Capricorn Woman and Aquarius Man Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Capricorn women and Aquarius men have a good chance of a successful relationship if they respect each other's differences and admire each other's virtues.
  • Their sexual relationship can be a blend of imagination and reality, with the Aquarius man being unpredictable and the Capricorn woman being stable.
  • A Capricorn woman can attract an Aquarius man by being submissive and giving him the independence he needs.
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There can be quite a bit of intrigue from the universe in the relationship of Capricorn and Aquarius. Each of them has a certain aloof quality about them when it comes to romance and love. However, Capricorn’s manner hides an earthy sensuality and attachment to the person he/she loves. On the other hand, Aquarius has aloofness in the attitude.

An Aquarius man is very true to his word and only says what he means. He can see the past, present and future all in one. He is able to ball all of these things into one and achieve great results. He is well rounded and extremely intelligent. He enjoys long term relationships and is quite old fashion. He is a social butterfly with many friends and acquaintances. He is a great humanitarian with a very likable nature. But at the same time he is aloof, seems to be very detached from the world and very intuitive indeed.

A Capricorn woman is highly individualistic, with some very far-out opinions and ideas. But she keeps them to herself, to avoid ridicule and harsh judgment from others. She is smart and strong enough to handle all situations without letting emotions dominate her. However, she can be surprisingly affectionate, emotionally stable and loyal with a strong sense of moral responsibility. A Capricorn lady seldom does anything that causes pain and embarrassment to her loved ones. In a relationship, she has traditional point of view for things like that should be a husband and what his duties are.

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Aquarius man is often very attracted to a Capricorn woman as she is neither nosy nor demanding in her behavior. She makes for very submissive partner and gives her man the independence he needs for his creativity to flow. Capricorn woman, when in love and deep faith, simply overlook the downsides in the relationship or in the person she’s in love with and supports her man in every possible way. She usually feels content to spend more private time with her partner than spreading herself around in a social sense. She is a little more possessive of him as well and looks for something more substantial in the relationship. He needs to understand his Capricorn woman and should not feel bound by her possessiveness as it is just a part of her expressing love.

A Capricorn woman is very well attracted by the friendly attitude of an Aquarius man. He makes her feel more independent than any other man and at the same times protect her from all troubles. The way he understands the need of the Capricorn female and gives her space, is truly appreciable. He makes her best friend and is always there when she needs him. But he is genuinely somewhat detached when it comes to relationships, and is less interested in committing to one special person. She is often frightened by this bizarre behavior of her Aquarius man. He makes friends very easily and quickly, even female friends and brings out a very undesirable form of jealousy out of the Capricorn woman. She has to learn very quickly that he is very detached and these new friends mean very little to him.

As the air enters the earth, it helps the earth to breath freely and earth tries to keep the air intact. Same is the relationship of Capricorn woman and Aquarius man. As he enters the life of a Capricorn woman, he teaches her to fly high unrestricted and without hesitation. He brings new colors and sides of both love and life to her monotonous life. While she embraces him and teach the sense of security and importance of stability in life. Together they make a great combination where dreams are stable and sensible enough to turn into reality when they both decide on them. They experience the purest form of love and a new style of devotion, where none is very expressive but their mutual concern for each other is definitely impressive.

The combination of earth and air in sexual relationship is a blend of both imagination and reality. The Aquarius man is unpredictable and always changing. This also applies to his style of love making. He makes love in many ways. On one hand, he is delighted to involve himself in some crazy interesting thing, which comes from his ability to easily detach himself. On the other hand, he enjoys hours of making love while giving his entire soul. While she is very stable and believes completely in visible and satisfying proofs of sexual intimacy. She is difficult to turn on, but once she is there, she makes her love making a very impressively carried out act of fulfillment. Neither one of them needs a night full of passion to enjoy lovemaking with each other. He often daydreams in sexual fantasy, which makes her curious, but at the same time disturbed. They only way these two adjust to each other’s different ways of love making are if they are in love on an emotional and mental level. Then the Capricorn woman and Aquarius man are willing to do what it takes.

If the Capricorn woman and Aquarius man can respect each other for their difference and admire one another’s virtues they could have a successful relationship. She is a family girl who is overly involved with the family that has raised her. She is always planning event with neighbors and friends. The problem occurs when she expects him to act accordingly and attend all of these events. This frustrates him who is a social butterfly. On the other hand, the detached attitude of the Aquarius male with all the time changing mind, drives the stable Capricorn female nuts. He is very eccentric and does not have a problem saying what is on his mind. The amount of tension between the two of them depends on how well they communicate and handle their difference. They annoy each other from time to time but they need to over look that. That is what relationships are about anyways. With love these two can have an admirable relationship.

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  1. A small world cup May 31st, 2023

    No relationship is impossible. Work towards your happy ending together and have no regrets about the effort expended.

  2. GG March 13th, 2022

    This article is eerily dead on! I can’t dispute a thing!!!

  3. Deborah Lawrence October 26th, 2021

    Hi, even though this post was more than a year ago i hope you see this. I am a cap women and i totally agree with you I would never move somewhere where I don’t know anyone but him in my own apartment like you said what if it don’t work out so if he wants you bad enough he should move where you are and he can spend money to get his place in your town, stay where you are we don’t like change we like stability not moving to somewhere we’re not familiar with. I hope this helps for an old school Capricorn ♑

    • Andrew December 23rd, 2021

      I dunno I liked your response lol

      • Falcon wolf April 25th, 2023

        I’m a Capricorn lady. I thinks you’re up bringing in behaviors. I’ve lived every where in the u.s. all I can say. When it comes to love and truly having a place in someone’s heart that’s real and you feel it, see it in their eyes. I would got to the end of the earth to be with that person. There with them I’d find my stability in their arms.

    • malaiyamalaiya February 3rd, 2023

      it helps abit but we tend to do things the other way

  4. Rebecca October 21st, 2021

    I’m a cap woman n I’m dating an Aquarius man. I’m 2yrs older than him n we love each other although we didn’t spent more time in conversation but we try to understand each other.

  5. Tao September 13th, 2021

    I am aquarus man and my girlfriend she is capricorn, she is older than me 4 years difference, everytime she says we are friends but I say that I love her, despite she knows my feelings towards her, she often meet with me, she goes everywhere I go, we date , we eat and we plan to go outside, once I noticed she was jealous when I was talking to strange girl, but When I mentioned she says I am not a jealous person, and I am planning to have marriage with her, but she says she is not ready as our current job is not stable to have family, but every-time we meet, I kiss her from cheeks, if she didn’t love me, she wouldn’t allow me to kiss when we see each other and say bye each other, and we everyday text each other, but sometimes I have doubts that I am just a friend to her, as she mentions man and woman can be friends, if she can be friends with man, why she only hangs out with me and spends time with me? Or that’s the love capricorn woman give? I don’t understand

    • Raven September 28th, 2021

      My Aquarius is younger than me by 7 yrs. Idk for her but for me it was more of seeing if he would stand the rest of time and be around. Caps aren’t very trusting and often look for the smallest of details to avoid being hurt. She likes you most definitely. If she didn’t like you like that you wouldn’t even get close. Develop that deep friendship, learn something she doesn’t know to lure her with an intelligent conversation and she will be yours. Intelligence, goals, drive, passion, dependability, and trust drive our choices for who we want to be with. Heavy on the intelligence. I am always in awe of how much my Aquarius can keep me engaged intellectually with how much more he knows than I do about even the smallest things. Just leave out the flowers… we don’t really care about them. Good luck

    • mck020751 September 28th, 2021

      I am a Capricorn woman, I am 2 years older than my husband who is a Aquarius  . One of the most important thing when you first meet a capricorn  woman is to be honest . We can sense when you are not . That means  alot to us . My husband and I been married for 32 yrs and I dated him 3 yrs before we got married. So I been knowing him for  35 yrs . We loved doing alot things together .He knows just what I like and don’t like .  Alway had a good conversation going LOL . The main things is take your time , get to know each other minds and show repects for each other feeling . If it loves you will know it !!!!

      • River October 20th, 2021

        She loves you, she’s scared & does not want her heart broken once you find out how much she really loves you.

        I’m a Capricorn woman.

        Have patience:)

    • Monica Taylor January 9th, 2022

      Trust me she likes you! I’m a cap woman and if I don’t like a man he will never see me! Capricorns believe in loyalty because we are very loyal! She really just testing your loyalty to be honest. She just trying to learn you because we can’t just in a relationship feet first and head last! Always head first! Loyalty means everything to us! So if she’s answering your calls and texts and going on dates with you she really like you. For 1 we’re not about to be seen with a man we don’t like!

