemts, and decided to google the compatibility of a Virgo woman and Scorpio man. I clicked on the first article I found. The problem is that I am a very independent Virgo woman (early 40’s) who loves intellectual conversations. Then, there is this Scorpio man (early 60’s). We have been casusl friends for about nine years, and I have never looked at him in any other way. Then, one day, via e-mail, he decides to tell me he is “in love” with me. I was very taken aback by this revelation, and to some extent it left me feeling very uncomfortable with the friendship, to the point where I decided early this year that I must tell him I have no intimate feelings for him. However, I am yet to do so, primarily because I want to preserve the friendship. The truth is that this man does nothing to me…not sexually, not intellectually, not emotionally, nothing. So should I pretend I am romantically interested in him, or shold I just disappear, or should I simply tell him the truth. Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee help.

  71. Stunna February 9th, 2011

    This is a good pair, I’m with a virgo girl and im a scorpio we loving it. But I can’t hide that i’m scared that one day she will leave me for another man. We got to face it thats how they are… They really good people, humble, down to earth but it is said that she can leave her man for a guy she met on the coastline. Plz people don’t take this bad I don’t mean that they aren’t good people. I love my Virgo girl….:)

  72. its me January 10th, 2011

    well said the ‘second above’ from my comment..I completely second to you on every part..including the capability of Virgo Woman to handle the scorps. With their Quiet, analytical and intuitive mind they themselves appear to be enough mysterious to many guys (scorp is not an exception to Somehow even i have felt that Virgo women are really one of the most desirable of all the zodiacs..Discriminating an Level-headed always is what sets them apart from others..And i appreciate your analysis of female signs of zodiacs..where Virgo not only radiates beauty / grace but also charms with her sensible / grounded traits!! Definitely once a Virgo knows her Real Worth…she can make any man feel thrilled for sheer intensity, depth and substance. So all egoistic, self-absorbed and fake / superficial wary of a Virgo Woman..for she can simply read it even at a distance!! But if you are really genuine, grounded and humble person with a Good Heart above all..You are most likely to win over her..n let me tell you 1 more thing that…if you do get her..then automatically you would start feeling the most lucky guy on earth…!! That’s the Pure Love of Virgo..Cheers 🙂

  73. Dark lord Scorpio January 8th, 2011

    Interesting article. I find it highly peculiar that any Scorpio make worth his salt would degrade himself so much to shower any woman with gifts and affections of love when he has only just started to get to know her. Speaking from personal experience it would either take some Jedi mind trick, hypnosis or a government mind control program to get me to waste my time on a woman until she has confirmed through her word and actions that she is worth it.

    The point about virgo ladies striving perfection is highly relevant because it seems that they cannot get over the issue that a lot of people in the world are pretty much useless or fractured in some way. As a Scorpio male this is something known almost by second nature. Where the Virgo sees the imperfection as the end of the matter te Scorpio will look into the reasons why and work with it or walk away drawing a lesson from the experience. The Virgo just seems bemused and unable to get beyond it.

    Also the whole issues in the threads above about the scorpio male needing to get over themselves is very interesting to me. For a scorpio male it is neither here nor there how we present ourselves it is the content that we are interested in. Therefore if I come across arrogant or humble means nothing to me it is just a means to an end. Whereas the way of communicating seems to be all important to the virgo.

    These are not necessarily impediments to a successful relationship if they are identified and discussed. Without discussion and respect they will cause fissures and cracks in any relationship. A less refined scorpio will not understand this an will be his or her own gravedigger with a relationship with a Virgo.

    Just my thoughts on this matter but things that have come to mind when reflecting on what has been said.

