Virgo Woman and Aquarius Man Love Compatibility

The relationship of Virgo and Aquarius can be a little more challenging than others, but compassion and understanding can most certainly make it work. Misunderstanding each other’s unique and different love natures is most likely to create troubles because Virgo wants security and Aquarius wants freedom.

An Aquarius man has a very good take on life. He is a social butterfly with his many friends and acquaintances always around him. This man can see the past, be in the present, while seeing the future all at once. Aquarius man is well rounded and intelligent and also makes for a great humanitarian. He is often detached from the rest of the world but still he enjoys long-term relationships and is quite old fashioned.

A Virgo woman is calm and cool on surface, existing on the sidelines as more of an observer at first. In all aspects of life, she needs structure and efficiency. This is because she is extremely analytical, and uses her powerful observational skills to help her gain a precise and realistic view of the world around her. In a relationship, she is a sincere mate unless she finds her man to be unreliable. At the same time she also finds public displays of affection as insolent and tacky. She is flexible in nature and truly loyal and willing to give unselfishly to the man she loves.

It takes a great deal of patience on the behalf of Virgo woman for her relationship with Aquarius man to work. The Virgo woman enjoys being a wife and a mother — she takes great care of her family when they are ill or in need. He might find himself taking advantage of her good helpful nature since when in love with a man her devotion is unmatchable. She does not believe anyone owes her anything, which makes her very self sufficient and that gives Aquarius man a more careless view towards family and life. The downside to a Virgo woman is that she can be very critical of others including her man, knowing her way is the right way. Just behavior can make him detached and cold towards her leading to many new problems in their relationship.

Aquarius man is talented enough to be able to ball all of the things into one and achieve great results that sound very impressive to the Virgo woman. He shows her many new colors of life and gives her wings to fly and discover the dimensions never seen or heard. He becomes fascinated with many things and takes on many projects which cause him to neglect her from time to time. He does not do this purposely; it is that he has a curious mind by nature that needs to constantly be engaged. What brought these two together in the beginning slowly fades if he does not allows her to become involved in his interests. If he does not involve her, she becomes suspicious and begins to lose trust in him. Once she begins to not trust her Aquarius man, she starts to smother him not giving him the independence and freedom he needs to survive.

Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination, in case of Aquarius man and Virgo woman, furnishing is done by her and imagination is his part of the job. The Aquarius man and the Virgo woman have a beautiful union when they actually get involved with the purest and deepest feelings to share with each other. She always possesses the practical nature the relationship needs for stability and he continues to have the daydreams that keeps things light and enchanting. He melts the ice of his Virgo woman and makes her tremble with anticipation in the relationship and she promises him the hope for the future. Every bit of earth and every blow of breeze are full of new excitements and involvements for them to be happily enjoyed in each other’s arms.

The sexuality between the Aquarius man and the Virgo woman is the best attribute of their relationship. In fact it is the strongest bond that keeps them intact. He has many different attitudes toward sexual pleasure. One, if not many, will do the trick for his Virgo woman, stirring her sensuality and making her more expressive during love making. On the other hand, she is also able to arouse him to have more desire by nature than other woman. He makes her feel wanted, desired and physically needed, what more can a woman ask for. In their sexual intimacy there is a sort of antipathy, or opposing passion. Each strives to be the other, and both together make up one whole. Also the Aquarius man makes her feel as though without her sexual pleasure he cannot go on living. This is altogether a quite passionate paring with both the partners feeling unexpectedly satisfied in each other’s arms fulfilling their partner’s desires and making their love making a well worthy experience.

One thing that Aquarius man and Virgo Woman have in common is that they are both dreamers by nature. They are both indeed very intellectual beings, but that does not stop them from dreaming. Besides the magnetic sexual connection and dreams they share, there is not much else going on between them. There may be initial attraction but apart from that, there are hardly any positive attributes that may contribute to the relationship’s stability. In fact with time Virgo woman may also find her Aquarius man less considerate about her. And after a while, once they are off with their pleasant talks and all the common traits start diminishing, the negative traits start showing and making the relation worse. In this relationship, the partners have to accept each other as they are, rather than trying to change each other or else it can end in a bad and unworthy relationship.

  1. Ngauyak January 23rd, 2023

    I’m dating a Virgo girl.. please suggest me to let her know that I genuinely have feelings for her and I’m fully committed to her. Even I stopped flirting which is given by nature to aqua

    • Jan March 7th, 2023

      Don’t flirt with emotional stupid girls … Virgo is rational when you flirt with her it’s boring she don’t get it … Her brain don’t receive signals like flirting … Just be arrogant as you always with girls ignore her looks totally focus on her thoughts ask her about what she wanna do … Don’t ask her about present or past … There memories about past is blocked … They are not emotional so there focus only on the future they record only bad things so don’t do any bad things … Don’t apologize even if you did the worst things just fix it with like a good meal or gift or just talk about future plans your dreams …. Good luck be the most arrogant person on earth if you aquarius then you are a god ….don’t get low to humans they are pathetic

  2. SN October 21st, 2022

    I am Virgo woman dating an Aquarius male & even though it has been challenging I would not trade it for the world, he is my other half, my lobster in my soulmate I think of him I smile and I beam from ear to ear he’s my friend my lover my confidant, he just means the world to me and I love our banter and honesty

  3. Umm January 24th, 2022

    I had a one night stand with a Virgo woman once and years later she found me online and wrote me a loooongest letter.