    • Siya August 29th, 2022

      It’s definitely her way to show you the love
      in the daily life if she is not getting time still giving you enough time be with you in ur plannings she is definitely into you just some prblm like stability after marriage can be the reason find out the reason
      Because if she allow you to kiss plus don’t hangout anyone the she is in love but don’t know how to exprrss

    • malaiyamalaiya February 3rd, 2023

      Tao don’t be friends wit her if she don’t want a relationship wit you

  6. Hodzentao September 9th, 2021

    I am aquarius man and my girlfriend capricorn, initially we had more arguments and disappointed from each other, but we love each other so much, I had many doubts about her, if she cheats on me or not, as I getting to know her, I understood cap girl is loyal and best to make love, we still argue but along the way , we figure things out,

    • Sumit September 25th, 2021

      Brother my story is same like uh bro…maybe sometimes uh feel like she’s cold.. sometimes uh feel like she is cheating on uh or not then uh will directly ask her try to solve bt situation gets more worst maybe she gets irritated and fight wid uh…

  7. Tebatso August 17th, 2021

    Hi guys my I’m Aquarius and I’m dating Capricorn lady. We always have argument how can I sort this out?

    • LJ September 9th, 2021

      Enjoy the argument because that’s part of the deal. You’re a water bearer and she’s a goat, so she kicks. Text her off and on with a ‘Thinking of you’ quote, or a crafty joke about family or friends.

      Even though aloofness may irritate her, keep the dating to a minimum and figure out whether you want to be friends with benefits, or a soft relationship. Or a long term one if you totally vibe together.

      • Cassandra April 12th, 2023

        Aquarius is an air sign. Not water 🙂

    • mck020751 September 13th, 2021

      Hello , I’m a capricorn woman and was with my Aquarius man , who was my husband for 32yrs out of the 35 yrs . The best man I ever dated . At the beginng we argue alot , thats because we was learning each other . As soon we started trying understand each other ways , we got along good. had good conversations liked the same type of movies , enjoyed going out to eat and movies shows. Dancing . My husband passed 3 yrs ago. I  really misses him. I was  2 yrs older than him . We dated 3 yrs before we got married, took time to learn each other mind started off friends but turned to love quick !!! LOL   Hope this help !!!

  8. Cap woman August 15th, 2021

    aquarius men are the worst sign to date

  9. faytimil March 12th, 2021

    aquarius man are the best. All you need to do is have real conversation with him and show them you appreciate him. Show him loyalty and make him laugh. He enjoys a good funny story or joke. Simple things… let him see your independence. They turn on my seeing they girl do for herself but don’t forget to let him be the providor

    • Dorthia chandler August 23rd, 2021

      I have a friend that is an Aquarius I am a Capricorn we have been friends for 28 years he makes me laugh but I thank it depend on the persons

  10. Love March 11th, 2021

    Hi I am a cap woman and I have been with an Aquarius man for about 5 years. Our communication is one of our biggest problems. He feels like we should only be best friends but I don’t feel like you just end a marriage like that I feel like you should try to work it out because marriage is a huge commitment. Does anyone have any suggestions that I can try ?

    • Mz boo April 7th, 2021

      I’m sorry you’re going through that with your husband but it sounds like he has checked out.
      He shouldd want to be best friends with his wife and not only friends and end the marriage.. sometimes, a man doesn’t know what he has until it’s gone.. perhaps he needs to see and feel what it’s like to not have you there, around, and wanting him.. Unfortunately, you really don’t have many other options at this point cuz it will absolutely take the two of you to keep it together. You can’t do that alone. Good luck And make sure u love u more than he does.

    • Gabriel ;) May 17th, 2021

      Hey, I am an aquarius man I am with a Capricorn woman, and the thing about communication is very important, both of you do need to understand your differences and similarities and find a way to meet the requirements of your differences. That is the biggest key to a successful relationship between the two signs. One more thing I know caps hide their feelings, they act like they don’t care when they do I’m not to sure why but I take that from my girlfriend, but anyways the aquarius man may test you to see if you care even tho they know you do but that comes down to them wanting sympathy from his girlfriend and when he does not get that sympathy he doesn’t like it, I take that from me. Now I’m not saying to feel sympathy for him but you need to learn your way around that and the aquarius man needs to learn that part of the cap hiding the feelings and care as well, it is simply realising your differences and working on them, by doing that, it saved our aquarius and Capricorn relationship. I hope this helps if you do ever read this, good luck in the relationship and sending good energy to you and your partner 🙂

    • Agnese May 21st, 2021

      I feel you… I’m not married but I’m in a relationship withy my boyfriend (Aquarius) and I’m a Capricorn female… he’s my first everything we’ve been together for more than 2 years… but I can feel that the relationship is breaking apart… I’m scared of what’s going to happen and I can feel him slipping through my fringes and there is nothing I can do anymore… I’ve done everything in my power to turn he’s mind… But I’m ignored almost all the time except when he needs something from me… and I of course do as he asks… Unfortunately I don’t think there is anything the both of us can do in these situations… we just need to prepare ourselves from what’s going to come and hope for the best… although it’s been 2 months since you wrote that comment and I hope your doing better now! 🙂

  11. Crazy Capricorn November 21st, 2020

    I have been married to my Aquarian husband going on 9 years. This described our marriage down to the last drop! So amazing how accurate this was!

  12. Kayy Cash July 28th, 2020

    My boyfriend is an Aquarius ♒️ and I’m a Capricorn ♑️ This described our relationship and is down to the bone thanks 😁

  13. Ethan December 14th, 2019

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    • mck020751 December 14th, 2019

      thank for the reading !!!

    • mck020751 December 14th, 2019

      Hello Ethan ,  do mind me asking ?  When is your birthday ?  I have dated one and later married one the last one.  They are different . One is a jan.Aquarius  the other  one Feb.  Aquarius ,  Like night and day .

  14. Ethan December 9th, 2019

    Capricorns are so down to earth, but can benefit from being more open with Aquarius.
    Here is a free 2020 Forecast for CAPRICORN:
    I hope it helps.

    • mck020751 December 9th, 2019

      I a Capricorn woman and Aquarius man  was  very open with each other from the first time we met . we took the time to really learn each  other.  we was  soulmates for 35 yrs before he was called home , I really miss my husband  my best friend .

  15. keith the goat December 7th, 2019

    I’m a Aquarius, middle child, black male,six foot. I go through so much it’s crazy but this def helped me more then I thought

    • mck020751 December 14th, 2019

      Are you a Aquarius ? what month if you are ?  Or Capricorn ?

  16. Jen July 28th, 2019

    I met my aqua man online and it did take us a while to open up and get to know each other. He did figure out that i am guarded and have serious trust issues but he kept trying over and over again until i gave in.

    Anyways we met, we are trying the whole long distance relationship (he lives in a different state). We have talked about our future together etc, i told him I’m okay with moving for him. He seemed genuine at first and really loved the idea of me moving there. We both want something long term with each other, we both are open to the idea of settling down with each other in the future.
    The problem for me is that he told me i will need to get my own place when i move there (so i can have my own place and space) At least initially. That made me angry (because I’d be moving so we can be together) and it changed my entire perception of what things might be like once i move there for him.
    (My perception was created based off of the things he kept saying to me, like, “we are made for each other”, “we are meant to end up together”).

    Being a cap, i obviously need some sort of commitment from him before i move (not marriage, just moving in together). And i have tried to communicate and tell him what i want and what i expect, but he doesn’t seem to get it, he is sure that living apart in the beginning is the best option (maybe it is but I’m not willing to move to a different state, where i don’t know anyone, just for a man, to pursue a relationship that may or may not work).

    Soooo i have decided to end it all because the entire “getting my own place” suggestion seems too dodgy, especially if i consider how he led me to believe that things will play out differently.

    But deep down I’m sad about ending the relationship. It feels like I’m making a wrong decision, like I’m just overreacting about the whole “getting my own place” thingy. Also I’m scared that if i end it, I’m potentionally losing my soulmate.

    So I’m writing to get an unbiased analysis of the entire situation.

    • mck020751 July 28th, 2019

      Hello jen , i have dated two aquarius . I am a cap too. Never move for any man unless he is your husband.  I moved all my stuff out of  town and regretted it. You really know how people are until you live with them.  I can tell you this , if aquarius man really care and love you , he will move to be with you. If this guy telling you he don’t want to live together , then he sounds like he already in a relationship . or don’t want you to tired him down.  i broke off with one born in jan. i went out of town and got married. he kept coming to my mom house asking for me knowing i got married. but to me it was too late . when i married the one in feb. he was good to me and we stayed together until he passed away a year ago. We was together for 35 yrs.  I really missed him alot. so if this guy really meant for you , he will come for you. if not he never was .

    • Dee September 5th, 2019

      I’m an Aquarius myself. And the only reason I would say that is because I have doubts. I’m a master at sweet talking anyone’s ear off. But when it comes down to being serious and firm we will do our best to still have a way out. I don’t want to feel restrained and bound to a woman, especially at that rate. I would need a serious dose of blind trust to move in with a female. Just the thought of commitment, alone, is ludicrous to me.