  74. sexy virgo November 29th, 2010

    i being with 3 scorp and a 4th one is coming hes way!. separate from their good and bad things!. what is it about virgo women and scorpio males?. i ATTRACTED them like bee to honey!. its unreal. lately I FEEL i can handle and manuver them easily!. cheaters are all men and women in the zodiac if we dont care enough or we are not happy enough!. i have a scorp asc I read them easily too easy to read for me this scorp!> very emotional, great in bed, extremely jealous, and i have to agree one of my experience with one was phisical the guy wanted to choked me, he even showed me his fist once!. but that dnt mean all scorp are violent. another common thing is that they are extremist, obesssive, compulsive and abusive. Personality that draw many scorps into drugs!. they are also loyal to friends and very protective of the people they love!.
    but when u decided to dump a scorp and still loves u, he is going to resent you and love u at the same time. he will talk bad about you then, when u dump him…but whenever people are not looking he will beg for you to take him back!. maybe for revenge hahaha funny scorp u got to love them once u understand their full of ego and emotions!> not a very smart combination but one a VIRGO WOMAN can handle!. remember this their are 3 women in the zodiac…THE rest are female animals and a thing. VIRGO are not only women as geminis and aqua but we are also analitical, loyal and stable a quality any zodia male goes crazy for. WE ARE like a superior species always in control of others, and the current situation. ONCE a virgo women know herself enough is very hard to impress her with ego, vanity AND superficiality!. we are looking for an equal intelligent, human partner, who is can rationalize, caring, loving and mature!.

  75. Juegos online November 25th, 2010

    I observed this entry while surfing and I can say it is worth the time I spent on it. You can be sure that I’ll be back for more

  76. virgo inlove to scorpio November 12th, 2010

    im inlove right now to a scorpio man.. We get along very much.. we talked alot of things, love and life.. i loved the characteristic of a scorpio. For now our relationship is in smooth sailing. He give me his love, faithful even we are in long distance relationship. As our astrological sign, my scorpio man is in year of the RAt and me, year of the MOnkey. we are 100% compatible. As for I gave it all to our Almighty God, that we will continue love each other:)

  77. Anamika November 10th, 2010

    Currently m dating scorpion man.For me he is still a mysterious charecter but still kind,helpful ,supportive and understanding.Its very difficult to change his mind for any firm decision he takes.I dont know how far this relationship will go.but mine is true love for him .

    Would like to know more about virgo woman-scorpion man affair.

  78. p November 7th, 2010

    im a virgo woman and scorpios are the only sign that can handle me i knw them like da back of my hand..the good thing about them is only the sex if u a virgo u know scorpios bring out ur sexual side..they really take u there if u know wat i mean but the bad part is they lie cheat and manipulate they love to play mind games and somehow i always end up falln for them and end up gettn my heart broke like how im feeln right now over one…i currently broke it off wit da scorpio man i was just dating he play to many mind games and i still manage to fall in love wit him ugh i wish love came with a receipt or refund cus all he gave me was false advertisement like all scorpio do on the surface is wat exactly wat they want u to see til u really start to see there true colors ..he wasnt anything like i thought he was so WORD ADVICE TO ALL VIRGO WOMEN STAY FAR AWAY FROM SCORPIO MAN!!!

  79. Virgo October 8th, 2010

    I will be married to my Scorpio man 11 yrs Oct 17,2010….He was AMAZING when we dated gentle ,sweet, kind, soon as we married on our wedding night he started mentally abusing me never constimated marriage til 18 hrs later his choice not mine!!! The mental abuse has stayed even to this day not ( just not as bad & easily managable) The physical abuse started after 2nd child @ 4 mnths of age…..Physical Abuse started 2 yrs & 4 mnths & 4 days after wedding…choking, punching, slapping,pulling my long hair & throwing me on the concrete…SCORPIOS ARE DANGEROUS he has ALWAYS threstend to kill me still I have people who know if I come up missing it is MY HUSBAND tell cops !!! I HATE HIM OH GOD HOW I HATE HIM!!!!I want out goin through vet assis.. to get me & my 10 yr old & 8 yr old OUT but still scared 2 ! watch ur back on scorpios !!!

  80. Alpha October 5th, 2010

    Henry, I just got out of a relationship with a Virgo women who is supposed to be a lesbian. She was absolutely in love with me. She wanted to have my babies and leave her lesbian girlfriend for me. Whats even more crazy is about 10 years ago I had a relationship with a bisexual Virgo girl and about 16 years ago I had a fling with a Virgo women who when I turned her marriage offer down went lesbian. Virgo women are live too deeply in there minds and want to make final decisions about everything so they tend to be very confused and even more dogmatic. Don’t worry this last girl ran me absolutely crazy. The Scorpio in me was seeing the truth about the virgo female but the truth scares virgo’s. Her attitude was unless I was willing to be her boyfriend than husband she would deny everything. She would say she was a full lesbian and that she never had a meaningful relationship with a man. Advice don’t tell a Virgo anything private. They have to tell other people it’s there nature.