  4. Angie January 20th, 2022

    I am a Virgo woman dating a Aquarius man. I will start off by saying the relationship can be tricky at times because we are two different people. They are definitely signs that need their space, which can be problematic to us Virgos because of our longing for security. I been with him long enough to know that the distance is nothing personal. They honestly need to be by themselves more than other signs. The bond between the us is definitely slow for the taking so don’t expect your Aquarius man to rush down the alter anytime soon. My advice is just to be friends with Aquarius man first. It is something they deeply cherish and through the differences is what I can honestly say brings us together every time. The love ain’t easy and takes some time and work but when an Aquarius man loves you he loves you for life!

    • Dee April 12th, 2023

      I’m a Virgo 9/3 and I’ve been dating Capricorn/Aquarius cusp 1/20, for about 6 months. I feel that he has traits of both signs but more so Aquarius. The connection was instant and the relationship is very sexual so that portion is spot on. I’m usually not this open this fast with anybody. I actually love affection from my partners and he is very into PDA but I love it. We talk to each other all the time about everything. I actually feel that we are both distant and need our space. I am ok with this because I like my independence and hate being smothered. The biggest downfall is our communication style. I am sensitive but very direct about my feelings. He can be very sarcastic when he is upset and takes it out on me. Eventually he will open up but it takes him time to do that. I’m excited for our future together.

  5. Jane October 21st, 2021

    I am a Virgo woman 8/23 and started dating an Aquarius man 2/17 about 2 months ago. It’s still new but he is extremely attentive and a great listener. We can sit and talk for hours laughing and have a lot of things in common as far as life goals. I can’t leave out the sex is great. For me it’s very strange because I’ve never felt so connected to someone so quickly due to not letting others in. He always puts me first even though he’s a social butterfly and usually has a crowd around. I don’t really care for public affection but I know he enjoys it so I don’t mind if it makes him smile. We’re both independent and intelligent but I can tell his fear from bad experiences he wants to do the right thing and doesn’t want to be fully invested unless the feeling is mutual. I’m excited to see where this goes.

    • Destinee lobo December 8th, 2021

      I’m wondering if you have an update! I’m 9/15 newly seeing an Aquarius and it the connection feels unreal. I’m wondering if your Aquarian man is still consistent

      • Rhonda March 22nd, 2023

        Seeing the comments gives me hope I just met an Aquarian man and I’m a Virgo woman

  6. Meow August 19th, 2021

    I am a Virgo and have been dating Aquarius men for 15 years. Let’s just say, the relationship is not easy. I feel like I’m dating a men child. He’s so lazy and irresponsible, I just can’t stand it. Every time we fight, he always try to turn it around on me. For the 15 years that we dated, he have never took me out on a romantic dinner or buy me any thoughtful gift. I’m so tired of working my ass off, saving money for our futures mean while he contributes nothing to our savings. I lost count of how many nights I went to bed crying. During both of my pregnancy, all he did was stressed me out. I even had PP depression but he just thinks I’m being dramatic. Many of you are reading and asking why I’m still in this relationship? Well, I wish it was that easy to leave and have the support but I don’t. Do yourself a favour and don’t end up like me

    • Max October 12th, 2021

      I’m an Aquarius man whos somehow always attracted Virgo women in my life. I empathize with how you feel. Believe it may help to remind your partner who he is and who you are like once every few months. It’s not that I forget but I tended to get preoccupied my latest dream. I do need newness and always feel my partner treated me like a closed project which is a very weird way to relate. I never cheated but I also did not try to rekindle the flames when they were dying every time.

  7. Deborah Ernestine August 8th, 2021

    Thank you Ted. I love how you gave me an awesome insight on Aquarious men. I love the positive vibes you showed me as a Virgo lady. I have never dated an Aquarian man before, but I’m so ready to go there. With all the facts you gave me,makes it all the more challenging to pursue my Aquarian man. I’m looking forward to a fascinating person. 💓💓💓💓

  8. Ebony Nicole June 9th, 2021

    I’m a Virgo woman and I will say that I’m happy we can talk about our problems it’s a good match unless someone is Immature

  9. HB February 26th, 2021

    This is spot on! I’m a Virgo woman and I recently broke up with my x Aquarius. We started off so in tune with one another I thought he was so sweet! always saying the right things. Then few months go by and he’s not the same person I met. 🤔

  10. vangie October 15th, 2020

    I’m virgo woman looking for a new bf any one.? add me in my facebook my account facebook is september vangie…

  11. R June 11th, 2020

    I am an aquarian man and never dated a virgo woman.but recently have been seeing a virgo and not sure how its gonna work. I am very intelligent and have made good money and I am always on the go and funny. I love all crazy stuff. I have dated capricorn ,Gemini, libra and scorpio. I had great time with first three but not scorpio. I’ve have great physical bonding with those women who were adventurous and loved to provoke the act. Scorpio on the other hand was a dead human with no emotions. I am wondering if the virgo girl I am seeing will have some of Leo or Libra as she’s born on Aug 27. I like the girl and she’s physically very attractive and makes me want to keep for life..not sure what it’s going to be like. Aquarians who are born in February are a bit silent players!!

    • Kai August 9th, 2020

      I’m a Virgo on the cusp of Libra. I’ve been in a relationship with an Aquariun Man for several years. Both of us are incredibly intellectual and independent; It takes a lot to make our relationship work because I am a true Earth sign and need to be grounded. If we decide to let you in, you’ve become apart of our inner circle. I will forewarn you; We are witty, intelligent, unfiltered, brutally honest, vindictive, perfectionist, the most loving partners, and loyal. I am relatively reserved in public but can be quite gregarious when needed. My Aquarius is quite the life of the party but then can easily transform into a loner. Virgos and Aquarius are very much alike. We both study people. It has taken countless break up for us to learn one another’s love language. We have trust. If he roams, goes into seclusion, has female friends, it doesn’t bother me. We don’t let people in but we have a deep connection that allows us to be vulnerable around each other. We also are fascinated with each other’s mind. I think the area of opportunity for the Virgo – Aquarius connection is Communication. Both of our signs are over-thinkers and it is imperative that we communicate and express our feelings in a manner that each other can understand.