      • mck020751 September 5th, 2019

        Well, my husband was Aquarius Man and I’m a Capricorn woman. we was together for 35 yrs. and married for 32 yrs. Before he passed .  I dated him for 3 yrs before I marry him.  We was soulmates .  I have dated Aquarius Man before him but broke it off because he wanted a friend with benifit  and I am not  gamed for stuff  like that . So i broke it off with him . I think the things he loved about me was I was very honest about how I feel about things  and so was he . It  can work with patient , trusts  communications !!!

  17. RRP June 19th, 2019

    I am a Capricorn girl & I was dating a Aquarius boy when we first met it was soo amazing he made me happy but we recently broke up in October & we haven’t been together in 7 months we were together for 1 year though. It was an harsh break up for me we blocked eachother off social media but recently in May we added eachother back but honestly I don’t think he love me anymore well at least that’s how I feel . I’m still not over him & I think he’s involved with somebody else but I love him & I feel like our love was real . Do you think he will come around ?

    • Elaine June 26th, 2019

      i am a capricorn too and was with my aquarius man for 35 yrs. married for 32 yrs. Become friend with him first. like go to a park or a pizza joint and get to know his mind. Ask him if he in a serious relationship. just remember if he is not married , then he might not want a commitment right off. But we had alots thing in common , enjoyed same type of movies ,music and go on . never nag him he as a giving person . if let him go free and he come back , he your if not he never was !!! is my motto.

    • mck020751 July 28th, 2019

      well, aqurius men love women. so don’t be surprised to find out he dating a few of them the same time as you . But once they been with you for awhile might see a change in them. they start commiting .

  18. DW April 25th, 2019

    I recently met a aquarius man. We have been talking a lot and have a first real date tonight. Our conversations flow like wine and he tells me how intriguing he finds me – which I really like to hear. I am excited to see him again. We met two weeks ago and ended up talking into the wee hours of the morning, ending the night with a sweet kiss that I have not been able to get out of my mind. I didn’t hear from him for over a week afterward but he did tell me he had to go out of town. When I did hear from him again, it was right where we left off. Reading this report, it is almost exactly how we interact. There is a warmth and friendship there that I want to explore much more deeply……….

    • mck020751 July 28th, 2019

      i founded out , first you need to talk more to learn more about mind , become friend first.

  19. Ally February 25th, 2019

    That makes me feel so much better about my relationship. I am a cap woman and my boyfriend is a Aquarius man (kinda obvious) and I had a bit of doubts because this is my first real relationship you know? Well now I know what happens between a relationship like this and I can see it may last long. Thank you!

  20. Sugarii February 8th, 2019

    I’m a cap woman. I met my Aqua man 4 years before my previous relationship. The breakup was a bad one and my aqua man was there for me from day one. I love the nonchalantness lol. I know no other female can have what I have from him. We were both healing and helping each other which made the relationship even stronger… I do require a ton of affection. I am old sxhool. He’s younger than me. So you’d think I’d be asking for too much but he just does whatever he can to help and keep me happy. So I always want him to be just as, if not happier. I also give him his space. I don’t have to know why or where he is all the time, and neither does he. AND THE SEX IS ALWAYS AWESOME !
    Just respect each other’s wishes and listen to one another.

  21. Netta October 15th, 2018

    Hey I’m a female cap and I’ve been dealing with a male Aquarius for about two months, and he’s already let me know that he loves me, but then says he wants us to stay friends. Like he’s constantly contradicting himself! One second I’m his baby girl and his lady, and then the next he’s not ready to settle down and I’m doing too much. I DONT GET IT

    • robert December 2nd, 2018

      Advice from an aquarium male–you need to capture his attention and make sure to keep it focused on you. Challenge his curious mind and teach him new things in bed. The more intriguing you can make yourself to him the more attracted he’ll be towards you. Warning though, once you’ve got his intrigue you must keep him in that state or else he’ll get bored and look for new things to satiate his constantly curious mind body and soul at least that’s the way I feel and act all the time and it’s really bad for relationships with signs that are really home centerered and like stability and repitition in their lives. Unfortunately my inquisitive mind gets bored and the wanderlust kicks in for new stimulus and information to acquire, process and retain. And and it doesn’t help relationships I’m in that I’m truly a social butterfly, where in my mind in simply meeting new interesting people in my partners mind if it’s a beautiful and/or very personable witty female the dragon comes out and that only further drives me away from the relationship I’m in and will sometimes sabotage it to away from the party and uncalled for jealousy, again I’m mind as its the Aquarian male in me that’s doing it even before I’m aware that I’m doing it by then my mind is made up and I’ll follow through with the self destruction. I wish I was more aware of my self destructive relationship behaviors when I was younger but at least I’m figuring it out now that I’m in my mid 40s. So that’s my advice and story of how to keep your Aquarian male constantly into you and not self destruct the relationship. This is coming from a fellow Aquarian male who is more aware of himself and his personality traits good and bad (again mostly unaware of our self destructive ways). Hope this insight and advice help you out!

      • Elaine June 26th, 2019

        could you tell what my husband means when he say he know me ? i am a capricorn woman and he a aquarian man

  22. Trina July 5th, 2018

    I’ve been in a long distance relationship with an Aqua man for over 2 Yrs now. It has been the most wonderful roller coaster ride. We became friends shortly after my marriage ended and he was very supportive and a great listener. I just developed feelings for him but was afraid to act on them until I started dating someone else and his jealous side showed. Fast forward we started a relationship but sometimes his aloof nonchalant personality makes me feel insecure so I broke up with him. All gloves came off and he showed me how he truly felt. We are now back together and obviously personality hasn’t changed much other than he puts in more effort to show me how he feels consistently but I know he’s my one!!!

    • John September 17th, 2018

      I am an aqua man “hanging out” with a cap woman. I am in a similar position as you described. Should I tell her straight up how I really feel? What is your advice as a cap woman

      • Elaine June 26th, 2019

        only if really mean it !!!! we have a way of telling if you being honest or not !!! we not easily fooled !!!

    • Iyanu January 5th, 2019

      Lol omg you relationship sounds just like mine. I’m a female cap and he’s an Aquarius. I met him while going through a divorce and he was there to listen and my friend for 2 years long distance. And then we got together then broke up and now back together and a lot stronger now. He’s about to relocate for me. I’m so in love with him. And he just told me he’s in love with me too. But it definitely was one hell of a rollercoaster ride lol.

  23. Cappgirl May 3rd, 2018

    How true and on point is this analysis?! I’ve read all the other compatability matches for Cap woman (except libra and Aries, don’t bother) and I find this one to be the most accurate. Aquarius men are insanely attracted to us Caps. Since elementary school, I’ve always found myself attracting Aquarian admirers. But they aren’t like other men in that they truly are interested in our thought process. Aqua men love thinking, and calculating, and they’re forever thinking of the future. Cap women present them with a train of thought so foreign to their own that it breeds new life in their minds and they adore this. They are the sign of water bearers but we are the women that replenish their knowledge.
    With all that being said though, I almost never get past friends with benefits stage with Aqua men. Cap women like me are usually very slow to commit due to our fear of being betrayed. We are intensely loyal and do not like wasting resources (commitment & loyalty are our resource). So we prefer to stay casual until the aqua man proves his loyalty through money spent and all.the traditional dating rites, such as flowers, jewelry, and opening doors, etc… Aqua man thinks this is dated and boring and cannot understand why we are so caught up on old fashioned rituals. This will polarize us and lead to relationship failure. It is literally the only thing keeping the relationship from thriving.
    People always argue that Caps are stubborn, but so are these fixed symbol men! It gets to the point that we’re both proving a principle that neither of us actually practices in our daily lives. Cap women appreciate tradition for its link to money and family ties but we’re everything but traditional in our daily living. Aqua men hate tradition because it hinders growth &progressive thinking, but these men are quite traditional in their daily routines and especially romantic relationships. They want to be head of their house and woman.
    My advice to make this amazing frienship blossom into lifelong love: Cap woman, maintain your independence until he is ready to act on all the traditional dating rites and become a financial provider. He’ll get there because he believes in it, but it has to be his idea.
    Aqua man, DO NOT attempt to belittle her beliefs or mock her traditions that you secretly admire in an effort to establish intellectual superiority and dominance. You’ll scare her off or worse, embarrass and offend her. Besides, you secretly want a traditional woman who supports you and all your endeavors. If you really need her to submit, then just open the dang door, send flowers, and show your ability to be a provider.
    And, yes Cap women can be very submissive in their behavior when they know the man they’ve chosen can be trusted to protect and provide. But they will never, NEVER, truly submit their will.
    Once these boundaries are established, you can both continue your adventures into outterspace and beyond, with a scrappy brood of aquagoats and lots of love (& $$$).