  81. Henry A. Stone September 27th, 2010

    I am a Scorpio & I have a fling for a Virgo girl. The thing is, this girl is 75% into women. Bisexual. (People tell me she is 100% lesbian) but I doubt it since I’ve kissed her once and she has not put a stop by saying “she’s a lesbian or lets just be friends.” Anybody have any opinions or anything constructive to say?

  82. Vinod September 26th, 2010

    Nas, I already written posts but my pain is not easing off, may be I should learn to live with this feeling of acute pain hahahaaaaaaaaaaa, god bless you.

  83. Vinod September 26th, 2010

    I started one blog where I used to dump out all my emotions, they have no meaning at all without her but I feel so much that keeping those feelings inside hurts me so I submerged myself in my work and If still I get any time I used to write all my emotions at It hardly helped hahahaaaaaaa loving some one from your heart and soul and then just let her go without any reason, when you don’t even know where she is heading hurts, She is the only one I have got to share my feelings, but I guess I have to learn to let go things, I proposed her and everything changed she used to talk to me day and night but now hahahaaaaa she does not even pick up the phone that’s okay for me I understand, but the guy she is with I met him once he doesn’t seemed nice and could take care her, May be I am hurt so i am not able to judge, but I believe she is in fantasy, well I hope her fantasy becomes reality, what else I can do because for me life has always been so difficult. Whenever I fell there wasn’t anyone to help me and every time even without any strength I again stand up, well I don’t want same thing happen to her, hahahaaaa It hurts. Though it hurts more to see your loved one going away slowly-slowly but if its good for her than I don’t care I am ready to bear thousand times more pain than I am in right now. God be with her, I can survive in hell also but don’t leave her hand, If something happens to her I won’t be able to rest even in my grave. So please bless her and let me rest in peace.

  84. Vinod September 25th, 2010

    I am a Taurus guy(27), well I find this post interesting, I also wanna share, I met this Virgo girl 4 years back we are still great friends but somehow I fell in love with this girl, I don’t know but all these years I was in Philippines, Jakarta, Dubai, Bahrain and a lot many places I had opportunity to settle down in any of these countries but I came back for her, In all these years only one thing was consistent that is my love for her, I always felt she loved me more than i do, after coming back also we could not meet as her and my job was in different cities so every weekend I used to travel almost 1000 kms just to see her once, sometimes I spend 8-10 hrs. journey in standing and came to see her just for 5 mins., sometimes used to call her without saying anything just to hear her voice, though I never said I LOVE YOU we are so close I thought she already knows, She could share everything with me for her I changed my job and came to her city I proposed one fine day then she told me she is in love with another guy. I felt like my world has gone upside down but still I held myself and tried to go away but every time she brings me back sometimes she calls, sometimes she just gets so much worried about me she knows how I am. I have her boyfriends number but I never called him, I tried to return his visiting card to her but she refused she knows I won’t do anything stupid. I don’t know what is going on understanding between us is just so strong. But she says she loves Nik. I am also okay if everything goes well, but If that guy leaves her I just won’t be able to withstand that, this thought wakes me up from the middle of my dream, well right now I am following her orders that we will not see each other or talk she thinks this makes me insane hahahaaaaa she is still like a kid, but I know she won’t listen me so I am just waiting for her to get married properly or if needed I can always be back. I am open to her if she asks anything she gets the answer. I let her know upfront that it was I who used to give her blank calls occasionally. I am not worried about myself but for her what she’ll do, She seems like a confused girl about her feelings, I am staying here just to make sure that she goes fine as once gone I don’t know whether I will ever be back again as I don’t want to bring any misunderstanding between her and her boy friend. but still my heart aches for her sometimes I see bad dreams, I immediately call her and she also responds properly saying “Main theek hun”(I am okay). hahahahaaaa we already are in a relation but not expressing my feelings is going to cost me my life. hahahahaaaaaa, I know somewhere she has also got bound with this guy and just cannot step back as he is her childhood friend I pray to god this guy learn to love thousand times more than I do and GOD BLESS NAS.
    Nas If you are reading this post then listen to me “For me you need not to prove anything just be the way you are, good or bad, best or worst whichever way you are just be like that, You already know but once again I wanna say that even if you don’t utter a word I will understand, I will be fine” girl have some attitude, and stop worrying about me.