      • Jazz March 23rd, 2022

        That was beautiful wish you both the best

    • Virgo in August August 9th, 2020

      To R,
      If you’re a self proclaimed “silent player” the moment your Virgo woman finds out she will either run for the hills or become difficult out of frustration. Virgo has a hard time letting people in and when we do and they somehow deceive us we will never forget it.
      As Kai mentioned it is very important in this relationship to communicate. You might find that you have to give give give at some times with her. But that is only because she doesn’t want to believe she can really let go with you. But when she does she will return what you have given a thousand fold.
      And one last thing I’ll say is that a Virgo woman when they really feel loved and sexy are the epitome of lady in the streets and freak in the sheets!!!

    • Stephen lopez July 13th, 2021

      I am an Aquarius man and I am dating a Virgo woman. This was pretty accurate not a 100% but pretty close.The Virgo that I am dating is full of positive energy, she is full of life, and laughs often..she shoots from the hip. Very independent and, intelligent. Virgo women can live you fully, but won’t chase you if you choose to leave. You may hear them say it is what it is. They will welcome you into their life. But have no problems walking away Without looking back. As an Aquarius male we need to make make sure not to neglect our partner.we have great communication between each other. Of course we are attracted to each other, But virgos aren’t into so much of public displays of affection, they’re not the cuddling type, unless they feel they want to cuddle like a cat lol I hope I helped.

    • Eine June 16th, 2022

      Omg. I am actually attracted to Aquarius man, and I don’t like the thought of them being a silent player. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  12. Joe February 9th, 2020

    I am an aquarius man dating a virgo woman. She is very quiet and shy and I am more energetic and open. I try to hold conversations with her, but it’s kinda hard I guess bc she’s Asian. We talk better through text but there’s still some misunderstanding sometimes. Do you think we will last?

    • maggi February 10th, 2020

      If you are here asking this question ! I think you already have something going in your subconscious regarding the success of your relationship!
      I am a Virgo myself ! You need to reassure your girl that you are there for her, make her feel loved and cared for. When she feels that way she will open up to you more easily and Virgo’s are by nature very vibrant personalities! I am sure you will have lots to look forward to !
      My Wishes !

      • Joe February 10th, 2020

        Thank you for your help. I might keep you in mind for future advice

    • Waterbed4000 February 13th, 2023

      i’m a virgo woman myself and we tend to do more of the observing instead of talking. we just have to get comfortable with people first so i wouldn’t take it to heart at all i think you guys will last . it’s all about communication and showing her that you’re there for her and showing her that she can be herself around you and that she can trust you

  13. S C September 4th, 2019

    Very Virgo (Sun, Moon, several planets all on Virgo) loves PDAs! Married to Aquarius 5 yrs and he is not affectionate enough. I accept him like it’s only one part of the whole. The rest is great. He is kind, a great provider, gallant, has good manners, and other great qualities. We are living in our car. I am smothering him. Patience and perseverance are the key for our relationship. Struggling together, working through this challenging phase is creating alot of growth in our marriage.

  14. Ryan July 26th, 2019

    I’m a aquarius w a virgo we both are very opposites in alot of ways our interests are very different but we both get along in our weird ways which we love no one understands how get along but we get it I love her in our weird ways

  15. Fruitflie9 December 31st, 2018

    I’m a virgo woman and he’s an aquarius, and we started a sexual relationship first and our chemistry is unmatched but he says he’s not looking for a relationship which I’m not wanting to rush into either just yet but I know that I will eventually. Do you think down the line he’ll change his mind?

    • Ana January 3rd, 2019

      I doubt it. He made his intentions very clear and I doubt that he will change his mind


      • Ted Bryce June 14th, 2019

        Foolish reply in my opinion.
        I’m an Aquarian Dominant.
        What qualification do you have fir saying he will not change his mind?
        Life is an adventure and an Aquarian man wants to live it all. It would be moronic to suggest a man with the highest humanitarian ideals want to be no be part of or share that adventure.
        The OP has made a valid concern based upon but a flicker of this mans imagination. His current development as a Man may well not be ready to see that this woman is the corner stone by which he explores life. He is in orbit so high above mundane thinking that he probably has not realised the intent and dedication this woman serves to him. He will.. by God he will.
        Dumb unfounded comments posited as safe advice, sow false seeds in this woman’s heart. HE WILL NEVER PUT THEM THERE.. ANYTHING BUT.
        your comment on the other hand cuts the bud from the stem before it has even really begun to open. I’m sorry but your comment is evil personified.
        She simply needs to maintain her love and support. She may benefit from gently reminding him she is there and the importance of her role in his life, but I assure from the bottom of my heart he has chosen her because he recognised the strength and importance she represented and so far only sips. Big sips.
        The day will come when he has drunk oceans of dreams, ideas and experience and his super vigilant brain recognises exactly how much of it all he owes to her love for him.
        You, with one unsubstantiated perspective have unpicked a stitch in that tapestry thst she will try to fix relentlessly until she proves it to be making it true. You have just robbed her of her hearts true path.. the path to adore someone who will never judge her.
        I’m old. I have lived more than several life times in my years. The savage crass stupid immaturity of your thinking brings tears to my eyes for the angst you have set in this woman.

        I recognised the unrealised love her man has for her the moment I read her comment.

        I so much hope she gets to read my scolding of you. I hope she reads what I have written and prints it out and leaves it somewhere she knows he will quietly find it.