    • CappyGirl38 May 7th, 2018

      Thank you soo much for helping me understand, I’m a cap girl btw. Been associating with aqua male who started off with good convo, then asked for something more but I turned him down. So he ghosted me. Only to come back and ask again and again. I refused again I don’t do that!! I WILL if I felt secure enough with him emotionally, financially, or even sexually. But we haven’t gotten far enough and I don’t think we ever will because we can’t get past this hump haha

  24. Simple Simon April 16th, 2018

    Too complicated ladies. Being a man I can tell you that from our standpoint, we don’t see women as “relationships”, we see women with our eyes. I guess we always thought you knew that because you wear the tight jeans and show your cleavage to us all day long.
    Do you want us to be men? We don’t have the emotions that you do about life. We don’t have the same chromosomes or sex organs that you do.
    See that penis hanging down?
    That’s your new toy OK?
    If you want to ask a man to act like an emotional woman to better serve your needs, it would be easier for you to just date a woman!
    We like your body. That’s why we asked you out. Everything else we say we like about you comes second. <<<<learn this please.
    Body is always first…then the mind.
    You reverse that order all the time.
    How did you atract us in the first place?
    Miss tight jeans and cleavage?
    Oh you forgot that already.

    • Kdawg May 22nd, 2018

      well for that sake , ever men wasn’t raised the same
      We are not n for the same thing , when we enter a relationship. So rephrase what all you said.

    • Shay February 23rd, 2019

      Hahahaha Simple Simon your a douche bag who dosnt get or keep any woman hahaha made my night!! Such an ironic thing to say on a forum of mostly capricorn women who can clearly see this is just a man with an inflated ego and unkept sexuality. Keep chasn those tight jeans buddy its all you will ever be doing 👌😄

    • daw April 25th, 2019

      not true in all cases. Most, yes, but not all. I am heavier now than I have ever been and don’t feel attractive, but he and I talked for hours on in and the more we talked, the more he wanted to talk to me, until he had to spend time with me. Had to. He could not imagine not getting to discover what my mind produced. He is gorgeous and could have any woman he wants but spends his time huddled talking with me instead. Looks are only sink deep…but beauty radiates from within. Many Capricorn women are just that…beautiful.

  25. Connie M Rams March 24th, 2018

    Im with a aqu guy an hes good. Very loyal loving .Im a also has to do with the amount of respect we have for each other..he does love having his way an can be alil controling.. but most men are like t not just aqu..worse guy for me is a leo ..they are flirty an never happy with 1 woman

  26. HeadsorTails March 22nd, 2018

    Aquarius men are compulsive liars, untrustworthy, and controlling. I have known many, relative and past relationships and can say these men have no desire to be with just one woman. Move on and meet a sweet Capricorn man like I Did! Scorpio men are just as sweet and kind of controlling in a sexy way but you’ll have to help him break down that wall to his heart. Taurus men….no….they’re lazy and us Capricorn women are ambitious they will annoy you and you’ll feel like you can’t breathe! Aries and Libra it will never work they’re better off with a Virgo! I’ve haven’t met other signs so that is all!

  27. Juvy March 13th, 2018

    Hello again Eve, I feel you. I’m feeling the same way now. My aqua bf is the same, he go things that he like whether I agree or not..I feel crap today tbh..I’m starting to have a trust issue, as he is always on snapchat whilst I don’t know who he is snapchating with. I usually get instict in my past relationship and once I felt it I knew there was something going on..I am feeling that instict again, am I being paranoid? I dunno..

    We always videocall at night time and I always watch him while sleep and just hang up if I’m ready to sleep..that became routine every night. So ok tonight he suppose to come over and I prepare foods for dinner. But he called me earlier saying he couldn’t make it as there is urgent thing from his work..and by the time he will be here it will be late. While on the phone with him my voice suddenly changed and he could notice it..but I said I’m ok, and all good eventhough deep inside my heart I feel like I wanna scream and cry. Imagine the effort I’ve done today. I went shopping and prepared stuffs for our dinner then this will be the outcome ugghhhh I’m so disappointed, can’t even say a word how to express what I feel now..All I know is I want to cry😢😢..

    Last night I told him he better let me know in the morning if he cannot come. Calling me at 2:11pm is a joke! and right after I started cooking as it takes time to cook the beef casserole (should be slow cook)…

    I think, I should slow down and set him aside. I don’t wanna feel this way..I’m giving 100% in this relationship all the efforts, understanding and even I give him space and just wait for him to message me cause reading his signs is kinda need a lot of space and so weird moments with aquarius..Ughhh I just leave it as it is.

    Good luck to us…

  28. Eve31 February 27th, 2018

    I’ve had a 5 month relationship with this Aquarius Man, needless to say, i’m a Cap. he’s also my first… the relationship came into a halt when he decided to break up becoz he’s moving away for work.. past forward to 3 months after the “break up” he’s back to messaging me again.. like nothing happened.. and I kind of liked it. i still like him,, and i want him back, i want to be able to love him more, than i did with our 5 months relationship. we met a few days ago and now he’s back to not messaging me again.. but God knows how bad i want him in my life. is it just his “detached nature” or there’s really nothing in it?

    • Juvy March 3rd, 2018

      Hi Eve, sorry to hear about your experience with your bf.. I am a capricorn girl too and my bf is Aquarius, I’ve been reading my compatibility with him and it’s very intriguing yet my experience with him so far is so good. Although it’s too early to tell where this leads us but I’m hoping that somehow will turn out in a positive result, one month in relationship is the best feeling I ever had for the past 3 years..So true aquarius can be detached sometimes, I just let him do whatever he want and support him in everything he do. I give him time that he needed and the funny thing is he calls and message me constant so I think giving him space is a good way for him to miss me more..

      Eve, pls give your bf time to think..soon he will realise that he needs you in his life. We all know that capricorns can be clingy sometimes and we always give our 100% love and effort to someone we love, no doubt he will come back to you…believe me he will…

      • Eve31 March 4th, 2018

        Hi Juvy,

        Your nice words are very much appreciated. I’m actually at this point where I feel like I’m the only one wanting this “relationship” to continue. So much so that I’ve told myself that it’ll be fine if I can at least just have him for a year and after that, if he really didn’t like to be with me I would be more than thankful that I was at least given that much time to be with him and love him. I want him in my life and I want him bad. I have never loved anyone like this before. What can I do to have him back?

        I think he doesn’t like how I show my feelings for him because he told me once that I’m being dramatic hahah. For now, I’m giving him his time like I did for those 3 months. but what assurance do I have that I’ll have him back? I’m desperate for him.

  29. nona February 23rd, 2018

    Im attracted to an aquaria man and am a Capricorn woman. feels crazy cause we haven’t spent a whole lot of time together but he is very attentive towards me. I keep turning him down but only in fear of this failing. also, I’ve been hurt before I’m really scared to get into something to b hurt again…I like him so much, I wouldn’t want to ruin the buzz btwn us…but I can tell his frustrated. he seems so genuine and so honest and he makes me smile.

  30. Cooly September 18th, 2017

    Woman aquarianman wee were in love so deep it ended with a dv case lol he still hits me up m acting like he don’t want me
    But why hit me up
    Smh I still love him too that was my best friend our bond was so deep
    I was too jealous n his detachment made me jealous

  31. Mitah August 21st, 2017

    Hey guys. I am a cap and he is an aquarius. He told me he loves me but im scared to give him my love bcs ive been hurt too many times. And i sometimes fall in love quickly so im really scared to fall in love with him, although i know in my heart that i love him soooo much. *sighs*
    What should i do?

    • Taiwo Owoso September 19th, 2017

      If he really loves you, he will show it. If he shows it, you’re one lucky bastard!

    • Yvette Williams February 23rd, 2018

      Hello my sister I’m in the same boat I’m a cap I too already feel myself falling head over hills for my aquarius young guy.From my past hurt too.I say follow our hearts but still guard it with our emotions.

  32. C is for Cap July 29th, 2017

    I”m a Jan Cap woman and my man is a Jan Aqua man. We have genuine love for each other and we make each other laugh, I have never been one of those uptight cappys and I am more interested in the alternative and eccentric than he is but his love for humanity and freedom has taught me to be more tolerant of his quirky weirdness and he gets me when I get serious.

  33. C is for Cap July 29th, 2017

    I”m a Jan Cap woman and my man is a Jan Aqua man. We have genuine love for each other and we make each other laugh, I have never been one of those uptight cappys and I am more interested in the alternative and eccentric than he is but his love for humanity and freedom has taught me to be more tolerant of his quirky weirdness and he gets me when it is time to be serious

  34. capricorn female June 7th, 2017

    bruh im a capricorn woman and im so in love with my aquarian man… he is the most selfless and romantic sign of the zodiac once you catch his interest. As a capricorn female my advice is to flaunt your intellect. We are intelligent, driven, and have wild thoughts in which the aquarian man cannot resist. Be patient as well…. patience is an capricorns best trait.. you know how obsessively patient we get when we want something righ cp ladies lol. Well a aquarian man also goes nuts for that too. do not restrict him he is a sucker for the good old cat and mouse chase. so flaunt your best qualities , give him space, and watch him chase you!