  85. chelsea September 21st, 2010

    i mean’t so say scorpio man, sorry guys!

  86. chelsea September 21st, 2010

    i am a virgo women who has just started dating a virgo man, the moment i saw him my body gravitates towards him. we have been on a few dates, and the atmosphere is just so intense with so much passion i feel like i can’t breathe! He lives so far away he travels so far to see me and he has waited hours for me to turn up(who ever said all virgos were great time keepers were disaluded) i can sence he is feircely loyal, protective and even jelious but this doesn’t put me off i know better than to let my heart lead my head but any virgo women is naturally hesisitant, he tells me im the only one and that no one has ever made him feel this way but we have barely known each other two weeks! i can’t say i don’t feel the same because i do, but i know the men of this zodiac are great actions and have a tendency to do this tango over and over because all scorpios love to tango, and i’m finding it very difficult to restrain myself HELP!

  87. jackieo September 21st, 2010

    Hi Virgo woman PLEASE run when you see a Scorpio male. You will be left standing along wondering what the HELL happen? They NEVER say goodby because, they always want to come back. The grass always look greener. They will CHEAT and LIE to you the entire time you are with them. They make you feel like you are the only person they care about but behind YOUR back it’s a different story. They are GREAT actors, ask your SELF what did you have to attact them to YOU? ( money, title on your job, or degree ) A scorpio is a actor they will only show their representative to you, you will never know who you are dealing with I know dated a male scorpio for four years. PLEASE LADY DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME! RUN! RUN! RUN! They will move on because they found someone to take your place that’s WHY they pick fights. They want you to LEAVE so they don’t feel bad.

  88. Cynthia August 31st, 2010

    I love my Scorpio guy very much, but his attention seems to be waning. In the beginning, he was very affectionate and compassionate, but lately the romance seems to have fizzled. I also notice he seems to do things to get me pissed off, rude or distant things that he knows will bug me, like walking waaaayyyy ahead of me when we go on a hike together. I try to speak to him calmly about things, but it seems like he then escalates it until the point where I get pissed off and then he an get mad at me because I get “mad at him all the time”, as he says. Then he wants to break up or give me the silent treatment for weeks. I said, why don’t you just take a break if you want one, or why don’t you just break up with me if you’re no longer interested. Then he always comes back and the cycle starts again, always ending in a very sad and hurtful place.

  89. Charlie August 23rd, 2010

    I’m a 28 year old Scorpio man. I never have been out with a Virgo women. I’m very loyal. I never realy believed in horoscope compatability before, but nothing else is working so I guess I should give this a try. Ha Ha!!

  90. Andrea August 6th, 2010

    Thanks Mel it helps what you said. And also I am not alone in the way I’d felt. I saw him up the road and He wen’t out of his way to walk right past me no word. So I didn’t either. He makes out I am the bad one. That I was mean to him? No I lost my trust in all men now. No matter who they are they all the same. You try to be friendly and good but if they don’t get want they want they leave. Friendship is gone! No more. I also went out with a Gemini they are boys that never grow up! They joke and lie! And have you and another girlfiend or a wife! Never again with them. No all men are the pits! All the same. I am staying single now. Keeping my guard up from them all. Okay as a friend but thats it. Been hurt too many times now and Scorpio put the icing on the cake!

  91. Richard July 5th, 2010

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  93. Sherr June 27th, 2010

    I am a virgo woman and am with a scorpio man. what i can say bout the article is, the characterististics being described about both sides are true. but there’s only one thing that bothers me, please hope u can tell me or advise me or something….