        I can assure he will cry but he won’t let her see him. He has a magnificent woman working very hard to be the best for him. You have no idea how much energy it takes for her to hold the kite of his mind in her hands… and what.. with the click of a mouse.. you score the crystal with fracture line? WHY?
        Please stay away from sharing your dismally destructive advice. Write your replies in emails to yourself.. store them in a special folder.. several months from now go and read them all.. read what you would have posted and see the quality of your thinking.
        Based on what you have written today I am saddened to think that is the quality of your thinking in making your own world.
        Your comment was bitter and shallow.. the utter opposite of everything he is.
        You are a fool.

    • Dean Davis December 15th, 2019

      Yes as an aquarian man I can tell you we like to have large family’s were just Hesitant at 1st because more than likely we’ve been burned by R to caring and giving hearts if we’ve been burned in life we tend to be on the defensive all the time after being burned give us the some space and keep us mentally challenged if you can manage to do that he will come around even with his aloof ways lol

    • Eine June 16th, 2022

      I don’t think so. Run, while you can.

  16. Virgo in August December 30th, 2018

    I am a Virgo woman who’s been with my Aquarius man for a year. It has been a wonderful relationship overall for both of us. It is true that they need space. It is hard for me to do that sometimes, and I have shared that with him. But he appreciates that I give him that and that I have my own life outside of our relationship. I am thankful that from that he understands that when he comes back to me, I need him to be present. The sexual chemistry and sex is the best I have ever had. I do not see him as selfish in bed one bit! He is very giving and likes to see me enjoy myself. He has also opened my eyes to the concept that sex isn’t just about the end result but the connection and the pleasure throughout. It’s true that this relationship takes work, but any relationship does. The biggest advice I would have for a Virgo woman new to dating an Aquarius is to enjoy the time you have with them, be open, honest and give him space.

  17. OB November 4th, 2018

    I am a Virgo and have had relationships with two Aquarius men who loved and adored me for years.
    I am a typical Virgo , homey but could be very devilish at times.
    My Aquarius men loved me being crazy, unpredictable, passionate but the only way was to keep his interest is to bring him close and then push him away as well as keeping a mystery. As soon as you start being caring nice girl, they get bored. No, they love it , but just a little! Lol,I was relaxing during my bitchy times. The sex was the best with Aquarius as he adored me and tried very hard to please. I didn’t marry either of them though both proposed. Found difficult to keep the intensity of relationship longer than 3-4 years, so left before it completely died down. Married Gemini instead 😱
    In my opinion, Aquarius men are not good marriage material for Virgo unless Virgo is prepared to work hard. But they could be the best dating material , so enjoy the moment

  18. Ana February 5th, 2018

    My lover is an aquarius male with scorpio moon and capricorn venus and mars. I am a virgo female with pisces moon, virgo venus and leo mars.
    He is the best. The most caring lover ive ever had. He would do anything to make me happy and to please me. He loves me so much and I feel so protected and guided by him.
    Aquarians love to influence people and leave their mark on them, teach someone their unique ways of living and life perspectives. So keep in mind this virgos, he is not being cocky he is just trying to help and you gotta nurture a man’s ego, make him feel important and confident. He loves to know he has an important role in your life.
    At first he was rather cold, passive-agressive, he did not know how to show his emotions and that bothered me. We talked about it and how he made me feel and he CHANGED. I woke in him qualities that were always there he was just afraid to express them. If you have patience, you’re caring and kind he will open up to you in the most beautiful and extraordinary way possible. You will discover he is a rare diamond.
    He is family oriented, emotionally stable but at the same time very fun. He makes me be more relaxed and I take care of the details that he often misses. We complete each other and the most important thing is that I dont want to change him and I accept him completely.
    We are extremely attracted to each other. I am deeply in love with him and I truly believe he is my soulmate. With him by my side I had the opportunity to experience the most fulfilling period of my life.

    Look at other parts in his natal chart before making the decision. A man with an aquarius venus will never be THE ONE for us. Take care xx

  19. A January 14th, 2018

    Please avoid aqua men like plague!!!
    I tried to ignore the negative comments thinking everyone is different but nope, got all the disappearing acts, wishy washy-ness, etc all the crazy ass shit just after a few weeks of dating.
    Starting was magical, really good moments shared while we were together, he was the one who started holding my hands and everything but in the end just couldn’t figure out what he wants in life.

    Unless you are really good at moving on and dropping people out of your life, RUN WHILE U STILL CAN!!

  20. John January 9th, 2018

    I’m an Aquarius man and my girlfriend of a year is Virgo, I’ve had a lot of relationships in the past and honestly don’t know how to feel about this one. We don’t really share anything in common except that were both offbeat and different, but that in itself is something in common. We’re pretty good together and the relationship is fine, its just unsatisfying at times when she doesn’t want to do anything or isn’t in “the mood”. My longest and best relationships have always came with Scorpio girls and oh my god was it great when it was great. But strangely what attracted me was when it was bad, Scorpio girls are absolutely the spawn of Satan and I’ve seen first hand just how evil they can be, but that is honestly the most attractive thing in the world. They are social and tend to be rebels just like me, that’s the biggest turn on in my opinion. I just feel that my Virgo partner is extremely bland and a little too awkward in social situations. I like to go out and party sometimes but at the same time there are days where i just want to cuddle and watch Netflix forever. It’s the hardest internal relationship i’ve ever been in but i can agree with a lot of this article. And its not that i’m being too judgmental or too critical of her, i just crave someone to live life with me and not be as this article said, ” A spectator from the sideline”.