    • Debra June 9th, 2017

      So True wiw

    • Robert December 2nd, 2018

      Aqua man here– you really know how to intrigue and keep us aqua men c coming back forever. Truer words and advice as to how to get your aqua man to commit and stay committed have never been read by this Feb 7 aqua man. Take this advice straight to the bank deposit it, spend it, do whatever with it, this is ironclad 100% guaranteed to work!!!

      Are you single? Because you’ve caught my attention! Lol

  35. Aqua Man May 31st, 2017

    The love relationship b/w these two is real and intense and one to cherish for ever…..until the Cap woman starts showing her selfish and self-centerd side causing the Aqua man (who is usually selfless in his decision making) to go cold. All the Aqua man needs is for the Cap Woman to be selfless in her thinking and then watch the Aqua Man go into action. He knows exactly what the Cap woman needs but what he does’nt need is to feel like a fool in a relationship…. eapecially in the area of finance. An Aqua man is ready to give up all in the area of finance as it means little to him. His values are in things far higher than what money can provide. Unfortunately, it is the direct opposite for a Cap Woman who seems to have great value for material treasures making her to tend towards selfishness in that regard.

    Apart from the above, the Cap woman is sweet to be with. She establishes a sence of stability in her Aqua Man. Her calm composed nature triggers a sense of balance that the Aqua Man sincerely craves for. Her nature promises peace for the Aqua Man. Her practical way of easily dealing with issues constantly fascinates her Aqua Man who generally likes to approach issues from all its possible angles all at the same time requiring tremendous energy….lol

    And the sex….it is usually an unforgettable experience that leaves the Aqua Man wishing it never comes to an end. It is always a new experience each time…lol. This is however greatly dependent on the Cap woman. If she looses herself of any emotional obstacle and opens up herself for great sex it is always wonderful. So simply put, she controls to a large extent when the sex should be great or just a way of easing out. And the Aqua man usually notices this easily. He can infact see through his Cap Woman like a mirror….no matter how hard his Cap woman wants to hide her emotion.

    By the way I am an Aqua Man (Feb) married to a Cap (Dec) woman for almost 14yrs now. We met at the University, since the first time we set eyes on each other we just could not let each other go. We had serious issues in the early part of our marriage but with love, we conquered.

  36. Lena88 May 1st, 2017

    I’m madly in love with my Aquarius man.. and the feeling is mutual.. he treats me like royalty and in return he is spoiled like a king. My best friend and the greatest love of my life!

  37. Patty March 28th, 2017

    That’s right if he meets the standards and qualifies there is royal treatment very intense

  38. Cappy March 9th, 2017

    Yup! I’m a Cap that gets called “a good girl” once it’s on between an Aqu & me. ♑️♒️ For sure, an Aqu man can make this Cap woman go crazy with both pleasure and frustration. It’s pretty cold how an Aqu man will leave his Cap woman out of his social life and be awol when it comes to parties where a Cap woman would like to be seen with a plus one by her side. ? Still, an Aqu man can spark a different side to a Cap woman that she didn’t even know she had going on. And, it’s quite an ego boost for a Cap woman to know that an Aqu man is never going to get it as good as he gots it once he gets it from her.

  39. Marle March 1st, 2017

    ‘submissive’ 🙂 Lol, you are setting some men up for a very painful wake up call here.

    Let’s just say that there are certain standards that you gotta meet in order to get that royal treatment and who sets those standards? Haha 🙂

    You don’t put in the work then you don’t get the rewards, simple as that, and if you prove to be dead weight then..cut! Too busy to be any man’s maid or mother.

    Ya’ll Cap women will know what I mean 😉

  40. Sonja February 2nd, 2017

    Bitchhhhhhhhhhh who are you calling submissive

    • Christy February 20th, 2017

      To be honest, neither of the 2 signs are submissive.

  41. ZetSpliff June 10th, 2016

    Someone help please, I want to know how to keep my Aqua man attracted to me.

    • Axel January 12th, 2017

      Do exactly what he says and bend, he loves you and sex is awesome and you know it. You frustrate him because you don’t talk the same way he talks. He finds you beautiful, he probably awaits material & financial security or at least plans and full trust on you so he can be free of mind of these boring things and concentrate on the only things that matter: your body your mind your soul and giving all his love only to you. This is what I’d copy & write to my Capri love… Do you think I should send it exactly this way to her? Cuz I’m so fucking upset the only thing that matter to me is to give her all my love and give her orgasms & orgasms & orgasms at any cost ´tis the only thing I want to do in life the rest doesn’t matter.

      • Axel January 12th, 2017

        What bothers me sooo much is that she talks only with acts like allegoric and her whole words are pure crap which, in a way, is not crap it’s just inconsitent we don’t have the same approach about words and logic she’s only focused on pratical infos & speak romance with action clothes smiles & all well am I really angry or just so in love cuz she’s perfect??? Yet it’s not perfect cuz I’m home & she’s home and my fingers aren’t running all over her body but she’s in my whole mind and heart… I hate her!!

      • snapple June 14th, 2017

        You should tell her she’s probably going insane right now. Us capricorns don’t understand hold ups and “waiting to be financially stable”. Look if she’s a good one she’s not gunna give a shit what your financial situation is, as long as you have drive and ambition to keep climbing up the ladder in your job field you’re good. Us caps love hard working people bc we like working hard, and seeing that drive in a guy is sexy as hell. What we don’t understand is mixed signals, excuses, and hold ups. Either we want something and we go after it or we don’t want it and we won’t. Caps are patient people but there’s a limit and it becomes a turn off when the guys actions don’t match his words. So stop making up bullshit excuses and tell her straight up, she would rather work hard and hustle with you than wait till your financially stable.
        Oh and if she loves you back, which I’m sure she does, that whole jealously & possessiveness thing above is 100% accurate, we are crazy loyal so we expect the same, so if you can’t give her that let her go now. If we’re going celibate waiting on your ass to make a move we damn well expect you to do the same, which is saying a lot bc us caps don’t do celibacy. But understand that our loyalty runs so deep that our stubborn asses WILL hold off from sex from anyone but YOU. When a cap really and truly falls for someone, sexual desire can no longer be satisfied by anyone but that person, so we don’t bother with random bar or online hookups bc we know it won’t fill that void, no one will fill that void but you. But believe me you will not like her when the sexual frustration starts to sink in and she starts to take it out on you when you won’t put out.
        And we like being in relationships because this “in between” phase is emotionally exhausting, and when girls poach on what we view as ours and we can’t call them out on it, it is THE most frustrating and disheartening feeling ever. Your girl should never have to question if you’re fucking with other girls on the side, ever.
        No excuses, no more putting it off, man up and pursue your girl and MAKE HER YOURS or walk away and stop stringing her along. And seriously if she still fucks with your ass I’m sure she loves you and just wants to be with you and is probably insane bonkers over the moon for you so GO FOR IT!!!

    • Howie February 10th, 2017

      Just be a little open minded. We are a little eccentric 🙂 We paint in all the corners of the box. If you can appreciate that, an Aquarian will be very bound to you. We have a different perspective, and are maybe put on earth with a slightly offbeat mission. I think we see things that others may not. I find we are very loyal folks. Hitch a ride….

  42. ZetSpliff June 10th, 2016

    Hi I am a Cap women in a commited relationship with a Scopio man, my man is great and I have been happy since, I have never looked at another man or flirt with another man untill in April this year. Aa Aquarian man (who works at the coffee shop as a barista) at work asked me to come sit with him so we can talk about the future, I did not go immediately so everytime I go  to the coffee shop for cappuchino he would asked me when am I coming to visit him at the coffee shop, eventually I went without thinking anything. When I started going to him, I did not stop untill all my colleagues where aware that I disappear from my desk for almost an hour.
    We talk about a lot of things, and we flirt and talk about sex in an open way, he likes how I think and the way I respond. One day he asked me how are things with my man at home and I told him everything is fine. Then he told me that he really cares about me, I couldn’t respond at that time. but I kept on going to visit him everyday, eventually I asked him out on a coffee date outside of work and he agreed but he never made it. Now he says he wants something solid but he reilizes that I cannot give it to him because I am already in a relationship. I want him badly, and I think he wants me too but how do I make sure. I want to push but I am afraid to push him away.
    Everyone at work is talking about us his colleagues say he looses focus when he is with me. he says everything is well with him when I am next to him. But I feel he is doing things to slow but not make any moves. what can I do to have him by my side in full. For the first time I am willing to even cheat on my scorpio partner.