  94. Tommy May 26th, 2010

    I wonder if there is any advice you Virgo girls can give me. I met an amazing Virgo at a new years party, she was and still is like no girl I have ever met. Things went great we had to sleep together haha just cuddled talked didn’t do much. We had an 18th the next day and everyone got abit….mhmm (:D) next thing i know i wake up next to her and she said she carried me downstairs because I was so gone. I was given a wrong number by my mate and I didn’t get to contact her for 2 months, we hooked up again at hers went back to my mates and had to crash there and things led on we stayed up till 5am talking about anything and everything, got it on and she gave me her number. Then all of a sudden she has to move a few hours away and I don’t get to visit for about another 2 months (mind you I hate phone talk and that didn’t lead on to anything but giggling and chatting), called her up said i was in town got to visit her a couple of times but there was no talk of an “us” I had to leave the 2nd time because of the landlord so my luck had run short she asked if i wanted to go swimmin the next day “sweet this is my chance!” we ended up headin home early. Now I’m in the Australian army, after my assesment next week its off to trainin for about 5 months or so. I don’t know whether I should call up and just admit everything I feel, or hope that she is single at the end of the year which she has been this far but how would you guys feel if you hook up and then the guy goes off for so long. Any help would be greatly appreciated I’m so torn in what to do :S lol

    Thanks in advance – Tommy ^_^

  95. Amara May 23rd, 2010

    This comment is for comment #11 for the story Anthony shared.

    I am a virgo women and am currently in a relationship with a scorpio man. (though I am sad to say that things arn’t how they used to be…)
    My scorpio man and I have a bit of a long history… We first met in 2005 and it was indescribable!! The amount of passion we both had!! I was in a relationship (sort of) but I had been and was having problems in my current relationship when I first started talking to this scorpio man. Things had even gotten so bad in my relationship to the point of a violent fight, that my scorpio man drove 3 hours to where I was at to come pick me up!
    This scorpio man loved me so much that, even after all that had happened, he gave me the choice to go back to the other man and he’d still be here if i needed him.
    A few years later my scorpio man and I started talking more frequently and hanging out more and more. (Though through the years we would get together for a lunch every once and awhile. So we never really broke the friendship and remained friends through out those years.) During those years I was in a new relationship with an entirely new man. After leaving him, my scorpio man and I started hanging out more and I’d think back and wonder why I ever left thins man in the first place. I loved to hang out with him and loved how he made me feel and how I could just let myself go and be silly or whatever with out feeling uncomfortable or embarrassed! Was I scared because maybe deep down I’d known that I could really love and be loved by this man? And that I had to have some more life experiences in order for me to see this and to actually see him. Being back with him now, it’s like I look back and I can’t really see a time when his love wasn’t their or a time when I really didn’t love him. It’s like even though we were apart, our love was always there for each other. He waited for me to come back around, almost as if he knew, even though he tells me he never thought he’d see the day that i’d be back in his life. It’s been 2 years now.
    Something he said to me when I took the step and made the choice to be with him entirely, was “if you love something, let it go, and if it comes back that’s how you’ll know…”
    I wonder why it was so hard to make this step before? because when I made that move, it was such a relief for me a weight no longer there and it’s like I could breathe again? feeling so strange, yet so right, and our passion so intense…. why did I have to wait so long!!! I’m only grateful he was still there for me when I came back.
    I can’t say that she will come back to you and that you should wait. I’m not saying that at all, but saying that maybe she needs this experience to see and learn from. Now that she’s had a taste of the relationship you two have shared and her other one with her ex, she may need some time to see what she truely wants and what her heart desires…

  96. Anthony April 26th, 2010

    I’m a Scorpio man with a hopeless crush on an amazing Virgo women as well. We’ve known each other for a year or so and we’ve just recently started talking and spending more time together intimately. I knew I was drawn to her personality the second I heard her friendly/confident voice conversing with someone outside my my office door. I definitely faked a reason to take a walk to the drinking fountain in order to get a look at this one.

    Since we’ve gained mutual friends so I was able to get to know her without coming on too strong. The problem im having is that the timing for us isn’t really working out and i’m starting to lose hope.

    From the start we both were in serious relationships with other people however now both of us have broken up and single for roughly 7 months.

    I have enough romance experience to know not to move quickly so it was obvious to give it some time. Because of this I was able to watch from a safe distance of friendship as she would bring around a new guy and then shamelessly flick them away at the first sign of a flaw.

    Intimidating right?