  21. Dhivya October 7th, 2017

    the article is absolutely true , the same reflects between us ..Im a virgo women and my hubby is Aquarius. i Had a kid of 4 Yrs old . ours is an arranged marriage though we both bought up by a conservative tamil family . I Never seen such an irresponsible lazy idiot in my life . Though im running my family . no Financial & Moral Support from him. Truely he is a selfish fellow . if i am not strong enough this relationship would have end up before My son got delivered . for me the day starts with Full of responsibilities and endup with more painful.Please suggest me how to handle this lazy idiotic bug… Or Divorce is the only suggestion. Ive crossed 5 yrs of Marital ( Mental Torture along with Domestic violence ) Life,.

    • emma October 17th, 2017

      I know how you feel, i went through everything you are talking about. I called off the wedding and left him. Its not worth it.

    • joy October 21st, 2017

      well madam, as a fellow Aquarius with some decent experience all I can suggest as a good samaritan is LET YOUR MAN REALISE, THE CHARM of VIRGO-THE VIRGIN and that can only be achieved by pulling brakes to daily activities like neglecting your household jobs for some time that shall FORCE him to realise the authority of a Virgo woman. Moreover, it seems your man has attributes of liquor and he has some shits deep buried in his past. Now, here lies 2 roads that have diverged into a yellow wood, one you can get a divorce and live a life of repentance or YOU can charm that Water Carrier with your most genuine MODESTY & PURITY which is the only elixir that shall tame this insane child once for all. LOGIC is all an Aquarius seeks, therefore do it but using the VIRTUE of a VIRGO. Rest I shall be honored to do any possible help that may lead to another until DEATH DO US PART tale! GOOD LUCK!

    • Allen January 4th, 2018

      That does not sound like an Aquarius Man, because most are very good at making money, and they are very capable of helping other people…

  22. Km September 29th, 2017

    I am currently dating an aquarius and im a virgo. He makes me so happy and he wants me to move in With him but I want us to take it easy. The key is to have good communication, and be honest, and tell how you feel. Let him have his freedom, if he wants you, he will come back No matter What. And I have My own life. Let him be free just as long as he don’t cheats. But otherwise i am open.

    • emma October 17th, 2017

      O i was where you were once. I am a virgo woman, who fell in love with an aquarius, at the beginning it was magical, and i fully gave him my trust and his freedom. 4 months later this man became a monster. He cheated on me i would say more than 12 times, lies, irresponsible, depends greatly on me and my paycheck, and boy does he have temper tantrums. After 2.5 years of misery, i left him. couldnt take it anymore. if the trust, and respect are gone, whats left?

    • Gloria Valverde October 17th, 2017

      I like that advise.

  23. Alexander September 8th, 2017

    I’m an Aquarius with Virgo rising but of course I am stellium in Aquarius but because of my Virgo rising it makes me way more compatible with virgos

  24. Ruby May 20th, 2017

    I also agree. I am a Virgo woman with an Aquarius man. They are selfish lovers. Have no imagination in bed. They are selfish in every day life also. They only love themselves. My boyfriend doesn’t perform, doesn’t provide and doesn’t protect. He is not what I consider a man. He is a selfish child.

    • Jelissa May 23rd, 2017

      ???? very much so agree .. except the non protective part

    • Joey Jefferson June 11th, 2017

      Wait a minute…That is wrong…or at least in my case it’s wrong!
      I am a strong provider, protector!
      I am not selfish in the bedroom! Maybe not the most creative but I’m a giver when it comes to the sexual part of our relationship…She gets hers first!
      Is this different with me because my sign is so close to being Capricorn?

      • Kelli July 9th, 2017

        Yeah, you are an aquarius with capricorn

    • Ron July 6th, 2017

      I’m an Aquarius man and I’m not selfish at all. Even in bed i think this article is very true because I tend to have many different ways to go about it. It can be very close and emotionally intimate or just straight out getting freaky. I’ll always do anything for my partner to be happy and that makes me happy.

    • Tim October 1st, 2017

      Maybe he just doesn’t fancy you?

      Maybe you moan and slag him off in public too much like the horoscope said?

      Yes, we’re selfish and we love ourselves, but we’re that great we can!

    • julia October 17th, 2017

      I agree! I am a virgo and I was in a relationship with an Aquarius for almost 3 years. They are so selfish its disgusting. He cheated, lied, depended on my paycheck, he was so lazy in every aspect in life. He had temper problems and it was scary. His negative energy was too much, and he was a selfish-child. Not a true man.

  25. Reniekia Groves April 7th, 2017

    Well all of you guys seem to really suprise me on your comments but Im confused. I met a Aquarius man about 3 months ago and we hit it off. We would see one another and tect and call then all of a sudden he shut down on me. I need help I really dont get it but I would love to know how to spark his interest in me again????????????

    • MsKima81 April 13th, 2017

      Aquarius Men run when they find themselves getting to close. They run from love in fear of getting hurt. When they start to care or they feel their emotions getting stronger, they will run. They don’t wanna get hurt like they have hurt others in the past. They can’t take the karma. They also like their freedom and don’t liked to be boxes into a relationship until they are 100% comfortable with you. They like having the pleasures that come along with being with you but they don’t want the responsibility of what comes along with a deeper connection in a relationship.

    • Ron July 6th, 2017

      Thats easy.. your going to have to get in bed with him. Aquarians lose intrest if it takes to long to feel a sexual connection. Thats a big way how we show are feelings for you. At least that’s how I am

    • Randall September 19th, 2018

      Ask him what happened. Ask him what he needs from you, then decide if you can give it.