  43. Tazshia August 21st, 2015

    I am a 22 year old Capricorn woman and I talk to a 30 yer old aquarious male..this seems so accurate but how would you know if they aren’t interested will he just say so or just distance himself and hopes you catch on. But i really like this man and he catches my eye and just keeps me interested in him he seems so perfect and he is a ut distant I don’t try to smother him but I would like to see him more

    • Bohemian642 December 18th, 2016

      As an Aquarius man I can tell you that most of the time we don’t know ourselves when we are not interested. Above all else we need a partner to challenge us and stimulate our thoughts because we think about everything and jump around a lot. It’s very possible that this man is interested but he will almost always question his own interest and if a new person or even just a different person comes along that can be enough to make him question wether you are the right one for him. The best way to keep him interested is to always surprise him with new ideas and new things about yourself. We are very inquisitive and he will always keep you in his mind as long as there is potential for you two. He will not tell you he is not interested unless you have made some kind of formal arrangement like to be exclusive and only then if your interactions become common place or boring. It can be difficult with us because we are a mix of contradictions. he may lead you to believe that your relationship is comfortable because of how much you have in common or the enjoyment in the beginning but he will grow restless and need more stimulus to stay committed. We love to talk and learn and share. I would send him texts or emails/links to interesting things to build a dialogue. He will love your casual approach and come to respect your thought provoking interactions. Its also a way to engage him without seeming needy or smothering.

  44. AmbiV March 21st, 2015

    Excuse my venting but this is my love for an Aquarian man. I am a Cap woman and am still in love with an Aquarian man. In middle school, 01-03, I always found him to be very cute funny an interesting,but he was dating a “friend” of mine. But we later expressed to one another that we liked each other. But we remained great friends. We hadnt seen each other for years and when we finally did, it was something that sparked within me that turned on every emotion and feeling i ever had towards him. It was going into our senior year in high school, 06, when we finally seen one another and allowed ourselves to stop bs’n and be with each other. It was amazing. He was different from the guys I knew, dated, were relates to…like a breath of fresh air in my polluted world. I was his first and he was my first love. I believe i was his first love as well. Sex, well love making, was amazing and for me to be his first he was very in tune with pleasing me any way he could. My emotions were fragile and as soon as o seen pics of him n his ex on an updated slideshow, my jealous and emotional side took over. With no communication on the situation I broke up with him. He was upset of course especially when he told me the actual situation and I felt like an idiot. 
    Not together anymore, we still had sex but it wasn’t the same because emotions were missing. I started dating someone, 07,  trying to get over my Aquarian and tho I was into the new guy, Libra, I couldn’t get over my ex. We still kept in touch every chance we got, but mostly me reaching out to him. Me n Libra man started to become distant in our relationship and my feelings for my Aquarius became so much stronger. We got back together again in 08, and tho our ups were all the way up our lows were the lowest and very painful. I was very expressive emotionally and he was always there for me and I loved and adored him for it. He was completely opposite. He held his emotions deep inside, and when I would try to be as supportive for him as he was me, he’d bury it deep so I couldn’t reach it, then become quiet. This bugged me. I felt i lost my friend. After a while, I became numb and distanced myself from him the Libra boy was back in my life. I was messed up I have to admit it. Young and selfish. Eventually with all the back and forth between the two, my Aquarian got off the ride and got married to a woman he didn’t even Iove, then shortly got it annulled, and I had a baby by the Libra who didn’t know if he loved me or not because of me leaving him for the Aquarian, in 2010, confusing I know. 
    Though completely broken up, I was still madly in love with the Aquarius and hated myself for years for hurting him the way I did. Over the years since I had my son, wed text or email every now and then. Flirt with the idea of getting back together but because of his career, it didn’t seem possible at least to me. Me being selfish again. I know I had not learned yet. Me n the Libra one last time had gotten back together again in 2013, and actually got engaged, but because I was not as in love as I thought I was, I was not 100% there and he for the last time had broken up with me, which was very common in our on again off again relationship. But tho I was hurt at first it had occured to me that had I had married him, we both would’ve been miserable. I did not love him. I loved the idea of us together with our son as family. But I was still in love with and loved my Aquarius.
    Me and my Aquarius have found ourselves back into one another’s lives again, well me in his. So, I am trying to show him my love and I know he is unsure though he has told me he does wan tot be back with me, with him being in the military I know this will be a major challenge, but assume God has placed us in all of these situations for a reason. I pray that it is in His will that we get back together and he love for my son and my son love for him. I do feel like me coming to him and even speaking about him and I getting back together took a lot. I mean after all we been thru, does he even love me anymore. I have told him a few times I still love him but I know he just wants to be sure that if he does give us another try again, that I don’t hurt him again. I get it, so I have a lot to prove, but my thing is, with reading everything above, I know we have a lot of work to do. 
    Long story I know this is over 10 years of an emotional love rollercoaster ride with the one man that I have truly loved and praying to get back. Though he had his flaws, he was so much more of an amazing man to me than any other man I know. He was the only one that made me feel like a woman, didn’t point out my flaws but uplifted me. Spoiled me without having to break the bank because I never asked for him too. Til this day he gives me butterflies. But this whole being distant while long distant from one another, and him in the military, its hard as hell. But it says Aquarian men distant themselves from the ones tthey love, this is going to add to the challenge of winning him back. Hold on to your Aquarian men Cap women, they will love you so much more and so much better than the rest, make sure to show that love back to him. Flaws and all he deserves it. Forgive my book writing

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  46. RandhawaAlee January 18th, 2014

    @meenaz_m123 After reading your story meri ankhon main ansu aa gae. If you still didn’t get married, please contact him. Aur uss ko sari situation clear karo. He definitely will consider.  And plase don’t ignore. Aquarius are just like they can’t express their feelings. But after all they are human and emotions are deep down in their heart. Its upto you to let him know about your feelings. Me too in love with cap girl but unfortunately not able to express her. We are in contact a little but I think she hasn’t the same feeling as I have. I don’t know what to do next 🙁

  47. orchids1502 January 13th, 2014

    I am a 27 yr-old Cap woman. 2 yrs ago, I met a Aqua man. After 3 months knowing, we seemed to fall for each other, but we both were in relationship with other people. He was with his 1st love, and I got married. We knew nothing can happen with us. We tried to fall apart and considered the other as a friend but it didn’t work. 2 months after the first crush time, he and his girlfriend broke up, and I know I was a reason. I felt so terrible when thinking I caused a misery for another girl. But I also realized I truly love him. I had been thinking of him every moment, even I tried to thinking of my husband instead. We couldn’t speak up our feelings and still tried to fall apart over and over again, because we both knew that love won’t have future. I have had responsibility for my family, and he seemed unsure about his love and his courage is not strong enough to take that risk. After more than a half year being together with many times of trying to be apart, now he already has walked away from my life for 1 yr. But I can’t forget him. I miss him every day, every time. I know I must forget him and move on, but it’s too hard… He is the love of my life 🙁

    • Axel January 12th, 2017

      Until next ? I had a passion with a Scorpio in 2010, lasted one month. At some depth in my nights I think of her, of us, and I’m happy (well…right now) because I knew her and I knew “THAT” intensity of love that last in my heart. I met a Capri girl this year and context make it impossible, it means from my ideal of what I want with her is impossible, so I’ve got his heart burning and burning again and all my mind and body melts for her and now I accept it, that doesn’t mean I won’t text her again even if I told her “Adieu” nor maybe going to her and have incredible moments of love & lust. These kind of things happens in life, which is both a blessing and a curse, and I’l highly sensitivite and it kills me but Oh, what a beautiful way to die…

      • Axel January 12th, 2017


  48. meenaz_m123 June 5th, 2013

    hi everyone
       2day my age is 27, but was in love with an aquarian man since i was 16 n he was 21 ,we met in college he proposed me n i said yes,he was the first n last man in my life , even 2day i love him, he broke the relationship when i was 18, came back when was 20,again broke when i was21,pached up when i was 22 n then again left me whn i was 23, after that we jus spoke on fone for 2 yrs,then suddenly when i was 25 he told me not to call n contact him,i did what he said s i loved him alot,now recently i got a mail from him in that he said he is sorry what he did,s he was leaving india,he proposed me again n told me that he wants to marry me,i said no,s now i cant trust him,he came back from abroad even after that he told me he is ready to marry me if i say yes, but now i dnt wanna marry him,i love him alot,n will never love any one else apart from him, but i dnt knw y suddenly he wants to marry me, i m very simple girl n m not involved with any guy,i waited for him so long ,i thot if my love for him is true he will surely come back,aur aj vo agaya,but mera dil nai mann rahe ab uske liye,he has hurted me alot,mene sleeping pills bi liye hai use bhulne k liye,so that me ache se so saku aur uski yaad naa aye muje,mene apne app ko bohat busy kar liya taki vo muje yaad naa aye,but aj bhi me sirf use yaad karti hu,mene kisi aur se shadi karne ka faisla kr liya hai but me khud hi shaadi prospone krte jaa rai hu,what to do i cant understand, muje pata hai me use kabi nai bhul sakti fir bi aj kisi aur se shaadi krne jaa rai hu, ye me isisliye like rai hu ,taki kabi zindagi me vo pade to use pata lage k mene use kitna chaaha h, mere dil pe to afz likh diya mene but apni mehndi k hato pe shayd koi aur naam ho, bohat taklif hogi muje kisi aur se shhai karne me,but usne jo kiya mere saath me use bhul nai sakti, v never had physical relation with eachh other mashallah itna pure relation tha hamara,but pata nai use kya chahaiye tha aur uske dil me kya tha k muje chod diya achanak ek din… i dnt knw afz k tum ye padhoge ya nai,but agar puri life me kabi bi ye read karo to muje mere email id pe reply karna… jus wanna tel  I LOVE U……. jite ji nai mil paye inshaallah marne k baad jarur milege………………

  49. VoodooKat420 February 19th, 2013

    @harley honey hmmmm just curious as you seem so Aquarian aloof. Have you found real love yet? Love is not just a four letter word but with the right person can be transcendental. Meow! I hope you don’t keep your heart too closed. Not all of us Cappies wear our hearts on our sleeves, I know I don’t; however I keep my heart open to the possibilities, and I do put myself out there. Love is so much more than a four letter word unlike F*&^. Just sayin… 🙂 I hope you find or have found the man of your dreams, you’ll know then. Hugs!