    Hardly. Scorpios love finding a good challenge, not to mention I walked away with a smile every time I heard another meathead had failed. So just in the last 2 weeks things starting to heat up significantly and I couldn’t hold back anymore It finally felt right to make a move. The new feelings we were both throwing back at each other had us bother floating with excitement there was no denying it was something different for both of us. I’ve protected this moment for so long it felt as if she was working hard to enjoy it with me for just as long.

    Before I knew it my luck had came back and her ex boyfriend had showed up to reconcile for the last 3 years of having his head up his a**. The re-entery into her life had confused her so much I didn’t even have to ask after seeing the look in her face when she told me he was trying to get back in touch.

    We finally sorted this out and through soooo much patience and coaching I finally got her on some steady ground. Not as intense as it was before, but at least she felt more in control head she knew we could work things out on my end with no anxiety one at a time. I’ve never this much patience for any other women i’ve been with in my life to this point.

    Just a day ago her ex’s mother passed away in a car accident at 48. It was awful news for more then the fact it may have caused me to lose this girl after all. I let her run to his support without a fight for obvious reasons. It was hard to do with a smile on my face but I did. I told her not to worry on my end everything will be fine and she’ll know where to find me. It’s been a week and I still have made no attempts to contact in respect of giving her the space I know she desperately wants.

    I have to admit i’ve thought of her everyday and I need help with what you all think I should do? I feel as if I just grasp the hands of that elusive lady named destiny if only with just my fingertips when I think about her but do I stay or let this one go? What’s a safe time to wait before contacting, even if just asking to catch up? Ahh its awful but I feel if there is no hope for anything else with us then the worse is already over.

  97. Mel April 20th, 2010

    I will never date a Scorpio. They move too fast for my taste–thinking that it’s love or whatever when I show the slightest bit of interest. (So, I totally know how you feel Andrea! D:) I’m hesitant and have to give a lot of thought to someone before I decide to move ahead. They can’t just get the hint when I’m not interested, even when I say so or make it very obvious through my actions. One of them asked about the possibility of a relationship after I denied his kiss (we’d hung out only three or four times prior to this). I wanted to take it slow cuz I’d just gotten over my Gemini ex-fiancé and still had some stuff I needed to work out for myself, and the speed at which he was moving made me feel cornered. Our first date was good, in his defense, and scorpios are just easy to open up to. But hanging out a handfull of times won’t make me want to go steady with someone.

    Another seems to have finally gotten the hint that I’m not interested since he isn’t texting me 24/7 anymore, but he and the last example of a Scorpio still seem to think of themselves as being above everyone else.

    Another Scorpio is best friends with my Aries ex. Both are conceited pricks with big ego’s so it’s no wonder they’re friends. In short that’s why I HATE this Scorpio. His shit don’t smell like roses!!! Also, he always embarrassed me in front of Aries by making me look stupid when me and Aries dated. In front of boyfriends I do care about how I present myself so making me look stupid in front of them is a good way to make me greatly dislike you. The only positive thing I have to say about him is that he saved my ass with quick talking but that’s it.

    Scorpio guys–you want a Virgo girl? Learn some f**king humility, get over yourself, and go SLOW!

  98. Andrea April 19th, 2010

    I am a virgo woman who was with a Scorpio man. I will never go out with another. Right from the start I just wanted to be friends to take it slow. But He showered me with gifts and says He loved me and asked me to marry him! I couldn’t get rid of him! No matter how critical I was! I needed to trust again take it slowly as a friend. From the start it was ruined beacause he needed more! 1 year and a 1/4 later He just leaves with out a word He gives me the silent treatment and leaves me wondering, is it over? He won’t tell me. They are not good at communication when it comes to leaving! Why can’t they just tell you it’s over? It has been 4 months now and he has’nt replyed to my letter asking him is it over? I shall never trust another crazy intense cry baby and aggressive Scorpio again! How to get rid of a Scorpio give him a list of every thing that needs to change with him!

  99. lisa April 19th, 2010

    I am a virgo woman who has just started dating a scarpio man and I must say it has been great thus far…I just hope all that is said about our compatibility is true..:)

  100. Lisa March 30th, 2009

    I LOVE this article!

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