  26. Heart Broken April 6th, 2017

    I am a Virgo woman married to an Aquarius man. That article is on the money. My husband is vey selfish and the things that I do for him out of the kindness of my heart he expects them but not appreciate them, He does not do anything nice for me, like him being with me is a prize within its own entity. I am highly disappointed that I wasted my time love, loyalty and devotion on a man that couldn’t care less if I’m happy or sad. As long as he gets what he wants everything is fine. Needless to say, I deserve to be loved, happy and treated with respect so I will soon be divorced from this nightmare. And hopefully find someone that treats me just as good as I treat him! VIRGO WOMAN, RUN FROM AN AQUARIUS MAN!!!

    • Barb April 20th, 2017

      I agree 200% I wasted 6 years and took such emotional abuse from this Aquarius Man. I am never getting that time or energy back . What I can do is close that door ..NAIL IT SHUT and go live my life. Good luck to you and life does get better without them !

    • MasterIncubus April 22nd, 2017

      I’m a Aqurius man and I’ve been married too my beloved Virgo wife for 10 yrs. now. I’m a lil taken back by the accuracy of this article. Very insightful and informative for those that are entering this match relationship. I personaly can’t agree more on the notion on the amount of energy and time that is needed from both who union with this signs. I’ll not argue that as an Aqurius male that we are very geared towards obtaining outcomes or things that we want or expect from our love interest. But it’s a two way street. Communication is parramount for these two! I can understand your possition of opinion here, and express my condolences for the heartbreak between you and your husband. We after all have faced similar issues ourselves within our relationship and have over come them by instituting better ways to communicate our thoughts and feelings with each other.
      So I would ask if you’ve done the same? As well as have you been honest about your feelings reguarding this and communicated them in a formate other then just bitching about his coldness or his need for freedom of space with a rellentless intent? To the contrary of your sumation. I will say that we as Aqurius men do care a great deal about our loves well being and over all happiness in our relationships once we commit. And if he has dedicated himself too you? He dose care a great deal for you and is concerned greatly over all those aspects of your well being. Dispite how you only see his demeanor as other wise. If your not reaching a level of fufillment from him in areas of the “Romantic”? It’s no surprise. Our idea of romance is telling you how we would like keep your scantily clad bodys chained to our beds! But to right off all Aquarian Men as cold distance assholes that are only considerate to their own needs is a misdirected missle of poor personal experiences rolled into discontentment of your failing marriage. My advice is approach this thru a calm rational conversation and let out the hurt feelings and talk too each other like adults! The benifits for both are worth the effort In this!

      • sss October 17th, 2017

        My aquarius man was amazing at the beginning. especially the first few months, everything was great. After the 5month point, o boy!
        He started getting so cold towards me, never appreciated anything i did, and almost expected me to do everything for him. I later found out he was cheating left and right, and using my money to pay for the motels. Broke my heart into peaces. Left him and never looked back. I wasted so much time, energy and money on him.. its pretty sad. weeks later he txtd me if i still loved him?
        complete ass hole!

      • Ana February 5th, 2018

        This couldn’t be more accurate. Me and my lover have had similar issues in the past but both of us approached the problem in a calm way and we really tried to see each other’s point of view.

    • AM April 27th, 2017

      Same as my case . Hes Aquarius and Im Virgo. Emotionally drained out. He tore my heart apart few weeks back. Went quite and after almost a month send me sweet msg tell me he s been missing. Go fuck yourself off. I know in my heart i love him so much. But Im totally done being treated like a fool.

  27. xxx March 16th, 2017

    I’m a male, Aquarius, and she’s a Virgo.

    I’ve realized that this women is very self sufficient, know’s how to take care of herself and doesn’t go after me for my money (as I haven’t told her how much I make but I do like the finer things in life.) She opened up to me on our first date about deep things and I liked that. She’s very strong, as a person and carries a lot of weight on her shoulders. I carry a lot of weight too, from my family, but I can see that in her. She’s very detailed and pays attention. I hope we make it far and to the end, because it doesn’t take me long to realize a real potential relationship from a side fling for me. She’s the real deal and I want to show her that she, off the bat, encountered someone who really cares about her and wants her. Time tells everything, but being a Aquarius, I gotta say I love the fact that Virgo’s are independent and self sufficient, as I am pursuing my dreams in building a legacy. I see myself and a future with her. time will tell

  28. Virgal March 8th, 2017

    My relationship with this Aqua has been so pure and organic… We are so different that it brings us together and we make the conscious effort everyday to be with one another.. We are both loyal, and he is the sweetest man. He showers me with flowers, surprises, so much love and affection, and he has brought me close to his family. They all love me as well as I do him and them. When he talks about his future he includes me in it. We have been together for 5 months but have known each other for 2 years (we dated a couple of months back then too). We have a few things in common like love for the outdoors and nature, we have similar perspectives but where we are different we grow and learn. He is the most loving man I have met, even more so than my emotional Cancer ex. LOVE THIS MAN!

    • sss October 17th, 2017

      how is it now?

  29. TZHE March 7th, 2017

    I’m a Virgo, he’s an Aquarius….we just started a few weeks ago…..I’m looking forward to my future with him. But seeing all these negative comments about Virgo women and Aquarius man, I feel disappointed……I’m scared that we will end this relationship in the end……

    • aqua March 31st, 2017

      I’m an aqua and trust me he wont end this till you’ll accept his ways of living his life…?
      And read those positive comments…. And yes I’m in relationship with Virgo and I never think of leaving her but accepting her as she is…?

    • AB April 2nd, 2017

      Yes I totally agree with you…I’ve known an Aquarius man off and on for 2.5 years now and its been nothing short of a miracle that i even talk to him…i mean i have love for him but im not in love with him…he was real sweet for the first month and then a monster comes out..he lies..its sad i tried whole hearted but he destroyed any hope of security with he don’t really listen to me or pay attention ..i just learned soooo many things i already knew reading this compatibility blog..and i seen you thought id reply..i do wish you the best of luck..