    • Axel January 12th, 2017


  50. VoodooKat420 February 19th, 2013

    Hi I am a Capriquarian woman 45 and I am in love and living with my 45 year odl Aquarian man. We met way back in high school in 1984 adn were just friends back then. About 3-4 years ago we connected again on FB and talked here and there but nothing really came about from it. I was not attracted to him in anyway, he was just an old friend from high school and he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend. Well in July of 2012 we connected again and started chatting more frequently, and yes we were still attached to other people. Finally in Aug of 2012 he started telling me that he was having issues with his GF, and I was in a 3 year long distance relationship that was losing it’s fizzle. He asked me out for a drink one night and I said no maybe another time. Then a second time he asked, and insisted and I thought it would be fun to hang out and talk about old times with him. Well that night we drank and had so much fun! He is not super cute, but I found his to be so charming, charismatic, and a total sweetheart and I was totally drawn to his personality! I already felt myself falling for him the first night and he felt the same, but we knew we shouldn’t since we were with other people. To make a long story short we left our then S.O.’s soon after that and have been together ever since!! We are veryhappy and very much in love and now live together, and will most likely get married in the future as he always talks about how he wants to marry me. I love him so much and we always take good care of each other, and the sex is HOT!!! Love my aquarian man!!!!

    • Tanya October 28th, 2018

      Hi Kat uplifting to hear your thoughts! I just recently started talking to a Aquarius. This is my first time ever being with an Aquarius sexually! He is Iranian/ Persian, which is also my first time doing this as well! He is sexy, smart and a gentlemen. And most of all the conversations and sex are AMAZING! They are only getting better. I’m a 27 yr old Capricorn and he is 30. I had met him when he was interviewing me for his business as I wanted a PT job while running my business on the side. We had a unique chemistry and I wanted to learn more. I had called him back after accepting another job to be respectful and give him a heads up. A month later he called me for help with his business and it was my pleasure to do so. Our business date turned into more…:) We are still talking and seeing each other, but we are both busy working achieving goals. This is good so we can give time to miss each other. As of now we been talking and seeing each other once a week, which IS PERFECT for now!

  51. mskayleebaby December 9th, 2012

    From reading alot of this comments I’ve seen to relate to acouple of them. I, too, am a Cappy Woman involved with a Aqua man. We met for the first time at a hangout. He though, was talking to a mutual friend I had knew. That night I seemed to have a eye on him. Even though they were together half the night (from what I heard), he too started eyeing me. I noticed that after my short arrival there and he had seen me, his whole aspect on her looked like it changed. He ended up hiding from her the whole night. Let me mention she was a Gemini. Which I thought that Aqua’s & Gemini’s generally get along well, they seemed to not hit it off that great. Nothing happened between us that night though. I didnt mind much since we didnt conversate or anything. About almost a year later he ended up finding me on Myspace(beginning of 2010). He messaged me saying he missed me and whole lotta things. I found that kinda akward but akward enough to make me blush. Lol. We talked alot and then shortly exchanged numbers. It was a everynight thing, a everyday thing until he ended up getting locked up for half a year. As soon as he got released he came looking for me all over Facebook(End of 2011). From there we hit it off. We arranged time to hangout and finally got to talk more and catch up about what had happened in the past and what not. We had great laughs and great convos. I ended up leaving back to his town with him that night. We grew so comfortable with eachother it was surprising since I am a little insensitve about people I dont know too well. Since then we have got together but broke up once. Now we’re just working out on things. I really think we have a strong connection. He makes me feel wanted and appreciated while I make him feel that he can trust me and not question my loyalty. He is a Feb. Aqua & I’m a Dec. Cap. I do get irritated by his mood swings sometimes but I get over it quickly. I am convinced that these two signs can be amazingly compatible. We have different ways of life but when we do come together we have this emotional & mental bond. I hope we can finally work things out for the better and plan on a great successful life as one.

  52. EMZ November 12th, 2012

    I met a younger aquariaus man a few weeks a go on an Internet dating website, first we started talking, then flirting. I thought he was cute but as I’m 25 and he’s 20, I was unsure if things would work out but I decided to give it a go and met up with him. At first I was still unsure, but as the night went on, one thing lead to another and the sex was AMAZING, it was so intense!! I would say, give Aquarius guys a chance 🙂 

    • Axel January 12th, 2017

      Capri girls are amazing creatures with soft soft soft skin & when you open OMG I die I litteraly die bound me and just lay on bed while we stay there for eternity ❤️❤️❤️

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  54. fusciapink September 27th, 2012

    Am a Dec Cap in love with this feb Aqua guy.. we were in a relationship many yrs back for sometime…but I ended it . It was a terrible blow for me as he had hidden the fact that he was divorced before (in 2 yrs he cudnt come up and say that to me). I came to know from some other people and he used to be sooo aloof to me that I was convinced I didn’t matter to him at all…that he was just jerking me around. Which could be true. I was just 22 then..and hopelessly in love with him. He was 29. He never returned calls, talked maybe 1-2 times a month and we met even less. But he insisted that he loved me.
    When we did meet or talk, we were on fire. But it was too far in betn and then it anyways ended. But for me…it was never over. I cut all contact with him and for the last 8 yrs I have longed for him in silence.
    Meanwhile I dated someone else..he is also a gr8 guy. caring, loving and smart. we got married. but now the fizzle has completely died.
    and this aqua chap contacted me recently..and I have been talking to him everyday online. I was deliriously happy though I know maybe it didn’t mean the same to him. We talk a much. He told me he missed me for a long time. And he was like ‘ I dont know why u cut off like that’…..
    that’s just unfair..I had told him why. and he never even gave me an explanation y. even now he doesnt really talk about it.
    I am so confused. Am I just an old flame for him ? I know I love him. but will I just get hurt in the end if I continue this ? Should I get out of my marriage for this guy ? who I dont even know if he loves me really or not ? Am I cheating just cos I have connected with him ?
    I just …want some answers. Why are Aquas so bad with providing them ?? 🙁 a word to all aqua men ..if u r in love with a cap girl..PLEASE TELL HER. and dont let her go. please. u wont find a more loving loyal girl in the world…but please dont act elusive just to act cool. u might lose out on some love of a lifetime.

    • Axel January 12th, 2017

      I really really think words have no power on Capricorns & Aquarius, only love, feelings, attraction and amazing sex have power and speak for itself. Mine, is a bitch. A fucking lovely bitch of love.

  55. capricorn4life September 25th, 2012

    @JGordon it is VERY difficult when you have the same group of friends. The fact that he is friends with your boyfriend is probably another factor as to why he is reluctant to give you a response. Would you break up with your boyfriend to date the aquarius? If your boyfriend found out that you have feelings for the aquarius would you care? He very well may be your soul mate, but just take your time and see what happens. He will get back to you when he feels the time is right. It may not be anytime soon, considering that he is aware that you have a boyfriend. Have faith and you wil be united with your soul mate. I would say start developing a solid friendship with the aquarius first.