      • emma October 17th, 2017

        I agree! I’ve known my ex aquarius man for 2.5 years, and although the first few months were amazing, the monster in him came out eventually. WORST RELATIONSHIP i have ever had.
        the cheating, the lies, the laziness, his temper problems. I tried for 2.5 years to stand with him, i helped him through with everything. I trusted him, gave him his freedom, but he was just selfish. He expected everything to be given to him, and he refused to do anything nice or give back. I could never find him when i needed him. he was useless, and not the man i was looking for. so take it from me, you can change him, no matter what you do its never enough, and you will end up with a broken heart. RUN AWAY!

  30. Paula March 4th, 2017

    I am virgo and him aquarius…he has his freedom and so do i….but he has lied and cheated more then once , and that is the reason i dont trust him anymore…i became bitter with time and he became distant and cold. I tried and tried to be at peace with it and be cool with him but it just wont work…our relationship is going down and i won’t do anything more about it…i dont give a shit about it.

    • Ashley Smith March 12th, 2017

      Omg this is the exact thing that happened with me and my aquarius man. Its like I seen my story on this comment.

    • AB April 2nd, 2017

      Same with an Aquarius guy i dated…gound the compatibility reading to be dead on a lot of points. ..sane as you…lying stealing aggressive…pouts if he don’t get his way…looses temper easy…heck im sorry..good luck you deserve it

    • emma October 17th, 2017

      same here! so aggressive, had temper problems, cheated, lied, took money from me and never returned a penny. so selfish. this relationship was hell. left it and never looked back, it was traumatizing!

  31. Kaisha March 1st, 2017

    I am a virgo n he was aquarious. We had good relationship for many years. People used to tell us they wish they had a relationship like ours…. But at the end relationship broke into bad n unworthy. Sometimes atrology matches.

  32. daquarian March 18th, 2016

    Thanks for writing your reply.
    To others: As is mentioned, @Waterbearer has summarized it well. Run away from Virgo. The pain that you have to go through is just not worth it.
    The problem with this combination is that the Aquarian takes attraction towards a Virgo as a positive sign, and lets it override all warnings that it displays. You realize it only after you’ve burnt your fingers.

    • Star January 28th, 2017

      I been with my Virgo wife for 15 years and the love grows stronger everyday.. She keeps me balance.. People always tell us they wish they had a relationship like ours…. Only the soul really knows follow ur heart… Don’t let astrology tell you who you should be with

      • TZHE March 7th, 2017

        Awww, finally a positive comment……I’ll take u as my Role Model! I’m looking forward to my future with my Aquarius man!

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  37. aquaman22334 January 26th, 2014

    I usually take these articles with a grain of salt but I got to say this is all true. My girlfriend is a virgo and I’m an aquarius. We’ve been dating for two years and I’ve never been happier. In the beginning of our relationship we took it upon ourselves to see and accept our differences in personality, for example I’m very messy and disorganized while she’s very neat and organized. This could have been a hurdle but we instead took it as an opportunity to learn from each other. She taught me proper methods of cleaning, picking up and keeping myself organized while she learned from me to not sweat the small stuff all the time. We accept our diffrences and bring it to the table if it becomes a problem instead of not saying anything. The key to our relationship is communication and it works well. She likes to think micro while I think macro. That sort of combination balaces itself out. She helps me focus on the here and now while I help her think about the future. Our sex life is active and beautiful, it’s indeed another strong point in our relationship. She aims to please and I aim to open her imagination while in the bedroom (but we keep it between us). We don’t indulge in things that could fracture our relationship like group sex. We are too in love with each other to try that. Another thing, she allows me to have my space when needed and something I appreciate. She admits she wants me around all the time but she also knows I need a few hours to decompress and be alone with my thoughts. In case you’re wondering we do live together and I have a study where I go to be alone when I need to. It’s not that I don’t love her and don’t want to see her, I just need to time to contemplate or work on something to keep my mind fresh. 
    We make each other very happy and even though many say we aren’t a compatible sign, love conqures all. The saying “opposites attract” is quite true. 

  38. flyinggoatfish November 27th, 2013

    @Waterbearer Tom, thank you for the response! I find that I like reading the comments and seeing how astrology can play a part in real experiences and even sometimes how it doesn’t (sometimes happily, as in Shannon’s case). I think I know what you’re referring to, is it “Decans”? It is much easier to try to understand only yourself through astrology. People tend to avoid laying all of their cards on the table, if that makes sense, so they can be quite difficult to read. If you ever do want to look into the rest of your own chart, I’d suggest drawing one up at (it’s free and extensive and I love it; I don’t work for them, but maybe I should at this rate).
    The Sun sign isn’t always the best indicator for how we interact with others. I think that our personalities are such an amalgam of all of the planets in our charts and our environments that we really would need to look at everything to get a clearer picture of who we are and how we connect with those around us. Personally, I know that there are a couple Capricorn traits at the base of my personality, namely my ambitions to do something worthwhile and to achieve a clearer sense of self. But there is so much more that doesn’t make sense when I read about my Sun sign, that does when I read about, say, my Ascendant, or my Venus sign, or planetary aspects, etc.
    I appreciate the advice, but actually I’m not looking into a relationship with an Aquarius right now. I do have some wonderful Aquarian friends, but they are just that. Also, I doubt Jane or Alisha are interested in me in that way. I do love to travel, but as with your Capricorn, it can be difficult at first to get away from family, not to mention the many responsibilities I seem to collect without my noticing. More to your point (though I think I’ve lost my own by now), I agree that it would be a mistake for anyone to avoid a relationship with someone who could potentially be an amazing friend if not true love, simply because their birthday (as well as the birthdays of who knows how many thousands of people) happens to fall into a certain month. However, that doesn’t mean it isn’t interesting to read about retrospectively.

  39. Waterbearer November 27th, 2013

    @flyinggoatfish Hi Bee! No, I don’t mind you asking at all! I should firstly state that what I posted were just my experiences. I like reading all the comments on here and have found many very useful and 90% of the time true. But, as Shannon has written above, it’s clear some signs can work even though they’re supposedly “incompatable” (very happy for you Shannon! :D).I did not look into any other signs – such as Sun Charts. I did look into something but I have forgotten the correct terminology, basically all stars signs are broken into thirds. I’m at the latter end of the Aquarians star sign, so my Birthday fell into the last third. I can find out what this is exactly called if you like, but I found it more useful for understanding myself rather than using it to apply to a partner. I do get along with nearly everyone I meet, I don’t think that’s down to ones star sign though, if you’re not a nice person, we’re not gonna get along no matter what your sign and I think that applies to most people.So to go further in what you’re thinking – are you looking for a relationship with an Aquarius man? My Capricorn Relationship was great, it was one of deep friendship (that we still share). It definately had a different vibe/feel – whatever you want to call it. But I found her very relyable and strong. We had dissagreements but not arguements and as stubborn as Aquarians are supposed to be, I had no problem holding my hand up when I was wrong (or more like acknowlodging how I handled things wrong – to be exact ;)).For your information, I broke it off because I was travelling a lot and she had no ambition to do so, she was a very homebound person who was very involved with her family and friends and couldn’t bare to be without them for more than a few days, which isn’t a bad trait, it was just a bit of a miss-match for me.I’d say to you if you are looking at an aquarian man to just give it a go. I’d happily give you pointers but remember, he might be totally different from me. Most people don’t understand the aloofness/moodiness, I think this is misinterperated. I’d tell anyone to give a shot at love a go, what do you have to lose? As long as you keep a level head about this and are honest – who knows? This site is great and as I’ve got older I’ve gone for what’s recommended for me. I’ve had some good relationships but it just seems less work and more natural when I stick to what’s recommended.I hope this has helped and I’ve answered your question(s)? Anything you want to talk about just give me a shout!P.S. And actually, I think I was far too harsh reading back on my Libra experience, she was a lovely girl but had a tendensy to rub me the wrong way. I’d happily go out with another Libra – like I say, notihng to lose and always something to learn, it’s all life experience!

  40. flyinggoatfish November 26th, 2013

    @Waterbearer If you don’t mind my asking, do you happen to know any other planets’ signs in your astrology chart? Or theirs perhaps? You don’t have to tell me, just curious to know if there are any other compatibile planets there. I know that Aquarians are supposed to potentially get along with anyone, but going by only sun signs it’s surprising that you could have such a good experience with a Capricorn as opposed to a Libra. Side-by-side signs are usually considered incompatible, and signs in the same element very compatible.
    Saying that, as a Capricorn, I have many Aquarius and Sagittarius friends. I assumed that was due to my Sagittarius Venus/Aries Mars, but now I can’t help but wonder if there is more to side-by-side signs than I realized.
    (if you’re wondering why a cap is reading about Virgo/Aquarius compatibility, stop – it’s complicated)

  41. Heartagrameyes October 6th, 2013

    Lol, virgo woman here who knows and aqua guy.  We actually have a lot of deep things in common and he’s utterly fun to be around!  We make each other laugh and talk to each other all the time.  As a matter of fact, I couldn’t be happier that I have this aqua guy in my life.  We go beyond sex and actually look into each, actually bother to know each other.  This Virgo woman here and the aqua guy I know have much more in common than what this is leading you to believe.  Haha, this aqua is what this virgo wants in her life :).  

  42. Waterbearer September 17th, 2013

    Thought I’d comment on this since nobody has yet. Wish I could deliver some good news for those currently involved as these signs but from my experience of having being in 2 relationships with Virgos (each lasted 2 years) I would recommend any aqua guy or virgo girl to run…..just run as far away as possible from each other and never look back. It’s a horrible relationship to have, it just doesn’t work. Both Virgos were unfaithful – not saying all are, but from my experience they are not loyal. There is a very high attraction sexually and the dreams and aspirations of the Virgo woman are very alluring. But thats it – and you soon learn their dreams will always just be that where as aquarius’ achieve theirs quickly which infuriates Virgos and makes them jealous since they don’t even have a chance to help sometimes. Any common ground you share disappears quickly and it just becomes a daily battle.
    If you’re an aquarius guy reading this (ive had relationships with the following and recommend:) Geminis – they are brilliant, even if it doesn’t work out you’ll have a friend for life. Capricorns are surprisingly good too, you’ll get your space and they have a calming influence but expect to be more grounded and involved with their family – so good if you’re not so keen on traveling and want to settle down. Libras will think the world of you, but I found them a little too ‘princess’ like – snobbish at times, but I am not into fine dining and fancy materialistic possessions – will be good if you are, Sexually very dull at times. Sagittarius are also great, bit harsh sometimes but i liked it as I can handle honesty and the sex (if that’s important to you) is fun, crazy and very satisfying, completely opposite to Libra In the bedroom. Leo’s are also supposed to be a good match but I disagree, they get things done and are exciting but far too self obsessed which was a turn off. Hope this helps and hope to see some successful comments about aquarius and virgos.

    • Eine June 16th, 2022

      I’m actually hoping to see more positive and successful stories about aquarius and virgo partners, but I’m starting to lose hope.

      Btw, I’m a Virgo, and currently attracted to Aquarius man.

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