  56. capricorn4life September 25th, 2012

    Let me start by saying that I am a Capricorn woman. When I was 17 I met an 18 year old Aquarius during my freshman year in college. Initially when he approached me, I was not receptive. I would see him around campus, and noticed that I grew an attraction for him. Something inside of me told me to approach him in the cafe, and I am convinced that was one of the BEST decisions I’ve ever made in my life. We developed such a strong connection that words cannot even express the depth of our bond. We spent hours talking, and we had the ability to stimulate each other’s minds…it was amazing. He became my best friend, the person I trusted the most! Due to our situations back home, we were unable to fully commit to one another. Throughtout the years, we were both involved in different relationships, but they never worked out. FOUR YEARS passed without us seeing each other, and I admit, I missed him. I saw him three weeks ago, and it felt as though NOTHING changed. All it took was us looking into each other’s eyes, and I knew that THIS was our time…our moment to reconnect. We have been communicating daily, and I also made a trip to see him last weekend. He is my best friend, but I am convinced that we are soul mates. We connect on an emotional, spiritual, mental and sexual level. He has told me that he loves me, and I love him too. I cannot wait for us to spend the rest of our lives together because after ten years, I know that he is the one for me. We finish each other’s sentences ALL of the time and he is very loyal to me. I must say, I am a December Capricorn and he is a Februay Aquarius. I dated a January Aquarius and that failed miserably lol, but my FEBRUARY AQUARIUS is AMAZING!!!

  57. JGordon September 5th, 2012

    We had an outing with a group of friends and I meet an Aquarius man while sitting out at the pool (2008). It was getting late and everyone else went to their rooms, we were left their having drinks I was attracted to him immediately, I think he was attracted to me also. We both went to our rooms and it left me wondering if I was with my soul mate???? I didn’t bring it up again because we were both evolved with other people. We were all at another outing and I told him I had something to tell him but never had a chance (early 2012). We were on another trip in July (2012) and he is no longer with his girl friend, we had battery problems so I rode to dinner with him that night, while some of the guys were working on getting the Battery changed a few of us went to the night club, and I finally told him how I fill, he didn’t respond to me that night but I think he fills the same. We have not made any connections because I am still with my boyfriend and they have become friends. He has told me he would let me know his feelings when no one else is around…but that has not happened yet….It’s tough when you have the same group friends…..   

  58. africanpride May 1st, 2012

    I’m a Capricorn woman and I’m crushing on a Aquarius man. I haven’t told him yet. I love his personality and he is absolutely gorgeous! I do plan on telling him one day.

  59. carter January 24th, 2011

    i ordered cosmically a beautiful women, intelligent, caring, ambitious, emotionally stable with a good reputation n sexy as hell! after exciting aries, intelligent gemini, ambitious sagitarus and caring libra ive come to realise what i was looking for was right in front of me… or i should say behind seeing as im an aquarian and shes a capricorn! it hasnt even happened yet but once i direct her to this page she’ll realize love @ 1st sight is applicable when both lovers are observant, analytical and informed, matters of the heart r scary but honesty, loyalty and direction will get us there! (Lydia???)

  60. sakeena November 5th, 2010

    Down there about to graduate, and all i could think is how i wasted this whole yr not saying nothing to him. all i remember sayn is “God if what i feel about him is right, then please let me tell him how i feel” i was so nervous, long story short, when the graduation was over, i went looking for him saw him bt chickened out. then made myself find him again b4 i had to go home. when i seen him my body stoped n the weirdest thing happened, he came to Me smiling gave me a BIG hug! i told him how i felt about him, idk if he felt the same, think so b/c he gave me his #:) i havent really talked to him Since B/C i lost his number, and he went to college but i know deep down we will be together one day if its Gods will! btw, hes a aquarius:):) And has a beautiful soul!

  61. sakeena November 5th, 2010

    Im a capricorn woman and around this time lastyear i fell in love with my soul mate. litterly love at first site! i remember when i looked at him, his eyes were cole black, but i seen a beautiful person inside and out. i was always so nervous to talk to him because deep in my heart i knew i had mett the ONE, and didnt know how to react to it. i had decided since i rearly never talk to him then just move on. and i did. i started to get close to this other guy. the school year was almost over we had one week of school left and then he would graduate. the night before the last week of school i had the weirdest dream. i dreamed we couldnt live with out eachother and woke up crying because i knew all along that one special guy i had been looking for was him! so i stoped talking to the guy i was talking to, and tried to tell the guy whom i loved, how i feel. when i seen him at school, i felt like it wasnt the time to tell him (idky i just go by my feelings) so on his graduation night, i remember seeing him

  62. dwnhomegrl July 20th, 2010

    OMG!!! i am a 34 yr old cap woman and im currently seeing a 39yr old aquarius man. id also always read that we werent that compatible. my whole family are aquarians-my mom, my dad, and my only brother. i could know an aquarian better than most u could say- but had never dated one. this man and myself have been lifelong friends but i always thought he was never my type or he was too short for me(he’s 5’6″ and im 5’10”. we finally hook up one night and have been seeing each other since. he is really sweet and just pets me constantly! i love that shit! someone who will love on me as much as i do them. its really nice 2 be the one getting spoiled for a change. we have GREAT sex and just cant keep hands off or tongues out of each other’s mouth!! BTW he is an awesome kisser. i wonder how the relationship’s gonna go- we’ll see! they say that u always find someone like your dad or brother so for 1 hes aqauarius and 2 he’s got a belly just like my brother’s. ive never dated a guhy with a bigger belly but i love 2 rub and tickle him all the time. hell, my belly’s not small so im not being mean. i love his damn belly!!best sex ive had in years- i mean years,- and the passion is there, too. we will see. by guys, thanks for the info!!! good luck cap women!!! we know theres no other women like us!! LMAO

  63. Jeff May 3rd, 2010

    i think it will seriously work out if the aquarius man is willing to follow her rules, and be independent YET he must give his time on his own decision to be with her. For me i see her every damn day. she wants to be with me and i want to be with her. she see’s me more then her own boyfriend! LOL well they now broke up cuhz of me. So infamous of me, but i love her to death. i thought capricorn’s werent into sex? i feel like playmate of the year myself!

  64. Jeff May 3rd, 2010

    I’ve know this girl for nearly 2 years then went to jail & never talked to her for almost 9 months cuhz i was in jail. my last text message (while i was getting arrested) was from the capricorn woman i was talking to. I am aquarius man and is talking to a capricorn woman. we started talking and this has been soo great! but she is dating a LEO which is obviously not working out. she is really falling for me, even when i didnt expect she was, she told me strait up she thinks about me all the time. calls me, myspace me, & the whole nine yards. its fireworks everywhere. she is soo right for me. not only is she gorgeous on the outside but she is more gorgeous in the inside. i say astrology is wrong! we are breaking the boundaries of astrology.

  65. harley honey March 9th, 2010

    you all wear your heart on your sleeves.. not a good thing.

    I am an aquarius female and enjoy life, do not chase men, they chase me…
    love is just another four letter word people.

  66. Hmmmmm January 23rd, 2010

    Not interested at all in an aquarian who seems to be drawn to me, i am not drawn to him…

  67. Caprica January 22nd, 2010

    Hmmmm I have my reservations about capricorn men…

  68. Ms. Woods January 11th, 2010

    I am a 45 year female capricorn met and fell in love with a 4o year old aquarius, and he is so affectionate and loving, it took a while for me to really take him serious and take notice, but when we got together it was like fireworks, this article describes us to a T.

  69. Mz cool December 20th, 2009

    oh my goodness…you hit this one dead on… i have been to other sites but never have ive seen it written down to the wire and is so encouraging instead of saying these two signs are destined for failure. Who ever wrote this you are good. Im a 29 capricorn female born jan 7 and my mate is 43 and born jan 22. i could say hes on the cusp of being cap/aquarius. if you have any more advice on the cusp male i would sure like to hear it. we been together for 3 years and its peaceful in our house and more jokes then heated conversations. hes just right for me. he never says love u, miss u, need u…he just shows it..maybe when he marrys me he’ll say it. when i ask him he saids yes i love you.. he doesnt kiss but he does everything else so i guess i cant complain. i tell em but ive learn that some people are not into kissing as much as others.. but other than his unpredictable ways. ive adjusted to alot because of makes you bear all things.

  70. D November 16th, 2009

    I am also a capricorn dating an aquarian. Well, more like FWB. He has told me loves me, several times, and I beleive he does, but it has not prompted him to start a consistent relationship with me. Something about needing to finish to complete a work goal and not feeling financially stable. It is very frustrating, but because I’m in love and he does seems sincerely smitten when he’s with me, I stay open to the possibility that it just might develop into something. From all I’ve read on aquarians, when there emotions get too intense they need lots of space to process. Strong emotions can make them feel unbalanced and they feel take them aware from other endeavors, so they pull away. If this is true, I sure hope with time it will be easier for him to stay closer to me on a more consistent basis.

  71. Jean June 6th, 2009

    I am an older Capricorn woman that is involved with a much younger (13 years) Aquarius man. We flirted on FB and then met within days. The fireworks were unbelieveable and we can talk for hours. The thing is he is very independant and will ignore me for days. Sex seems like the last thing on his list and truth be told I would much rather cuddle and talk than have sex. We are FWB and I am insanely attracted to this man. Sometimes I feel like he is deliberately ignoring me but when I did ask him the one time his response was “Why would I do that?” A very frustrating man but has a charisma i cannot ignore.

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